Res3t_ Archive

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18	Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU. Think about it this way. Right now the jump to speaking to a woman you find attractive to where you’re at now seems like A LOT. But making the jump from talking to random older people, folks in customer service, your neighbors—basically low risk targets? Seems manageable. Okay and so then you graduate from talking to people you have a natural excuse to, to people you have less of an excuse to. Like folks at the bus stop or in the line to movies. From strangers to semi strangers. Easy peasy right…	/r/seduction	24/08/25 12:10 AM
1	Can Someone Please Explain The Point Of Negging….. Problems with the OkCupid study include a small sample size, the fact it's fucking OkCupid, and that though most of the women who rated guys not attractive still liked them or wanted to connect anyways. The only other source I can find is some guy's own made-up shitty study where he talked to less than 30 women and published on Medium.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 03:46 PM
1	Can Someone Please Explain The Point Of Negging….. I’ve never seen solid proof for it.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 02:18 PM
1	Can Someone Please Explain The Point Of Negging….. The 80/20 “rule” comes from misunderstanding one (poor) study. I’ve never seen hard evidence for it.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 01:58 PM
16	Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestly Yep. Genuine kindness means doing things for the sake of doing them, and often being detached from outcome. That gives you the inner security to not take other people's shit, and treat yourself well as a function of self-compassion. Lots of "nice guys" struggle with self-loathing (I say as a recovering 'nice guy').	/r/seduction	04/08/25 11:35 PM
1	Being good at conversation sets you apart from 90% of guys — and it’s a skill you can actually train I'm sorry you've been through that. Listen, you didn't ask for advice. But I've thought similar thoughts. It's not a good place to be and I didn't wish it for myself, and I don't wish them for other dudes. So here's some thoughts. Feel free to read, or don't: I don't know your life and circumstances, but I can say that as someone who's not a conventionally attractive dude, I've still been able to find sexual and romantic partners. Pretty great woman too; not supermodels, but certainly considered…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 05:35 AM
2	Being good at conversation sets you apart from 90% of guys — and it’s a skill you can actually train Successfully applied skills and behaviours are outcomes of fundamental beliefs. Confidence is a byproduct, not an input. While "fake it till you make it" can help, if your fundamental beliefs include "I am too ugly to attract any woman" or "no amount of change will help me find a partner" or other deterministic, limiting beliefs, then no amount of advice or external improvement will overcome this belief short of luck. Confidence in oneself IS the greatest aphrodisiac, no matter how much bemoan a…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 03:27 AM
1	Being good at conversation sets you apart from 90% of guys — and it’s a skill you can actually train I'm sure coming day in day out online onto Reddit to go woe is me about it is helpful, and attractive.	/r/seduction	18/07/25 03:09 AM
4	If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do This What statistics are you using? The OKCupid study?	/r/seduction	22/04/25 02:53 AM
11	First night out doing cold approaches — it was way easier than I expected I'm almost 30 brother haha. Trust me, you didn't waste anytime.	/r/seduction	10/04/25 09:25 PM
28	First night out doing cold approaches — it was way easier than I expected Good on you my dude! In my experience I found that once I enjoyed the process and let go of being obsessed with outcome, while still having clear relationship or sexual goals in mind, I could just be present. It’s made approaches less anxiety inducing and more successful. It’s a weird thing, right, you’d assume caring more would lead to better results but I find non attachment does the trick—wish I could tell my younger self that. In my opinion when you reach the state of “I’m good with you and …	/r/seduction	10/04/25 06:15 PM
1	Today I saw game in real life brother i am bald, brown, and 5'6 and can still pull. the problem is you, and no one else. stop being resentful over other people who are improving or succeeding, and take responsibility for your own life. it'll be hard at first, but ultimately more empowering and healthy.	/r/seduction	06/04/25 07:56 PM
1	Why Physical Attraction Isn’t Your Biggest Concern Practice active listening with strangers.	/r/seduction	21/03/25 02:09 AM
6	I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness. Dating is in some ways harder when you're younger. On the one hand, you're close to other people your age single and horny. On the other, for your generation, looks and other trivial factors (look up "ick" videos) determine a lot. The bright side? In some ways it gets easier when you're older. By keeping up investing in yourself, you'll become more relaxed, playful, rest assured, and attractive to women looking for someone with things going on in your life. Go easy on yourself and don't give up.…	/r/seduction	15/03/25 01:40 AM
1	I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read Models I love Models because while it does have some technical stuff in here, it shifted me from the mechanical PUA stuff to inner work/focusing on security. Polarizing coming from a position of confidence and self acceptance didn’t seem intuitive to me until I read it, since in dominant culture there’s a trope of hiding who you are or playing games with people to make you like them or “just be nice” neither of which are healthy or true. I think Models paired with No More Mr Nice Guy is enough reading …	/r/seduction	01/02/25 04:30 AM
2	The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflicted With a winning attitude like that, how are you not drowning in pussy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 07:58 AM
1	If you want to end hookup culture, at what point does that get into uncharted patriarchy territory? FDS’ take on hook-up culture isn’t patriarchal, it’s the reasonable conclusion that hook-ups largely do not benefit women and they should abstain from them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 02:06 AM