As an eating disorder survivor, I do not like eating with strange people, especially strange men. This is something, I find myself struggling with...also when they offer their coffee dates, how do you respond?
After my car was stolen, I used to react scared when I saw a car similar to mine being drove off from the same parking lot or same direction where I parked my car. This guy knew my car had being stolen recently and in our first date, I saw a car similar to mine and was scared. And he laughed at me. He taught it was funny. On the other hand, he did all "gentleman behaviors" expected from him. He paid for our dinner, was on time, etc. Blah. Blah.