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| 1 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?Yes there’s definitely truth to that, 100% correct, but I fuuuuucking hate having to maintain a friend group just to have access to women. Done it before and I always feel like there’s non-healthy completion/resource guarding of the women amongst the other dudes and it’s pretty easy to fish that pod dry after you’ve banged a few girls in the group. I’d much rather go out with a friend and do cold approaches, get rejected, laugh it off and keep going (all on my terms) then pretend to be friends w… | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbhNo, it’s not rooted in a deep lack of self esteem. You actually have it all wrong. “I need to make her like me” is low self esteem. “Let me say hi and go see if she’s cool. it’s ok if we’re not a good fit” is rooted in high self esteem. The only thing that matters is results. The guy that did 50 approaches and set up 3 dates has better results than the guy that did 10 approaches and set up 2 dates. If you’re in sales, the guy that closed $1k in a week off of 100 cold calls is worth more than the… | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Stop Theorizing : Speak on ExperienceCouldn’t agree more, got in an argument here yesterday because guys were saying doing cold approaches makes you look needy and you need to do online dating instead 😂 The blind leading the blind. | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbhI’m sorry but “Cold outreach generally = worse results” is just dog shit sales advice. My dad and uncle just sold a $10m commercial property. Do you know how they met the agent they used? A cold call 5 years ago. The agent probably cleared $200k on that deal….from a cold call. But how it relates to dating - online dating as a guy really only works if you’re extremely attractive (we all know that). Looks matter, Im not denying that and of course I believe you should look as good as possible….but … | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 04:49 PM |
| 2 | I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbhAgreed to a point but the value of doing strategic prospecting outweighing the value of cold outreach totally depends on what you’re selling. Ultimately you’re missing my point - prospecting and doing cold outreach gets results. If you want results, do cold outreach. A common denominator amongst all Top salesmen (regardless of industry) is the quantity of cold outreach. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 09:59 PM |
| 5 | I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbhNot at all my point but keep coping to justify your fear of rejection | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 07:02 PM |
| 6 | I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbhLmfo blaming the product always reeks of a low performer in sales. But let’s change the scenario to make it fair: two salesmen are working at the same company selling the same product (that clients want to buy). Who do you think sells more, the guy that waits for the phone to ring or the guy that makes 60 cold calls a day? | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 06:54 PM |
| 7 | I went out with an 'expert' - still really feels like a numbers game though, tbhYou’re in a sales job. Who do you think sells more, the guy that waits for the phone to ring or the guy that makes 60 cold calls a day? | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Love-Bombing women to accelerate emotional intimacyDo this to a woman with BPD and she will ruin your life | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 05:15 PM |
| 3 | What do other girls think when they see you approach?It might not be your cup of tea and that’s ok, but in my experience cougars/milfs are straight up grateful to be approached in person. It can be highly flattering to them. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 12:51 PM |
| 8 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?Your best resource is time. Time to meet women and time to spend on women. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | “Do you do this often?”I’ve done this many many times and it always got a laugh and defused the player accusation, which is what OP was looking for. Delivery is key but I’m guessing you can’t visualize how somebody could say this with a tongue in cheek tone. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:01 PM |
| 4 | “Do you do this often?”“Yeah I think I probably slept with like 100 or so girls last month 😉” | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid itHoly shit just order a Diet Coke then, not that complicated | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 07:47 PM |
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