TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

ReplaceLuckWithSkill Archive

View 5 posts and 29 comments by ReplaceLuckWithSkill on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Er, I did say I didn't want to/it didn't occur to me? Perhaps I didn't want it, but its not that I haven't done so before in past when it was more discrete. Without revealing where I am/what I do, let's just say I can't really be too public about who I make out with in public.
/r/seduction17/06/10 02:18 AM
2

Well, there were some people around me that I knew. Didn't want to risk it.
/r/seduction16/06/10 09:13 PM
7

A satisfactory answer. However why would a girl want to create more competition for herself? My theory is that the girlfriend still has control somewhat over the situation (i.e. she can make sure that the boyfriend doesn't take the waitresses number, etc).
/r/seduction16/06/10 08:22 PM
2

Too public an area, and it didn't really occur to me (to kiss close). True, I did feel a bit bad about disappearing. But will probably give her a call/text very soon. Speaking of comfort though, is it always the best idea to kiss close so soon? My ideal plan for this girl is to go out on a date, then have dinner, have her back home from a massage, getting her naked and then have it lead to something else. If I kiss closed tonight, would it be escalating too fast and would I miss out on the chanc…
/r/seduction16/06/10 08:19 PM
1

Er, the higher up the person is on the ladder the higher the value? Eg for guys, a girl higher up your ladder is a girl you would like to fuck more than the girls below the ladder. Lower down the ladder is what you might settle for (if you were drunk, etc). The LJBF ladder is...well, simply put, not all friends are equal. Some people are better friends? The ones you call to your wedding and the ones you just hang out with. Ladder theory is an overgeneralization (yes, there are guys that don't th…
/r/seduction16/06/10 08:13 PM
1

Guys could LJBF girls, but it's rare. Ultimately if a girl is naked and willing and not totally repulsive, 99.9% of guys would go for it.
/r/seduction16/06/10 08:06 PM
1

Sorry, have edited the post!
/r/seduction16/06/10 07:58 PM
2

Thank you! This is probably one of the hardest moves. Especially if you know ladder theory.
/r/seduction16/06/10 07:14 PM
11

Yes, please elaborate. Why is this happening?
/r/seduction16/06/10 07:11 PM
2

This reminded me of something. A girl I know said this to me once when I was in bed with her doing some light cuddling and kissing when I asked her what was going through her mind. It took a bit of prompting, but she finally told me 'My name, I want you to ravish me!" Not very relevant but yes, ravish is a very nice word to me because of that. On the other hand, looking at a girl like you want to rape her might not be the best thing to start off with... (ravish is non-consensual by definition...…
/r/seduction16/06/10 07:11 PM
1

Birthday sex is awesome! Congratulations to you :)
/r/seduction15/06/10 05:17 PM
2

You totally chose the wrong headline for this, but it's an interesting article.
/r/seduction15/06/10 08:38 AM
1

Sounds compelling. But what do you follow it up with? I would think that she would expect you to give some insight into what you did that...eg maybe it would say something about her personality? Then again, I think I "get it". It's so random that she will be thinking what it means, rather than why you are trying to touch her.
/r/seduction15/06/10 05:28 AM
4

Are you serious? How do they usually react after that?
/r/seduction15/06/10 04:02 AM
2

True! However if you're good at it (she will be the judge of whether you're good from a simple clothed rub) it isn't too hard to get her to agree. Did this from the age of 21+ actually.
/r/seduction15/06/10 03:45 AM
2

Yup. Massage has been a great part of my routine so far, if you can make a woman feel comfortable and pleasured with your hands on her, well, it's quite easy to take it from there to whatever else :)
/r/seduction14/06/10 08:43 PM
3

Do you have a big enough couch? Invite them both for either a house party or a movie night. The night (and your skills) will decide what happens from there. The blanket was a positive cue I believe, some girls are shy and a blanket will hide whatever fondling you have going on underneath. And - make sure to have plenty of condoms, you do not want to 'double dip' into each girl. 1 condom = 1 girl.
/r/seduction14/06/10 07:53 PM
4

Easier done in a club/bar: Another one is telling her that she looks stressed, and just offer her a simple back/neck rub. Most girls I've tried this on enjoy it, and some even brush their hair out of the way for me to get a better rub. Your thumb and index finger is key in applying firm pressure. Don't be too light, it's ticklish. And don't be too hard either. Look to rub muscle, not bone and you should be giving her a decent enough massage. You can learn some simple massage routines from Youtub…
/r/seduction14/06/10 07:49 PM
1

Noted!
/r/seduction14/06/10 04:26 AM
1

A suggestion. Do you have any hot friends (that you are not interested in, but are close to) that you can practice on? If you tell her that you're not interested in her (please word this better) but would like her advice, she might be willing to help you out. (PS: It's also a good cover if you really like her.)
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:39 PM
2

I'm not sure where I read this but I think it was a certain PUA that mentioned in a book (was it Style?) that used PUA tactics on his dad. Essentially the PUA principles of connecting with people, breaking down their barriers, and forging deeper connections can work on anyone. Except, I wouldn't recommend kiss closing your relatives...
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:37 PM
1

Agree totally. I have a guitar by my bed, and it's a natural move for the girl to pick up the guitar (just to play with it if she can't really play, really play if she can), and then sit on the bed. Then take it from there :)
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:30 PM
1

Thanks, very good advice. I found that she reacts better to spontaneity - trying not to plan in advance. Except for maybe, some of the more special/events parties. Will most likely sms/call only 1-3 times a week, and balance my focus on the others :)
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:27 PM
1

Not exactly possible for women's clothing stores, but perhaps for unisex ones that sell guys and girls clothing, here's an idea: Pick out a shirt Ask for your size, color etc Ask her if you look good in the shirt Ask her - if someone approached you wearing this shirt, would you give him your number? High chance the answer is yes Ask for her number. You're welcome :) Originally posted here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cdf2e/idea_for_picking_up_shop_assistant_girls/
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:13 PM
1

Salsa , yoga and kickboxing always have more women then men. Some places also teach salsa together with dances such as the bachata which allows for very close physical contact. good luck!
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:33 PM
1

This could be a legitimate opener: "Can I hold your hand? I'm kind of cold". (They see that you are actually cold). Then later "I'm not so cold anymore, but let's continue doing this, it's kind of fun!".
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:23 PM
2

Yeah, it could be that the interest is disproportionate. I am currently somewhat successful with two other ones right now. However, 'waiting for her to call' isn't quite a valid strategy. Is there anything else to do? Decreasing the amount of tries, etc? Setting up open doors for her to respond, etc?
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:15 PM
0

I agree. Some of the most successful players I know are 5'3.
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:13 PM
1

Thanks for this post. I've only discovered this subreddit since it made it to the main page.
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:02 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter