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| 3 | About dating younger womenFrom observation, I’ve seen a couple relationships with women 18-24 start dating guys 27-32 that seem relatively stable last time I knew any of them. My only thought was that none of them had successful relationships stemming from college, which is one thing I think is severely downplayed by Redpill and Blue pill people when it comes to some successful longterm marriages, even the ones that eventually fail after children but are still economically successful enough to raise the children (I know,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Gym maxing is a waste of time. Being mildly athletic looking is all you need, and by that I mean built like a tennis or soccer player. It’s a pretty low bar, and it only gets easier to stand out the older you get. For men, “gym maxing for dating” could be boiled down to “be less fat” and work with the hand you were dealt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 04:10 PM |
| -2 | Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals?It’s insulting to their ego. Just look at some of the responses in here. There’s even some reductionist arguments in here hung up on the fact that red pillers are hyper fixated on a couple evo psych ideas (like Rollo Tomassi), but that doesn’t have any bearing on the dozens (hundreds?) of studies on dating, sexuality, and relationships done by people that don’t have “Evolutionary Psychology” written on their degree that show predictable patterns of human behavior. May as well just let them self-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I think there’s an aspect of this that implies more patience than just imitating the strict monastic life. Although I’m a firm believer that a man truly happy that way is no lesser than any other, but he’s exceedingly rare because normative men want the nookie, comfort, and validation that a partner provides. They do exist though. I’ve noticed a particular temperament might be more conducive to this than anything else, a lot of old MGTOW/incel guys are now ex-MGTOW/incel guys (because of a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:56 AM |
| 2 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?The metaphor of the red pill and blue pill is a reference to the movie, the Matrix, in which Cypher is the character that embodies what you’re talking about - chewing on his steak and selling out his friends to live in a fantasy. The red pill, as a metaphor, is the acceptance of reality. The red pill, in current popular culture, is now a term associated with self help gurus and dating coaches. The red pill terminology entered the manosphere as an acceptance of reality when men noticed the negati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:50 AM |
| 1 | For men who prefer that women don’t wear makeup or say it’s not necessary - share a picture of a woman you find attractive not wearing makeup?Why would a man want to watch porn of a woman with a BBL or breast implants when you can find women naturally endowed, especially since OF has gotten popular? Men still want natural. And breast implants and BBL’s still look and feel like implants compared to what’s natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesI wouldn’t say this really fits the definition of Pick Me as I’ve seen it. For one, there are tons of Taylor Swift and Starbucks loving, tradwife pick me’s. For two, a Pick Me isn’t a slave to their partner. A pick me does this with men and people in general and isn’t really a suitable long term partner. Lauren Southern is a classic pick me, my first LTR in HS and college was with an alt girl pick me. It sounds like you’re describing Ryan Gosling’s AI girlfriend in Blade Runner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:54 AM |
| 17 | Pathological Entitlement in some MenI have very rarely encountered men, even in extremist spaces, where men consider “women” the oppressors. It’s almost always, even in PUA/dating guru spaces some combination of hypergamy, chad thunderc*** and beta bucks that are considered to be contributing to the problem - which is why a lot of these PUA types default to traditionalist arguments half the time. That’s not really the point of this post, but it’s a point I felt like addressing; as for the rest of it - yes, plenty of black pill/red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 10:15 AM |
| – | How long did you wait to be sexual with your current partner?I had the same experience on dating apps in college, we’d either get food and go to her place or I’d end up straight at her place that night on the first date. Average was definitely one of first 1-3 times we met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Are muscles over rated?I find that after 2020 everyone and their third uncle’s monkey either did or was exposed to something gym or exercise related, so now the collective signal to noise ratio (stupid shit people say about training online) is higher. Conversely, the amount of easy to find, great information about training is also much higher than 10 years ago, so it’s not all bad. I wonder if they would hate someone that spends two days a week working out in the garage for 60 minutes, but has everything else absolute… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 09:52 PM |
| 12 | The View has declared men useless on mainstream televisionOf course, how could I mix it up with that filthy old bag Barbara Walter’s show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 12:56 AM |
| – | The View has declared men useless on mainstream televisionThe view had Sharon Osbourne joking around about a man getting his penis cut off and tossed in a garbage disposal a long time ago, it’s routinely been a great example for how spiteful, immature, and toxic women can be for years. The only difference is that society turns a blind eye towards it. Meanwhile misogyny is rampant because men are upset about some Warhammer lore . . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry.I’m assuming it’s just just easier to be passive and go with the flow a lot of the time, like I said in my comment - I’m not sure if it’s really for better or worse, it’s just something I noticed. Although, honestly, I think it’s probably for the better in a corporate context if you have a white collar job and interact with women most of them time (I’m thinking specifically of a friend of mine who went into education). There are no downsides to being more communicative or passive in those workpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 10:06 AM |
| 9 | Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry.HuMan was a MGTOW content creator who got into an LTR and is now married. It was interesting to watch him seem more and more metrosexual in the past few years until he recently announced that has been married for some time. I don’t really have many thoughts about it, it’s just a weird thing I noticed. He used to make a lot of semi-edgy content and then moved onto to sipping on espresso and doing livestreams. I’m not trying to read too deeply into it but I have noticed some of my friends seem a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: What's your feelings towards women?Indifference, and I’ve been like that for years. A couple MGTOW guys have gotten falsely accused of misogyny when what we really have is pessimism for the human species. There’s a couple topics that make me feel mildly resentful towards women as a generalized group but I feel the same about the male subset of the species in certain ways so I wouldn’t say I’m biased either way. That said, it’s easier to talk about my experiences with women and dating and paint broad strokes in that direction as f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Women are more suitable as corporate slaves.I’ve met a few single women in their 30’s/40’s/50’s who seem to have been very happy “getting with the program” and just getting through undergraduate education -> desk jockey until death. It’s like the antithesis of Fight Club. With single or divorced men I’ve met, it’s not quite the same, there’s always a niche hobby or getting wasted on the weekends or something that accompanies “stereotypical white collar life”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 09:56 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?It just works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 13 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?Male disposability seems to be a feature of the human ape, not a defect or social malfunction, so I foresee things will continue exactly to be the same for men for the rest of eternity seeing as evolution works at a glacial pace. I have noticed a lot of male problems seem to be things that begin in teens or 20’s and sort of self-perpetuate for years. A bad divorce seems to be the only equivalent for otherwise normal men over 30. My point being, men don’t really get as much help or sympathy once … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 09:18 PM |
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