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When you talk to women,, you realize how stupid and inaccurate that incel rhetoric is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:40 PM
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What was previously referred to as "Shit tests" aren't deceptive ,, they are just saying things indirectly and seeing how the person responds. What are you referring to here as "shit test"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:39 PM
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That's a lot of words to say that you dont talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:36 PM
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"Shit test" are just normal parts of getting to know someone and their intentions in a conversation without being too direct. I say X to see how you react and respond to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:14 PM
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Sure, but wether or not it's good or bad depends on your intention. When your intentions are good and not selfish, manipulation is not generally talked about as manipulation. So when manipulation is mentioned and talked about, it's almost always negative manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:29 AM
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If you get rejected 99% of the time,, you are extremely bad at reading social ques, or just asking random people out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:08 PM
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That's why it's common that you get to know someone before you ask them on a date. Online dating sucks because you can't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:34 PM
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Then you are dating the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:54 AM
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Attraction is a feeling. Me consciously recognizing someone as attractive doesnt mean I feel attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:08 PM
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Finding someone attractive doesnt mean you are attracted to them or want to date them. I can recognize that someone is good looking while not having any attraction towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:03 PM
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Manipulation isn't particularly a skill worth respecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:41 PM
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People with antisocial personality disorders can have anxiety and all that. Anxiety and psychopathy aren't mutually exclusive nor are they even related to eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:10 PM
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The increase in divorce chance is not a relavant number for the point you are making. I'll explain it in a fictional scenario, An increase from 1% to 5% would be 500% increase in chance of divorce, but it doesnt mean anything if 100% of marriages would be unhappy. According to the survey, the chance for divorce is 16% at the highest, that is the relevant number. And it states that it is unrepresentive and cannot be used to make any nationwide assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:47 PM
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The percentage of unhappy marriages is immensly larger than the chance for divorce measured in the study. The chance for divorce is higher in the population than the chance for divorce measured in the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:38 PM
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Then you should post that data. The survey you linked doesnt particularly say anything as it explicitly stated that it is unrepresentive and cannot be used to reflect on nation wide results. In either case, if a close friend has a divorce,, the chances of divorce goes from 10% to 16% according to the survey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:32 PM
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I mean, if you have a shitty marriage,, your friend divorcing can indeed give you the courage to end it. In any other case, no, what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:23 PM
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They infact do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:19 PM
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Most men do just fine. Its A tiny minority that struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:11 PM
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Most men are not what you call "beggars". Only the desperate antisocial people who you should stay as far away from as possible in terms of dating are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:52 PM
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The empathy gap is showing hard here. Do explain why should someone feel empathy for someone who is willing to take advantage of someones feelings to feel less shitty about themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:51 PM
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Most men have incredibly low standards and have to take what they can get. That's not most men. That's just the group you should absolutely stay as far away from as possible when it comes to dating. Most men have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:47 PM
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I definetly wouldnt want anyone using me and pretending to like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:09 AM
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Someone faking affection because they don't want to be alone is < no affection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:03 AM
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How is dating someone who doesnt really like you "success"? That seems like the worst possible outcome, and definetly worse than not dating anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:00 AM
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They may have some standards when it comes to women's physical appearance, but beyond that they don't really care. To most men, it doesn't matter if a woman is a shitty person or not, as long as they find her attractive, and this is the problem. In fact, alot of behaviours that men complain about when it comes to women happen because men enable that behaviour. This makes dating harder not easier. You don't want to date someone who doesnt really care who you are. So if they fake to like you just …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:57 AM
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Bears don't just randomly maul and disfigure you. Pretty much the only scenario in which they attack humans is if they are desperate or threatened. They dont want to fight humans, they are mostly scavengers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:20 AM
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Your reply confuses me greatly as it doesnt fit in here at all. I wasnt arguing for anything, just correcting the person above who was using incorrect information and has since deleted their comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:12 PM
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Half of new relationship doesn't mean half of the people getting into relationships. It's just that online relationships are short on average so the same people are skewing the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:19 PM
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Tinder had a large group of men and small group of women to begin with. And isn't really accurate measure for anything. Luckily the median amount of sexual partners over a life time is a more accurate stat and that's something the CDC tracks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:58 AM
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Going forward, will the price of vagina continue to increase or decrease? If so, when can we expect the price of vagina to decrease in the open dating market? For the people who unironically speak like this, it does not matter as the only woman they will be consentually touching is an escort
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:10 AM
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Majority of men still seem to have casual sex, and with a relatively very much smaller group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:28 AM
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It goes something like this for most people, regardless of gender Bad relationship < single < good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:00 PM
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Why would i have a harem of women? Where did that conclusion come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:50 PM
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Are you looking to date instagram models because nothing else explains the situation you are describing here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:47 PM
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The post seems to be about an observation and the reasons behind that observable situation. There doesnt seem to be an argument anywhere, just an observation and a debate about what causes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:40 PM
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So you don't see the point in being friends with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:13 PM
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Well you generalize the shitty behaviour of some desperate cunts onto all men. And If you use incel terms, please explain what they mean so I can actually respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:31 AM
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Rape seems like a compeletely different issue to money. Why are you bringing it up here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:25 PM
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Most men are not narcisistic assholes willing to abuse someones feelings to feel less shitty about themselves. Most men are in a relationship with people who they like,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:49 PM
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What kind of romatic loneliness does being with someone you dont like fix?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:22 PM
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Most men have friends and arent that lonely to begin with. If you are so desperate to not be alone that you date people you don't want to date,, you need professional help
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:54 AM
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It most definetly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:48 AM
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Well ,, most are doing less so than most men. It's mostly a smaller group of women having sex with s large group of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:46 PM
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40% of relationships don't mean 40% of people having relationships. If person 1 has 9 relationships that lasted for a month from online and person 2 has 1 relationship which lasted 10 years, 90% of relationships in this group started from online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:10 PM
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Most guys date just fine,, and people similar to them. I am just confused as you seem to be bragging about having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:07 PM
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The study has nothing to do with what you are implying it is about. So it's clear you didn't even open it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:04 PM
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Wtf kind of incel bullshit is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:19 AM
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People really should read and understand the studies and their scope that they use as "evidence".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:11 AM
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Definetly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:24 AM
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What is an F+?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:30 PM
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Wtf? Most ment ain't dating women they don't have feelings for. Also what does money have to do with anything here? With money you should be exceptionally careful as to not show it off. Also, r/MenAndFemales
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:49 PM
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Because that feeling is what is in the center of most relationships. Most people aren't going to date someone if they don't have feelings for them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:10 PM
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What do you mean "transactional"? Have you never felt infatuation or love before? Sex isn't something you are given, it's something you experience together and which both parties enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:16 AM
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If you need a reason to find s relationship, don't get one. If you think relationships as what you can get out of them, don't get into one. Most people get feelings towards people and want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:07 AM
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Posts like these make me wonder if we are just helping some alien who has never interacted with humans to infiltrate into our society
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:09 PM
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I don't consider skills to be personality and I was specifically talking about skills, when I talk about skills I'm talking about attributes specifically for performing tasks. Skills don't exist in a vacuum. This isn't runescape. What you know affects the way you interact with everything in life. I think most people develop attraction to people who are sexually attractive to them by just looking at them I mean, no. If you get attracted to someone just by looking at them, you are creating a fanta…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:14 PM
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You just said that men don't care about skills. Like sure, nobody has a physical and thought out list of "skills". Its more so that certain things gets someone attracted. Like very few people feel attraction towards someone just by looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:55 PM
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That just says more about the people you hang out with. Most men with a healthy social life aren't out there just dating anyone that happens by who looks good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:20 PM
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I will say very little lol, the only skills I can think of men demanding is homemaking. This is just you projecting your own non-existant standards on other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:13 PM
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cutting ur one arm or cutting two arm. thats how it feels for weak man. I mean, that's how it feels for a desperate narcisitic asshole. Most people are not narcisitic assholes willing to take advantage of other peoples feelings so that they can feel less shitty about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:37 PM
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So you made a hypothetical alternative reality and asked questions about it? Why is this q4w and not a discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:03 PM
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And for those people really need an intervention. They are not in a good point of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:51 PM
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u are more attractive than u realize or its the exception. thats all. That is the standard, not some "exception"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:46 PM
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If your relationship is not loving and mutually generous, leave it. Most people don't deal with toxic relationships for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:43 PM
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Respondants clearly had the option to select multiple options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:00 PM
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At 15-19 years old median men have about 100% more sexual partners. https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Median-number-of-opposite-sex-sexual-partners-in-lifetime-by-age-and-sex_fig6_7517094
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:22 PM
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The mean might be similar enough for men and women, but it's distributed so that most women are near the average (which is much higher than studies report) whereas most men are either far below or far above the average. Actually it's the opposite. The median 25-49 year old man has had about 50% more sexual partners than the median woman of the same age. So, larger group of men are sleeping with smaller group of women. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:11 PM
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Sharing what worked for you isnt really advice at all. There is so much nuance in social interactions that it really doesnt help anyone to give someone a small description of the whole situation. Good advice can be given when you observe your friend and see how they interact with people and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:02 PM
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A person might not be doing anything wrong though, they might just be wrong. Well, I suppose major disabilities makes things very hard. Though, most people struggling don't have some major disability and instead are doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:57 PM
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Brits have been doing their own thing. I mostly meant continental Europe. Very few employers care if your degree is from oxford or from University of Silesia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:53 PM
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Would you take advice on how to run a marathon from someone who's never even had to walk in their lives? That's how we end up with "just be yourself, bro" What? Would you take dating advice from someone who has never dated before? Of course the assumption here was that the friend has experience and thus is able to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:51 PM
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But even the most empathetic person can't really give real dating and career advice to people who are widely different from them. Its's not just empathy that helps with that, its experience. When you witness and are a part of a lot of social interactions, you learn how different types of people react to different things and what the reactions mean. And thus you can guide your friend when you notice the reactions they cause And people are most commonly friends with people who are atleast somewhat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:46 PM
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We are talking about advice given by a friend who knows what the person is doing wrong. The generic advice you see online has nothing to do with that. Nobody online can give you meaningful dating advice because they dont know exactly how you go about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:35 PM
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It's hard for people to accept that some people simply have nothing going for them, and that there is thus no advice that could work for them. If someone has nothing going on, then the advice should be focused on them to get something going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:14 PM
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Most socially adjusted people can give personalised advice if they know you well enough instead of projecting their own situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:29 PM
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I didn't I'm still involved in them. It's just pointless to tell people to get hobbies in hopes of a relationship. That is true. Do not start a hobby hoping it gets you a relationship. But it does give you more opportunities to meet someone who you like when you meet more people, especially with similar interest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:21 PM
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Porn is harmful even in relatively low amounts and the addiction to it doesn't nececcarily present itself like substance addictions for example would. I would know, I have had first hand experience ,, or "right hand experience" if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:51 PM
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You don't seem to talk to a lot of women do you? That's definetly not the experience of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:35 PM
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Most women arent some instagram models who have 1000 people in their DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:28 PM
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GenZ is 1997-2012 2012 was 12 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:18 PM
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If you are unattractive to everyone, then that's propably self induced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:20 AM
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You should only be in a relationship with people you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:40 AM
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Yes. And oldest are 27. And with young adulthood being around 18-26 years of age, most of genZ are either kids or young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:16 PM
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Youngest of gen Z is presently 12 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:11 PM
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Because what you provided isn't really anything that can be used to answer your question with. The only advice that really can be given is that don't talk about money in the beginning to avoid gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:39 PM
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Remember almost 70% of all men report being single now. These numbers are disturbing & not debatable I mean, that number is just false.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:22 PM
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Gen Z are kids and young adults. Of course you aren't going to be amazing at relationships without experience. This stuff is learned with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:19 PM
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But luckily that's not something you have to worry about as that isnt the case in our universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:00 PM
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However, if a similar stereotype is applied to women (women like men who have status and money), the responses vary. They might deflect with statements like "Not all of us are like that; we are all different so you can't make a claim like that," People speak from their point of view. Instead of trying to figure out why some people are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:34 PM
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The exact meaning of the words is a small part of the whole thing. Only about 10% of the communication is the meaning of the words. The rest is how you act and say those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:49 PM
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Seeing you with another man or woman will be even more devastating. If you care for them at all, don't do it. Why? Crushes aint that deep, you propably arent thinking about your old crushes even a month after a rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:31 PM
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Why does this read like a 4chan post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:50 AM
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It is 2 seperate trials. it is not a case of which will look worse. She was placed under reasonable fear of bodily harm due to his intimidation. Then there is the retaliatory strike with the hammer which looks like it was not intended to hit the person so it likely isnt assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:03 PM
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Maybe he should press charges for assault and vandalism with a deadly weapon and drive his point home, then sue the restaurant. Neither party is blameless. He can sue, but the cashier can also press charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:25 PM
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That's basically what we have here. It doesn't really do anything to help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:32 PM
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How do you guarantee the ability to chase dreams when there is a kid that requires 2 dayjobs worth of attention for the first few years?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:10 PM
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Attractive or physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:13 AM
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Those kind of major deformaties that would prevent you from dating aren't that common. So it's infinitely more likely to be something else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:50 AM
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It's definetly not the norm for men. Most people marry people who make similar amounts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:04 PM
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"If you think apple is sweet, do you also think that oranges are bitter?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:31 PM
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They are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:57 PM
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These are not equivalent. But people who date for money are called all sorts of things incase you haven't noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:48 PM
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As a man, I share OP's question. Why do people try to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:10 PM
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This all sounds like its a guide for casual sex. i dont know a single person who thinks like this. I feel like you are just projecting. You are shallow and dont care about the people you date, so you expect everyone else to be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:21 AM
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Yes I'm talking about money/status as an attractor for female Why would you want a gold digger who is attracted to your money? People who make a lot go to great lenghts in hiding their financial situation when dating to avoid that. Yes I agree that most people date and marry people who look similar, earn similar etc. There's a reason for that. Yes, and it is simply proximity and similarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:07 AM
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I'm talking about real relationships. Where people pair bond (aka fall in love) and develop an actual partnership. Where they raise kids together. But you were talking about money and "status" so no you were not talking about relationships. Most people date and marry people who earn similar amount and are in similar socioeconomic class
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:05 AM
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I suspect this is the real reason. Money and status is how a large % of men attract women. But because women are actually outpacing men in college attendance and graduation. There's not enough men who are either good looking enough to date for looks alone or have enough money/status to attract women. I don't think that many men are looking to date gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:01 AM
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Explain why it isn't how it works. People are nuanced, social situations are nuanced, attraction is nuanced. You cannot reduce it down to some stats and subjective x/10 ratings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:41 PM
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I love every bit of this :D ,, it's hilarious to read these posts. But as a man, I can confidently that just isnt how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:32 PM
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no shit women dont like the ugly reality of male effort exposed. This isnt "male effort" This is some weird thing chronically online and socially isolated people seem to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:28 PM
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3rd if she's not attracted to you it'll come off as harassment What the fuck kind of conversations are you having with strangers that would come of as harrasment? Like, you don't just walk up to someone to say that they are cute. Thats weird, you kind of are supposed to get the other person interested in talking with you before you escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:31 PM
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Yeah, it is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:24 PM
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Why are you spying on "top dudes" when they are in private with their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:14 PM
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that’s theft. Not entitlement. You would be entitled to your property. The situation also being theft doesnt change the fact that you are entitled to it. Entitlement as a word isn't negative by itself. Its the context which gives it that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:24 PM
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There is no contradictions. That wasnt my point. My point was that anyone who thinks that not being fat is enough, is a person you should stay as far away from as possible, when you want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:11 PM
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Have you ever had a crush or been in love? People don't give a shit about anyone else if they actually like you. The feeling you get is like nothing and nobody else matters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:02 PM
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Your first choise is often bad. Most people don't marry their high school sweethearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:59 PM
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What you said was All a woman has to do is not be fat. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:42 PM
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Nobody wants a relationship with someone, who would be willing to date you just because you are not overweight. You want someone who also cares about much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:36 PM
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To be fair, this is only the case with the people you want to stay as far away as possibe. Nobody you'd actually want to consider for a relationship is like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:29 PM
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Thinking that you deserve a relationship is indeed being entitled. Wether or not entitlement is a bad or a good thing depends on other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:12 PM
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Wanting is just desiring something, entitlement is thinking that you inherently should or deserve to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:02 PM
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For the same reason I dont view non-virgin guys over 25 as "leftovers". Because who the fuck does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:56 PM
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Are men and women meant to be friends for a period of time before becoming more intimate? How is a platonic friendship to be achieved, only to have it morph into something more. Since attraction is, in this scenario, already present - how does a man or woman build on the friendship first for a healthy relationship in future. Do you bypass friendship all together? Nope. you never should become friends with someone in hopes that you date them later. Friendship is friendship, if it turns into somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:08 PM
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Quora is pretty much just a troll site at this point. I dont think there's anybody left asking sincere questions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:40 PM
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You forgot to actually post the picture. Though, the question wasnt if it is biggest, online relationships have the trait that they are usually very short, so the same people hopping from relationship to relationship will give it an advantage in that regards. The question was about you using modified data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:53 PM
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Likely just removed the ones that are redundant The whole pandemic period is redundant when analyzing where new relationships are formed each year. So that can't be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:27 PM
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That's not the only change. Some categories are outright removed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:16 PM
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Why is that graph edited to show different numbers, than the credited author showed in his paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:50 AM
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If you are in a spot where you think that you "need a relationship", you are not in a position to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:13 PM
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Thats why I said will do. People have all sorts of issues in their early 20's. Regardless of that, most men ages 18-29 are having regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:53 PM
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??? So a study about dating doesn't relate to anything about dating? Is that what we are trying to argue now? Go ahead and try to make it make sense. It makes perfect sense when you take it as what it is. It's a dating app. You remove the human part of dating and swipe on people based on a few pictures. You arent attracted to people you swipe, you just think they are good looking enough People reject people on dating apps they wouldve talked to in a natural context, because that just is part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:35 PM
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The study is about OKcupid ratings. It doesnt relate to anything here. Also the stats with the loneliness epidemic match up precisely with this. Loneliness isnt about dating. 10% of US adults doesnt have a single friend. That is what the loneliness epidemic is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:27 PM
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women only find 20% of men attractive. In other words it doesn't matter how much a guy tries he's basically screwed if he's not apart of that desired 20% (aka Chad). You should leave those incel forums where you find that kind of bullshit. Most men will do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:24 PM
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Except average women reject guys too. Just being "equal" doesnt mean you are compatible or that the other person likes you. People don't date based on some "stats" they date based on feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:15 PM
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Nobody's been priviledged with apps besides people looking for hook ups. For everyone else its just looking for a diamond in a pile of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:11 PM
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People can fulfill their sexual needs on their own by masturbating. You do not need a partner to fulfill those needs. If you feel like lack of sex is affecting your day to day life, it might be a sign of an underlying issue, like hypersexuality disorder and you should seek help from mental health professional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:50 AM
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Well, I am 22 and most people i know are against it on some level. They would hate to have some 30+ year old hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:07 PM
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Speaking to me isnt "doing something" to me. Touching someone is doing something to a person and you indeed can't just go around touching people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:13 PM
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better question, why do you think you're allowed to control what other people do? Why shouldn't I be allowed to control what other people do to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:36 PM
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I am trying to understand what even was your point. You didnt make it very clear in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:15 PM
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So, if someone robs me, the assumption is that i wanted to give them my money without specifically denying it? rather than the alternative where it's assumed that I dont want to give them money, so they have to ask if i want to give them money?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:00 PM
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In a debate, it's crucial to focus on one main point at a time to avoid confusion and ensure clarity. Additionally, using clear, simple language insteaf of jargon or complex terms makes your argument more accessible and easier for your audience to understand and you more professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:47 PM
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Not that i've noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:41 PM
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Pandemic might have had short term effects on it, but things seemed to go right back to normal after restrictions ended. But I am not sure how the short period of higher than we are used to inflation affected all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:36 PM
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Well, 70% of men aged 18-24 and about 90% of men aged 24-35 reported to have had sex in the last year in a study done in 2018. Trends in Frequency of Sexual Activity and Number of Sexual Partners Among Adults Aged 18 to 44 Years in the US, 2000-2018 - PMC (nih.gov) The fact is that most men aren't struggling to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:28 PM
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Why did you start yapping something about respect and hobbies, if it's all about marketing and personal gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:39 PM
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Where do they get accused of exploitation? What? I have never heard anyone ever say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:49 PM
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Yes, it is, you fundamentally hold different men and women to different standards of respect all the time, this is your foundational expression of hierarchy. You say this, yet you give 2 examples where respect has nothing to do with the way I communicate. Sounds like even you don't know what status is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:43 PM
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The wider social attitude blames the cheater, not the person that the cheater cheated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:02 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:35 PM
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It's a tiny minority of men. Most men will do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:26 PM
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Ofcourse "status" still exists in some contexts. But its not a part of our interactions or daily lives like it used to be some hundreds of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:10 PM
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Yes, that's why most people don't talk about or think about "status". It simply isnt a meaningful part of todays society or social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:07 PM
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I noticed this a while ago, and I notice it even more on this sub whenever a some guy makes a post about criticising anything about women. To be fair, most of the "criticising" I see here is emotionally loaded generalization and fringe opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:45 PM
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I mean, I wasnt referring to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:42 PM
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and when talking to men Now that's not true at all. I hear about "pickmes" and "annoying bitches" very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:34 PM
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So status just is just a general term that can mean literally anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:28 PM
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Other languages aren't relevant. And yes water runs in English. If you'd only bother reading what I just wrote. The word denotes a literal action taken by animals.. And is thus used metaphorically when describing water.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:50 PM
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Water doesn't run, run is an action performed by animals. the word is being used metaphorically in the sentence. The meaning of runoff is learned seperately. A lot of places don't do it with that word. For example in finnish language, water can't run. If you refer to water as "running", you could only know what is going on if you knew that it was a literal translation and knew the methaphorical meaning in english.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:41 PM
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Oftentimes yes. Runoff = Runoff is excess water that flows across the land and into waterways. Run = "move at a speed faster than a walk, never having both or all the feet on the ground at the same time" Off = "away from a place or position, especially the present place, position, or time:" And with slang words, its even less related, you have to look at the term as a whole. Analyzing the individual words too literally doesnt make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:12 PM
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Depends how you define it. I know a lot of women that still entertain fuck boys because they get sex they want out of it. I mean, the generally accepted definition in todays mainstream usage of the word describes a man who engages in selfish or inconsiderate behavior, particularly in romantic or sexual contexts. This includes being manipulative, dishonest, or lacking commitment, often pursuing multiple partners without regard for their feelings. The oringinal meaning that emerged in early 2000's…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:06 PM
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Those 2 don't refer to the same thing. Fuckboy = A guy who plays with girls feelings and doesn't really like them and would do and say anything a girl wants to hear to have sex with them or to get something they want. Bangmaid = refers to a woman who is expected to perform both domestic chores and sexual favors, typically within the context of a relationship or arrangement where she is exploited or devalued.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:53 PM
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Compound words very often mean different things than the words that make up the compound word. Especially when you try to define the words independently like OP did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:49 PM
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Let's break it down. The first part. You don't break compound words up like this. Blackboard = Board that is used to write on with a chack Black board = a board that is black.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:43 PM
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To be fair, if someone I didn't know walked up to me to say "Hi there" or something similar, I'd assume they are tring to sell me something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:42 PM
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A trait that increases statistical desireability by 1% cross-culturally is absolutely meaningless in trying to describe the preferences of an average individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:31 PM
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What exactly are you saying so that people find issues with a short conversation that fits the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:12 PM
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Stop looking to date gold diggers or porn stars then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:03 PM
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You failed to explain what exactly is the "what is wrong with dating now"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:19 PM
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I have never seen that happen. People dont get attracted to others because someone else notices someone. They might get attracted because they notice that someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:13 PM
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Women see others looking up to you, they become attracted Where does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:54 AM
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In what situation? And why would millions of people give a shit about me? I don't know them, why would they even think about me if I dont make myself particularly noticeable in the moment? I dont assing "value" to randoms i see on the street either, that would be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:32 PM
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What does that mean in practise? We dont have some leaderboard that we rank on, so who does the judgeing and determining of your status, and what influence it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:56 PM
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When Chad-Rones have 100s of options, he doesn't need to be "available" in a relationship. Sure, in terms of character, Chad-Rone is cool. Chad-Rone is way more of an interesting person to kick it with as a man-to-man friend. So what you are saying is that Bob and Carl are only "available" because they are desperate and have no options? Would they be unavailable if they had more options? If so, they would be just as bad, or even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:49 AM
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Well, to be fair, most types of bears are more so just opportunistic scavengers rather than predators. A bear doesnt want to fight you. They know that there is a risk of injury and death when enaging large animals, so they prefer not to, unless they feel forced. Except polar bears, dont mess with polar bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:48 AM
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are all feelings that wont necessarily lead you to the person you should be with. The only person you should be with is the person you want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:14 PM
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That is not how it works for men. Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:31 AM
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I find explicit conversations about it very weird, then again, I have never used a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:36 AM
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Yes, and that is a shitty thing to do. If you don't want to be with them, don't be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:44 PM
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So if I date a 300 pound woman I date her because I like her? That would generally be the expectation. Most people date who they like and are attracted to. If you date someone you don't like and arent attracted to, you would fall under what is often referred to as an "asshole"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:13 PM
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However, men don't seem to care much about a woman's social rank; in fact, they might even prefer non-famous people. Most people, men and women would prefer a non-famous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:45 PM
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Then why did you put the word "PRIMARY" in there? It changes the entire meaning of the sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:40 PM
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You specifically stated that starting a relationship is pointless without sex or family being the PRIMARY reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:17 PM
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So, should we debate the fact that you don't want a relationship, or why is this marked as debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:17 PM
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What you women dont seem to understand with his arguments is that while his conclusion is rather sad and those situations are creepy or scummy he is correct that they arent illegal. The situation being described here can fall under a lot of different crimes. Kicking someone out of your car in a remote or unsafe location would very easily fall under reckless endagerement. If there is coercion being used, like said in the previous messages, it would propably fall under kidnapping and unlawful rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:32 AM
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Where did you check that? Because OF has just about 2 million content creators globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:16 AM
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Why is the title about sexual assault, but the whole post talks about rape specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:27 AM
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What does this mean? And like, single parents only exists when the other parents abandons their responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:43 PM
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You stated as your goal to insult people, when i asked what was the point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:52 AM
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Pointing out that most single women aren't worth more than some fucks. So you just wanted to insult people without wanting to achieve anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:32 AM
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Then what is the point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:29 AM
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If you need to be told a reason to take someone seriously, propably don't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:27 AM
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To most sane and good men, this sounds like an accusation of guilt by association - "you're still indistinguishable from the worst of your kind - so much so that I'd rather be eaten alive than risk being around you". To be fair, bears don't view humans as a food source. If a bear attacks, it's in almost every case for defensive reasons, most bears want even less to do with you, than you want with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:54 PM
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What are you on about? Its very relevant, and atleast logically sound. Bears don't want to deal with humans. Humans aren't prey to them. If a bear attacks you, it's almost always a defensive reaction from the bear. Thats why playing dead is so effective against grizzly bears, it signals to them that the threat is neutralized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:07 PM
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objective looks standpoint What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:08 PM
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Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? No, I have not seen that. Infat, its pretty much the opposite. I am 22, and most people I know thinks that large age gap relationships are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:20 PM
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My grandparents have been married for 60 years, and they still love eachother. I am sorry that your marriage didn't work out, but generalizing based on that doesnt seem like a helpfull thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:02 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm This shows the numbers for the ages 25-49.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:53 AM
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It seems to be the opposite. The median man has had about twice the amount of sexual partners at the age 40 than the median woman. So its a larger group of men sleeping with a smaller group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:33 AM
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I have one, Ideal would be 4 I am 22
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:16 AM
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The same way it changed society in most of Europe, not in any way, shape, or form. Most people dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:45 PM
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Considering that crime is a means to get resources yes, so would if you remove half of men as you'll have double the resources relative to population. A person produces more than they consume on average, so you would have less usable resources relative to the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:00 PM
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They just don't want to compete constantly with other "high performers" This just seems like a personal insecurity. You arent "competing" with anyone, you have already "won". People in a happy relationship with a person they like aren't looking to date other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:22 PM
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The assumption is he did but wasn't able to. Most men are limited by their looks in how much sex they have in life Most men are limited by not going out of their way to have casual sex. Though, the median man still has had about 8 sexual partners by the age 40
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:57 AM
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And what if he doesnt want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:37 AM
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Attraction isn't about judgement or delusions, it is a feeling, it isn't logical, it just is. You cannot choose to be attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:44 PM
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And if we dont go by the incel shit, it's because normal people are attracted to normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:00 PM
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rise of inflation and so on Inflation has been quite mild in the grand scheme of things. And it was just a short peak, like it always is. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:10 AM
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Why would few inches of bone have anything to do with anything? It's not like being a couple inches shorter makes you undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:52 AM
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How they work depends on the context. So you have to be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:03 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:18 PM
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I dont even know what people talk about when they say "status". Like, wtf does it mean? We arent in high school anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:29 PM
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The opposite of conservatism is progressivism. The opposite of liberalism is authoritarianism. Conservatism and liberalism arent on the same axis, and are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:21 PM
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Which would be a perfectly acceptable standard if it also applied to women. Since it doesn't, I see no reason why men ought to accept it. But it does? Men aren't doing much the whole giving birth thing last time i checked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:03 AM
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Are these men abandoning kids they consented to have? Or are they just refusing to accept the burden of a woman's unilateral choice? Children born out of a woman raping a man arent that common? If the man had sex with a woman, he has accepted the possibility of being a father
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:40 PM
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Here again you give conflicting statements. People who likes you on tinder arent attracted to you. They might think you look good enough, but there almost never is any attraction in that point. So "HVM" is just someone, who a certain group of women find decent looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:58 PM
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Its hard to understand, because this sounds like so highschool explanation. I don't know how partying a lot makes someone "high value"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:52 PM
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"High value" in terms of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:38 PM
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"High value" to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:32 PM
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You are not an asshole, but The thing is, unless you actually meet and talk to women regularly, or share hobbies ect, nobody is actually legitimately interested in you. People aren't legitimately interested in someone they match with on dating apps or see on the street. People just don't care that much about random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:09 PM
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This sounds like its straight from incels.is. But no. "Many" women are not like that. Its a very tiny minority of people you propably dont even get to see unless you flex your wealth around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:49 PM
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Ok what if you don't want a relationship after she did something post-sex? That is not what the conversation at hand is about. What the post is about is pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:47 PM
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Then tell her you dont want a relationship with her. If she leaves, you weren't on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:18 PM
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Being intentionally vague in practice is what makes you sexually successful. Yes, being manipulative is an effective strategy if all you want is casual sex. If you want to be a piece of shit, then be a piece of shit, but atleast own up to it instead of trying to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:18 PM
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You're missing a huge middle ground That falls under the mutual understanding. Both parties understands and takes the situation for what it is. Nobody has the intentions of hooking up with people at a party to find relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:15 PM
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It's not always deception. Sometimes men are intentionally vague and women will fill in the blanks themselves. Or women will think that once she has sex with a guy that he'll want to commit even though he didn't before, like she has a magic pussy or some shit. Oh it absolutely is. Deception: Deception is an act or statement that misleads, hides the truth, or promotes a belief, concept, or idea that is not true Being intentionally vague is an act that misleads and hides the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:56 PM
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One night stand assumes mutual understanding. Pump and dump is lying and deception. Pump and dump is just a man pretending to be interested in a relationship with a woman just to disappear when they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:34 PM
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I think the whole thing he's going at is it seems a greater proportion of people of the same age demographic are single than maybe was the case in the past and maybe that has some underlying implications for the state of modern dating (something this subreddit is very interested in talking about). Its not even about modern dating, its about modern socializing. People sit home all the time instead of going to places. People have less friends than ever before and this naturally affects things. Lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:31 AM
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Relationships is not the way to address lonelines. If you try to fix loneliness with relationships, all you end up with is a short lived and codependant relationship and you are worse of than when you started.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:29 AM
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Man its telling you have never been in a relationship. And with these ideas, that wont ever change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:17 AM
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The thing is, there is pretty much nobody who is 40 years old and attractive to your average 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:19 AM
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Why would that matter if there is no feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:18 PM
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Why would that be the case? Pretty much anyone is able to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:23 PM
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What is a win and what is a lose in dating? They say "oh if you fail it's just because you're toxic" when in reality toxicity has little to do with success or failure. Being toxic can be the reason for people not wanting to be with you. It really just depends on how well you can hide it in the beggining, and what kind of people you are trying to get with. The incels are shit at hiding their toxic attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:37 PM
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What a weird way of thinking about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:24 PM
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because men gatekeep relationships. So what is the difference between a toxic fuckboy, and the toxic turbovirgin who thinks like this? Both are toxic, both are people you should propably stay away from
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:22 PM
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These things are propably caused by the same thing. The reason he posts this and the reason he does not have relationships or sex life are propaly closely linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:38 PM
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I like how you were crying earlier about ad-hominems, yet half your comments are such
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:40 PM
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Pretty ironic coming from someone who has made around 20 reddit posts within the last day or so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:24 PM
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You explained nothing. You brought up some random reddit comments as your "explanation"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:16 PM
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What bullshit exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:12 PM
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the difference is most women’s are unrealistic and delusional. This is not actually the case. And standards are standards. They are something you choose. Standards gets thrown out of the window if you actually like someone. And just because someone meets your standard doesnt mean you like them or want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:45 PM
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Also, dating apps and our culture in general, most women can get a man with little effort, (and not just for casual sex it’s all wrapped up together) the opposite of men’s experience. Finding anyone is not the hard part, this goes for men aswell. The hard part is finding someone who likes you, and who you like. Very few wants the dude who would be fine being with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:37 PM
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"Overpopulation" is well on its way to fixing itself. What we need is something to manage the demographic collapse that follows it in the mean time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:22 PM
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It really depends. 65k in New York city is enough to pay rent on a 30sqm studio apartment and essentials. 65k in a rural town gets you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:19 AM
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There’s not a legal requirement that the father be identified on a birth certificate. A father can file to establish a paternity. So yes, the father has the legal right to be the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:12 AM
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First off, you are 100% wrong. There are safe haven laws that allow women to abandon new born babies completely anonymously. Well, not here the very least, or most other places for that matter. And even in USA, safe haven providers must be hospitals ect. Not some fire station. And if the mother says she doesn’t know who the father is, no father has to consent. The father is on the birth certificate. you cant just afterwards say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:36 PM
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It's also the mans choise. Both are equally responsible if that results in a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:32 PM
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Women can also abandon their child at a hospital or fire station. This results in up to 20 years in prison. They can also put the baby up for adoption. Both parents must consent to the adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:28 PM
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How so? They are the ones giving birth and living with that kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:24 PM
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Then there is the consideration of what benefit a bad relationship bring you? Like, why would anyone want to get into a relationship just for the sake of being in one. The hard part for almost everyone is to actually find someone you like and want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:12 PM
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If you're an attractive guy you can have no relationship for 1 reason only - you yourself don't want it. This applies to pretty much anyone. Anyone could have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:00 PM
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There is such a group for men also.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:41 PM
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If 80%+ of people in a particular group engage in a particular behaviour to me the words "most" and the word "many" can be used to describe them. What does 80% have to do with anything here? The gorup you are talking about in your OP is definetly not a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:01 PM
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Many needs a plural verb in front of it to mean "most people". Without a plural verb, it means a lot of people, but not most
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:54 PM
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Most >50%, Many <50%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:43 PM
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The third of men reproducing is very much mislead statistic. it doesn't say anything about that at all. Most men have reproduced, some just did it more. Like Genghis Khan, who has 1000-3000 children born from rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:04 PM
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You don't need to evaluate something to know if you like being around someone. Attraction is a feeling, you don't calculate it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:41 PM
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Virgins are ugly, literally nobody wants them by definition. It's the best benchmark of attractiveness. No healthy heterosexual man wants to spend his life without sex. I was talking ugly as in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:03 AM
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I said ugly, not virgin. Virgins exists, sure. People so ugly, that they are virgin because of their ugliness are so much rarer. Like, I haven't even seen someone so ugly, that they can't date anyone because the way they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:50 AM
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How do you even evaluate personality in okcupid? You have a picture and text messages to go off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:47 AM
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I have never actually met someone, that is so ugly, that that would be the problem. But yeah, being poor is not that big of an obstacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:43 AM
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I've never seen or heard anyone do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:33 PM
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You do stuff like this and then at the same time claim to have high emotional intelligence and be a normal person? This is not a sing of a normal, healthy human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:07 PM
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So someone who is miserable with someone just needs to shut up and be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:04 PM
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They give you an idea where most part of a certain population exists. That is where the median comes in. Using average number for this kind purpose would be very stupid. Average of (1, 4, 5, 7, 19) is 7.2. So in this scenario, 80% of numbers are below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:09 PM
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When a man say he's lonely is because he have no one. Friendlessness is indeed a problem, but it is not exclusive to men-. they don't have the company they want. Yes, this is a big part of loneliness. Feeling like you don't have people you fit in with makes you feel alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:55 AM
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How so? If I have a friend who runs 20k in 1hour and 10 minutes, it doesn't add any value to start saying that an average woman runs 20k slower than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:14 AM
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Why does the average matter when you are looking at individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:12 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:07 PM
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Basically she sees the guy as a source of laughter / entertainment. But she doesn't really care about HIM as a person Wtf is this? People don't think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:53 PM
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Simply due to to proximity. Similar people tend to do similar things, hang around in similar places and meet each other that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:46 PM
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Relationships like that happen, but marriages are somewhat rare in those kinds of situations nowadays. People mostly tend to marry and get into relationships with people within similar socioeconomic situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:36 PM
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People dont get into relationships with people they don't want to be with all that often. At least in the west. Gold diggers are rather rare in the grand scheme of things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:31 PM
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I would imagine it is pretty much the same thing that guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:29 PM
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Luckily, there is a paper that tells us exactly the effects of immigration on fertility rate in france. Which appears to be around 5% but as only a minority of women are concerned, their births increase the French fertility rate by just 0.1 children, from 1.8 to 1.9 children per woman in 2017. French fertility rates top the rankings in Europe not so much for reasons of immigration, but rather because fertility among native-born women is high. https://www.ined.fr/fichier/s_rubrique/29428/cp_pop_e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:25 PM
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Not gonna lie, This looks like 2 middle schoolers texting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:05 PM
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having more partners should be understood to mean top men. Most men have more partners than most women. Median man has had twice the amount of partners by the age 45 than the median woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:21 PM
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You went on some weird rant where you sounded like a robot from mars trying to describe how humans feel, so it kind of threw me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:53 PM
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My argument is about prostitution being majorly prevalent. Like major exposure. Very active in the culture/society That’s the basis of my argument. Your argument is something that will just never happen and can't happen. Most people do not want part in it. Prostitution does not replace a human connection. People aren't that desperate for casual sex that any significant proprotion of a population will pay for a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:06 PM
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Prostitution is legal and accepted in several western nations and you can just see that it affected nothing at all. Most people are not involved with it, most people don't care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:22 PM
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Only if you are dating gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:16 PM
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Both result in similar outcomes. Flashing wealth attracts the people who want that wealth rather than wanting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:11 PM
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Both studies look at violence and drug use given homelessness and actively encourage means of combating it. That’s just a fact that you’re ignoring. I am not ignoring anything, I am just pointing out the fact, that neither of the studies is relevant here. Dude, progress isn’t made by flipping a magic switch to make all people housed. That can happen but is currently political infeasible. Any progress is progress. This is not progress. Its doing something that looks like you are helping. There is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:26 PM
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reduce crime another The study you linked talks about how abandoned housing affects crime rates. It is not relevant here. The other one looks at kids drug use. Lmao no. Temporary shelter is a temporary home. Evidence routinely shows that homes The scale matters. It temporarily houses 32 people. It is 0.03% of the homeless population of the area, it is a non-solution, it doesn't do anything to fix the underlying issues, or remedy its effects. All this does is gathers homeless people near kids. Is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:13 PM
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With sufficient management they won’t be a problem. This is a temporary shelter, there is no managing anything involved. And drug addicts and homeless people are more dangerous roaming than actually receiving care This is a temporary shelter, there is no care or anything else. The only thing it achieves is that those homeless people and drug addicts are now roaming around the daycare and school area.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:44 PM
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There is some context missing. The shelter was not meant for abused men, it was mainly planned to house drug addicts and men with mental issues. I can imagine why you don't want such place next to a daycare center or school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:38 PM
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<image> Something like this. A lot of men having casual sex with the smaller percentage of women who are also wanting it plays a part in explaining it., but it isnt the whole story
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:02 PM
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Its the median, not the average. Average is the same for both. Median is the middle number of a data set, 50% are above the median, and 50% are below.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:23 PM
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You cannot exactly get that data in any other way. But it does make sense, a lot of guys are looking for casual sex when they are young
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:18 PM
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Median man has had about twice as many sexual partners as the median woman when they turn 45. Way more men have more sexual partners than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:30 PM
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Its very relevant, it explains the nuances and causes of the situation. Talking about averages ect is meaningless in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:24 PM
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Either become part of the top 20%, or live long enough to die. 99% of men arent virgins at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:39 PM
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What you are offering is reckless endangerement trough practising medicine without a lisence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:51 PM
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Loneliness is when you are lonely. It has very little to do with dating or "getting none". And who is Chad? And why do you think everyone with a partner is a "chad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:58 PM
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It's common knowledge that women find a much smaller % of men attractive than vice versa. Invisible women exist but in fewer numbers. Nobody is truly invisible unless you make yourself truly invisible. If you never interact with people, hang out with friends, do stuff ect. A better metric would be to look at the numbers of older forever single virgin men vs women. Why would that be the better metric? Like, those spaces attract certain types of people. Most, even normal virgins arent drawn to tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:11 PM
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Man, go outside. You literally speak like a stereotypical incel right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:00 PM
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No, it is not. If nobody wants to be with you, the problem is you, and not just the way you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:57 PM
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Young men are without relationship and sex, because young men are isolated and online. It has nothing to do with "chads"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:52 PM
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Friendzone just means that someone likes someone as more than friends, when that person only views them as friend. Nobody puts anyone in the friendzone, you go there yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:18 PM
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but thankfully the illusion that women are the fairer and more moral sex is rapidly deteriorating. This is not, and was never a thing? What are you yapping about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:25 PM
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what are you even asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:23 PM
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So you mean to say you don't talk to women? This is kind of what i mean with people being more isolated. They just sit online instead of interacting with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:19 PM
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Younger people are also more isolated than ever before. 10% of people reported to not having a single friend. That plays massive part in why young people especially are having harder time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:56 PM
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And now you said it again. You don't just randomly walk up to someone to talk to them in most situations, you talk to people in appropriate situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:04 AM
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It definetly was implied. Because a normal and short conversation is something that very few thinks negatively about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:49 AM
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Its 2 sexual partners for men aged 15-19, and 1 for women. Its 4 for men aged 20-24 and 3 for women Its 6 for men aged 25-29 and 4 for women Its 6 for men aged 30-34 and 4 for women Its 7 for men aged 35-39 and 4 for women Its 8 for men aged 40-44 and 4 for women. Link
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:17 PM
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Well, most men are having more sex than most women. Median amount of sexual partners for men aged 45 was 8, while the median for women was 4. So most women are having less sexual partners than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:09 PM
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Have you watched his videos? Almost everything is exaggerated, misrepresented, false or just straight up weird opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:23 PM
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It's not up to me to rebute claims that are straight up unfounded, exaggerated, or false. That's not how stuff works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:18 PM
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"Incel crap". He's not a blackpiller, jesus christ. It's quite obvious he isn't. If you can't even tell the truth about his follower count, why should i believe you when you say you even watched 1 of his videos? Have you watched his videos? One video in his instagram was talking about how its bad when woman have male friends. It's literally the stereotypical incel stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:14 PM
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I don't need to convince people otherwise. Everyone with any kind of social life knows he is speaking shit. The videos are not aimed for well adjusted people, its aimed towards incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:10 PM
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a) Check his comments. A lot of women like and agree with it. I wouldn't really call him a redpiller/blackpiller/incel, he has said repeatedly that he regrets treating women poorly when he finally got better with them, and also give s women advice. I don't know about that, but every single video i watched on his instagram page was some weird incel crap. Alongside with most of his youtube channel. You know it's not very effective to gaslight me when i can just open up the link, right? You link me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:08 PM
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Probably because he has a degree in developmental psychology, has extensively studied evolutionary psychology, and uses his knowledge to dumb down concepts in ways regular people understand. Do you have any real rebuttals other than "name bad"? He does not seem to have his linkedin or real name anywhere in his socials, so this remains unconfirmed. he is not dumbing anything down for anyone, he is making content for incels that confirms their warped beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:06 PM
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a) he's not an incel I don't know if he is personally, but that is his core audience. He is directly making content for incels. b) it's closer to 500k It is 361k c) a lot of women like his shit Where is this information from? From what I can see, its being laughed at by everyone in his instagram comments. Youtube comments are harder to shit trough, as there appears to be way too much bots posting variation of the exact same comments with similar usernames.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:59 PM
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I wouldnt call 300k subscribers "blew up". Vast majority of what he posts is just some weird incel shit. It appeals to some parts young and inexperienced audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:47 PM
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Why is someone called "hoe_math" taken as anything other than a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:13 PM
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Anyone can get laid once in their lives, sure. Anyone can't get laid in the colloquial sense with any consistency. The median amount of sex partners for men when they turn 45 is 8 The median amount of sex partners for women when they turn 45 is 4 So, its few women who are having sex with a lot of men. It means that whoever women are picking to fuck and commit to are what they consider high value. So everyone is high value? I dont get how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:36 PM
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I assumed it, because it was implied in your comment. Nobody will think negatively of a friendly conversation that was not forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:06 PM
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Except anyone can't get laid. They absolutely can. About 1% of 25-30 year olds are virgins. And among crackhead females I suppose. Women* And does this mean that fuckboys are "high value" to women who seek casual sex while being "low value" to everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:28 PM
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I was referring how fat women are. Stats show they are, in fact, little squealing fatties. Well, 34% of american men are obese, while 27% of american women are obese. Also, they spread for Chad whenever possible. If they belly up to the buffet, why wouldn't they belly up to all the Chads around them? Who is Chad? And that being said, there's still no reason for a woman to pretend to commit, other than to get that money. Pretending to commit is indeed very transactional. Most women dont do that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:40 PM
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And yes stats show they do belly up to the buffet. What stats? The median amount of sexual partners for women is 4 by the age of 44, while the median amount of sexual partners for men of same age is 8. So if anything, the median man has had twice as many sexual partners by 45 as the median woman? Have you never actually talked to a human before? This sounds like some incel garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:36 PM
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What the fuck are you on about? This looks like a bad troll from 4chan Why they commit is validation? Attention? Money? All are various degrees of 'yes'. In almost every case, it's because they have feelings for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:29 PM
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Why women commit at all, I have no idea. There is literally no reason to commit as a woman, and few do. That's why their imaginary "bar is on the floor" is right around the ISS flightpath. Normal people have these things called feelings. When you like someone, you don't give a shit about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:19 PM
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This just sounds like the isolation of these men is self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:14 PM
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But why does the term exist? You don't see sport games being called "boy games"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:58 PM
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These are the typical genres that girls like. So do a lot of guys. So what about them is the special thing that makes them "girl games"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:48 PM
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What makes a game "girl game"? And why is stardew or animal crossing a "girl game"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:41 PM
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It just sounds like insecurity lack of social awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:32 PM
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Is the crackhead in the street corner "high value" when he sleeps with other crackheads? Why is sex some measure of value? Like literally anyone can get laid, it doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:36 PM
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Call it whatever you want, it still shows a clear pattern that men with more money (or who are projected to make more money in the future) are more likely to get married. That's not what it shows at all. It doesn't really show anything at all. People make more money when they are older, most married people are older so they make more than median. The survey doesnt tell you the income at the point of getting married, it shows the current income of married people If anything, it shows the opposite…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:03 PM
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So… majority of dudes getting married are decently above median wage. Now that's a logical fallacy. Majority of dudes in a marriage are decently above median, as majority of married men tend to be older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:33 PM
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You do realize relationships are work right? I am married, so yes i do. I don't know about you, but I am always excited to be with and spend time with my wife. Like it's a highlight of the day when I get home and we get to talk about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:13 PM
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I mean a break from constantly trying to romance their partner like they did in the past. You mean to say that you don't enjoy being with and doing things with your partner? If a relationship is work to you, you shouldnt propably be in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:09 PM
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You don't approach someone by walking up to them and asking their number. That's dumb. You approach someone by having a casual conversation, or saying something that fits the situation and you go from there. You dont walk up to someone to talk to them unless you have a reason to do so. Most conversations shouldn't lead to you asking the other person out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:42 PM
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really that low fuck tough world Well, it really depends. 45000 salary in Santa fe (new mexico) gets you a similar standards of living as a 100k salary in San Fransisco
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:37 PM
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Median gross salary is around 45000. The vast majority is not marrying someone with a high salary. Especially when you adjust for cost of living in cities like new yourk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:27 PM
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I agree with that. That’s why I get so confused when I see that scenario posted by women on here so often. Like in college most college guys are dating college girls and most as far as I know aren’t jumping into marriages. So why is that scenario posted on here so often. It's propably that college educated people are overepresented here, and it's not rare at all for people to marry their college partner. As if the vast majority of divorces are women meeting their partner right at the start of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:10 PM
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I’ve never met a woman who was just willing to put me through school so we’d have a better future later on together or a women who will just take care of the home with the hope my passions work out for us both in the end. What you are describing sounds rather weird, students often date other students., not some random unemployed person they found somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:58 PM
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I see, so if they're not different culturally, then can I assume that even European countries like the ones I describe above engage in those same discourse in dating like how I described about North Amerixa? The same discourse exists here as well. You see the exact same complaints in Nordic social media as you see in american ones. Though, being vastly smaller populations, the absolute size of these groups are vastly smaller, so they don't really show up anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:24 PM
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Can you described those differences, I cannot really put them into words or describe them. Its just small customs and stuff like that. I act different when I go meet my Polish in-laws than I do with anyone at home. European countries and NA Culturally mostly. Americans or Canadian people don't feel foreing or different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:10 PM
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about Britain having gone to war with about 75% of the known world. Crazy to think about. That's just most European empires, Though the fighting was more so focused on each other abroad rather than the locals directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:07 PM
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And while people from various countries in Europe are different from NA (and sometimes each other, of course) the problem is that in the context of dating and relationships they aren't that different. I say this as someone partnered with a European and having been to various countries there to observe some of the interpersonal dynamics. I'm going to go as far as to say that Europeans are not that different in any meaningful regard from eachother. Differences are more surface level, but in the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:56 PM
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They aren't mutually exclusive or comparative. Hiding money in case of a divorce is always for a different reason than a prenup is. It's like asking which one is better, "a plane or a train?" without specifying the goal, You can't compare them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:40 AM
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That wording implies you are comparing 2 bad options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:36 AM
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Most men get along with women, gay or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:34 PM
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Taking care of young kids is work as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:25 PM
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A child is a full time thing. The breadwinner gets a break when they are at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:17 PM
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You are on a date to figure out if you are compatible for a relationship or like eachothers company. If you arent enjoying being on a date with someone, yeah you should propably leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:25 AM
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How many people really want to live like that? I dont think those kinds of people are that much it really matters what. The phrase holds true for almost everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:08 AM
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Who is chad? And why you equate being hot with being an emotionless zombie? Like, just because you are attractive doesnt mean you don't feel emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:31 AM
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I was talking about Rome, not medieval times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:43 PM
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Based on just a short read, you have no chance to meet anyone, no matter what you do unless you see a therapist and make an honest effort to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:26 PM
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Bank accounts were widely used even in ancient Rome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:59 PM
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TikTok shows you more content that you interact with. My TikTok fyp is full of dumb cats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:39 PM
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You could, and you would be right. Not all women like or want gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:37 PM
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Women definetly do approach men, they just don't approach random men they've never interacted with very often, (outside of a bar). But like yeah, it's perfectly normal to not care about strangers like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:34 PM
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What social needs does bad dates and sex meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:54 PM
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What do sex and dates have to do with loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:02 PM
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Dude, you dont have to repost this constantly. The escort you are trying to date is just playing you both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:30 PM
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Well, I don't know. European Peoples Party is firmly in the Center-Right and it's approach is heavily incorporating elements of classical liberalism. Same is mostly true for Renew Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:50 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Classical_liberalism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:34 PM
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Bullshit that's why you all want national healthcare, a base living salary paid by the govt,welfare programs expanded etc... that's bigger govt not minimal I don't know where you live, but that's not liberalism you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:17 PM
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I don't get why not wanting social programs,smaller govt,lower taxes, and no free shit is a bad thing... This is in the center of liberalism. Minimal goverment intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:08 PM
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It means you accept and trust yourself and have a sense of control in your life. You know your strengths and weakness well, and have a positive view of yourself. You set realistic expectations and goals, communicate assertively, and can handle criticism. https://www.usf.edu/student-affairs/counseling-center/top-concerns/what-is-self-confidence.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:57 PM
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This is all women i ever met my entire life. Hell at my job now there are women in cool with. So they weren't your friends at all. Why did you bring them up when the conversation was about friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:21 PM
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Were they yor friends, or some people you kinda knew? This doesn't sound like the level of communication I'd expect between friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:02 PM
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You know person A, B and C. Girlfriend would likely never know that A, B and C. Now she know you that know A, B and C. Now she know A, B and C. You never explained what "access" mean in this context. What you described was acquaintance Well women don't really care about men so figures. What do you mean with this, and how does it relate to your partner not wanting to be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:51 PM
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you're going to give her access to your friends What does this even mean? How do you give someone "access" to your friends? And what does "access" to another person actually even mean? But either way, if she actually cares about you, she aint leaving you for your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:07 PM
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Why call it rape then? Because fraud is not rape. Alimony is very rare, and nobody is not just "taking" it. And someone marrying you just to take your assets is just fraud. But you not singing a prenup is just stupid if you have any significant assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:03 AM
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What is "divorce r*aped"? Why is the timing of the rape relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:11 AM
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Those are all true statements, but it assumes that you are social, go out and meet new people regularly, and actually want a relationship with someone you like. If you sit alone in your room browsing internet all day, that wont really mean much. You won't be likely to meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:12 PM
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She tries to leverage her beauty and youth to find the best partner she can, and have fun in the process. What the fuck kind of people are you talking to? What is the "best partner she can"? Like, you are only getting into relationships with people you get attracted to, the best partner would be the one she is attracted to. If you are attracted to someone, you dont give a shit about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:14 PM
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You thinking this way is the reason you think that women have high standards. You assuming that people mean physical attraction when they talk about attraction leads to harmful misunderstandings. You assume that they would be attracted in someone because they are physically attractive, or wouldn't be attracted to you because you look normal, when its in fact not the case and there is much more to attraction. Attraction is a feeling, it is not just visual, in fact, its mostly not visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:09 PM
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at no point did it say anything about casual hookups. But the way you talk about people implies that you don't care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:06 PM
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Attraction is an emotion. Physical attraction is a small part of that. Physical attraction doesn't really feel like much. And if you get actually attracted to them without even talking to them, you are just attracted to the mental image of them you have created, not the actual person. And when you get to know that person, and they dont match your mental image, you often lose attraction to them, because you never were attracted to them, just the thought of them. If you only find someone physicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:01 PM
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Thats definitely not true, most men are definitely attracted to most women. Are you attracted to most women, or do you just think they look good?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:55 PM
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The topic was relationships and not casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:52 PM
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Most people are not attracted to most people. Dating is all about finding the person you want to be with. You not being attracted to someone doesn't mean you find them unattractive. It just means that you are not attracted to them. Hell, you can even find someone attractive without being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:41 PM
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¨What part of social media do you even hang out in? I have never seen anything like that, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:05 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:43 PM
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The first part of your post you list your views on relationships, the part I quoted explains explains them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:40 PM
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What problems? It's just that women aren't pushes into unhappy relationships by society and family pressure as much as they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:37 PM
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This is due to the fact they know there's always a safety-net if it goes south and for most women, it's usually backup guy nr2 while for most men no one, that's why they love lumping on this idealism If you date someone who has a "backup guy", then yeah, she clearly doesn't care about you that much or respect your relationship so her lack of interest in the relationship is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:19 PM
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They often brought middle eastern men as a blueprint of how men should spoil women . What? Do enlighten me on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:03 PM
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What kind of sites do you even go to? Because the sites and apps that make up 99% of market share definedly do not have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:53 PM
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The data is overwhemling. Men find, no matter their own age, women to be the hottest at 21-22... Women find men's attraction to shift with their own age. Men do not. It anchors around 21. But just because men aren't going around trying to fuck and marry young chicks in their 40s, doesn't mean they aren't hot. They just aren't trying to be with immature people. But the media understands this, hence why women in media are all young, where men have a broader age range. It's because what is consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:10 PM
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They do. I'm sorry. Not consciously of course... But biology always wins. These biological triggers around status, looks, and resources, are deep into our successful natural selection instincts. Very few people are aware of them, because most people aren't very self aware in general. Resources and status are irrelevant in terms of biology. Those did not exist in the sense when we lived in nomadic tribes and everything was shared. Looks only biologically matter to determine if you are healthy. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:07 PM
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People don't consciously... But subconsciously it does. Attraction and mate preference is very complex and primal. You say it is primal, but you claim that resources matter. Do tell me which it is. For instance, when a guy is sexually attracted to a young woman, he's not thinking, "Oh wow, she is fertile and can birth children. She has lesser competition making it easier for me to mate!" But, instinctively, that's what's going on, while our conscious rationalizes it more subtly. Same way when a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:35 PM
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inherently disrupts this whole system on many levels. From male sense of identity, to perceived value she thinks she can attain. People don't think like this. You don't date or marry someone because your "perceive their value". Most people don't date someone because they think that that person is better than them, or the same value as them. They date them because they like them and want to be with them. Very little is rational or decided on when it comes to attraction And once she surpasses him,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:25 PM
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And statistically a very powerful variable that correlates with ice cream sales is deaths by drowning. You buying ice cream does not mean you are more likely to die by drowning however. This is why it's important to understand that correlation does not mean causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:55 AM
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went broke. That it did not do. No Time To Die (2021) was adjusted for inflation, the third best performing bond movie in the box office after skyfall (2012) and spectre (2015)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:09 AM
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Decline in what way? No Time To Die was one of the best performing 007 movies in the box office. And it was the 4th highest grossing movie in the entire year of 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:02 AM
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If humans are extremely loss averse, then why isn’t it more common for someone to want someone who is no longer interested in them? It depends, but normal humans aren't "extremely loss averse". If you are still emotionally invested in the person, it's quite common during breakups for example. But we often know better can choose not to do anything about it. There even is 2 stages for this in the 5 stages of grief, denial and bargaining. If you aren't too emotionally invested in someone, not havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:44 AM
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In U.S. law, coercion refers to the act of compelling someone to act in an involuntary manner by using force, threats, manipulation, or intimidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:46 PM
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And warfare is probably older than farming. It really isn't. For a group of no more than 100 without any permanent settlement or resources to protect, it really does not make sense to start large scale fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:38 PM
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So, do you mean sexual coercion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:34 PM
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That estimate sounds like it was surveyed from an incel/redpill subreddit. Like, people dont think that way. Nobody assings "value" to others and most people think that cheaters are asshats
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:23 PM
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Yes it did, and you’d be a fool to believe otherwise. nearly evolutionary pressure was gone by the time we were farming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:21 PM
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Hunting was a communal activity back when there was evolutionary pressure on humans. It wasn't exclusive to men. Warfare didnt really affect out evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:13 PM
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For most of human history, men were constantly involved in dangerous undertakings. Each man in the group had to know his role, and any weak link could fatally compromise the group and get people killed. What are you referring to specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:12 PM
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It happens very rarely when you don't hang out with assholes. Though, it could be that you are misreading the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:03 AM
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Stop hanging out with assholes. Normal people don't go around "sensing that you are weak"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:00 AM
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There is effort that goes into it. It's I tuitive, but it's still communication, and anyone who knows anything about communication knows that having good reliable and clear communication requires effort. It's effortless and intuitive the same way walking is. We evolved to walk, but it still requires learning. If it was as easy, instinctive, and evolutionary driven as you say, then even poorly socialized kids would do it without issue. The fact poorly socialized kids have problems with it, is pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:54 PM
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It really feels like you're saying "all these signs are blindingly obvious to me, he must be an idiot for failing to understand" while making no effort at all to try to undersrand how or why he could be misunderstanding. There isn't effort that goes into it. It is intuitive. It's a deeper problem than just being an "idiot" for not understanding it. It is often a sign developemental disorder, or extremely poor socialization as a kid. If you struggle this hard with non-verbal communication, I sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:32 PM
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Yeah no you're describing empathy, not non verbal communication, and empathy frequently fails. How many people say "I had no idea they were thinking of suicide" after someone took their own life? No, I am talking about non-verbal communication. If someone is avoiding eye contact, looking around while talking to you, and having closed off demeanor, they do not want to talk to you, regardless of where you are, this holds true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:15 PM
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Non verbal communication is something that came with evolution. Its largely universal for humans, no matter the culture or location. You can tell how someone is feeling regardless of who they are and where they are from, because huge majority of that non-verbal communication is instinctual and automatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:03 PM
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Most men don't suck at non-verbal communication. If you consistently find it difficult to understand non-verbal communication, it might be worth it to get evaluated for autism spectrum disorder. As inability to understand non-verbal communication is one of the three main characteristic of ASD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:12 AM
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Well, you can take a look at USA and Canada. Native Americans make up 3% of the population, the rest have an immigrant background.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:05 AM
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Again, you are merely explaining proximity. That is how attraction very often works. You are more likely going get attracted to someone you have regular interactions with. But when you open the world up to a moderately attractive woman she will date up. You describe dating like it's medieval royalty marriages. But no, "dating up" is not a normal thing people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:26 PM
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it will be a rare sight to see any woman dating a bum. It's not rare at all. You just have to find someone who is unemployed to see that their partner is very likely also unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:47 PM
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Broke people mostly date broke people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:38 PM
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So that doesn't disprove anything I said. The man still has to make more money than her. No he does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:36 PM
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Most people date people from their own socioeconomic class who share interests and hobbies with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:08 PM
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In situations like that, yes you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:31 PM
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I’ll never understand why attraction to wealth is seen as somehow separate and different from any other kind of attraction. Because there is no attraction. It's purely utilitarian and transaction view. You don't care about the person, you just want the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:46 PM
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Of course it's building steam when the percentage of people without any friends is skyrocketing and people are more isolated than ever. Like record number of people don't talk to others anymore, they just hang out online. And I have no idea what MRA is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:16 PM
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I keep on hearing that women are attracted to men with money Those kind of women are not attracted to him, they are attracted to his money. Gold diggers only really want that money, they don't care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:12 PM
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What does this have to do with anything? Your choice to not date women under 180lbs really does not contribute to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:09 PM
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Men everywhere? Where exactly outside of reddit and 4chan? redpill is most definetly an obscure group, mostly containing chronically online young men,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:52 PM
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It most definedly is. Both describe the time before officially dating. Situationship is basically just a natural stage of some relationshipsm you both like each other, you both want to be with eachother, but you aren't officially dating yet, you are in a situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:19 PM
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China is further along in terms of it's economic developement, India's birth rate is already below replacement level. India will face the same one day. Most nations will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:13 PM
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Yeah, that's the essence of it. We can fix climate change or we can let nature fix it but pay for it in massive damages to humanity. Same with demographic crisis, we can wait for nature to fix it, but society will incure damage as a result, or we can do something to try to change it. In either scenario, enviroment will be fine in the end, it's all about how much damage humanity is willing to take in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:53 PM
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Enviroment exists only because it is adaptable. Nearly everything has been wiped out by asteroids multiple times. Traits that are beneficial in a new enviroment survive, and traits that less so, will be outcompeted. All the carbon that is causing the climate change was once part of the ecosystem. But then it was locked away in oil and coal deposits in bedrock, and the enviroment adapted to function without it. Now it's being reintroduced to the econsystem so quickly, that the system that adapted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:43 PM
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Showered in four days. Lmao. Glorious. Women actually say that with a straight face. I am not a woman. But yeah, thats essentially it. If you take care of yourself, you dont appear as a creep beacuse of your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:33 PM
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What do I think? I think people have been freaking out about this for 35 years and….nothing has happened It's kind of like climate change. Both take decades to manifest into any serious issues. Though, a demographic crisis will likely will start correcting itself within the next 100 years, even if trough sheer natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:31 PM
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Isn't that like saying most serious car accidents happen at high speeds? I don't know why it would be. Most common car accident is one that happens in urban areas at the speeds of 20-35km/h
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:12 PM
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No, that’s always the case. If the guy were ugly, she wouldn’t even look at him, much less tolerate “asshole” behavior. You don't sound like you did a lot of partying in your teens and 20's, because that does indeed happen a lot. What is "asshole" behaviour in normal situation, is socially acceptable atleast to some group in certain circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:08 PM
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I cannot tell if you are being satirical here. But in case you aren't, height has nothing to do with it, and your looks only to an extent. If you look like you haven't showered in 4 days and aren't groomed, your looks will probably make people wary of you. Other than that, it really doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:05 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:00 PM
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That is very rarely the case and really only happens in bars or similar enviroments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:00 PM
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Funny how those magic personality detectors that can smell misogyny, creepiness, and various icks from a mile away All that is often the result of poor social skills. If you are socially aware and have decent social skills, chances are nobody will ever think of you as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:57 PM
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Just hanging around don't get you anywhere pretty much regardless of who you are. That's is where the issue is. The people who get there are often very aware of what they want and how to get there. They can read people very well and they can say what the other person wants to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:55 PM
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It’s always because of their trauma or their broken home or their unspecified mental illness. Yeah, that's mostly it. Of course there is also the possibility that the woman is also an asshole, or that she was deceived. These things also mysteriously never compel them to sleep with ugly, short, fat, or broke men. I very rarely see ugly or fat men anywhere where those kind of situations might happen. So that propably largely explains that Short and broke men can also be abusive assholes, so not su…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:48 PM
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The "situationship" is not a new thing. It's just kind of the talking stage of a relationship that just kind of happens and where both are not quite sure about how to take things forward. It has existed always, it were just called differently before. But yeah, there is very few who are left out. And even fewer who are trying and left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:42 PM
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Well, casual sex left me feeling down and empty. Didn't try it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:52 PM
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This is a repeat of argument A, in order for this to be true, altruism would have to be self-contingent, can you prove that altruism is self-contingent? The definition of altruism is "disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others." So by definition, it is self-contingent. If I do deeds that appear altruistic for personal gain, I don't have selfless concern for others, I have concern for myself. Nice acts are also not necessarily altruistic. I can hold a door open for someone co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:34 PM
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Why not? Because that's just how it is. The nature of the action shifts entirely and the act itself is done with selfish motives. You do the act for personal gain so it's self serving and transactional. I don't go to work because I am nice to my co-workers and boss. I go to work to get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:28 PM
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Why is this the only acceptable motivation for nice acts? Nice acts aren't nice acts when you expect something in return for the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:18 PM
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Ultimately it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman, she will probably still reject you or not reciprocate Yeah? Why would someone like you or want to be with you just because you have more than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:07 PM
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Why would it be different? If you don't feel affection towards your partner, you obviously cannot really show affection. Affection isn't something you give someone, it's something you feel. You can only show your affection trough actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:06 PM
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Dating is the part of the relationship where you go on dates and try to figure out if you want a relationship with eachother. you dont need to seperately agree on if you are dating or not if you go on dates.,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:05 AM
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Smoking is an absolute no. No matter how much interest there is, if I see someone smoking, any and all interest are instantly gone and I feel nothing towards them anymore. (And obviously drugs) I can't think off any other clear turn offs from someone I went on a date with. Interest however just kind of depended on if we vibe. If the conversation didn't feel right, it didn't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:05 AM
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Oh so it was some incel revenge fantasy? Dating is not a competition. If so called "chads" die, you are not going to have any more success in dating as you are now. Women don't suddenly start dating men they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:43 AM
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Originally, it's same reason the term "mankind" exist but not the term "womankind". The word "man" in both instances originates from old English where it broadly denoted humans or people in general. Then it was shaped by the culture of 20th ceuntry where men were breadwinners of the house and women weren't allowed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:05 AM
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That's a lot of trouble you went trough just for misunderstanding what people mean when they talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:01 PM
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If they like you, no you wont get rejected. Why are you asking her out if she isn't interested in you to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:06 PM
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What kind of data or studies do you even need here? Like this is common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:03 PM
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When you think that life is a competition, someone is going to lose and it's likely going to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:28 PM
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How do you scientifically test that? Like that is physically impossible to study in a way that it would make any kind of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:01 PM
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When you get shot down 20 times, you really have to start thinking about how you are misreading people so badly. Misreading signs of interest 20 times is a high number. I don't think I have even asked out 20 different people in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:51 PM
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Getting to know people abit is not the same as becoming friends with them. Like, if you see each other regularly, you just talk for a week or two and see how they react to your flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:40 PM
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36% of Men, 18% of Women Actually Know When They’re Being Flirted With, You cannot make an affirmative claim with a study like this. Flirting is heavily context dependent, and is really quite hard to spot if you only have talked to someone for 10 minutes in an enviroment like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:58 PM
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What are you on about? This looks like a copypasta from 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:36 PM
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OP is a man. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:39 AM
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Well, your oringinal comment can really only mean that you just met someone and didn't talk to them before asking them out. Otherwise why would you be trying to ask someone out who isn't giving you any sings of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:52 PM
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and about my standards (not physical) Struggles with dating kind of makes it sound like you struggle with getting dates, not struggling to find the right partner for you. Struggles with dating depends on my genetics AND WTF YOU MEAN WITH YOU STRUGGLE WITH GENETICS? My man, you look like a goddamn Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:01 PM
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First, I assumed that first you ask out someone you know. You referred to them as simply classmates. It doesn't sound like you know them very well. Or do you think guys pick up women in clubs and bars after getting to know them? You don't "pick up" people out at random in clubs. Your actions that lead to that are very deliberate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:57 AM
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When you say you struggle with dating they say "you are a mysoginist" If your real life friends say that to you, maybe it's time to look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:48 AM
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The problem with dating for men is that no one is interested in you. Seriously. Imagine you’re a guy in a uni. You like several classmates. You ask them out, they say no. You approach women in clubs and bars, they say no. You use tinder, and get 1 match a month that doesn’t respond. Get to know people abit before you ask them out. if you don't give someone a chance to be interested in you, nobody is interested on you. Asking someone out at random that you don't interact with is just almost a gua…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:35 AM
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But thats another problem. These places have been deckining in recent years. Most people outside are onntheir way and go to school/work/home or have an appointment. Social gatherings in general have declined. Obviously you don't run up to some random on a street. You go to a third place where people hang out in. but metoo movement and everyone being a victim made that sexual harrasment if you talk to someone, This might seem true to someone who is chronically online, but it isn't actually the ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:49 AM
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You go out on the street and socialise how? Well, here people treat the street as an extended living room of sorts. You go to a cafe or a pub to just chat with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:26 AM
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I don't know, here you go out on a street and there is literally hundreds of people. Hypergamy is just bullshit in the modern context, so that is not a reason for anyones dating struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:39 AM
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It's not harder, it's just that people are isolating a lot more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:22 AM
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I think it's just the result of the same thing. People are more online and isolated than ever. Number of adults without a single friend has gone up by 400% in the last 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:23 AM
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Boss is someone who has authority over others, boss relies on subordinates and people following their orders. A boss tells you what to do. Leader is someone who inspires others and fosters a sense of shared purpose. Leader does not seek to inspire obedience or submission, but rather trust and respect. Everyone can be a leader, while everyone cannot be a boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:35 AM
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What you defined is a boss. Why would anyone want their partner to be their boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:53 PM
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How did you get that conclusion? Looking at your comments and posts, it really sounds like you are just trying your absolute hardest to find any reason or excuse to hate on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:59 PM
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Not a single line is condescending in that song.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:58 PM
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How the fuck you get that interperation? The whole song is about healing from a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:54 PM
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How did you get that interperation? Those acts symbolizes acts of self-love and compassion towards oneself. It's all about taking control of your own happiness and joy rather than relying on a partner to do so. It isn't shitting on anything. It conveys the message that the acts of self-love are not less important or less meaningful than the ones you get from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:52 PM
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Do you mean the song "flowers"? What exactly is the issue you are having?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:43 PM
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20% men are bagging 80% of the chicks. They infact, are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:31 PM
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I don’t think the person who’s underage should be punished but the person suppling the alcohol, the fraternity ect. I don't really have any context for this. Because here, you can legally drink beer and mild wines when you are 16, so it just sounds kind of dumb that legal adults are unable to drink alcohol. but it’s not your fault ultimately if it does happen. Yes, it's not your fault, the person at fault is fully responsible for everything. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:59 PM
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Why do colleges turn a blind eye to underage drinking but then clamp down hard on any person reported to have sexually assaulted someone in these context without any further investigation? Are you really asking this? What could be the difference between a victimless crime that is usually a misdemeanor with the largest punishment being a fine, and a serious felony with serious prison time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:55 PM
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But that is not what is going on at a population level, so what are you trying to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:51 PM
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You really did not, if that is the conclusion you came to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:16 PM
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I'd say that less than 10% of cases is a pretty tiny minority. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:12 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/std/statistics/2022/default.htm Chlamydia appears to be the only STD where it's more common amongst women, and that's on a signficiant downward trend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:06 PM
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And there are more men who are infected in total than there are women who are infected, so what does that say about the situation? With absolutely tiny minorities of both being white americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:55 PM
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STDs among men are also in rise, but the blog post just looks at two specific STD's
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:40 PM
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Ever think about the women rewarding this behavior instead of blaming the men? What? What is one of the most common fantasies among women? I know you are referring to that one study that was here some weeks ago. What does aversive thoughts caused by trauma or fear have anything to do with the conversation at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:16 PM
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I know you tried to sound "cool", but this comment kind of makes you sound like a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:00 PM
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When there is mutual attraction, sure. But just because I think someone is attractive, doesn't mean I am attracted to them, or want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:01 PM
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I think you are misunderstanding my point. If you intent to exploit desperate people, then its exploitative, if you go there in good faith, then its not exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:50 PM
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For instance: if I search for women in the philippines, they are more likely to be poorer EVEN if that is not my intention to find a poor woman. Why would you specifically "search" women from a certain nation? If you don't live there, why would you specifically "search" for women there instead of your local area? If you travel to Philippines in hopes of finding a woman, then its pretty hard to frame it in a way that isnt exploitative. ​ Same with women dating online looking for men. They will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:30 PM
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If you go on there willingly, knowing it's a sausage fest, that's exploitative. What's the difference between this my scenario: If you go there with the goal of exploiting the desperate people, then its exploitative. Otherwise you are just trying to find a diamond in a pile of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:26 PM
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So men are only allowed to go to a rich nation to look for women? lmao. What if a woman is upper class within her poor nation? How do you determine what's ok just based on a nation's GDP? Ignorant take. That is not what i said. I said, if you go to poor nations to find women, because they are more likely tolerate abuse and your shitty personality, then it's exploitative. ​ How do you know a man you're dating isn't desperate because he's been out a relationship for years and gets no attention? Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:22 PM
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Passport bros are shamed because they purposefully go to poorer countries to find partners that will tolerate abuse and general shittynes in hopes of a better life. Passport bros aren't shamed for simply dating a foreinger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:07 PM
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That means you care on some level. About the reasons why it was said. Nobody you want to be around does that. It indicates some deeper character flaws or mental turbulance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:02 PM
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Why would anyone tell me their body count? That's a red flag in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:50 PM
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Dating overseas in itself is not bad. It's why you do it that matters, If you are just travelling and happen to meet someone you vibe with, nobody can say anything about that. That's not exploitative. ​ If you go to a poor nation to find a partner because they are more likely tolerate abuse and your bullshit in the hopes of a better life, then its exploitative. The same as if you go to a dating app to exploit desperate men you aren't interested in for free food and whatnot, then its explotative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:45 PM
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Everybody cares about bodycount on some level. That's why when taken to extreme bodycounts, you eliminate MOST people (male or female) What does this mean? Extreme bodycounts are a rare thing, you propably don't even hang around in the same circles if you have an average body count. ​ Similarly virgin men are shamed. Nobody is shaming the heavily religious guy who doesn't want to have sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:36 PM
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But what power does that bring you? It makes the chances of you finding a good partner more likely, but like, you aren't going to entertain someone who you aren't interested in regardless of the gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:34 PM
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Most normal people don't care about body counts. If someone is asking, they are likely very religious or insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:21 PM
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How would that be expoitative? Where exactly is the power dynamic? Like you are just trying to meet someone who you vibe with and want to be together with. Nobody has any power or leverage over anyone. ​ ​ Due to decreased supply of women and increased demand, women generally get a more ideal man than they would be able to get from other means. Never have seen this happen once. The only relationships I have witnessed that started from an app lasted for like 3 months or so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:18 PM
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I have seen couples that were friends before. But that is another topic all together, so how about we just stick to the oringinal topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:01 PM
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“Men on average are taller than women” This is not what was said what you said would be closer to "I heard someone say that their friend is a 6'5 volleyball player but that cant be true because i saw someone who was shorter than that"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:57 PM
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So, are all adult virgins socially incompetent creeps?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:50 PM
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Everyone should change their standards: If you're unhappy being lonely. If you're fine being lonely, and not complaining about it, then its fine. Keep high standards. A bad partner can make you feel even more lonely. Just having a partner doesn't fix your loneliness, so you shouldn't aim for a relationship that doesn't make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:38 PM
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You can't watch what someone does and then critisize them for what someone else said. People are individuals, people have different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:35 PM
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If you are going to make this post, atleast try to find actually good example That post where OP was complaining about the "go bag" might just be the exact situation where a bag like that would be nececcary. His comments very just explosive and had some interesting comments about domestic abuse. I dont think it was "just in case" bag for OPs wife
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:48 PM
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But it’s also true that if an attractive girl offered sex to her single male friends most of them would go for it. So it’s never truly platonic. That's not what I have witnessed or experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:40 PM
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They can but its usually when one or both are unattractive/old. That or theyve done it and gotten it over with. Most of the time its none of those. Its not some rare thing to be just friends with the other gender, most people have friends that are the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:46 PM
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Lmao incel subreddits? You mean only this subreddit? I don't really venture to others. Well, you comment quite regularly on r/virgin. Your comment history is public ​ And no, clubs not either. Other places I meant like workplaces I've been in, university, friend groups, you know, the average stuff. Well, how can you meet so many douchebags then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:36 PM
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Those are the favoured men by women wherever I go. Are the only places you go to clubs and incel subreddits?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:32 PM
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To a normal person, red pill is just mostly insane people and blue pill is just a satire of that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:25 PM
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According to who? "Red pillers"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:21 PM
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Blue pill is just a satire of red pill. The blue pill sub was created to make fun of the extreme and insane views in the red pill sub. It isn't really anything, there is no "philosophy"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:36 PM
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What makes him a douchebag?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:26 PM
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If you’re interested in how attraction works for the majority of women, you can easily find hundreds of threats on that topic here on Reddit. You can also ask women in real life and most will agree. Well I am married so that wont be necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:23 PM
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Why would anyone be instantly attracted to a stranger you never talked to? Most people don't just feel attraction when they see someone. The outcome doesn't matter at that point, there is no feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:17 PM
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You propably shouldn't consider it "fuck eyes". Its quite normal for people to make eye contact and smile at each other without it meaning anything. I do it without noticing when I have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:58 PM
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what are you on about? Eye contact is an everyday occurance for people. You never explained how normal eye contact differs from "fuck eyes"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:50 PM
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So what exactly makes it a "fuck eyes", instead of them just noticing you staring, them noticing something about you that caught their attention, them just zoning out?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:47 PM
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10 percent of the time they give it back and I kind of just wait for them to turn around for the look back as they’re walking for me to to actually say something A smile from a random stranger passing by doesn't actually mean anything. Most people will smile back at you when you smile at them. And what are the "fuck eyes" you are referring to here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:44 PM
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and if I didn’t have the confidence from being attractive to approach her Who talks like this? This sounds like someone who is trying to sound impressive while having no idea what is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:04 PM
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Possessive, insecure and controlling are not the traits of someone who is "high value"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:26 PM
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Most men find most women worthy of romantic attention, horny at the time or not. I don't know a single man who find most women romantically compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:19 AM
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That's just the usual self defeatist crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:17 AM
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But the fact that you don't know when to not talk about your fetishes is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:00 AM
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Autism isnt that common that people should feel the need to make a conscious effort to cater to them in their day to day communication Most people understand normal human communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:58 AM
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Being an asshole definedly does not increase social status if you are not in high school. Everyone will just think that you are a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:42 AM
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Well, 1% of OF creators make around 50% of all the money earned on the platform. And you are in top 10% if you make more than 1000 a month while 50% earn less than 180 a month. It really only works for very few. It's all about marketing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:36 AM
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Calm down with the incel crap mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:33 AM
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It has nothing to do with morality. Fetishes are amoral. It's only how, why, when and where you decide to talk about them that it becomes a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:27 AM
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It depends. The definition for a fetish in DSM-5 is " an intense sexual attraction to either inanimate objects or to body parts not traditionally viewed as sexual "
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:00 PM
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Fetish isn't limited to describing inanimate objects
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:31 PM
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The way it is preceived depends on how, when and why you word your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:14 PM
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So you interact on a week to week basis, but you have not tried to flirt or escalate it into anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:08 PM
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This is exactly what I just said. Tinder is just bunch of men trying to have sex with someone. Propably partially explains why the gender ratio is so skewed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:55 AM
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Tinder are tinder. It's just a bunch of men swiping right on everyone without even looking to have sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:53 AM
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Are you just trolling? Read what you commented again and come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:38 AM
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But that doesn't work. Bad sex is worse than just masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:27 AM
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It was meant as a direct reply to your comment. Your comment was of absolutely no relevance to the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:26 AM
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You can manage your sex drive just fine with your right hand, so this comparison doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:20 AM
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If you don't like the person you are with, don't date them. You don't like someone if you want someone else. Doesn't matter if you cannot be with the one you wanted. it's unfair for your partner to stay with them if you dont want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:04 PM
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If you don't want to be with you partner, and want someone else, yes it is wrong. Break up and don't be with them. They deserve a better partner
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:36 AM
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Then why would you be complaining about being labeled a creep? Anyone with with any kind of social awareness can avoid those kind of situations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:08 AM
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This is not a relationship, this is exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:56 PM
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They would have no place to stay, no money, and no way of communicating, assuming you are bilingual. This is also called human trafficking. It carries a minimum of 10 year prison sentence in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:35 PM
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Wdym "only way"? And who are the "lot of us", because this is some deragend psychopatic way of thinking. I'd hope there isn't "lots of" abusive assholes out there. And why do you want to be with someone who hates you and doesnt want to be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:56 PM
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So you are fantasizing about getting a partner you can manipulate and abuse into staying with you because you are incapable of finding normal relationships? You sound like delightful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:49 PM
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What would internet fame have to do with anything? And if they just want to have "sex with 10's", why are they in a relationship with you? Most people dont get into relationships they dont want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:40 PM
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Are you saying that majority of women are just gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:34 PM
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Average american is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:24 AM
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This is some middle school level stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:29 AM
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What does that has to do with shaming someone on their insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:15 PM
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People don't just lose interest over something trivial if they truly liked you. The "ick" thing as the way you are describing is just a tiktok meme. The people who say that they get an "ick" when you wake up the wrong way and what not are not serious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:10 PM
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Then they either were not interested in you or you are terribly misreading what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:48 PM
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I can't actually see anybody shaming here. And i have never met anyone here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:19 PM
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I have never met anyone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:12 PM
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Who is just randomly going to shame you for your insecurities? Like if you don't make your insecurities someone else's problem, nobody will shame you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:08 PM
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Fertility doesn't even reach its peak until early twenties, and then it is rather static up until your early-mid thirties. So what are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:28 PM
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If 18 is the absolute peak, that is sligthly worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:03 AM
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Based on the posts you have made about your relationship, it seems all around toxic. So maybe that has something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:19 PM
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Lol yes. It's not literally intrusive thoughts about porn, it's intrusive thoughts about wanting to just get fucked by a guy they're attracted to but having to contend with the social or safety fall out that comes with that. He was using a hyperbole statement in bad faith. The goal is to take it literally to challenge his exaggeration. Most people don't have intrusive thoughts affecting their immediate behaviour uncontrollably. ​ Wtf??? How on earth is the Madonna whore complex not relevant in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:40 PM
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How is this schizophrenia? Women (and men) constantly talk about how their innate desires often conflict with their real world persona's or need to adhere to behavioural convention. That is literally not what he said. He said that womens intrusive thoughts about porn causes them to act unpredictably and have mood swings. ​ Its the same as the Madonna/Whore complex of men wanting a woman with all the sexual ability of a seasoned pornstar whilst maintaining decorum when in non sexual settings. Mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:36 PM
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If this was the case, people would pair bond in far more mysterious ways. Except, they dont. Non verbal communication makes up the majority of the information shared in a conversation, so I don't even know what you are saying. Why would it make it any more mysterious how people pair up? Like you are already talking or interacting when you get to do any of it. ​ People largely cluster around people from the same communities, tax brackets, race and values. What are you even trying to explain here?…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:16 PM
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This makes sense in theory, however in reality things are largely predictable and humans follow trends and patterns often predicated on anything from gender to nationality or age You don't make conscious predictions on behaviour. You know how others are feeling based on how they intuitively act and react and you know what to expect based on those feelings and reactions. It isn't some sociology level predictions, you just intuitively know how the other person feels and reacts to whatever you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:54 PM
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Dating is 2 people trying to figure out if they like each other and are compatible for a relationship. What you are describing falls more under the "emotional manipulation" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:34 PM
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Nobody has yet to explain what "unpredictable" means. Like humans are especially good at understanding and predicting social behaviour. So if someone is unpredictable, its very often an indication of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:30 PM
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What kind of mind games are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:23 PM
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This is not typical behaviour for anyone. Healthy people don't think or act like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:15 PM
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Luckily schizophrenia only affects 0.3% of the population so you don't have to worry about this kind people all that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:13 PM
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I've taken women in dates, been intimate but something happens where it gets too overwhelming and the behaviour is so unpredictable I lose interest. Are you dating meth addicts or how is the behaviour "unpredictable"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:05 PM
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The more you socialize the more likely you are to be good at socializing. Ofcourse it is not guaranteed to solve everything, but it will definetly help and is better than just staying at home playing games all day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:10 AM
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Well, that can be just chalk up to bad parenting. Normal well adjusted people don't just get those views out of nowhere. Its a result of some issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:02 AM
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Well, the amount of people living in extreme poverty was over 60% just 70 years ago. Now it is under 10%. Technological developements set the groundwork for todays standards of living and future developements. Humans are living better than we have ever lived in the history. What kind of sadistic cunt would say that our grand parents did nothing for us and that they deserve to die for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:32 PM
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Like a month or so ago? It was brought up when you were complaining about not getting dates in tinder in DAE
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:23 PM
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Your granny gets sick, you just tell her, "welp, had a good run" We'll face the same fate one day. What a day to look forward. How philanthropical solution indeed. Most of humanity isn't as genocidal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:55 PM
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And talking to someone in the right context gets your foot in the door just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:38 PM
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I agree. I think it’s just the elites who make billions off of everyone else that are afraid of depopulation because capitalism relies on ever increasing sales and profit which means more and more people buying more and more stuff to keep profits rolling in. It isnt about capitalism. Its the increasing amount of old people in relation to workers. They need care to stay alive. When the amount of retirees is projected to be more than twice the amount of work force, you need a lot of workers and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:09 PM
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When you say things like this, you luckily don't have to worry about having sex. ​ If it weren’t for our sex drives modern women would be useless they don’t want us talking about how insane the current situation is or that feminism is out of control. Yeah the older you get I think the less you like people and dogs, maybe all living things? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:06 PM
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That was not about real dating situations. It was a choice between 2 different people without actually being emotionally invested in anyone. It is irrelevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:04 PM
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Attractive men struggle with commitment because there's no reason to commit when women are throwing themselves at you, yes. Plenty of people commit. It isn't because you are attractive. You commit if you want to commit and actually like the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:03 PM
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What exactly was the false equivalency?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:00 PM
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Of course it is, most couples meet through online dating today, Most couples meet trough online dating because vast majority of those relationships fall apart within the first year. the vast majority of my friends met their long-term wives or girlfriends through online dating. Cool, I dont know a single person who met their long term partner online. My grandpa asked my grandma for a dance at a ballroom, that's how they met, they didn't have anything to connect them initially, but they built it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:59 PM
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Do you still explore the world by putting absolutely everything and anything in your mouth like you did as a kid, or have you "magically" changed your ways from those toddler years?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:41 PM
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eHarmony seems to be a big one based on personality test with 37m users compared to tinder's 530m. I think 37m is still a number one can work with :) if it would be active users, then yeah, maybe, but it quite literally says that it has around 10 million under the headline. That divided between like 10-20 countries and you got basically nobody outside few major cities And tinder has around 50 million active users.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:20 PM
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If that's possible the persons psychology, then what is occuring is the sex partner is debased, like the whore in the Madonna-Whore complex. People have casual sex because they like sex. It isnt that hard or require any complexes I cannot understand why you are so pressed about how others live their life. Each to their own, as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:07 PM
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But the definition of casual sex, is an agreement that there isn't a relationship. Casual sex is just sex that happens without a relationship. ​ It's not an agreement that you are looking for a relationship. No it is not, but it might happen. Going hiking to a polish hillside isn't an agreement that you are looking for a relationship either, but that is how I met my wife. ​ It's uncomprehensible to say that it was done to find a relationship. 2 single people have sex, if they happen to fall for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:35 PM
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Nobody implied that casual sex is requirement for monogamy. What was said is that she is looking for a monogamous partner trough casual sex. And casual sex =/= cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:21 PM
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Like, pay to access and long questionnaires so an algorithm can generate matches on compatibility. I have never even heard of such service, so i cannot imagine their user amounts are very large. Especially with the 6 biggest holding 90% marketshare. And what goes for questions, you can't really know about about compatability before you get to be with someone. Especially when questions are as simple as given in that article So it's basicly the first date you figure it out. I don't know if i will …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:52 AM
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Online dating really isn't a good idea for anyone not looking for casual sex. Like, even if you get dates, the chances are that the date isn't going to lead to a good relationship, as you pretty much met at random so there really isn't much connecting you two. And most people really arent compatible dating most people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:53 AM
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Men are engineer minded. They want actionable tasks and strategies to achieve them. Not this, Isn't this just a description of some central ASD characteristics? Like most men do just fine going by feeling and seeing how others react. We don't need any plan or "actionable tasks" beforehand. It isnt a normal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:49 AM
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female child Also known as daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:37 AM
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To be fair, the opportunity was there The dude literally commented that "This comment is useless", like he was saying that the comment that he wrote was useless. Of course you have someone commenting on it to point out his mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:49 PM
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OK. well how would you feel about a law requiring the mother to work in order to collect child support? Depends on the age of the child and the overall situation, a law that would be fair, or even functional is fairly difficult to come up with here. A 1-3 year old requires easily 16-18 hours of attention per day while a newborn requires constant attention and supervision. And like, the father is equally responsible for the child. ​ Cus currently child support isn't calculated by what the child n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:10 PM
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The first article is just a joke. But i am not saying "Ick" is not a real thing. I am saying that the extreme cases you see online are not common. Like stop overthinking everything and just meet women so youll get a more nuanced perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:18 PM
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I don't know why bluepillers do it. But I am doing it because you are clearly lacking any other viewpoint in the matter so you don't realize that people don't actually do any of it in any real and widespread manner. Basing your whole view of women on your social media bubble isn't healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:13 PM
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Maybe stop taking the tiktoks and videos you see so seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:09 PM
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I couldn't handle casual sex all that well, it just left me feeling sad and empty. I guess I am too emotional and actually wanted meaningful connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:23 AM
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If what you claim here is true, then you are making men responsible for a choice that was made by a woman, and only a woman. There is 1 choice, and it is to get an abortion, not having an abortion is not a choice, its the baseline. When a child is conceived, it requires an active decision and willingness to go trough a lot of potentially traumatic stuff to abort it. ​ So the only choice that led to the baby being born was to have sex. Not getting an abortion is not a choice by anyone, it is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:18 AM
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It isnt "opt in" to go trough a potentially very traumatic and distressing experience. Abortion is something you do only when you absolutely want to do so. It is an extreme measure. For all intents and purposes, when the baby is conceived, you both are responsible for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:44 AM
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The child is born, child support is for the child. You made that child happen, it had no say in the matter, and it deserves a good life. You are jointly responsible for supporting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:59 AM
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Except that you do not have precedence over someone else's body. When you have sex as a man, you choose to take on a risk of conception so you are jointly responsible for the outcome, and since you do not give birth yourself, or grow a baby within your body, you cannot abort it. The baby is not responsible for being born, the parents are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:24 AM
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Yes, you can choose to not have sex. 0% risk of becoming a father
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:33 AM
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If someone complains about their SO on group chats, it is a strong sign that the person isn't capable of a healthy relationship, regardless of the problems they may legitimately have in that relationship. Or it might just be a strong sing of a problem within a relationship that they do not know hot to handle and are seeking help from their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:01 AM
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then men deserve to choose to be a father or not. You have all the rights to decide wether or not you want to have sex. You can't exactly make a baby alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:38 PM
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If someone breaks up with you for sharing your emotions, then it's better for everyone that the breakup happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:57 PM
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Upper hand in a sense of knowing your personal secrets and then when the relationship ends she will tell others about them. Maybe you should reconsider the people you are dating, as based on this description, they seem to be quite a massive assholes. ​ Also in a sense of vulnerability in how much are you going to compromise your frame for her. The more you lose your frame and move into her frame the attraction is going to diminish. What frame? And how is talking about my feelings going to "dimin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:24 PM
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They're competing in who cares more and so they're able to weed out weak males, What kind of people are you dating? They sound awful. And like, it's not like you are going to be trauma dumping on a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:05 PM
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Upper hand in what exactly? What are you competing in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:50 PM
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I only ever see anyone talk about this online. Like, if you are in a relationship or have good friendships of course its expected to be vurnable with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:59 AM
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Anyone who considers a "starting girlfriend" appropriate, should not be dating anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:07 AM
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A man helping an old woman cross a street would be invisible to most women unless he was also tall, hot, etc and only then will they notice and gush over his qualities. Tallness, hotness ect wont change that you are invisible to people. Nobody pays that much attention to you during your day to day life. You have to get peoples attention somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:41 AM
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t, it's why the US can fund the Palestinian genocide USA is funding Israel that is defending itself against an attack from Iranian proxies and terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:13 PM
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I have never once seen anyone but incels use the term "subhuman"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:53 PM
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Are we only rating the physical appearance of someone, that's like only a tiny part of someone? And most of the time irrelevant. And how physically attractive someone is depends a lot on the situation and how they present themselves. Still, hard to rate, but the women I generally think are physically attractive are different to those that my friends think are physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:18 PM
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Is the dating market in some sort of demonic parallel universe where ugly people have as much SMV as attractive people? If you are going to use incel terms, please explain what they mean. ​ ​ Why do y'all take some methaphoras so literally? referring to dating as a "market" doesn't capture the full complexity and emotional depth of human relationships. Dating and romantic relationships are far more nuanced and driven by a multitude of social, psychological, and emotional factors that go beyond t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:02 PM
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I don't rate people. I cannot say which person is better. I either get attracted to someone or i don't, I never was attracted to anyone before talking to them for a while though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:39 PM
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It's the basic universal law of supply and demand, and humans do not supercede supply and demand. Classical model of supply and demand assumes a perfect market. Dating is nowhere close to a perfect market so any attempts to make comparisons really falls flat. Human emotions are also not predictable, or rational. You meet someone you vibe with, and that could be the one you fall for, regardless of who else is out there, who could have theoretically scored higher score on your imaginary rating sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:35 PM
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Cause rating things matter? How was the movie from 1 to 10? How was the dinner 1 to 10? How you see yourself from 1 to 10 is not some kind of attack. Again, there is no objective measure. How was the movie? You get different ratings from different audiences. How was the dinner? You get different ratings based depending on the situation. Sometimes it could be a 10/10, but the exact same dinner in some other circumstances or mood could be 7/10. And someone else might just not like it and rate it 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:32 PM
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I am just confused about your double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:42 PM
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Why is there supposed to be a "rating system", who does it benefit? There is no objective ratings, its all based on feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:04 PM
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Well, the "L's" you posted were just you meeting shitty people. So is the point of this post just to see someone tell you they got rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:45 PM
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So, your "L's" and faults are that you met shitty people? My 1st relationship turned sour when I was vulnerable with her; it gave her the ick and she dumped me I struggled with dating in my early 20s as I had no life direction. I was rejected by girls who worked at the same place as me (lmao) because I didn't make enough money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:28 PM
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Your value to the gender you want to attract. How would you even determine that, because everyone values anmd looks for different things? And why do you talk about it like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:49 PM
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Lowered you value As in what scenario? Why is your value determined by your faults? Value as in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:44 PM
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Random people aren't going to start hitting on you suddenly, just because you have a girlfriend, at least not commonly, or in any normal social settings. If anything, they might come to you when someone is harassing them at a bar for example because they see you as more reliable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:36 PM
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It's a problem, but it's a really local problem. Here in Finland for example, large towns and university towns are where women vastly outnumber men, while small rural villages have men outnumbering women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:27 PM
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Sex is not some gift you should be grateful for. It's often an intimate action and declining it when it does not feel right is exactly what you should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:24 AM
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Women, why do you do this? Do you think men won’t notice? Do you think we’ll look past it? I’m genuinely curious Men are doing the exact same thing aswell, just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:00 AM
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I dont think gold diggers make up that big of chunk of the population to meanginfully shift averages in either direction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:39 PM
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. But unfortunately most women will always be blinded by a chads sexy smile ignoring his personality, be used and then categorising all men as bad. Dude, cut the incel crap and take some accoutability
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:52 PM
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Have you actually been on a date? Because this definetly sounds like that you have not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:45 PM
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We’ve talked about that. Hers is pretty low. Under 20 The average is like 4 for women under 45, so that would be 5 times the average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:07 PM
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That video does not contain "perfect hair". At he point OP shared, it's just a messy bun, in other places its just brushed straight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:16 AM
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Do share the video you watched then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:14 AM
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I mean with the tiktoks or whatever those are you shared. it's clearly staged unless you think the camera man is just invisible. She clearly prepared what she was wearing so she could look good for the camera. Well, shorts and a t-shirt isn't exactly out of ordinary clothing. Especially at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:44 AM
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Another banger from Hoe_math, it's no wonder he's blowing up on tiktok, his metacognitive skills are top notch. Anyway, i want to add a couple caveats to his analysis: 💀💀💀 Nah man, he ain't some metacognitive jesus, he is just taking advantage of incels and young teens inexperience. Telling them what they want to hear in order to profit himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:01 PM
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When you cant sell your retirement funds, you often really cant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:46 PM
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No which is why the person who works less than a high schooler should be doing most the child rearing The better situation would be for both to work 40 hours, or close to it and share that equally. Taking care of 3 kids can take upwards of 120 hours of attention per week and will result in numerous sleepless nights, especially when they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:39 PM
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Do you think the 3 kids just magically take care of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:31 PM
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Investments are rather normal part of everyday finances. Most young people here have invested some thousands of euros, with overall 50% of the population having investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:15 PM
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Divorces can happen for multitude of reasons, not just trust. Like if you fall out of love, it aint about trust, but you still want to protect your assets
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:13 PM
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Having a crush is true attraction, it's not automaticly love to feel emotions. You can think someone looks good without ever getting attracted to them. And people definitely have sex with people they normally wouldn't find even physically attractive, especially at parties or clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:54 AM
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I am not the one claiming to be too ugly for relationships, and crying about it each day. What happened to the accountability you keep complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:55 PM
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Nobody is that hot, that they find any particular success by just walking up to randoms without any indication of interest and asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:47 PM
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They definedly can not, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:40 PM
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You definetly can, as long as you have any amount of social awareness and don't overstay your welcome. And unless you are like just walking up to someone and saying stuff like "Hey, you are cute, wanna go out" or something equivalent out of the blue, people aren't gonna mind most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:37 PM
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It's really not. Our boat costed like 10000€ in total in equipment and aluminum when built it, though its been upgraded with a lot of electrical stuff since. And a cabin can be rented for less than 400€ for a week. Nevertheless, you do your hobbies with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:47 PM
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Where did I indicate that a bar is the only place to meet friends? Like, I am not buying shots at a bar when we are out boating or at a cabin or hiking or whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:31 PM
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I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want to only having online friends. Like I need to get out and see people to have meaningful interactions. Online stuff is just kinda meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:27 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:03 PM
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In denial of what exactly? I am not the one making up some wild theories about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:54 PM
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That's most definetly the average dude. Relationships normally happen when 2 people of similar socioeconomic status meet eachother, like eachother and it goes forward. Most people arent concerned with some weird incel bs like "SMV" and whatnot. They date who they like and thats how far it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:48 PM
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I think the best explanation is an alpha is women's first choice. A kind of guy that can get girls without having to read up on game. One that can get girls without money. So the average dude in a normal job?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:39 PM
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I don't know a single person who was truly attracted to their one night stand. Like some level of physical attraction is usually where it's limited to, often not even that. Like I can think that someone looks good, but feel absolutely nothing towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:36 PM
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People say this as though there's no way that you can just find yourself without friends through no fault or failing of your own. You definetly can, but at that point, finding a relationship is not what you should be putting your efforts towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:34 PM
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Why would anyone be with someone who thinks that they are ugly? Like isn't that just common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:16 PM
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I am referring to people without friends. If that is your case, you should propably focus on other areas of your life, like getting friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:03 PM
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That's another filthy blue pill lie. People are excited and happy if somebody they're attracted to approaches them, It's a cold approach, if someone is truly attracted to you, that would mean that you have interacted in the past. Like, you can't exactly be "truly attracted" to someone if you are only seeing them for the first time. ​ ​ They are anxious and stressed because it's a cold approach and they are trying to figure out how to get rid of somebody and don't know how. That whole "appropriat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:50 PM
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just give you really nervous and stressed body language That's just an automatic and intuitive response, like most other body language, and if that is a common thing when you approach a woman, you are doing something absolutely horribly wrong. Like people aren't scared of you if you do things appropriately and in appropriate settings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:27 PM
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Great, I never claimed it's impossible to overcome your shortcomings. What shortcomings? It literally never hindered me in any way. Nobody cared. If you have to do extra shit to get laid as an ugly guy it means being ugly is the main reason you are a virgin. You referring to yourself as ugly guy is 1000x more likely to be the reason for you being a virgin. If you dont love yourself, absolutely nobody else will either. And again, this conversation is an excelent way to confirm my point of virgin …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:35 PM
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Have you tried living as a short, ugly, bald, or indian guy? No, so you can't know. Short? Well, i mean i am 5'6. Doesnt matter Again, i have yet to meet someone who so ugly that that is the reason. Most of the time its just normal dudes saying they are ugly and blaming that for their lack of success. And there is literally more indians than any other group of people on this planet. And its not some point system. There is no grade And again, this conversation is an excelent way to confirm my poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:29 PM
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You realize most male virgins are just guys who got screwed over by genetics? Sure some guys are socially inept but it's a small minority. Screwed over? how? I have yet to meet someone so ugly that that is the reason they are a virgin. Most of those adult virgins just seem to blame their looks or height or whatever else for their lack of success. The reasons are almost without fail that they don't know what to say, or how to act around women. Or that they simply dont meet anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:15 PM
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Being an adult virgin is often indicative of some underlaying problems, especially if he didn't choose to be a virgin, so it can be a red flag. Like if you are a socially well adjusted person, chances are you aren't going to be an adult virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:09 PM
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that’s not something you can just brush off in the presents, Why not? Is not something that matters in any way Most people you will ever meet has done that at some point in their lives. And like, how would that even get brought up? Its not particularly normal to discuss past partners when you are on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:44 PM
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I see your point, but at the end of the day, this isn’t an act that goes well in the relationship, But its not an act that was done in the relationship, so how would it even "Go in the relationship"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:35 PM
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If online dating is the only way you meet women, then yeah, its kind of bad. You also are primarly exposed to a certain types of peopel there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:04 PM
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Going on a shit ton of dates with randoms seem like a waste of time. Like you can get to know people and have an idea if you are compatible before you ask them out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:02 PM
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Is this a new realization for you? Or why does it warrant a discussion post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:25 PM
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Most cases yes. Women only truly lust over top 5-10% of physically attractive men and those men rarely have an incentive to marry as they can get endless women casually. Most women probably marry a guy they find at least somewhat attractive, but they don't lust over him. My man, have you like never ever interacted with a woman in your entire life or had female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:05 PM
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I refuse to believe that this is not some convoluted troll attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:50 PM
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Yeah, it's reddit. That tends to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:43 AM
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Yes, and we go on dates with my wife. I am not quite understanding your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:35 AM
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Your post is about dates not an established relationship. But, you still go on dates when you are in a relationship, and when you are married. Literally, what are you trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:02 AM
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Well, most peole here are americans, and obesity is just the norm in USA. 75% of men and around 67% of women are obese in the states. It's rarer to find someone who isnt obese, than its to find someone who is morbidly obese
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:56 AM
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Although I still find it wild how such women will still refuse to even entertain the interest from most guys who are if anything better than the ones they end up falling for. That's how humans and emotions are. You cannot negotiate attraction, it isn't calculated or decided. It's an emotion that happens if it is to happen and you are in the right circumstances, different people are attracted to different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:47 AM
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In what way is getting arrested and charged with a crime "leeway" and "getting away with" something`?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:15 PM
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How would you know someone has a dark triad personality if they don't mean to show it? They are very rare to begin with, and like narcissists or psychopaths don't go walking around with that written on their forehead, you only notice it with time, or if they do something outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:51 PM
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Let’s stop pretending manipulation is some Jedi mind power, all it takes to see thru a person’s bullshit is cross-examine their words with their past actions, and refuse to do what they want you to if their past actions or suggestions have hurt you before. Women will ignore every red flag in a man if he is highly attractive, at that point it’s a choice. If you know someone has a history in manipulating others, ofcourse you are going to be vary of them. But like, you don't know majority of the pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:27 PM
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Manipulation in this case is lying to someone in order to get them to do something they would not normally do, if they knew the truth. if you fall for someone’s manipulation despite the red flags you are responsible for your own doom What immediate red flags would someone faking to be a good person display?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:21 PM
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Your whole comment was about deflecting blame to not take accountability for your own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:12 PM
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If i commit financial fraud, is the goverment to blame for lack of accountability? If You shoot someone, is the victim to blame for being shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:03 PM
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but once they see how I look like, I get instantly blocked. ​ like to take accountability for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:02 PM
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The redpill is just goofy for most part. Like everyone seems to have their own definition of what it is, and the most common representation of it that i see are misogynistic incels complaining about womens standards or something Its still traditional. I don't understand as to why. Like traditional literally means long-established tradition. It's a very recent thing. AND Feminism There is a reason why feminism as a movement isnt really that widespread thing in europe. The issues USA forged into e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:06 PM
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When you have no morals and your social skills are awesome, you can literally pretend to be anything, atleast for a while. And it really isnt "damn often" in the grand scheme of things as there arent that many people like that out there. Or people vurnable to other douchebags. And the study shows a correlation of about 2-3%, so its miniscule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:46 PM
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How is it the traditional? That's like the 1900-1960 USA stuff. Women were actively part of the economy in the middle ages and reneicancce and all troughout the industrial revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:37 PM
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Well I mean, neither do you. You keep claiming that you being a virgin is not the fault of your own actions by blaming ugliness, height or whatever else. So it's rather ironic for you to cry about "accountability"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:33 PM
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Why are you defending manipulation? Like lying and misrepresenting yourself to people for personal gain is not the hill you should die defending
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:30 PM
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It literally says it on the data tables. It tells you exactly how many respondents had certain types of fantasies and how they felt about them with long explanations. The table isn't even "scientific literature", it's literally just a spreadsheet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:26 PM
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I don't know what makes those views traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:25 PM
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Well, why did OP then post a study about dark triad traits rather than something that would imply agressiveness and lower impluse control? Like 2 of the 3 dark triad traits generally have excelent impulse controls. with Machiavellianism literally being defined by strategic long term planning in the efforts to manipulate and deceive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:02 PM
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That doesn't lend to a conclusion that the only people fantasizing about SA are recovering from trauma. That is why said trauma and fears makes up the majority of cases, atleast in the study OP posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:56 PM
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It was very close. He said Women fantasize about SA and seek men who are more likely to do it Having aversive fantasies about past trauma or fears is a coping mechanism for many people. And op tries to draw comparison between women having these fantasies as someone indicative of somehow wanting to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:46 PM
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Define "Traditional view" And which tradition? "Traditional view" here means high family involvement and courtship rituals and very serious commitment from both parties. Though, it's been ceuntries since "traditional views" were anywhere common here. ​ And define "leftist", because I have been called that even though I am economically right of center
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:02 PM
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This kind of comparison is like saying that being attracted to outgoing people means that you are attracted to drug addicts, because outgoing people are more likely to do drugs. Trying to force that connection does not make any sense at all ​ Nevertheless, you cannot clump 3 dark triad traits together if you even attempted that kind of forceful connection as they are 3 seperate traits that correlate differently and they are Narcissism Psychopathy Machiavellismin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:48 PM
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So, according to you, being fearful and having past traumas of Sexual assault makes you somehow want more of it? Nevertheless, out of the 355 people answering, 20% has been the victim of rape -And in the study 86 people reported having rape fantasies with vast majority saying it was aversive ​ and seek men who are more likely to do it. But you were drawing comparisons between dark triad and not rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:01 PM
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Dark Triad personality traits are attractive to women So, its a suprise to you that people who are capable of manipulation, say exactly what you want to hear for personal gain and are very outgoing and confident are rated more attractive for a short term fling by undergrad students? Like yeah, emotional manipulation works. ​ I have no idea how it relates the other article you are trying to draw comparisons to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:18 PM
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There is a disporportionate level of effort and and investment (not only economical) put by men on the early stages of dating, do you really think a man would be confortable investing in some woman for her to get fucked by someone else??? You are dating the wrong type of people then. Effort should be equal, if its not, you leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:00 PM
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It wasn't even the point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:00 PM
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Right. When men do it, there's always deceit involved and clear intention. When you refer to it as pump and dump, yes. If there was mutual understanding you would call it a hookup or one night stand. Like literally the term oringinated from financial fraud where the price of an asset is artificially inflated through misleading or exaggerated statements. You misrepresent something in order to take advantage of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:51 PM
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and don't forget the guy is obligated to pay child support even though he never consented to have a kid How do you have a kid without having sex? If you consent to sex, you consent to the possiblity of having a child. Its in the nature of the act. If you dont consent to the risk of having a kid, dont have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:40 PM
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When you consent to sex, you consent to the risk of having a child, it is a reproductive act. By having sex, you have already accepted to be the father if that risk realizes. Unless deception was used ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:34 PM
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Well, tinder has a gender ratio of like 1 woman for 3 men, most of which being certain type of people. Either way, most men still get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:00 PM
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I am confident because I do not need validation from other people, so I am not overly obsessed what other people think. I know what I am good at, I know what i am not good at, I know I will make mistakes if I do things I am not good at, but they aren't the end of the world and I can laugh about it. I can be confident in doing something I don't know how to because I dont expect to be good at it, and i am not discouraged by a mistake i make If someone criticizes my actions, I am not defensive abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:36 PM
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Household costs are about 50/50 and that's about it for joint finances. We have seperate investments ect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:19 PM
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These 1950's "traditional gender roles" that was popularized by the rise of nuclear families and suburban sprawl is kind of weird and foreing to me as a European.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:39 PM
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So the "male perspective" is that you get a maid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:07 PM
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Calling someone obese isn't an insult, it's a fact. What matters is the context and intent of you calling someone obese in determining wether or not it's an insult. Sure, it might be a fact, but if you intent to hurt or anger someone by saying it, you are using it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:18 PM
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And yeah I've met a long of women that don't count calories hard to miss That's US for you, 75% of men and about 65% of women are overweight. Calling people "Landwhales" is un-nececcary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:15 PM
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What is this fanfiction incels keep talking about? "since women only date up. " " which theyre totally fine with. " " nd theyr're not to blame since average women feel entitled to the top men but cant lock them down and only be part of their seasonal harem, " Like bruh, wtf? Your inability to date has nothing to do with "sexual revolution" but rather the fact that you unironically believe shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:19 PM
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However, men would take a bulge compliment cheerfully. I definetly wouldn't, and i propably wouldnt want anything to do with the person who said this. Unless they are my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:22 PM
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dating at first is you getting to know someone and figuring out if you two are compatible with eachother and want to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:15 PM
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You dont wash your curtains ? 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:47 PM
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intelligence in its raw form (just knowing lots of stuff) is just not fun. That is just knowledge. Like anyone can know a lot of stuff with effort, doesnt mean they are intelligent. Intelligence is more so your ability to apply that knowledge into real world situations, reason and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:30 PM
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"that has nothing to do with being a virgin. Many people in specialized fields are this way. And people with those traits tend to be virgin more often than the average population. doubt but again has nothing to do with being a virgin You propably wouldnt feel FOMO, if you werent a virgin. So you would be less likely to be as desperate to find a relationship. so now virginity causes autsim.. hmm' No, but autists are more likely to be virgin. And if someone is an adult virgin, there is a higher th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:57 AM
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You got the URL wrong, this aint incel .is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:52 AM
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People are lonely even in countries where people dont get their shit kicked out. Here kids can perfectly fine walk 2km to attend pre-school at the age of 6 and not have anything happen to them, yet people are lonelier than ever due to the increased use of social media and video games and people generally being less forced into social situations due to internet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:05 PM
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What exactly is my agenda here? I got lost here accidentally, and now I am just curious and entertained more than anything. These obscure subreddits are like a zoo and I can't look away. Incels making up some boogieman "Chads" and blaming their height or face for their unability to attract a partner instead of taking accountability and fixing themselves. It's quite funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:11 PM
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Incel by definition is " a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile towards women and men who are sexually active. "
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:09 PM
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Could you post an example of a lilith doing that? I have not witnessed that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:01 PM
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Oh no, the incel wont give me a proper reply 😭😭😭😭😭 What ever will I do 😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:00 PM
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And ugly bums with kids. And toothless methheads with kids and all ofther kind of people with kids. Literally anyone can find a partner, and without care you might just have an unplanned pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:43 PM
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The people who can talk very rarely have any issues with dating or relationships in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:54 PM
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It sure is strange that women dressing provocatively happens when men are around. The majority of women wouldn't dress that way at a children's birthday party. And I wouldn't dress up in khaki pants and a blazer to a childrens birthday party, while i would propably wear it when playing billiard with friends. What is you point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:30 PM
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(see: advertisements even in victoria secret and other fashion brands showing off fat women). Like more than 70% of americans are fat. Fashion brands have to promote their products to fat people in america in order to stay in business. The businesses arent trying to advance some agenda, they are trying to sell their product. They arent "promoting fat women" , they are promoting TO fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:44 PM
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You get paid almost your full salary during parental leave, the 100€ is just extra you get until your child turns 18, so what do you need to replace? Most of the costs are paid by tax payers, you really are only left paying for food, clothing and your house or apartment. The situation is not economical here. Even an unemployed couple could afford to raise a child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:51 PM
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If they want to solve it they have to make having kids easier. If you get a year of maternity and paternity leave and there universal pre school etc. To be fair, we have tax funded day care, tax funded preschools, tax funded 160 days paternity leave for both parents here in Finland, and parents are paid about 100€/ month per child and we have one of the lowest birth rates amongst the developed world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:36 PM
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No accurate numbers, but you can make fairly accurate estimates with Genetic Genealogy. And ofcourse fraud is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:30 PM
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It does not matter. You can see which side is larger and by what amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:26 PM
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What numbers are you reading because the International Society of Genetic Genealogy estimates are around 1% of cases where paternity was misattributed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:59 PM
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The numbers are directly compareable so it doesnt matter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:57 PM
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But like, men are way more likely to cheat though, and paternity fraud is very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:19 PM
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Somebody has to be responsible for it, it's not like you can just not do your grocery shopping. It's either, one or both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:12 PM
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That just is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:51 PM
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I am a man I know exactly how the situation is. It's not bad at all, atleast if you have any kind of social circles. And Chad does not exist, its just a boogieman made up by self loathing incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:03 PM
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Well, almost half of young men havent even asked anyone out. So what else that could be than self inflicted? Like the kind of disability that would prevent you from finding a partner is not a very common occurance. If you refuse to do something about your situation, its 100% your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:57 PM
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Why would dating be broken? That isnt explained anywhere. ​ One of the top reasons for divorce being financial reasons just means the man didn't make enough, or in other words he doesn't make enough to compensate for lack of x. That is not what financial reasons mean in this context. They mean things like mismatching priorities, unexpected major expenses and secret spending ect. Like if I want to save and invest for the future, and my partner wants to buy a new house or go to yearly holidays, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:24 PM
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If you truly have 0 options, that is 100% self inflicted in vast majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:23 PM
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And if you have self worth and someone does not give you basic respect, you decide you are having nothing to do with that person ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:20 PM
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"Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner dates Yes. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:08 AM
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Well, 70% of americans weight that or more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:17 AM
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So if a woman is 5’6, how much should she weigh to be between overweight and obese, in your view? Around 75-80kg. I don't feel like finding out what it is in pounds as I am on a phone right now. Though, it has the same issues as BMI calculation usually, it doesn't take muscle and body fat, ect into account
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:04 AM
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Propably somewhere between overweight and obese. Its not healthy to try to make obesity sound better by calling it "plus size" But yeah, a lot of people, especially in USA tends to be very fat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:59 AM
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Why are you defining morbidly obese as plus sized? And to be fair, most fat guys seem to be dating fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:53 AM
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Most succesful men haven't even heard of the whole pill thing and most definetly don't use weird terms like "HVM". It feels like most pilled people are just roleplaying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:53 AM
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Is being an adult virgin somehow indication of "high value men" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:38 AM
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What levels are you on about? It isnt a video game where people have raking based on their stats
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:37 PM
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Why does being single mean being lonely in your world? Like most normal people have friends and family to support them so they are not lonely or desperate. Relationship is supposed to add to your life and you cannot force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:13 AM
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Robotics manufacturing is a pretty high skilled engineering job. You aren't going to give those tasks to a bunch of unskilled factory workers. And US most definedly has the capability to build robotics. There is boston dynamics plant literally in Boston. We have a whole bunch of robotics manufacturing capacity here in Europe aswell, and a huge chunk of our factories are mostly automated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:34 AM
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It already makes sense to use them in mid and high value production like cars or medical supplies. But in an OP's wet dream of de-globalization, it would make sense to do everything with robots when you no longer have access to cheap labour over in asia. Manufacturing robots truly arent expensive, atleast compared to long term factory workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:24 AM
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It's not like most men will survive in the wilderness either. Your average guy has no idea how to hunt, fish or gather for enough food or build shelters so it's kinda pointless question Anybody can learn the specific skills to survive in the wilderness, but most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:33 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:12 AM
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Yeah, if you are an adult, that indeed is the case. Pretty much nobody thinks there's anything cool about sleeping with a lot of women Highschool and college are different enviroments though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:23 AM
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There is 2.1 million creators in onlyfans. Europe and USA alone has 1.1 billion people. That is just about 0.2% of the population just the USA and europe. And about 0.04% of G20 population. Regardless, no age group has 20% using onlyfans or doing sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:06 AM
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Then why do drugs cause peoples eyes to dilate? Because drugs prevents the brain from functioning normally. And sure, arousal can cause pupil dilation, the same as a sense of danger but you cannot use it to determine anything as having dilated pupils doesnt mean there is arousal or attraction and not having dilated pupils doesnt mean there is no arousal or attraction. It's like, you are better of flipping a coin than trying to guess what the dialted pupils means in each situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:38 PM
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Dilated pupils are a sign of love/attraction/lust. This is one of those things you read of a weird blog telling you how to know if your crush likes you when you are 13. It doesnt really mean anything if someones pupils is dilated, other than the amount of light entering their eyes It isnt a good way to identify anything as the light level of the room and the direction of the light affects your pupils way more than any crushes you may have. Stimulants, medication or things like migraines can affe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:02 PM
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Maybe you just hang around in certain people. It's quite hard to consisntantly meet people that make up way less than a 0.1% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:48 PM
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But they are excidingly rare and chances are you don't even meet one in your day to day life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:41 PM
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You cant talk about generalities and say things like this dum dum more than happy sharing their nudes for money. Such hypocrisy. Like very few people do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:27 PM
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Why would you be with someone you don't want to be, rather than just stay single? Like why go into a relationship that just takes away from your life, but doesnt improve or add anything to it in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:07 AM
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Dating or just being with someone doesnt mean you arent lonely. It's caused by preceived isolation, so if you have no emotional connection with the person or people you are with, you can be just as lonely as someone who is alone. A bad relationship can even make you more lonely than just being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:47 PM
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If a dude has results, his „strategy“ is proven, what women in theory believe is irrelevant because in practice the dude wins. Results is the only thing that matters. Learn from those guys. The goal for most guys isnt to attract 15 gold diggers dating your money. Most people actually want to date someone who they like and who likes them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:58 PM
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So unemployed? If you have no kids and are "stay at home" you are just unemployed. And yeah, there propably is nothing to do at home to fill that time every day all day. Just call it what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:25 PM
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Nice guys are picked all the time. Being nice doesnt prevent you from dating, but it doesn't really do anything by itself. If you can't hold a conversation, aren't funny ect, being nice and having manners wont really help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:05 PM
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will have a different definition Well, watch the videos for a perfect demonstration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:00 PM
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Why do women in general prefer being an orbiter of a high value man over being in a relationship with a lower value man? They do not, and they are not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:27 PM
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I definetly would and have seen it as rude. Like why are you trying to tell me how I see someone holding a blank emotionless stare with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:46 PM
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I dont like rude behaviour regardless of what the other person looks like. I wouldnt nececcarily be creeped out as the threat aspect is not really there, but i definetly wouldnt like someone staring at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:41 PM
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Legally allowed, yeah. But so is recording and calling your antisocial behaviour out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:32 PM
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The problem here is that you only see it that way because of his face. If he was a hot girl you'd just say she was keeping her cool or playing hard to get or whatever. Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:32 PM
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In what world is that "just glancing"? In the first one, the dude was leaning on the chair next to him, and straight up staring. I would feel threatened by that kind of behaviour. The second one is just holding a blank stare and fidgeting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:29 PM
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Someone staring at you with empty, blank stare wouldnt fly, regardless of who was staring at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:14 PM
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That is a lot more than glancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:56 PM
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What does saying hello has to do with anything? This is pure antisocial behaviour in these videos. Nobody well meaning and well adjusted person stares at people like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:41 PM
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What is found on the video would be creepy regardless of who was doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:36 PM
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Watch the videos and you'll see what they are complaining about. It's not just looking at someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:27 PM
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"no one said you can't look at a woman! you are just being paranoid!!" There is no problem as long as you do things like a normal person. If you do it like a creep, then yeah, propably dont do anything. If a dude started leaning on the chair next to him while staring at me like that, i'd feel threatened. ​ what makes this case exceptionally bad is that it started a trend went with the men going viral probably not having any idea they’re subject to mass mockery online. Women outing men that hit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:25 PM
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Because even asking for the test, which surely you agree any man has the right to do, pisses off women. Obviously it annoys someone if you accuse that they are a liar and a cheater. But why should everyone subsidised paternity tests because you don't want to admit to their partner that they dont trust them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:26 AM
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It wouldn't be because any one man was insecure. It would eliminate the imbalance I was talking about without anyone having to be suspicious. If you arent suspicious, why are you suspecting that your partner cheated on you? If you think so, just get the test. No need to test everyone just for the sake of it. ​ So, the only real concern is financial, then? I am not concerned with the topic. I don't really care. But i find it dumb that people are requesting subsidised paternity tests for eveyr bab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:06 AM
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There is a natural imbalance where trust is concerned. A woman always knows her children are hers. A man can never be certain, and, even if he does suspect something, a whole host of issues arises from his asking for a test. So, because you dont trust your partner, everyone should be getting tests? Hypothetically, if the process was financially feasible and not hampered by infrastructure, how would you feel? It would still be a waste of resources. Those 3 days, lab technician and several nurses …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:34 AM
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Why exactly? It would cost quite a lot to increase the lab capacity to conduct 3+ million paternity tests yearly. ​ What would be the benefit of conducting pointless paternity tests on babies that you have no reason to suspect were conceived trough cheating on your partner. Like just test when you have reasonable suspicion. There are also reasons why you dont test everyone for every single disease every year. There is no point. They show no symptoms, so testing is just a waste of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:14 AM
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For example, when talking about birth control there’s an argument that men should get a vasectomy rather than the woman getting a hysterectomy because a man can get impregnate numerous women but women can only have one pregnancy. I have not seen this argument even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:09 PM
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You're trying to make this a bigger deal than it is. You're not harmed in not knowing someone did a paternity test, But the relationship is pretty much doomed to fail at this point if neither party can trust eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:09 PM
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So the steps for an healthy relationship is lying and manipulation? You sound like a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:04 PM
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Paternity tests compare much broader range of genetic markers than those checking for diseases ect. You would have to take multipe different tests with multipe different samples-
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:14 PM
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In 150 years people there will be a much safer and superior way to become inebriated. Humans first made alcohol for consumption like 9000 years ago, why would something change so radically in the next 150 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:11 PM
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So when I talk about the labor market I think of humans as commdities too ? Your labor is the commodity you are selling to your employer. You arent selling yourself, you are selling your labor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:16 PM
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This is like saying that there is no downsides into buying a 1000€ gps tracker and putting it on your partners bag. It wastes resources without benefiting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:14 PM
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That is a massive red flag on it's own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:38 AM
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Liking a picture is a social action. You acknowledge your friend or acquaintance. How is it in any way compareable to putting clothes on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:00 PM
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People tend to have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:49 PM
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But it doesnt do as much damage as women labelling men. What labeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:24 PM
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But women do sometimes endanger men and women with their social attacks which means that women do have enough power to cause problems like that. And they do it frequently too. I have absolutely never seen or heard anything like this happen. What the fuck kind of poeple you hang around with who do "social attacks"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:20 PM
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Just as i said to him, women tend to engage in this behaviour more often regardless if it is retaliatory or if it is for no reason. But it's still so incredibly rare. vast majority of people arent harming others just for the sake of it. And what do you mean with "label"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:13 PM
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Women dont have that dynamic, women who talk smack and gossip arent necessarily losing their respect among women. People generally do not like the people who talk smack and gossip. They have their own small circles and they arent particularly liked outside of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:08 PM
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But the generalisation assumes it is common thing, which it is not. Atleast without no retaliatory aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:41 PM
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You made a generalisation in your title. Normal people don't purposefully go around harming people without a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:19 PM
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Highest birth rates seem to be mostly where there are a lot of religious people and rural areas. While larger towns and cities where people are less religious are far lower
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:37 PM
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Response to what? Some of that is just straight up false. For example the home owner statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:12 AM
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​ You think 4chan is some obscure thing? Mostly yeah. The reputation that it has is that it is used by social outcasts and weirdos. And the only times I hear anything about 4chan falls pretty much on point with that reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:48 PM
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So are creepy men. When someone doesn't understand social cues and acts in a weird manner while staring at you and trying to talk to you, you cannot predict their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:46 PM
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Nobody claimed otherwise. I just said that if you meet 4chan users, you propably hang out in a certain type of crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:30 PM
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What is the "incredible privilege" you are talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:54 PM
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No. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:44 PM
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Okay? What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:33 PM
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Maybe it tells more about the crows you hang around with. I have never once met anyone who uses 4chan unironically. Or atleast admitted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:27 PM
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Yet if men on reddit try to tell women the same advice, they are banned for Rule 1 hate speech. How is this at all compareable to your friend saying things to you? Like yeah, there is a difference how you should word your thoughts and opinions depending on your relationship with the said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:24 PM
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And most incels are just men who lost the genetic lottery, you will never ever see an attractive incel Most incels just looks like regular people, who seem to groom themselves less on average than the general population. But who they are is what makes them undesireable. I have genuinely never seen an incel that looks so bad that their looks is what is preventing them from dating. And i can tell that just from your post and comment history that your attitude is so toxic and sad that could look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:41 PM
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If a woman says you are the father, it's believed and legally enforceable Idk how it goes there, but here, unless the child is born to a marriage, it requires the father to acknowledge the parenthood either during or after pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:32 PM
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It's not a feasable strategy to spend hundreds of billions, or even trillions upfront, and then billions yearly to massively multiply the capacity to conduct genetic testing to test millions of babies when there is no reason to suspect that the mother has cheated. Just test the ones where there is a reason to believe the father is not actually the father
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:28 PM
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who are unlucky to lose the genetic lottery. I do feel bad for those people, most incels arent those people. Dont you ever feel bad for the people that actually "lost the genetic lottery" and have some deformation or disability actually affecting all aspects of their day to day life? You however, are just a whiny little incel blaming the world for your lack of success to not have to take accountability and actually realize that who you are as person is the issue, not your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:22 PM
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Then why do courts and women routinely demand tests from men when they assert that they aren't the father? This is exactly what I just said. The man thinks the woman is a cheater, so a test should be done to see who is the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:16 PM
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​ So it's fine to call them lying pieces of shit? Where did I say so? I called someone who is cheating a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:14 PM
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If you think that your partner is a piece of shit and cheated on you can still get the test done. But doing so automaticly would be stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:42 PM
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an average looking guy will never be succesful with women without money. Average looking guys definedly have a lot of success without money. If you go around flashing your money, you propably will have less success in finding a stable relationship as you are raising the interest of those people that would be dating your money instead of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:10 PM
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man approaching when the success rate drops to like 1 out of 30 or worse. Are you just asking randoms out on a street corner or how do you manage that bad of a "success rate"? I don't think i have even asked out 30 different people in my entire life, and I am getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:07 AM
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It's only when it benefits men that we become very cost conscious. This does not benefit anyone at all. It's just an extra cost for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:53 AM
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You can't exactly just make feelings happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:42 AM
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But that is not how it would play out. So it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:37 AM
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where the minimum wage is substantially less. I mean, get educated, go into trades, do something with your life. Being stuck without any kind of plan for the future isn't really a sound strategy. (And btw, there are mid sized towns aswell. There are over 600 towns with 50-250k population in the USA) ​ It makes more logical sense for me to stay at home in rural Illinois and save money rather than move to my desired area (near Charlotte, North Carolina) where the minimum wage is substantially less…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:10 PM
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Why would you stay in a place without career prospects? I mean, young people move to a new places in pursuit of a job or education so why stick in a place working a deadend job at minimum wage rather than doing something? ​ AKA the job professions that make you subhuman to women if you weren’t blessed genetically. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:51 PM
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Any man that isn’t blue collar What else would you be in a small rural town? Other than unemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:41 PM
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Almost every single instance I have seen talking about icks were jokes. Sure there are some actual icks, like if someone chews with their mouth open for example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:22 AM
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It isn't even survivalist behaviour. It's a good thing to have some clothes and a first aid kit ect in some bag for common events such as minor flooding when you might need to stay somewhere else for a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:20 AM
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I am talking about a bag where you have some stuff that you can quickly take with you when the river happened to flood over its barriers and now there is 40cm of water on a street or a wildfire forced you to evacuate an area for a few days, or you just happened to have an house fire, or any other thing that causes you to not be able to be at home. You can't exactly just kill people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:38 AM
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A SHTF bag ain't gonna have 1000s of dollars in it .. it's gonna have ammo ( between 1000-3000rounds) food for 5 days, a way to treat water,gold and silver, medical supplies and two- firearms near it The fuck kind of area you live in where wildfires, hurricanes or flooding requires ammunition and gold to deal with? You need things to get by for like a week when you stay in a hotel in the next city over or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:38 AM
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"Oh no, my partner is preparing for regularly occuring natural disasters, better lock her outside" you seem like the kind of person that someone dating you would find a Go-bag usefull in fear of domestic abuse rather than more common reasons to get a go-bag
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:15 AM
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It's mostly a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:39 PM
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False and false. Most women find most men unattractive and not because they are, Not finding someone attractive is not the same as finding them unattractive. And it's not like you know everyone you come across well enough to know if they are attractive or not. Phsyical attrativeness is one thing, and does not really do anything by itself And someone who might be attractive does not automaticly mean you are attracted to them. And I mean, most people don't find most people attractive, each person …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:03 PM
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There is not some thaught out list. You either are attracted to someone at any given time or you are not. You might get attracted to someone once you get to know them or you might not. It's not a choice. ​ incapable of lowering their unrealistic standards. The standards are extremely low, even the bottom of the barrel of society finds a partner. And how would lowering your standards go? You cannot just choose to get attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:01 PM
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Average men definetly do get laid. less than 5% of men are virgin when they turn 25 and average man between the ages of 15-24 has had 3 sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:56 PM
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´That is just the case if you get together with gold diggers that date your money instead of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:05 AM
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People tend to interact with a lot of strangers in their day to day life. Meeting someone you vibe with can happen as a side effect of having normal friendly conversations with people in your day to day life. Cold approach is not just you walking up to someone and asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:38 PM
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Is that what I said now? If so, read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:46 PM
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Contracts largely define their own rules. They don't need to be based on anything pre-existing. I can agree to just about anything in a contract
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:43 PM
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What does that have to do with anything said here? I dont quite follow your thought
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:24 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:21 PM
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Let me guess you are a woman? No ​ Or she is but doesn't want to put in effort or work something most women seemingly these days aren't about doing. Nah man. Where is the "most" you are getting? Some fringe weirdo might do so but definetly not enough people that you would ever meet one that does that does so. People arent intentionally making dating harder for you. ​ If you need to ask this then not do I suggest learn what words mean. "Initiate a date" is not how humans talk. I dont know what it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:54 AM
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The conversation is about relationships and dating. Ofcourse, if you are trying to manipulate someone into thinking you like them in order to get them to do something they wouldnt do if they knew the truth, it requires effort you dont want to put in. If you want sex, just go to a club or hire a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:25 AM
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Because the majority of women are actively trying to use men for free money food and attention No they are not. Are you exclusively looking at narcissists and gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:21 AM
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​ lead the conversation If the conversation needs a leader, she propably is not interested in you. ​ balance creepiness and sexual intent This is just normal. It is indeed required to have some sort of social awareness. ​ initiate the date The fuck does this even mean? ​ charismatic Yeah, being charismatic is usually an advantage. ​ successful Not really. Normal people do not expect some massive success. Just having your shit together. ​ smarter than her Not really. ​ usually 3 years older than …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:01 AM
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Your list is not the description of someone with good parents. It mostly describes a narcisitic asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:45 AM
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most women No. especially desirable women want all of these things from the men they date You really need to re-evaluate what you find desireable if this is true. You are drawn to some very toxic people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:39 AM
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The only conclusion one can make from this post is that your exes were extremely toxic and bad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:33 AM
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How so? The goverment does not know all the contracts you sign. You just need to prove that it exists if there is a dispute you can't solve trough mediators or other parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:47 AM
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The picture it paints is that people with dark triad traits are more likely to take advantage of someone. Wasnt really any new information.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:09 AM
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Always a good indicator when the study does not use representive samples, and even tells you that we cannot know if these percentages are accurate for women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:04 AM
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An emotional connection is code for her seeing how much you can invest in her without much return investment. If you think a relationship as some transaction or "investment", maybe get the fuck away from that toxic mess of a relationship and don't look back. ​ Google searches revealing a ton of advice regarding women henpecking and berating and disrespecting their partners. Guess no one is using that advice... Google searches also reveal a ton of advice about removing carrots from your asshole, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:31 AM
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Look, these buzz words/phrases/terms (emotional connection, take time to get to know you, etc.) are all code for one thing "how much will you kiss my ass for sex?" The fuck? Have you never been in a relationship or a date before? How is emotional connection "kissing ass for sex"? ​ A lot of relationships involve a lot of ass kissing by men to women who, by and large, are no better than they. In what world? Normal healthy relationship contains none of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:10 AM
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Being creepy is always unattractive but being unattractive is not always creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:47 PM
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I personally know a lot of guys who suffer from intense loneliness due to a lack of a romantic or sexual experience with women in their entire span of life. That isnt normal loneliness. That is something else. You should advice your friends to a therapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:21 PM
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My Man took the first google result without actually reading into what it is and how it is. But no, a reliable test is not 130-200
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:12 PM
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Labs don't make profit on paternity tests most of the time. Taking an accurate one can cost upwards of 1-2k usd for the lab
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:05 PM
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Women put practically zero effort in dating, courting and beyond while having all the advantages or choice. Have you never been on a date before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:01 AM
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being 5‘6“ in a tall country makes you 5/10 at best That's some weird incel thinking. But no, it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:26 AM
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I am not sure what you are even trying to say here. It has like 3 different stories and then some weird extreme opinions stated as widely shared opinions. the title is not related to the post really at all. "Low-maintenance" is not explained, "insecure" in the title is not explained any further, it's not given any context. ​ I have no idea what point you are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:26 PM
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This post does not make any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:15 PM
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You see what you watch on instagram. The algorithm feeds you more of what you watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:51 PM
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What? Are you trolling or wtf is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:32 PM
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Say 30 years ago... Almost any average person would easily have found a partner The same is true today. The problem is that people just dont do anything about it in their teenage and early adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:12 PM
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What kind of conversations are you starting with people to get that kind of reaction? Maybe you should talk to someone that can help you speak like a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:49 PM
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What would it add to the table if i talked about my exes to my date? Other than the end of the date that is? It literally holds no relevance to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:43 PM
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It is literally not relevant in any way. And the people that cheat arent going to tell you that beforehand regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:35 PM
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He said smile, not do some weird faces with your tongue in your nose while staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:33 PM
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Then why is it better to have the leverage? Using it is bad, so having it does not provide benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:47 AM
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Healthy adults are not the ones being clingy very often. it's the ones that have some other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:59 AM
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So, abusive relationships are the best? Leverage over the other person is not a good thing. It means you can get them to act in a way you want by threatening to take it away. Please don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:56 AM
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Its just that most people consider the place they live at their home. Like most students live at apartment buildings, or dorm rooms so that is their home. Your parents house is a whole another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:36 AM
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Idk, it seems like an advantage that everybody is alone in the begging. It pushes people to group up with new people instead of hanging around in preexisting groups
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:06 AM
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Reading this makes me feel like you have the social skills of a houseplant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:24 PM
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Where do you live then? A tent in the parking lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:23 PM
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You talking and interacting with someone is your chance, If they aren't interested in you or don't like you, it's not really up for a choice to get interested in you or like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:12 PM
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Nobody else gives you chance of success. That is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:04 PM
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Everybody gets a chance. When you start a conversation with someone, that is your chance. You have a chance to talk to them, see if there is any chemistry and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:12 PM
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Considering that men are the ones who have to approach, initiate, escalate, plan dates, pay for dates, basically an entire relationship is the result of a man putting in effort while women basically just sits back and watches, It's basically like a rich person who was born into a wealthy family shaming a middle class/poor family and being disgusted at how they aren't rich When people say stuff like this, i feel like its more of a moral obligation to shame and make fun of the people that do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:57 PM
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Can we just not post random tiktoks with weird views and assume that they are somehow representive of something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:20 PM
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I wouldn't exactly call a survey conducted by a middle-market tabloid a "study". That has comparable informational value to a buzzfeed quiz
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:02 PM
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What does that have to do with what i said? You talk about orbiters like you know people personally that does that kind of thing. So you must have some personal experience being friends with that kind of toxic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:48 PM
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No. It's the constant gaslighting from women like you, which is the problem. If you reject someone in a split second, just because he's short, then his confidence is if little to no use in that case. The fuck you doing out there? Like if you just randomly ask someone out you have never talked to before, 99% of the time its a no, regardless of who is asking someone out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:45 PM
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You can see the swinger groups. They welcome single women and couples, not single men, or rather make the later pay way more. What? What groups are you talking about? Social groups are similar, but obviously not only sexual dynamic. They are not similar to your earlier description. And depend a lot on where and who they are. A group of gamers at a gaming event for example will welcome you pretty much automaticly if you play the same games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:41 PM
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And you're stupid if you don't think height is not the most important part of men's attractiveness, lol. I cant quite figure out wether or not you are an angry incel, or a troll. In a normal context, this sentence is so stupid and out of touch that I would think of it as pure trolling, but i have seen some weird people in reddit so you never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:24 PM
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I have never seen a short gen z guy in a relationship, especially here in the USA. Try opening your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:21 PM
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They respond to it with personality personality incel something. While you agreed in your comment that height is a big deal. When you cry about your height to this degree, yeah it's propably not your height that is letting you down in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:19 PM
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​ For example, I'm a short guy. Whenever I get rejected, women who reject me always end up dating a taller guy in my college If you are a short guy, that means most guys are taller than you. I am 5'7 so not exactly tall either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:16 PM
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It's rather easy for most people with healthy social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:13 PM
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Who was I competing with? I didn't notice this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:12 PM
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lmao who doesn't have a passport wtf.. I don't. I don't go outside the EU, so I'll do just fine with my ID card and driving lisence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:09 PM
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Most guys who aren't tall and handsome don't even get to talk to women in the first place. Every single person out there that has even a reseblance of social life gets to talk to women. OP's failure is to think that it's only a minority of women who care about looks when it's the other way around. AS long as you look like you atleast take care of yourself and arent compeletely disformed, it isnt going to be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:01 PM
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Why are you friends with someone who keeps "orbiters" around? They sound like a toxic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:58 AM
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So every single time you vibe with someone and have a good conversation and you decide to ask them out, they told you they dont like your looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:47 AM
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Have you tried actually talking to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:43 AM
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When you are talking to someone, it is very obvious if they are into it , or if they wants you to piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:42 AM
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Mental illnesses also include stuff like depression, anxiety, phobias ect ect. But yeah, that by itself is not a mental illness, but it signifies an underlying illness. A healthy person does not think about going on a murder spree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:38 AM
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I vote for a moderate center-right party that is a part of the European people's party in European parliament.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:26 AM
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That is not how it works for guys. You need to get rid of that sort of thinking. It is most certainly holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:18 AM
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What is attractive and unattractive depends on the situation and the person. Like someone might find your actions and behaviour unattractive while someone might find it attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:04 AM
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No. That is not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:00 AM
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Rejection rate is about 95-99% for men if you are cash. Why are you asking out people who doesnt show interest? That's kinda on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:57 AM
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That does literally not have anything to do with anything i said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:48 AM
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I don't think most people strike gold on the first date they find on dating apps. Like actually compatible matches that lead to relationships are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:21 PM
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Mostly the fact that it isn't even true. Most couples do not meet on dating apps. 40% meet online, and that contains everything. Not just apps. And the fact that that most relationships formed online fall apart in less than a year, so you have the same people dating. And 30% of people has ever even used a dating app. Most of which are men. and 80/20 rule is just bs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:18 PM
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Yeah except guys don't care about being called a dick That just depends on the situation. Go outside and yell "Oi you fucking dickhead" to randoms in an agressive voice and see how many minutes you can last without getting into a fight, And they aren't gender exclusive terms. You can call anyone a dick, and cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:09 PM
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Wait fuck, i replied to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:20 PM
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What ego you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:15 PM
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Thats a descriptive term, not a personifying term. No one using the term "asshole" is referring to the asshole of that person, they are referring to behavior. That is exactly what I said. You just cut out the rest of the sentence at the comma ​ But using d*ck refers to the body part of that person. More often it does not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:10 PM
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This got me to thinking, on social media, the term "d*ck" is used synonymously with men. or "broke d*ck should be illegal". What? "Dick" is used synonymously with "asshole", when describing someones behaviour. The same way "Cunt" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:00 PM
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Humans used to live 30-40 years on average. There wasnt really much time to fool around after a few children were born
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:55 PM
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when a guy asks a woman out politely and gets rejected and she is all avoidant now and doesn't even look him in the eye anymore, people will justify it saying "you made her uncomfortable " , "she feels awkard now" "get over it" if a woman asks a guy out politely but he is intentionally avoding her after that, people will say "she meant no harm" "take it as a compliment" "girls need loving too " what people are saying is that he should treat her no different than he did before, even if he doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:27 PM
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It also isn't natural to deliberately skip sleep, Abuse substances, provoking violence, domestic abuse, ect all goes against human nature but people still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:24 PM
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When pretty much every trait gets passed down to the future generations, a species cannot really evolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:20 PM
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Villages weren't a thing when humans were evolving. What is natural was pretty much finalized when human evolution effectively stopped when agriculture was discovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:03 PM
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there tends to be more competition among men to be useful in order to even stay within the community. The tribe did a very good job enforcing that. Like, your tribe goes on to hunt a mammoth, you cant just slack off. I thought the conversation was about natural things, not wifes. Without the sharing aspect, then it encourages men to compete for the attention in order to get even one wife. Plus, if I’m a man, and I know one of your wives is pregnant and you need to go get food, all I’d have to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:42 PM
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You think the men on here are not average or are under average? Yeah, mostly. Socially inept people, incels, Asocial people, straight up antisocial people ect ect are highly overrepresented in spaces like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:38 PM
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The best case scenario would be, nature wise, a bunch of men sharing a bunch of women. That way, when one woman got pregnant, there were a lot of women to help her with the kid, and a lot of men to protect the pregnant women. How would the end result (ignoring the social aspect and competition) be any different if the men didnt "share" the women? And like, women were pretty equal to men in these tribes. There werent any "gender roles" Like women didnt sit around collecting berries and not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:25 PM
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There is also a factor that humans are social creatures. There was a need for close co-operation within your tribe as your survival depended on it internal competition would and did destroy groups. Social norms and structures have always existed. And a lot of pack animals are monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:21 PM
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Well, human babies takes a long while to grow up, and need a massive amount of support while doing so, so it makes perfect sense for humans to be monogamous by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:11 PM
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This is exactly what i ment with "self pitying whining". You want to blame womens standards to not take accountability for your own behavour, and lack thereof. It's textbook incel behaviour. Anyway, take care little incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:47 PM
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but what makes you think those women don't have ridiculous standards too? Because people don't generally have very high standards. Like is not a checklist of things people look for. Getting attracted to someone just kinda happens. Someone can be a perferct "10/10" model but you just don't feel attracted to them for one reason or another. It is not so one dimentional, nor rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:43 PM
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She will see her getting pumped and dumped as a "bad life" and the man will be stuck with the problem. There are many types of bad lives. I wouldnt call being socially isolated, lonely and all alone a very good life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:30 PM
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What you want is someone who will enable your unhealthy lifestyle and doesn't force you to take accountability for anything you do or don't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:29 PM
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There is only so much of self pitying whining that I want to hear. If someone does not want to help themselves, I honestly do not care what happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:22 PM
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Yes, it s healthy. It s not toxic. It is very toxic. Please talk to a therapist and dont go anywhere near a relationship ​ No one can become better it s all genetic unless you hit the jackpot and get rich. Everyone can get better. Very little is determined by genetics in this sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:15 PM
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What you are describing is not a human. ​ This kind of relationship is not healthy. It's toxic, it prevents you from bettering yourself and can and will make you extremely vurnable to abuse and manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:12 PM
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It's a very good thing if they try to get better and take care of each other Perhaps, but only if they are actually taking care of eachother. Encouraging the other one to meet friends ect ect.. Otherwise its just a toxic mess that will hold you back and prevent you from bettering yourself ​ Why people always act like broken/dysfunctional people don't deserve love lol Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:02 PM
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They should never want to meet someone. Humans are social creatures, that's not very human.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:01 PM
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Gotta say that that is a very weird way of thinking. And if anything, it's a mess. Like imagine, if one of them meets someone and become friends with them and spend a bit less than every single minute of your time with your partner, the amount of jealousy would be insane. I'd imagine that if you love someone, you want what is truly best for them. and not just waddle up in a ball and exclude yourself from the outside world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:58 PM
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So 2 dysfunctional and broken people in a very co-dependant relationship without any support from the outside is "true love"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:55 PM
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Because the men she picks do not want commitment. If she is so attractive, then she goes for very attractive men, men who have options and almost all women want that guy, the guys who are on the top 10%. Since most women chase after the 10% of guys while the other 90% are pretty much invisible, No. ​ Why would he since he can have fun with an insane amount of women? Casual sex is just that. Majority of people feel this thing called attraction and emotions (Dont know if you have heard of them), a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:17 PM
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Where did you get the "hate" part from? Is understanding what happened, and what it led to somehow hating on something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:14 PM
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Most high value men do care about body count cause if they get divorced, they have so much to lose It's mostly the insecure, socially awkward weirdos that do care. The people that are dating don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:32 AM
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Not really. It was more of the result of the opression in the middle ages. Before that, everyone contributed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:30 AM
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If your only options are mainly fat women, as a man you’re probably just going to end up settling with a woman who’s fat even if that’s not your preference because that may be all that is available or the best you can do. You arent forced to date people you dont like you know? If you arent attracted to someone, dont date them. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:47 AM
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Well, dates are where you figure out if you are comaptible and if you want to be together. Nobody you want to be with is going to be asking about your sex life during high school or unviersity. That's just a red flag and display of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:28 AM
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That's not a normal thing anyone talks about on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:24 AM
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How would you even know someones body count? It's not something you talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:22 AM
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You do know that that study is talking about how experienced the prostitutes are that the clients prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:21 AM
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Who are these "high value guys" you are talking about? Because it's only the socially awkward weirdos that mostly have an issue with someones bodycount
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:19 AM
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This sub is turning into mainstream reddit now with people calling anything they don't like incel content. It's not that, What he said is literal incel content. Form an actual counter-argument There is no need to make counter arguments as he didnt even make an argument. He just made your generic hYpErGamY comment with massive generalizations and assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:29 PM
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My man, take the incel crap somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:50 PM
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Again I do not believe in government assigned girlfriends, but why doesn't society promote people to see those born ugly, or poor as potential partners out of the goodness of their heart. That isn´t something you consciously decide. People see the ones they view attractive as potential partners. What is attractive to someone might not be attractive to someone else. And why is "poor" in that list?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:07 PM
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I mean how do u explain situations where the girl thinks the guy loves her and finds out he dosent How does manipulation relate to anything here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:09 PM
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I am still astounded by your lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:32 PM
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A large part of men's perceived worth comes from how much sex they get Maybe in highschool. Nobody gives a shit after that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:55 PM
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I have literally never heard anything like this before
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:03 AM
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Why would they deserve to be felt sorry towards? If they don't want to be in a relationship, but they are still in one just to get sex, they are selfish asshats who deserve nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:01 AM
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A red flag 🚩 indicator of a potential pattern of behavior you don’t align with or want Controlling people obviously wouldnt want you to have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:02 PM
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I ment, that if they seem interested based on the conversation you are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:29 PM
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Approaching random girls you don’t even know will only resort to them saying “I have a boyfriend sorry” or they’ll just straight up say they aren’t interested. I mean, you only ask them out only if they seem interested. Like you dont just walk up to someone to ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:25 PM
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Well imagine, you go on a date and see that the person thinks like this , and then you have to go back to the app. The apps are really just sorting trough trash trying to find a treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:04 PM
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Why is a partner required to travel and spend time with others? Like don't you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:22 PM
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Normal people don't find red flag traits very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:06 PM
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How does it relate to alcohol being a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:54 PM
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It's not just aligning with what you want. It's mostly just indicative of problematic behaviour that could lead to unhealthy relationship. Like some controlling people want to have their partner isolated so they can control them, so according to your definition, their partner having friends is a red flag, which it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:51 PM
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Mens version of red flags is red flags. They are the types of behaviour or thing that can cause problems with the relationship. Or indicative of a bigger problem. Like if someone doesn't have friends for example. Just because you ignore red flags doesn't mean they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:42 PM
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Most women marry within their own socioeconomic bracket. And most normal men don't struggle with finding dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:11 PM
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That is literally how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:10 PM
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And coming from total assholes. Nobody you want anything to do with is complaining about these things out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:51 AM
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The people who actually don't give a shit about you and just want something from you. ​ And btw, i am still waiting on your explanation on what you ment with the whole "not taking accountability" rant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:31 AM
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Its a man job to get sex from a women. Its the women’s job to keep the man after the sex. And people who think like this are types of people you are trying to weed out when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:26 AM
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What does does some arbitrary rating has to do with anything? Like people arent attracted to you just because you think you are equally or more attractive than them. That's not at all how anything works. You arent comparing numbers when you are dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:50 AM
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Nobody is forcing you to ask them out though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:47 AM
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You still havent explained what accountability you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:21 AM
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Which women and which "poor decorations" are you talking about? Like is it a bad thing to want to date someone who likes you who are?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:07 AM
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“Someone who sees her for who she is” = someone who ignores all her terrible decisions because she doesn’t want any accountability What exactly do you mean with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:02 AM
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Most people have very realistic expectations regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:51 PM
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Being nice doesnt get you anything. It is what you are on top of it that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:39 PM
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You can't become something you don't have the skills to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:12 PM
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I do not know a single man who would give up a house to live in a forest with anyone. ​ -Why men care more about a woman bodycount and talk about seeing her as pure, cute, inocent Well, that's mostly the weirdos. Most men simply do not care. -Why there are soo many stalkers who are man but very few who are women. what are you exactly sacrificing and doing for love when you are stalking someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:41 PM
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It definedly was. some # on instagram and that's about the extent it went to. It's not and never was a widespread thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:22 PM
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Kill all men Men are predators and abusers Masculinity is toxic Fuck the patriarchy men are the problem And that's just society speaking about men That's not society talking about men, that's a handfull of fringe individuals, mostly on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:19 PM
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Flirting is a combination of things. You can give flirtaous compliments, but compliments are not flirting by themselves. ​ laughs at my jokes That's just a normal thing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:53 PM
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Just meming on his claim of being an ai researcher. No ai would have been nececcary That was chatgpt though, just copy pasted stuff from his post history and asked for an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:43 AM
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Asktrp for example was a sub where men asked question on how to deal with problems in their relationship The reason that sub was banned because it was not being moderated, it literally got abandoned, not for breaking content policy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:56 PM
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Compliments =/= flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:50 PM
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The same as a compliment would be in any other situation? To aknowledge something positive about another person. It's a normal polite social behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:48 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? In online space there are many women communities because the male ones are banned to misandristic policy for example Reddit that thinks white men are a privileged groupd that can be madd jokes about. What would be some examples of those groups that got banned for such light reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:40 PM
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Most women arent having casual sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:21 PM
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So what was your major in college? What do you have a degree on? "I studied pshychology" doesnt really say anything. I am doing developemental and social pshychology as a minor subject. Though, the credibility of someone claiming to have studied pshychology can and should be questioned, when they say stuff like this. Sex is a main motivator from which we desire women. It's not like we seek women for friendship, the majority of time it's for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:13 PM
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For someone claiming to be a 24 year old "AI researcher" with an 18 year old son, you really do ask a lot of questions in r/singularity about the possibilities of AI. After giving AI snippets of your post history, it came into a conclusion about you Reliability Score: 20-30 (Highly Unreliable) Verdict: The individual's statements consistently exhibit dismissive language, generalizations, and a lack of professionalism in discussions, which significantly undermines their credibility and reliabilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:49 PM
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Nah, this is a conversation about the wall where red pilled dudes are pointing out young Chads as being some kind of prize. All the while talking about how women spent their twenties getting pumped and dumped by Chad. So it's a conversation about chronically online dudes talking about what they think happens in real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:14 PM
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can only really offer sex It really says more about you as a person if the only thing you can do in a relationship is sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:38 PM
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If hospitals can deliver over 3mm babies per year, they can handle one additional test. Hospitals arent the ones carrying out those tests. They are done in labs, though bigger hospitals may have their own small lab for urgen tests. But it takes around 3 days to analyze a DNA sample. If you took every single lab in the USA that has the capacity to perform DNA tests and focused all of their resources on doing nothing but paternity test all day everyday you still wouldnt be even close to the amount…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:24 PM
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How are you paying under this regime? By having a child? ​ And the increased cost of bureucracy and capacity to handle mass testing which propably makes up the bulk of the costs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:06 PM
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Wait, so you want to just increase taxes to pay for unnececcary tests? ​ It would be fully paid for. By who? God? No! By you and other taxpayers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:54 PM
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You do know that tax return is just the money you get back after you miscalculated your taxes and paid too much of them? Overall, this ordeal would add over 1billion usd of extra costs per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:48 PM
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When in the dudes post a company is breaking the law so incredibly much, it's quite obvious that something is left out. A company cannot just suspend you bonuses, write you up and give probation based on 1 anymous complaint. The company needs to perform an investigation, draft charges, give you an invite to disciplinary and cite excatly what policy you broke. If the company just gives you bunch of shit for 1 accusation without following the actual procedures, just sue the company and retire with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:34 PM
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The OP is leaving something very crucial out of the story. A company cannot just suspend you bonuses, write you up and give probation based on 1 anymous complaint. The company needs to perform an investigation, draft charges, give you an invite to disciplinary and cite excatly what policy you broke. If the company just gives you bunch of shit for 1 accusation without following the actual procedures, just sue the company and retire with your winnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:23 PM
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Then break up with a woman you cannot trust
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:14 PM
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Lmao 🤣😂🤣😂. Aight little incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:02 PM
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"Compared to average man"? Have you never been outside? Average men arent having any issues dating. And like wtf? This screams some incel echo chamber. You have no actual idea how people act. Have you never actually been around women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:57 PM
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But she doesn't. When you avoid social situations and are shy, you dont get noticed in real world. And dating apps, might work for casual sex But then again, how is your lack of experience and social anxiety getting taken advantage of by some manipulating fuckboy somehow a privilege? Meaningless and terrible sex after getting fooled into thinking the other person likes you isn't a positive. That likely will leave you worse off than you were before
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:47 PM
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And neither finds a relationship. What exactly is easier here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:25 PM
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I can't imagine a single normal situation where you could fuck up a conversation so badly where you would get fired, social media shamed or have the police show up Like all you are doing is talking with a stranger, you don't even ask for their socials or ask them out unless they seem interest. Like the fuck are you doing? Are you waiting on women outside the security gate of a jewelry store? Are you staring at someone for 3 weeks before saying anything to them? Are you running up to randoms at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:55 AM
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How do you expect me to tell you exactly what or where can you do something? Its something you learn during normal upbringing, it's intuitive, you cannot perfectly describe it without beeing in the situation yourself. I don't think 95% of people are socially inept weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:45 AM
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Wherever, and whenever. it all depends. You just need to read the room and the person. Like if someone has headphones on and is working, you don't go approaching them wherever they are. If someone is focusing on their gym workout, don't bother them. If someone avoids eye contact, and has closed body language, don't bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:35 AM
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It is not ambiguous at all. And what is best, it's the same regardless of where or who you are. It's a natural instinct. If you can't read body language, then yeah, you will be seen and weird and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:59 AM
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It's not telepathy nor ambiguous , but it's intuitive for most people and you don't actively think about it, and the body language you show is also unconscious, you don't think about it, its natural Learning what it means is something you learn throughout your childhood. Though if you have such troubles with normal social skills, it might definedly be why you would face back lash in your approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:44 AM
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You are not guessing anything. You are literally receiving non verbal communication the whole time, you know when someone is uncomfortable. Being "calm" doesn't actually mean anything in this sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:38 AM
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People act differently when threatened or uncomfortable so of course you know if you are doing something she finds threatening or weird. Anyway, If the conversation was in an appropriate situation, you really need to fuck something up to appear as a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:17 AM
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Why would approaching cause repercussions? Like nobody is going to hold it against you if you start friendly conversations with people in appropriate places and appropriate situations and don't overstay your welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:01 AM
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Maybe stop harrasing people then. No normal situation would result in any of those outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:01 AM
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Is shows a fundemendal lack of trust in your partner. That is not a good environment for a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:15 AM
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Separation is much better than a toxic home environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:15 AM
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Only usefully advice for op is to stay away from relationships. Other than that, he is literally insane. None of us can help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:20 AM
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