RentedPineapple Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? Reality is not as grim as this sub makes it out to be. https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/15xh8cu/everything/	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 08:15 PM
0	Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their Husbands This woman goes from being promiscuous to deeply religious and considering sex “the highest form of praise for god” and considering her past “perversion”. It does not surprise me in the least that sex has lost its spark and fun for her. Humans can enjoy intimacy while respecting one another and acknowledging they are not compatible as life partners. If sexual encounters outside of marriage do not align with your values, find a partner who shares your values. How you view sex and view yourself wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 02:03 AM
5	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. I’m giving you the opportunity to lay out your line of reasoning and you are refusing to do so. Progress can be made when you’re prepared to use logic instead of deferring to being offended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 05:48 PM
1	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. If you openly said you deserve whatever you want and people praised you for it would you feel better? In response to the question of what you are owed you said “a loyal and loving partner”, on what basis is this your right? Are you obligated to love and be loyal to someone? Why or why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 05:41 PM
2	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. What do you feel that you are owed that you are not getting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 04:26 PM
4	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. Are you pursuing ugly women with a nice personality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 04:23 PM
12	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. Cars and houses are built with a defined utility. Humans are not. Our genes might be telling us to fuck and reproduce because those genes want to propagate but we are not a failed product if we don’t. Take a step back and decide for yourself what you want your purpose in life to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 04:19 PM
1	Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions. “she at least has the knowledge that she's desired”. If being desired is men’s underlying want, they’re pining for something that can’t be forced. You can physically force a person to do many things: you can’t make someone want you. What you can do is cultivate the best, most desirable version of yourself you can imagine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 03:03 AM
1	Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions. Women down play these painful experiences because no one is owed intimacy. When people bring up being “starved” of companionship, touch and sex they often imply that others (women) MUST give these things. Not all men will argue this, however many discussions end up with stances that women should “give men a chance” by responding to their advances online or in person, agreeing to dates etc. You cannot force someone to desire to be around you or desire being intimate with you. For anyone reading t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 02:18 AM
–	You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why. No need to imagine! Get on Grindr and see for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 06:28 PM
8	From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us. “One could live in a very rich country like the United States and life can still be tough because one is poorer than everyone else.” The feeling of a tough life is very real while the criteria is a moving target and subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 03:03 AM
20	What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjective https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1002/9781118540190.wbeic102 Psychologists call behaviour that goes against norms “expectancy violations” and have studied what makes a violation positively or negatively perceived (valence). Not surprisingly, the status and attractiveness of the violator are factors. This paper breaks down different types of expectancy violations and the significance people assign them. “The same factors that influence norms and expectations determine another key conce…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 04:50 PM
15	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. I slept around in my 20s and then in my 30s married a 6 figure income man 2 yrs older than me. We have similar interests and values, make each other laugh and both have high libidos. He finds my past hot and explicitly tells me so. If you’re a man reading this and are disgusted by women having sex, consider looking for a partner in religious communities. If religious women are put off by you not attending church, emphasize your traditional values and desire for traditional gender roles and a sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 04:05 PM
3	What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married? Similar to how men in loveless traditional marriages provide shelter and finances to a woman they get to have sex with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 04:58 PM
2	When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid. You can have a meaningful life without continuing your genetics. To think otherwise shows a lack of imagination on your part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 04:15 AM
17	There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of Pennsylvania I am a woman who has never been interested in reproducing. My mother sternly warned me growing up that no man would want to marry me. I got my BA, went to another school for a diploma and married the man of my dreams at 31. He checks the boxes for being a “high value male” (hate that term, but it’s relevant to my point). He’s also educated and earns more than I do. For anyone reading these stats, remember that they are stats. You’re looking to marry an individual, not a statistic. If you decide …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 04:32 PM
6	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives On that note, it got to the point I would refuse to go out with a man if he vaguely suggested we “hang out”. Either we’re going on a date or I’ll see you around with our friends. I was not expecting someone to drop money, I paid for myself. I wanted clear intentions from both of us though. It made dating infinitely better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 06:03 PM
9	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives You can put in the effort to understand a person while also being upfront that you have romantic and or sexual intentions. The two are not exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 03:35 PM
10	Women of purple pill debate, what things do you agree with from the red pill perspective and what things do you not agree with? Perhaps that women are all looking for providers and healthy sperm? Many women are happy to earn their own money and have no desire to reproduce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 01:11 AM
3	CMV: You can't get an LTR if you can't get casual sex You can start dating someone with the clearly stated intention of a relationship. After a month or so of dating, you can have non casual sex with a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 08:10 PM
3	Women who met your boyfriends on social media or dating apps, what made him different from the rest? I met my husband on tinder. There were multiple green flags as I was getting to know him: enthusiastic and direct, he asked me on a dinner date and was eager to get to know me. He has a good relationship with his parents, it’s friendly with boundaries. He was saving money (home ownership is something we both prioritize) while not being stingy (we split our first few dates, now we alternate). He will ask for clarification instead of assuming the worst. We tease each other while being respectful o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 03:19 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Some men here will find this thread useful: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/wvxh5y/what_can_an_ugly_average_salary_guy_do_to_still/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 12:02 PM
9	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards “Dating for a woman is like looking for drinking water in a bog. Dating for a man is like looking for drinking water in a desert”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 04:06 AM
5	Generational differences in hotness standards Social media definitely skews younger people’s perception of reality: https://youtube.com/shorts/gKr8Ucm5yWY?feature=share The phenomenon has been dubbed “beauty overstimulation”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 01:41 PM
125	The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies I’ve been thinking about the lack of opportunities for men and women to mingle in a fun setting that encourages flirting while maintaining everyone’s comfort level. I used to attend ceilis (huge Celtic social dance) and realized how useful this must have been in society for centuries. Live music, dancing in smaller groups of 6-12 or the entire room, holding hands, linking arms and laughing. It was nice to get paired up with someone cute for a dance and since the whole crowd was rotating everyone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 09:33 PM
2	The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies No one is owed love, sexual attraction or companionship. People can point out objective facts (men are sexually frustrated and lonely). These facts are simply that, facts. Any implication about what SHOULD be depends on a person’s values. In modern western society we value self determination, which unlike female companionship, people are owed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 09:18 PM
1	The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies I think not deriding someone for being celibate would be a good step. Being shamed for something you can’t control leads to resentment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 09:14 PM
1	Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women? What makes those transactional?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 10:40 PM
9	Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular? Why buy the whole pig when you can get sausage for free?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 10:27 PM
1	You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv" Does this apply if the someone regrets it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 05:52 AM