ReportBig2296 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	M 30. When you dance with your ass on a guy at the club, what should he do? His rhythm should mimic what y’all about to do during doggystyle. Dancing on the dance floor should be a spoiler to what goes down in the bedroom, that’s what I was taught.	/r/seduction	11/01/25 07:17 PM
2	Bit Confused. The More Introverted I Am, The More It Attracts Women. There’s a difference between pursuing and chasing. Seems like you’re doing more chasing than pursuing.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 08:05 PM
7	Neediness vs. being direct: Tell a woman "I want to fuck you". Bro, what you want is casual sex. Hit the bar/club/music festival. If you want a normal relationship with a girl which involves courting, then meet her outside of the aforementioned locations. It has nothing to do with neediness, but more to do with striking when the iron is hot. Majority of men and women are at the bar/club/music festival to have fun and be adventurous, and yes that includes sex.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 08:03 PM
2	How did this convo with an actress/model go? Purely platonic from the beginning. She’s a pretty girl and she knows exactly what you’re doing. You’re playing the nice guy cosplay to get into her pants. She’s not naive. If you wanted a chance with her, the better strategy would’ve been to be direct with her from the beginning.	/r/seduction	10/06/24 03:47 AM
66	After sex increase attraction If you’re already thinking about the possibility of losing her, then you’ve already “lost” her bro. Step back and continue living your best life without her. Remember, you’re not seeking her validation, she’s seeking yours. This applies to both men and women.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 03:11 PM
2	Do cute (6-8) girls act more stuck up than hot (9-10) girls? And vice versa broski	/r/seduction	31/05/24 02:55 PM
1	Why do women think it’s weird to sleep with their friends? There’s three type of friends: the orbiter, the alpha (girl is friend-zoned), and the DTR (do all the bf/gf shit together, but no feelings have been confessed on either side). The ones they don’t sleep with are orbiters aka you since you’re asking this question.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 02:53 PM
5	Practicing Fundamentals (at the Gym) OMG this is hilarious. Bros will be bros haha.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 11:34 PM
1	Any tips to attract women as a rising senior Don’t waste your time chasing a relationship right now. Time is golden. Instead, focus on looksmaxxing so you’re one of the good looking and fit freshman dudes in college. You didn’t put the effort in high school. But it’s not too late. Don’t put yourself in this difficult situation again when you enter college. Join a frat right away. You’ll be surrounded by attractive sorority girls and you being a frat boy instantly will cover any lack of social skills. As your experience grows with pretty gi…	/r/seduction	26/05/24 06:22 AM
4	Just Be Yourself This is assuming they were fat gamers their whole life. Some dudes are pretty attractive before they let go and become fat.	/r/seduction	26/05/24 05:35 AM
9	How attractive men handle rejection Don’t you just love how people read content with their own assumptions haha.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 08:31 PM
1	As an average looking guy, what kind of success rate can I expect from attractive women? I’m going against the grain and saying a solid 25% because you check off all the qualities of a provider. As long as you’re okay having secondhand goods, you should have fair amount of success.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 07:21 PM
7	As an average looking guy, what kind of success rate can I expect from attractive women? If he was any of that, he’s not average.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 07:18 PM
2	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term The correct term is “attachment” issues bro.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 09:34 PM
3	Why did she ghost me all of a sudden? Don’t hate the game. Play it. Women will always have the leverage in their 20s. Accept it and as a male stop being so invested in your 20s. Keep it casual until you find a girl that wants a long term relationship. That means you have to keep dating/ talking to attractive girls even if you’re currently dating or talking to one. Abundance mindset. Learn to build it and you’ll never be on this sub ever again.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 09:31 PM
38	Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women love No, just no. Never go for mainstream colognes just because it’s popular. Sample it at your local mall/store. I’m not talking about spraying it once and making a decision within 10 seconds, but make sure to check the smell on your skin for at least 2-4 hours so you get to smell all the notes. Also, every scent denotes a different vibe. Make sure you fit the archetype of that cologne. Need help with that? Just watch the ads/commercials for these colognes or brands and you’ll get an idea of what vi…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 07:54 PM
3	Share your 2nd date stories. Are they worth the effort if the first one is lackluster? Depends on your personality. There are people who are able to build instant rapport and attraction. On the other hand, there are people who need a little bit more time and familiarity before being able to connect and be more comfortable and confident. If you’re the latter and the girl agrees to a second date, then there’s nothing to lose but to gain. A girl will not give you a second chance unless she is remotely, even in the slightest, attracted you. Use that fact to your advantage.	/r/seduction	30/04/24 05:52 PM
1	i got a crush ? i think ? Depends on what Asian he is. If he’s whitewashed, be direct. If he’s Asian American but not whitewashed, then be subtle not to intimidate him. Also, hate to say this, but it really depends on what race you are. Asian men prefer Asians, Whites, and Latinas.	/r/seduction	27/04/24 12:39 AM
-2	Best excuses to switch conversation partners at a bar when you are out solo Men of Seddit, this is what women consider a “nice” guy. Take notes and do not duplicate.	/r/seduction	23/04/24 05:16 PM
1	Should I block her if she is clearly online and is just ignoring my messages? OP, honestly speaking, disregard all the advice and comments here. At the end of the day, do what you think will work for you. If you think that blocking her will resolve your negative emotions towards her, then do it. This will help you move onto the next attractive girl. You don’t have to “mute” her, “ignore” her or ponder over whether you’re being “needy” and constantly be in the state of “what if”. Her lack of interaction with you despite being online is a CLEAR indication that she’s not int…	/r/seduction	22/04/24 07:08 PM
40	This whole getting laid thing is ridiculously simple. There’s a lot of assumptions in your statement. First, be decently attractive. Second, be sociable and have friends. Unfortunately, for many in this sub, these two are lacking.	/r/seduction	22/04/24 09:38 AM
1	What girls are really looking for Dating is equivalent to sales. Pitch yourself to the girl you’re interested. Ask questions to get an idea of what she’s looking for. If she seems like a clout chaser and you have an above average social media presence, then use it to your advantage. If she’s short, she’s most likely she’s looking for a tall dude. Use your height to your advantage. If she’s in her late 20s to early 30s, she’s looking for a provider. Use your financial resources to your advantage. If she’s hot, she’s looking for a…	/r/seduction	18/04/24 10:38 PM
2	Attractive guy getting rejected, why? Well there you go. It’s your height bro. Everyone is 6ft plus these days in the US, even taller elsewhere. You’re overestimating your attractiveness. But, seriously, don’t be discouraged. Keep thinking you’re super good looking because it’s better than having low self esteem and thinking you’re ugly.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 02:28 AM
68	I 21M get tired during sex Get a hotter girl	/r/seduction	13/04/24 10:12 PM
1	20M, have everything to get laid but am scared You need to stop by painting girls as some innocent angelic creatures. They’re humans just like you. They eat, shit and have basic human needs such as sex, etc.	/r/seduction	11/04/24 06:19 PM
38	Advice to an adult virgin The only three things guys have to work on: basic social skills, money, and looks (face, physique, and height). Oh wait, that’s everything? Yes, everything matters today. Women are getting prettier due to cosmetic procedures and are making as much money as men. That means their standards are higher as well.	/r/seduction	11/04/24 06:15 PM
1	When a girl says “have a good one.” Chill bro. It’s not like the old days where boys and girls talked differently. Nowadays, girls talk like boys. However…if you want constructive feedback, you’re probably not coming off masculine enough for her to get into her feminine energy. I’m assuming this is what you expect from girls like “byeee”, “text meee”, etc.	/r/seduction	11/04/24 06:12 PM
1	How to act when a girl say she likes other nationality man? Lmao, bro you sound hella insecure. Stop being so invested in girls man. Remember she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Whether you like it or not, she’s going to fuck an Italian after you. Just keep bantering and take her out on that date.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 08:49 PM
1	Does complimenting on beauty do anything? Fun and lighthearted compliments work, especially on girls that are attracted to you. The preface is, you have to be able to pick up on indicator of interests, and approach the right ones. Your chance of coming off as a creep increases if you approach a random stranger.	/r/seduction	25/03/24 09:24 PM
6	From friends to hookup LOL the comments here are savage. Simply put, since you haven’t figured it out after 15+ years, you’re an orbiter, the friend that provides the pretty girl with quick and easy attention. That’s you. We all know, and you know, that you’ve always had a crush on this girl, but because you disqualified yourself as being “out of her league”, you’ve never had the courage to be straight up with your intentions. You should also know by now that her bf is always going to be priority over you, and that sh…	/r/seduction	22/03/24 06:15 PM
6	are there any other guys on here in the US who are in their 30s living with their parents and are still able to hook up or date with women? It’s difficult, but not impossible. First, lower your standards. Unless you look like a model or have a very lucrative career path ahead (doctor, lawyer, entrepreneur, etc.), it’ll be tough to attract a high quality female. Your goal is to look for “girl next door” girls who also live with their parents, who are socially introverted, and inexperienced. These girls are more naive than those in their late twenties or early thirties who are experienced and are looking for a provider.	/r/seduction	16/03/24 06:16 AM
8	How do I make a girl feel special? When you find the special one, you’ll treat her differently without thinking. Right now you’re going down the wrong path trying to “please” women by making them feel special. Keep doing you even if you get player accusations. Trust me, you don’t want to turn into a simp chasing girls, stay on the green side.	/r/seduction	16/03/24 05:18 AM
5	What are the body language signs that indicates she is into you and what are the tricks to do to know if she is into you It’s hard because girls with bfs and single girls both display positive body language.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 08:18 PM
1	Dating Apps Are Strictly About Looks Preaching fax. This is common sense though. Think about it. Are you pressing like on ugly girls? I don’t think so.	/r/seduction	05/03/24 11:33 PM
1	When a woman likes you, you will know She’s aware that she’s drinking spermicide right?	/r/seduction	03/03/24 05:35 AM
1	Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl? Wear protection	/r/seduction	18/02/24 08:58 AM
5	Be careful who you pursue a long term relationship with I don’t think it even has to be a hot girl for the novice lol.	/r/seduction	16/02/24 07:08 PM
6	So difficult to get girls, then when I get one she gets so weird. I’d argue that most women these days don’t get emotionally attached after sex either, especially with contraceptives.	/r/seduction	11/02/24 08:37 PM
28	Everyone thinks I am attractive but I can't get a relantionship. 99% of this sub thinks so much that you get mentally paralyzed when you interact with girls. Getting a girlfriend is really simple. If you find a girl attractive, then ask her out. If she says no, go find another attractive girl and do the same thing until you find one that says yes.	/r/seduction	11/02/24 08:35 PM
9	Dumb question : How not to waste too much money dating ? Make more money bro to the point where you don’t have to come on Reddit to worry about spending $100 on a date.	/r/seduction	04/02/24 10:18 PM
5	Matches on dating apps randomly stop texting back It’s normal bro. Attractive girls literally get 50+ matches every day from attractive dudes. If you don’t believe me, experiment yourself and create a girl profile.	/r/seduction	01/02/24 11:39 PM
1	You look like a fuckboy Bro, stop caring about what others think. Period. You trying to justify yourself makes you leak weak and passive as fuck. The main point is that you changed your profile picture to some new shit where you felt cute. Roll with it. People’s opinion of you is as volatile as the stock market. Stick to whatever makes you confident and next time someone makes a remark like this, just say “cool”. If they meant it as a compliment, say “thank you”, and keep it pushing.	/r/seduction	31/01/24 03:52 PM
2	Having Less Success than my Friends, why? You’re definitely a people pleaser, which inherently isn’t a bad thing. You’re a social butterfly and people are drawn to your magnetic personality. However, when it comes to attracting females, it’s important to tone it down a bit because it appears beta. There’s a reason why girls are drawn to bad guys or quiet, mysterious guys who are not talkers. When you’re with the boys, keep up the social vibes, but when you’re trying to hit on girls, appear more calm and collected, obviously with a contr…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:54 AM
8	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it Great point, but I really think it depends on a couple factors such as age, experience, financial status, etc. If you can afford it, then by all means wine and dine. It’s so much more romantic than a boring coffee date. Also, women learn a lot about a man through a dinner date. How does he treat people? Is he nice to the waiter? Is he a gentleman? Does he open the door for you or pull the chair out for you to sit down? Does he have boundaries? Is he a pushover or does he subtly set a limit to wh…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 03:21 AM
7	Dating does not work black/ethnic men in the U.S. Colorism does exist in America. Unless you’re an aspiring athlete or artist, Blacks will be negatively stereotyped from what I hear from my Black brothers. It also depends on the shade of your skin color. The light-skin brothers seem to be doing fine in metropolitan areas.	/r/seduction	17/01/24 10:56 PM
3	Am I attractive enough to do well online? (Asian male) Typical gaslighting, haha. Have a good day lad.	/r/seduction	13/01/24 08:41 PM
11	Am I attractive enough to do well online? (Asian male) Right, because Tinder is the perfect place to meet girls who want to “meaningful and genuine” relationships. Bro, learn to read before you come with charged arguments.	/r/seduction	13/01/24 06:05 PM
6	Am I attractive enough to do well online? (Asian male) If you’re 5’10 with shoes, then it’s fine to put your height. But definitely, work on the shoulders and lats, because you have a very narrow frame which makes you look shorter than you are.	/r/seduction	13/01/24 07:13 AM
90	Am I attractive enough to do well online? (Asian male) I’ll provide you with honest constructive criticism because some people here are being way too encouraging. Disclaimer though, everything I say, I say out of love and I hope that you take my advice and pursue self-improvement that yields tangible results. It seems like you’re very insecure with your eyebrows. Your eyebrows are the easiest fix. Go get your eyebrows tatted and trimmed. Any Asian beauty experts specializing in eyebrow tattoos will do. Trust me it’s a game changer. As for your facia…	/r/seduction	13/01/24 07:06 AM
1	What i learned Not sure who you’re replying to but this post and your post below is contradicting.	/r/seduction	27/12/23 08:59 PM
5	What i learned Okay buddy, hold your horses there. This has nothing to do with self-improvement or seduction. Your logic stands if a girl is at the undecided stage, but when her decision is final, not only is it a waste of time, or against the abundance mindset that’s preached here, but it’s also disrespecting yourself to put someone else on a pedestal and chase her, even after she said no. Your performance is subjective in that in can be fascinating to someone and completely boring or repulsive to another. Do…	/r/seduction	27/12/23 03:55 AM
144	What i learned The point is not to care. The simple truth is she either likes you or she doesn’t. It rarely has anything to do with your performance. I know you’re asking for feedback for self-improvement. But, girls who are uninterested really do not care enough to give you any constructive criticism. Move on to someone that’s interested in you.	/r/seduction	26/12/23 06:03 AM