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You look great!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:43 AM
8

Men will always find something to hate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 06:49 PM
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“Fat and broke” can be fixed. Once you fixed the fat it will improve the ugly. Once you fix the broke it will override the short. And after the short, ugly, fat and broke are overruled, the depression will lessen significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:13 PM
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I don’t think that applies when there is zero attraction. I think that maters more when someone may not be your ideal type, but other factors make up for it, factors such as personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:50 PM
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I’m confused by this question, if there is no physical attraction why would I allow someone to waste their time and mine trying to build stones upon a soiled foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:38 PM
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That’s a huge problem. Sometimes we are nice because it’s civil to speak to others in a kind way with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:23 PM
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I often think of this as would you rather starve or be force-fed Both kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:23 AM
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Frankly this is why I don’t have male friends anymore. My female friends, even the lesbian ones know how to just be a friend without angling for more. They don’t mind being emotionally supportive with one another, helping each other, and having fun. But co-ed friends are just way too complicated and frankly it’s never on my end. The only way I think it could work was if the guy wasn’t attracted to me at all. I used to have guy friends in high school then I went through an ugly duckling metamorph…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:33 PM
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But in your case you were dating the person. I was referring to people I just try to be friendly towards and they try to progress things into a relationship or something physical. If the person was perfectly content with being just a friend, it wouldn’t be called “the friend zone”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:59 PM
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For women, this can be mean some friendly banter while also acknowledging that they are not flirting sexually. This is the problem, we try. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I have ever done this, it has lead to hurt feelings because the guy ALWAYS tries to escalate the situation towards dating. Then I become the bitch that “friend zoned” them when all I ever did was be nice. I’m a very empathetic person so I have in the past been guilted into feeling like I owe these people something or I’m wrong for not wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 03:32 PM
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But men and women have different intrinsic desires so yeah, a ons may be desirable to a man. For a woman who can only keep a guy for as a ons will feel used and unvalued. It’s still the same feeling of loneliness inadequacy. Sex is not equally valuable to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 03:14 PM
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I don’t think a lack of education makes you a freeloader. My last boyfriend did have a high school diploma. He started a business at 15 and left school to make money, I had a degree but he was still carried most of the financial weight in our relationship. He was rich and I wasn’t. There are many successful people who don’t attend university. Many of the most notable billionaires don’t have college degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:58 PM
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Because the average man in our society is not a hard core follower of TRP so what the average person does is more reflective of social trends in determining what constitutes as high value, not some niche group on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:51 PM
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Okay so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:48 PM
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And a multitude of women date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:48 PM
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We need to operate based on the reality in which we exist in, not a fictional reality of what was or what you think should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:45 PM
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21 yr old woman*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:02 PM
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Also those “ritualistic customs” he referenced were done to acquire beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:58 PM
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I just hate how this “evo psych” is used selectively when it suits their argument. We can understand the role of evolution when it explains men’s actions, but when those same principles explain women’s actions, suddenly everyone is confused. Suddenly everyone has the ability to contextualize based on our current society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:55 PM
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Do you at least filter age? I feel like that’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:17 AM
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I know who you are referring to. I think he has mental health problems... he didn’t seem to understand basic concepts and runs around different subreddits asked the same question repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:16 AM
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I don’t think that’s true though. Many RP men preach against financially supporting women, cohabitation, marriage, hell even paying for dates. The thing is, most traditionally minded women wouldn’t consider a man who didn’t do those things. Say for example I wanted to be a housewife and raise children full time, I wouldn’t feel comfortable doing that with a man who felt burdened by the financial responsibility for caring for their family or felt that it’s an unreasonable request. So if a man doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:01 PM
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I just don’t see it, everything seems to be pointing in the opposite direction. Neither men nor women seem to want that, hell this entire sub is based on debates between different ideologies who disagree about most things, but for the most part all seem to not be in support of traditional relationships. You have men here that won’t pay for so much as a single date. You really think we as a society will be headed back to a traditional structure any time soon? Not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:43 AM
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So what’s the goal then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:40 AM
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Not sure how what you’re saying is an indication of feminism failing? I’m not seeing the connection you’re making or how this dismantles my initial statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:30 AM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:16 AM
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It’s all an attempt to gain control
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:28 AM
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I don’t know why but I find that to be extremely funny haha. I’ve never seen that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:55 AM
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Read closely, in the context of OPs post I’m saying that all people should have the right to have preferences without feeling the need to justify them. Not sure what your argument is here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:22 AM
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Maybe but I think that has to do with the fact that women’s preferences are usually based on biological factors like height, body type, face structure and when it’s something subjective like income, they typically feel the need to try to justify it. Whereas men’s (in the context of these conversations) are almost always about more subjective things like n-count or not liking women someone in their own age group which just sounds like being an asshole on the surface. So the want to try to rationa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:25 PM
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Wow. Can’t believe that works. I’d never share stories of a past lover, it’s kinda disrespectful in my view. I wouldn’t want to hear that stuff either but that’s just me...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:23 PM
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I think this applies to all people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:15 PM
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Flakey strategy. First it requires them to be comfortable around you to be drunk in your presence. Then they need to be so incoherently drunk that they can’t keep their story straight. I’ve been drinking a few years and have never been so drunk to where I can’t control the things I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:06 PM
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Okay, I just assumed since you said allowance/arrangement which is sugaring terminology. Yeah, everyone is different. what appeals to one person won’t appeal to the next. I just know what works for me. I’m not afraid of receiving help from a partner, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:56 PM
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Well I’m not referring to sugar dating in this context, I was talking about regular dating but since it seems as though that’s what you’re referring to, I find that to be rather liberating as well. In the past 2 months of being in a sugar relationship I’ve made about 30k I’ve taken that and invested it into different projects and avenues so that it can grow. There’s nothing wrong with seeking help in my view. Especially when you can turn that assistance into becoming self sustained. In my commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:34 PM
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Admittedly, I don’t really know the difference between those groups. There’s too many damn pills to keep up with. At a certain point it doesn’t matter, if you truly go your own way, there’s no reason to continue to obsess over how women live their lives on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:22 PM
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Works for me, I don’t think my life was very fulfilling before so all in all a pretty lateral move. That said, I don’t think I sacrifice my freedom for anything. Being trapped in a domestic violence marriage with a broke man as a teenager — that was sacrificing freedom. I’ve grown past that point. Now I fully enjoy my youth and freedom, as well as all the perks associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:18 PM
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Okay, but my question is the same. If women supposedly lie, why even ask and place so much value on a “fabricated” number?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:13 PM
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So if everyone supposedly lies, why tf do y’all place so much importance on trying to ask people? It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:47 PM
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Yes I learn about success, I literally just started a buisness, and am about to own a home at 23. Wanting my own success as well doesn’t mean that I don’t want a man who is also successful. I travel the world, and enjoy activities like yachting, horseback riding, and luxury shopping on a regular basis. All things I wouldn’t be able to afford to do otherwise. Money has just opens up a higher quality of life and I appreciate a man who can offer me luxuries I’m not yet able to enjoy independently. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:09 PM
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Then you severely underestimate the power of pussy. Money only means more power if you allow that to be the case. I’ve never felt disenfranchised by dating a man with money. In fact I learn so much about how successful people become successful. Within this context, slavey is a choice (in my Kanye West voice) If someone chooses to view an income discrepancy as as them being less than, it speaks more about that persons confidence and ability to hold their own in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:52 PM
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Well I am 23 but I would often get mistaken for a teenager (like 17) so when I got a really good job, I wanted to be taken seriously so I looked up “how to dress mature/classy” and stumbled across Anna Bey. I followed her fashion advice and started getting non stop positive attention from people. People stopping me in the street to ask if I’m a model, men complementing my outfit. It was like I didn’t have to try. There’s something that makes you feel a lot more confident when you’re well dressed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:44 PM
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Takes me less than a month to date a millionaire, can’t make a million in a month — not quite yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:35 PM
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How is that slavery? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:32 PM
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Not really. Our culture is definitely moving towards a 50/50 dynamic and there is not much room for traditional relationships anymore. If you’re a woman like me and want to have a traditional dynamic you are shamed by feminists by being “regressive” and hurting the movement and also by RP men because you are hypergamous and “greedy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:28 PM
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The term used is actually “average joe”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:23 PM
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I support and subscribe to this ideology and it has been 100% the best decision I’ve made in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:22 PM
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Happens to most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:18 AM
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Oh I see what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 03:43 AM
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I appreciate that, but my point was just to express that it’s easy to say, “why don’t people just take responsibility or have more agency,” but a lot of people really just don’t know better. Social environments do impact what we view as acceptable behavior. I think when it comes to social dynamics, we learn from the things we see around us way more than what we learn in a classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:22 AM
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Any given episode of 90 day fiancé will confirm this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:29 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:22 PM
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I was groomed into an abusive relationship at 15, it’s not about agency. It’s about inexperience and naivety
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:21 PM
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5’4? Lol there’s a new requirement added every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 12:06 AM
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Generally speaking, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:01 PM
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I see people here all the time saying, disparaging women over their weight and ethnicity saying they are undesirable. But when it’s convenient to your argument, suddenly everybody is loved and appreciated equally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:34 PM
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Really? So there is no group consensus among men about what constitutes as conventionally attractive when it comes to women now? These agreements are constantly shifting like wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:43 PM
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Especially when it’s mainly one side of the spectrum having a fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:49 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:47 PM
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Link one?? Lol you literally acknowledged this very was one, that’s what’s what started this conversation. I can’t stand when people have the inability to realize a difference of opinion isint a reason to come for someone. Boo hoo Lol okay...? It’s kinda weird to me that you’re coming at me with such a passive aggressiveness and childishness for no reason. It’s really not that deep. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:32 PM
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Not agreeing with you doesn’t inherently mean I did not read. That’s a very low effort argument. This entire “purge week” has been a lot of whining, bitching and complaining about things people supposedly don’t care about. IN MY OPINION. It’s a decently constructive debate forum most of the time, but certainly not this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:11 PM
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I’ve literally never posted a thread in this sub but go off sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:07 PM
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Could have fooled me. I’ve seen vast amounts of men on here claiming to “go their own way” yet still feel the need announce it to the world — writing entire manifestos about women they supposedly don’t like or care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:02 PM
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Is that not the theme of this entire sub Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:54 PM
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Yes, I’m seething with anger. So so angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:30 PM
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I’ll admit it’s quite the luxury to have enough free time to have to go back and forth with mentality ill men on an Internet forum. Not sure if it makes you crazier to write and entire incel thread about a woman you’ll never get or if I am for responding and subsequently engaging in a back and forth with a nut case. Either way, we’re all in this asylum together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:57 PM
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Thanks so much! I try my best!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:43 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:42 PM
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Yeah, no not really lol. My looks make me thousands of dollars a month so I’m good thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:39 PM
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Why would I care about the fact that I don’t appeal to one random man on the internet when I appeal to a plethora of others. Yeah the fact that you prefer short and thick is good for you, but were I not tall and slim I likely wouldn’t get to model which is way more appealing to me than being some internet nerds cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:37 PM
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I’m really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:25 PM
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If by “go your own way” you mean dedicate 90% of your energy to women by obsessing over how they live their life and posting about them constantly on the internet...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:20 PM
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If you aren’t like this than it’s over for you as a woman in my eyes. Thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:16 PM
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If these conversations aren’t relevant to your life, why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:25 PM
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Shaming looks are more when you take walks in smaller city. I’m from LA so maybe that’s why I don’t see it, but my age gap isn’t as wide as you and your SBs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:09 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:47 AM
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Clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:46 AM
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I just don’t think most “pills” agree with sugar dating. It’s not really trp because of the financial element, but it’s also not FDS for literally every other reason. We’re black sheep here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:43 AM
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For the most part, I haven’t experienced any shaming from any women irl. Online I’m in subs where everyone is in the sugar bowl... I don’t get hate until I peek my head out into subs like this, but even then I’m usually attacked most often (as exhibited earlier in this comment thread) I guess I’ll have to cry about it on my SDs yacht 🛥😥
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:29 AM
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I don’t know about intimidated, but it feels like when you’re at work and the boss walks into the room and everyone stops goofing off. Basically trying to make it look like they’re always on their A-game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:43 AM
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Wow, I guess I was waiting for you to actually make a point. Should have known better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:11 AM
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stoned in the street female castration women punished for being raped child marriages virgins raped to cure HIV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:39 AM
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I’m really glad that you have a system that works for you! I definitely think it sucks that people think genetics is an excuse when sometimes it’s really a valid reason as to why some people struggle with weight more than others. I’m not talking about like my 600lb life tier obesity where they say it’s genetics, but like regular people who happen to have fluctuations in their weight despite actually trying hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:28 AM
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Yeah, which is sad because had they had a different set of circumstances they wouldn’t be in that position. I think it actually is very commendable when young adults set forth on a weight loss journey and are successful. Especially when they were larger growing up. Kinda like Josh Peck. I also feel guilty because as much as we love to say “it’s not genetic” I know that I ate poorly as a child too yet never weighed more than 120 as an adult woman. Even when I’d go out with guys and the would talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:13 AM
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Here’s a cookie 🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:49 AM
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By this logic why is anyone? Rarely is it the case that an average sized adult will suddenly gain copious amounts of weight out of nowhere short of some tragic psychological event. In most cases it is a parenting issue. Children are taught eating habits young and those are hard to break. When a child like honey boo boo grows up into an adult, she will likely get blamed for her size even though her parents did nothing to prevent severe childhood obesity. If she turns 20 and decides she would rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:48 AM
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Good because you don’t have that choice anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:35 AM
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I literally shaved some points off my IQ by reading the entirety of this. So... thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:45 AM
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In the same way guys on here will say “all you need to be is tall and have a strong jawline to get women” Over there those guys are likely thinking “all you need to be is white or western to get women”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:17 AM
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No, but being a white man does make you a chad in many eastern countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:10 AM
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Right, but that was also a club where it’s socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:52 AM
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Yes, women get approached frequently, but like you said it’s mostly by very low quality men we wouldn’t consider. Their is no tier lower than a man who will honk his car horn at you or follow your car for blocks to try to talk to you at a red light.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:50 AM
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How do I feel this? Based on my friends from high school and college. Only one of my HS buddy actually had a girlfriend before 18. But that’s my point, a lot of teenagers aren’t actually having sex. Yes some kids are having sex, I just think incels believe they are the only guys missing out when in reality there are a lithe number of teens and young adults that are still virgins. I can’t predict where any of these guys will be at 25, but based off the photo that all look muck younger than 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:34 AM
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You realize eastern women are attracted to you because you are foreign and it’s assumed you have money and can provide opportunities for them because of your western citizenship right? That’s hypergamy, the only difference is that you just so happen to be the “chad” in that region. You have what it takes to play ball in that particular arena but you don’t here. I’m sure the local men hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:04 AM
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Because that would mean fucking other men. Women are a severe minority of SW patrons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:59 PM
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Also the whole “women have it easy” is ALWAYS viewed through a western lens. I have traveled all over and can tell you that is not true. There are places where women still get stoned in the street, where they are castrated like animals, where women are penalized for being raped, where there is a higher statistic likelihood of a woman getting raped than getting a job, where girls are married off at 10, and where virgins are raped in an attempt to cure HIV. So to say women have shit so easy really…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:56 PM
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I’m not saying dating isn’t hard now, or that there aren’t some people who are truly incels and I’m not even going to attempt to dissect the claims regarding the women who are available to you. I’m just saying that based on that particular photo, it’s a little ridiculous for those guys to claim the title of incel at such a young age. Incel usually implies that you somehow fall drastically behind the norm of society in relation to sexual experiences, when in their case that’s not true. In my high…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:39 PM
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Most of the wealthiest and successful people didn’t get to the top by being nice. They were cut throat and likely screwed over multiple people. Our society rewards this behavior all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:52 PM
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Where did I attempt to sugar coat anything? That’s literally what a sugar daddy/sugar baby dynamic is called. Mutually beneficial. Look it up. Yeah, I’ll date a man much older than me if he can financially provide for me. He knows I’m there because he has money and I know he is with me because of my youth and how I look. No one is being scammed or taken advantage of. If anything our relationship is 100x more transparent that 80% of traditional relationships. He knows if he looses a fortune tomor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:48 PM
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I’m a woman but ok lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:38 PM
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Because why would she pay rent when they clearly have a “mutually beneficial” relationship. I’m in one as well, and it’s generally understood that they younger attractive person is dating the wealthier older man in exchange for experiences and financial assistance. So to have a 18-20 woman paying you rent while you’re receiving substantial benefits from her being there is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:33 PM
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This is a ridiculous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:29 PM
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Depending on how substantial your additional support is, you seem like a Sugar Daddy. In which case, you might be posting in the wrong forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:26 PM
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Awful people are generally the most successful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:21 PM
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I can’t take them seriously at all. They are literally frustrated teens. My goodness, you would think they are going through hell the way they type, maybe they are, but it’s just one segment of a very long life. I’m a woman and didn’t have sex til I was an adult. Not all young teenagers are hooking up all the time, lots of people wait til college age or later. They aren’t being left behind. They just need to be patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:20 PM
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Do you pay her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:04 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:04 PM
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I’m pretty sure Mother Nature is responsible for hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 12:55 AM
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Some combinations are attractive (Asian women, black men for example ) But an AW and a BM having a child together is not really going to be different than a AM and a BW. It’s literally the same genetic mixture and there is no way to determine the gender of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:06 PM
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For the record, people aren’t dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:35 PM
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Why are you mixing in gender as if the gender has any effect on racial makeup. Very odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:34 PM
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Judging my the fact that I’m 5’7 and 120lb I’m going to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:54 PM
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So the entirety of the sub — over a hundred thousand women are all overweight? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:02 PM
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I’m small and have been told this by men as well, I just assumed they were pandering or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 02:51 PM
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23(f) would never date a man with a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:18 PM
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Every time I see a child on TikTok dancing to WAP I die a little inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:39 AM
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I'd usually agree, but it's not really a good look to be asking women out while they are at work. When you are at work you can't really walk away and sometimes you feel compelled to be "nice." I've always hated being approached by men while working for that reason. He might just not want to be inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:38 PM
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Typical Aries man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:07 PM
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