Ren_san Archive

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12	I’m so uncertain about everything, I met a girl I really like but I’m not sure she’s interested anymore She is an adult and so are you. There is no shame in going on the date even if you think she is interested in someone else (you don’t know anything, your evidence is meaningless, and you can’t read her mind.) If she is losing interest, she may cancel or stop making new dates. If so, move on. If she is constantly texting while you’re on dates and that doesn’t work for you, tell her. Or if dating her isn’t fun anymore, stop. Bottom line, you do what makes you happy, what is fun for you, and let he…	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/19 02:55 PM
1	I want to go to the gym and get a more attractive body, but I’m worried that I would then only attract women that only value looks? I think focusing on being genuine will be the best thing. It gives women a chance to be genuine, too.	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/19 05:04 PM
12	I want to go to the gym and get a more attractive body, but I’m worried that I would then only attract women that only value looks? Are you using the girls? Do you only care about looks? It’s one small part of a much greater chemistry. Once you “attract” more women with your new physical attractiveness, (and confidence,) you will have a chance to get to know them. Dump the ones that are superficial, stick with the ones who are a good match for you.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/19 11:10 PM
2	Please suggess some non- gynocentric movies/shows!! John Wick Jack Ryan Altered Carbon Bohemian Rhapsody Stranger Things Brooklyn 99 2 questions; How old can suggestions be? Why are you asking on this sub if you claim not to be a troll?	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/19 05:28 AM
8	I still fear it's (at least some of it) is true The problem with TRP and any other theories that try to take millions of people and predict their behavior is that no two people are the same, have the same values, motivations, or desires. TRP in particular disregards the personhood of women, as well. People do not make decisions based on cost/benefit analysis, they make decisions based on emotions first. I assume you want to keep your GF not because she’s a possession or because of what you can get from her, but because you care about her and …	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/18 06:32 PM
1	Showing insecurity to a women is game over? Um, thanks for the advice. I wasn’t accusing him of anything.	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 05:48 PM
1	Showing insecurity to a women is game over? I was saying it’s okay to talk about it, not okay to put it on her IF that’s what he was thinking.	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 04:48 PM
2	Showing insecurity to a women is game over? IMHO, you don’t have to have overcome it, you just need to show you’re taking ownership of it by having ideas of how you plan to overcome it while talking to her about it.	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 04:47 PM
10	Showing insecurity to a women is game over? Insecurity is only bad when you make it someone else’s problem. Your insecurity is your problem to deal with, not hers. If you suggest she needs to take action to alleviate your insecurity, such as by reducing contact with friends, dressing differently, allowing you unlimited access to her private life (passwords, for instance) etc, you are making your insecurity her problem rather than acknowledging it is your issue, anxiety, self-worth or whatever that needs fixing. If you are asking her for h…	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/18 03:11 AM