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I have used dating apps in the past. I have never had a dickpick or sexual message. A guy I had met on a dating app Last year (turned out to be LVM) said to me - well you will not get any dickpicks because men know with the university you attended, the career you have, the way you dress and having your own property that you would just not tolerate any nonsense. So this is without knowing me. So they 110% are calculated with who they do and do not give respect to - based on how they percieve you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:19 AM
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I could Not have said this better. Since joining FDS i have not been in a relationship As I cut these guys off - I also have a small handful of friends who I speak to and cut off the rest. The ones who were benefitting from Me having no boundaries were obviously the most agitated and started to gossip about me - affirming they were LVW to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 08:39 AM
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I sat in silence for an entire weekend when I realised what had happened - it was both abusive males and females towards me. I do not think I spoke to anyone for about a month whilst I realised the reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:11 AM
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Green flags 1) slow movers 2) respectful 3) not constant communication - not wanting to know where you are etc 4) open with his feelings 5) no future faking, no love bombing 6) weekly meetups with good communication inbetween to begin with 7) respectful of sexual boundaries - not wanting to have sex straight away 8) non smoker no drugs Essentially most of the things opposite to what woman are socialised to believe are green flags. Any situation where a woman have been rushed into anything marria…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 10:41 AM
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Yep - I have been accused of being an ‘ice queen’ and ‘how is that enough communication for you’ - when I refuse to constantly be texting and creating false intimacy with a man I have known for a few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:32 PM
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I cut off a ‘friend’ for continually allude to OH MY GOD NOT ANOTHER ONE, ‘How does this keep happening to you tee hee’, and the digger ‘I am surprised you are not in a mental hospital after attracting so many awful men’. I ghosted her. Hard. FDS was a lifesaver to me 14 months ago and I will be forever thankful for this group who made me realise it really was not ‘my energy’ and that if you look with a discerning eye at the majority of the males the woman you know are in relationships with - th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:50 PM
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I had the same. Pickachu face when they seen me. I had also never expierenced the behaviour exhibition until using dating apps and they would always try to normalise it… and I would be like… No? I was also patronised massively by them. ‘You are so perceptive…’, No I am just lucky I have the sense to know this bizarre culture you Men have set up. You are 100% not taken seriously whatsoever by them as a HVW, so there is no point being on them. They wont ever admit it but it is true. I used to see …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:03 AM
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They 100% know. They cover for each other. Laugh about woman / wives / girlfriends and how their friends are treating them. They turn up to their weddings knowing they have slept with prostitutes throughout the pickmes courtship. They have told their friends about the fictional sex you have and how much you ‘want it’ from them (delusional) They know on every single ‘lads night’, how much they have tried to get their penis wet talking to other woman. They know how depraved they are sending each o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:11 PM
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Agree, HVM will bring up society and the patriachy and actually agree that is is very difficult to be a woman in this world - and actually admire you for choosing to be single in a world where the majority of woman are pickmes attached to LVM. I had one ask me when we were having a chat like this ‘How has the patriachy affected you as an accomplished woman - more successful than any Man I have ever met’ - I was too stunned to speak and almost spat out my drink. I then realised if this secure (se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:07 PM
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I remember going on a date with a guy who had cheated on his ex wife When he could see I was onto him being a LVM he dipped so fast and so hard (thankfully). They almost have a psychological paralytic reaction to being found out to be what they are - particularly by HVW They know full well woman with high self worth and esteem will not entertain them, but seem to have forever girlfriends who do - they stay with them and then cheat or treat them terribly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:53 PM
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😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:42 PM
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This. This happens so often that I really have seen it play out. I recon if you give these scrotes over two hard chances to be with you and you keep going back they devalue you so much. It is so sad to see. They are livid when you leave. It makes no sense whatsoever? The only way to win is hard ghost and leave without a word - even leave with kindness. No tears or tantrums. Leave with a smile on your face. Thanking God you had the sense to get away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:06 PM
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I found it after I posted a very scary expierence I had with a LVM (self proclaimed on his linkedin as having ‘emotional issues’) from OLD. One of the woman private messaged me saying I should have a look at FDS and it saved my life. That was about 14 months ago and I broke the cycle of allowing awful Men into my life - it is no coincedence that I have not had a relationSHIT since - as I am able to identify horrific behaviour within weeks rather than let it go on for months / years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:08 AM
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I met a seperated just going through a divorce man once at the gym. He said he only married his wife because ‘thats what you do’. I checked out their wedding pictures on social Media and they were so awkward. He admitted they should never have got married but he settled due to societal pressures. Anyway they got seperated and in all honestly him and the ex get on well - they split a year or so after the wedding. I think MANY people stay in these marriages though and end up seperating after a lon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:58 AM
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No matter what you say to them - Any indoor time to most heteronormative men equates to ‘she really wants to have sex with me’ and they are dumfounded when you explain no. I have learned this the hard way. Just do not have a member of the opposite sex into your home or go to theirs without expecting them to think it is for sex. Outdoor and activity dates for as long as you feel Comfortable When I was new to dating pre FDS one invited me over for a coffee to his flat mid day - I knew him through …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 11:33 AM
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Yes hes a twat. Unfortunately they are ten a penny and if your friend already has attracted this type before - without any healing or self reflection she will fall for it again and again. He is over familiar, the messages between them both are far too long far too soon. (I have been in LTR where we do not text like this) usually when a man brings out the paragraphs whilst texting he has an agenda of feeding into a certain type of appearing. We have forgot the greenest of the greenest flags is wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:54 AM
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Thankfully he told on himself quickly. Not sure if you should provide him feedback or not really as telling him what put you off will provide a way to get a second date with an unsuspecting woman. I had one give me some sob story last year which was similar - ‘she was desperate for me and tried so hard to stay together - I agreed to counselling’. I am not sure who this man thought he was but be was early 40s, had just started some sort of Masters course and was living with students in halls of r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 01:25 PM
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Yes totally. I heard of another one joining up to salsa lessons in a bid to ‘meet woman’. I suppose I do see their point - but its a bit disingenuous to go to these things when they have no previous interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:24 AM
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Woman are leaving dating apps in their droves - particularly high value ones. I have never met a single sane woman who uses them seriously. Men now know this and are branching out. I have seen Men who have had no interest in the gym or swimming start to sign up to exclusive swimming baths where I live locally - stating it was a hobby for their ‘mental health’. No. Its where attractive, wealthy, single woman go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:26 AM
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There is no benefit and there is no doubt Have seen countless woman in these situations They know immediately You are either dream girl or place holder, theres no inbetween - and IMO and expierence they know within weeks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:22 PM
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This is the epitome of the audiacity of heterosexual men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:43 PM
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I reached a limit of pain where I realised Men were not serving me - and pickme woman. The upper limit was meeting a guy online who love bombed me, futured faked and the usual. He then sexually assaulted me / cohersed me and I ended up pregnant. This was all whilst working during the pandemic as front line health. I was left to emotionally and physically pick up the pieces whilst he walked away free with nil remose. He did apologise (big of him) - but it made me realise many many things. I had t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:08 AM
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My ex was cardiac surgeon - he used to reply throughout the day. Bear in mind most male medics think they are the second coming because they are ‘doctors’ and they are socialised to believe they are the cream of the crop. I would have Low expectations and high standards with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:56 AM
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I have DEFINATELY notice their face drop when you say you come from a secure, loving home. I remember one saying essentially alluding to it. He was a total weirdo lawyer guy with serious issues. It is so SAD that they want to go with woman who are vulnearable to exploit them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:51 PM
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Anytime a guy has never invited me to his place (without it trying to be a future fake first date chat to try and sleep with me) I know he is hiding something - girlfriend whatever. He is such a snake for saying it was to make sure the fur was cleaned up - never believe anything that appears high value until proven strongly otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:12 PM
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I was seeing a guy for six months and he told me he had to work away. He then told Me ‘i could see other men if I wanted. What the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 09:09 AM
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I discovered Natalie Liu about the time of FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:43 PM
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I totally agree with this, this happened to me with a 37/F who met some creep on Tinder. He was working as a chef and lived at his parents home - his ex wife ‘rinsed’ him of all his money (lol obvs a lie). Next thing she is pregnant within a year, within the next year she is pregnant again she has sold her only assest after being coersed by him (it is the best thing for oUr fAmILy) to buy a new house in the middle of nowhere miles away from the city. She paid for the whole thing as she was a mid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:45 PM
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Saved. And I echo the ‘most of them find it funny ho manipulate’… I have definately had this instinct a number of times when I have told pickme friends… ‘honestly. I feel he is laughing about me at most’ after I end it. They are delusional and like ‘nooooo… I bet he misses you and you were so quick to dump him - gIvE hIm A cHaNcE aNd JuSt gO wItH tHe FlOw’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:41 AM
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Not just from other Men. I have expierenced this in its worst form my woman (professionals) filled with internaised misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:18 PM
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I have to say I went to Medical School at the third best University in leagues for the UK - I have no female medical friends due to their rampant champagne socialist values. They are idiots. Most are pickmes with BMIs of 15 and undiagnosed anxiety disorder. It was the first time I ever encountered a female sleeping with another girls boyfriend when I was in first year. I did try to remain in circles with them until COVID struck and I realised not one of them reached out to me - living alone etc …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:38 AM
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Queen. I died and went to heaven with this podcast🤌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:27 PM
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What is the thoughts on family medicine? GP? It is what I do and I think more normal than hospital or specialist doctors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:10 PM
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As a female doctor I have dated three doctors in my thirties - all met on OLD. Never again. The last one sent me to therapy for six months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:42 PM
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Idiots my cardiothoracic ex boyfriend (surgeon) had such a bad credit rating that he could not get a car on credit. Luckily for him he had a group of narcissit flying monkeys who offered to help him out - he got a Mercedes E class convertible on his friends credit and he paid each much - just got show. They are a bunch of idiots. Meanwhile I am a female doctor and had a VW up (economy car) for 8 years of my career and be would constantly tell me to ‘get a car that a doctor would drive’. Like. Do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:40 PM
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My friend who is a pharmacist was sexuallt assaulted at work by a doctor. She has never recovered. Nothing happened to him except a quiet word to move on as it could never be proven (happened in a cupboard).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:37 PM
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Agree - one of the worst Narcs I was involved with love bombed massively first month or two and literally 3/4 months in he was a different person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:46 AM
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As a female doctor - yes he is the exception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:46 AM
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Last year I had my last relatonship with a LVM and discovered FDS after this. He asked me to be exlusive date three, but was still on Bumble ‘forgot to delete the app’ (lol) and love bombed me with a 1K canada goose jacket after one month of dating. Needless to say by six months he had turned into an idiot and did not even get me a birthday present and constantly brought up my salary and job promotion. Anyway. I realised after the relationship that several times we had sex the condom broke. Now …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:10 PM
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I do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:04 PM
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Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:55 AM
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God knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:39 PM
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They aLwAyS wOrK sO hArD - they forget I too am a female doctor and that I have two extra medical jobs aside my main one. I still have the ability to communicate and look at my phone multiple times a day. They use the busy excuse constantly. Ladies dating a doctor - DO NOT BELIEVE THEM. They are narcissist perverts with a God Complex and use their percieves status to attract woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:39 PM
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Yep - I will never date them again. Have dated 3/4 since I broke up with my LTP three years ago and Never. Again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:27 PM
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I sent a message like that to a Scrote after three dates - he had disrespected me on many levels. He had already ‘joked’ that my salary could help him buy a house and that he did not need a pension. He mentioned a couple of perverted things - ‘do you own a dildo’, ‘I would love to see your underwear hanging up’, ‘Is your Mum as fit as you’? All disgusting Anyway - I dumped him. He told me ‘I had fucked up his life’, ‘He was already insecure and I was making it worse’. He could not believe I brok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:06 PM
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The man I broke up with last summer bought me a Canada Goose coat for £2k 4/6 weeks into dating. By the time the Summer came he had not got me a birthday present and was attempting to gaslight me - again, intimidated by my career success and the fact my new salary was double his. It only took me about a month or so after the masked slipped to realise what he was all about and dumped him. He bombarded me with gifts, weekends away and dinners first 1-8 weeks and did the most amazing bait and switc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:00 AM
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Thanks. And I am 5ft 9, slim and naturally blonde and do yoga twice a day. LVM HATE me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:17 AM
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Yes I was messaging one earlier this year for vetting. He asked me what I was upto? I said reading. He said what are you reading? I said Charles Dickens Great Expectations. Que radio silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:15 AM
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Yes I deleted his number after the date. Clown energy. He was a student paramedic and was older than me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:34 PM
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I had a Tinderdate a few months ago jaw drop when I approached him. He could not take his eyes off me. Throw in the fact I am a doctor and earn a high salary, I am well put together and have great chat. After the date he actually texted me to say - ‘I am sorry you are out of my league’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:03 PM
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I once SAID to a date - ten years ago. And I quote. ‘I am not like other girls’. Shudder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:55 AM
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