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It is possible, but it takes a lot of upfront communication. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:23 PM
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This comment is really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:12 PM
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Lol enjoy being single and assuming women are evil and I’ll enjoy being with this sexy sweet girl that drives to my house to fuck me twice a day and buys me dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:05 PM
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I really do. Actions and behaviors speak volumes more than words. It’s so funny that you guys think “it’s clear” that she’s lying and when I tell you based on all the info (that you don’t have access to because you aren’t there) that it’s clear she isn’t, you guys say “well you can’t know that!” It’s just strange how much confidence you have in your own evaluation based off a brief description and how much skepticism you have in my evaluation after hanging with this girl nearly everyday for a ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:49 AM
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I’m not a woman. And again, you’re totally missing what I’ve said. In shape women can get all kinds of guys and most of them are shit, per the swamp analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:27 AM
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The deleted comment was just shit talking for no reason. And she isn’t lying. I didn’t come here for advice. You guys are all really pessimistic and it’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:49 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:41 AM
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lol poor based on your definition??? Btw, don't forget to work on those forearms, bud, they look disproportionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:33 PM
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All depends on the girl I guess. Since I've been an adult, I've literally never had to play any sort of game like that. No "prize" or "offering" or "chase." Literally none of that shit. I typically click with someone within the first day of meeting them or I don't. And then I either grow to like them more or I don't. And anytime I've grown to like someone more, they've grown to like me more. Like I said, since I've been an adult (10+ years now), after initially clicking with someone and hanging …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:31 PM
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That brings up a good point... How to define "casual." I've been in situations like the one you are talking about (where I'm moving soon and can't get too serious) and one way I describe how I want my casual relationships to look is kind of like best friends at summer camp. You focus on enjoying each other's company and making the most of the time you spend together. Treat each other well, have fun. But at the same time you know you won't be best friends forever once summer camp is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:24 PM
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Of my most recent casual sex relationships the following occurred... I was upfront in not wanting more, we slept together about weekly, she never pushed for more, she ended up moving further away and things fizzled out after a few months. she was upfront about wanting a relationship, I was upfront about not wanting one. she said "no reason not to have fun in the meantime" We slept together pretty regularly for a few months before she did a few things that annoyed me and reduced my desire to cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:02 PM
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I have a lot more data than that? I obviously didn’t share every conversation we’ve ever had together. Even if she was lying about the previous FWBs, it doesn’t change how and why our relationship progressed to where it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:20 PM
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You sound like a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:17 PM
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Lol I wasn’t looking for advice, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:17 PM
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Regarding the girl I am dating now, I am the first guy she has ever wanted anything more than casual with. She said in the past she's had 3 or 4 FWB that she liked hanging with and when they confessed feelings to her she responded "why did you have to ruin this?" She told me this when we first started sleeping together and our relationship (on the romantic side) progressed super slowly and entirely because of me. She just came around to the idea eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:52 PM
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Disagree. I like casual sex, but I still want to be treated like an actual person. I've had a number of relationships where someone came over about once a week to have sex. We also were friends and hung out/cuddle/etc. What exactly is being bargained here? Most women in these scenarios just said "I like sex and you're good at it." I think your view of sex is incredibly pessimistic and not particularly representative of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:49 PM
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No I wasn't? I was talking about how I don't see men being disproportionately more attractive than the women they are with (judging attractiveness based on objective qualities such as facial features, build, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:56 PM
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Lol I’m quoting you. Don’t you see how determining if someone is attractive and if someone is unattractive is the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:26 PM
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"I don't really think so man. You aren't attracted to men so how could you really understand how attractive a man is? "
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:07 PM
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So how can all the dudes in this thread who also aren't attracted to men say otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:36 PM
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Totally valid point, but I also think most people have at least some understanding of how attractive another person is, even if they aren't attracted to them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:13 PM
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I honestly think it depends for a lot of these things, but in general, it is usually okay to approach someone as long as you are open to being rejected and just generally can take "no" with some grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:31 PM
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And you can condense water in the desert to drink, but neither of those facts are beneficial for the point being made. I don't see how ignoring the point of the analogy is very useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:10 PM
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Maybe you just find a lot of guys cuter than they are 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:25 PM
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Yeah let’s all make an effort to increase the amount of MUTUALLY beneficial sex that occurs! #flattenthecurve
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:14 PM
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Yeah this is what I was talking about. Ppl who don’t think casual sex is generally a nightmare for women haven’t talked to that many women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:12 PM
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These are all really good points. I was just pointing out that women have more opportunities in general and that includes bad experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:31 PM
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I don't think red pill is very convincing at all (I'm a man), but the people who support it are impossibly dense around the subject and constantly repeat narratives that have very little basis in reality. And what is the incentive to convince them otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:10 PM
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I just found this subreddit and I'm honestly kind of freaked out about how fully red pill it appears to be. I'm trying to comment some to balance it a little, but I'm not sure that it makes that much sense to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:07 PM
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A lot of men tend to be incredibly selfish and pushy in bed and rather than looking for a "yes" from their partner, they only respond to an obvious "no." It is pretty common for women to have been in a situation where they had sex with someone, not because they wanted to, but because doing so felt safer and easier than saying "no" because they didn't believe the man would stop if they said no. Edging is typically done intentionally at the request of the person being edged, not due to lack of car…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:04 PM
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Idk. Is this really your experience out in the real world? Do you look around and see a lot of 10/10 women with insanely hot guys? What about just cute/attractive (but not supermodel level) women? I see all of you guys pushing this narrative and I think it often applies for matches on dating apps, but as far as in the real world, I see lots of really beautiful women with pretty average looking guys. And maybe your point about being good at sex is true, but damn they are really missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:11 PM
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lol I'm not a woman. Women are hopeful and romantic, so they keep trying. And why not keep trying? Tons of dudes are out there hoping women give them a chance! I'm just speaking based on my experience with women. I was always surprised that I was considered above average for doing things like caring about consent, caring about my partner orgasming, or treating them like a human when we were having sex. And these were all relationships where I told them in advance that I was happy to be friends, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:02 PM
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This is not at all an accurate representation of what it is like for single women. The thing that you aren't considering is that a lot of men are terrible and selfish lovers, so a woman could spend a lot of time being desperate for genuine connection, good sex, and affection and never get it. The saying "Dating for men is like looking for clean water in the desert. Dating for women is like looking for clean water in a swamp." is pretty accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:34 PM
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Yeah I’m just saying that the contribution to the relationship on terms of time/money/effort is more or less equal (certainly equal enough that j don’t really spend much time at all thinking about who contributes more). Yes I have been in a relationship where it was less equal and it made it difficult to continue the relationship. Lots of resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:27 PM
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My girlfriend usually drives to my house and frequently buys me dinner. Plenty of relationships are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:12 AM
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There are funny women. Taylor Tomlinson for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:08 AM
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Not the case in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:00 AM
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Lol this is terrible thinking and really not true. Plenty of women tirelessly care for men in the way that women are good at caring for people. Yeah it’s usually not by saving their life…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:22 AM
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lol yeah I don’t really think rules 1-10 are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:27 PM
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As a man, I don't really understand what you are trying to say specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:30 PM
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Last night, I was talking to a girl that I've been sleeping with and we were talking about what has kept guys around for her long term. And she was saying how she likes to be with someone physically attractive, but she HAS to be with someone interesting. And consequently her two previous boyfriends were not particularly good looking guys. Everybody is different in what they are looking for and being physically unattractive can make it difficult at first, but it isn't some impossible hurdle. But …
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:15 PM
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Idk man. Hasn't been a problem for me yet, but there are a ton of other factors beyond being good at sex. The real answer is be more interesting/smarter/emotional/desirable than everybody else?
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:52 PM
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Get really good at giving orgasms.
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:47 PM
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why are you putting the percent sign in front of your numbers?
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:05 PM
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This subreddit is so out of touch. I get downvoted for everything I say and I don’t really get why.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:55 AM
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This might sound stupid, but try treating them just like any other person. Don't act like they are some intimidating person on a pedestal. Just treat them like they are a human being that you are interested in getting to know/hanging out with. Don't need fun pickup lines or to try to be too clever. Like "hey how's your night going?" isn't a bad start.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:16 PM
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I totally get where you are coming from. The simple answer is it is totally possible, but it is work. Just like staying in shape and maintaining friendships is work. Be lucky you have a 9-5 job I guess? I work like 8-5:30.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:58 PM
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Dang yeah I haven't had anybody just be a total bitch before.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:42 PM
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How many women have you approached where this happened? Did they actually act like you were creepy or were you being insecure and imaging that? It is possible you are being creepy. Maybe try first engaging with people without any real goals other than talking to new people, getting to know them, and having fun. And if anybody seems interested in you and you are interested in them, you can escalate from there.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:36 PM
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And honestly, it is weirder to be the dude just sitting there fucking creepily staring at women than it is to approach women, get rejected, accept the rejection with class and move on to talk to someone else. Obviously, you don't wanna be going from girl to girl or anything, but you get what I'm saying. If you spend much time sitting there staring at women, you will be seen as the creepy guy who doesn't have the guts to approach women in an appropriate setting. Like women are much more worried a…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:33 PM
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You're joking right? You aren't going to get MeToo'd if you behave respectfully and give women a safe out and accept a "no" with class. Like have you had experiences where you got "MeToo'd" or is this some imaginary fear? Sometimes when I'm coming on really strong, I'll even say "and if at any point you guys aren't interested in talking to me anymore, just let me know and I'll leave you alone!" Obviously, you have to do that in a way where you don't come off really whiney and insecure, but anyti…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:30 PM
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Why? Why does it take so much mental energy and why does rejection affect you so much?
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:23 PM
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I’ve never seen it in person, but I’m sure it happens. I don’t think it matters as much as you think it does.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:55 PM
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Climbing gym. Get into climbing.
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:43 AM
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Pretty wild. I’m in a bit of a slut phase, but still not much of a one night stand guy. I just tell people I’m not looking for anything serious and then when we hookup I do everything I can to be a good sexual partner. Idk the fun part for me is having someone tell me I’m the best they’ve been with. Sometimes that takes 2 or 3 tries. Also if you’re doing some going out clubbing type picking up, that would mean most of your sex would probably be pretty drunk, which can’t be the best.
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:26 AM
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In person, I don’t get rejected tooo much. Probably 30% of the time. But I think even if you are getting rejected 70% of the time, you can work with that just fine!
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:39 AM
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Not for me at least… why would I only want to hookup once?
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:23 AM
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Lol. You have to realize that this is typically said after a number of “no” “not interested” or no responses. Some ppl need to be bruised a little to hear the word no. Which is absolutely their own problem.
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:05 AM
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It is usually better for women (as in better for them) to not give you the real reason. So many men are just terrible at handling rejection and the conflict and reaction women often get from men they reject is just absurd. Like I dated a girl who would give guy's pretty honest answers like "I have a boyfriend, but even if I didn't have a boyfriend, I wouldn't ever be interested in dating you. I don't find you attractive." And they'd pretty often respond with something like "wow okay you don't ha…
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:01 PM
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Yes, but doesn't matter as much as you think. I'm not in nearly as good of shape as I used to be (used to have an 8 pack and all that shit), but I do better with women now than then because I'm just better at approaching people.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:25 PM
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Wait are you talking about “loving” a woman that you never had a romantic relationship with and you experienced trauma because she wasn’t into you???
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:30 PM
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You probably aren't. That is kind of the deal with being 22. You've figured some stuff out and incorrectly assume you've figured most of it out.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:25 PM
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