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| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. Cuckold | Question for RedPill | RemoteNo2422 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 01:58 AM |
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| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldExplain what you mean by “sub human” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldFor her or for you lol?🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldI was playing on the result that an undesirable man wouldn’t even get other sexual partners even if he is allowed to. Making him the only (forced) monogame living partner in this relationship. A cuckold in its modern use has various meanings and today usually also includes the so-called “wittol”, a word which is not used anymore these days. As in a man who knows that his partner has other sexual relationships and accepts it, while not being into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldFirst of all, thanks for taking the time to write such a detailed answer. Maybe you can help me understand the RP view then? The belief is that women prefer different types of men for longterm relationships and short term relationships (as in betas = the “safe” choice and “chads”/alphas/the goodlooking guys with lots of success with women = the general preference, but difficult to tie down), correct?. So RP rhetoric is that you don’t want to be a beta and second choice, after the women had her f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldSo correct me if I’m wrong, but when you were still young and had a few girls that you wanted a relationship with and they wanted to sleep around - you ended up being in a casual relationship with them, but not limited to just sex, right? That would be a case that would match my description the most so far. So in the end when you were young and “naive” you did engage in such a scenario where she wasn’t just a “free” hooker, but she did have others on the side, right? Did you go into a casual fwb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldHm, have you ever had a casual relationship? FWB stands for “friends” with benefits. It’s not really realistic to think that woman would just come to your house and sleep with you out of nowhere and then immediately leave after and do that on a regular basis. You do get to know each other normally. Spend time hanging out together as well. Getting some food together. Watch movies. You normally also do get your friends something for their birthday and get invited to it. FWB is not just a free hook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldI’m not saying it like it’s no big deal, I just think it’s very interesting if we look at it from a scientific perspective. Isn’t the whole red pill belief kinda based on “natural”, biological preferences and mating theory? So for an undesirable man who can’t be “chad”, his best bet for mating success would be to become a beta cuck. It is interesting to see that the internal subjective feeling of shame (with no consequences from the outside of actually being shamed or losing his standing amongst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldYeah idk about self-respect when you’re rotting in your basement in a relationship with your hand, but if that’s what you prefer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:55 AM |
| 0 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldIt certainly is closer than wanking off in mom’s basement. Coming home to a partner, watching movies together, cuddling, going on activities together etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldBut since I was specifically asking men who would consider themselves undesirable and unable to get with the women they want, wouldn’t that mean while she is seeing other men and you’re unable to find other women to be with you (even though you’re allowed to), that you’d effectively end up being a cuckold too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldDo you have a pic of where you think she looks like she’s morphing into Michael Jackson? Also, I would say a Stacy automatically invests more into her beauty and keeping it because of the advantages that it brings to her life. She can easily let the men she is seeing pay for her procedures too. You don’t need several hundred million dollars for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldWhat are the weird hypotheticals?:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldCurious…if you two were in a casual relationship and both were allowed to see other people, would that change your answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldI love the article! Very interesting! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldThey formed a whole subculture and called themselves “incels”. As in involuntary celibate. Why would that be something invented by feminist media when more young men than ever report being lonely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldThat’s odd, considering we hear about the male loneliness epidemic on a daily basis🤔 there seem to be at least enough men reporting about loneliness that this is even a topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 09:32 AM |
| -1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldBut so is a life lived lonely and without emotional and physical connection if that is what you’re actually craving, no?🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldLots of men care about status though. A fast car, a beautiful wife, a successful job…a man with a model at his side is immediately assumed to be a successful and competent man. Other Women are automatically more interested in that man, because he has to have something that has gotten him the Stacy, right? But if for you personally your status is not important and you would feel like betraying your morals, I can understand and accept that opinion. Thanks for sharing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldSo your decision would be solely based on internal feelings of shame? It’s not printed on your forehead that you’re engaging in such a relationship model. From the outside it’s just a dude with a woman way out of his league. And people wondering if you’re rich, have a huge d*ck or what it is that you bagged a Stacy. It’s interesting. What I’m taking away here is basically that the subjective emotions of pride/shame are outweighing the natural pull of procreation and “spreading your seed” success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather? Single vs. CuckoldI think you’re being a bit unrealistic with your age limit. Look at hot 30 something year olds these days, sunscreen, anti aging remedies, ozempic and other procedures have changed the game on aging. An actual real Stacy will stay Stacy for far longer. Anne Hathaway is 43, do you think she looks old and not beautiful anymore? Secondly marriage is not some magical cage that binds you to that woman for life. About half of the marriages get divorced anyways. If you stay married after 10 years of ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapy<image> Just as examples, since you don’t seem to have seen how many biker thirst trap accounts exist to cater to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyAgain you’re proving that you don’t seem to know a lot about women. It’s 2026, but it’s still not normal to see people all sleeved up. I don’t think any guy would look at a woman who has tattoos all over her body (and not just some small cute ones, I’m talking about sleeves, neck etc) and would think “yeah that’s a good Christian girl”. If a guy is sleeved up to his neck that is certainly a message he wants to convey. Though you might be a bit subjective on that topic, as you said you were a cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyNo, because he makes risky stunts on his motorcycle, has tattoos and is not wearing appropriate protection. You seem to not know a lot about the thirst trap spaces for women on social media. There are lots of bikers that cater specifically to girls because they figured out that they get more attention there than from the guys. Bonus points if they target the “book girlies”. Also the last part of your comment is wrong. Opposites attract. It’s mostly good girls with bad boys. And good boys with do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Many women see men as just a means to an end.And how do you think women naturally choose their mating partner? Is it not based on his…ability to provide for said future children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Many women see men as just a means to an end.I’d actually turn the whole thing around and say if there’s no sexual incentive to being with a woman, then men don’t see a point in being with her. Men generally can’t be with a woman just because she’s a good human being who treats them well and who they like. The “love” and “care” has sexual conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 10:49 PM |
| -2 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyThe right diet and sports to improve the availability of the necessary growth hormones at the right age. Again sports. Braces, the right diet, if necessary jaw surgery. But all of that is not even the point and it just proved again that you guys don’t even listen to what we want you to work on. Go to THERAPY. Learn emotional intelligence. Empathy. Learn active listening. Show genuine interest in the other person, not just see them as objects to fuck or as a tool to soothe your loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 10:44 PM |
| -3 | Men are more violent than women, not more abusive.OP: rants about psychological abuse having the same mental long-term effects Also OP: How dare she be hurt by my psychological abuse?? Btw fragile masculinity refers to this phenomenon: “Men whose gender identity was threatened demonstrated increased masculine attitudes than did men in the study whose masculinity was not threatened. This was demonstrated in the form of reporting significantly greater support for the Iraq War (3.64/10 potential positive points vs. 2.65/10 points) and more negativ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 03:20 PM |
| 12 | Men are more violent than women, not more abusive.Exactly this. Abuse is a huge topic everywhere regardless of gender. And the only solution is to leave that abusive relationship. But it’s women who can’t in most cases because of physical violence, the fear he would hurt the children or the fear of ending up dead. It’s also more likely for women to be in a financially abusive relationship, by for example not having a job and the man controlling the money she gets and how she uses it. How is she supposed to save money to escape that relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyThat’s why we have the 4B movement and a male loneliness epidemic. Yet it still doesn’t look like the guys try to work on themselves, they blame women, feminism and the freedom to make a choice and not being dependent on a man or marrying. So they rather work on getting fascists and conservatives into power and revoking equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 05:01 AM |
| 0 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapy<image> At the same time I also get those types of thirst traps. And I like both of them, like many other women do too. But I like a “good boy” a little bit more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:25 AM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapy<image> Where do y’all think the “yearning” trope comes from? You think women just post that all over the internet without actually being into it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:21 AM |
| -2 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyI really wonder why y’all believe women are a hive mind. Different women find different types of men attractive. Even the same woman can find different types of men attractive. I can show you an example of the types of thirst traps I get on my timeline. Does this look like a idgaf gym bro to you? <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.Yeah that’s exactly what I imagine when I hear the word dadbod. A dude with normal to good amount of muscle, but with fat over it. I don’t know why you guys thought we would like simply overweight guys without muscles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.I went to the sauna with makeup, I slept with makeup…I had days when I came home from the club and just went to bed and even my false lashes were still glued in place the next morning😭 and then I went to some appointment trying not to die from the hangover, but my makeup was still slaying💅🏼 the point is: if I like a dude I would probably not be around him without makeup at first (even if it’s just something super light, but for him it will look like “no-makeup” lol). And funnily enough, I never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherLike are you seriously comparing the US where people of color have to be scared to be shot by the police when simply being pulled over and people being literally kidnapped by masked men with people answering in a survey they didn’t feel as included? Bfr. Nobody said discrimination is not a problem, but to compare that to the US government or Hitler is delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherNobody ever said that? I never said that discrimination is not existing in those countries. This is certainly a point that they need to address as well. Just that their treatment doesn’t resemble Hitler times like the actions of the current US government does. And what does any of that have to do with my point being that those female-led countries are voted the happiest countries for years already and they have great social programs? What’s the point of this whataboutism? You haven’t shown me an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .This. I was around 12 maybe when I was frequently walking through our village to the bus and an older guy tried to chat me up a couple of times. I was polite since he seemed to be a lonely older man who talked about his wife that had died. One day he said he wanted to buy something at the bakery and he wants to buy me something as well. I reluctantly agreed and in the bakery the saleswoman started to question the guy and me. She asked me if I know this guy etc and when he finally fled the bakery… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherOh really? I haven't heard people getting sent to prison in el Salvador or people dying in detention; people getting abducted by masked individuals or tourists being held in prison for 6 weeks without reason nor trial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherFinland🤷🏼♀️ the feminist movement also didn’t just advocate for rights like maternity leave, but also paternity leave for example. Which is now 263 days. So when feminist women hold positions in power they support the community, not just women. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_Finland | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 11:30 AM |
| – | Deluded Women hate actual vetting and would rather resort to snap character judgement due to illusory opportunity costs and misogynistic men mimic this behavior as a coping mechanismHuh? I already see his behavior why would I need to hear some hot air? Words aren’t worth anything. I can promise you the sky is green, but why would you believe me when you can clearly see the sky is blue? When their “honest, open communication” completely opposes their actions, then there’s not much honest about it. No we don’t get objectively better results. We waste our time and resources. As well as risking our safety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)What does susing out mean?🤔 And depending on what I post. If it’s a picture of myself alone then men and women will like it, but mostly men will send a message. And it’s a mixture of guys who know me or don’t know me. But the funniest thing is they don’t even make a real effort to meet, date or get to know me. It’s just like the attention span of a gold fish, sending 2-3 messages and then they disappear back into the void lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Btw I noticed a lot of autistic guys struggle with empathy. Many of their actions seem to be for their own benefit and it’s hard to get them to see a different viewpoint when they are being set on an opinion. I’ve seen those autistic guys court and try their best to get the woman to date them, but whenever a situation comes up when it’s their own benefit against mindfulness of their partner’s feelings/needs they will choose their own benefit (often not even intentionally, they just struggle with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:24 PM |
| – | Deluded Women hate actual vetting and would rather resort to snap character judgement due to illusory opportunity costs and misogynistic men mimic this behavior as a coping mechanismThat’s is absolutely delusional🤷🏼♀️ y’all are just asking for the blueprint on how to act and pretend to be to lure the woman into dating you. Watching actions and not words is THE most important part of the vetting process. Words are nothing more than hot air. I want to see how YOU are. How you would react, what you would say, what you would do. Not you acting a certain way or saying certain things because I gave you the template to do so. Dudes just use the communication and feedback argument… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> The true colors in this case were more turn off than an actual fake profile😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> This one was also hilarious. Some dude on a dating website using Tristan Tate’s pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)Just examples why dudes who I matched with would not get an answer back from me😬 those jokes might be funny, but when 2/3 of your first messages are sexual jokes, prostitution solicitation or direct sexual harassment when you specifically state you are not looking for hook-ups, then it gets pretty old quickly🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)I have nothing against rich guys. This is just cringe af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:31 AM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)Bro, who approaches people like this in a first message? Come on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)Btw his name was “magic tongue”. Pretty sure he wasn’t talking about French kissing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:27 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)That’s just plain sexual harassment. Especially when my profile stated I was looking for someone to show me around the city. At least have some respect when approaching women, even when you just want to hook up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:25 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)The question was what they could possibly message in the first few messages that shows their true colors🤷🏼♀️ I’m presenting you with examples how first messages can lead to disinterest from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:24 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)Pretty sure the majority of women don’t like to be treated and approached like a prostitute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:22 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:15 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> Some are kinda funny though lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:10 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:09 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:09 AM |
| 1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)I disagree. Having experienced the other side of the coin I can tell you at least for me and my social circle: while women do have a lot of matches and choice, it is extremely overwhelming to be bombarded with messages and trying to filter out good/bad options. In the beginning we might be a bit more motivated and answer a few more chats, but at some point it will simply turn into a chore and be exhausting. At that point we might text with 1-2 people, but the motivation to date has largely waned… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:07 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A guy from a nice family, maybe sometimes a bit more shy and introverted, loyal, looking for something longterm, values family and is dedicated to making his partner happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:36 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Honestly? I’ve seen a lot of “good guys” with super toxic women. Same experience I made. When I’m behaving toxic, mean or rejecting, they will try even harder. When I say unhinged stuff that is full of red flags it apparently makes men chase harder. When I’m distanced and unbothered, they wanna be in a relationship as quickly as possible. Bonus points when I say I only want to hook up. I even post reels talking about “I beat my men” in my stories and men don’t seem to be deterred by it, on the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:28 AM |
| – | Women don't need a social circle or amazing social skills to get a boyfriendI think that has something to do with the female sexual underperception bias. Women tend to perceive sexual interest from men lower than it actually is. So they are basically assuming he just wants to be friendly if he doesn’t make it VERY obvious that he is interested in her. I can imagine this makes it harder for shy men though. (For men it’s the other way around btw, they have a sexual overperception bias and therefore are easily mistaking kindness for interest; just a fun fact). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:01 PM |
| – | Why waste time complaining when your life is basically on auto aim?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseI described it in my other comments. Humans are living in communities in nature. Violent males that are disrupting the peace would be chased away or killed (comparable to bonobos for example). While rape would certainly occur (it also is today), it would be far less common than it is these days. Because violent and/or undesirable “incel” men would be outsiders and loners and likely not survive on their own. The female to male ratio would probably be higher to keep the peace. As we are one of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseYou said nothing in biology and nature is supposed to be🤷🏼♀️ but nature and biology gave us some pretty clear templates on how humans live in a well adapted way. Sure we can go against that, but it will not be in our own best interest. E.g. women naturally do best when squatting during childbirth. Some perverted king wanted to watch and made childbirth a lying down matter which was maintained like that until today for doctor’s convenience, but it brings more complications, pain and risks of inj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseThat doesn’t change that those women had to get married to be able to survive. As you see with your numbers that most did. And oftentimes their partner wasn’t really a choice either. You went from being property of your father to being property of your husband (but of course only the financially stable). The point was more that there were men who were not deemed financially able to support a family or who were not socially deemed an acceptable partner (think of migrants, racism, religion, disabi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseMy previous answer in a different comment: Btw I read a very interesting article some time ago where some scientists believe that “incels” were a problem a lot of times throughout history under the patriarchal system. Whenever the amount of involuntary celibate men in society got too big, social unrest and violence occurred. Which is why those incels were given a purpose and sent away from society to keep the peace. Vikings for example are believed to be incels, as well as those men sent on “exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseForced marriage is not the same thing as being financially dependent from men, is it? You should know that it wasn’t long ago that women finally gained the right to own their own bank accounts and buy property. So women could not live an independent live without a husband. Not to mention that single women (aka most often widows) were accused as witches to seize their land and property that they inherited from their dead husband. And let’s not forget the social shame that brought being a “spinste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseI answered this exact question in another comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseAre we not supposed to breathe air based on our biology? Of course we can try to breathe water like fish, but it won’t be very successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseWell you can disagree, but it doesn’t change that this is what I believe. Women were conditioned by the patriarchy to see other women as their enemy and to weaken female friendship. Now we are slowly coming back to our nature, where women stick together and defend each other (especially when facing danger). It is always safer to turn to women for help when you get harassed or you are alone/helpless. They will help you out. It’s also the popular hate topic of some men when they talk about the “fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:05 PM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseAs one of the few species where menopause occurs, it would make more sense to say that we actually evolved to be matriarchal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:50 AM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseBtw I read a very interesting article some time ago where some scientists believe that “incels” were a problem a lot of times throughout history under the patriarchal system. Whenever the amount of involuntary celibate men in society got too big, social unrest and violence occurred. Which is why those incels were given a purpose and sent away from society to keep the peace. Vikings for example are believed to be incels, as well as those men sent on “explorer journeys” like Christopher Columbus. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:24 AM |
| 6 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseWell they can’t. That’s the point. The women outnumber men in those communities. Violent males disrupting the peace will not be able to stay in those communities and continue to have access to mating partners. Why would they risk that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:02 AM |
| 3 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseWomen can also do the chasing away (see bonobos). That’s why living in communities is our nature. It’s not just the men. Also see lions. The female lions fight with the existing males in their community against other outsider males. Why would the existing males need to use violence against the females? They are the desirable men and have a surplus of mating options. And if he would use violence he could be chased away by the women ganging up on him (see bonobos). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:00 AM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseWhy would they need to use violence to take advantage? They are the chosen men? For a reason? The women approve of these men. And there would probably be less men than women in those communities (higher male to female ratio doesn’t keep the peace). Why would the men feel the need to use violence when they are the desirable men and in shortage of supply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:55 AM |
| 3 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseYou’re imagining humans to live alone. Humans live in communities. Violent individuals disrupting the peace in those communities would be chased away or killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:48 AM |
| 6 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseIt is naturally occurring for undesirable men and in natural circumstances women would not live alone, but in a community. Violent men would be chased away or killed in those communities (see lions or bonobos). You would need to be a desired man to be part of the community, today’s incels would be loners and outsiders and not further procreate, but also not be able to harm the community in the numbers that men are these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:45 AM |
| 7 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseThe system would emerge naturally if both sexes would naturally and without pressure fit into that system. Now that we are giving women the opportunity for equality, if the patriarchy was natural to us, we would stay in the same position as submissive wives at home. But without those restrictions women are not staying in this place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseAh I guess I misunderstood your comment. Depending on what we are looking at. For humanity and evolution? Yeah women being able to freely select their mates and not being forced into marriage is how things are supposed to be. There’s a reason for attraction and it’s for genetic compatibility and the avoidance of genetic diseases. Thanks to the same social manipulation we have seen quite a bit of genetic problems especially in noble and royal families. We are already having a system that doesn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:33 AM |
| 6 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseAnd he can be unattractive to all women around him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:17 AM |
| 5 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worsePatriarchy is not occurring naturally. If you have to force half of the population into a system and a big part of the other half of the system is suffering too, you can’t quite say it’s occurring naturally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:15 AM |
| 7 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseIt’s simply natural selection and how evolution works…but people don’t like to hear that this is how it was supposed to be. Women had to be “enslaved” in patriarchy and made dependent on men in order to provide every man with a woman, no matter if his genes and traits are good enough to be chosen naturally. Patriarchy screwed up our gene pool and hindered evolution. Now we’re just slowly getting back to how it was supposed to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:02 AM |
| 9 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherWe have some countries in Europe that are women-lead and have high equality ratings, which are doing pretty well! I believe one of them has been rated the happiest country in the world for a few years already and they have pretty decent social welfare structures. Also if you look at billionaires, you will see a lot more women involved in philanthropy or giving away large parts of their wealth. We are still raised as the “empathetic” gender and I doubt that this will change. I just hope that the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI know women and I know men and I know more men who say he is attractive than women🤷🏼♀️ he’s also pretty damn old already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:26 PM |
| 0 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionWhy would anyone waste their prime youth years on marriage and kids? Women should do it later too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:36 AM |
| 6 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI know more “straight” men simping for him than women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:23 AM |
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