Remainstrong Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Just got the I want a divorce talk First thing...DO NOT MOVE OUT, let her move out. This will be the worst mistake you will make financially. Live separately in the same house, continue to coparent. Keep it normal. If you move out to be noble or dutiful to do so judge's frown on that when it comes to the kids. Find a way to coexist. Remember this divorce is what SHE wants, not what you want. Stay calm, don't overreact, maybe this will pass, maybe it wont. As soon as the 'D' word comes out it's a 90% shot it's going to happen. Don…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/19 02:15 AM
2	Advice on Dealing with STBXW Sir, don't concern your self with her behavior. In divorce they're all full of s*it and unbalanced. I let my wife play me for a short while until a friend of 50 years got into my face one day and YELLED..... "YOU NEED TO BE THAT GUY I USED TO KNOW! THE TOUGH GUY, THE STRONG GUY, THE GUY WHO NEVER SWEATED AND LAUGHED AT ADVERSITY!!" I woke up on that day. Worry about YOU, prepare your mind and your soul for the war ahead. Don't try to figure her out, you don't know her anymore, she's your foe now…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/19 01:06 AM
1	Wife just said the following the court messaging app... Keep fighting, never let up. A STBXW hates the truth, they'll thrive in lying all the way to the end. If she's bipolar or a narcissist pick up the tempo and outwit her, kill her with kindness, lay the trap intelligently, she'll get caught in the snare trap in time.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/19 12:55 AM
1	The Silence Before the Storm...Who Will File First? Fight the good fight, my brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/19 12:46 AM
1	I struggle to be alone I suffered through the loneliness, too, still do at times. As hard as this may seem to comprehend, but, you have to.....concentrate on yourself and use this time to reconnect with friends you may have put on the back burner. Reconnect with family. The right girl will come along in time. Let that take time. If you're not good for yourself right now how can you expect to be good for anyone else in a relationship? Get to some support groups, start talking to other people about your issues post divo…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/19 03:47 PM
1	Not ready to date but what the Don't date, put "getting laid" on the back burner. You've got more important things to worry about, like: your financial future, your next 25-30 years of your life, your day to day existence moving forward, your pension. My personal advice to you (I'm in the 7th month of this process) is study, read all that you can about divorce, put yourself on a budget, talk to sensible people through divorce groups. Instead of spending your time out looking for 'skirt' you should be buckling down, preparing …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/19 03:36 PM
2	Divorce Help Requested My friend, whatever you do, however you have to do it.....you need an attorney FAST. Even try bartering for one, a good one. Offer to paint their house, fix their cars, become their landscaper, become their handyman....anything. You can't afford to do this second divorce alone, no way. You're going to end up in a bad way post second divorce if you don't get out there, pound the pavement, find an attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/19 03:18 PM
1	Finally Divorced!!! You're one strong guy, my friend. Good for you. Four years is an incredible amount of time to endure this process. Congratulations. Happy for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/19 03:14 PM
1	Wife makes more money, bought house, pressuring me to move out Whatever you do, DO NOT MOVE OUT. Cardinal rule for all men! You will never get back in.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/19 12:50 AM