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| 3 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.But you’ve already agreed that women are more likely to be sexually assaulted by men than women. I fear men because of the greater threat they pose to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.So you acknowledge that men may be more aggressive than women, meaning that women may not be overestimating how dangerous men are. Don’t you think it’s irresponsible of you to tell people to stop fearing men, if they may have a tendency towards aggression? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.In 2022, there were only 463 “justifiable homicides” in the US (by regular people, not cops). There is no way the stats get to 50% of murders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.What women are you talking about? Most women interact with men all the time- at work, male servers, in stores, etc. The majority of women are in romantic relationships with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.So do you believe that women commit half of all murders? 5 times the number that law enforcement says they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.Men are more prone to be found guilty of murder than women for similar acts and situations. This is not supported by the source you shared. Where are you getting this from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.Are men better at being afraid of the right men? They get assaulted and murdered by men at even higher rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.I’m not talking about studies and surveys. I’m talking about bodies in the morgue and crime stats. In 2022 in the US, there were: 15,094 murders committed by men 2,107 murders committed by women 5,857 murders with gender unknown Are you genuinely saying I cannot use this information to deduce that men are more likely to commit murder? That I need to assume the justice system is so biased that men are being falsely implicated in 5,000 murders committed by women?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.How? How do you determine what behavior reflects an overestimation of risk? How much is it appropriate to lock the doors to your house or car, based on the crime stats? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 12:54 PM |
| -1 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.What has OP shared that supports this?? Women fear of men overestimate the danger men possess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.The things people understand are "men are dangerous compared to the average," 1- Men ARE more dangerous compared to “average.” They injure and murder people (of any gender) more than women. 2- When it comes to women fearing sexual assault, they are correct to think men are more dangerous TO THEM than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.Again, you’ve provided zero support for this: people overestimate the danger men represent Women committing crimes has no impact on how dangerous men are. Women could sexually assault 10 men a year, or 100 million men a year. It doesn’t affect how dangerous men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:39 AM |
| -1 | Why do you find dating hard?Why are you telling me this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do you find dating hard?Ah yes, the “issue” of women saying no to things they don’t want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 10:16 AM |
| 5 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.Women fear of men overestimate the danger men possess What are you basing this on?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 10:03 AM |
| 10 | Why do you find dating hard?I’m well into my 40s now, and dating is easier. But dating men when I was younger was, on balance, just a bad experience. Men were constantly pushing me, and I was constantly on defense. If I said no to something, they demanded a thorough explanation of my position, like it was a debate team instead of two people trying to find their common ground. If I said no to a date idea, because it made me uncomfortable, they wouldn’t drop it. They would keep bringing it up, to convince me “it would be fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:52 AM |
| 8 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.So your point is that there is less academic research about the sex abuse of males than there should be. Let’s say I agree. How does this follow? We need to stop being naturally afraid of men and underestimating the threat women can be. Who should stop being afraid of men? Nowhere do you say that incidences of female victimization are inflated. So why should women stop fearing men just because some other men are being raped too? That’s like saying that women should stop wearing seatbelts because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:06 AM |
| 9 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors Underrepresented where? In the news? In movies? men are misrepresented as victims of sexual assault in corresponding study. Misrepresented how? As what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 08:31 AM |
| – | Body count always has and always will matterYou want a debate… but your position is: there's an aversion makes you feel a little icky I just don't like it, simple as that Not much to work with. At the end of the day, some people care, other people don’t. Anyone out in the world has seen promiscuous women get into great relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 01:49 AM |
| 3 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real lifeGoogle maps shows art schools there. And in-person language classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 11:32 PM |
| 19 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real lifeIt sounds like you like in an abnormally shitty city? My city is way under a million, and has everything but a good mall (but they’re a short drive outside of the city). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 07:58 PM |
| 13 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their characterExplain the second group. Who the heck are you talking about? incarcerated clients would have girlfriends who would be visiting them while they were serving time than the men who were in some way on the spectrum, but were otherwise complete squares who have never broken any the law The men in the spectrum were also in prison… but have never broken the law? They were not in prison… but your prison employee uncle knows who is visiting them? Visiting them where?!? This makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:50 PM |
| 4 | q4w: Do you think your sex/head game is better than an experienced sex worker? If not, why should a guy choose you over a sex worker?He “should” choose a partner with the traits he values the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Every woman is a gold digger…Weird how there’s so much overlap between men who date women who need financial help and men who think all women are gold diggers /s 🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 10:20 PM |
| 7 | Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man?Why is it the listening that makes him weak? He did not make the change on his own. He heard a suggestion for positive change. He now has to chose: 1- Stay worse 2- Become better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?You seem to be confused about what we’re discussing. I never stated anything about the “majority of men.” You seemed skeptical that it’s possible to tell whether someone is creepy from looking at their profile. The above example makes it clear that it’s possible. I didn’t start using matching dating sites because “the majority of men” are anything. I started using them because I had the same amount of positive experiences, and fewer negative experiences. I understand that your experience was the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?I’m not on dating sites right now, but we have Reddit. https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1f3rp75/i_feel_violated/ Is this creepy? Do you think I would have liked this man to be able to message me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?When men are creepy in their text bios, I make the assumption that they are also creepy in other aspects of their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?I do know who many of the creeps are, and don’t match with them. I don’t need vetting profiles to be “easier” as long as it results in better outcomes for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?I’m not confused about how it was better for you and many other men. I’m just noting that it was worse for me when online dating meant more sexual harassment and threats of violence for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?Like most “golden ages,” it was better for men than women. I received a lot of horrible messages from strangers I never would have chosen to allow to contact me. I would never use a site like that again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?Every dating site was like that before Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 03:25 PM |
| – | Women & Stolen ValorDuring most conversations that turn towards discussing the ways in which women treat men poorly Most conversations here about “treating men poorly” are about women not dating and sleeping with men they don’t want to date and sleep with, having boundaries to protect their safety, expecting reasonable division of chores when both partners work, etc. I’ve definitely organized my entire life to avoid the situations my older female relatives were in with men, from physical abuse to being the primary … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?Of course not. I already know that there are way more men on dating apps than women, and that they swipe right indiscriminately. The first time I joined a dating site, it was before swiping. I was bombarded by messages from men before I had a chance to add photos or fill out my bio. Men liked and messaged me just because I was a woman in my 20s. No one needs to make a fake profile to understand that men and women experience the sites differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:15 PM |
| 5 | The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased.And most men don’t have access to tests for HPV, and get vaccinated at lower rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:08 PM |
| 17 | The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased.There’s no evidence that lesbian relationships have higher rates of domestic violence. There is evidence that women CURRENTLY in lesbian relationships are more likely to have experiences with domestic violence IN THE PAST. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:58 AM |
| 34 | The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased.Give people STDs The penetrated partner is significantly more likely to contract an STD when exposed. STDs are more likely to have permanent impacts on women than men, potentially causing infertility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.The only thing I feel the need to add is that the only reason this “breaks families” is because people wait until they create a family to discuss it. If you avoid a topic when choosing your partner, you can’t be shocked when you’re incompatible after integrating your lives. “Making sure it doesn’t happen from the get go” should be the get go! Bringing something up AFTER getting married and deciding to have a kid is not that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 05:16 PM |
| 3 | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.Women couldn't vote not had credit cards, couldn't buy property etc etc. They had to trust their partner. I think the same with this issue But the law doesn’t force women to have credit cards or buy property in their name. And men are still allowed not to date and marry women who want separate finances. The equivalent situation with paternity tests isn’t what you propose, it’s how it is now! People have the right to demand a paternity test before they sign a birth certificate or pay child suppor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.The NIPP test (Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity Test) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.The NIPP test (Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity Test) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:23 AM |
| 2 | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.Why in the world wouldn’t you want to know if you’re with a woman who feels this way? If it’s such a terrible attitude, why do you want a government policy that obscures your ability to see it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:17 AM |
| 3 | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.What you want is for men to never know and never look for the info. I said nothing of the sort. Get paternity testing all you want! I don’t “want” you not to. The reason so many want to make it mandatory is exactly because of people like you not willing to understand it's something men would like but you decide to throw a fit instead. You want it to be mandatory because you don’t want to take ownership of your relationship conditions. You want someone else to make rules about your relationship s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:35 PM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.Yes and their partner can absolutely prove he's trustworthy by doing exactly this. Or not. He can also be an uninvolved deadbeat dad that dumps his wife because she medically couldn’t have sex right after childbirth. But the woman can’t un-give-birth. That’s why it’s an act of trust. You take the risk without the information. why communicate when you can be childish and breakup like a teenager would? Because it’s not a communication issue. You don’t trust your partner. Your partner does not cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:44 PM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.Explain how it's beneficial for all party that men aren't entitled to know from the get go whether a child is his or not? A man is completely 100% entitled to do a paternity test almost anywhere. He’s just is not entitled to an ongoing romantic relationship with the birth parent. But what we’re discussing is whether trust is only expected ONE way when people have kids in committed relationships. It is not. Women need to have trust that their partner will support them through pregnancy, childbirt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:23 PM |
| – | Millenial/GenX advice on dating can be completely disregarded by the new generation👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:58 PM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.There are places in the US that you cannot get divorced if pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:47 PM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.The problem with this thinking is the trust you want is only one direction No it isn’t. A woman going through childbirth is putting her trust in her partner to support her no matter what complications she faces. Men aren’t the only ones facing unique issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:43 PM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.But are you willing to be single for paternity tests, instead of waiting until a woman has put her trust in you by becoming pregnant and having your child? Why is the post about divorcing the woman you’re blindsiding, instead of weeding out incompatible partners?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:41 PM |
| – | Millenial/GenX advice on dating can be completely disregarded by the new generationPeople believed similar things 30 years ago, and they weren’t true then. I haven’t seen data that convinces me they are true now. People are definitely connecting less, but this may have to do with greater social (or antisocial trends). It’s hard to say online dating is what’s keeping young men from having girlfriends when they’re also less likely to have friends and other types of connections. It’s hard to say all of the declines are bad, because many young people felt pressured or coerced into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:36 PM |
| 6 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesThis sounds like yet another basic social skill that should be learned way before working or dating? When your friend needs help moving, you don’t ask yourself if you “authentically” feel like moving a couch up 3 sets of stairs. You know it’s an investment in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | On the topic of who pays for datesI think you’re misinterpreting “expect” here. People are using the date paying to filter for what they are looking for. Women who want a partner to be a provider are using the paying to help judge whether the guy on the date is the kind of guy she’s looking for. If a guy on a date suggests or welcomes her paying half, she’s ready to move onto the next guy. Men make the same kinds of judgements. A man who values women dressing femininely is going to be reluctant to go on more dates with a woman w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:04 PM |
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