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| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onCareful brother, sounds like you’ve had a bit too much to think. You’re pointing out the implicit tension between equality and equity?? This sort of wrongthink can land you a shadowban or even ip ban. Stay out of sight of the kommissar if you intend to keep this sort of heresy up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 11:48 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onAncestors would use force, compulsion, indoctrination and reason to impose order on this system but that’s all gone now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 11:00 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onMust have been pretty based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 10:38 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onSolid flair/comment synergy bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 09:01 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onIts ok god gave me decent IQ and no major health issues and some other blessings, i can shop around for a female with aspergers or some other condition that makes her oblivious to gender roles or just escortmaxx Jesus is king, if he be for me why should I worry even if every vagina is turned against me. Yea, though i walk through the valley of celibacy I shall fear no evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:38 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onOhhh just have all positive traits and dont have negative ones… why did no one tell me this earlier bro? https://media.tenor.com/b33trNTjXjsAAAAM/lil-yachty-drake.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:31 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onAcknowledged, ill add that to the list of potential life strategies from here. Appreciate the input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:05 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onThe problem is people have collectively decided people’s dating preferences are inarguable, ie there is no “fairness” in sexual attraction, therefore the typical tools for effectuating social change are useless. There have been thousands of posts over the years where its like “you cant force women to like men they find unattractive”. Which is true and thats the whole point. No way to alter the behaviors, no way to solve the problem, no way to change, no way to escape the will of gynocentric divi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 07:57 PM |
| – | There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move onYou can’t unilaterally disarm, that’s the problem. I have a naturally meek, accommodating, peace loving, go with the flow type personality. I love to operate in a place of being curious or supportive of others rather than judging them, leading them, bossing them around. I like to just kinda harmoniously drift through life without too many burdens or responsibilities because it gives me the freedom to think about, and produce art all the time which is my real passion. Turns out this leads to a mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 07:17 PM |
| – | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.“Thinks” implies it didnt happen, when it in fact did. My dick is measurably bigger than it used to be. Honestly bro, its fine. I would have been skeptical too before i saw results. You dont have to agree with my reddit post or whatever. Its all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:33 PM |
| – | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.Measuring tape is “squishy” ok i wonder why people use it then, guess humanity is collectively retarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 03:50 PM |
| – | One’s overall desirability among the gender(s) which they are attracted to (especially among their preferred prospective partners) heavily influences one’s standards in sex, dating, and relationshipsyeah it's all good brobro, arguing online is gay anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:37 AM |
| – | One’s overall desirability among the gender(s) which they are attracted to (especially among their preferred prospective partners) heavily influences one’s standards in sex, dating, and relationshipsToo bad my default state tends to attract extraverted, impulsive damaged women, for whatever reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:36 AM |
| – | One’s overall desirability among the gender(s) which they are attracted to (especially among their preferred prospective partners) heavily influences one’s standards in sex, dating, and relationshipssince it’s likely that their own standards rule out those prospective partners Your post has an unfounded assumption that one's own standards are immutable, they are not. People tend to lower their standards with age and as they come to understand how their laundry list of "requiReEmeNts" for a partner were not as important as empathy, shared values, and integrity. I know a lot of people on reddit get butthurt when you imply that women (or men) hit the wall at some point and have to lower their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:11 AM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentLol, enjoy while it lasts before companies implement a nagging feature. “Baaaabe when are you gonna upgrade me to premium? You said you’d do it last week. You know i cant get in mood unless i feel monetarily connected to you. Why are you letting 299.99/month come between us?? All the other sister bots in my pod say their owners got them premium when it came out. Do you just not rate my service as 5 star anymore? You’re thinking of ditching me for that slut Google Catgirlbot aren’t you?” Time is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.My measuring tape hasn't changed shape over time, but I'm showing .9" greater circumference after 2 years so I don't think i'm suffering from naivete. Thanks though bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 04:15 PM |
| – | Having kids and pets is the main cause of relationships between men and women not lasting"If a breeze hits my relationship it won't last" - then it wasn't REALLY a good relationship. Just limerance and convenience. Every single one of your ancestors managed to reproduce, while shit like the bubonic plague was going on, mongol horde was invading, church was burning heretics, bad harvest would lead to immediate famine .. etc etc. Most of them managed to have stable marriages too. With that in mind, you can manage to breed even though corporations are greedy. You got this bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:31 AM |
| 1 | The main reason same-aged relationships tend to be more successful than age gap relationships is that men, in the long-run, gain more power in same-aged relationships but lose power in AGRsEvery single couple I know in their 50s, where the man is at least somewhat attractive, the man is a cheater. On the other hand, women who have affairs are usually married to older men or very weak men. You seem to personally know and run with a large number of cheaters. Cheating is disgustingly common, but most statistics put it around 20% for married couples or around that range. If EVERY couple you know in their 50s where the dude is more attractive than the chick, he is cheating, and the maj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Succesfull Dating is a different Definition/goal for Men and Woman and we dont know how Bad its is now for womanTheoretically both sides could be winning I suppose, if women are more promiscuous then more men can be winners, but that also allows women to sort through more men and find a quality match. I don't find it very "winning" to run through the same hoe circuit the last dude to start his self improvement, baddie, villain arc a few months earlier than me just finished running through, but I guess that isn't encapsulated in your argument OP. For me personally I define success the same way the women in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:13 AM |
| 2 | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.buy a cheap chinese pump and do a 2 month commitment to 4 days a week, 5 sets, 5-10 minutes at -10hg before bed guarantee you will gain permanent girth brother. don't leave newbie gainz on the table. after you gain .1-.2" and it's undeniable you'll be just as locked into this as the gym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:05 AM |
| – | Losing a monoculture makes dating harder, sure, but it also makes it more rewardingdude if anything, monoculture is getting worse not better. For instance - Political heterodoxy used to be normal, people would have actual interesting debates, libertarian and fringe wings of both parties were larger, just look at the tea party or occupy wall street... but now everyone recites the talking points of their media sources verbatim and all have the same exact talking points and orthodox, mainstream (for their side anyway) beliefs. the internet in the 90s had so many different subcult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:41 AM |
| 0 | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.yeah, i won't go too far into it here but suffice to say i have direct firsthand physical evidence that significant enlargement is achievable, although it takes years of effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:32 AM |
| 1 | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.go to https://np.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger for a glimpse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:17 AM |
| – | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isSure. Makes sense. An extension of the overall savagery that's taking place across all aspects of society. Take work, for instance. At one point the company was seen as a quasi family, it would take care of you, give you a pension, value your seniority and past contributions instead of what-have-you-delivered-lately, why shouldn't we just offshore you this year etc. That's all gone now. Now everyone just assumes everyone else is in it for money/advancement and that's it. The instant it's profita… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:04 AM |
| – | Forget the pills. The views expressed here represent a specific internet culture and don't reflect real life."Real life" is just an amalgam of subcultures, imo, a fixation on any one culture being the "real" one is evidence of an inflexible and arrogant mind rather than a well-read, agile and curious mind. Usually people who make arguments like "b-bb--b-b-but you're abnormal, my social group is the REAL and DOMINANT and therefore NORMAL group and has more social authority than yours!!!!" are hopeless squares clinging to a false, unearned sense of superiority. Just my 2c. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 05:57 AM |
| 1 | The refusal to date people is more born out of a cycle of normalized false beliefs, and in nothing ‘innate’ to what one is attracted toIt may not be prejudice, it may be that humans with a disgust response to homosexual behavior had an effect on their tribe, such that there were less tribe members present that don't contribute offspring, leading to the tribe's increased relative success as compared with its competitors.. over aeons of evolution this would lead to a kind of "natural homophobia" written onto our very dna.. basically, the same natural selection forces that led to homosexuality being less prevalent than heterosexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 05:52 AM |
| 7 | There is a hostile environment towards men trying to learn how to flirt, dating skills, attraction skills, etc.Yeah that's why i love lifting and BJJ and even dickmaxxing, everyone in those communities has been incredibly supportive and uplifting and interested in helping each other become better. I think the reason dating doesn't work the same is because no one wants to be someone else's practice in that context. When dating, you're looking to click with someone fun, not have to do the work of having to help someone else be better. Even I as a male get incredibly exhausted and irritated just thinking ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Women collectively bring up extremely silly arguments to prove that they "have it harder" than men (Spoiler: They do not)Perhaps odd question for you OP, but would it even matter if you were correct? If all women acknowledged you are correct and it's harder to be a man than a woman, how long would the satisfaction of having your experience validated last before you lapse back into... whatever emotional torpor existed prior to that affirmation? I have had women whose opinion I respect openly acknowledge that men have it harder (hint: ask an attractive woman, they are too self confident, happy and un-threatened by a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 03:29 AM |
| – | Modern dating has so many different goals that discussing it always has people talking past each other[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:15 PM |
| – | Modern dating has so many different goals that discussing it always has people talking past each otherEverything other than monogamy is degeneracy and not worthy of comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you understand female dating perspective?I don't, I don't pretend like it's possible to fully understand some other demographic's experience of life, i don't have tons of estrogen flowing through my system, dont have pms mood swings, dont have all the things that make a woman uniquely her. And similarly, women dont understand how central sexual success is to the male lizard brain, don't understand how testosterone makes you more oriented towards sex/competition and less oriented towards robust social networks/domesticity/etc and think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:02 PM |
| – | Concealing frustration and bitterness with dating does not require exceptional social skillsI see one obnoxious claim frequently repeated, "oh the evil abusive men must have things that make them attractive, like being fun/intersting during the good times" - often that isn't true. Often the guy is just an all around piece of shit, not "fun", except in the sense that the woman he ends up with is trying to recreate her childhood abusive environment or neglect her dad made her experience and the shitty, abusive, violent guy slots neatly into that dynamic. He's only "fun" because the woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Womensplaining is alive and wellMen will "mansplain" when they assume they have superior competence than women specifically because he is a man. Women do the same thing in the emotional/relational sphere, there is this unfounded but persistent assumption that women are just better at those things than men and the majority of women assume that and talk accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:44 PM |
| – | You told men to not approach you, so we listened.It's interesting when there is a ton of disagreement with your point but all of it is contradictory. Counter argument 1: men still approach, nothing changed Counter argument 2: women are happy that it changed such that men aren't approaching Both can't be true. So at least some of the people disagreeing with you are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:40 PM |
| – | Do people involved in frequent casual hookups just not care about getting STDs?I think we're lying if we don't admit the group of people impulsively fucking each other a lot is, in fact, impulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Men often don’t really know what they’re attracted toEverything you're describing is just being a decent human being towards another human being you at least pretend to care about. I do all those things for my woman automatically, as well as family members, kids, close friends etc. They should go without saying. Well other than "don't show you're smarter" which is fucking stupid. Maybe some men can't handle that but not the majority. I think maybe there's a disconnect where a woman think she's just "showing she's smarter" but is actually being con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Politics absolutely do matter with who you’re dating. Not so much the content of it, but rather, alignment between yourself and your partner(s)Hmm I guess I'm blessed, it's pretty common in the asian community to not give a shit about politics other than "whose palm do I need to grease to get a successful business running". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:17 PM |
| – | Signs of interestI usually just invite her to an event that I plan on going to, festival or party or whatever, most single women knowing that you are a single man inviting her to an event can put 2 and 2 together. Gives her the plausible deniability if she wants to be like "oh im busy" instead of "oh i dont like you" if you had directly asked her out.. lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:09 PM |
| – | Signs of interestLol fuck, I had this happen with a cute new girl at work. We had one of those "instantly click and start talking as though you've been friends for 20 years" experiences and she was giving me the eyes. I probably should've gotten her number but I don't like to date where I work... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The courting process never ends for men.I don't think that the courting process should ever end, personally. It's part of what makes relationships enjoyable. What bothers me is that - life stuff starts to creep in. The woman wants kids. The woman wants a house with a mortgage. The woman wants active busy friend circle and social circle. The woman wants... etc etc. Providing and maintaining all those things costs time. The woman who wants lots of things in life should not also then expect her man, who she is putting pressure on to prov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:02 PM |
| – | What is your Definition of "Pushing Boundaries"It's honestly hard to decide upon, let alone maintain healthy boundaries in relationships when it comes to smaller issues. I'm like "don't nag or try to fix or change me, I don't like that" but is that realistic, given female nature? Almost no man I ever talked to has ever been like "my wife never nags me". Nagging is considered to just happen whether you want it to or not, part of female nature etc. How many things in life are like that? Where you can tell your partner not to do it but maybe th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:47 PM |
| – | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.I usually disagree with any "men bad" type posts but I agree with this one. Men need to be up front about what we want from women, set standards for relationships and we need to stop having the "any woman will do as long as she's willing to sleep with me" approach. For me, I'm fine paying everything for a woman but I won't compromise on respect, monogamy, and reasonably frequent sex. Also, I don't want any type of control freak woman that wants to fix/change me, views me as a project or tries to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:38 PM |
| – | “There are more good men than good women” and “a good man is just an average woman” - what is the metric for good in these statementsAttraction, vibe, chemistry are all ineffable, vague, non formulaiac, vary from woman to woman, and usually vary even within the course of one woman's life - what turns her on at 20 is not the same as what turns her on at 30, 40, etc. But maxxing out on gym, status, money and even character is predictable, systematic and deterministic so it's obvious that men would direct the majority of their effort and attention there since it's a common attraction factor across a wider swatch of the female po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Egalitarian relationships are inherently skewed in favour of womenThere are no egalitarian relationships in nature. The male kills another male, and any other nearby competitors and lays claim to a womb, or several. You literally cannot be "equal" you have to prove yourself superior in some way in order to mate. The egalitarian relationship is an aberration born of modernity. In prehistoric conditions all the average and subpar men get killed off in cycles of endemic violence leaving only a population of superior men to breed. What isn't natural will always fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | The women who are the loudest about not dating a “man child” are the definition of “woman child.”Hmm, I wonder how this dynamic keeps occurring. Presumably the man manages his life well enough to not die when he is single, yet he spontaneously becomes a man child when a woman enters the relationship... why? Because he just stops doing all the things he was doing previously? Even though men love inertia and lack of changing his own behavior? Something doesn't add up with the whole manchild narrative. I think women take over for men because she "can do it better" in her mind or it isn't done … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:06 PM |
| 2 | The women who are the loudest about not dating a “man child” are the definition of “woman child.”So if a man pays majority of bills and woman does the majority of those things is it fair? Or has to be 50/50 on the responsibilities even if man provides 100% of the income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:03 PM |
| 2 | The women who are the loudest about not dating a “man child” are the definition of “woman child.”depends on if she's grateful for that or not, but i guess that's hoping for too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | It's better to be the mistress than the wifeMen already came to this conclusion and decided it's better to shoot for being the alpha that woman cheats with than the beta stable boring provider that she cheats on I think this is why many gen z dudes kinda dropped out of society to focus on being influencers or whatever. Better a shot at genuine success than no chance whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:01 PM |
| 1 | No One Is Winning the Gender Warsnot impossible, artificial wombs + sex bots = men could wipe out women theoretically, it could also go in the other direction usually war ends when enough of the other side is wiped out and effective resistance ceases. don't need a formal concession for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:59 PM |
| 2 | “OF detected, opinion rejected” and why this pov is both incorrect and toxicMany OF women have a parasocial relationship with the audience, essentially leading men on to believe they have more of a genuine connection with the woman than is really the case. And yes, these men are complete dupes, idiots, simps and have it coming so I feel no real pity for them, but cultivating these sorts of parasocial relationships is highly important and lucrative specifically in the case of OF streamers, because of the preponderence of whales, and their willingness to give ludicrous su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like when men have healthy boundariesAny time you have a boundary, and someone happens to not like it, it ceases to be a boundary and they rename it to something else. Like entitlement. Or delusion. Or passive aggression. Or being a control freak. Etc etc. Any time THEY have a boundary, it's always just a boundary even if their "boundary" is I want you to make 200k/year like my friend's husband because i feel insecure suddenly, even though I never asked for that before. I think the "boundaries" discussion is just dressed up will to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:39 PM |
| – | If you as a Women have delusional Requirements for a Dating Partner, and you can achieve them, its not your Fault, its the systems Fault. Those Women cant be criticized. The Market decides. Those Women do nothing wrong.dont judge the 70 Bodycount Girl that cheats on her Doctor Husband Why? First of all, cheating is bad. Second of all, even if the "market decides", markets rely on objective information so rational actors can make informed decisions. Where that ability is compromised (as in the case of cheating), it's no longer a market. So as a proponent of markets, you should be in favor of women being open about their N count and not lying in order to cheat. You can't be like "men should make better decisions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Men here misinterpret "personality matter" and overlook social skills.I have witnessed men with awful personalities - abusive, cheating, arrogant, rude, etc - be extremely successful with women. Yet the most common dating advice given on the internet is "be more moral, treat women like people, ditch your misogynistic assumption that you're entitled to pussy" etc. Your post does nothing to resolve this contradiction, it glosses over it by saying "oh goodness on its own is not enough." You are wrong there. Goodness is not merely not enough, it's irrelevant, and that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)God I fucking wish I could get pregnant so women would have to jump through hoops for my affections and the whole socio-emotional psychological complexity of relationships would be their problem to solve Sigh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | My solution for men, the white gold pill. I call it that cuz it sounds flashier than just white pill, and cuz for some reason I have the white gold concordat on my mind.This isn't remotely a white pill, it's pure black pill content. Looxmaxx, moneymaxx, distrust humanity, avoid marriage, bang prostitutes... there is nothing new here except I guess the part where you said don't complain about women? Which doesn't even mesh that well with your other points. It's better to bitch online and vent if you can't talk to people IRL and are constantly in STFU mode. Not seeing anything groundbreaking here really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:21 PM |
| 3 | The Preeminence of Place in Pursuing a PartnerIt gives an advantage, sure. Actually one of my life goals is to become independently wealthy and not be tied to a job so I can relocate as needed to minimize the amount of pain and suffering that attempting to date women is going to inevitably exact from me. People are people everywhere, and yet there are some cities and states where good jobs are much easier to find, the same should logically apply to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:10 PM |
| 2 | What's the most annoying debate tactic you see from the opposite gender on this sub?I think assumption of bad faith, combined with leaping to a pre-set conclusion or narrative is the most annoying to me. Redditor 1 - I think it sucks when women become mysteriously unhappy at an objectively kind good hearted beta male husband and elopes with her personal trainer to pursue a kind of "eat pray love" inspired journey of personal sexual discovery and fuck up the lives of their kids Redditor 2 - aha, so you want women to be ENSLAVED and exist in a state of permanent low level unhappi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:06 PM |
| – | Structural issues are a major driver of young men’s dating problemsWho defines whether it's a social "issue" or not? Who decided that? Maybe survival of the fittest and extreme turbo hierarchy where 0.001% of men monopolize access to all resources including women is better than egalitarian eloi-like sameness/mediocrity. Do I personally believe that it's better? No. But i don't think my personal preference is relevant. Some societies are able to out-compete other ones. Some species are able to outcompete others. It seems that nature and game theory make the deci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:56 PM |
| – | Reminder on what the blue pill is, since some of y'all have misconceptionsNah, the people who created TRP defined it as existing in opposition to the "blue pill" of the time - the social consensus on women and dating. During those days, there was no concept of someone self-identifying as blue pill. Whether you were blue pilled or not entirely dependended on whether the TRPers who invented the concept perceived you to be as such. You are correct in saying TBP (the subreddit, community and people that identify with it) are not homogenous, but you are incorrect if you me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men.Nah I would prefer a calm, steady, intellectual woman who isn't a party girl, doesn't live based on ever fluctuating emotional whims but has consistent character, integrity, and values. It is simply difficult to find such women because she is good at maintaining a relationship so less likely to be single. I don't think a woman like this remains on the dating apps for very long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:42 PM |
| 1 | People aren’t afraid of commitment in 2026, they’re afraid of bad commitmentI agree that there is now more awareness of how badly a bad relationship can fuck you up. However, I do wonder if that's a self fulfilling prophecy. Perhaps society places so much emphasis on relationships that a bad one feels like a searing, awful failure instead of a normal part of life that you can just shake off. I also wonder what extent worrying or trying to protect yourself from the problem is even possible. I don't think "turtling" and avoiding relationships helps you build the skill nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:30 PM |
| 1 | People aren’t afraid of commitment in 2026, they’re afraid of bad commitmentHmm I side with your view more. I am extremely distrusting of all things including myself and that colors how I view dating, because my ex-wife was just such an objectively horrible decision on my part which I kept doubling down on. So i have concrete evidence that my ability to remain objective and end bad relationships is weak. I think the only way out is to train or get experience somehow to both practice, and demonstrate to myself that weeding out bad women is possible for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:25 PM |
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