Reptar44 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Long and long-overdue: Escaping Her		Reptar44	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/20 02:10 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Refinancing/ Mortgage Sell the house and split the equity. Way cheaper than pursuing legal consequences. You'll be free of that debt on your credit and she'll have a little stash to start something new for herself. She can rent or rely on her bf to buy/rent. As amicable as you are, it shouldn't continue to be your responsibility with no end date.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/20 03:25 PM
1	Long and long-overdue: Escaping Her That's what I'm doing, man! For the first time ever. Still got some work to do to get my relationship with my older boys back, but it feels so good to know that path and all others are in my own hands now. Thanks for the kind reply. I've said it above, but it feels good to get some positive feedback.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/20 08:38 PM
1	Long and long-overdue: Escaping Her Just keep plugging away. One day at a time. Unfortunately for the other party, I think once you get it in your head that you want out, it's already past the "let's fix it stage" and there's really no turning back. Thank you for the kind words. I hope we'll eventually look back at this as a time of huge positive change.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/20 01:17 AM
1	Long and long-overdue: Escaping Her Your first sentence is exactly how i feel. So much shame for cheating, but I feel like her retaliation is something I wouldn't do to my greatest enemy. None of her reaction was for the best of the kids as she says, but purely revenge.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/20 12:27 AM
2	Long and long-overdue: Escaping Her This is a great reply. So many helpful, encouraging thoughts. I am looking forward to being a a reliable, mature, responsible outlet of warmth and stability for my kids. I am so glad I will not teach them anymore to subdue themselves for an abuser's wishes and threats.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/20 12:25 AM
2	Long and long-overdue: Escaping Her So glad to hear that the relationship with your kids has gotten better again. I can only hope that they older boys understand it better once they can step back a little. What are the things that she tries to nickel and dime you for all these years later?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/20 12:22 AM
1	Long and long-overdue: Escaping Her Thanks for the comments. Sincerely. Reading your responses, I realize I've had virtually no outlet for all this frustration, especially not anyone who's lived it. It's great to feel an ounce of validation. There is some great advice here and I really appreciate it.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/20 02:17 AM