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That doesn't really hurt my feelings. I hit rock bottom when I lost my first girlfriend who I wanted to be with forever, so thanks for the attempt. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:38 PM
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Now intense is something I could believe and it doesn't have a negative connotation like cocky or creepy and it implies that I'm not a case that can't be helped because I just have to come off as less intense and more present to the interaction and it's not that inherently I'm some kind of bad person, so thank you for phrasing it that way. I think intense is closer to my problem so I'd like to elaborate with you. I certainly feel like I have tunnel vision with the woman I'm interacting with, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:30 PM
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Now, when you say that, it sounds like you're telling me to shoot a target through five walls that I have no knowledge of the location. I'm a blind man(metaphorically) and I basically need to be guided through each door of the walls to even get into the room that the target is in. "You just have to hit the bull's-eye." If by confident you mean fearless then that makes perfect sense to me, but I feel like there's more to this state of being if it's some magical state of perfection that makes wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 04:29 PM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:47 AM
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Idk I understand humor. Telling jokes and stuff. Maybe be comforting by being strong and be exciting by like lifting her off her feet and carrying her type shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:46 AM
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Give an example of excitement and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:27 AM
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You seem really invested in me not thinking you’re cocky. Why? If you were to entertain the idea that you have incorrectly assessed what you have to offer and are angry other people don’t value it- what would that look like? I would go to my room to be depressed and get really angry at myself about it and search on the internet how I can solve it. Still haven't found the answer for me. I don't think actual people having sex are constantly assessing what they have to offer, and neither do I. It s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 04:31 AM
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I've never had a girl bolt on me. It's always been a very polite, not very cocky conversation, followed by me asking for her number, sometimes with a hug, and then she never texts me back. I was spiraling because I feel like you're not reading me correctly and accusing me of things that I'm not doing and thereby some of your advice might not apply. It doesn't feel good to be accused of being something you're not, so follow your own advice and care about how I feel. ;) The thing I generally read …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 04:07 AM
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Okay so describe a positive change in me. So I change my attitude, talk to some girls, they are more open to me because I'm less "cocky" and more "confident", and they just say "hey, wanna have sex?" or from a good benevolent perspective, by the power of the just world fallacy, I start having sex? How does this manifest itself? What are you really telling me to change? I'm definitely not cocky about my abilities to pick up women, and if you want me to feel like I ain't shit just because I can pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 03:18 AM
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If you're talking about sex, you can bang anything. Trust me it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 02:59 AM
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I mean it should be a pretty straight forward explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 02:56 AM
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No, it doesn't really work for me. I'd still like to have sex with attractive girls. So how do I do it? Elaborate on direct but not too direct. (I hate nuanced shit)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 02:52 AM
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I don't think you're understanding me here. To fuck those two girls, I matched on tinder, asked them explicitly to fuck, and then I came over, they gave me a blow job, and I fucked them. By the very nature of that interaction I'm at least somewhat above their league right? I'm sorry I spoke ill of the fat women. I do feel sorry for them, just like I feel bad for people in my position who can't get sex. I also don't think you understand how I became this way over time. I was a shy, depressed, guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 02:49 AM
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thats WAY too direct. thats one step above "want sum fuk" And that's basically exactly what I did with the two big girls that I was actually able to fuck. Matched on tinder, asked to fuck, they obliged. That along with paying for the prostitutes was a symptom of being tired of trying to figure out whatever the fuck that it takes to get laid the proper way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 02:41 AM
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Another thing was that I liked that she actually talked to me and my nerdy bros and she would play with all the nerdy guys' hair and give them massages and make them feel like kings of the school. It seemed like on the surface that she was different. But yeah on the weekends she was probably getting the shit fucked out of her by Chad because I later found out she was into BDSM. lol. I don't consider myself a nerd, but those are the kind of people I liked to hang out with because they don't care …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:49 AM
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My friends are not girls, but I can engage girls in polite conversation and make them chuckle a bit or agree with something I said (when I either talk to them directly or in a class I'll answer a question in a funny way), but whenever I try to lead things somewhere they shut me down. I'm very open minded to whatever my problem is so I don't see that as being "full of myself". I just wanna solve my problem and enter the world of pussy that seems so far away and mystical at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:38 AM
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Yeah, but this "full of myself" thing only comes out when I'm angry about lacking womenz. If I'm not presenting that way in person, then what do you think it could be? Also, I can think of plenty examples of guys being full of themselves and still doing fine with girls. However it is that I'm presenting to girls doesn't make my friends feel less of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:04 AM
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Yeah I've just been meeting random girls during the day. So I've got the "confidence" to at least talk to a stranger woman. They've never really agreed to come to my apartment even without the implication sex so I feel like I'm not charismatic enough in some way. I don't think I'm ugly, but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:58 AM
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I'd get a girls number and later just text her asking if she wants to come to my apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:45 AM
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Because girls like normal guys who aren't particularly extraordinary, and I want to be one of those guys? I'm 5'10", 155 pounds(so not overweight like the girls I had to stoop down to fuck), fairly muscular, before I eat anything in the morning I have visible abs, gay dudes want to suck me off, trans women want me to bang them(never partaken of any of those opportunities because I don't swing any of those ways lol), I play guitar, I literally don't have any problems in my life other than lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:42 AM
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Can I just show explicit interest, or does it have to be a subtle and direct and nuanced and mind blowing paradoxically complex indication of interest that translates to woman language and then she'll take me up on it? I've tried to show explicit interest and they basically all say that it's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:24 AM
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I'm talking about trying to get to the point where she wants to have sex with you in the first place and the moves you have to make in that case. I've had very few women who even want to be around me in my life and that was one girl who chased me around the playground in elementary school, another girl from elementary school who I'm kind of still friends with but not really, we just hang around mutual friends, no new girlfriends in middle school, and one girl who broke my heart in high school wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:19 AM
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There aren't comparative stakes but for me there is comparative pressure. Every single little movement is a chance for her to say, "Hey, this guy doesn't actually know shit, well I'm off to find a guy who does. Bye creepy weirdo, I'm off to tell my girlfriends how fucking weird you are and how great Chad is in bed so that he keeps getting fucked and you stay in your loser position with no compassion for you whatsoever because losers are automatically bad people." and then you have to start all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:58 PM
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The thing is, going into a surgery with that attitude would be absolutely retarded. "Ah, hello yes, I'm the surgeon, ah, no, I've never had any formal training, but I'm confident that what I can do will get the job done. I'm a marketing major so I got that going for me, I'm intelligent, but I've never done a surgery before. Alright lets get to work." Why can't you just be honest and have some woman give you a chance to improve yourself? Are there any women out there like that? Just having troubl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:37 PM
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How do you know how to turn someone on when you have very little experience? It's like you have to have some to get some :(. Doesn't make sense how they got some in the first place without lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:16 PM
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There's different kinds of good feelings I think associated with each lifestyle. I just feel like high school Chad's lows wouldn't be as low. There would just be this base feeling of being the shit that one might even take for granted if they were Chad. I can't imagine Chad ever being in as deep of a depression as I've been, although that depression does make neutral moments more enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 08:37 PM
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What are the health affects?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:43 PM
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I would have rather peaked in high school and then died in some drug overdose or some other accident. Being Chad in high school would be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:42 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 03:54 PM
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Lol no, but I have studied the thought process of people who've taken psychedelics and for some reason I'm able to get all these "insights" without drugs. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 03:39 PM
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But its like you guys think women all experience the same idolization etc just bc many men want to fuck Hmm, what do u mean by idolization here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:07 AM
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If you can find equilibrium in all those things above, I don't think you'd worry about loneliness. After you've accomplished all those things you just have to find your zen place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:13 AM
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I'm debating in my head whether or not introversion/extroversion even exists or if it's just those sensitive to socialization vs. those desensitized to it through repeated exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:55 AM
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I don't know. I think it depends on your diet, exercise, sleeping habits, and what loneliness means to you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:39 AM
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I mean, the girl I loved was this really chub girl. She was a good makeup artist, but she was a little on the chubby side. She wore clothes that made her look skinny, and she worked really hard on how she looked and acted. She was a lady player. She was no Stacie, but I was infatuated with her. I wasn't really into Stacies. I had a type (I acknowledge that I picked a very hot version of my type in this photo). I still do like that type very much, but they are rare. But yeah, she basically did he…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:35 AM
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Hmm, I think that's going to be tough these days without encountering a legal gray area. Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:49 AM
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Probably cuz they're mentally or physically disfigured.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:46 AM
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heh. hot women can "use" me for sex all they want, but i'll be having the last laugh there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:44 AM
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Lol yes come back in a few years with the data on that. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:40 AM
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Becuz I was looking for unconditional love. Conditional love sounds like shit, so I just wanna spin plates as TRP would call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 01:56 AM
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How do I find that perfect vibe? I want my endless sex now. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 11:06 PM
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I'm not saying boohoo, but having sex one time at 19 didn't get me into the metaphorical exclusive sex club that I feel like having sex in high school would have gotten me into.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:54 PM
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So tell me how that works. I close my eyes, contemplate on the butthurt, meditate it away, open my eyes, oh shit there's pussy on my dick right now! Seriously tho, wat does my butthurt have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:53 PM
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Yeah I was thinking that at the end. Maybe instead of describing an esoteric self I should have just said I want her to stick to her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:43 PM
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Depends on what mood I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:38 PM
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The most important thing is that this inner self is the same in everyone. Everyone is the way they are because of the circumstances they are placed in and the nature of their bodies. Every person's inner self would have the same reaction to every person's outer experience. Everything would be as it is if we shuffled these inner selves to different bodies. I'd want her, to make a decision to commit to my inner self, because she realizes the depth of it, even though everyone else's self is basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 07:43 PM
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To the same extent I worry about unattractive men, I'd say I worry about people being born without limbs, that level of worry might be low relative to my own problems, but it is on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 07:06 PM
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It's the one observing my change over time. It's a more philosophical version of a soul. I'd like the girls to be deeply attracted to the thing that never changes rather than the decorations I put around it, to the point where no matter what I felt or looked like, they would see potential there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 06:20 PM
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Men who do not inspire lust don't deserve women they lust ...because it's not a fair trade. But the point is that for some men it's not merit based and they are just hot. That's what creates the feeling of injustice, someone just being born with hotness and not having to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:03 PM
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On #3 girls as a whole rejected me. I know this because I was a virgin until I was 19, long enough for me to know that I wasn't one of the prime alphas fucking away in high school or even some crazy fucks in late middle school. Also I lost it to a prostitute. I'm not more attractive yet, and I still barely get laid, but if I ever do become more attractive, I will know that they never liked the real me. Whether my money changed or my temperament changed, those are both things they shouldn't need …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:56 PM
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This it the positive framing of AFBB that every beta hears.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:50 PM
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And in many cases a lot of women simply haven't met a guy with the right penis for her. All the time people use this kind of logic. How do you know that the guy doesn't have the "right penis" for everyone? It implies something special about each unique connection, but what if it really isn't unique to the master connector?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:46 PM
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I think this is a positive framing of the situation to attempt to make betas go back to their beta role. It's basically what everyone is told before they turn to RP. "Girls like assholes when they're younger, but when they "mature", they go after nice guys like you." It keeps the reason women go after these assholes in the first place really vague. Why would an "immature" woman, be attracted to an asshole man? What is the nature of the "maturing" process in these terms? Why would I want women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:40 PM
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The problem is people's lack of care for the thing in you that remains constant, the witness. People in your scenario are admiring the decorations of the person and not the unchanging observer of that person's experience within their decorative body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:20 PM
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Will dump you soon enough if you become a meth addict. And fuck them. They can rot. Loyalty is one of the highest values I place on my friends. Whether I'm a meth addict or a billionaire, I'm not going to let it slide when I get out of any particular rut. Most commonly I'll match their lowest level of investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:15 PM
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Ye that was me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:49 PM
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You seem to be a TRPer who is pissed off at MGTOW for not stooping to pathetic lows like PUA and all that laughable tactics that don't work unless you are basically David Gandy and Christian Bale (Chad Thundercocks). How many womenz have you approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:03 AM
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So it's more nutrition and not genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:06 PM
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But women can just use makeup and bam, now they can have sex with all the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:14 PM
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ability to protect and provide to females. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:06 PM
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This I kind of agree with. Although there probably are some MGTOW who still have sex with women. If you say you have sex there some of them are like: "Oh my god, you had sex? You just put pussy on a pedestal. We don't do that around here in these parts. I bet you performed like a monkey to get it and had to pay for a date!" And then Chad will be like: "No I didn't pay for a date, we just had sex." Then the coping MGTOW incel be like: "Well you payed for it with your time! Women are a waste of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:55 PM
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The subjects are very much improvised, and so is the energy, so I'm thinking about trying to direct the energy, but yeah, I don't think about what I'm going to say before I say it and I just approach and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:42 PM
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Well, I'll notice that a lot of times in the beginning of an interaction my energy will be on point and they'll be real perky, but things eventually "drag on" and they kind of get bored and I can get their number at that point but they don't hit me up later. I'm not sure of the nature of that energy or if I could kind of force more of it out or not. There does seem to be this strange world of subtle emotions that don't have words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 09:29 PM
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Don't got a sex doll so don't have to worry about that one. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 09:25 PM
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If she does, tell her you’re just friends and you simply like to have fun together. I've heard people say it like that. Do girls actually think of sex like this? "simply a little fun"? lol. To me it all seems so serious like you gotta be this macho competitive man and beat everyone else and then you get sum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 09:24 PM
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You might know the word if I spoke it to you, but yeah when I typed it out, the word's spelling seemed kind of funky. It basically means the "flashiness" of my personality and any little decorations I might add to it to make myself seem more appealing. Here's a definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 09:00 PM
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the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust. the state of feeling certain about the truth of something. a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities. I've never distinguished my friends based on this quality. They are all "confident" enough for my tastes, but I'm certain that many of them struggle with women. So again, confidence seems very unclear to me, especially when we're talking about confidence that's attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:55 PM
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What does confidence relate to? Is it an active or passive force? Is it majority body language or majority mentality? Is it just the ability to approach in the first place, or is it an image that has to be maintained throughout your interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:49 PM
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Should you be closer to lying about it or just neutral about the fact that you're not getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:43 PM
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How does one get selected in the first place if you need preselection?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:30 PM
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The fact that I'm a skilled guitar player, or a straight A student, or good with computers, or good at editing videos, images and some audio, has not shined any light on how attractive I was to women. It's all been about the pizzazz or lack thereof of my personality. It is about putting on a performance for sex. That's my understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:29 PM
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It's like a battle to me. If I just walk off peacefully it's a loss. If who I am is truly undesirable and others are getting what I want by being desirable, I won't just leave them be to have all the sex that I wish I could have. I have to become a part of that, one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:12 PM
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Now what do you think about an already attractive man who builds muscles, does he become more attractive or does he remain the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:59 PM
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Wouldn't you say that being low body fat is the best course of action though because you can see if you've got anything going for you facially below whatever amount of fat that has accumulated on your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:45 PM
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Once you accept that you are born with traits that means you will thrive in certain situations, but not in others - the logical conclusion quickly becomes the following: You should leverage your strengths, and understand your weaknesses. Your values, your life choices, the way you dress - everything about you will be based around this idea. Yes, and those situations I would not thrive in would include short term or long term relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:39 PM
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I mean you're at least healthier and not a skinny fat lazy fuck, so yeah it's a good cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:24 PM
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In contrast, when the guy who has a strong sense of self expresses interest - he does it in a way that's non threatening. There's no weight on the woman's shoulders - he accepts the fact that she either likes him or not. This allows her to relax and safely act on any feeling of attraction that might be there. The guy with a strong sense of self transcends his bodily state into godhood where he magically has no thoughts of an outcome and everything just flows into infinite sex. /s Really tho like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:16 PM
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If you had a tip on how to not let out your normal self around women during a cold approach, what would that be? What's the general vibe you should be going for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:50 PM
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Why the fuck wouldn't you just go MGTOW? Cuckholding just irks me. I'd kill myself if I was into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:48 PM
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( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:40 PM
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I think my personality is fundamentally incompatible too because I've had gay dudes tell me I'm hot, but then girls are like meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:39 PM
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Does sacrificing a beta to your religion of choice every month supply you with enough "masculinity tokens" to make it through each month? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:37 PM
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Now, we are talking about obese women here, as in women like this or like this God damn, I've only fucked fatties so far and yeah, I don't see it as an "accomplishment" I guess, but they were no where near that fat. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:12 AM
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Even then, I think personality is habitual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 10:14 PM
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In my opinion, don't overcome that view. Be real about what you're attracted to and let others be real about what they are attracted to. Don't ever be convinced that you're in love with a sexy woman and that it's not just because she's good looking, and don't let girls tell you they're in love with you(well you can, but don't let it fool you) when you know if you were fat they wouldn't be saying that. Don't forgive. Don't forget. Stay vigilant. Trust no one. Anyone can lose confidence in you no …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 09:20 PM
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I don't think a true self exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 08:52 PM
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Also if that ideal would have worked out for me, I'd have never found RP in the first place because our relationship would be perfectly harmonious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 04:32 PM
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I'd say if it were the case some of those the guys changed something consciously they would probably play the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 03:46 AM
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I still feel like they intuit that "something is off" when you go socially off key, and I imagine you'd have more of those moments if you've never had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:24 AM
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Like I said in an earlier comment, I wanted my high school sweetheart to be mine forever. The only first that she was, was my first kiss, we didn't bang before she ended it, but I would have liked to. She wasn't all that great. She was a little chubster, but she was like the woman version of a PUA. She would touch everybody's hair and shoulders and chest and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:17 AM
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I didn't want to the fuckfest stuff until I realized my first gf wanted to "find herself" before "settling down". It made me like, hey, fuck it, I wanna "find myself" too if I can't have you forever. Maybe even for the rest of my life lol. That's how important she was to me though. Long term prospects became meh, and I wanted to bring on the sexy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:11 AM
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The question though is, whether they've been with 1-2 guys hundreds of times, or hundreds of different guys, can you really tell the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:01 AM
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Why'd u ask about the 1-2 boyfriends thing tho? What do you think the reason is for your KHV status? If you didn't have sex with your 2 boyfriends then there definitely wouldn't be any resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:57 AM
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It's not really resentment at that point. I can't fault her for bad judgment, but the ideal would be to get with a girl who's never been with anyone else and be hitched for life. Hey, at least you get sex as a nice girl REEEEE. /s Seriously tho there's no resentment, I just have reservations about trusting people's stated intentions, so there would be doubt in my mind at first if she was just telling me that she wanted to make them both long term to appease me or if she was actually telling the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:54 AM
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Not as much as long as her intentions were to make it long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:41 AM
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There is an ideal way that I imagine I have to communicate with women and it does seem to me like a lot of them can be pretty merciless if you're not socially 100% on point all the time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:07 AM
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There's a server at the college buffet and I couldn't help but notice every time he would take my order, he'd shake his head like he was pissed off at me. I watched him for a while and noticed that he'd do it to most of the people who came by his station. He was doing his job but he just seemed like he was being an asshole. When he was gone I asked a coworker if the guy was mad at something, because he looked angry whenever he took my order. The coworker said he'd talk to him. I saw them talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:52 AM
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You can be nice and have a spine. There's a problem I have with this statement but I can never quite articulate it. It's like saying, you can be nice but punch someone in the face, or you can be nice but be mean. That might not be exactly what you mean, but that's the kind of dissonance I'm having to that phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:18 AM
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I bet they don't have any concept of "reality" in this sense. It "just happens".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:15 AM
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You gotta be bad to somebody to not be a pushover doncha? :l
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:13 AM
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You don't have a flashing sign above your head stating: "27-year-old virgin redditor." Women you meet don't know you're a virgin. And yet some people say that it's blatantly stated by your body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:09 AM
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Why is he less of a threat? In a group they could gangbang ya. At least that would be lizard brain logic I'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:04 AM
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Hey u used my analogy from earlier. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:01 AM
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It doesn't have to be literally miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 11:30 PM
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I have. It's the only two times I had sex for free. I'm 20. I was tired of not having it so I did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 11:29 PM
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Tbh pussy is pussy lol. I'd like to have exotic foods but when I have to I'll always accept ramen for sexfest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:03 PM
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Because you'd think the young, carefree women would "mature" with their young, carefree male counterparts and stick by them instead of crossing sides to boring dude land to exploit untapped relationship potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:00 PM
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The CS/engineering guys who get laid aren't the issue being seriously considered in this example. It's more a statement that there are guys who were never considered and then when they were finally given a chance, were seen as a stable provider option and not as a potential lover. The issue you should be debating is whether or not women pursue men who before they would not have considered with the goal of extracting beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:56 PM
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It certainly doesn't make me want to wife her up if she wants to "have fun" with every other dick in the land before me. Even less so if I was not included in that having of fun and now she sees me as a boring, stable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:51 PM
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Title: Q4Men: Men of PPD, how would you explain male sexuality to women who are confused about "neediness" vs. "independence? Sure, you're going to evaluate a sex partner's potential for motherhood, but that has nothing to do with your evaluation of her as a sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:47 PM
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Oh, I see. I think men are kind of like that too if you put it that way, but are probably willing to transcend their own bad mood if they are desperate enough. I don't think men introspect about this sort of attraction as much though, so they're mainly saying the stuff they find "HAWT".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:43 PM
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Men don’t require romantic favors to get turned on that’s the only reason it’s different at all Neither do women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 05:45 PM
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0.1% he helped me with carrying the groceries last week OMG YES SHE HELPED ME WITH THE GROCERIES SO HAWTTT I call bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 05:43 PM
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It's irrelevant to sexuality. The only things sexually attractive to men are: pretty face, nice hair, nice body, nice voice, and sexual availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 05:28 PM
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I think that's an important point to recognize, but I think it's more important to recognize it's sometimes used as an excuse for inceldom in a "I rejected society, society didn't reject me." sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 04:57 PM
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Lol the funny thing is that I just got a stroke of luck on tinder and now three girls are dtf that I matched with. Just made a new account so I think I organized it well this time. But yeah I'd still like to get better at cold approaching, although maybe what I have to do, is do a bunch of low investment interactions so I get warmed up before just going straight in with a girl I like. I think I get a tinge of anxiety if I just go up to a girl without any prior interaction with random people thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 02:38 AM
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lol :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 11:30 PM
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It's not in the OP. I feel similar to the OP except for the approaching part and was just sharing my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 10:19 PM
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Loved a girl She was probably BPD, sociopath, psychopath, something of the sort Never again. lol One thing I believed is that if it was true love it would automatically be mutual. Nope. That makes love stupid and not magical to me and that hurts my feefees. :( I have to meet a standard to be loved so am "I" really loved at all? That's why I stopped wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 10:13 PM
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Yeah I guess so. Though, I thought being above average men would get me more play immediately. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 07:07 PM
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Someone posted a picture of the woman not photoshoped. Go off that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:19 PM
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Don't call me out. I admit that I'm naive. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:17 PM
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Nope I'm not ADHD's alt, and I'm open to all angles of deformity. I don't think I'm facially deformed, but the things I'd have to change personality wise are unclear to me. There's levels of "dominance" that seem like being a dick to me, that girls seem to think that's just a guy being a guy, but then again, maybe I got that wrong and that's not what I'm struggling with. I'm open to anything. I really don't think it's something about how I look either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 04:52 AM
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I feel the same, except now I easily approach. Don't think of introversion as your nature. Have no nature. Your nature is self evident and it is nothing at all. Adapt. I freed up some nerves by taking cold showers. Hot showers are what I was used to, so I took cold ones. The strange courage it takes to just jump into a steady stream of cold water after you've gotten so used to the heat, should be applicable to approaching women. If you take hot showers, that doesn't mean it's your nature. Don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 04:33 AM
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If they're lowering the bar shouldn't I be swimming in pussy? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 04:23 AM
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You think you could tell me what it is if I describe myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 04:10 AM
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Ok, this photo still looks good so it still applies. Just think of that as the original photo in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 04:00 AM
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Dating is a battlefield, people hurt people and insecurity is toxic, I don’t think it’s healthy to take an adversarial or condensing approach to women. big, threatening presence This sounds toxic and adversarial to me in terms of how I behave towards my fellow man. To have a big threatening presence, somebody has to be on the intimidated end of my presence. “men are attracted to your body, women are attracted to your aura” and I've been trying to adjust this shit just right for forever and still…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:55 AM
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Just some speculation. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:45 AM
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Hire an escort Check, heh... It's how I lost my virginity at 19. The four times I've had sex have been like this: Escort, fatty, escort, fatty. I was hoping I'd slowly work my way down in weight of the women I fuck, which the second fatty was slightly less fat than the last one, but I'm dry again. I guess if the bar fight was consensual, I don't wanna go to jail. I almost fought someone in high school, and I really wish he wouldn't of backed down. I called some guys bluff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:29 AM
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Choosing to reproduce with a drug dealer, law breaker, or other degenerate is wrong. Ask me why if you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:51 AM
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20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:43 AM
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You got an example? Maybe we can agree on something more ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:43 AM
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Just curious, does it matter to you if a woman has implants in her ass to achieve this look? No not really, but fake tits are kind of concerning to me. Ass or tits or both, as long as you have one as an asset, you're all good. I'm in college so I see girls with nice asses all the time. Maybe I'm painting an unrealistic picture of the asses I've been seeing, but slim college-aged women's asses have certainly met my standards. Even some skinny girls who some people would say have "no ass" can look…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:31 AM
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I'm 5'10 or 11 at 155 pounds. I'm low enough body fat where in the morning before I eat anything you can see my abs. I don't think I'm facially ugly, but I usually have some acne. It's a lot better than it's been and my cheeks are clear, but my chin still gets some small spots. Maybe that's the one thing that fucks me? Our weights definitely did not match, she had rolls on rolls. I don't know exactly how to approximate her weight, but probably well over 200? She was probably like 5'6 or 5'7.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:57 AM
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She's not standing up straight so it's not as big as her stance makes it seem. I'm mainly trying to say that people always say that this is the ideal unrealistic body type for women, when the real ideal is a slim woman who also has some meat on her. That does not mean that we can expand the definition of slim to include those with "extra meat" on their belly area.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:38 AM
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Easy targets. I thought you were going to say that in reference to another fact. Fat women are easy targets for men for sex. The only two women I've had sex with have been fatties, and every other woman I've ever asked has thought I was some creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:31 AM
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That's because men like fat women. This is the size of the ideal woman. Not the clothes hanger anorexic some people call the "unattainable model standard" for women, and not some extra thicc woman. Big boobs, flat chest, big ass. As long as you have 2 out of the 3, with flat chest always being one of the three, you're good, but 3/3 is the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:27 AM
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Today that percentage is down to around 40% Find something that breaks the 20% decrease down by gender and then I might just change my view to yours. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 09:50 PM
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But there's nothing inauthentic or against the law about approaching. Who cares if you're an asshole? Why not be bad if you aren't rewarded for being good?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 09:47 PM
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You can't approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:28 PM
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You misinterpreted what I said. I'm talking about flashbanging your own teammates in hardcore mode on Call of Duty. I'm not talking about shooting NPCs through a wall. They don't react to shit. The very act of approaching is your troll move. That's all you have to do. No games or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 05:49 AM
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Have you ever trolled on a video game? See dating as trolling. By doing things your way, and continuing to do things your way despite any people throwing judgment, you can be amused by their reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 03:47 AM
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Maybe I misinterpreted you specifically, but MGTOW in particular is something I'm familiar with. It is the fantasy of some of the people existing in that sub that when MGTOW becomes popular and more and more men reject society, that society will start a downward decline and women will feel burdened by their absence. I'm in the same boat with you at this time so no Republican to poor person here. I'm pretty poor sexually too. I'm expecting things to change soon enough. All I'm saying is that, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 03:23 AM
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I mean don't you? I don't have to use fancy terminology. Do you want people to care that you're rejecting the world? The ideal would be that enough men like you would get together and reject society and then everyone would realize that they need those men so something needs to change, right? The question you haven't considered: What if they don't? What if all the men who are like you reject the new terms of society, and everything stays the same, nothing collapses, and those men are not needed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 02:20 AM
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That's what you want to think. You want to see your pain reflected on the world in your absence. The pain you want to inflict would be more easily accomplished by a series of badly delivered approaches. ;) Maybe eventually you will git gud and not care. That's what I'm hoping happens with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 02:01 AM
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Solve your inferiority complex by adopting a superiority complex. Treat women like children. Never just treat them like the equals that they are. How would treating them like equals look in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:56 AM
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But there seems to be this view that sex is the peak of human potential when really it's the most primitive basic shit you can do in the human experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:51 PM
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celebrating their sexuality I don't get this view of sexuality as a sacred part of your identity. It's more like scratching an itch, busting a nut, animal-to-animal love, primitive reproductive chemicals. It's not a holy act worthy of a museum exhibit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:47 PM
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This kind of indifference is why I don't go MGTOW. If I'm just a nuisance by approaching women, so be it, but they better not be indifferent. I'm going to be the biggest nuisance there ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:44 PM
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The most potently manipulative person probably looks exactly like a normal person except he gets what he wants when he wants and nobody suspects a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:40 PM
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Orrrr.. we really don’t see the value in crushing someone’s feelings. Because their feelings are going to be crushed by life anyway if they've got things that repel women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:39 PM
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That's why I wonder if debating with women on these issues even has a point. If they're just trying to convince you of the blue pill so that betas stay in their lane, it turns this whole place into a potential psyop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:34 PM
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Why is nerd always associated with ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 01:33 AM
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potentially harmful In a feels sort of way or an actual capability for harm? I know I could harm somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 07:30 AM
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I used to be like this but now I'm blunt and it doesn't work. What do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:27 AM
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pretend they don't have a single harmful cell in their body. So be a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:24 AM
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Is that what they're putting in the water to turn the frogs gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:08 AM
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It's not about knowing women better, it's knowing about the experience of dating women. Women, unless they are lesbians, do not have experience dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:10 PM
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What is superficial then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:07 PM
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All double standards could be argued out of existence with that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:04 PM
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So you're tellin me, you put 2 to 3 to your count every week with approach anxiety? Well I don't wanna misdiagnose myself, I pretty much have a 100% number close rate when I actually ask for it. The numbers rarely lead to anything which is my problem. I used to have debilitating approach anxiety to where I just couldn't approach. Now what little anxiety I have left I can get through with sheer willpower. If I decide that I'm going approach, I can do it. I've got no doubt about it anymore. The tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 02:31 AM
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It's the same thing with other fringe issues that have become main staple of the leftist establishment like transgenders (who are at best a 0.1% of the population) Yeah this is something that confuses me. Who funded the transgender stuff? It's obviously someone more powerful than that specific 0.1% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 01:18 AM
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Define effort. I'm able to open real easy but I think I just suck shit at coming off the right way throughout the approach. Maybe it's because I've been exclusively doing stuff in the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:05 PM
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There's no male conspiracy to hold people down. Billy Bob can have a billion dollars and so can you. What's that? Your family doesn't have much wealth? Well it looks like you'll have to do something called "sacrifice" for the next generation by saving money, and then maybe some day your family will be wealthy. I'd imagine that most billionaires didn't go to the federal reserve and be like: "HEY! THIS IS A STICK UP! PRINT ME A BILLION DOLLARS!" They, or someone in their family earned the initial …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 05:14 PM
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the number of people you CHOSE to have sex with The key word is CHOSE here. You choose, I approach and make myself one of the options you choose from. I don't know whether my choice, and who I actually end up having sex with will be the same person. You do know, if you choose among those who have approached you, that they'll all say yes. I can't just say "You! Hottie over there! I choose you to have intercourse with. Let us commence." and trust 100% that my choice will be honored.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 06:04 AM
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O shit rly? Time for my second run.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:50 AM
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I was pretty dumb at 654,729,075 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 08:33 PM
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Is she an 8 without makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 08:27 PM
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I think there's an equal number of very hot men and women. Makeup skews things. A woman can enhance her looks dramatically with makeup, so I think you can have an average man, who looks like he's dating a very hot woman, but he's actually just dating a really good artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 08:24 PM
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Women are seen as the buyers and men as the sellers. If a man has sex with a lot of women, he's a good salesman. If a woman has sex with a lot of men, she's bought into many salesman's gimmicks. There aren't many things women have to change behaviorally to be able to have a high n-count. As long as they look good, or even good enough, they can get a lot of casual encounters. That explains the bragging end of it. I don't think women deserve to be shamed for their sexuality, but it's not impressiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 08:15 PM
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You've never had astral sex before? Gosh..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 08:01 PM
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Hypergamy I see applied to relationships, but usually when people talk about ridiculous standards I think they're talking about casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:13 PM
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Besides not seeing sex as romantic, I've oftentimes seen it in more of a humorous way. Think: Shrek is love, Shrek is life If you see Shrek is love, Shrek is life as funny then I think you can understand how I read the original comment. If you still kind of feel like: "Oh, how devoted to Shrek that boy is." then maybe we're just living in different realities. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:08 PM
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That is a good point. I'd say though that the watching what she does and not what she says involves what she says she's attracted to in some hypothetical man. When she says she is attracted to a specific man, we can at least watch what this specific man actually does and determine if we think what he does actually garners attraction. Like if she said she likes nice guys, but part of her definition of nice guy is to slap her on the ass and call her a dirty whore, that's something that'd be hard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:51 PM
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Well let's say a girl likes 1950s style relationships. So she's going about her womanly duties, and then she's like: "Hey wait, even if I didn't want to do this, I'd still have to." Then lets say this woman single handedly makes all the political progress that feminism did, and returns to her wifely duties now that she knows she has a choice whether or not to do them. The relationship style is literally exactly the same, but she had a choice this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:39 PM
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Having that attitude on sex, why'd you get married? I'm not saying you shouldn't with that attitude, but couldn't you have all the nasty sex with a wide range of guys? Why just one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 04:01 AM
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Ppl here don’t like poetry Oh so that's what you call that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:55 AM
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"Attraction" at least when I use the word, equals "turned on". If she doesn't go on another date with him, she is overriding her attraction using her logical faculties. Logical decision making has nothing to do with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:48 AM
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If a given woman chooses to fully be in the submissive role for all aspects of her life, then this is feminism so long as she chooses this role and this role is not forced upon her. So it's a "before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water, after enlightenment, chop wood and carry water" sort of thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:43 AM
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Isn't bad teeth a brit thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:05 AM
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I feel like after 7 there's diminishing returns in terms of hotness, maybe even after 6. If it's 1% vs 10%, men will disagree on who's hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:02 AM
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Unsurprising, I imagine the average woman puts more effort into her appearance than the average man. Are you saying men should use makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:59 AM
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Do you think it applies to casual sex standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:19 PM
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Aren't they neutral enough about sex because even a fattie can have casual sex with Chad when he's on a dry spell and desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:17 PM
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I personally prefer scrawny men or men with an average body. I am not incredibly attracted to men with larger body fat, but I would 100% date a larger guy than one who was incredibly toned and muscular. I love men who are in tune with their emotions, feel comfortable opening up and show compassion. I value intellect over brawn. Do women just start spitting out the opposite of what's conventionally attractive to confuse men, virtue signal, or, around these parts, win arguments? It's like: "Yeah, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 06:18 AM
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G A I N Z A I N Z Get sum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:32 AM
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I believe blue pills endorse new perspectives on gender and sex, they want to break down stereotypes that they find harmful for both sexes and build a culture in which men and women are not valued any less for breaking certain norms. This is good and idealistic and all, but in breaking down these stereotypes, do you think you could actually change sexuality? Is it even a desired outcome? Do you want women to be sexually attracted to a wider range of behaviors from men or is it just about having …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:00 AM
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Sport, maybe, gym? They'd have to be retarded to not follow the advice of all the posts that say how important lifting is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 01:39 AM
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U ever tried to fuck a fatty?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 01:35 AM
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So sex for everybody including the incels? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 06:56 PM
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By your logic about male sexuality, female sexuality would entail the continued existence of gladiator fights to the death to ensure that only the best men could mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:04 PM
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TIL men in prison have the same morals as men not in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:02 PM
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I think even the "intellectually curious" will sometimes fall for the "there's science behind this" gimmick; especially if they were insulted on their intelligence. Like if someone said: "you'd be stupid to believe this and not this because there's mountains of evidence for this and all the evidence for the other thing the studies are invalid."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 04:51 PM
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Whats next, are you going to argue that clothes are deceit because they arent our skin? Yes. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 04:32 PM
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I think a lot of people don't base their ideas on evidence and more on the confidence of the talking-head saying them. Many times someone might say: "my ideas are based on evidence," and their just using that as a persuasive technique and don't actually have the studies, but if they say it with confidence or while "holding frame" people will take their word for it and not bother to check them on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 04:24 PM
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What does too clingy too soon mean in the long run?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:15 AM
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Yeah, but I feel like I have a better idea of what a crying baby wants than what a woman wants. A crying baby either wants me, mama, food, his bubba, he pooped/pee'd his pants, or he's got a booboo. I wish I had a list like that to go through with women when you're first meeting and you have intentions beyond being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 02:49 AM
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Idk. It just seems like you have more authority over your children by default vs. your spouse who is an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 02:39 AM
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I've never seen a guy who acts as if he's high valued be annoying to be around. I've got a friend that will look down at his phone and ignore topics that you bring up and charge on to a new one. It's a little annoying to me because I know what he's trying to pull. He's popular among the plebs but I'm always hyper aware of little social manipulations like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:56 AM
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Do you mean to say that adaptive/fluid is what you want to aim for and projecting outward is what you want to avoid? Nah I think he means the opposite. He's saying to project yourself on your surroundings and not let yourself be blown around like a leaf in the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:37 AM
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If women are never going to be on his team, even if he's not a dickwad, then he has no reason to be kind to those women. I've been reading your comments about the fuck zone and they're pretty hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:35 AM
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What if the nice guy just gets mad at girls who reject him and not his friends and women who don't reject him? The women who reject him aren't really on his team anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:23 AM
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Tbh I was never physically bullied, just teased in middle school. I had friends, just never of the girl variety after I hit puberty. I didn't really get any shit in high school. In high school a girl I saw as Madonna left me for some guy and told me to stop talking to her or he'd fight me. I called him on his bluff and challenged him to a fight. We never fought, and she broke up with him for being a bitch. I'm not exactly a little bitch boy. I'm a social chameleon, I can fit in anywhere. I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:12 AM
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He's an asshole towards someone he has no reason to be kind to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:54 AM
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Do you think choking your spouse in a sexual manner is "romantic"? It's certainly not the first thing I think of when a woman says: "Wow, he was so romantic."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:49 AM
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Most of the time, it's not something the guy can work on. I don't agree, but I can understand if it's hard to actually identify what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:47 AM
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What makes you think most are fine, just not to you. How do you know every woman doesn't feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:46 AM
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Well I know that me personally, I don't get frustrated about every other thing because I know how to solve those problems. Relationships with women is the one problem in my life I can't seem to get straightened out, so it's the only problem I really get overly frustrated about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:42 AM
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It's probably the fact that when I hit puberty, I heard about all the sex among the popular kids, and I wasn't a part of that. It made me feel bad. I wanted to find a girl to love outcasted from a sex life just like me. A lot of the people having sex bullied me. I wanted a girl who wasn't sexually attracted to the bully-jock type. Apparently, that's the archetype of sexually attractive men. Sex now became "something my bullies do that corrupts the girls I like." It corrupts the girls I like beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:54 PM
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Maybe we need rejection-artists for women just like men need pick-up artists. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:17 PM
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What if we end up making eye contact? I'm kind of one to want to win the eye contact game by not being the first to look away, but I'll look away once they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:15 PM
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It feels dismissive though. Like: "Not interested... Okay are we done here? Get it? Got it? Good. That takes care of business. Go deal with your feelings somewhere else now. Bye bye!! <3"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:11 PM
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I'm sure the guy is plenty nice to the girls who don't reject him and his friends who actually like him, but when a girl rejects you, she's saying she doesn't like you, and would really prefer for you to exit from her life. Wouldn't it make sense to return the favor and say: well I don't like you very much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:06 PM
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the other huge issue that a lot of authentic nice guys and fake NiceGuys™ apparently do not understand is that the whole nice guy act doesn't even work that well if you're trying to get laid. you're better off acting like an edgy, ridiculously overconfident asshole who DGAF. Exactly, but the people who complain about NiceGuys™ say that if you were a genuinely nice guy then you would get laid, ironically amplifying the frustration of said nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:59 PM
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Just like you would say the nice guy is not congruently being nice, I'm going to say that you're not congruently being polite. Look at this example of a man being polite. This scene is from the show Breaking Bad where we have Walter White, coming into Los Pollos, Gus Fring's restaurant, under instruction from his brother in-law who's in the DEA, to put a tracking device on Gus Fring's car. Walter White cooks meth for Gus Fring and Gus Fring distributes it. Walter White goes into the store to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:52 PM
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Don't think of whore having a negative connotation in this context. It's just the name of the construct. The only difference between having sex in a FWB scenario with a whore and having it within a relationship is the label we put on it. Madonna is different, she's special, even though I know she might not exist. I'm trying to flesh out my mindset to you. Maybe I can love the whore but Madonna gets a more potent love. Madonna is something I project onto the woman, while the whore is the reality …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:15 PM
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I know, but isn't it more helpful sometimes to be objective about why you got rejected so that you can improve? And be like: "I didn't do x, so y happened, next time I'll do x and hopefully that will work out."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:10 PM
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I can accept that they're all whores, and have a relationship with a whore, but I'm not going to have the same loving attachment that I would with a Madonna. Maybe that loving attachment would even be a "clingy" attachment in the girl's mind any way. The whore would be a life partner. She'd pay the bills with me, I could be superficially romantic with her, fuck her like a whore, but never would she get the love that a girl like Madonna would get. First screw up and she'd be out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:07 PM
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The way you talked about the normal guy is that he said the girl had no sense of humor. He assumed that it was the girl's lack of humor that was the reason he was rejected instead of assuming his humor is not evolved enough. Maybe you just meant in the context of his guy friends he wouldn't want to be perceived as being rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:58 PM
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When you say intense, do you mean fast and rough or just like, really holding on to each other intense? Reminds me of the whole Madonna/ Whore complex. I think that's what it is, but I'm trying to reconcile the two. I can't conceive of having both in the same woman without feeling less attached to the whore(like if she cheated on me I wouldn't care and I could just insta-dump her), or degrading my idealistic view of the Madonna(her wanting to be fucked like the whore). I used to only want Madonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:50 PM
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A normal guy will go out for a beer with his buddy and say he was fucking around on Tinder for a joke and this bitch he was talking to had no sense of humor. They shrug and say women blah, blah. The cringe guy expresses his anger and frustration directly to the woman he thinks rejected him and calls her a stupid ugly slut. So like the "normal" guy will assume it's the woman's loss while the cringe guy will get frustrated because he feels like it's his loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:46 PM
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Now does this apply to: I might see an ass but have no choice but to be enamored by it because it's right in my field of vision. I'm not going to purposely stare for really long, but I might have a reaction despite having a poker face on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:43 PM
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In my opinion, that guy is a genuinely nice guy, who gets carried away by his emotion of frustration. He's still a nice guy, but he doesn't know how to handle his emotions. Is that a fair verdict in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:40 PM
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Hehe, but what about a Schrodinger's Nice Guy situation where that nice guy is a Chad who never gets rejected, so the mask never comes off, but if he were to get rejected constantly he'd be just as mad? Is that guy genuinely nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:36 PM
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I don't do anything like that anymore, but I used to, so I can empathize with those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:33 PM
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But why wouldn't you want to drag out a loving moment? I think we're just dealing with semantics. I'd like to bring up the questions I asked earlier: Have you always thought rough sex could be romantic? Do you understand my perspective or are you just as confused by it as I am yours? It seems like a butchering of the word romantic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:29 PM
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For some guys it's hard to let someone get away with hurting you, and rejection can be perceived as someone hurting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:27 PM
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I know it goes something like: Nice guy: Do you want to go on a date Stacie? Stacie: No, I'm busy and I don't like you like that. Nice guy: Slut whore McSlut face!!! REEEEEEE. I know you've been fucking Chad. Why won't you fuck me???!?!? To these guys, whenever they get rejected, it feels like a woman is saying: "There's something fundamentally wrong with you, I'm going to stick with the guys that don't have this fundamental flaw." Not only are they saying that, they are being polite girls™ to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:23 PM
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Now, if he just goes around not getting frustrated by anything and being the nice guy, doing things for people, isn't he now a pushover who doesn't enforce his boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:07 PM
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I'd think if it was about love, you'd want to drag it out and not get a quick nut by going hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:06 PM
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Do genuinely nice men ever get angry or flip out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:52 PM
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Isn't it ok to be frustrated at being rejected? He's not getting rejected for being frustrated guy. That comes out after he gets rejected. Let's say he gets rejected like ten times before an outburst. Isn't it fair to say that he got rejected because he was too nice instead of for the frustration he let out on one of ten of the girls he got rejected by?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:50 PM
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The way some men look at women is without that respect at all Have you ever questioned if your appraisal of that respect has to do more with the attractiveness of the male and less to do with the actual reality of him being more respectful than the others? I'm not saying that's what you do, but have you ever took a chance to think about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:38 PM
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I guess I can understand how a bonding can happen during all sex. Romantic though means something vastly different to me than "rough sex". Romantic to me is getting gifts on valentines day, or writing someone a poem, or those kissing in the rain scenes in movies. Romantic to me is something that says "how much I love you". Rough sex to me is something that says: "how much I want to fuck you". It might happen in the context of a romantic relationship, but it has nothing to do with the love that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:25 PM
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Well shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:18 PM
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I do lift. I bench 200 at 150-160 pounds, is there a certain point where I need to bulk to lift more? It seems like my body weight to bench ratio is pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 05:51 PM
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You can have sex as many times as you want to. It might be dangerous, but you can do it. You can't spend as much money as you want to, and you have to actively make it back when you spend it. Sex, you just have to wait for that energy to come back without any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 05:46 PM
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Idk. It just doesn't make sense to me. It's like if a serial killer said he feels intimate with his victims as he helps them accept the loving embrace of death and that the people he kills deep down want to die. That's how foreign the idea of rough sex being loving in any way sounds to me. I guess I've never had a girl like me like that. I'd really like that, but it seems like if I was to have that level of desire it would be "clingy" or "possessive" or "objectifying" or "desperate".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:11 AM
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But they never come into the same space at the same time. Loving things are different from sexy things, especially when they are rough sexy things. Slow and sensual can make sense as loving to me, but going at it hard I can't picture that being anything but sexually charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 03:52 AM
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But it's the guy who knows and loves her going neanderthal mode. No higher human emotion involved, he just really desires to fuck her. The place where my love is located and where my desire for sex is located is in two different places.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:53 AM
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I wish I could treat sex like my meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:51 AM
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You clearly have a higher standard for what constitutes degradation than I do. Even rough sex alone can be perceived as degrading. It's certainly not something I imagine would be "empowering" being on the fucked side of some pounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:46 AM
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I never see these messages that girls are supposed to desire rough sex. I never even conceived of it before I read TRP-related content.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:43 AM
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To me women desiring rough sex counters the idea of getting someone flowers, or chocolates on valentines day. It just doesn't make sense to me. "Aww here's this sweet little gift shows I was thinking about you <3. NOW LET ME GIVE YOU GIGA ANAL!!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:40 AM
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How is it romantic? To me it's the exact opposite of romantic. It's just raw animalistic sexual desire. No "romance" leading up to it. You're fucking like the primitive humans did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 01:35 AM
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How do you work on that without having a regular customer?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 08:17 PM
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Are you comically short? Comically large? Comically skinny? Terrible facial hair? Forward leaning posture? Severe anterior pelvic tilt? Girly voice? Are you skinny fat? Greasy hair? Balding at an early age? I'm 5'10", 150, and bench 200. In the morning before I eat I can see my abs, so I don't think that constitutes skinny-fat. No on the girly voice, greasy hair, balding, or facial hair. Do you dress like that virgin that got pity fucked by Mia Khalifa? He wore carpenter jeans. Do you just gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 07:37 PM
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Whenever I’m seeing a girl casually, and I start to get emotionally invested, she always ghosts. How do you make it happen in the first place if you're not invested in making it happen? Because from what you’ve told me it seems like it’s for validation rather than just having a sex drive. I don't know what it would feel like to want it out of having a sex drive versus validation and how that would change the way I'd communicate it to where girls wouldn't "smell it."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 07:58 AM
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You ever deal with existential thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 07:08 AM
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What do you think is keeping you from getting laid? What's happened during my approaches is that a girl will give me her number and then when I go to text her, no response. I've got responses when I get numbers from my college classes, but they just think I want to study with them and if I show any interest they ghost. What I think is that I need to be in some zen-like state when I approach. When I access this strange feeling, I'll see girls giving me looks. Also when I access this state, I coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 07:01 AM
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This is much different from my perspective. I feel like the one thing keeping me from being happy is not being able to get laid. I don't know if I can or ever have been able to. All I know is that every girl I have approached has rejected me and I've only fucked two fat girls off tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 05:30 AM
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Don't you get more validation from the girl than the porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 05:27 AM
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I would be out fucking if anyone would have me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 05:26 AM
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Name the list of problems. I just want to fix my problem and get pussy. Whatever it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 05:24 AM
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What's my problem? I really want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 04:57 AM
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You break them more by being in agreement with every other woman in this regard and not giving them a chance to gain experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 04:33 AM
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Right, and it's your fault. You don't like genuinely kind guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 04:26 AM
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I'm not fat and I can't get consistent pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 04:23 AM
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You can do this. It's a choice. You can choose to turn it all off. You can also turn it all on whenever you like. Have a thought, that you may perceive as a feeling, and say: "It's okay to feel this way." Keep saying this until you have no thoughts, then keep saying "It's okay to feel this way." If a thought comes up about the nature of this thought experiment, or you think "This isn't working.": "It's okay to feel this way." This does nothing in particular, but hopefully it will be of value to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:35 AM
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That's because there's a woman in both of those relationships. Heh /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:24 AM
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Yes. Love is not desirable to me unless I'm at least under the delusion that it's reciprocally unconditional. It's not even love if it's not unconditional, so call it something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:22 AM
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And if I was a real bitch I'd ghost a semi-attractive woman who I was "in love" with, for a super hot model Stacey. Except I wouldn't do that because my love actually means something! Bonds motherfucker! You don't break those unless you treat your relationships like a pragmatic sociopath!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:09 AM
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You seem to be under the impression that romantic love is unconditional. That's what I thought it would be, and since it's not, I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:02 PM
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But to me if you fall in love with a lazy person, you should be stuck with them. You might not like it, but if your love is not strong enough to survive something like that, you don't love the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 08:56 PM
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Drop her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 08:49 PM
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It seems "either or" to me because if you love someone, and they turn out to be a slob who won't do anything, then you just go find someone else to love in an instant, it displays a view of love that does not jive with my own. The fact that you can just go love someone else on the drop of a hat, makes love seem like it's very transient to you and that it lacks a loyalty inherent to my definition of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 08:46 PM
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Are you sure it's not just an all out attraction to violence? I understand that I had a visceral reaction to your visceral attraction to violence, but are you just adding a moral component to sooth my soul?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 06:23 PM
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Oh, I think I was confusing present to the moment, with the definition of presence in the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 06:21 PM
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I'm not there yet. ;) I was on track to be the long term potential guy but the "facts" you mentioned earlier led me away from that. I was hoping to find some girl I could be romantic with, but nah, they all want Brutus to smash em out. How can I be romantic with that in mind? Looks like I gotta hit the gym because the smash life chose me. I mean we all have expiration dates so don't be deluded and bother busy nurses at your death bed. That reminds me of one of my grandpas who slapped a nurse on …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 06:11 PM
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This :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 05:58 AM
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violence has more of a positive effect onto a woman's arousal Why is that strange? Jesus fucking Christ, nuke this world. See how much you like violence then. That's a sick thing to be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 05:41 AM
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It's just all very relative, but not "magic" or "feminine mystique." Nah it's fucking magic. Presence is such a fragile state. I don't know how these guys who rely on it can stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 05:02 AM
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I'm saying do you think they romanticize their physical attraction in their own minds? I'm not saying that they're lying. I have certainly felt physical attraction for a woman where I had romantic feelings towards her instantly, but rationally I can evaluate that since I haven't talked to her yet, it's probably just that she has a nice ass. Do you think women take their physical attraction more seriously than men do so that they extrapolate it as something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 07:15 PM
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On the other hand there's countless evidence of Chads and just better-looking guys doing much better than meh guys, which doesn't work well with my theory. Do you think it's a possibility that women romanticize their physical attraction by saying they were attracted to more than that, while guys are more down to earth and straight up about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:59 PM
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Do you think these extra considerations are how women's attraction work on a fundamental level, or is it the result of being able to be picky due to male thirst and an abundance of options? In other words, is it the fact that you have multiple guys on the same looks level pursuing you at once, so you have to create categories to distinguish them, or would these extra factors always be a consideration for a mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:54 PM
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Millennial men not women ;) I was expecting to see a /s at the end of your line or a (rubs hands together furiously).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 04:48 PM
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I can see how this could work if you never plan on having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 12:59 AM
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Us men aren't really all that different. You don't want a fat girl who's trying to lose weight - but you probably want the fit girl who used to be fat. Get it? I guess, but losing weight is pretty straight forward, while trying to get your mind to work right around women so that they become attracted to you is like Buddha-tier enlightenment level in complexity. You have to let go of all your desires and just go with the flow and bla bla bla weeee lalala land. idk...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 11:09 PM
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If I'm in a setting that there's no reason for them to think I'm hitting on them, won't I end up just being friends with them? Based on all this, I get this bitter feeling that women only want me when I'm winning. I have friends that are loyal to me through everything. I like sharing my good feelings with them because they don't care if I'm feeling confident or not. They deserve my confidence in that sense. Women can go fuck themselves when I'm feeling good. That's how I feel at the moment. Any …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:45 PM
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I don't feel a need to "own that shit" in an exerting it on my environment sense. If someone told me something I liked was for losers, I wouldn't really care and just would continue on about my day. It's not like: "Yeah I'm a nerd and I'm going to flaunt that shit in your face bitch!" I don't really know if I identify as a nerd anymore but that describes how I feel about the things I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:28 PM
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I will say that I could be in a band to show off my skills. Successful academically just means I've never gotten lower than a B.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:19 PM
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It was a hurdle to just get over approach anxiety but now I have to have a perfect performance too? Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:17 PM
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Recently, I talked to this girl after my exam. I was a little nervous but I just liked her voice and the way she looked. When I went to talk to her, since my nervousness was showing and apparently you can't have even a drop of nervousness or else you're a fucking creep, she seemed really spooked and said she had a boyfriend in this really fake polite way. When I'm not in the mood to approach and I just go about my business I can see some girls looking at me in a positive way. Never when I actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:11 PM
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I'm competent in guitar, I lift weights, I get good grades, and I feel pretty confident about my future ability to provide for myself. How is this supposed to bleed in to my interactions? Its never helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:58 PM
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I am successful academically and I've been playing guitar for 10 years. I don't know how the confidence for one thing is supposed to bleed into relationships though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:54 PM
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It's half trolling half frustration at the vagueness of your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:36 PM
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I imagine that I "walk around like a normal person". Why am I not drowning in pussy? Am I not NORMAL and CONFIDENT enough? Do I need to be a MEGANORMIE!?!?!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:23 PM
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Hello, me here. Plz help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:18 PM
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Being a confident nerd is hotter than being an incel nerd imo. What DAFUQ does that MEEEEEEEAAAAAN?!?!!!!?? REEEEEEEEEEE.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:16 PM
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Real game is just confidence in knowing how valuable you really are and women love that shit. This is what that sentence sounds like to me: "All you have to do is draw the sigil of Jesus Christ and sacrifice a chicken to the voodoo so that you can have magical powers and girls love that shit." Confidence sounds like fucking magic to me. I'm no magician though so what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:06 PM
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A truly confident man knows what his strengths and weaknesses are, and is comfortable with the fact that that's who he is. No matter how many times I hear something about confidence I still have no idea how it works or why it would be so fundamental to some guy being attractive. It sounds like some magical mental state that is just out of my grasp that would grant me infinite pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:59 PM
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I question people like Shapiro, Peterson, Lauren Southern, Milo... Just like feminism, they market themselves on being controversial and rebellious, but also like feminism, they have gained huge followings. In my most paranoid state I'd say they all seem bought and payed for by somebody who wants Alt-Right vs. Feminism to be the mainstream political climate. I'm not sure what the end goal of this would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:35 PM
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Money is limited. Sex is infinite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 07:27 PM
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tru
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 05:03 PM
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But the teacher never had any lectures on the material in this case, so of course I need some kind of answer sheet. Give me a proper homework assignment lady!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 05:02 PM
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I enjoy this kind of fact because it really makes me not want to be the long term potential guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:44 AM
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As long as this guy is physically attractive so much so that it trumps everything so that I get to fuck all kinds of women, I couldn't give less fucks what people think if I was him. Literally the only reason to not be a "loser" is to have sex with women. If you're having sex and still a loser, you're some sort of anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:40 AM
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Maybe if you were trying to get in the casual sex scene you'd be shamed for your virginity as a woman. I can't imagine anyone but Chad doing that though. If you were looking for religious Billy to be your husband then virginity would be a big plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:12 AM
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Right now no one is having sex with me, so sex with people who disdain me is a step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 11:04 PM
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Regular sex > irregular sex. Here's some male brain algebra Sex with people who disdain you = Sex with people who love you. In this equation, disdain = love. Therefore: Sex with people who you = Sex with people who you. Sex = Sex. Apply this to the original formula, and you can see that if you add regular to the front of sex, it makes its value greater, while disdain or lack of disdain seems to have no effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:27 PM
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I'm not sure where my dumb self would work, but I'd work somewhere. I'd make enough to survive I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:46 PM
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you aren’t seeing the downsides of it right now That's right, I'm not seeing the downsides. Being outside this box has led me to many existential crises. What's the point of all my talents if I can't be in the box?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:45 PM
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Her making fun of you to her friends only matters if it is in such a way that inhibits you from fucking her or her friends. Otherwise why would you give a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:36 PM
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I would sacrifice every skill I have to be this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 06:54 PM
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My sister throughout university had a FwB she lamented was, "great in the sack; dumb as a fucking post," If you tell a guy he's good in bed, but not very smart, that's laughable. If you tell a guy he's not good in bed, but he's smart so he's got that going for him, that's offensive. I'm smart at 20 years old and if I was good in bed my life would be complete. I would sacrifice my intelligence to be a sex god. Sadly I don't get a lot of opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 06:50 PM
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How do you become this type of person that women still fuck but don't like? The way I imagine it is that it's actually harder to be in the fuck only box than the relationship box.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 05:47 PM
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That's the reason for the stud/slut double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 01:45 AM
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Implicit slut shaming and private slut shaming are still very prevalent and greatly affect female behavior. Doesn't this just influence women to rebel against it these days and be even more of a slut than they normally would be, therefore making slut shaming an inversely powerful belief? Until men are shamed by other male peers in the private arena as well as by "decent society" in the public arena, slut shaming still exists. I feel like my male peers have a right to believe what they do and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 07:07 PM
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Women having sex is not impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:44 PM
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Normally when people talk about what "society" thinks, they're talking about a powerful belief system that has an impact on behavior of those in that society. Slut shaming is no longer one of those powerful beliefs. If you tried to slut shame a woman in public today, you'd be shamed yourself for slut shaming. The fact that you can only slut shame in a fringe segment of society shows how weak the belief system affects behavior today in the public arena.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:40 PM
1

It takes an exceptional man to be a manslut with beautiful girls. Men come onto women and the women ACCEPT. Men have to do their sales-pitch of an approach and if they are consistent at closing, they are a good salesman. Women are the ones buying a product. Women are the suckers falling for the salesman. The one shamed versus the one not shamed is determined by the difficulty of having multiple partners. It is easy to buy multiple products from a salesman. He brings the products to your doorstep…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:16 PM
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The subreddit is not a representation of society. They have views that counter mainstream views which is literally why it's called "the red pill".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:08 PM
1

How would you know if she told you she only had nine but she actually had sixty?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:04 PM
1

And the problem with that is no one can know for certain they are telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 12:39 AM
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There's always a debate about what "attractive" means. When RP guys say attractive, they mean sexually attractive. Women seem to include attractiveness as a relationship prospect in the mix. Are you saying those traits in your partner make you want to have sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 06:21 PM
1

And what am I going to do with self respect? Wave it around in someone's face and show them how tough I am? Look at me! I have self respect! I'm not going to put up with your bullshit mister no sireeeeeeeee because I have self respect. Hey look ladies! I went to therapy and now I have self respect; do I get abundantly flowing pussy now? No? Huh, what did I do all that work for? Well there's gotta be some fundamental meaning of life beyond pussy. There's gotta be some purpose we're all here that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 05:09 AM
1

Here's the strategy: get tinder, match with fat chicks, say: "Wanna smash." I doubt it would work on an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 02:42 AM
2

I'm not putting it on a pedestal. I just want some. Apparently an ounce of want constitutes thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 12:38 AM
2

Now the question is, do I trust you or trust RP and take this as you trying to make me go off and be content as a thrill seeking beta so I don't bother the womenz with my beta presence? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 12:05 AM
1

I mean, there are people who are 20 who are having sex. I want to know what the fuck they're doing that I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:45 PM
1

I guess I just have to have faith in the idea that not caring about girls will some how get me girls. It just doesn't make sense how that would work in my head. I have trouble trusting that idea. I feel like I have to actively be thinking about it or doing some particular set of correct actions to accomplish it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:43 PM
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I mean, it felt pretty dangerous to go see a prostitute for the first time, but that's not exactly the type of story you'd want to tell to a girl I'd think. There were police cars driving by, but I just walked right in. I was surprised, as I am for many things like that, that when I did something wrong, I wasn't immediately punished for it. There's a lot of things I've done where it's felt like there should be some moral retribution, but then it never comes. That kind of stuff really rocks my wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:19 PM
1

I have been more present at times and have tried to purposefully develop it but it didn't just magically get me the things I wanted. I had to put myself into discomfort to approach a woman in the first place. This discomfort, takes me out of presence, and there we go, I'm fucked. Even if I did somehow get permanently present, I would just keep it to myself because fuck people for not liking my anxious self. I can approach pretty consistently, it's just that I don't feel very vibrant while doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:10 PM
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This is the problem though. You guys attach all of your confidence to success with girls which is in itself super unattractive. Fine, I won't attach my confidence to success with girls. Do you know what will happen? Absolutely fucking nothing. Are girls going to sense my confidence and approach me? Doubt it. Am I going to approach girls with my new found confidence? No, because it doesn't involve girls and I can be perfectly content without them if I developed such a confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:00 PM
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I know you probably don't want to hear this, but women's attraction to men has far more to do with personality and attitude than it does with looks. I hear this, but then there are also people who are ugly who say they have a good personality, and then people tell them that of course looks matter. It just gets confusing on which matters more. What do you do that's fun and interesting? When's the last time you really pushed yourself to do something difficult? How do you feel about yourself in gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:52 PM
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How come the only thing I'm attracted to is good looking girls, while in order to get with those girls I have to be some sort of zen master, present to the moment, zero anxiety, never wavering mother fucker?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:08 PM
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I've just been struggling for a long time. I had a sexless relationship in high school with a "manipulative" girl who broke my heart irreparably. I lost my virginity to a prostitute because I was just tired of it. I lowered my standards, and I proceeded to fuck a fat chick, another prostitute, and another fat chick. That was within two weeks when I was 19. Now I'm 20 and on a dry spell again. All I want is consistent sex. I'm 150-160 pounds, I bench 200 so it's mostly muscle, brown hair, blue ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:01 PM
1

How do you improve your energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:44 PM
1

Is 150-160 pounds shrimpy at 5'10"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:43 PM
0

Do what thou wilt I suppose.
/r/MGTOW28/02/18 02:36 AM
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You're clearly not aware of the level of irony this man is on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 01:10 AM
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I'll get straight to the point I'm trying to make. What do you get from the male in an open relationship other than a second paycheck that you do not get from a friend with benefits you are just as emotionally close to? Why not leave the relationship undefined?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 12:28 AM
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Shit test!!! TRP 100% confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 12:17 AM
1

What makes your other significant when the relationship is open?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 05:43 PM
1

Do open relationships always have a primary or can each relationship be on equal footing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 05:35 PM
1

What's frame control got to do with MGTOWs? I agree with you that a lot of MGTOWs are just coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 03:29 AM
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can’t define patriarchy but they still wanna smash it If you know what I mean. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 03:28 AM
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Companionship, emotional support, and shared interests are great. All of those things, minus sexual exclusivity, can be accomplished in a friends with benefits scenario. It could even be a friends with benefits for life deal. Sexual exclusivity is not the entire basis for relationship, but without it you do not have a relationship. Questions for you: Rather than be in an open relationship, why not just get tons of friends with benefits who meet your standards for companionship, emotional support…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 03:07 AM
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No woman is that important to me that I'd let her fuck other dudes to be in her company. If I forced myself into such an arrangement with someone I actually cared about I'd probably be in a constant PTSD-like state.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:16 PM
2

This is the mind-fuck that drew me away from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:12 PM
1

Yeah, what is the relationship even defined by?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:09 PM
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Sexual exclusivity is literally the definition of a relationship to me. If we aren't sexually exclusive what the fuck is our relationship defined by? I could claim to be in an open relationship with Michelle Obama and that Barrack is actually just her side piece and it would mean just as much as saying I'm in an open relationship with any run of the mill chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:08 PM
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If you're attractive enough to do that why would you get into a relationship in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:06 PM
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They don't have to deal with rejection if they just let the guys approach them. Thinking that every guy who doesn't approach is rejecting you is neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 08:03 PM
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Yeah, it's something I've realized that sometimes it's not about what you say, but the confidence with which you say it that convinces others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:58 PM
1

I'm assuming in this case that the entire world would shift to where goodness and biological fitness went hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:56 PM
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And you think nice boy points are all that should matter in the world. Well, that would be nice and make the world a better place if you were rewarded sexually for being a good person and sexually punished for being a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:16 PM
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If your moral compass is stopping you from making moves in the first place, then tossing out your old one or getting a new one would certainly help. I think this is the case for some TRPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:13 PM
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I'm a native english speaker, and I challenge you to go tell people Hitler had a good personality. Leave the "for" or "if" implied like you said. I'm also from the camp that thought "good personality" meant "kind personality". I didn't necessarily think it meant moral, but I thought it meant witty, charming, and kind. I didn't know that assertiveness, aggressiveness, and dominance were implied in that. That's certainly not a spergy move on my part is it? I still understood that good was "good fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:05 PM
1

Why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 06:45 PM
1

Do you consider confidence a state of being or a set of behaviors?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 06:40 PM
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fucks 20yo Stacies told you have immature preferences Lol, you got me. Now let me get back to Stacie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 04:47 AM
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To me, to be independent you have to be unkind and indecent to those who try to take that freedom from you. To be assertive, you have to be less empathetic of other people's wants and assert your own on to the other person. I just don't see how the first positive traits you mention can work with the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 03:31 AM
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I get more and more confused about what women want the more I debate on this sub. This is definitely not my goal to end up right back in normie "women are mysterious beings" land. Can you just give me a quick rundown on the process of evaluating a guy? Like let's say you're heavily attracted to a guy. What things would you say to your friend who is also a girl to justify your attraction to where she would be like: "yeah that makes sense, I like someone who is * insert particular qualities here *…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:56 AM
0

TIL Channing Tatum is not fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:16 AM
2

Would you like to take are survey? Sure... Are you a cheating cunt? Why yes, I am! How did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:52 PM
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Ideally, you won't spend any money on a fuck buddy. You might spend time, but you are using your time towards something you value. The effort becomes lesser and lesser as you become more skilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:47 PM
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Lol I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:45 PM
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Do you consider this to be body builder level? Because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:43 PM
1

If you are looking for a long term partner to have kids with, do not settle on your standards for looks. I don't care if he's your dependent life partner or your provider so that you can be a stay at home mom. Pick someone who is attractive to you sexually first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:37 PM
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That certainly is an option, but since you like the game analogy, I have a RuneScape analogy for you. In Old School Runescape, there is a gate from Lumbridge to Al Kharid that costs 10 coins every time you travel through it. There is a quest that takes about 30 minutes to complete that allows you to get through that gate for free every time. The supplies to complete the quest might cost you around 500-1000 coins. If you know you'll be going through that gate hundreds of times, you may as well co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:34 PM
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Just find a provider that's good looking to you that you really want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:12 PM
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The results are you get to have sex, which is something you want. You are congruent with your resentment by not providing commitment, which might be something that a woman wants. You can have a mutual exchange with someone you resent. Sex is a business is business issue in this sense according to TRP. Another way to put it is, you might hate your customers, but you still have to sell to them, and they make you money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:09 PM
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I don't think the frustration you're describing is a self worth issue. Have you ever gotten really frustrated at a video game that was really difficult? Maybe some guys are a natural at this particular game, and you really want to be as good as those guys, maybe even beat them. In the process of getting better at the game, there might be some "god dammit" moments, and moments when you are visibly angry at the game. You might wish you were more skilled so that you can have less "god dammit" momen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:02 PM
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TRP guys are just saying you should stick to Chads if you've ever fucked them and hope that one of them will provide for you and don't compromise on your looks standards for a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:00 PM
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Lastly, TRP has some fetish for meticulously counting up and comparing how many women they've been with. I understand where you're coming from with the idea of a beta mindset, but I thought you were saying that in reference to guys who don't get results. Who cares how "alpha" your "mindset" is if you've got the results you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 09:52 PM
1

Do you have any problem with particular points of the thought process above?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 07:57 PM
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They think being nice is enough, and it's not, and they're not even nice anyway which is the irony. What's the problem with feeling entitled to certain benefits if you're a good person? they're just mad that they don't get sex. What are you supposed to feel? Equanimity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 07:48 PM
1

Is it really though? Can a 6/10 be a Chad with confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 03:17 AM
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For free, psshhh, why not? As long as it remains free I'm good.
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 04:20 AM
1

Yes that is still gey even though I approve of this type of gey much more strongly. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 12:34 AM
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Nah, that's pretty gey.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 11:33 PM
5

Just think about it like this: You can die today or when you die of old age and it doesn't really matter. Because you're willing to die, go after what you want, or die trying. And when I say, what you want, I mean anything by any means. "Kill yourself" in your mind every time you face a fear to become fearless. If you are dead in your mind, detached from what happens, you can take any action. If you normally take warm showers, I'd recommend jumping straight into a cold shower so you know what I …
/r/MGTOW20/02/18 08:05 PM
1

Exactly, so career women can fuck Chad, and have luxuries with their extra cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:21 PM
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Yes, but if you want to have a lifelong lifestyle of fucking Chads, you're going to need to have your own money to at least provide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 06:39 PM
1

Then men have a right to restrict the sex women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 06:34 PM
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if the "average" man is obese, God dammit not this again. lol. If not obese was the only thing they're looking for I'd be Chadding it up right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:49 PM
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When you're a career woman, you don't have to commit. A lot of guys will fuck almost anything. Good looking guys will fuck women below their league but not commit to them. As a career woman, you can freely pursue Chads to fuck because you don't need a beta to provide for you. Chads will oblige as long as you don't ask for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:45 PM
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No. Just acknowledge that the betas are coming for you Jammerly1 and they will seduce you with their minds instead of their bodies. Muahahahahahaha! Cuz you know, betas are evil for pursuing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:36 PM
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Except sex is not a shared goal unless if you're a guy who's 6'2" with a chiseled jaw, ripped, and a 12 inch dick. If you're like a 6/10 guy, you have to bring something other than immediate attraction to the table and if you don't, you don't get to have sex. 6/10 guys have a right to want sex don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 02:33 PM
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I have them being super nice to me all the time the way SIMPs are to women. I would have trouble believing this is sexual interest unless we were actually having sex. I could see how women could be more kind because of a lack of thirst in someone who was previously thirsty.
/r/MGTOW19/02/18 05:40 PM
0

You're stuck in a loop man. Don't identify with anything. Just live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:10 AM
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What does he actually think about the issues though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:59 AM
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It's not entitlement. "Nice guys" believe that being nice will give them a better chance than being an asshole, so they choose to be nice. It's not a feeling of obligation that most nice guys feel, it's the idea that maybe, she'll see how nice I'm being and say, hey, that guy deserves it for being nice. The nice guy's motivation is about making the woman feel he is a deserving sex thing. His motivation isn't selfish. He's been getting paid in Mexican dollars but doesn't realize he's in an Americ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:10 AM
1

What's the difference between sexually aggressive and controlling? Aren't you implying you have control over someone by being sexually aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:57 AM
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And it has to be the sort of BDSM that has explicit consent and is really controlled by the woman through her limits. So, you watch the stuff where the guy politely asks: "Hi honey, are you sure you want to do this, yes or no?" and then she's like: "Yes." they fuck violently, he stops to change what he's doing, politely asks: "Hi honey, are you sure you want to do this, yes or no?" and then she says: "No.", "How about this?", "Yes." they fuck violently. Or do you watch the stuff where before who…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:48 AM
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its the bizarre fringe of them that think they're entitled to the treatment hot guys get that get upset that they dont get the mutual interest and adoration. The constitution says every man is born equal. Clearly, in regards to sexuality, we are not. The fringe of ugly guys feel entitled to equal treatment because they've been told that all men are equal, and that men and women are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:18 AM
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I used to think sex was just a part of everyone's life. I had this idea that sex is like food and water where it's just one of those basic needs that everyone deserves to have met. When I learned from high school and sources similar to red pill that this is not the case, it seemed unethical to me. Like what's the point of an ugly person's life? To serve a society full of people who won't fuck him/her? Why can't we all just be eternally beautiful and have big orgies all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:11 AM
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Sure, attractive people are more intelligent in the domain of remaining attractive. You can't say that every person with a pretty face is a 170 IQ genius who is 6'4", jacked, and also inherited 1 billion dollars from his grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 11:34 PM
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And what would stop me, a financial supporter of a particular political candidate, from paying multiple women to accuse my political candidate's rival of sexual harassment? Certainly I would be able to reach your volume requirement. What form of credibility would be weighed in this case? There's no evidence that my accusers ever interacted with the rival candidate in a sexual manner. I'm sure the media would eat the story up however. (This is just a hypothetical scenario.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 09:36 PM
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I haven't been keeping up to date. Do they vet these women who make the accusations, or could I just email a news outlet with an elaborate story about how I was raped by Hugh Jackman, claiming that I was a woman, and they would post away?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 07:03 PM
1

How is it common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:57 PM
2

But I don't want Stacie coming after me with her Chadlings at 30 when she didn't give me the time of day in her teens and early 20s. REEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:45 PM
3

I think this is the woman side of the just-world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:41 PM
0

Is there a hot guy who's been #metoo'd? I thought it's only been ugly famous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:32 PM
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Yes, but ya know, I can't be the judge of that since I'm not gey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:27 PM
5

Here's an example of an alpha male according to OP: Div I football player
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:24 PM
1

A highly sexually attractive male you semantic little shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:13 PM
2

Name a circumstance in which one could be spineless. I ask because I can't think of many situations where I was actually challenged by someone to be not spineless. I would surely rise to the challenge, but I don't know where an opportunity to use a spine would come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:40 AM
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Exactly, so you lack empathy for those men. Those men have no reason to be empathetic to women as a whole. Many of them probably don't receive love or sex so instead of shitting on them when they reach out for it, why don't you recognize their frustration arises from a lack of affection and feel sorry for them. And I don't mean feel sorry for them in such away that you look down upon them, simply acknowledge their lack of luck in their romantic lives has led them to less than ideal points of vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 07:54 PM
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Men don't have to be assholes to have sex. Sure, but that's not what I was saying. I was saying, if having sex is based on being hot vs not hot, then why would a hot guy who's naturally an asshole be motivated to be empathetic if he's just as likely to have sex while being an asshole vs being empathetic. Its loser men's revenge fantasy. Also, if you refer to any man as a loser, why would you expect him to be empathetic and kind towards you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:31 PM
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Then good luck making unattractive men empathetic and kind while being wise to this. And, no, these men will never have monopoly over female sexuality. Such is life. If you're talking about the hot, wise, kind, and empathetic guys also, then good luck making them see a point to being all those things when they can just be an asshole and still have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:17 PM
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I was. I can tell when someone is nice. Oh yeah? You're not being genuinely nice!! You're just being nice because you want to attract a guy! How dare you, you entitled sexist pig. Why are you so entitled? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:14 AM
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If you were one of the many nice woman that are unable to find an SO because they weren't attractive enough, they you'd know just how wrong you are. Why do nice girls think they're entitled to my attraction. REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! Edit: The thing about nice girls who are not attractive enough, guys at least recognize that that's fucked up. Girls somehow turn being nice into actually being an asshole and being an asshole into being "authentic" and nice and "having a backbone" to justify …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:08 AM
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All you have to do is succ the peen of empathetic, wise, and kind men exclusively and get all the other feeeeeemales to do the same. The future is female. I believe in u. Boycott those hot asshole men who are good at sex and pick partners based on empathy, wisdom, and kindness, regardless of looks, and get all women to do this, and we will be living in a Utopia tomorrow. Dis Utopia will consist of wise, empathetic, and kind men having a monopoly on the casual sex market, the dating market, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:53 AM
1

Well if she was unwilling to indulge my peen why would I love her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:35 AM
1

Because ugly or because lack of edge?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:21 AM
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TRPers just want to know they're attractive enough to get casual sex. I'll break down their thought process for you: Relationships allow me to offer something other than my sex appeal to a woman. The fact that I am offering something other than my sex appeal could influence a woman who would otherwise reject me on sex appeal alone to accept me based on other traits. By having casual sex with women I'm attracted to, I get to verify that women I am attracted to, are attracted to me on a solely sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 03:52 AM
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Well yes technically if someone's goal is only casual sex, why do people focus so much on how this individual is a shitty person, when all it matters is how good attractive and good at sex he is? My personal answer is that if bad people can have sex and we don't live in a just world where only good people have sex, why would you want to live a moral life? Just live an amoral life because whether you're the good guy or the bad guy, you'll get your needs met if you're attractive and good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 03:28 AM
1

Do you really think that a majority of TRPers are fat or that they don't know to shower and wipe their ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 03:01 AM
1

uggos like you start pondering self-castration when they see faces like mine. Lol dude, change your flair to red already. 5'8'' 155lbs men walking around either with their girlfriends or chatting up women they just met and going home with them That's me just a bit taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:52 AM
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women don't get wet for fat guys And women don't get wet for skinny guys either if they act like a little bitch or are fucking anorexic. I can attest to the fact that being not obese doesn't automatically make you a pussy magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:40 AM
1

It doesn't fall under the realm of my mystical answer unless it is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:34 AM
1

You're really obsessed with the fat thing. I think most people accept that fat people are shit out of luck. Your low empathy for those lesser than you is one of the tenets of RPers you hate. You're an alpha bro congratulations. I hope you're happy as a TRPer in denial. Accept your superiority bro, don't try to take the moral high ground too. The Red Pill isn't necessarily the right answer, but I'd argue that an answer exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:23 AM
1

Yeah I would consider 2-3 fwbs successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 07:06 AM
1

But if there's a universal right answer for a certain issue like gaining access to consistent casual sex, why would men think for themselves when they can just follow the right answer? (assuming this mystical answer has been verified)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 06:01 PM
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It's not a complaint about women not being hard workers. It's a statement that they don't have to be. If one is an intelligent woman, why wouldn't she get a man to do all the work for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 12:03 AM
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Yes, men's right to do all the hard work for women. Why can't women work hard too? Gosh, male privilege am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:19 PM
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Herself. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:52 PM
2

Why can't I be objectified. :(
/r/MGTOW14/02/18 09:35 PM
1

You could have covered all grounds with: "Don't associate with alphas." but you didn't, leaving room to say: It's ok to have sex with them as long as your values permit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 04:27 PM
1

Charm that masks the depression with a different persona? Or are there actually people running depressed game? How would one do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:43 AM
2

Politics has become Keeping Up With The Kardashians for "sophisticated" people. The issues these days are about as sophisticated as the great question: "Are traps gay?" "What did Trump tweet this week? Oh silly Trump! He's so silly and not presidential. We need a presidential president because when North Korea nukes us, at least we'll have our dignity." The right has their "muh immigrants" and the left has their "muh racists" and in my opinion they're both being played.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:16 AM
1

I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 03:35 AM
1

Severe depressive and charm is possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 03:32 AM
1

Sex addiction is an oxymoron to most men. How would one even get enough sex to be considered a sex addict without being exceptional?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 03:25 AM
1

Well you say don't LTR or marry alphas. What else are you going to do in a STR except fuck? If you know it's going to be short term what are you even having the relationship for?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 03:16 AM
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"Nah man, fuck that bitxh over there with the blond hair. That bitxh looks like Chewbacca's great grandma on crack after a 10 day bender" I would never say anything like this unless if I was doing it intentionally to see if it actually worked as a seduction tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:22 AM
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The funny thing is, if TRP actually works, theoretically the only guys getting through to you are the guys who are really good at it, and you're probably rejecting guys who are the stereotypical beta male in TRP's narrative, looking for any excuse to say: He negged me!!! REEEE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:17 AM
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You're basically saying: give alphas sex for free and make betas pay for it, but in a way that sounds like you're holding back the alpha from some "more evolved" relationship experience. It's a much better position to be the casual sex guy than to be the relationship guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:11 AM
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If you meet them and have sex immediately, that's one way to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:07 AM
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I just like triggering people which is why I voted for the man. I don't know how anyone can take politics seriously on either side. I mean, I was a little motivated by the increasingly hostile attitude toward the white man, but the fucking reactions of people who had no doubt in their mind Hillary was going to win were priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:03 AM
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yes irreparably. like "i don't know if we can/should keep going" bad. Chad lover who wants to have Chad's kids and pin it on a beta detected!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 01:14 AM
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A man who can sleep with hundreds of women sets himself apart in some way. If you don't want to call that Chad, fine, but he's not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:58 PM
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Something you'll learn if you've recently converted to atheism, is that there is no logical bridge between Christians and Atheists. It's a useless topic to argue about. The only rational position is to be aware that we have no sight into what's beyond our world, and what's true is true whether we believe it or not. Let the truth be self evident. You can't know it, so don't question it. You can't know it, but it is.
/r/MGTOW13/02/18 07:23 PM
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I'm not sure why he didn't mention omnipresence. Wouldn't that make God everything?
/r/MGTOW13/02/18 07:19 PM
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Congrats dude, you just tried to AMOG me and everyone in this thread, you're one of us now. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:59 PM
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Then don't come here to a debate sub if you don't have an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:45 PM
2

You sound very triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:44 PM
1

Socio, yes, economic, not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:36 PM
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That's such a vague word, confidence. What's it even mean by your definition? Is it just the balls to approach in the first place without showing any nervousness?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 04:57 PM
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Now 51% of the country has decided the other 49% needs to get its collective shit together. Guess what you’re going to do? Nothing, because although we live in a democracy, we also live in a free country, and the majority vote has nothing to do with my personal choices in life. (MoodyAres says we don't live in a democracy, so I guess there's that too.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:07 AM
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The natural correction to make things egalitarian is that no one has any power over anyone. Everyone can pursue power over their own lives. If they can't obtain it, tough shit. Power is something you TAKE. It is not distributed for the sake of fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 02:48 AM
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Offer a man sex and he'll take it 99.9% of the time. There's really only one side of that equation making a decision here. It's women's choice to give out sex without requiring commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 02:34 AM
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patriarchy prohibits women from EXERTING economic and social CONTROL on men. How bout we replace some words here. matriarchy prohibits men from EXERTING sexual and social CONTROL on women. What are you arguing here? I thought feminism was about women having freedom. Now you want to EXERT control over men and limit their freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 02:13 AM
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What goes both ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 02:10 AM
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Actually, as a white man, black women seem to show the most interest in me out of all the other races in regards to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 02:05 AM
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Doesn't having kids later lead to a higher likelihood of problems like autism? We don't want any more of those naughty red pillers running around do we?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:51 PM
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I don't really care if "Americans are beta cucks" or "White people are beta cucks". As long as I'm not a beta cuck, being a White American male, it's all good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:07 AM
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I'm not sure. This is the grey area I'm in currently. I hope to transcend this soon and become a 100% verified Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 04:53 AM
1

How do you set this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:11 AM
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How do you know which one it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:09 AM
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Has sex Chad Does not have sex Not Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:06 AM
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So you're saying you don't have to do anything specific or be a certain way to have sex with a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:39 AM
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It's hard to see it that way when you're not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:36 AM
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Aren't fatties just leaning against the wall the whole time though? They don't really hit the wall. It's pure desperation that gets them fucked wall or no wall isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:27 AM
1

What's blue pill about TRP?
/r/MGTOW10/02/18 12:27 AM
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How does it create incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:51 PM
1

C O M P E D O M P E D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:42 PM
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But I'm skinny and I still have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:38 PM
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Take 100% cold showers for a month and then with that same force of will it took to get under that water, do whatever you want.
/r/MGTOW09/02/18 05:43 PM
1

When you guys say this are you saying that these things wouldn't help? And lift. Always be lifting. Are you trying to actively dissuade people from lifting by saying this? Why would you do that? It's good for your health at least.
/r/MGTOW09/02/18 05:37 PM
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What do you think is the expression when someone corrects someone? Is it a stern expression or a happy welcoming smile? Happy welcoming smiles are kind. To be the most effective at correcting someone, you're going to want to put on a not so kind face. What I'm saying is, if I were to stand up to somebody who was bullying another person, the active force in my mind would be ill-will toward the aggressor, and not good-will toward the person I'm protecting. Good-will might be in there somewhere, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:01 PM
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But you can't be only kind, to put down the asshole. You must be a defensive asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:04 AM
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Even if it's completely non-confrontational, kindness is not the right word for it. Diplomatic is the term for what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 03:36 AM
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Where can I find these sexually liberated women that come on to me instead of me having to do all the work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 02:48 AM
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I've never had a spark that I didn't have to hold the lighter up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 02:39 AM
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1) The man here is good, not kind. He's using strength, not kindness to subdue a bully in some hypothetical scenario. 2)"Damn that was harsh!" is different from "Not cool." I'm not saying either are unkind, they just aren't kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 02:27 AM
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It's not the antagonist's feelings, it's the feelings of the protagonist. Kindness by my definition is a delicate thing. Generosity and consideration also have delicate connotations to me. Even camaraderie sounds to me like we're working together as brothers on some nonviolent endeavor. It's similar to the feeling you would have if you told a kid a bed time story and tucked him in. I've never heard kindness used in the context of something fierce. Yes, you would be heroic, and you're doing a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 02:12 AM
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When I tried to come up with my own theories I came up with nihilistic existentialism. Everything I did became pointless because eventually I'm just going to die and forget it all so why do anything? I prefer having the goal of pussy because I can at least convince myself there's some primal basis behind the pursuit of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:16 PM
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It's an ethical thing. Most people want to be the good guy. The most powerful forms of manipulation involve inserting your own control points, rather than relying on understanding the person in the first place. There again, the control point theory doesn't sound too complicated and it sounds like a simple algorithm you can apply universally to all people rather than having to understand each individual person in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:11 PM
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Don't you know what kindness is outside of the context of there being some bad guy to fight against?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 09:59 PM
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There is no kind way to act toward the bad guy. If you think someone is a bad guy then naturally you will act unkind toward him. Kindness is the way you act towards good guys not the way you protect good guys against bad guys. The way you protect good guys from bad guys is by being unkind toward the bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 09:57 PM
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If there's not some simple algorithm then why do good manipulators exist like psychopaths and sociopaths for example? Shouldn't people be too complicated to understand and therefore make manipulation impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 07:08 PM
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Pre-RP: women are virtuous, unknowable and very much the fairer sex. Post-RP: 20 times a days we get told we are hypergamous bitches. How is this confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:55 PM
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I'm just saying that if someone stands up to me, they're being an asshole from my perspective, while acting good on the behalf of others. My definition of kindness involves no confrontation where one guy is made out to be the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:49 PM
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Because if he's really that bad to you, he probably is to everyone and the women who do have a relationship with him are most likely just using him for money. What people find SEXUALLY and PHYSICALLY attractive is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:55 AM
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He wants you to put irredeemably unattractive men out of their misery of having hope that some girl will like him so they stop wasting their time approaching in the first place. Just tell him: "no girl will ever like you because you're unattractive." He can do with that information what he must by either moving on to other things in his life or killing himself. At least he knows the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:16 AM
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It doesn't matter though because the man who is unattractive who is also not nice is punished by not being able to have sex. There's no need to bash the mean unattractive guy because he's got a shitty life and there's not much worse you can do to him except let him live. Even if he was nice he probably still wouldn't get to have sex but that's beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:06 AM
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It doesn't matter but the reason the behavior is attractive, isn't because it's kind. Kindness is doing something with a loving compassion for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:00 AM
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But someone who says "Not cool." isn't exactly asking for a timid "Oh, I'm sorry bro durr hurr silly me." He's asking for a: "What did you just say to me?" if the other guy is worth his salt. If he does say: "Not cool." and the other guy says: "Oh, I'm sorry bro durr hurr silly me." then he has just displayed dominance, not kindness. Even if someone were to stand up for me, the first thing that came to mind wouldn't be that he was kind. He had to be the opposite of kind in that scenario to stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 02:40 AM
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Yeah, it's like a woman sees a man being unkind to another man on her behalf and says: "That man's kind." While the man who her man is being unkind to is like: "What the fuck are you talking about?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 01:58 AM
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That's not kindness, that's being tough and firm. Acting like a tough guy is just that. If some guy acts like a tough guy to me because he thinks I did something wrong and wants to do a "kindness" for those I did wrong by standing up to me, he's being a fucking asshole from my perspective, and I will "kindly" tell him to fuck off himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 01:52 AM
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Not being a pushover is confrontational. It's kindness with a dissonance of, "hey if you cross my boundaries fuck you." It's a political kindness to keep up an image that you're this polite kind person so when you tell someone to fuck off you have a bunch of people on your side because you're "kind". I don't know how that can ever be seen as authentic kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 01:41 AM
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Literally tho why are some of you guys so paranoid that if you have sex you're going to get an accusation thrown against you instantly? I always get downvoted for saying things like this. Originally MGTOW was just about being noncommittal.
/r/MGTOW07/02/18 12:14 AM
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But wouldn't you rather hear it from the horse's mouth instead of circle-jerking about it here? We can talk about women's worst behaviors here, but seeing it in the flesh with a woman who spills all is valuable. If she wasn't being honest with him about her situation then I would understand your point, but he's not just her orbiter, because orbiters wouldn't be able to handle the red pills and she would sugar coat things.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 01:56 AM
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But this is more like keeping the rattlesnake in a tank and this tank would represent OP's emotional detachment.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 01:47 AM
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It's only cuck status if he's got oneitis for her and I don't think anyone would have oneitis for her knowing what OP knows about her.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 01:42 AM
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Who gives a fuck what you are if you are getting valuable information from her? It's an even exchange if he's her tampon and he is bombarded with red pills.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 01:38 AM
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And why would I, as a less than absolutely ideal man, not get a group together, and kill the man, share the women with all my men, and thereby become the most evolutionary fit man by reproducing the most due to my ability to gather a group to fight for me? Then the genes that allowed me to acquire such a position would be passed down to my offspring, and we would CONKA! Does this conform to hypergamy? If not, then evolution does not necessarily favor the most physically attractive, which I imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:39 AM
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Reproductive freedom is important to evolution but one doesn't have to do what evolution says. It's an indifferent "do what thou wilt" process. By not following "evolution" you change its direction making one have no choice but to follow the process no matter what they do. Do you think all the women having sex with the best man and the rest of the guys supporting the chadspawn is the most ethical arrangement? What other scenario besides sex would "bodily autonomy and freedom" apply to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:51 AM
2

So cuck porn is like a cuckception sort of thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:47 AM
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Why is sexual freedom a value you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:23 AM
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To me, in terms of sex, fucking other guys yesterday or fucking other guys last year, is still the same. She's used goods and it doesn't really matter either way since it's just sex. If she was a virgin, that would be a plus for a relationship. She can't gain any points from time since last sexing if she's not a virgin. It's just a 1 virgin or 0 non-virgin thing. Doesn't mean she can't earn points in other areas though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:25 AM
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Sharing something you don't own is not an issue for men. Monogamous men own their women for the sake of this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:15 AM
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men have no place policing female sexuality/standards But if all men came to an agreement on this we could. :) rubs hands together
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:12 AM
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I'm a guy and this has happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:05 AM
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This seems ideal. Do you ever want children?
/r/MGTOW04/02/18 04:59 AM
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Is it a tax or do we just print money and follow its unchanging value as a religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:51 AM
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What made you discontent with the pussy you were getting? Was it constant work or did it eventually become part of who you were? I'd think if you actually became what you claim to have become that you wouldn't have fucks to give about any of this shit you're talking about. Identity doesn't matter. It just matters that you're alive and healthy. Get 10 hours of sleep, get your diet in check, exercise, get pussy if you want it. You won't be fooled by these words and concepts you're thinking exist i…
/r/MGTOW04/02/18 04:39 AM
1

Where does dis basic income come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 03:05 AM
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It's not my discomfort. I don't want guys cutting their dick off on a hunch or girls removing their reproductive organs on a hunch. I'm not being selfish. I have concern for the mental health of these people and think that first one should try to integrate into and come to terms with the gender they were given at birth by their genitals, before permanently rendering themselves infertile if they have any aspirations for having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 01:06 AM
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How do they know that they actually are a boy if it should be self evident that they are a girl because they have tits and no dick? Because they have to get hormone injections to be a better girl, which implies they are a boy and assuming they know they had their dick cut off, they know they used to be a boy. it's similar for transgender people because as brain scans show their brain resembles the brain of the opposite sex. I don't think you believe this but I once saw a meme that said: "Which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 10:49 PM
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I don't relate with identifying as a man or a woman. It's just been something self-evident to me. It's not something that needs to be asserted. I don't have boobs, and I have a dick. I am a human and I have these parts that make me male. You get raised as a girl, get hormones all the time... That's actually a boy, not a girl if they need to actively give you hormones to be a girl. Someone with no sex change at birth, who feels they should be another gender, should just accept their gender unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:50 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:52 PM
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Until they are able to properly do a gender transition to where the person is fertile as the opposite sex, I can't support the transitioning of a person. Feelings and desires aren't enough for me to think that it would be ethical to change a person like that and have them be infertile on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:49 PM
1

What are the symptoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:21 PM
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Please give an answer some time because I've been really trying to understand the nuance of those terms. The dictionary definitions seem really vague. I feel like I'm all those things but maybe I'm really not? It's confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:58 AM
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I understand these things as internal states, but how would one display these things or how would a woman perceive you as being these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:26 AM
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I'm 20 in college now. masculine qualities Are you saying I should have bullied her beta orbiters and laughed about them with her and just punched some weakling in the face to show my strength while banging my chest like an ape or are you saying I should have been an emotionless rock and some how still have had romantic feelings? Joking aside, what are these qualities you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:41 AM
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Then they would win by me ignoring them and I don't want that... I want to win by having casual sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:15 AM
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No. That's the thing that lead me to TRP, which lead me to believe in the universal sluttery of all women for Chad, which lead me to decide LTRs are bad. We knew each other for 2 years before I asked her to be my girlfriend and I was infatuated with her. All I wanted was to find a girl to marry. I wasn't going to date anyone else. She didn't have that same plan and I was probably a shitty boyfriend because I was too beta but idk. I wrote her poems and shit. Is that bad? Does that make me a bad p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:13 AM
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Why do men think that women care that much about how attractive a man is when deciding to sleep with them? ye... wait wat? wat else is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 04:27 AM
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For casual tings hot chicks are high quality tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 04:24 AM
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I found dis quality woman. We had a sexless 2 week relationship in high school where we kissed once. She ghosted me. Searched for answers. Found TRP and related stuff. Figured out women want to be ravished by Chads and not coaxed by Betas and so was disgusted and convinced away from LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 04:16 AM
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It's hard for me to believe that if one doesn't have interest in you, that some other one will and not just be settling on you because they can't do any better. That's probably why I don't take defeat very well, because I feel like the assessment of one woman may as well be the assessment of all of them because I have this idea that all of their attraction mechanisms work the same, being women, even if they aren't all the same person. So the ideal would be to figure out how to be attractive to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:06 AM
2

Do you mean *not when the feeling IS mutual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:21 AM
4

But a guy displaying intense erotic desire is usually creepy isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:07 AM
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He's not saying schizophrenia is not real, but he's saying that the hallucinations they experience aren't real. He's saying that thinking you're another gender is similar to schizophrenic people hallucinating an alternate reality. I agree. Where does this gender exist in the body? Is identity really an objective concept? Is it not just a construct of the mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:02 AM
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men who treat getting a woman's attraction like playing some video game where, if he can only figure out how to do things the right way, he'll succeed in getting her attraction. What is the alternative? Also, if I kms can I respawn as Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 12:47 AM
2

Men Getting Their Own Welfare.
/r/MGTOW02/02/18 11:09 PM
1

Nice.
/r/MGTOW02/02/18 11:07 PM
1

But if I have a wemen on my benis, I am not thinking: yes all these fat bitches r not gtting my dick but this cool chick person is. I would wish for the ascension of all to the realm of megachad and megastacie and I would mourn my fallen brothers and sisters who could not find the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 04:47 AM
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Spite isn't the right word. Basically, knowing my genes are in the next generation(still considering whether or not to do this because life seems pretty repetitive and I'm not sure if there's a meaning or purpose to all this) and or having lots of sex with beautiful women, would make me not care about what women are doing in the same way that you don't care what others do. Right now I am focused on the dealings of Chad and women and how betas are deceived, but if one or both of my conditions are…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 01:36 AM
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Dats why you will not be receiving my moniez or love. I thought I would be able to acquire a beautiful princess woman who I could love and cherish but no... she wans to be ravished by Chad. :( I will pass on my genes and make sure my bepis is pleased for the rest of my days by beautiful women to spite you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 01:15 AM
1

But locking down a high quality man is something you only have to do once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 12:57 AM
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Male imperative: Find multiple beautiful womenz and have sex with dem. Female imperative: Find ONE of many high quality men to commit to u. It is harder to sex with multiple beautiful women then to find ONE man who wants to be with u forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 12:51 AM
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If all men were getting their bepis satistified on a casual sex assembly line, there would be world peace. People still get mad at things so clearly there isn't enough sex going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 12:41 AM
1

most men are getting casual sex when they want tfw no casual sex with a qt whenever I want. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 12:35 AM
1

Has this always been a thing or is it a more recent trend? If it has always been the case, where does the idea that the number close actually means something come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 06:29 PM
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My point is that being a wife is not being a slave, but if you want to compare being a wife to being a slave, then being an employee is being a slave as well. Maybe women couldn't leave their terrible husbands back then, but what about now? What are rights still being fought for in the United States? There's freedom but it's also a privilege to have an abundance of suitors in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 06:22 PM
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But sex is rewarding in itself while commitment isn't always. I agree that in a practical sense, it's more alpha to actually father offspring. You aren't a slave to pussy if you're having sex. Before sex, the only power pussy has over you is implied sex, which may influence you to do things like take a girl you don't like on a date, or be romantic. When you are actually having sex consistently, the power of pussy is relinquished.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 06:08 PM
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So I feel like I've dealt with approach anxiety and I get a number pretty much every time I approach and request one. However, I usually don't get any responses when I try to contact that number. What do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 04:42 AM
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True, but having your own business has no technical qualifications. You aren't going to discriminate against yourself for being a woman if you start your own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 04:16 AM
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Is there a lot of theories on the topic of subversion? Is there a true way to live that is being subverted or is it just culture that was created being destroyed? What is the natural state of being that subversives would not want one to acknowledge if there is any?
/r/MGTOW01/02/18 04:12 AM
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You're competing to be a slave to a boss instead of a slave to a man. You'd have much more power over a husband than you would a boss. I obsess about sex because I don't have it on tap like women and Chad. There is no "freedom" to choose who you want to be with. Who you want to be with has to choose you as well. Some people have no "freedom" in this regard like the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 02:50 AM
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What are feminists fighting for today besides sexual freedom? That's why they want to get higher pay because they don't have to depend on less attractive men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 02:24 AM
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I've seen this guy in a lot of places. What exactly makes him credible on this topic?
/r/MGTOW01/02/18 02:11 AM
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Are you sure you wouldn't pay for it if you were so messed up you couldn't have sex any other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:57 AM
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Anybody who is able to get casual sex on tap is an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:50 AM
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How about males who are able to have a lot of casual sex and men who are not able to have a lot of casual sex? Do men who aren't able to have casual sex exist who can still get into relationships for sex? Why can this not be described as an alpha/beta thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:49 AM
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But he's obviously not referring to N-count by prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:47 AM
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But if I was superior why does Chad get more pussy then me? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:30 AM
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he is a bitch I think physical strength trumps mental strength here and if he has a good body he is going to be strong. Chad would probably think sex on tap is what it is. He's not trying to brag. It's just a reality he has bitches on his dick 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:16 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:11 AM
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Bald Chad would still be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:08 AM
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Incels have been doing it for centuries. It works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 12:56 AM
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What right do women still not have?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 12:55 AM
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The goal is basically to make it a right of all women to bang it up with Chad without social consequence right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 12:52 AM
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There isn't a limited amount of money though. Just because some people have money doesn't mean you can't get rich.
/r/MGTOW31/01/18 07:14 PM
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Don't date or have sex. Then you don't have to worry about dating men who have been falsely accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:58 PM
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How is Chad blue pilled in this scenario may I ask?
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 06:42 PM
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I've tried this mindset of "not depending on people". It works fine for my friendships. How does the process of getting sex work without you being an active component in the process of getting to it? The way I'm picturing embracing this attitude would mean me becoming a monk sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:28 PM
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Because there is no immediately apparent external difference between a reformed slut and a "good girl" who just wants relationships. TRP would rather pursue casual sex than be fooled by an ex-slut. This is part of AWALT. Even the most Christian wholesome-looking women by day could be getting cockstuffed by night. TRP also tries to give you a better idea of the landscape on which casual sex happens so that those who do want to get married can have a more efficient slut-radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:17 PM
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I had sex and none of this happened.
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 01:07 PM
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Having sex is blue pilled?
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 11:19 PM
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How did you get to Chad level and did you do it consciously?
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 09:46 PM
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I'm wondering why you think this is not related to MGTOW. I have reasons for wanting to go MGTOW based on theory from the red pill. Do you focus more on the divorce rape and legal issues rather than the Chad and beta inequities?
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 09:44 PM
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C O P E O P E
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 09:38 PM
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Manipulation happens through interpretation. Everything one reads here they have three choices: accept it as true, reject it as false, or ignore it. One is forced to make that choice whenever they read something or listen to someone speak. That forced choice is subtle manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 09:50 PM
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Does everyone pay in money though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 09:53 PM
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In order to "share" you have to "own" something. So what if the boyfriend had feelings? Those are gone when she cheats The boyfriend's feelings stay the same if he lacks knowledge that he has been cheated on. That is cuck-zone. "I don't want to have my feeling hurt so I want to share women with others" sounds pathetic as fuck. Assuming monogamy is the end goal, it's only pathetic if your true desire is to have one of those women be exclusive to you and you still let her sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 07:01 AM
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took your money Do you really think Chad pays for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 04:34 AM
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Cucking requires investment. It was originally a term for a man who raises another man's offspring. If you get into a relationship and she cheats on you, that's getting cucked because you had mushy gushy love feelings for her as your girlfriend and some guy just rammed her without those feelings. If you're the guy fucking the cheating girl, and she fucks someone else, you're just one of the bulls she's fucking. The cuck will always be the one at home providing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 04:30 AM
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I'm not saying women are nothing but sex toys, but men have no issue with using women as sex toys if they want to be in that role. Men feel very validated being the sex toy of a woman. It's why the Chad archetype exists. I've been forthcoming with women before about sex but it has only ever worked for girls much lower in attractiveness than I. Women cheat, and I do believe no strings attached sex arrangements exist outside of cheating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 01:23 AM
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Men in that situation: Lol she is using my benis. all is right in dis world. :)))) I don't think there are that many men who feel "sexually used". Sex is a reward in itself and not something that she has to act as his mother for him to enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 01:13 AM
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