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| 159 | How I see RP as a former nurse who has worked with sex offenders & APDs | Repemptionhappens | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/25 05:34 PM |
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| 7 | How I see RP as a former nurse who has worked with sex offenders & APDsAntisocial personality disorder and narcissistic. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/25 06:03 PM |
| 43 | How I see RP as a former nurse who has worked with sex offenders & APDsIt’s accurate. If accuracy appears to be “anger issues” to you then maybe you’re the one needing help. I have worked in two jails, a prison, and several psychiatric hospitals. I talk on a level that’s understandable to the criminal community. I’m blunt and real. Furthermore I’m writing this for women and other men who are interacting with them. I don’t care about them. You can’t rehabilitate someone who thinks that what they’re doing is acceptable. Maybe if there were more people out there who w… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/25 08:19 PM |
| 2 | I need help deprogramminghttps://youtu.be/gsvIK7EVD5A?si=0e_D55XOvTl31AvC | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/25 02:47 AM |
| 4 | I need help deprogrammingI’m not talking about his guests & debate type stuff or his interviews. Those videos are dumb and repetitive. I’m talking just him explaining the red pill and why it’s detrimental. I can give you a link tomorrow if you’d like. Right now I’m at work and the WiFi is too spotty for me to run YouTube. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/25 02:29 AM |
| 8 | I need help deprogrammingA psychologist named Adam Lane Smith has some videos on YouTube about RP that will probably convince you that it’s garbage because he breaks down the psychology behind it. I found him to be so enlightening. Everything the red pill community bases their beliefs on is a tiny fraction of personality disordered and attachment disordered individuals (both woman AND men). Those with that toxic combination can destroy a naive persons life but not without the unsuspecting person ignoring mass red flags.… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | If The Red Pill is wrong, why are so many women divorcing men and so many single mothers?It’s amazing the lack of self control. Who wants it? Then they get bitter and blame women. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/24 06:03 PM |
| 3 | If The Red Pill is wrong, why are so many women divorcing men and so many single mothers?Exactly wah wah wahhh it’s supposed to be all about meeeeee. Actually the guys who check out aren’t as bad as my trash father who became jealous of his own kids and abused us in part to get attention from his wifey. Most American men (not all) are weak and entitled. I’m by no means wealthy but most men are broke compared to me so they don’t even have that to offer. They’re broke because they spend money irresponsibly. I’m in a relationship now but I didn’t date for a long time because I was way … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/24 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Is redpill a relatively new philosophy or has it always been around?Thank you. I'm def watching that! I was curious about this too. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/24 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Honestly as a man who is in his late 20s I hate that we live in a patriarchy.LOL. I felt the same about my idiot right wing extremist psycho father. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/24 02:35 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone ever asked RPers how they reconcile their 2 main contradictory beliefs?Wow. Narcissism is a helluva drug. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/24 07:07 PM |
| 15 | Has anyone ever asked RPers how they reconcile their 2 main contradictory beliefs?I am a professional person and I always take good care of my animals but some days I barely get my ass in the shower I am so dead ass tired. Working and doing all the childcare cooking and cleaning while some worthless putz sits around would literally kill me. Being chronically overworked is part of the reason so many of us are struggling with our weight and health. These men are pure trash. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/24 05:08 AM |
| 37 | Has anyone ever asked RPers how they reconcile their 2 main contradictory beliefs?Likewise they believe stay at home mothers are far superior to any childless cat lady or career focused woman but at the same time if you want to be a stay at home mom and want a financially secure husband you’re a greedy gold digger! | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/24 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Ruined my lifeThey aren't drugs. Abuse changes your brain. Depression changes your brain. They are medicine. You don't have to take them at high doses or forever. Just consider it. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/24 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Ruined my lifeYou didn’t answer my questions. Have you ever bonded with a pet? Have you ever tried an antidepressant? Wellbutrin was a miracle for me. I took it about a year and recovered. I think for a lot of us who were abused at home and tormented at school, I can relate to that as a victim of severe child abuse and neglect and as the former poor trailer park kid at a school of upper middle class kids who shunned us (I have siblings). I think people like us often get stuck in a vicious, self perpetuating c… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/24 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Ruined my lifeYou likely have avoidant attachment disorder from abuse. You need to work on that and then you will be able to make friends. You need to learn about and obtain healthy friends first. Learn that first and get stable with it and then romantic relationships. You're too hard on yourself my friend. You're expecting to go from basic arithmetic into calculus. Have you ever bonded with a pet? Also, if you feel like dying that is clinical depression which can be deadly. Have you ever tired an antidepress… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/24 04:36 PM |
| 4 | What makes someone red pill?Bitch my boyfriend is broke AF. He’s also short AF. Despite speaking four languages due to being a recent immigrant on a green card, he works for Uber part time and works for no pay helping his elderly relatives. I love him. I would marry him in a heartbeat. He’s brilliant and kind. He loves animals. He has a lot going for him. Just because money is the only thing you got going on, doesn’t mean it’s like that for everyone. How about you get a personality? Ever tried that cupcake?? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/24 05:28 PM |
| 34 | How can I stop seeing myself as post-wall?Why would you want a man you have to compete with other women for? Why would you want a man who sees half the population on this planet, including you, as nothing but a piece of meat that’s past its expiration date after 25? People like that aren’t capable of healthy relationships or love. Maybe study psychology because most RP types are highly antisocial. Why would you want a man who is personality disordered? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/24 11:33 AM |
| 8 | How to deal with the bits of retroactive jealousy?To assume makes an ASS out of U and ME as they say. Seriously stop it. I only had one serious boyfriend (we were on and off) until I was like 31. I hate crowds and parties. You're catastrophizing and assuming and you kind of come off like a massive know-it-all because you insist you're right when you're not. This way of being will cause you pain and conflict in ALL of your relationships with everyone. Get over yourself OP. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/24 01:21 PM |
| 3 | As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist?I agree fuck that asskisser. He’s no friend to the working class. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/24 06:11 PM |
| 6 | As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist?Cats are more independent than dogs and these men are control freaks. They get jealous of dogs too though trust me. It’s funny though. Like how shitty of a human do you have to be to be worse company than a tiny creature who cannot speak? lol. And yet most of them are! I dated a guy briefly and part of the reason I broke it off was him calling my puppy a bitch and also my puppy seeing him for the first time and immediately peeing in fear. If any animal does that, there is a reason. Animals can s… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/24 02:45 PM |
| 8 | As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist?Yep they hate any woman with sexual experience because they know that she'd laugh them right out of bed. Hence the gross and predatory virginity fetish. they're insecure for a reason lol! | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/24 11:04 PM |
| 40 | As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist?Having negative feelings toward childfree women that have done nothing but live life and mind their own business. I find this to be a huge red flag that not many people talk about because they think it's nothing more than a joke. Anyone who calls a childfree woman a "childless cat lady" has major issues. People minding their own business and just living life should be the least of anyone's concerns considering how sick this society is. I find these men to be extremely controlling and narcissisti… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/24 11:01 PM |
| 6 | What do you do if you've felt lonely your whole life?Volunteer, then you'll at least feel the comradery of a shared goal and purpose. Things could blossom from there. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/24 08:19 PM |
| 12 | Where may I find women who do not care about looks/height?My boyfriend is short. I love him and think he's sexy AF. Short guys are where it's at. Keep being social and you'll find a girl. I actually have only met a few women in my whole life... like probably 3 who legit cared about height and they were extremely shallow and not anyone that most men would've wanted anyway, so it's no big loss to men. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | The Most Dangerous "Red Pill" LieRight? And I doubt OP has slept with 100 models and even if he did, holy std that’s really not a flex. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/24 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Why???To spend 4 hours a day passively ingesting any media is really something. I’m thinking depression too. He needs meds and to go outside and get a hobby. I can’t imagine sitting on my dead ass listening to anyone much less the most immature and hypocritical people out there right now f&f. The only times in my life that I was that physically inactive were after both my parents died of cancer. Wellbutrin to the rescue!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/24 06:39 PM |
| 3 | The "Liberal Andrew Tate"I’m not sure if Adam Lane Smith is exactly liberal but he does a good job of debunking Tate. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Why is all red pill/anti incel advice geared towards the lowest level when many incels are normal people who are just ugly?I don’t know you bro. Maybe volunteer somewhere with a bunch of stressed out nurses? I’m just saying some of these murses are lame af, stanky and nasty. .. and yet… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/24 07:08 AM |
| 10 | Why is all red pill/anti incel advice geared towards the lowest level when many incels are normal people who are just ugly?All I’m saying is even dough boy spineless and flatulent murses get mass laid. Seen it for 15 years now at probably 20 different job sites. If they can do it, all while smelling like something crawled up their asses and died, so can you. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/24 06:40 AM |
| 11 | Why is all red pill/anti incel advice geared towards the lowest level when many incels are normal people who are just ugly?A lot of male nurses are mega whores. Despite their looks or obesity. It’s as easy as being around a lot of women who you are a good friend to. You’ll never lose if you invest in the PERSON not the OUTCOME. Be genuinely interested in her as a person without the goal of sex or a relationship and you’ll end up with all the sex and relationships you want. Seriously male nurses are some of the most promiscuous, sexually harassed, stalked even human beings I’ve ever met and most of the ones I’m think… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/24 06:08 AM |
| 62 | The Redpill Gurus Have Valuable AdviceHahahaha fuck YES! Come to find out us “females” are just humans who want to be loved and accepted for who we are. It’s almost like that’s what everyone yearns for. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/24 04:11 AM |
| 14 | How to spot a red pill guy easily on a convo?I agree. 100% It’s about power. Sex with an inexperienced anxious person is terrible. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 09:56 PM |
| 35 | How to spot a red pill guy easily on a convo?Yes “modern women” or for the ones who fetishize women from Asian countries or the former eastern block countries “modern western women.” Also saying that they’ve gone to impoverished countries to try to land a wife (take advantage or buy a wife really). Talking about how women with life experience are somehow sad damaged and unlovable. Fetishizing a woman’s youth and virginity. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 08:34 PM |
| 10 | How to spot a red pill guy easily on a convo?Brilliant take. Thank you. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 08:29 PM |
| 17 | Do most women have empathy for men?I don’t see that at all. Where are you seeing this REAL life? Maybe you should delete social media. I did several years ago (except Reddit). It helps. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 11:36 PM |
| 12 | “My money is my money, your money is OUR money.”Right? Nothing like committing financial suicide. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/24 12:32 AM |
| 14 | what do you think about pick up artistsProfoundly unloving and unloved. Sexually predatory. Emotionally mentally and spiritually abusive. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/24 06:34 PM |
| 13 | red pill true in real lifeI think you should familiarize yourself with the many fallacies of logic that keep people trapped in illogical thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/24 05:56 PM |
| 2 | This is the real misogyny that RP ideology creates.Sorry to go off topic but I love your username. That has got to be the best one on Reddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/24 02:46 AM |
| 9 | The basic deal.How are you told that? Why do you feel disrespected? I want examples because I truly have never seen that. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | The red pill makes me feel like I should have an arranged marriage?I’m not going to debate you or others on this. Your friend is probably male, young, or sheltered and therefore doesn’t get it. Look at what Adam Lane Smith has to say about red pill, you may be attachment disordered and that’s why this philosophy appeals to you. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/24 08:47 AM |
| 1 | The red pill makes me feel like I should have an arranged marriage?lol. Said so beautifully. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/24 02:36 AM |
| 3 | The red pill makes me feel like I should have an arranged marriage?Become friends with someone from a country where arranged marriages are common and it will wake you up. People end up dead. Dead from suicide. Murder. Abuse. Just one friend is all you need. Their stories are horrific and love is rare. Just because people don’t divorce, because it’s not an option, doesn’t mean they’re happy. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/24 02:21 AM |
| 20 | I can’t Un-RP myselfI agree and also what 40 year old man is going to want a 20 year old unless he is extraordinarily immature and controlling? I am in my 40s and I have zero in common with people in their 20s. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Were people more faithful back in the day? (Crosspost)Well. This is just my personal observation as an older woman. I don’t think people were any more or less faithful. People, whether they were true believers or not, went to church more because it was a social & family event. It went on even after church services with many families having a large Sunday meal (for Christian’s anyway), with lots of extended family attending. I’m not sure how many truly believed or were just going through the motions because it was expected of them. Organized religio… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Lonely Single MenThank you so much!!! I’m glad your brother had such a great sister. You sound like a total bad ass. Yes she was miserable personally I think she was either a closeted lesbian herself or asexual. She certainly did hate her husband. The guy lost a few pounds and she was like furious and she was shouting about it to everyone “now I can’t call him Fat Ass anymore!” Sometimes you’ve got to laugh to keep from crying. We are both psych RNs and I’m telling you…. I mean it’s not even close that dingbat w… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Lonely Single MenI did and it was deemed a personality conflict. She was in the states from age 3 and married an American which is where most of her toxic red pill garbage came from. Anytime she got in trouble she’d cry hysterically and suddenly get this thick accent which was totally fake and management and HR bought into it every single time. I was told “it’s her culture.” She also played the religion card always whining about praying for me or whoever. I mean this is the same person who would take a giant shi… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/23 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Lonely Single Men💙🙏Thank you. This woman is still to this day one of the most vile beings I have ever met. It’s funny because she was the most homophobic person I’ve ever met, yet even after I changed departments, she kept calling me like stalker because she was “so concerned” about me. Honestly I could have and should have sued because our Christian fundie manager was in on it and clearly agreed with her disgusting opinions, but I never did because as I was dealing with this demon hag my father was dying of can… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/23 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Lonely Single MenStop it. Firstly you don’t care whether they or anyone here is happy or not. You clearly are hoping we aren’t. Secondly, what you consider “bashing” is just a person expressing an opinion. They have every right to an opinion just as you do. Thirdly why are you offended if it’s an “tiny fraction of men.” It isn’t a tiny fraction of men. It’s quite a large number of people. I got fired from a job because I had a female red piller harass me for 3 long YEARS with her abusive comments about people dy… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/23 05:25 PM |
| 10 | Lonely Single MenI am happy and so are most commentators here. Some of us “hang out” on different subreddits because we find psychology, sociology, and culture fascinating. EX red pill gives me hope for humanity and I’m proud of the people who have outgrown this toxic self defeating mentality. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/23 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Lonely Single MenI LOVE YOU! You said everything I was thinking and I have always said any man with this creepy virgin fixation is insecure AF and knows that any woman with any life experience whatsoever would laugh them out of bed. IMHO not only are a lot of men man babies, they’re predatory man babies. I’m in the same boat. Got two dogs and an awesome career. Got my degree finally while every loser I stupidly dated laughed and said I’d never graduate. Did everything they could to try to get me to drop out. I’d… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/23 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or are female RP creators more extreme than the men?Interesting. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or are female RP creators more extreme than the men?We’re they female or male friends, or both? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/23 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Is it just me or are female RP creators more extreme than the men?I love the term Pick Me because I used to be a bit that way thanks to having a mother who saw her daughters as competition and sisters who were grade A assholes, as our mom taught them to be. I got called a Pick Me Bitch by a coworker and while she wasn’t totally correct. She really did suck at her job. She eventually got punched in the face by a patient and quit so I mainly didn’t like her because she sucked as an employee not because she was a woman. It still made me realize I was a bit friend… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/23 03:19 AM |
| 30 | Is it just me or are female RP creators more extreme than the men?Ugh Pearl. That girl is the ultimate Pick Me. I don’t believe for one second that she believes the ridiculous things that come out of her pie hole. But you’re right, the women are all trying to out do each other in the extreme opinions they take, making complete asses of themselves, all for male attention. She lacks social awareness. There’s this psychological phenomenon called spontaneous trait transfer. Everyone should be aware of it. This is why you don’t go around trashing others and especia… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/23 02:42 AM |
| 15 | How to stop myself from falling into redpill ideology.Stop using dating apps. Look at the videos psychologist Adam Lane Smith have about both dating apps and red pill ideology. He is so brilliant. I could never explain what I have learned from him and do it justice. I had to watch his video about why the red pill ideology was toxic three times because it was so good and had so much information in it. I do empathize with what you’re going through. Literally every man in my life until I was in my 30s was a violent or at the very least an extremely me… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/23 02:33 AM |
| 9 | When men and women have high body counts, it doesn't make them any better.Lol. Wow. It depends on what you’ve experienced in life I guess. I find getting married as a young uneducated, unskilled, virginal female incredibly risky, but then I grew up with abusive pieces of shit as far as my father and grandfather, uncle, brother, etc. If only given two choices of lifestyle, I’d rather be promiscuous and get an STD, most of which are easily cured, than live my whole life being abused, possibly murdered, and seeing my kids abused. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/23 04:57 PM |
| 7 | I used to love having girls as friends and idk what happened?Is there a possibility that you suffer from a personality disorder such as antisocial pd? That way of thinking is extraordinarily narcissistic and blaming red pill content is NOT a valid excuse. Internet content is external and you’re omitting the fact that YOU chose to seek out and consume that content. That’s a failure to accept responsibility. This is coming from you and what you have going on internally. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | suggestions for anti redpill books or podcast youtuberAdam Lane Smith explains in the kindest ways why they’re basically attachment disordered individuals who are teaching others to to be attachment disordered. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/23 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Posting on a throwawayAdam Lane Smith is amazing and gives tons of free dating and relationship advice on his YouTube channel. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/23 07:27 AM |
| 1 | I still feel traumatised by my redpill exI’m so sorry you experienced all that. Please OP study personality disorders, narcissism, and a concept called “the dark triad.” Red pill ideology cannot make anyone high in conscientiousness and empathy an abuser. He was already lacking these things and that’s why he found red pill ideology attractive enough to study it and use their tactics. Also Adam Lane Smith is a wonderful resource and he has a lot of free material on his YouTube channel. I hope you find the truest and deepest love. You ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/23 07:08 AM |
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