| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Strong ioi's After RejectionYeah, if this dude was not a virgin he would already know this stuff lol. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Advice: (Male 39) and (Female 28) Are the dynamics for long distance dating different? First meet up was like an instant relationshipUgh, apparently you can't read well. We agreed to a relationship and I stopped seeing other women. This girl is young, attractive AND successful. Stick to high school girls like that other loser attacking me. One look at his posting history find out he has no women, get's rejected left and right and lives with his mommy, lol. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Strong ioi's After RejectionYeah, this guy is a kid in school. He has NO girls whatsoever. Spin plates, lol. Bro you're a virgin.... | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I start calling her or just keep texting?I try not to give too much detail about this, but since you brought it up. I don't mean it like there aren't a ton of quality girls in my area. We met on a hnw dating site. You're talking about 3% of the US population....and even of those FEW of those are below 60 year old women. She and I are both still very young. And if your theory was correct about emotional tampon, then she wouldn't have had flown across the country and had sex with me after several weeks of talking. I don't think you reall… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I start calling her or just keep texting?I just did, even before I saw your response but good call, she seemed to like it and I kept it short (3 min) on purpose to leave her wanting more, she seemed disappointed the call ended so quickly (it was late there and she was sleepy). At least this was a good step. I think you are right, I think she has been wanting me to call her. She seemed happy to talk. As she and I call each other more over time, it will become less of a "thought process" about whether to call or not or when. We'll be sta… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How to balance not being too available and being available enough in a new relationship to maintain attraction?That's why I said we met on a not so average dating site. We are both wealthy. So yes if this was Tinder, sure. This isn't Tinder. Less than 1% of the population in the country has our NW. The first responder asked what site. I didn't want to say the site or give too much detail about our NW. But figured it would come to this. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to balance not being too available and being available enough in a new relationship to maintain attraction?Big difference between attention when local vs long distance....can't exactly expect someone to spend 15 hours round trip coming to meet you first time without some conversation first. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Should I keep doing the text game I was doing before we were in a relationship?Well I texted her this morning like usual and everything was fine, we chatted for a bit like usual. Might have been overthinking it. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Should I keep doing the text game I was doing before we were in a relationship?I didn't text her for a day here and there when we were first just texting before we met and it seemed fine. Heck sometimes as a result she'd text ME. I just worry that now in a relationship with her it might blow it...but then again I think it might help me, make her wonder what I'm doing. I know I become obsessed if I don't hear back from someone, wondering what they are doing, etc. They say attraction is amplified in these situations, you end up on their mind a lot. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Should I keep doing the text game I was doing before we were in a relationship?2/3 text ratio? Send 2 texts for every 3 of hers? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] Should I keep doing the text game I was doing before we were in a relationship?Wut? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] Should I keep doing the text game I was doing before we were in a relationship?Yes. :-) | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 03:50 AM |
| -2 | Girl at work who likes me asked me for my list of criteria for the right girl for meAnd here we go, she just texted me asking if I thought about the criteria... | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?She's been waiting/expecting me to break up with her for years. She keeps telling me if you have someone else and are done with me please have the decency to let me go. It's usually between that and "I know you're fucking someone else". I'm bored of her, I don't think she's bored of me judging by her constant attempts to buy me stuff, cook, etc. to make me happy. Well, to some extent, after nearly a decade we all get bored and comfortable. We started traveling the world and the country but even … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice crazy/unstable women are easier/pursue you in the beginning?Nooooo, nothing THAT bad. These women seemed just on the edge of borderline tattoos and hair colors. The red head had bright red hair. The other one had blonde hair at first but at one point died it green. Her tattoos gave me pause on our first date and she noticed that and tried to cover them up a little. One arm was skull and cross bones with the word mess in a heart, the other was flowers. Almost like two sides of her. It wasn't until I was in love with her months in that she started showing … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice crazy/unstable women are easier/pursue you in the beginning?First off, to the guy who used the term beta bux, you're clueless AF. I have a gf that lives with me, and I had two other gf's on the side, although those two overlapped only on the tail end of the relationship with #2 ending. Beta's don't have 3 women...two of which knew I had some one else and the third suspected it. Second, I didn't spend money on these women. My live in gf spends money on ME. It's my house so I pay the mortgage, she provides groceries and pays utilities. She also cooks and c… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 08:02 PM |
| -1 | Anyone notice crazy/unstable women are easier/pursue you in the beginning?Jealousy doesn't look good on you. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice crazy/unstable women are easier/pursue you in the beginning?Yeah, I'm starting to see a pattern too. There is usually something up with a woman who pursues. One of the recent ones also initially hid having kids (on her profile) but told me by our 2nd or third date. Said she doesn't want molesters to target them...except they don't even live with her, they live with the father and her parents because she lost custody...Again, I didn't find the custody issues out until MONTHS into the relationship. I guess that's part of dating, you get to learn about the … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice crazy/unstable women are easier/pursue you in the beginning?You're a troll of the worst order. First I'm a low value male, then when I turn out to be highly educated and rich, it doesn't mean crap. Reminds me of the gimp who when I posted my MBA on another forum, said it didn't mean anything because it wasn't from Harvard...yet when I asked him to post his credentials, all he had was a high school diploma. Also reminds me of a thread where some guy on here attacked me with this kind of nonsense, and it turned out he was unemployed, lost his minimum wage … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 07:47 PM |
| -2 | Anyone notice crazy/unstable women are easier/pursue you in the beginning?What's a BB? So you agree a woman pursuing you is usually also a sign that a girl is nutso? I never though of that until I read the Chase Amante article. He has a ton of great articles on this very topic... | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 05:41 PM |
| -5 | Anyone notice crazy/unstable women are easier/pursue you in the beginning?Dude you really should chill out, I didn't say she was a felon, I said criminal record and you automatically jump to felony???? It was a misdemeanor DUI and even that I didn't learn about until 5-6 months in. And yes, they hid their crazy VERY well in the beginning but at the 3 month mark the signs started to come out and I researched it and found the Chase Amante article which was an aha moment. That article led to others talking about tattoos, hair color, piercings, etc. The recent two girls b… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you stay in touch with ex's and why/why not?No, I asked for what OTHER people do, your response was not even an answer, all you focused on was that we had no contact for 7 weeks and made assumptions as a result rather than actually contributing something reasonable to the thread. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Do you stay in touch with ex's and why/why not?Not really, I had started dating other people who wanted to become a couple, etc. but they turned out to be crazy. I had no feelings for them so I walked away. I don't think this is a case of oneitis considering I met other people. She and I actually love each other and have a connection. Logically I know about the red flags and realize a relationship with her wont work long term. But I still get something out of being friends with them. Most of our relationship was long distance. We enjoy talki… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you stay in touch with ex's and why/why not?I don't know why people always make this assumption. It's a relevant fact as to how long we went without speaking (this time) and usually the guys are the ones that reach out to her, I did before, this time I walked away and she reached out telling me she wanted to reach out for a while. In fact when I discussed this with her, she pointed out that it was 7 weeks to the day. I thought it was 6 weeks. Same thing the last time we went through this, I thought it was 10 days, she corrected me that it… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Do you stay in touch with ex's and why/why not?My take on it is there is nothing to lose and something to gain. Ass is ass, and ex hook ups are easy. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?Yes the side gf expected me to leave her eventually. When she reached out recently after a period of no contact, she kept asking indirectly if we were still together over several texts and then finally 3 texts later asking if we were trying to work things out, said she didn't want me to scatter my thoughts, wants me to make the choice that makes me happy even though she will miss me terribly and has while we weren't talking after we broke up. Ultimately the side gf and I were not compatible. Mos… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?I've heard something similar to this before, projection. The cheater always accuses the other partner of cheating because they themselves are sneaking around and unconsciously projecting their cheating onto the partner for some reason. Heck, with the side gf, she knew I had someone from the beginning, I never hung out late, never on the weekends, never brought her back to my place. A few weeks in she even asked me if I could get away for 1 night. I told her I'd see what I could do. That was her … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 09:58 PM |
| 2 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?For some reason, maybe evolutionary programming, I have had multiple gf's, not just side pieces but gf's who overlapped, but I'd get furious if they had male friends or anything like that. It's weird, I can't explain it. But for some reason I'm wired to think that it's OK for me to have multiple gf's but they must all be committed to me. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?I would agree with this. From an evolutionary perspective, guys are more worried about physical cheating since their resources may raise someone else's child/genes than theirs. Women are afraid of emotional cheating since they may lose the mans resources to another woman if he leaves her because he falls for another woman. So basically what I'm hearing is keep doing what I'm doing... | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?I did hear on Alpha Male Strategies that women love turmoil, if you don't bring it, they will. I think in a lot of cases that is true, but she's never been a game player like most women. Heck I didn't cheat for the first 4 years. She wasn't bored then. But yeah, I think I get what you're saying? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?I don't think so either. Her previous boyfriend that cheated on her repeatedly, then they got married and he kept cheating. Eventually they divorced, but not for because of the cheating. BUT, I feel like a jack ass treating her this way. I'd log in to my surveillance cameras to check on her while I'm fucking another girl in a hotel. There she is sitting by herself like a good girl watching movies on her laptop eating dinner at the table (and she cried, she called and texted me several times sayi… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?I wouldn't call her a skank, side piece is more like it. I don't know what I want to do. I SAY only having both ways would satisfy me, but I'm not sure. I do know if I just date I will get 50% of my needs met but not the other. If I stay in a relationship I will have the other 50% met but not the other. Only doing both, I THINK, would satisfy me. But, I'm not sure. Heck, I asked live in gf to move out twice (so this girl could move in) and cancelled it after she became really unstable. Ultimatel… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I love the stability of my long time gf, but crave the excitement of a side love affair, what to do?I don't see how I have oneitis considering I am fucking other people. As far as the rest, maybe there is not correct answer. All I know is keeping her AND having affairs where I fall in love (not just sex, that's great but still not satisfying) is what would ultimately satisfy me. Except I will eventually get caught and lose her. On the other hand, I could just not do that and live a boring relationship life. Maybe at my age, late thirties, I've lived enough, have enough pictures to look back on… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/19 07:18 PM |
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