ReptilianApe Archive

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1	Having a hard time maintaining a long eye contact. Afraid of being the creepy one in the crowd. How do you improve your eye contact skills? My best advice is practice. One thing I do is if I'm walking around somewhere public and I come across someone, I lock eyes with them and try to keep it as long as possible. It's just a few seconds longer if you're walking past. Also, ordering food or meeting strangers. If you break contact first, try and look up or to the side. Smile/greeting helps break some of the intensity if the other person might feel intimidated. If you look across the room and lock eyes, make a funny face or something ha…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 07:41 PM
3	I see so many girls in college and I just can’t approach them. Any inner gane stuff that will help I guess the best piece of advice is that if you lack confidence, that's fine. You just need to be brave for a moment.	/r/seduction	15/10/22 01:00 AM
1	what's the nicet/kindest way to tell a girl you're not interested? (without actually saying it) The nicest thing you can do is be direct and say that you don't think this is what you're looking for, and then move on from there. You're gonna hurt her feelings, but it's best that way. Rather her hurt for a couple days than her hurt for weeks cause you dragged it out.	/r/seduction	30/09/22 08:29 PM
2	How do you get over women that reject you? Someone once told me that someone who exits your life is giving you a gift. And honestly, at the time, it seemed ludicrous. But in hindsight he was absolutely correct.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 12:21 AM
1	Might be going out alone for the first time ..any tips? After my wife and I separated, I started going to bars to read. I've met a lot of great people that way. Even if I don't have a conversation that night, it got me into a new hobby that I enjoy. Just some ideas.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 11:25 PM
3	Does day game/cold approaching work well because women aren't approached at all anymore outside of bars and apps? I concur with u/revente. You're handsome af. You don't need to worry about surgeries (unless you absolutely need them, then please get them).	/r/seduction	13/09/22 03:40 AM
1	Any recommended books to destroy neediness? Codependent No More	/r/seduction	12/09/22 08:20 PM
1	How to not be serious You're a big guy	/r/seduction	10/09/22 02:46 AM
1	Better way to ask on a date? There's a few different strategies you can take, but I recommend doing what's natural to you. I personally like two different ones. I either like to do a "series of yes answers" OR "I'm doing X soon, I'd enjoy your company." I've found that some girls that are a bit more mature that just want to cut to the chase. So I'll just ask them straight up, "Hey I wanna take you out on a date." And then we just talk logistics like two adults trying to solve an issue, which is pleasantly nice.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 07:20 PM
6	Better way to ask on a date? I learned this a little too late. I like hiking and would ask girls on dates and wondered why no one would bite, and then I did the math 💀.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 07:17 PM
2	How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested? Bro, I just read this thread. You need to relax. I understand your frustration, but this is a lesson you can take to your dating life.	/r/seduction	06/09/22 04:43 PM
3	LPT: Most of society is completely against your seduction goals. Unfortunately there are people who don't want you to succeed or only see what they want to see. I've had friends whose values were different in some aspects to mine	/r/seduction	04/09/22 11:15 PM
2	LPT: Most of society is completely against your seduction goals. From personal experience, this can happen where you might lose a few friends. Only you can know if the grind is worth it for your own sake. Stay lit my friends	/r/seduction	04/09/22 11:12 PM
1	Approaching girls in college, what contact info do I get? I usually ask for number. I feel like it's more personal and moves the interaction to something a bit more legit. If it's through dating apps, I also offer my Snapchat. That helps with a little more vetting for both parties before meeting in person.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 01:29 AM
2	What do I do? All love and good vibes here ❤️	/r/seduction	26/08/22 06:02 PM
1	how do you tease someone about their line of work? I think it depends on the job. If they're in a creative field, I'd be VERY careful how you word the tease. As someone who's a musician, attacking someone's art is like attacking them as a person, so tread VERY lightly if you do this. I have a thick skin, but working with others in different projects, you have to be very diplomatic with criticisms, and even then certain people do NOT take that criticism well...	/r/seduction	26/08/22 02:59 AM
4	What do I do? Fuck yeah. You're literally bringing tears to my eyes, bro. I love that motivational shit. Inspiring shit, man. I want to fucking hug the fuck out of you right now. That's some gangster shit. We're all gonna make it.	/r/seduction	26/08/22 02:09 AM
5	What do I do? Own that shit. Just assume they're into you and just frame your interactions around that.	/r/seduction	26/08/22 12:21 AM
2	What do I do? I'm literally lol'ing. I love this.	/r/seduction	26/08/22 12:19 AM
2	How to stay away from logical conversation? Tap into your emotions. Don't be afraid to say what's on your mind. Don't be afraid to make stupid jokes. I know we all talk about how to be an "ideal male", but don't forget there's a child inside of all of us. Bring that guy out on occasion. Don't be afraid to be a goon. She'll know you're somewhat intelligent already. You don't have to prove that. Time to prove you're somewhat emotional.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 08:09 PM
2	Managed to ask a girl out for the first time today. Hey you dropped this, King 👑	/r/seduction	20/08/22 07:29 PM
2	7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me? Just keep going. A rejection is a minor bump. Never stop. Always find ways to improve. We're all gonna make it bro	/r/seduction	16/08/22 02:54 AM