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| 1 | Too old to divorceOk that's tough. But the important thing is that you can currently afford it. Hopefully, interest rates will come down a little and salaries will increase. I also hate worrying about money - but it is what I do all day. Maybe try some therapy apps that train how to control your worries and anxiety. Bottom line is, you have the opportunity for a new start. Find some fun things to do with your boy - which can cost you very little. Sounds like you live in a nice area, so that's a bonus. Stay positi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Too old to divorceI can empathise. It is tough as we get older. But the reality is - it has always been tough. I worked with a guy whose dad was in IT for many years and retired at 70. the mortgage situation might be difficult - is there somewhere cheaper you can move to and bring the cost down? Depending on the space you have, you could get a lodger to help with income and pay down the mortgage sooner. Also might be good to have the company. Focus on work and try to live in the moment. I am of a similar age and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Suicidal thoughts?Sounds awful. Keep a journal and record the abusive episodes. Work on your self esteem: Wait for those moments when you feel better and give yourself some positive energy. I have thoughts of suicide daily but not enough to act on them. To me, it feels like quitting - but just imagine the times when you were happy and focus on getting back there. Make a plan - and start working on it. But most importantly - find some help. Nobody should suffer alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 01:10 PM |
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