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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Disabled ex husband | Resident_Annual6752 | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 08:33 AM |
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| 2 | What did your partner get you for Christmas?A brand new cell phone, also had a really cool real wooden case for the new cell that he told his brother to get me when his brother asked him what I'd like and some more other sweet things from his family members | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Shady pastGirl, please be safe. Had similar experience before, didn’t end well. Please take care | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Disabled ex husbandYes. We divorced in 2019. But I wanted to help him during his sickness since I still see him as someone I care about. He is now back to work, finally able to walk again and we're no longer talking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Disabled ex husbandI would love to believe that. September 2019, I left our house to go to the ER by myself. But it was me, not him. That's how the first day of our separation started. Last year, I was in not so pleasant situation where I had to work and provide for almost the entire family and fighting for my dad's cancer. Waited for him to come see my dad at least, or see me. He said he would come, but always came up with excuses last minutes or MIA. But then again, most of the time the reason was he wasn't feel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Disabled ex husbandWe separated from 2019. In my culture, we're married religiously and legally. He divorced me in religion term, when we figured that his gf got pregnant. That was why my family demanded us to religiously re-marry if we want to get back together. But legally, we haven't filed for the divorce yet. His tumor was a low grade benign one. But his recovery might be more challenging and takes a while. He's partially paralyzed. He's now able to walk with a cane, but still unstable. His left hand still cou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Disabled ex husbandYou're totally right. Dating makes me feel bad. Even though can't deny that i had these thoughts of "maybe someday". Like daydreaming. I keep having all these guilty feelings to even think about it. Even to think about how I want kids. I might be just tired of having to provide and work, etc. But again, I can't just quit and bye. My family needs me, he needs me too. I'm thinking maybe what I need to do is to try to accept things. Just for what it is. And not thinking about what I think it should… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Disabled ex husbandYes legally | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Disabled ex husbandReligiously we did. Legally we haven't | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Disabled ex husbandYes | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Disabled ex husbandNo i didn't yet. He works for a govt, and here where we live the process of divorce for families which working for the govt could take a long ride. But again, I chased him to be back. I don't know why, I know our marriage wasn't healthy. But I did took him back over and over again. So I am the problem here I see | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Disabled ex husbandNo kids with him. But while we separated, he has a son with other woman. Yet to be fair, I met other man too. I am insane yes. My family keeps telling me about this. I kept taking him back if it wasn't me chasing, forcing him to be back. I ran away from my family to go back to him. Since my family wouldn't let me close to him unless he's really coming to me and do a proper re-marry if he really was serious. But last year, my dad had a cancer. So I needed to be back to my hometown to be closer to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Disabled ex husbandI'm aware of that. One of reasons I feel hopeless as well | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 12:35 PM |
| 11 | Disabled ex husbandI don't know why but I just can't see him that way. Even though we're over, marriage wise. And I don't feel like seeing myself having kids with him. Which was one of reasons why we separated at the first place almost 4 years ago. But he was visiting my family when we discovered his brain tumor last year. We can't let him go facing this alone, even though yes he probably won't end up alone since he has his family. But it might be me being a control freak or I don't know, I can't leave him there. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Disabled ex husbandWow, honestly. Your words make me want to cry. Thank you, I don't know how to describe what I feel really. I might be out of touch with my emotional side. But you describe what I feel well. Thank you so much | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Disabled ex husbandHis family doesn't really want to do anything for him. Recently, one of his family member came over that I thought finally she might be one truly cares about him. And maybe helping us with supporting him. But ended up with her asking me for money. I can't see him going through this alone. Especially knowing how his family doesn't bother to really do something for him. It upsets me and my family. At the other hand. I can't lie about the fact that every single day I feel exhausted, praying for a m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/23 09:58 AM |
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