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This is 100% true in my experience in the dating world. However, I'm in my 40s so it may be different in other age ranges. In the 40+ range, women massively overrate their intrinsic value - their self image is still that of what they were in their 20s. The 20 years of boozing, drugs, sun and unhealthy eating, with little exercise is not kind to them. On top of that a lot of them have hang ups over exes and prior partners, and still go on about them, which is hugely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:44 PM
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With my ex-wife, 70% of the income was mine. We had a joint account, and all my income went into that and covered all our expenses. My ex refused to put her pay into the account, and at the end of a month anything she had left over from her personal spending she would put in our joint account. Routinely we would go for 6 weeks without her contributing a cent. She would also pull large chunks of money out of our joint account to cover her credit card bills. A couple of times she spent money I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:25 PM
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he's not providing for her in the true sense of the word, if she stopped working they'd be homeless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:50 PM
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Guarantee that this dominant woman will then cheat on the beta-bucks guy, and or discard him at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:53 AM
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the average guy going to a hooker is more likely to be doing so because he isn't getting sex in the real world, not because he's trying to bang as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:16 AM
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The number one problem isn't simps, its the skewed expectations generated by online dating apps and social media Some obvious examples of this - there are huge numbers of women around the age of 40 on dating apps, still holding out that their 6 foot, with brad pitts looks, a PHD and is a multi millionaire is still out there. On the other side of the coin, there are loads of bland, middle aged men (usually balding and overweight) who have their age settings set to 20-30, because they believe they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:16 PM
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Men who visit brothels aren't promiscuous, thats a different thing altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:00 PM
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Yes it was, it was infinitely better than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:27 PM
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Thats my whole point - 6 foot is subjective, just like skin colour is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:46 AM
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None of these will fix dating. Dating was fine in the 90s and early 2000s. The thing that broke it was social media and online porn. The simple solution to fix it is to get rid of all social media and online porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:08 PM
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because, many people have preferences for certain races when dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:26 AM
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Technically you didn't list what makes them top 1%, you just listed metrics that covers 1% of the population. Objectively speaking there are other criteria that could be just as important, like culture, skin colour, location etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:09 AM
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I'm in my 40s, and can confirm, that on Tinder at least, Western women over 35 are not great in the looks department. I don't think its a genetic thing, its more that their lifestyles are terrible, and they don't value their health. The average profile of a woman in this age range is highly likely to feature pictures of her drinking or partying, as if they think its a good advertisement, because it shows they are social and fun - when in fact its a huge red flag and an instant left swipe. Years …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:30 PM
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Depends on the setting. In a work or sport environment absolutely not. Looks has little value compared to talent in those environments. If its an environment like a nightclub, then it does come in to play, but probably not in the same way as it does for women. Its more a case of the guy feeling like he has lower worth, than it being felt as threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:18 PM
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You're 28, you still have a chance to actually experience what you want to, if you start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:48 AM
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I can answer from this perspective - my first marriage ended after 7 years when I was 33 (due to wife cheating), and so I didn't start having kids until I was 35, and my last kid came along at age 40. I'm now 47, and my kids are still young (7, 9 and 12 ages), and my career is full on. I'm very healthy and fit, and even then, its hard work fitting everything in. Its really exhausting. If I was any older it would be horrific. I've got friends who had kids at 45, and they are struggling massively …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:55 AM
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Its around 0.2%-0.9% per year in quality decline, not 20%. 20% per year would result in it being a 5 year rapid decline until the guy is infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:50 AM
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If you don't have a girlfriend, its not because you're shy and introverted. That is just an excuse people use because they aren't an attractive proposition for a myriad of reasons - including the fact they don't ever truly put themselves out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:29 PM
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yes, 58 million in the US alone - out of 260 million adults. Thats not a small subset of the population....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:33 PM
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I'm just talking about people on dating apps here, not the entire population
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:17 AM
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One of the big problems, according to dating app data, is the average woman's standards is out of her league . 80% of women are going for the top 20% of guys. This average woman "settling", isn't actually settling, she is more likely to be taking a guy on her own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:10 AM
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Where are all these 10/10 western women? I'd say they are like finding a needle in a haystack, the majority of western women are not even close to being 10/10s - they are all just average like the majority of guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:36 PM
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No surprise she wants a liberal guy to be her simp.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 02:04 AM
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yes you absolutely can, population statistics and predictions are straight forwards to make. They are able to predict up to the end of the century and be very accurate about it thanks to the huge volumes of observable data and trends in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:05 PM
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If you're hanging out for your 30s, and thinking about the future as if you'll suddenly be more successful in dating, then you're probably going to be really disappointed when you hit 30. You'll still be the same underlying person and have the same insecurities. It won't be any easier, and the number of available women to date hugely reduces as you get out of your 20s. Unless you suddenly become a multi-millionaire or something, things aren't going to be much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:02 PM
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The crazy thing is that women, technically, shouldn't need matchmakers. They hold all the power in the dating market. They also have all the attention. Finding a relationship for a woman, should be a matter of simply looking through the guys who are approaching her, and then choosing a few of them to date, until she whittles it down to the best candidate. Even women in their 40s still get a lot of attention, compared to the average guy of the same age. The problem is, that most modern women mass…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/23 04:07 PM
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No, I complain about my ex-wife who had an affair and nuked our family, but I don't care about what other women do. I dated a couple of 'looser' women before my marriage, and it wasn't that fun. Yeah, they are usually pretty hot, but their whole life revolves around getting male attention, even when they are dating people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:59 PM
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Nope, this is not true. I can't stand getting intimate with someone I don't know and have no emotional connection with. Have tried it several times, and the sex is basically glorified masturbation, and massively unfulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:12 AM
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I don't know who Rubi Rose is, but she is just as bad as the guy - taking $60k of his money and leading him on in personal messages, then when he gets obsessed with her, she publishes all his messages to try and get sympathy. What a piece of s**t she is. The guy himself needs serious help, he's an empty shell of a person. Despite being in his 30s or 40s, he mentally sounds like he's about 13 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:40 PM
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the grandparent commentor edited his comment to prove thats not the case with actual source data
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:10 PM
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Thats creepy - you're trying to twist what she said into incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:17 PM
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I don't think women's friendships are more fulfilling, most of the ones I've witnessed, are highly toxic in how negative they are. They enjoy having other people around to be able to complain and criticise to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:26 AM
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Thats not evidence. Saying they have "closer" friends without qualifying exactly what that means, is an empty statement. My ex-wife for instance had several "close" friends in her group who she had known since she was a child, and yet when one of them wasn't around, all the others would be complaining, criticising and talking negatively about them. They self identify as "close", but its more "toxic" than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:24 AM
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Easy one to completely disagree on. I've got better and more healthy friendships with male friends than any women I know my age. Most guys don't backstab each other, don't enjoy sessions where everyone is just being negative ('bitching'), and are generally straight up about things, without ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:19 AM
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Your point of view is tarred by the fact you're still in your mid 20s - you likely don't know a good range of single women in the 35+ range.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:34 AM
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I don't really think this is true at all - the majority of guys I know like being providers - its our biological urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:14 PM
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They also encourage other things such as healthy diet and exercise but look how that turned out. So society "encouraging" people only works if they already want to do it. Thats a bit of a strawman argument
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:49 AM
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yes they do, the majority of relationships these days in Western countries are through people meeting on online dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:54 PM
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It doesn't make "biological" sense at all - a woman is only fertile for maybe 20 years, whereas a man has a much bigger window. Our biology (as are all animals), is about survival of our species, not about what makes the most sense as partners. You mean it makes more "logical" sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:07 PM
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"Not only is there no data to back this up" The dating apps have released loads of data around this phenomenon, it is actually a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:05 AM
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In my experience, this is hugely true. Both my ex-wives made up fake abuse stories to hide that they had affairs. My first ex-wife also included rape claims as a chaser. Both times all our shared friends instantly believed them, and I basically had to start over again from scratch by moving. Their image was everything to them, and so they threw personal integrity and responsibility out the window to keep their image.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:03 AM
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My ex-wife of 10 years (including 3 young kids) had an affair and left me for a 17 year older guy because he enjoyed partying more (I don't really drink) and he apparently had better dinner conversation skills. He was her soulmate apparently, compared to me who had saved her life once, who had worked two fulltime jobs simultaneously for a year so she could take 3 years off work, and all manner of other things. The guy she left me for ended up being an alcoholic loser, who had cheated on his wife…
/r/MensRights20/11/23 03:59 AM
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I guarantee that woman is in her 40s, not the 33 that she is claiming - all the women I know in their 40s wear those big-ass grandma sunglasses in all their social media photos to hide their crows feet and wrinkles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 11:02 PM
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You can tell from various parts of the video, that she is using a shit tonne of filters, and likely looks way nastier than she is in the video. She is going to struggle big time to even get a low value man interested in a real relationship. The mind boggles at how delusional she is - she has completely nuked her life, and set herself up for 30-40 years of misery and struggle, all because she didn't realise how good her husband was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/23 05:26 PM
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How many of those guys will fall for her "I'm on the pill, its ok" trick.... She needs more child support money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/23 07:59 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? He's been considered one of the hottest guys on the planet for the last few decades. You're on the wrong sub-reddit dude, you calling people incels and saying they don't know about women, makes you look like the very thing you are accusing people of.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 08:25 AM
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I've never seen people trying to claim Brad Pitt isn't attractive to women?
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 01:45 AM
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ah yeah, sorry thought you were the OP. the OP was basically asking what he needed to do to attract women as if it was some kind of checklist of things he needed to do and then he could "level up" and attain a girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 10:42 PM
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Its still better than what you are asking for - you're essentially asking for hacks and tricks to get women to like you instead of being genuine.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 11:43 AM
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