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No I’d never
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:40 AM
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Loyal, honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:35 AM
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Probably 7 hours on fitness. And like maybe an hour on makeup and nails and hair I rarely do my makeup unless it’s a special occasion, I don’t really do my nails much, and I usually let my hair air dry cause it’s naturally curly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:55 PM
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Haha yes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:52 PM
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Thank you ❤️ we later broke up for completely unrelated reasons but she was not the best person in general haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:51 PM
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Peter Parker, Clark Kent, Dick Grayson, and Matthew Murdock
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:32 AM
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Research the company so if they ask you if you have any questions you can ask one that shows how much you know about the company. It helps show them you genuinely want to work there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:53 AM
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That is true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:32 AM
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Nope, never, I’m not a super sexual person so it doesn’t bother me if there’s a lack of sex, with all my partners in the past we’ve had pretty good sex lives, but I did have one person who literally couldn’t touch me without making me laugh because I’m really ticklish lol for like 6 months 😂 I just thought it was funny and eventually we worked through it together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:14 AM
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No because I think that emotional connections and love are worth it, you can always improve on sex, work on it together and be honest with your partner if something isn’t working. Bad sex isn’t a reason to leave someone in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:11 AM
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I just can’t imagine possibly caring enough about sex to say something like that to my friend anyway, if the emotional connection is there the sex can be improved on, but again that’s just me and me personally, obviously this girl disagreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:08 AM
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Maybe it’s just me then I welcome talk about ex’s so the same mistakes in those relationships don’t get repeated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:04 AM
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The way she phrased it was definitely not good and she definitely should’ve discussed it with him if it was an issue and not her friend in that manner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:03 AM
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I just think different people are good at different things, if you’re bad at sex that can be improved on, if you’re a good fit emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:02 AM
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I’d tell them because I believe in total honesty, but I wouldn’t phrase it in a negative way just maybe say there’s things we could work on together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:01 AM
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I should’ve said most women in my opinion then, I will go reword it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:44 PM
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The post wasn’t asking for facts it was asking for women’s opinions on the situation, so I gave my personal opinion, never claimed it was a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:39 PM
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My experiences not only with my self but from the vast majority of my friends, my mom, my classmates, nearly every woman I’ve met. Perhaps not this specific one though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:35 PM
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Ah okay, see i think the issue here is that I’m autistic and I don’t read into things I just take them at face value, so I wasn’t reading into any signs I was simply seeing her only complaint being his penis size. If there are underlying signs you are probably correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:34 PM
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Ah okay, then he did everything he could to fix it and was right to leave if that didn’t work either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:32 PM
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I was just speaking to my own experiences, I’m around that age, and I’m less interested in sex because I prefer emotional attachments. I’d be willing to overlook bad sex if I loved someone enough, so that’s how I interpreted this. However I could be wrong and she could just be settling for him, which if that’s the case him leaving her would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:30 PM
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Ah you’re right, I didn’t read that part of it. Or I didn’t connect that it was the same ex in my head. Yeah he should leave her then lol, she probably is settling for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:29 PM
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I would argue that nearly every situation is salvageable if both parties want to try, and if possibly a family therapist could help moderate the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:24 PM
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You’re allowed to vent about your partner to other people without not loving them, people have disagreements and things they don’t like about their partners, it doesn’t mean your not emotionally attached. I’d say she is probably not emotionally attached to her ex, only sexually attached, otherwise she would’ve chosen the ex over this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:22 PM
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I mean, yeah but there are still ways to make her forget that and like sex with you more if you try different things out I’m sure. She should have gone about it a different way and discussed it with him or ask him to try new things though, not just blabbed to her friend about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:16 PM
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I have no dick and I’ve still made bisexual girls say it feels better than men with huge dicks, it takes technique and practice not getting bigger 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:14 PM
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So I’m gay, and I’ve had bisexual girls I’ve dated tell me I could never compare to a man during sex because obviously I don’t have a dick, did it hurt? Yes, but I took it as a challenge to find other ways to make things feel better for them, I get it you can’t grow a dick or increase ones size lol, but there are other ways you can make it feel better than her ex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:13 PM
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No but size isn’t everything there are other things you can do and techniques you could use to make it feel better than just being bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:12 PM
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I was about to say that I’d take it as a challenge, like you think your ex is better let me prove you wrong baby lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:11 PM
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The gaslighting part was def not okay, I could understand them having an argument after that. But to give up on a relationship that was clearly very serious? Idk I would’ve tried couples therapy first
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:10 PM
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I can see how it could feel like that for men, like she’d always be thinking about her ex during sex, but from a woman’s perspective we genuinely usually don’t care that much how the sex is it’s more about the emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:03 PM
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I was trying to think objectively how I would react, if my partner told me I was not as good at sex as her ex was, I would simply get better, find different techniques
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:02 PM
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My thought process here is most women in my opinion and that I know personally actually don’t care that much about sex in general in comparison to emotional attachment, so clearly if she’s willing to overlook the sex and stay with him she’s very emotionally attached to him, why would he leave? She’s still willing to sleep with him, still wanting a committed relationship and likely a family with him. I don’t see how it matters that her ex was better at sex when she is actively choosing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:52 PM
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In personality maybe yeah but in lifestyle having someone so opposite you want to change them is not healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 06:04 PM
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Physical abuse, gaslighting, hitting, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:40 AM
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Also so sorry that happened to you, that’s rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:14 AM
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Honestly all the gender fighting is bullshit toxicity should be called out no matter which gender is being toxic, I hope more men stand up for themselves, because we should all be equal ( of course each gender/person is better at certain things but equal as in valued the same ) and part of being equal is BOTH being held accountable for their actions not just men. I’ve seen it where when a man cheats on his partner it’s fuck men. But when a woman cheats somehow it’s still fuck men? And a great ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:13 AM
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Yup. Every bit of toxicity is just as bad. Maybe men can physically hurt women easier due to body size ect, however women can hurt men just as easily in different ways, imagine having a child taken away from you just because you broke up with someone, it’s actually foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:57 AM
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I am a woman ahah. I think I have a unique perspective though because I am a lesbian, and I don’t date men, but because of this I have a lot of male friends, I guess it’s easier to befriend people you can’t possibly be with romantically or sexually 😂many of them straight, and I see the shit they go through and the aftermath of it, and it’s ridiculous. I can’t believe how heartless some women can be towards men in these situations, some of my best friends I’ve seen completely pretending to not lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:29 AM
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As someone who used to be fat and lost the weight, I disagree but it depends also on your interests. I love sports, and hiking, and the outdoors, and that sort of thing, and a lot of those things were more difficult when I was overweight. Now I can do those things much more easily. I can still eat foods like that on days where I have been exercising more so it didn’t really effect much of my life other than I am eating a bit healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:17 AM
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It’s sad, and they shouldn’t have to put up with it. I know women’s rights are important, but there are some serious issues with men’s rights as well that need to be looked at. This being one of them, another big one being how often courts rule in favour of the mother for child visitations after divorce, even when the father may be the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:06 AM
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This exactly is why people need to find someone who’s personality and looks and way of life are already compatible with theirs, not to try and change someone for a relationship, cause whether it’s the man or the woman trying to change eachother, it’s equally toxic. Of course there’s always an exception if they want to say stop doing drugs/smoking and you’re helping them. But the change has to be their idea, not something forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:42 AM
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That’s fine, but if you dated in adulthood and highschool and college and talk to 0 of your ex’s that’s a flag for me, if I asked the person I’m seeing why and they said they just slowly fell out of contact that would make sense to me and it would no longer be a flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:40 PM
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I asked because to me if you talk to none of your ex’s that’s a red flag for me personally, because what did you do that was so awful someone who once loved you won’t even be your friend. Different people have different red flags though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:35 PM
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Reworded it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:34 PM
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Personally I just like when my eye shadow matches my outfit it makes me feel more put together even if I’m not leaving the house, it shows some of my personality to have little drawings or whatever on my eye shadow that match my outfit themes, I don’t actually wear makeup everyday either I wear it maybe two times a month when I get the urge to do it for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:02 PM
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I agree with this, what went so wrong you have 0 contact
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:49 PM
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Thats fair, I still think if a man and a woman were once best friends, maybe for years, then started a relationship, and later decided they were better as friends and break up, and decide after not speaking for a bit to be friends again, that that would be okay too. But I also think it depends on the length of the original friendship vs the length of the relationship. Obviously I can’t compare myself to this since I am a lesbian. But I do have a straight friends who are friends who dated years a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:27 AM
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Sorry dude I’m a lesbian so no 😂 but I fully believe if you had a strong friendship even if I was straight and if it was with a man, you could go back to being friends after a breakup, if the friendship lasted longer than the relationship did, and if you take a break from contact to make sure there are no romantic feelings afterwards before restarting the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:45 AM
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Of course, no secrets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:40 AM
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No worries!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:48 AM
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Maybe I didn’t word my first message well, I have had a couple horribly abusive ex’s, however most of them were good people whom I am still friends with, definitely not friends with the abusive ones, they can stay out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:44 AM
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Plus I always take a break talking to them after a breakup to make sure all feelings are gone before restarting the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:32 AM
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Nah it’s because I was friends with them for 3-4 years before we dated for 8 months and decided we worked better as friends. I’m not willing to throw away a 4 year friendship because a relationship didn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:31 AM
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Some of them are part of my social circle, some of them are not. The ones I am friends with outside of my social circle were ones I was friends with for 3-4 years before dating, and then dated for about 8 months and mutually decided we’d be better as friends like we were before hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:30 AM
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Because we were friends before we were in a relationship, the relationship didn’t work out bc we didn’t mesh well romantically, the friendship was fine and it was a mutual breakup in most of my relationships, we just worked better as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:17 AM
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How is that a red flag 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:16 AM
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I agree, I have a couple horribly abusive ex’s but majority of my ex’s were not abusive at all and were good people whom I’m still friends with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:10 AM
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I mean I don’t think the decrease in birth rate would be too awful, we have a lot of people living on earth as it is, but I agree with most of your other points, society is crumbling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:08 AM
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That’s totally valid to want that, I meant more actual cleaning. For example if there’s one smudge on the counter but it has been wiped down I call that clean enough. Someone else may want me to sit there scrubbing till the smudge is gone but I don’t feel it’s needed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:36 PM
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What do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:30 PM
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I’m autistic and I have no issues with dating, idk it’s never been an issue for me because I’m just very open about my own needs and how it makes me different. Personally for me, could be different for other autistic people it effects me more internally, many people don’t even know I’m autistic until I tell them. My OCD and anxiety on the other hand both of which are treatable have made dating harder, but I’m also in treatment for them and these issues are significantly less bad now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:27 PM
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That’s a good point too, personally I hate cleaning, I can’t stand it and I always feel gross after, but I love cooking and organizing, I don’t currently have a relationship but I do have a roommate, my roommate does most of the cleaning but I do most of the organizing of stuff once it’s cleaned, putting it away, and such and I do most of the cooking. So it’s a give and take
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:08 PM
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And that’s totally valid! If you know you like things clean finding a partner who does as well or one willing to help you out is probably healthier for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:04 PM
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If someone wants it clean isn’t it their responsibility to make it happen? Why should someone be forced to clean if they don’t care for it? Of course compromises exist and that’s why I said only if person 2 is genuinely trying to clean when they feel it’s necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:01 PM
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I’m mostly friends with men so I can’t say I’ve ever done this. However I do think everyone has their positives, and some positives personality wise can outweigh the negatives appearance wise. I used to be overweight myself, and I have lost the weight now, but I was still a good person before I did. Weight loss can happen, but if someone is a bitch that usually can’t be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:38 PM
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I feel like if one person wants it cleaner then it’s their job to make it happen, as long as person 2 who doesn’t mind things a little messy isn’t making the place a total dump and is genuinely cleaning when they feel it necessary who cares idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:19 PM
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Yes however, the only downside to this would be being let into the medical room with your spouse if they got injured or sick, where I am only family legally is allowed in. That would be the downside to me, not the divorce stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:16 AM
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I think présent your best self first, the most attractive version of you wear nice things act chivalrous, but then once she’s interested then show her your true personality then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:59 AM
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I workout yes, but because I enjoy it. I do hip hop and boxing! Also swimming but not right now due to the virus closing my pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 12:08 AM
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My only issue with this is if you can’t be yourself you’re really not going to enjoy living and marriage with a woman as you’d have to wear a mask or play a role all the time. If you’re talking about hook ups or not committed relationships that’s different, but in serious relationships eventually you’ll have to show your true self or you’ll be exhausted living a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:57 PM
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I think that initially looks matter a lot, but they matter less and less throughout the extent of a committed relationship. One day you’re both old and ugly and looks can’t possibly matter then if you’re still committed to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:40 PM
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What if I agree with a little bit of both lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:30 PM
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Odd response but, supergirl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:03 PM
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Just be yourself and the right person will find you. Personally when I love someone’s personality that person becomes more physically attractive to me anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:44 PM
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