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| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you referring to 80/20 then that doesn’t disagree with what I’m saying. Leagues do not have to be 1:1 ratio between men and women. Some guys are in a league where there are no women (sub 5). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think most guys already know that being fit and funny is the best they can do. However, most don’t have the awareness to realize that a pretty face makes more of a difference at the end of the day. As for women who’ve had many partners and not knowing what’s attractive, that’s more a case of losing novelty. The same thing happens to men who watch a lot of porn. Their tastes evolve in order to seek more novelty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNope. Refusing to accept your mediocrity is simply a lack of awareness. In fact, ignoring reality just makes things worse bc your expectations will rarely be met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not they don’t want to believe. They just don’t have the awareness to realize it. There’s nothing wrong knowing your true place in society. Perhaps knowing the truth will be motivational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI disagree. I think most guys can accurately figure out which girls are in their league. It’s just that sometimes they aren’t attracted to those girls. So those lacking awareness will just say they are better than they actually are bc they have not consciously realized they are not attracted to girls in their league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy do you think it’s a survival tactic to lack self awareness and believe you are above average? Shouldn’t it be the opposite, where having acute awareness benefits survival? If a human is not aware they they’re gonna be mauled by a tiger if they approach head on, that human is not gonna be surviving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost ppl understand that looks are the most important thing but don’t have the awareness to realize that. We subconsciously understand what “league” we are in. We also subconsciously modify our behavior to make up for our looks, e.g., developing a sense of humor. I sensed this stuff from a really early age but couldn’t put it into words until recently. The problem is most ppl consciously cannot connect the dots because they lack awareness. It’s honestly frustrating bc there’s no point debating w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Wouldn’t societal norms stem from what is considered attractive? Not the other way around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Yup. I immediately deem anyone who says symmetry as one of the main factors of attractiveness as having room temperature IQ and awareness. Common sense and critical thinking would immediately discard that notion. Also eye area is highly overrated by many ppl. In particular, QOVES studio is obsessed with eye area when eye area is basically the least important physical aspect when it comes to physical attractiveness apart from maybe the nose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI do have friends but they don’t text me. I always have to text first. It’s clear that I am just a burden to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah you’re probably right. I’m pretty ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just gave you the reason why nobody would want to make friends with an avg dude. Even in a big city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes I was precisely talking about men adding other men to their social circles. They don’t see any point in it unless you have female friends that you can introduce them to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“Just make friends even though everyone just sees you as a burden bro!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re 19. Wait until you leave school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would anyone want to add an avg man to their social circle? Most young guys are only interested in hooking up and dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah. Men and women want to hang out with women whereas no one wants to hang out with avg men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIkr. Video games are by far the most superior form of entertainment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:12 PM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA lot of ppl like to blame video games on men’s dating woes but it’s probably the only thing keeping them from going insane. Life is just rly boring for an avg guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Introverts are more likely to be involuntarily single. Thus confirming that you have to 'put yourself out there' in order to meet people and develop interactions that turn into relationships. This is a hard truth for manyA lot of ppl just don’t have the awareness to see the forest for the trees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:28 PM |
| 8 | Introverts are more likely to be involuntarily single. Thus confirming that you have to 'put yourself out there' in order to meet people and develop interactions that turn into relationships. This is a hard truth for manyCan’t be an extrovert if no one wants to talk to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Settling is one of the worst things you can do, next to cheatingPpl who settle are usually just bored af with their lives. If you aren’t bored with your life, being with someone you don’t find attractive is a drag on your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI assume you mean with their bf? Bc single women seem to be perfectly fine going on month long dry spells when dating. Or else dating apps wouldnt be so skewed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is female lead initiation lame? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s so wrong about directly initiating intimacy? It feels weird that so many women think it’s lame for them to directly initiate. Maybe it’s a power thing, idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is making me so depressed. Is it a bad sign if my gf were to not ever try to initiate sex? Asking for the future bc I currently don’t have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy don’t you block out time proactively? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo if your bf stopped initiating, you wouldn’t mind not having sex for a prolonged period of time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaving my gf initiate a bj is unimaginable for me. Shit has never happened in my life even when I was in relationships. I’ve always had to ask first. This is just pure suifuel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s my point. A guy who hooks up 12 times a year feels the exact same way a guy who hasn’t had sex in 2 years bc the long time celibate guy gets used to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s the ratio of you initiating sex vs your bf initiating sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s even worse when the guy who’s barely getting sex in the relationship always has to initiate. I’d honestly prefer being celibate at that point. That shit breaks you down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMa’am this is ppd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadImagine a gf that wants to have sex with you 4 times a week. I can only dream of that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s the minimum amount of sex to keep a dude satisfied? I’d say it’s minimum once a week. Any less than that the dude will feel just as thirsty as a guy who hasn’t had sex in 2 years, and will do just as much to get sex again. No normal guy is happy with sex once a month. It’s basically being celibate at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,There r so many simps out there yet these ppl rly think that dudes would pass up sex? It rly be these boomers who graduated from college eons ago who spout this nonsense that young ppl don’t like sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 04:43 PM |
| 3 | What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022?Imagine thinking men have the advantage in hoeing around… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Losing weight only unlocks your potential physical attractiveness. It is not in itself the attractor.170 lbs at 6’1” and my face is pretty round with no hollow cheeks. Facial attractiveness is all about bone structure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement.High IQ take. I came to the same conclusion myself. The ppl who constantly spout about self improvement are usually ppl who have not actually self improved before. They think it’s some magical key and view it with rose tinted glasses only bc they haven’t done it themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement.Facts. I know what my real looksmatch is and I can’t accept it yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut what if only 2 males out of the 8 get to have children? Then say I have 1 male who is successful and you have 1. And both males split between the 8 females equally with each having offspring with 4 females. Then I get 11 children and you get 9. But I see your point where nature can incentivize for a male arms race to hit that harem jackpot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah bc females still have 100% reproduction chances so they will always pass down their genes. Thus, the skewed gender ratio should be kept unless the females fail to reproduce. Why would the man’s genes override the woman’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaving more male children doesn’t make them more fit. You can have fit male children and have less of them as well. If I have more female offspring, I will pass my genes down more than you bc a large portion of your male offspring will not have any children at all. After thinking a bit, I do understand the math where the male will pass his genes more if he’s successful. I just wish we didn’t live in a world where the male/female desirability is so extremely skewed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis just talks about fisher’s principle which I don’t believe holds under scrutiny. Even if a male has a harem, it’s still advantageous to give birth to females bc female should theoretically have 100% chance of reproducing while a male has less than 100%. The males chance of having offspring reduces as more males enter the picture whereas female chance of having offspring should always stay at 100%. Nature should not reward a trait that leads to less chance of producing offspring. A species sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFisher’s principle breaks down when you look at bee and ant colonies where male to female ratio is 1:100. Nature rewards species that survive and use their bodies efficiently. There’s no point in having 5 males and 5 females if only 3 men have offspring. The population would grow faster if the male to female ratio was 7:3 or something, theoretically speaking, bc all members would participate in passing their genes down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is assuming that all the men in the tribe have offspring which is unlikely considering genetic studies show men were way less likely to pass down their genes compared to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe thing is, most mammals are 50-50 male female so it’s not rly an anomaly. I just wonder if we will break away from that in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat was the past thousands of years ago. I’m talking about the present and the future. Also to argue on your point, a tribe being taken over by men doesn’t place advantage on male genes unless the women are just as likely to perish compared to the men. Idk enough about history but that doesn’t make too much sense to me. I think the 50-50 ratio we have today is due to surviving harsh conditions which requires a balance of men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadConsidering that dating apps show men are 20-100x hornier than women (avg male match rate ~0.5% whereas avg female match rate ~20-60%) why is the male female ratio 50-50. Will the gender ratio ever skew in favor towards women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Are most males left in the dark on their level of physical attractiveness?Tbh I don’t know at this point. If I’m not disgusted by her I’d probably accept. At that point I’m weighing whether being alone or dating her is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Are most males left in the dark on their level of physical attractiveness?If she doesn’t approach you and asks to hang out with you, then she’s not that interested. There’s no such thing as men are “supposed” to approach first. Whoever likes the other person more approaches first. Even if you get into a relationship, the power dynamics do not just end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Arguing from the basis of "which pill is true" rather than "what is the truth" is deeply flawedAll pills stem from the fundamental fact that men are 10-100x hornier than women. Everything after that is just different ways to cope with this biological fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:49 AM |
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