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Well I made a follow-up some added extra details it's not rejection that bothers me it's the double standard about the creepy weird label, reminds me of a moment I went through years ago that I still haven't really completely gotten over and it just makes me more angry because it's a reminder that if the roles were reversed in that situation obviously people would go easy on the woman but not so much the guy
/r/seduction12/06/26 02:06 AM
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Well I actually did make a follow-up to this post, it's not rejection that bothers me it's the double standard about the weird creepy label in which men's social awkwardness or social ineptness is dismissed or perceived as weird or creepy by women but not the other way around and I wrote an example of a moment in which I did shoot my shot with a girl years ago and I ended up getting creepshamed for it. Yes obviously it's a reminder men and women do have different issues to deal with but it's jus…
/r/seduction12/06/26 02:05 AM
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Women don't approach guys in general and I'm sure it'll always be that way for all eternity let alone women asking a guy out
/r/seduction05/06/26 07:08 PM
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Yep only men have to be solution oriented I agree with the op and that has always bothered me but oh well I'm sure it'll always be that way whether we like it or not
/r/seduction29/05/26 03:01 PM
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Yeah my guess is and I think it's a solid guess is that guys were mentored or taught through their fathers or brothers or uncles or through their friends but my guess is that knowledge has not been passed on mentoring wise for a couple of decades now or more and my guess is that's what has caused the dating coach industry to explode and boom and will likely only continue to get bigger
/r/seduction26/05/26 06:44 AM
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But I wonder if guys in the past or just in Generations past did they have help or mentorship along the way in regards to the dating seduction game or just the whole women thing in general?
/r/seduction26/05/26 12:28 AM
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Yeah that makes perfect sense especially the bottom details you put, it's just a guess of mine but my guess is guys or men got mentored or taught this stuff through masculine role models in their family such as their father or brother or uncle but I assume that type of mentoring has become a rarity in modern times. Also not only that throughout most of human civilization arranged marriage was common in almost every country so in that Dynamic I figure people were just introduced to each other or …
/r/seduction25/05/26 10:18 PM
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Yeah I'm open to believing that more as time goes by it just truly seems like most guys in the world naturally figure out the whole dating seduction thing or they just figure out the whole system without ever having worked or having gotten help from a dating coach or a pickup artist before. I'm sure there are factors that contribute To guys growing up naturally Knowing and learning this stuff without ever having gotten help from a dating coach before. Reminds me that dating coach industry did no…
/r/seduction25/05/26 12:32 PM
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So overall they did have some type of help along the way they did not learn or figure out the game on their own right?
/r/seduction22/05/26 02:05 AM
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To sum it up do you think most men in the world had some type of help or some type of mentoring along the way?
/r/seduction21/05/26 01:59 PM
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really you think most guys in the world had some type of help or some type of mentoring along the way
/r/seduction21/05/26 01:58 PM
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Yep just comes with Nature's territory
/r/seduction19/05/26 05:50 AM
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Are you serious are you sure that the average typical guy is clueless with women?
/r/seduction18/05/26 10:58 PM
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I agree with him it's a reminder that it has long bothered me or annoyed me whenever people and Society say that women need to learn dating skills as well too it just doesn't make sense to me since women are not the ones that are trying to attract or get with a guy it's always the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:20 PM
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I know this is a new mindset I have developed over the years I didn't always think this way but it definitely changed my way of thinking and I wholeheartedly agree with it and that is by nature by default men live in scarcity with women men naturally are in scarcity with women by default because we don't have the luxury of being on the receiving end of sexual attention or having women hitting on us whether it's in person or blowing up our DMS or on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:53 PM
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Yeah that makes sense but from the way you put it there or the way you write that it sounds like the men did have some help along the way
/r/seduction17/05/26 06:51 AM
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I'm open to believe in that are you saying really you think that most men have average or mediocre dating lives and they just settle her go for the first woman that they have a chance with even if she is not their ideal woman?
/r/seduction17/05/26 06:49 AM
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You say you have girls approach you 99% of guys that does not happen to
/r/seduction13/05/26 10:10 PM
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Yeah but I wonder how a lot of guys get a head start which they do get results and they did not need to be mentored or taught
/r/seduction12/05/26 04:40 AM
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Are you saying that most guys who have done well with women are you saying that they had help or mentoring along the way in regards to how to know how to talk to them and seduce them and attract them correctly?
/r/seduction12/05/26 04:39 AM
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A lot of people don't know what social awareness means I assume it's related to being socially calibrated
/r/seduction10/05/26 08:04 PM
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I like to believe that and besides if they charge money that means making money is their first priority results come secondary
/r/seduction08/05/26 07:16 AM
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I'll congrats not many get it right on their first time
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:25 PM
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Yeah it's the game that men will always have to play or as many people say men don't have to play the game but they get to but many guys have the mindset of feeling like they have to because they know that there's no other way around if they want results
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:57 AM
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Just comes with Nature's territory
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:57 AM
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Natural selection at work
/r/seduction28/04/26 12:18 PM
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This video is the cold harsh truth and from an empathetic perspective it makes sense as to why Nature Made it out to be that it's more common for men than for women to struggle to attract a mate since people will say men are expendable because they can impregnate multiple women at once in a short amount of time while women that's not the case:https://youtu.be/5ytxp_WU5dM?si=5MXyyhmFPACN--QA
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:55 AM
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Yep men are obviously at higher risk or in better position to waste years of their life in regards to dating more than women are
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:53 AM
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There's no escaping this dynamic as a guy
/r/seduction27/04/26 03:48 PM
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Yeah I've seen some of your YouTube videos I remember you had a client similar to this and when I thought of that it just reminded me it just comes with Nature's territory sometimes I like to think that nature and reality operates like this and which women are the only gender that are owed or entitled to love and intimacy and affection from a mate but men are not
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:36 AM
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Yeah reminds me of an article of a guy from the UK and I regret reading that article at times and the follow-up response I got from another user was very dismissive and it made me very angry. Assume you were a virgin until the end of your 30s as well?
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:34 AM
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Yeah to each their own depends on the guy
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:33 AM
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Specifically how did you get attention from girls around that time but yeah cases like you feel me with both depression but resentment being the stronger feeling though because it's a reminder that men are not guaranteed love and sex intimacy naturally for simply just existing but only women are
/r/seduction23/04/26 12:34 AM
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I know it's not for everyone to eat their own but have there ever been times you considered losing your virginity to an escort or sex worker or prostitute or is paying for sex completely out of the question for you? Just asking because more guys out there do that than will ever admit
/r/seduction22/04/26 11:29 PM
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I'm going to assume you're a normal regular looking guy and it just feels me with anger and resentment because it's a reminder that a guy can be normal looking or regular looking or outside he looks like he should have no problem getting women but just because a guy looks like that he's not guaranteed results for just existing. Yeah it's not hard to figure out why there are brutal sad depressing cases like this and male dominated and hence that's why Hollywood made that Infamous movie with Steve…
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:46 PM
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Yep cases like that just come with Nature's territory
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:45 PM
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Yeah some things will always be the same that is men always having to be the ones to fire the first shot just a fabric of nature whether we like it or not
/r/seduction22/04/26 09:51 AM
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Reminds me of a statement that changed my perspective and I was moved by it
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:24 AM
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Yeah thank you for stating the obvious the world doesn't come to your rescue as a guy
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:37 AM
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Reminds me of a written statement I read somewhere which caused me to lose resentment and anger towards gender Dynamics and State of Affairs it just caused me to realize and think to myself wow it makes perfect sense as to why nature and reality is like that then. However what causes me to still have resentment at times is because we as humans still want love and sex and intimacy without the purpose of reproduction as well it's a desire that can't go away unfortunately
/r/seduction19/04/26 08:51 PM
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The world doesn't come to men's rescue in this department
/r/seduction19/04/26 11:45 AM
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Yep what else is new
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:38 AM
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Yep autistic men sure have a high rate of becoming Wizards or just 30 plus virgins just comes with Nature's territory and that's what I've noticed a lot over the years from forums or social media posts
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:31 PM
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I never liked it but it'll likely always be that way and that is a man's behavior matters more than a woman's Behavior does when it comes to attracting someone
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:21 PM
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Oh yeah no other way
/r/seduction08/04/26 04:05 PM
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Was she the one that approached you?
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:51 AM
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Well I am on the mild Spectrum though that is a fact but yeah women normally don't approach guys that's how it's always been and probably always will be
/r/seduction02/04/26 11:46 PM
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oh please women never approach guys
/r/seduction02/04/26 11:37 PM
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I don't blame him for feeling that way I've had some bad experiences like that and naturally it just truly feels like and I don't see how it's possible for women to get perceived or viewed as creepy or weird or making a guy uncomfortable accidentally or unknowingly or unintentionally. Are you seriously saying that it's possible for women to be perceived or viewed or labeled as weird or creepy or uncomfortable by guys men too?
/r/seduction01/04/26 10:49 PM
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In your perspective you are saying that if you had to be reborn again in a different life or in a different reality you would still choose to be a guy all over again and why is that the case though are you thinking you still think men have it better than women do at the end of the day when it comes to dating?
/r/seduction01/04/26 10:34 PM
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Yep that sounds very valid the internet and I would assume video games or other technology on electronics have contributed as well and naturally having poor social skills or just being poorly socially calibrated or poor situational awareness in social situations is naturally going to impact men's dating lives more than women's dating lives because of Nature and reality always dictating men having to do the pursuing and making the advances and more than likely men will forever be stuck with that …
/r/seduction01/04/26 10:11 PM
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Just a reminder of what comes with Nature's territory
/r/seduction01/04/26 01:55 AM
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It shouldn't be a surprise... women don't need to know or learn any particular skills or behaviors in order to have men want to date them or to get men to be attracted to them, just be attractive and available... But men have to demonstrate value right from the beginning in many ways - so we as men have to end up having to working on ourselves a lot more than women do just to get dates and be able to attract the other sex. So yeah, when people and Society say that women have to learn skills or l…
/r/seduction30/03/26 03:20 PM
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Something that nine times out of 10 never happens
/r/seduction27/03/26 11:45 PM
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Yeah what else is new
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:53 PM
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And you think that happens or occurs to more guys in the world than we think or realize as in either many guys or just plenty of guys in the world during their journey of becoming better with women or improving their dating lives they unknowingly or unintentionally creeped women out or caused awkward interactions to occur that resulted in women thinking of them as weird or creepy but it was part of the feedback process or the learning process of improving and getting better?
/r/seduction21/03/26 09:18 PM
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Just a guess of mine but I won't surprise me if for all eternity if the forever alone community and the later than normal Virgin community is male-dominated hence why over 20 years ago when Hollywood made the movie the 40 year old virgin it's quite obvious as to why the star of that movie was a guy male
/r/seduction21/03/26 08:36 PM
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Just another reminder of what comes with Nature's territory
/r/seduction21/03/26 11:48 AM
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Yeah what you said is very valid and yeah at the same time it's a reminder that people will convey the message to people that people should not feel embarrassed or ashamed to reach out for help or seek mentoring or coaching they will always say that all of the pros or all of the top performers in all areas have coaches and mentors and without them they never would have gotten to the top of their field
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:34 AM
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Also as you probably saw me post it can happen to both men on the autism spectrum or not but I think it happens to men on the opposite Spectrum more often though and that is they are at higher risk of being perceived or labeled weird or creepy or making women uncomfortable When approaching them or making advances on them and they were just completely unaware they just simply did not know they made those awkward mistakes unknowingly or unintentionally. I've heard some people say from the men's da…
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:22 AM
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these were moving inspiring responses, its about in regards to the double-standard about the creepy awkward label, in regards to men making advances on women or men approaching, as in, its inevitable to happen, a lot of times it has more to do with the woman and the man, also its part of improvement process: "why is it such a big issue for you, to creep some girls out? its part of your development to get better calibration. in the end of the day in order to get more confidence, social skills and…
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:18 AM
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At the end of the day that normally never happens and it will likely forever be that way for all eternity
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:08 PM
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Yeah I know I'm a broken record on this and that is it truly seems like men on the autism spectrum have a high rate of reaching later 20s or just becoming 30 plus virgins or just don't have sex or get into their first relationship until that age range I just mentioned it just comes with Nature's territory. Another thing and that is I believe men on the autism spectrum are at higher risk of accidentally being perceived as weird or creepy or making them an uncomfortable unknowingly or unintentiona…
/r/seduction19/03/26 02:22 PM
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You said your first girlfriend did most of the flirting and physical escalation, that's interesting because women are normally never the ones to either make advances on a guy they like or be the one to initiate or escalate things on a guy they like
/r/seduction19/03/26 02:20 PM
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Yeah that makes perfect sense and in regards to DNA or genetics another way to put it being born good looking or physically attractive is obviously going to benefit both genders, guys men who are naturally good looking are likely going to get more attention growing up than men who are the opposite of that which will feed upon confidence and validation
/r/seduction18/03/26 08:25 PM
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"The reality is, people that are successful had coaches, mentors and role models along the way. Nobody did it on their own. People that think “I can do it on my own” will never make it. It's a limiting belief – a story they tell themselves again and again, that is preventing them from having success." I read that statement somewhere, does it sound completely accurate to you, agree or not? just asking because, it truly seems like, a large portion of people, plenty of people manage to succeed in l…
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:58 PM
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it truly seems like, a large portion of guys, men, plenty of men, manage without mentors, without a coach, especially in regards to dating/relationships, seduction, plenty of guys are naturals in which they didn't need a coach or mentor to help them with it, it seems either most guys, or just plenty of guys, just naturally figure out the dating game without mentors. thats what it seems like, most guys, or just plenty of guys, men, naturally figure out the whole dating/seduction thing without coa…
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:42 PM
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It seems that way though because the forever alone Community is male-dominated it seems apparently as in people who reach a certain age and have never dated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:39 PM
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Meanwhile either most guys or just plenty of guys just seem to naturally figure this out without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or Mentor or pick up artists, so it's no wonder and men have a right to feel embarrassed and ashamed to seek help on this because they think to themselves plenty of guys figure this stuff out or know how to do this without mentoring so why should I be any different
/r/seduction15/03/26 01:47 PM
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Yep and water is wet and fire is hot
/r/seduction13/03/26 10:37 AM
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Not a whole lot because men initiating an interaction has always been and likely always will be the norm or the gender dynamic between men and women
/r/seduction12/03/26 01:46 PM
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Well I believe this to be true and that is for all eternity or just I don't know how long it's been that way but just for eons and that is women simply put just have to exist and they by default will get attention from men and have dating options for simply just passively existing but not true if you're a guy when it comes to women.
/r/seduction12/03/26 03:41 AM
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Yeah cases like him are a reminder of just what comes with Nature's territory
/r/seduction05/03/26 01:39 PM
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What do you mean that she's not your cup of tea
/r/seduction05/03/26 01:06 PM
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Yeah that's easily believable
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:12 PM
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Yep that's just another reminder on how people and Society expect men to just have common sense or just be perfectly socially calibrated on knowing what is right and wrong when interacting with women while women either never get labeled or perceived as weird or creepy for the same awkward crap that men are capable of unknowingly or unintentionally doing around women. Yep it's a double standard I've always resented but I'm sure it's forever here to stay
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:09 PM
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Research and study say in modern times men are approaching women a lot less than they used to and that makes me and many wonder if that will have an effect on the State of Affairs even though I doubt it though
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:07 PM
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Interesting are you saying that there are species of animals in which the female makes advances on the male that she's attracted to?
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:05 PM
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Yeah it won't surprise me if it's true if it's more common for men than for women to go much longer periods or dry spells without sex or love or intimacy I would say that is easy to believe
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:04 PM
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Yeah I figure another good analogy is that in nature in lots of animals, there is the runt of the litter and it is sadly abandoned by its mother oftentimes, is that cruel and unfair? Yes it is. But yes you are right, at the end of the day there is no such thing as fairness.
/r/seduction04/03/26 11:59 AM
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Yeah I believe that that makes sense but I'm sure me and lots of guys wonder why most guys are plenty of guys just naturally figure out the whole dating attraction seduction game without ever having gotten mentored or help from others
/r/seduction04/03/26 07:03 AM
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I found this article right here:https://www.girlschase.com/content/stop-assuming-other-men-are-better-you I think it brings up valid points but yeah at the same time it seems either most guys or plenty of men in the world managed to get dates for get results with women or get girlfriends without ever having sought help from a dating coach or a mentor or mentoring in regards to dating and seduction. That's why me and lots of other guys feel embarrassed and ashamed for seeking out help from a ment…
/r/seduction03/03/26 10:54 PM
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Yeah I can believe that, yeah doesn't matter because men will always be dealt with that card whether they like it or not
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:47 PM
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Yep and even guys and men can be handsome and good looking or their looks are not a problem at all and they will still at default not have that luxury with women
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:50 PM
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Yeah yet people and Society still think men have the better end of the stick even when it comes to dating
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:46 PM
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Yeah I got more mad and pissed off whenever people and Society say that men are not supposed to have the mindset of men having to do all the work or men are not supposed to view it as work and men are supposed to embrace it or enjoy it I will never understand or get it. I remember one guy made a comment on that it just made me feel like wanting to punch him or beat him up to a bloody pulp
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:25 PM
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How do men give more grace? Anyway one thing I know that's definitely true and lots of guys agree with and that is women are normally never at risk at being perceived as weird or creepy or uncomfortable in a man's perspective but unfortunately the same can't be said in Reverse though.
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:05 PM
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Sums it up perfectly yep even if it means men having to risk or even have awkward cringe interactions where they are perceived as weird or creepy or make the woman uncomfortable and those men did it unknowingly or unintentionally but they just didn't know they just simply did not know any better and it's just another reminder of how women can get away with being unsocially calibrated but men cannot or another way to put it women can get away with poor social skills around men but men can't do th…
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:01 PM
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Yep doesn't matter because the dating game will always be unfair even though at the end of the day there's no such thing as fairness never has been never will be. Yeah it just fills me with anger and rage on why people still think men have the better end of the stick because of the State of Affairs
/r/seduction03/03/26 02:58 PM
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Yep it won't surprise me if men are forever stuck with that gender Dynamic whether they like it or not, that's why it feels me with resentment when I hear of stories of guys men who do manage to get dates or get into a relationship until later than the societal Norm and I get more angry when people still celebrate those results because why should it still be seen as a victory or a success even if people manage to achieve something late in life it's like what's the point
/r/seduction03/03/26 02:56 PM
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Yeah my perspective has changed on that a lot
/r/seduction03/03/26 02:54 PM
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A follow-up but are you trying to say that guys or men were they meant to have a mentor or have a coach or guidance on this in regards to dating and seduction? Did most guys who do well with women did they have a mentor or mentors on this?
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:33 AM
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this discussion will never end
/r/seduction20/02/26 09:26 PM
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Yeah but either most guys are plenty of guys seem to do fine enough with women without ever having to work with a coach or a mentor
/r/seduction20/02/26 09:23 PM
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And it seems either most guys or if not most guys just plenty of guys in the world naturally figure this stuff out without a mentor or a coach or seeking help from a dating coach for pickup artist. Which makes lots of men feel this way and I don't blame them at all for feeling embarrassed and the shame for seeking out help or getting coaching or a mentor. And of course people will counter argue against that by getting people to remove their embarrassment or feeling shameful he will say oh all of…
/r/seduction20/02/26 11:27 AM
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Yeah it's like to sum it up women just have to exist and by default they have men interested in them for simply just existing and having a pulse and breathing but Men by default don't have that with women
/r/seduction14/02/26 08:30 PM
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Yep men are the only gender that have to know all the skills
/r/seduction14/02/26 10:57 AM
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i think its often said men peak between 35 and 40?
/r/seduction13/02/26 09:05 PM
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Yeah I figure most of them are scam and plus if they charge money that means they are in it to make money first not to help people see results
/r/seduction12/02/26 02:14 AM
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How are women proactive with you
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:15 PM
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Just another reminder
/r/seduction10/02/26 11:32 AM
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Well only men have to take action if they want to get anywhere in life women can get away with it
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:05 PM
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more common than you think
/r/seduction07/02/26 08:30 PM
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yeah its controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:02 AM
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very deep
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:50 PM
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not unusual at all
/r/seduction01/02/26 07:40 PM
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Shy quiet man normally never get the woman that only happens in the movies in Media or in cartoons
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:45 PM
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Yeah that sounds spot on
/r/seduction30/01/26 02:28 PM
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not unusual
/r/seduction26/01/26 01:15 PM
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Well it has always bothered me when people say that men have a better because men don't have to wait or do the waiting because people make it sound like men can literally get a woman into their lives anytime they want
/r/seduction24/01/26 02:25 AM
0

What are you getting at when you mean that
/r/seduction24/01/26 02:21 AM
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I don't know if this is the right perspective but it seems men are always the ones that have to show or display value
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:20 PM
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Yeah it reminds me how my mindset and perspective has changed on that over the years and it makes me more angry and resentful how people say men have a better because they say oh men have it better because they don't have to do the way because they make it sound like men can get results literally anytime they want which is complete BS
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:19 PM
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Yeah I think that has been on the rise the past few years
/r/seduction23/01/26 02:08 AM
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It doesn't matter because more than likely men will always be stuck with that role for all eternity
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:25 AM
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Yep thank you for stating the obvious
/r/seduction20/01/26 06:43 AM
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Well for women eventually a guy that is a quality guy will come to them and make advances on them women are less likely than men are to reach a certain age without ever having been in a relationship before that's what I'm getting at
/r/seduction09/01/26 07:55 PM
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Did you as a woman make the first move on your husband?
/r/seduction09/01/26 06:21 PM
1

Well that's strategy always has worked for women or another way to put it women have always been far less at risk than men have at being forever alone forever single
/r/seduction09/01/26 06:09 PM
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Many people will agree with that even some dating relationship coaches will agree with that as well
/r/seduction09/01/26 06:08 PM
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Yeah thank you for stating the obvious
/r/seduction09/01/26 06:07 PM
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Well shocking question
/r/seduction02/01/26 09:21 AM
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Well there is some truth to that but naturally it will affect men's dating lives more than women's dating lives because more than likely men will always be stuck with the card or role of having to make the first move all the time and be the initiator
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:27 AM
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Yep only women can get away with that but men can't it's like another way of looking at things is that women Naturally by default get attention from men and have dating options for simply just existing and being born but not true if you are a guy when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:23 AM
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Yeah it's like Naturally by default being born the male gender it means you are not guaranteed attention and dating options for simply just existing or just being born
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:21 AM
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Do you think most guys had mentors on this or do you think most guys are plenty of guys just naturally learned this through trial and error on their own?
/r/seduction30/12/25 02:58 PM
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I doubt it'll go away entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:20 AM
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Women normally are never the ones to shoot their shot or make advances on a guy they like
/r/seduction30/12/25 05:43 AM
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"The reality is, people that are successful had coaches, mentors and role models along the way. Nobody did it on their own. People that think “I can do it on my own” will never make it. It's a limiting belief – a story they tell themselves again and again, that is preventing them from having success." That was a statement I read somewhere and do you believe that or no? Just asking because it seems like plenty of guys seem to naturally figure out the whole dating and seduction system without a co…
/r/seduction30/12/25 01:59 AM
1

Yeah a lot of people have the mindset and I don't blame them and that is if people truly cared about mentoring and helping people get results then they do it for free but obviously most charge them thousands of dollars that goes to show they are in the business to make money first not to help people
/r/seduction23/12/25 01:15 AM
1

Yep another reminder I'm sure this industry will only get bigger
/r/seduction20/12/25 04:36 PM
4

Well it feels like women are entitled to it more than men are because women by default get attention and get interest from men for simply just existing but not true for guys and men when it comes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:24 PM
1

Yeah it's unfortunate we live in a reality where people are not entitled to those things
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:35 PM
1

Well some things I can see always be at the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:17 PM
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Yeah thank you for stating the obvious I'm sure that gender Dynamic is the main reason why it won't surprise me if for all eternity there have always been more Forever Alone Men than forever alone women and more virgin men than more virgin women
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:05 PM
2

Won't surprise me if the rate is increasing though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:26 AM
1

Yeah it's another reminder what I'm a broken record on and that is autistic guys have a high rate of becoming 30 plus virgins
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:14 PM
1

Yep I'd say that's the ideal way of going about things
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:05 AM
2

I highly doubt this will have an effect on the State of Affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:46 PM
1

Yeah what else is new
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:30 AM
2

Valid answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:59 AM
1

Yep I always resented and hated the State of Affairs between men and women in regards to how they communicate and interact with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:38 AM
1

Yeah well it doesn't matter because I'm sure men will forever be stuck with that role and it gets me more angry and resentful when people say it gives men control over their Destiny because they make it sound like as if men can literally get results anytime they want which is obviously not true. I've heard people argue and say that while women deal with getting lots of unwanted attention men often deal with getting no attention from anyone at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:36 AM
1

Yeah thank you for sticking the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:35 AM
0

Some people think it started when the United States abolished the draft
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:54 AM
1

I like to agree with this and that is I like to think that pretty much the only issue that women need to worry about in dating is their safety but other than that they are basically dating is just clear sailing for them. I've heard some people say this as well and I like to agree with them and pretty much the only skills that women need to know or learn and dating are how to screen men or how to avoid getting used by a guy or how to be able to distinguish and tell between the guys men who actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:22 PM
6

Not only that if a man and a woman are on a date with each other or the date is boring or not entertaining it's basically always the man's fault it's like basically men are always the ones that have to bring value to everything. I get annoyed and irritated and enraged whenever people say that women need to learn skills on how to meet men and attract them. Another thing that makes me mad too is that men get bashed and criticized When comparing themselves to the other gender a lot more than the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:18 PM
1

It's just another reminder
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:29 PM
15

If you haven't slept with each other after dating for more than a month then things are not looking good and a relationship without sex just sounds like a friendship to me
/r/seduction07/11/25 03:41 AM
3

Yeah being born the male gender means you are not guaranteed sex and intimacy or love for just existing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:28 AM
1

Yeah it's like being born male it means you are not guaranteed results for being born or just existing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:27 AM
1

Yeah I know it also makes me upset whenever people say that you don't have to do it but you get to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:26 AM
1

Well that is definitely part of it but also women seem to be turned off or just perceive it negatively when men have an attitude like that a lot more than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:25 AM
1

Yeah I don't know just some things will always be the same whether we like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:48 PM
3

One thing that's definitely true is that bitterness and resentment will hold men back far more than it will for women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:46 PM
1

Yeah good chance it does sure it affects everyone differently
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:45 PM
2

Definitely more common for men than for women unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:45 PM
2

Yeah thank you for stating the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:43 PM
5

Yeah easier said than done like many things in life but I don't know just a reminder on how cruel nature and reality can be and which not everybody gets to have an equal positive experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:54 AM
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One thing that's definitely true is that people and Society frown upon or are turned off by bitterness or resentment in men a lot more than they are in women or another way to put it men will Overlook that or be more forgiving in that in women but not so much the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:43 AM
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Yeah because men are always the only gender that always have to be the ones to do something about it or always have to be the ones to get off their asses about it whether we like it or not. Are you saying there was a time in your life that you were angry and resentful over the gender role how men are always expected to make the first move all the time and be the initiators? You at one point hated that expectation of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:38 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-43956366.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:32 AM
8

Yeah thank you for stating the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:07 AM
3

another reminder that people are not entitled to happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:06 AM
7

Well I'm entitled to my feelings though and I don't see myself ever fully ever getting over this, sometimes it feels it with anger and resentment that we as humans are not entitled to love and intimacy and connection. Even if I ever do have a more satisfying dating life and love life and sex life I don't think I'll ever truly fully ever get over this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:01 AM
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she was 24 and she was shocked and surprised, it's a reminder on how me and lots of guys get resentful or just upset on why lots of women have to react that way or why do women have to act shocked and surprised if some men or certain men have never been with a woman before it's like do a lot of women have the mindset or the mentality that men are naturally supposed to know how to get women for simply just existing or just being born
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:49 PM
1

Yep nothing new here I'm sure the State of Affairs will always be this way whether we like it or not
/r/seduction31/10/25 02:44 PM
7

yes i told her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:41 PM
10

didn't have sex until 28, im not proud of it but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:25 PM
1

Yeah another reminder of what I'm a broken record on
/r/seduction29/10/25 03:48 PM
2

Yeah many will agree so will I and I think the evolutionary Primal reasons make sense as to why it's like that
/r/seduction29/10/25 02:40 PM
4

Are you saying that it's harder for men to get with a woman than the other way around
/r/seduction29/10/25 02:15 PM
1

Yeah I would say the thing I resent the most about this is that there's always the risk of having awkward cringe interactions in which the girl is weirded out by the guy or the girl perceives the guy as weird or creepy or the guy makes the girl uncomfortable and the guy was just clueless he did not know what he was doing wrong. It's basically a reminder on what women can get away with but men cannot. And it's also true that people and Society put pressure on men in the sense in which they expect…
/r/seduction27/10/25 12:34 AM
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Yeah nothing new there, I believe part of being a guy means even risking having awkward and cringe interactions that result in being offended or bothered or or negative reactions from women just part of the process
/r/seduction26/10/25 08:44 PM
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I didn't have sex until 28 I'm not proud of it but it is what it is and not unusual for people to reach letter twenties or 30 plus virgins
/r/seduction26/10/25 12:07 AM
1

Yes I'm not afraid to admit that there been times in my life I have sometimes been angry and pissed off that I was born male and I get more angry and upset when people say get a sex change because even people who get sex changes still naturally retain elements of the gender that they were naturally born the only white people can truly be the other gender is if they were born that way
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:08 AM
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Yep no way around it unfortunately yep I'm sure men will always be stuck with that. I figure part of reality is often times or just sometimes we have to do things we hate in order to live life like I'm sure lots of people hate having to pay taxes but unfortunately there's no way of avoiding it otherwise there are consequences
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:02 AM
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Yep there's no way around it there's no escaping it as a guy yes and then have to put in all the effort and work for a relationship to occur or start but oh well it's the f****** way it is whether we like it or not
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:49 AM
2

Yep it's a whole art to it
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:32 AM
0

How does that affect or correlate anything worth it accomplishing in this life when you mention that? Yeah but I know it doesn't matter it will always fill me with anger and rage as to what men have to do in dating and people get me more pissed off when they say you don't have to do it but you get to do it. Pisses me off a lot of times
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:29 AM
12

Yeah number three is a perfect understatement I'm sure men will always be stuck with having to do the heavy lifting
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:55 PM
1

Well I'm sure women who do that will forever for all eternity be in the extreme minority I highly doubt women will ever start approaching guys or asking guys out or women being the initiators and starting a relationship just as much as men are that just seems completely unrealistic. I'm sure men will forever be stuck with that role for all eternity hence why the wizard community and forever alone Community will always be male dominated
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:15 PM
2

Yep some things will always be the same
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:22 AM
1

Normally it doesn't and it'll probably always be that way hence why wizard community and forever alone Community will always be male dominated
/r/seduction21/10/25 11:52 PM
2

It'll always be controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:12 PM
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Yep I'd say it's an understanding that a lot of men don't even know what being socially calibrated means
/r/seduction10/10/25 04:55 PM
1

Yeah I believe that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:56 AM
1

For good or bad it doesn't matter because I'm sure men will always be stuck with this role whether they like it or not even if it means having to risk having awkward cringe interactions
/r/seduction07/10/25 12:26 AM
0

Yeah some things will always be the same won't surprise me
/r/seduction02/10/25 01:32 PM
5

Yeah it's another reminder on how people and Society just expect men to have the common sense or just have the social intuition for knowing what is weird and creepy and what is not when interacting with women
/r/seduction01/10/25 02:28 AM
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So at the end of the day you think men have the better end of the stick than women do even when it comes to dating? Why and how so?
/r/seduction30/09/25 12:57 PM
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The thing i have always resented about men and women interactions. It doesn't help that what led to me having this mindset, is there have been times in my life i have approached women with friendly intentions but they viewed me as creepy or weird, uncomfortable, even though i was completely harmless. yet people and society just naturally expect us men to naturally get it and understand on how to always be 100 percent creep proof, never make awkward mistakes in interactions, and its another remin…
/r/seduction29/09/25 08:01 PM
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Women have normally never approached guys and normally never will
/r/seduction29/09/25 06:43 AM
0

Yeah it's another reminder that lots of men don't even know what social intelligence means at the same time it's a reminder that women can get away without having that but men cannot and I agree in which people say that men get punished for making honest mistakes but women can get away with Grace in social situations in terms of interactions between the two genders
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:07 PM
1

Nah it'll probably be here for all eternity whether we like it or not
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:05 PM
3

Historically mid to late 20s or by beginning of 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:56 PM
5

Normally never happens and I highly doubt it'll ever be normalized
/r/seduction19/09/25 12:47 PM
1

Well you just have to understand that she will never make a move on you no matter how unfair and frustrating it is
/r/seduction19/09/25 03:17 AM
1

I feel you on that but why do I get the feeling men will forever be stuck with that role or burden whether they hate it or not. I know I'm in good company for having this mindset and that is a good reason why it should be more socially acceptable for women to approach men or for women to make advances on men is that women don't risk having their advances or their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed and perceived as weird and creepy or dangerous and threatening like it is on men's…
/r/seduction19/09/25 01:38 AM
2

Yep it doesn't matter because I know at the end of the day minimal always be stuck with the role of having to do the pursuing and the courting and approaching and asking out
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:33 PM
1

I was wondering in your post in which you have anger and resentment towards the gender role of guys having to be the ones to make the first move and ask the girl out and be the initiators or guys having to be the ones to take the lead, are you saying you have resentment towards that expectation of guys and Men or the State of Affairs for being that way?
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:30 PM
1

You're not alone man I feel the same way and I'm sure tons of men in the world feel the same way I know I've always had a life one hatred and anger and resentment towards the expectation of men having to be the ones to court women or be the ones to make the first move all the time and be the initiators but why do I get the feeling men will always be stuck with that role for all eternity. I'm sure these things will occur before women start approaching men or before women start making the first mo…
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:28 PM
1

Yeah I'd say this double standard is probably the number one or main thing I've always hated about the law of social dynamics between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:43 PM
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Yeah this is a debate that will never end
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:40 PM
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Yep women normally go through life not even getting a fraction or a tenth of the amount of rejection men go through yes obviously it is what it is but easy to resent the State of Affairs for being that way
/r/seduction14/09/25 08:58 AM
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doesn't matter because women will never ever hit on guys or make advances on guys
/r/seduction14/09/25 02:01 AM
3

That's often debated and argued to be true because they don't get as much attention as they used to
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:01 PM
0

Yep thank you for stating the obvious
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:30 PM
1

Not Unusual and not unheard of to hear on Reddit and Elsewhere for guys to be past their mid-20s and still virgins at 30 plus and older
/r/seduction25/08/25 09:01 PM
1

Yeah there's a lot of Truth to that, is that guy you mentioned is he making six figures or is he making enough to support himself independently
/r/seduction23/08/25 08:02 AM
1

No doubt a normal looking guy
/r/seduction22/08/25 07:13 AM
1

Put it like this nature and reality doesn't care if men get results in their dating life or their sex life but not the other way around
/r/seduction07/08/25 02:18 AM
1

What do you do for work or career not very many people make six figures at your age or hardly at all
/r/seduction10/07/25 08:54 PM
2

Men typically have to open their mouth hundreds or thousands of times more than women do just to get better at interacting with the opposite sex
/r/seduction05/07/25 08:15 PM
1

Yeah that's another reminder
/r/seduction05/07/25 05:04 PM
1

Yep that's just another reminder
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:12 AM
0

That's a reminder that women can get away with being on socially uncalibrated because women are never at risk of creeping a guy out or making a guy uncomfortable and social interactions but that's not true if you're a guy
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:54 AM
1

Yeah I believe that
/r/seduction19/06/25 08:56 PM
3

I remember I read this statement somewhere and it said that a handsome good looking guy without game is basically like a Ferrari without gas or just without a fuel source
/r/seduction13/06/25 12:19 PM
1

Because men having to be the ones to approach women is a role that men will always be stuck with whether they like it or not and I get more angry and people say you don't have to approach women but you get to and while I don't entirely disagree with that it does feel like have to in the sense that if a guy doesn't want to be alone and celibate. Yeah men will always be stuck with that role whether they like it or not even if it means having awkward interactions or cringe interactions that results…
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:38 PM
1

Most will say no
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:28 PM
2

Nature doesn't care about men's results it only cares about women's results
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:36 PM
2

Agreed and I already know there's no such thing as fairness never has been never will be but one thing that I know I'm in good company with and that is people and Society or the world don't sympathize or give emotional support if a guy plays the victim or if a guy has a victim mindset. If a guy has the mindset or mentality if something is unfair or if he just hates the way things are or if he thinks things are harder for him because he's a guy then he won't get any sympathy from people in the wo…
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:51 PM
2

I know other people have spoken to have said this and I agree with them and they say that only women and children receive unconditional love from the world and Society but men as an adult males do not receive unconditional love
/r/seduction27/05/25 04:30 AM
1

Yeah I believe that at the end of the day virginity is just a social construct and this is another common mentality I hear and that is men who choose to lose their virginity by going that route are definitely no longer a virgin in the physical sense but they still feel like a virgin mentally and emotionally though because they've never actually been with a woman who actually was attracted to them and wanted them and actually love them or craved them though
/r/seduction27/05/25 03:18 AM
2

Yeah I'd say that sums it up perfectly but I like to think I've been influenced to believe from the men's dating advice community that women Naturally by default have more options than men do and Men by Nature by default are in scarcity with women
/r/seduction25/05/25 05:30 AM
1

I figure that's why the pickup artist and seduction industry has exploded in the past decade or more
/r/seduction25/05/25 02:38 AM
2

what i mean is, women can get away with having feelings of resentment or bitterness towards men and they will still have dating options but not so much the other way around
/r/seduction22/05/25 01:07 AM
1

I think most will say no
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:36 PM
1

It's a reminder of what women can get away with but men can't
/r/seduction21/05/25 11:54 AM
1

I saw you looking at me so I thought I'd walk up to you and open my mouth because you definitely were not going to open your mouth first
/r/seduction21/05/25 11:53 AM
1

Yeah this discussion will never end
/r/seduction21/05/25 10:18 AM
2

Reminds me of an article I read of a guy from the UK and sometimes I wish I never read it but he avoided Steve Carell's character by a couple of years though
/r/seduction20/05/25 03:17 PM
2

how do you feel about not having had sex until 34?
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:04 AM
1

How do you feel about not having had sex until then
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:54 PM
1

Yeah works out well for some guys but not for others
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:21 PM
1

Yep for all time men are on their own
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:31 PM
1

Early bloomer even though many people will say that everyone's timeline is different it's just that it's a fact that not everybody gets to have a teen romance or early twenties sexually active life
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:56 AM
1

When did you and her start dating each other in your teenage years or beginning of twenties?
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:51 AM
0

what are you referring to? obviously girls never approach guys, well normally they don't
/r/seduction04/05/25 04:37 AM
1

im Sure you were the one that asked her out and hit on her or had to be the one to initiate with her
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:35 AM
1

oh please girls never approach guys
/r/seduction03/05/25 05:28 PM
1

Yep I'm sure this will always be a men's only issue
/r/seduction03/05/25 05:07 PM
1

How did you end up with your ex-girlfriend if you have no experience approaching girls then
/r/seduction03/05/25 05:05 PM
1

Yep it goes back to my sarcastic mentality that it seems men were meant to reap or just experience more side benefits than women do as a result of improving your dating life
/r/seduction03/05/25 04:59 PM
1

The thing i have always resented about men and women interactions. It doesn't help that what led to me having this mindset, is there have been times in my life i have approached women with friendly intentions but they viewed me as creepy or weird, uncomfortable, even though i was completely harmless, yet people and society just naturally expect us men to naturally get it and understand on how to always be 100 percent creep proof, never make awkward mistakes in interactions, and its another remin…
/r/seduction01/05/25 10:01 PM
0

Yep because the world owes us nothing if you're a guy human male but it's the opposite for women
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:58 PM
1

Yep men initiating an interaction has always been and always will be a fundamental part of the game or courtship or seduction between men and women
/r/seduction25/04/25 06:26 PM
1

The thing i have always hated and resented about men and women interactions, approaching. It doesn't help that what led to me having this mindset, is there have been times in my life i have approached women with friendly intentions but they viewed me as creepy or weird, uncomfortable, even though i was completely harmless, yet people and society just naturally expect us men to naturally get it and understand on how to always be 100 percent creep proof, never make awkward mistakes in interactions…
/r/seduction25/04/25 06:10 PM
1

I assume with your girlfriend you were the one that asked her out and hit on her
/r/seduction25/04/25 06:07 PM
3

I assume you were the one that asked her out and hit on her
/r/seduction12/04/25 06:33 PM
1

Men on the autism spectrum have a high rate of remaining a virgin much later than the norm though and I think it should be obvious or at least just that's how it seems from what I've noticed over the years from guys disclosing their case
/r/seduction08/04/25 01:49 PM
1

Well you are an early Bloomer compared to lots of men because lots of men become 30-year-old virgins or older it's definitely much more common than we think as I've seen posts like that on Reddit and on social media
/r/seduction08/04/25 03:18 AM
1

Historically societal late bloomer is someone who hasn't had one by their mid-20s or older, or later 20s. Did you have a mentor or have guys help you on this
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:06 PM
1

Yeah even some research and genetic Studies have confirmed that far more women than men throughout history have passed on their genes or DNA so I figure if people do the math I figure it just naturally makes sense that there have always been more male virgins than female virgins
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:52 PM
1

Yeah lots of men with autism feel that dating or getting a girlfriend is hopeless for them. It's obviously a brutal fact that women with autism will have an easier time getting into a relationship than the other way around though
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:47 PM
1

There's a lot of Truth to that I can definitely believe that, I'm sure that a lot of these guys were naturally born good looking genetically and we all know that people of each gender who are born good looking because of genetics will obviously be naturally gifted than those who didn't but also there are lots of men who are handsome and good looking who are horrible with women.
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:45 PM
1

At the end of the day I know we should not compare ourselves to others and I know that both men and women have different issues or different problems to deal with when it comes to dating but it is a fact that being socially awkward or socially inept will handicapp or affect men's dating lives a lot more than women's. Reminds me of a statement I read from one which added fuel to fire in terms of resentment towards the laws of social dynamics between men and women and also how women never have to …
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:44 PM
1

Would you consider yourself as having naturally figured out this whole thing on your own or did you need help or guidance on this thing?
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:42 PM
1

One thing for sure is that a guy can basically pretty much be the hottest most handsome man on the planet but if he never opens his mouth in front of women, he won't get any women, or if he's just very socially awkward or very socially inept, yeah it's a reminder that a lot of women will never understand why some men either never have dating options with women or have never been with a woman before by a certain age unless something is seriously wrong with him and women who think that are just co…
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:40 PM
1

Yeah I can definitely believe that
/r/seduction03/04/25 06:10 PM
1

Specifically what do you mean when you say it can be year?
/r/seduction24/03/25 05:09 PM
1

Yeah I agree with what another user said lots of guys on the autism spectrum have a high rate of becoming Wizards or they feel it's hopeless for them or for many of them it is hopeless no matter how hard they try or how much effort they put in
/r/seduction24/03/25 08:59 AM
1

Well we all know the bottom normally never happens and that's how it's always been and probably forever will be
/r/seduction24/03/25 08:58 AM
2

Yeah my mindset that has really taken a hold of me from the men's dating advice community is I agree when people say that men are naturally or just Men by Nature are in scarcity with women by default but women by default naturally have abundance with men from day one for simply just existing
/r/seduction22/03/25 08:22 PM
1

Yeah I wonder if Naturals is something if guys are born with or it's how they were raised
/r/seduction22/03/25 08:15 PM
1

So I assume you were not a natural either you needed help in terms of figuring this out as well or do you still feel you need help?
/r/seduction22/03/25 02:18 AM
5

Yep it's been quite clear obvious for years now that far more men than women will Overlook someone who still lives with their folks or just doesn't live independently yet by a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:20 AM
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Yep I agree with the mentality that women by Nature are an abundance by default but men are naturally in scarcity with women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:19 AM
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I highly doubt it men will always be stuck with the burden or role of having to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and that's why I'm sure there will always be more male Wizards than female Wizards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:50 PM
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And I assume you and him are both in your twenties or met each other while in your twenties
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:15 PM
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I assume your boyfriend was the one who asked you out and hit on you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:46 PM
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Well a lot of people think that women are in abundance by default but men are in scarcity by default
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:24 AM
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Yeah but how often do women approach men that's still normally never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:40 AM
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As for meeting in bars, I wouldn't know about that because women still normally never approach men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:39 AM
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Well whether we like it or not men are still expected to take the lead in terms of starting a relationship and while in the relationship as well which means talking to her first and asking her out first and planning and setting up all the dates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:34 AM
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I would assume only by men that they are not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:11 PM
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Well it just kind of goes back to what I said previously, that's why I have that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:47 PM
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Yes sometimes I like to think that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah I know I get angry and I have felt this way for years now whenever people use Arguments for why people still think men have it better than women doing dating because me and I'm sure tons of other people in the world believe or think that women have it better than men do in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:33 PM
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I say never been with anyone I say never have been in a relationship before or never had a significant other that's what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:22 PM
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Well I'm sure it's more common for men than it is for women to reach 30 plus years of age or older and have never been with anyone before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:11 PM
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Yeah I look at this all from a different perspective now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:58 AM
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Sometimes I feel women don't deserve sympathy for certain things they deal with in their lives because of their passivity and what they normally have easier when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:44 AM
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Well most people in the world who go later into their twenties or even 30s and 40s and older and have never been with anybody and and have always been alone and single are mostly male
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:22 AM
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Somethings I see always remaining the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:02 AM
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Nah it's Still Remains the Same as it always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:48 AM
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I assume you had to ask her out and had to talk to her first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:11 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-43956366.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:54 AM
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Wish I never read a certain article about a guy from the UK I feel it has been permanently lodged In My Memory
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:43 AM
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Not everybody gets to date or have a relationship in their teenage years or the beginning of their twenties or 20 something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:42 AM
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I'm sure men will still be expected to make the first move and approach women and be the initiators or be the ones to initiate the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:33 AM
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I'd say this perfectly describes it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:32 AM
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Seems to be past 25 historically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:27 AM
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Yeah it's more important for men to have boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:14 AM
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Well that's the luxury women have always had due to how for all time they have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:33 AM
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Reminds me I've heard for a while that 25 is the magic age number for when people start to feel really behind if they are either still single or still a virgin and when I say still single as in always been single and never had a boyfriend girlfriend before, the Turning Point age when people start to feel really behind and part of me is not shocked because I've long heard that 25 is when the human brain fully matures and that can make a person feel really behind socially. The next age I sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:03 AM
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Well this is nothing new, but me and many guys believe, as long as it's by guys they want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:51 PM
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Did you also ask him out first
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:08 AM
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It must be in a woman's DNA that prevents her from approaching a guy she likes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:57 AM
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I'm assuming that's why meeting people through social circle or mutual friends is a more socially appropriate way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:44 PM
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Well a lot of people think that women are in abundance by default but men are in scarcity by default because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:47 AM
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So it's okay for women to be jealous of the advantages that men have over women but not the other way around? If a woman is jealous or has resentment over men then she is not labeled a masculine woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:46 AM
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And regarding guys men getting labeled or thrown the creepy label or creep label or just weird or being accused as uncomfortable, I think that a lot of times those labels get overused, a lot of times women will just throw those labels at men simply because they were never interested in the first place and the man was never actually legitimately being creepy, never was a threat to anyone. and going further a lot of women use that label because it gives them an ego boost and a pride boost. If they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:39 AM
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