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Believe what you want internet nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:51 PM
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More prostitution = More human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:18 PM
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Best way to meet someone is to consistently and as often as possible put oneself in locations where lots of women and alcohol are in close proximity and start making friends. Every other way is supplemmental/secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:15 PM
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Amazing how men who are successful with women are always "losers", "troglodytes" and other unsavory names but incels and other social rejects who can't get laid are somehow morally or intellectually superior. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:11 PM
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It's easy and you don't have to deal with a full time woman's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:58 PM
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As a man, and one who sees red pill theories falsified on a nightly basis. You are one step away from Elliot Roger terrorism territory. Female promiscuity is not damaging society. Female autonomy is not damaging our society and most women are not under any delusions. As far as the nonsense that 1/3rd of men who are losers that can't get laid "rising up" into an army of Elliot Rogers.. That's what concealed carry is for. The idea that one third of men will somehow make society pay for ignoring th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:35 PM
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A man who exercises, doesn't drink alcohol, doesn't do drugs of any kind ever and doesn't have any tattoos is not a superior man to those that do partake in those activities. In fact he's probably bor9ng af.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:01 PM
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Eventually you develop a callus. For.instance Saturday night I met a very nice girl. I sat with her and her friend for an hour before they had to leave. I pitched getting her number and she said no, that "maybe if we run into each other again." thing. Didn't bother me at all. Because I don't take rejection as an insult or a statement of my suitability as a man. Men have to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:06 PM
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Get cleaned up and go out to places where lots of women and alcohol are in close proximity and start making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:01 PM
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Personally I just like women and sex in general and if I happen to find an overweight girl with a nice bosom and pretty face to cuddle with and keep me warm for a night who is anyone to tell me I shouldn't? If I happen to fall in bed with the local dive bar hottie with a 2 digit count so what? I'm in high 2 digits maybe 3 myself. and have no right to judge her. She might have lots of experience that would make a night fun. As far as "the next man entering the dating market".. His problems aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:19 PM
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What else besides some form of self improvement is there? You can give up and hope you don't become an Elliot Roger or you can hit the gym and build a body. You can look at pictures online and choose a flamboyant and attention getting personal style. You can grow your hair and beard and cover your "ugly" face. Once you have done all of that you can then go out to any number of places where lots of women and alcohol are in close proximity and start making friends. If you can't do that. Nothing sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:36 PM
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You're seeing online trends that don't really exist in real life. Meanwhile the rest of us who still spend the majority of our lives offline are drinking, laughing, dancing to great music, attending concerts, mingling and having sex. I am out 3-4 nights a week and I see short men gaming tall women regularly. Big obese neck beards gaming good looking 8's regularly. 50+ yr olds with 25-30 yr olds in genuine relationships where they are out together constantly and in love. These online trends are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:56 PM
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Screw this commie crap. Capitalist materialism isn't keeping men from getting laid. What is keeping them from getting laid or a relationship is getting a life. Just get a life. Quit being a socially isolated, video game addicted man-child and start putting yourself in places and situations where lots of women and alcohol are present. Concerts, festivals, clubs, bars, happy hours, pre-holiday nights, etc. Join a damn bowling league or a dart league or a pool league. Buy a motorcycle. Live for onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:18 PM
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Women do not have some kind of huge advantage in dating unless you give them one by being a simp and handing your power to them. Simply don't be a simp. It's that's easy. Some of the posts in this sub are just mirror images of the same ignorance, biases and prejudices one sees on feminist subs just directed toward women. I'm just wondering what world some guys live in that they see all this "immense social privilege and lifetime of special treatment" because as a man who actually enjoys being so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:24 PM
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'In many cases the decent guy was rejected and humiliated by women like her, for a number of factors." Why is rejection so humiliating? I don't see women out here humiliating men who approach them. They might act disinterested. They might act standoffish. But never outright mean. So where is the humiliation exactly? A woman failing to reciprocate your attraction for her shouldn't be humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:29 PM
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Isn't that the core issue though? A lot of men seem to think that there is a class of man who just shows up and women flock to him, throwing their asses in his face like dogs in heat and doesn't have to say much or do much to get laid. So they're like "Why should I have to work harder and be a simp when Chad Thundercock over there just shows up and says hi and gets laid for free?" The issue is Chad Thundercock doesn't get laid for free. It just looks like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:36 PM
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How many "high value men" do you think are out there?? How many partners do you think these "high value men" have???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:25 PM
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Man. I don't get some of ya'll on this sub. I just turned 47 on the second of this month. I'm not a chad. I'm not above average. I am no better looking or different than many of you. JFC I'm an old man. Yet I can't figure out how ya'll ain't getting laid in this environment. Pussy has NEVER been so easy to get. So easy that I am an old fucking man by modern standards and yet I'm doing better with women your age than you guys are and it pisses me off. Why? Because I shouldn't be getting laid. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:50 AM
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"Not knowing if men should approach a woman they find attractive out of fear of being shamed and judged" For 99.99% of men, this just isn't a thing. Men who are terrified of approaching women simply use it as an excuse to not have to approach women. Let"a quit pretending women laugh at and humiliate men who approach them. Because they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:23 PM
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Why does everyone hate bars/clubs so much??? Is there some kind of unwritten rule that meeting a woman in a bar is inferior to meeting her on an app? Are red pillars teetotalers who despise alcohol? Are the women in bars somehow lesser quality than women anywhere else? From personal experience. No they aren't. If you go out a lot you meet women who don't go out a lot. You meet women having birthdays and divorce celebrations, you meet bridal showers with single women in them. Normal, social peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:01 PM
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Lmao no dude. They aren't. But keep.beliving men who hate women do better with them. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:33 PM
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So what do you want? Dates and sex or social justice? Everyone on her is SOOOO obsessed with an "equality" that only a small minority of very online women demand. Geez. How about ya just take each woman as she is instead of trying to create a bunch of hard and fast rules that can applied to every woman in every context or situation? Dating women is fun. Taking women out to dinner or drinks and connecting on a human level is fun, even if it leads to no other interactions. I don't know why so many…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:50 PM
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According to who??? OMG. Look man. I'm no chad. In fact I am everything the stereotypical "red pill" woman should hate. I'm middle aged, make mid 5 figure salary, drive a 15k Mazda coupe, soft spoken, skinny fat, pale and worse have had bright white hair since I was 30. I was bullied and made fun of and ended up dropping out of high school. Jesus man I sell fucking shoes for a living. I might as well be Al Bundy. Why do I do better than the average man, scoring lays with women really good lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:45 PM
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Moderate amounts of alcohol lubricate social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:33 PM
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Except women aren't choosing only Chad except in the fever swamps of red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:20 PM
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This isn't a pissing match, competition or game of "gotcha". It seems you have an adversarial attitude towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:04 PM
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You should be trying to make friends constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:57 PM
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Well the world doesn't care about or cater to the unattractive. Why do I keep coming across this "if you're attractive" qualifier on everything?? No one is ever going to have any advice that helps truly ugly didn't get laid or find love. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:52 PM
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Who cares what they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:47 PM
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BS. The types of clubs/bars change but the dynamic doesn't. Any downtown area these days is chocked full if upper scale bars full of single women every 5pm to 8pm after work. Happy Hour is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:46 PM
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Why would a man be so selfish and jaded that he can't spare 20-40 bucks once or twice a month for a first date with a woman? Not like the vast majority of men in this sub are getting more dates than that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:34 PM
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Yeah but men seem to resent that. They don't want to be the sloppy second, settled for "man she needs now". They want to be the man she "wants" now, not "needs" later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:09 PM
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The problem is that feeling "they might be hurting someone, harassing, causing a problem, etc" is wrong. It simply isn't true that approaching and talking to women is harassment. No matter how loud the subreddit queens scream about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:00 PM
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All I know is this. This sub is full of hopeless, angry men and boys who simply don't understand that it is them and them alone who are holding them back. It saddens me as a who just celebrated his 47th birthday surrounded by people in the 25-35 age group with a young gf and I read the anger and frustration in these posts. These guys won't listen. They have every excuse use under the sun about why it is absolutely worthless to even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:32 AM
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Well you can believe "science" on 80/20. There is an 80/20/rule but it isn't like what a lot.of guys think. 80/20 rule is 8 out of every 10 approaches will fail. 8 out of 10 approaches that succeed will fail before the first 3 dates are complete. You get what's left over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:58 PM
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No such thing as an alternative. You can fill the hole somewhat but loneliness cannot be resolved with hobbies and platonic friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:30 PM
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Why are you trying to actively discourage men trying to date as "futile"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:05 PM
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"What does the Peace Core and all that have to do with the government actively fighting the loneliness epidemic, the imbalance of extroverts over introverts, and the overall failure of modern dating?" It isn't society's obligation to help you find a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:53 AM
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This is the primary reason older men in our 30's and 40's are cleaning up with younger women. I'm a social addict. I cannot stand sitting by myself in my apartment alone. If I am not working/making money I am out at a bar, a club, a concert, a festival, whatever.. I have seen every kind of interaction possible with a woman through either personal experience or people watching. The fact is many young men are lazy af with a lot of things they shouldn't be. They dress sloppy, they won't stay sober,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:20 PM
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Lmao! These men you speak of are wusses. Screw them let them revolt and I'll be happy to drop a few in the name of cleansing the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:59 PM
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Dating is about investment. Investment is a risk. You invest effort, money, time and take a risk to see profit. Many times you won't, but you will often enough to not be bothered if one particular stock fails to rally in your favor. Just because date A failed doesn't mean Date B will. Maybe A, B and C fail but D pays off. Diversify your portfolio by networking and generating lots of dates and learning to enjoy just being around attractive women for the sake of being around attractive women. Hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:26 PM
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No, an older skinny fat, balding guy in khaki shorts, a t-shirt and whatever shoes/sandals is going to creep a young woman out. Take the same man and shave his head, have him grow a nice goatee. Put him in a pair of dress slacks with a nice button down shirt and some nice leather boots/oxfords. A waistcoat or a blazer jacket. His entire image changes from 4 to 7 instantly. After that he just needs to practice game on older women and as he gets better and more confident, the younger women become …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:16 PM
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No. I'm a man without all the lame social anxieties and toxic beliefs that hold men like you back from living your best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:44 PM
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It has to do with the fact that these ideologies are obsessed with power dynamics, mythical or not. I'm 46 and am dating a 28 and a 25 yr old. They are quite happy. Now I can't expect long term with either of them as they have plans to move out of the midwest to the coast but while they are here there is no reason not to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:15 PM
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What unfair treatment?? There is no such thing as a 10% male who just walks into a room and women swoon for him to the exclusion of all others. Socializing is not "work". Dating is not "work" These things are fun and healthy and good for the psychology if it's just done correctly without an attachment to any particular outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:55 PM
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But who is "average" and "above average"? Attractiveness is highly subjective and context based as a well. A 6 who is the cutest single guy in the bar at that specific time can outperform his league for instance by a couple points. A 5 with good game and great fashion will out perform an 8 with no game or sloppily dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:45 PM
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The expiration date on this is 21-22 yrs old in most cases. If you aren't that young. Forget it short of being a groomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:10 PM
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I was on a second date with a very attractive woman. We were sitting on a Park bench just talking when she casually mentioned her "ex" who for some reason still had keys to her house snuck in that morning and stole her meth rock. Instant ick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:15 PM
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I see every weekend guys you'd never dream could be good at getting women... Getting women!! Last night I saw all kinds of action between older fat guys with buzz cuts and attractive women. Guys I am WAAY better looking were cleaning up. I have to wonder sometimes why there is such a discrepancy between the beliefs of this sub by both men and women and real life. Everyone here is super logical and has a million stats and andcdotes to justify their beliefs. But then any person who has spent a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:12 PM
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It's only painful if you are seeing meeting women/dating as a separate rather than integrated part of your lifestyle. A lot of guys don't seem to understand that meeting/dating quality women is the side effect of having an active and healthy social life. If you have no social life, simply relying on dating apps or other means where the woman is handed to you on a platter for your consideration you will always be alone and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:57 PM
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The problem is that attraction and mating is being intentionally politicized by radical elements in our society to gain recruits to their groups. Young, sexually frustrated men have always been a prime target for such radicalization. Politics are not why young men aren't getting play. My theory is that many were raised by single moms or domineering career oriented moms who through ignorance or stupidity or outright abusive motives stunted their son's social development. I was lucky. My mom was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:03 PM
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Women want better! I've talked to hundreds. They want better. But better needs to quit being scared to approach, scared to touch, scared to wink, scared to do anything at all that might be considered a pass. Better needs to be better but also masculine. Better needs to hold eye contact, better needs to be unfraid to gently put his hands on a woman. Better needs to stop reading red pill/Andrew Tate garbage and learn to start with seducing 5's and 6's. Then over time moving higher up the scale. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:16 AM
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Here is what happens. Guys who are cute get a lot of female attention when they are young. They learn quickly the subtle signs that a woman is interested. I bet 75% of the men who read this sub have had, more than once, a woman interested in them but either didn't read the body language or through fear let the opportunity go. I know I have. Learning good game as an adult is hard. You're supposed to learn this shit in high school. But many of us here, me included, could have been bullied or hated…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:07 AM
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Being chivalrous means a great deal to women as long as the chivalry comes from a place of strength. For your average "nice guy" who acts asexually and comes forth on his knees as a sexual supplicant, chivalry means nothing. But for men of a better caliber, some chivalric behavior is quite endearing to women. The game ain't changed all that much. Just the men who come across as asexual are suffering, but they always have. The only difference seems to be a lot more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:17 PM
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Let me ask you this. The men that you felt a spark with. How touchy were they? Did they ever rest their hand on your forearm while telling a joke or on the small of your back? Were they "physical" with you but not in a grabby/gropey/creepy way, but in a pleasant way that felt good when they touched you? Did yall's knees bump off each other a few times "by accident" before finally sticking like glue? Just curious..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:46 AM
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You ruling out bars/clubs because "they aren't conducive to a relationship" is ignorant. How the hell do you know what is/isn't conducive to a relationship? Bars and clubs are full of awesome women. The key is to be consistent about attending. Happy hour from 5 to 7/8pm is great for meeting nice, professional women unwinding from a day at work. 10-1 is great for other women. The key is consistency. You gotta go to same places at least every friday/saturday and preferably one other day of the wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:51 AM
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I date younger women too. The current woman I am with is 25 and I was her third sexual partner. But I don't trust women that young for marriage because it's almost guaranteed someone that young will eventually have an affair and exit. Right about the time I will need her most. How do you keep her from straying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:25 PM
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I don't get it. If you have more confidence than ever. Higher self esteem, job and some measure of financial security. You should have no problems getting women. Personally I find transactional sex disgusting and worthless and an insult to my masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:15 PM
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I deny it simply because my actual real-world experience with hundreds of interactions eith women in the field as friends, lovers and everything in between simply doesn't match the red pill ideology. I'm not only average looking. But downright mediocre as a man. But somehow I manage to get more play in a month than most men get in a year. It's hard to put stock in something you see falsified every single weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:04 PM
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Lmao if all you have are stats and studies without lots of real-world experience with actual live women in the field. You really have no baseline to judge any particular woman's actions and draw conclusions from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:00 PM
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So become a chad. It's not as hard as you think. Just requires a bit of mental toughness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:29 PM
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And that's why PPD exists. Men who absolutely reject the basic fundamentals of good game in favor of hateful ideology. What I stated was nothing new or revolutionary or unusual. Just basic game fundamentals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:24 PM
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It doesn't look bleak. The media tells you that to keep you complacent and compliant. It's a bit harder to get by now, but it's not like the world is devolving into anarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:20 PM
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Women's standards are far lower today out of necessity because men as a sex have failed miserably to be men. They have bad hygiene, bad grooming, porn addictions and treat women like nothing more than a life support system for a vagina. Few approach, few stay sober, few can understand social intelligence of any kind. There is no other explanation for how a 47 yr old 6 like me simply by dressing nice, being pleasant and fun to be around using old school game is regularly hooking up with and even …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:48 PM
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Can't properly raise children like that. At some point a man has to settle down and invest in a woman if he wants to reproduce and those children turn out to be productive members of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:04 PM
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Why would virginity or experience come up in a conversation? I've never once felt the need to share my sexual history with a woman outside of a few experiences with exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:02 PM
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The missing factor is touch. How does a woman go from neutrally seeing a cute guy and being totally horny for him? He knows instinctually how to properly touch her. He doesn't clumsily grope, maul or manhandle her. It's very subtle. You have to learn how ro put your hands on a woman in a way that is socially calibrated and acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:13 PM
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Don't pursue her directly. That puts pressure on her. You have to do it through body language without verbalizing your attraction too much. A little bit. A small compliment here or there sprinkled in but general you show a woman you like her through calibrated social touching. It's called Kinesthetics. There is a solid escalation ladder. Hand/wrist, Elbow and shoulders are okay to touch almost immediately. Once you have established basic rapport you move on to putting your hand on the small of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:47 PM
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Hell man I had an ex who was a cosmotologist and she taught me how to find and put on foundation to fill wrinkles and crows feet. I put it on and look way younger and women have never once had the balls to question me on it. A lot of guys don't seem to understand. High value men just don't give a shit what is "socially acceptable". They SET trends, they don't follow them. If you had any idea how many guys have laughed at me or tried to call me gay and shit.. They don't laugh when silver fox twic…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:14 PM
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I know a few players who are short. One guy we call Tiny Dancer is bad ass hell and slays it. His current woman stands eye to eye with him. There are lots of ways to compensate for height though. A good pair of defined heel cowboy boots or even platforms if you can work them into your aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:40 PM
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B) is the best option by far. Face and Height are not the only things women look at. Looks may get your foot in the door a little easier but really what matters is your body language, conversational skills, overall fashion aesthetic and m the ability to express your sexual interest in a positive and endearing way. Obviously if you have some kind of deformity, you"re going to have problems. But deformed isn't average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:16 PM
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So wtf else you gonna do? So you are a 2 or 3 in looks and women are grossed out by you. So the fk what? Sorry you were born so ugly women run from you. You got two choices. Endure the psychological agonies and just keep pressing on and eventually you will meet someone or give the hell up and learn to hate women as a sex and go incel. These posts piss me off and why? Because I deal with more rejections in a week than you mfers do in a year and I am sick of it. You guys whine about hypergamy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:25 AM
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I have absolutely no right to judge. I've been with well over 50 women, probably more than that and the counter runs up every couple of weeks. A man needs grade A skills to keep a promiscuous woman happy but the same applies in reverse. I make sure she has as much to lose as me. That keeps things nice and even.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:40 AM
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Nah. Most of the time they won't think you are creepy and annoying. That comes if you don't read the room and see you aren't sticking and refuse to leave after a socially acceptable amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:34 PM
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So GET EXPERIENCED!!! Jesus Christ Gentlemen! Listen to me please. I am not bull shitting you I promise! ALL you have to do is make a solid commitment to yourself that you will get good with women. For one solid year put everything aside except your job. Screw your male friends. They wont help you! When you aren't working. You need to be out in a bar or a club or a grill out or a party. You need to get out of the god damn house. I oromisenyou 5 to 8 pm in a bar near you tons of women are out the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:49 AM
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High value isn't about wealth. High value is about social status and that can be achieved and signaled on various levels and in various contexts. Personal aesthetic, body language, how a man walks, talks, stands, uses his hands. Outward signs of confidence and assertiveness. Basic popularity with women in the local venue, etc. These are what marks a high value man. Not the car, or the house or the clothes in a brand sense. Clothes in an aesthetic sense do matter though. How that outfit is put to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:08 PM
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Nah. Learn to love the game. I bet 60% of these guys could fix a big part of their problems by just going out to venues and consistently approaching women, talking to women, getting to know women as individuals and humans instead of reading generalized nonsense online about women. I'm sorry there is no auto-aim hack that lets men go from zero to hero. Just like any other game you gotta put the hours in to git gud. That means approaching and socializing with lots of women. Then you learn to live …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:50 PM
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Man the way was already found 20 years ago by Mystery and Style and Tyler Durden. The free writings those men put out are the foundation of excellent game. You don't have to become a PUA. That's your choice. But you can develop the skillset and increase your natural game 200%. First google Tyler Durden's 25 points and make that your Bible. It alone, without any other source. Will get you laid if you follow those 25 pts. They changed my fucking life before I even got into mystery. It's the baseli…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:20 AM
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Oh yes I do. It's pure copium. All the good stuff. The self improvement stuff is readily ignored or hand waved away in favor of screaming into the sky about hypergamy and the uselessness of modern women. Of divorce rates and infidelity rates and divorce rape. Obsession with statistics to justify inaction. Getting good with women as an adult takes years of dedicated, consistent effort. Get started now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:18 PM
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What upsets me is the entire X pill/MGTOW/Incel ideology group is just insulting to men who did put in the work and endured the psychological agonies to get good with women in adulthood. Most of us get it. I've read all the red pill garbage. Grains of truth wrapped in propaganda every bit as toxic to men as feminism is to women. But when men actually give practical advice that actually works. The pillers say "Thats not fair, it's too hard! I want women to approach me. To deliver themselves on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:07 PM
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What makes everyone so sure if women were more aggressive in approaching that they would choose weak willed, socially inept, simpish men? Most of the guys in this sub, were they approached by a woman, would still screw it up. Still be scared, still be unable to express themselves in a masculine and sexy way. They'd still clam up like deer in headlights. If you're too frightened to approach women regularly, you wont do any better if they approached you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:34 PM
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A woman I am currently seeing specifically says it turns her on when her man leads her and puts her in her place. She's a boss b+++h and tells men what to do all day long. She craves a man who will put her in her place in a positive yet assetive manner. I decide our dates, I pick her up, I tell her my plans and she is free to interject and ask for modifications but rarely does and every now and then she will playfully mouth off to me to get a rise out of me to see if I will put up with her shit.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:21 PM
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"Mentally, these guys are still trying to be the popular kid, not realizing that most people have moved on from highschool." Except that isn't really true. As adults we learn to cover up with civility and social rules that control the anarchy of adolescence but much of the same social dynamics still apply. Women still want the most popular guy in their social milieu and anyone with an active night life realizes the social dynamics of a bar or club are very much like a high school dance regardles…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:12 PM
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The greatest achievement in online feminism is that it convinced millions of men they don't have a chance in hell, so don't bother approaching at all. Were it not for the ample evidence against it in my own personal experience, I'd believe the propaganda myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:37 PM
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Accosted? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:12 AM
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I do lots of approaches a week no shit and even in the beginning when I was blowing it left and right. Not once were women anything but polite in their rejections. Women become far less polite when you stick around beyond when it is socially acceptable to do so. If you make the woman verbalize no, you may not like the way she does it. But they aren't coiled vipers ready to strike out at the first man who says hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:11 AM
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Wealth isn't required for social status. I can cobble together a visually striking outfit with nothing but goodwill castoffs and the reason status is as good as or better than physical attractiveness is because when a woman feels a man with options actually chose her over other women it excites them to no end. So many nights laying in bed with a woman and they have told me that the reason they liked me so much is because they were under the impression I had the entire club to choose from and I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:07 PM
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Let's take Ms. Random. Ms Random is sitting at a table in a bar during happy hour on her laptop answering emails from Bossman. She looks up and sees a man who would ostensibly be a 5. But that 5 is standing with 3 women, those 3 women are laughing, interacting with him, are obviously comfortable in his presence. He's dressed better than most of the men in the bar. That 5 moves over to another group of girls and talks to them, laughs with them, etc. I guarantee you by the time he notices Ms Rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:06 PM
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Good write up. I'm one of those handful of guys who approaches left and right. But it isn't even about picking them up. A lot of them I'm just enjoying interacting with women in general because I just love women. The rest kinda grows from there and I agree. Men are waaaaaay to passive and life is just passing them by
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:56 PM
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"the fact that literally no one has any interest in me for factors outside of my control” But that's just it. Unless you were born with some kind of severe deformity, you have control over every aspect of your appearance and bearing. Social skills can be learned late in life. Attractiveness exists as a spectrum and 3 can become a 5 or higher with effort. A 5 can become an 8. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:51 PM
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I'm exceedingly polite, generous and kind with the various women in my life. But that's what the women in my life need. They have big girl jobs making big money. They have stress and exhaustion. They don't need a man to take care of them financially. They also aren't all hypergamous looking for a 1% man. I gladly give them emotional support, kindness, empathy and great sex. In return I get sex often, cuddles and affection, clothes and gifts, home cooked dinners, etc I guess either way works depe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:40 PM
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I think RP is just copium for men who lack the psychological strength to regularly approach women. They can cite some lame statistic from a dating site survey and talk themselves into believing "It's just not worth it. HyPeRGaMy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:39 PM
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This is the one case where size does matter. A man with an 8" schlong can get women off penetratively much easier than average 6ers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:14 PM
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I can agree with the premise, but a lot of guys are either over correcting or simply throwing their hands up and pretending to be asexuals. There is no substitute for just going out and swallowing that terror and approaching and failing over and over again. Making mistakes, losing sets over and over again and analyzing them in your mind and not make those mistakes. With consistent effort. I'm a firm believer that almost any simp can be a pimp, or something like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:30 PM
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BS. Physical attraction in and of itself is not enough. It makes the approach easier, but nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:57 PM
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Very online women on Reddit or in media complain about toxic masculinity. A mythical propaganda concept used online almost exclusively. I've never heard a woman in real life use such a term. Letting feminist propaganda prevent you from being socially active is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:48 PM
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That's MGTOW ideological nonsense. I am out 3-4 nights a week in clubs/bars and interact with dozens of women a week and the men picking them up are not psychopaths or criminals. Most of them are clumsy average boys. You are spreading false ideology to cope with the fact you're too lazy or too intimidated to go out and get a night life, surround yourself with platonic female friends and leverage that social proof to meet other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:28 PM
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Why do sexless nerds always consider themselves a superior form of the human species to men who are successful with women? As if being assertive, dominant, social and fun precludes being kind, polite, respectful of boundaries, etc? Facts are 9 times out of 10, "Chad" is a great guy! Only a guy who has never experienced night life on a regular basis can believe that only disagreeable jerks or assholes get girls and rest just make do with whatever conventionally unattractive woman will have them b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:08 PM
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See the biggest misconception is that going out to meet women is something you do.. Like a planned activity.. "Tonight I want to go meet women." That is the wrong attitude. The attitude should be: "Every time I am not in my house alone, I could meet a woman." You should always treat going outside at all as a chance to meet someone. Because I have met women and dated them simply by opening a door at the grocery store for them, getting "the look" from the girl at the cell phone store, or at the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:54 AM
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Why are you denying yourself the pleasures of a younger man? Young =/= incel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:53 PM
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I've discovered that a woman wants to be shit tested every now and then, teased, busted on. Many crave verbal banter. It's a fine line to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:37 PM
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Honestly I think it isn't he androgynous nature of the male stars. Many women find that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:11 PM
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They approach. They just aren't direct about it. They'll use a socially acceptable reason to approach you as cover and drop subtle indicators of interest through body language. It's up to a man to be socially calibrated enough to pick up on the hints. They sure as hell aren't going to go out asking for numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:48 PM
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I'm just playing the game with the pieces laid out in front of me and that idea that "good girls" don't do things like go out with their friends to clubs and other venues is just wrong. I once thought like you. Been there done that. But that's not how our world works. If you want a super low n count girl go to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:36 PM
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So go kick rocks then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:30 PM
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If you ever find yourself in the SW Ohio area, message me. I help losers get laid all the time. I can help you too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:45 PM
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Nope. I'm addicted to picking up women and go out 4 nights a week. I have 4 bars and a big club I am constantly in and I interact/approach at least 20 or more women a week. It's hard to keep track any.ore because it's become second nature and organic. This sub saddens me there are so many men who have consumed so much negative media about women that they just can't believe an average man can, with consistent effort, become a ladies man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:34 PM
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I know exactly what you are saying. You need positive external validation from women to prove you are on the right track and get your confidence levels up. I'll just repeat. Find a decent bar or two. Dress nicely. Chinos/slacks and a wrinkle free button down shirt, a nice pair of shoes, make sure your hair/beard are groomed and a good cologne. Go to said bar and just sit there and watch the game, play on your phone, talk to a couple guys. Just relax. Every now and then look around the room for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:44 PM
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I promise I was just like you 3 years ago. I believed if I creeped a woman out or made her feel uncomfortable she was gonna scream bloody murder in the bar and run away to call 911. That simply isn't true. She'll simply turn away from you and ignore you/text on her phone and not engage with you. At which point you say "Hey it was nice to meet you." and move on immediately. You even KNOW it's BS. You just said it yourself, it's a false paradigm media pushes on you. You have a human right to appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:41 PM
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Lol gay? What's gay got to do with it? Why are you trying to build an emotional attachment with a strange woman you just met/barely know? What you should be doing is trying to show you are a sexual being. Fuck emotional connection. That comes later! Like after she sees you as a sex object. Then you can begin the emotional side. You are suppressing your sexual side out of fear she'll find you creepy or weird. Fuck her! If she finds you creepy weird it means she wasn't for you and you move on. Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:23 PM
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Respect, yes. Love and care? Nope! Because you aren't in a position to properly "love and care" for women because you aren't a leading male in their social circle. Only men who are leading males within their social circle get to express love and care for those within the circle because that's what a leading males job is. But if you aren't that, you have no responsibility to love and care for women in general. Do you love and care about men? Why are women different. They have leading men to prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:59 PM
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"just try it in your social circle" So what if you are "that guy"? Whenever I get friend zoned, her friends are up for grabs! If she gets mad at me for trying to screw her friends, then she can get lost. She doesn't have any right to regulate who you talk to/flirt with. Be "that guy" unapologetically and quiet being afraid you'll tick someone off. First rule of thumb is to give zero fks. OLD is meant to he a supplement, not the sole source of potential dates. As far as approaching women first go…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:54 PM
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According to who? My personal lived experience says different and there is scientific evidence that promiscuity can reduce a persons ability to pair bond due to reduced oxytocin levels after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:53 PM
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The biggest factor I believe is out and out simple laziness of young men today. A lot of guys think swiping right on every hinge/tinder/bumble profile between COD maps and going out once or twice every few months is all they should have to put in and act like haters to anyone who tells them it's not enough. "It's too much effort! It's too expensive! It might damage my k/d ratio! I might not be able to afford the latest DLC if I'm spending my money on things like nice clothes, a decent haircut fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:55 AM
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So what? Are you so lazy you demand women be brought to you like ordering off Amazon? Afraid it might damage your k/d ratio on COD?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:47 AM
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I get 4 matches a month if I'm lucky online. But over a week of 3-4 nights out at various bars/clubs depending on the night. I can score 3-4 reliable number closes. OLD is a lazy man's way to meet women and it doesn't have the advantage of building huge social circles that eventually become self-sustaining sources of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:45 AM
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OLD will wreck your psychology. It'll make you feel ugly and rejected when you don't get many hits. Night life is healthy and psychologically better by far. It's hard at first but if you persist. It's psychologically rewarding on a level you never dreamed. There are no half measures though. If you want to be good irl you HAVE to embrace night life full on. That means every weekend at the minimum. That means a few weekdays too. It means going without much sleep some nights. It means dragging your…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:37 AM
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Define "attractive". Because a man who is a 6 but is the most stylishly dressed man in the club, the best dancer in the club and the most outgoing and friendly guy in the club and also a well known regular in that club with a solid rep. He's the most attractive man in the club and his looks are secondary considerations and will get approached by the hottest women in the club. Out of curiosity if nothing else. Until you can believe what I just wrote is absolute truth. You'll always be lost. I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:29 AM
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Agree. The problem is these guys fall into infatuation so easily and quickly with any woman who shows them even the slightest attention they can't see the forest because they have tunnel vision for the tree right in front of them. Then they resent the tree for being a tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:22 AM
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I think the whole "douchebag/asshole" argument is overblown. One of my female coworkers tried plenty of times to be with nice guys and she got bored with them. They didn't stimulate her in any way. She's now seeing a guy who teases her, busts on her, makes her feel hot one minute and questioning herself the next. He sometimes goes too far and annoys her, but for the most part, he's just teasing her. She's never really able to feel secure about how he really feels about her. To an outsider with n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:18 AM
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Yes. Its called "pretty privilege" and it just is. There is no way to mitigate it or make it fair. Hot people always have and always will have privileges that those who are not will not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:09 AM
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and why is this so terrible? Why do ugly/neurodivergent/weird guys deserve the same treatment as the beautiful men? You sound like those blue haired wierdo chicks who scream about "pretty privilege" Pretty privilege is a thing. It'll never change. So get over it. Good looking people lead better lives than ugly ones. Deserve has nothing to do with it. Justice has nothing to do with it. Fairness has nothing to do with it. If you got screwed by genetics or fate. You just have to tolerate it the bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:04 AM
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and if I as a caucasian male went to India and tried the crap I do in America I'll.end up buried in a garbage pit outside Calcutta. I know tons of Indian guys, Arab guys and while they aren't always the physically attractive guys. They dress impeccably, they wear deodorant and cologne, and they look and act like confident high value men and get women. If you are just your average Desi who doesn't follow basic hygiene, dresses like Prole Joe and act strange by western standards. You're going to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:53 AM
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Yeah. I can agree with this. Back in the day they used to say "make the ho say no". As in be persistent regardless of social cues until she is so aggravated you essentially force her to verbalize her rejection. I've even seen posts where men have said they have a human right to force the girl to verbalize her rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:37 AM
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"It all "clicked" with me when I practiced Pick Up artistry and noticed that when I went out with my friends and wingmen most of that time the whole night was non-sexual in nature while when I had a girlfriend I was having sex." I find this take really interesting. Because I would never take my guy friends out to pickup. They are a distraction at best and a hindrance at worst. So many times I have made successful approaches and suddenly they show up out of nowhere acting like stupid guys who dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:16 AM
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Male attractiveness is as much about social status as looks. I know lots of women who dated uglier men who were socially popular, assertive/dominant and connected. What matters a lot is "how do we look as a couple standing next to each other" I don't think women are as selective with looks as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:12 PM
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Pfft. The only fallacy here is your belief in psychological determinism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:33 AM
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And you'd lose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:29 AM
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Myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:19 AM
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Bull. Being socially intelligent is a skill that can be learned. Most men learn it early but many do not. It requires more than just reading some articles and online dating. It requires you to rewire your entire psychology through exposure therapy. The average Beta is too lazy and psychologically weak to endure the growing pains of learning socially intelligent seduction as an adult. In fact many of them disdain and hate the idea of becoming popular, of becoming a social butterfly. They see no f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:13 AM
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I have tons of pics, videos, etc but I wouldn't dare share them on this toxic sub. I don't believe in Chad honestly and I was 28 when I met that woman and she was sweet, kind and worshipped the ground I walked on and give me anything I asked. We traveled the country together. We'd still be together if life circumstances hasn't intervened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:05 AM
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It can be overwhelming. I've had one woman laying in my bed and another text me to say she's coming by for a hookup and won't take no for an answer and I have to find a way to get the other one in my bed up out of my house before the other shows up, grab a shower, etc with less than 30 mins notice. I've been caught out with one woman by others I'm hooking up with leading to fights. I've had to stop going to certain clubs or bars because I was seeing a regular there and we split up and I have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:23 PM
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Orr. Maybe chad isn't as big an asshole as red pill myth says?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:01 PM
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Well I tell you what. In order for your world to come about it would require a civil war and a complete rebuild of society from the ashes and I'd rather die in a gun battle with your jackboot conscript militia than be forced into a labor camp. You want my male privilege? Come take it over my dead body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:16 AM
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But looks, social status and income are all subjective as hell, exist on a wide spectrum and can be radically changed or altered to shift one's position on the spectrum up/down. A 5 can easily become a 7. And for many, that's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:03 AM
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This is a troll. No way this post was made in good faith. The levels of support for authoritarianism is completely bonkers. No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:00 AM
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Very few women actually outright abuse male friends like this. I do know one. We hook up once in a great while and on those nights I don't mind paying for the obligatory night out drinking and dancing before we go home together. But she knows I'm not a simp and I will walk away and go NC for months if she tries. I've done it before. But other men? Pfft. She has a whole bunch of simps in her orbit she uses to get household fixing done, borrow stuff from, rides, dinners, etc. She's pretty brutal. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:27 PM
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First off. I'd like to know what "the average man" looks like to you guys. Because it seems to me most guys on here think "average" is Comic Book Guy from The Simpsons! Guys, I'm pushing 50. A few years ago I was just like you. Recently broken up, fat, middle aged and felt useless. But then I saw how Al Pacino and Johnny Depp and all these guys were getting women in their 20's. You can be all skeptical and say it's about the money or the women are gold diggers. But it's simply not that black and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:51 PM
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Nothing wrong with being friends with women you are sexually attracted to. The key is to have enough options not to care. I have dozens of female friends who I would bang in a minute. But they are far more useful for meeting their hot friends who do want to fuck me. Women are social creatures. The top ones have vast networks of hot friends. If you are too weak to avoid one-itis that is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:47 PM
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For every woman that friend zones a man she has 2 or 3 friends that wont. But obviously in your mind things like building social circles and generally being a popular man with women requires you to have sex with every single one in your orbit. Any man who thinks just showing up to a bar/club once or twice a month is going to reliably get women is delusional. Social circle game is superior to everything else. Build a social circle full of women and you'll get more women. It isn't rocket science. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:25 PM
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So what? Is making out with random chicks fun? YES!!!!! Just hanging out with a bunch of girls smelling them, touching them and being touched by them, laughing with them and making out is FUN!!! You can't reliably fuck women until you can reliably socialize with women. Sexual intercourse is not the only measure of success with women. Geez! Validation comes in all positive female attention regardless of whether it leads to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:43 PM
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Lol no. Men who are successful with women are friends to women. Confidants to women. Women tell us their darkest secrets. Get all that "dark triad" crap out of your head. It's BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:33 PM
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Online dating is there to supplement your dating options, not be your sole source of dating options. I don't care that I only have 4 or 5 likes a month. I'm out 3-4 nights a week with my friends partying, socializing, attending concerts, etc. and constantly meeting women every chance I get. I have been friend zoned a million times but the girls are social and have lots of other female friends they hang around with. If you aren't a resentful inteovert you can leverage female friendships to get mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:03 PM
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The only way a woman has that much power over a man is if he lets it happen. No woman ever did that to me and I've been with crazy plenty of times. Only simps get dominated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:58 PM
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If you're making painful small talk you are doing it wrong. You realize humans have only had language a couple hundred thousand years right? How did we communicate? Body language. Most women I meet I met on a dance floor where not a word was spoken and attraction was established before we even knew each other's names. Body language is key. Learn how to touch a woman in socially appropriate ways and escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:52 PM
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My ex was 13 years my junior. I'm currently seeing one woman 17 years my junior and one 18 years my junior and occasionally hook up with women even younger. I don't have to defend squat. If I'm attracting them then I have the right to date them. That's entirely between me and them. Society can bugger off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:45 PM
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Lol as a permanent bachelor I am amazed that guys just don't get how many bad/damaged women are out there. Guys.. It is better to be alone than abused! If you get desperate and settle for the wrong woman you will be waaaay more miserable. Being alone is better than miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:41 PM
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Lol I wish I had a mom like that. With mine, the situation would be reversed. Her making me do her laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:46 AM
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I don't pay it all but me and my ex are really good friends still and we split the bill. She's pretty good about paying it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:39 AM
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Then you were taught to either be a doormat, or expect other people to be a doormat for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:58 PM
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Actually, a lifetime of reading horror stories on social media has pretty much made women a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:36 PM
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To me hook up culture is bad because it teaches both men and women that people's bodies and emotions are as disposable as an outdated piece of software and the cult of selfish is as moral as the cult of selflessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:31 PM
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How is a woman who does t even know you exist going to he mad at you for not wanting her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:34 PM
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So men as a gender/sex are just failing entirely economically and socially because there is something wrong with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:19 AM
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Holding positions of leadership. Accruing wealth, social status or power. They'll be denied jobs that are particularly suited for men through ruthless outsourcing and the only jobs left available will be whatever scraps fall from the matriarchal table.of power in the "caring and service economy" serving mostly women. Men will be forced through intentional economic and social neglect to become dependent on women for economic security and be reminded of their humiliation on a daily basis through s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:03 AM
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All of the complaining can be boiled down to one thing. Currently society is slowly levelling average men down to the chattel bondage women once experienced. We're not there yet but most men see the writing on the wall. It won't be de jure bondage. It will be de facto. But that bondage will.exist in all but name. Rich men, influential mem, particularly fine specimens of men will be protected and coddled and given some measure of power. But anyone else will be reduced to chattel property for a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:34 AM
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Nah man. You got this all wrong in many ways. The man needs to demonstrate once in awhile that he's always willing to leave. I have a bug out bag with a few days worth of clothes and other important items and I leave it in the bottom of the closet whenever I am with a woman and I make it clear from the beginning that I will not hesitate to leave on a moments notice if stuff goes south. I never consider her an investment and finances stay separate and I make sure I am always willing to.abandon wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:13 PM
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