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| 5 | Wife cheatedYou are not lost---you are grieving and you are trying to survive at the same time. Makes complete sense that you are feeling disoriented and also---broke open. First things first: please insist that you both go to a mediator to make joint decisions on what happens NOW in the interim before you are physically separated and then legally divorced. Work through with a trained facilitator choices around cash flowing two living spaces, the process of going from join accounts to a single one and finan… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 02:01 PM |
| 1 | One thing divorce taught me about being a fatherFew people talk about how divorce and two households can be an opportunity for either party to become a better parent. It doesn't "force" this---because some people don't improve, they actually regress as a leader for others. At least 75%% of the men I work with in separation and divorce improve their emotional intelligence, their parenting confidence and closeness and making sure their actions match their values (mind you: these are people who seek this out and pay for guidance on how to do it-… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Success StoryThis is meaningful---when everything feels like survival, we need 1) simple to use tools that track where we are (a google sheet separated with tabs for coparenting, finances, separation logistics) 2) tools to care for ourselves (exercise, therapy, easy to repeat routines) and 3) support outside of ourselves (reddit, friends, mentors, a divorce coach). TAME THAT SINGLE THING FIRST. Well said. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/26 12:56 PM |
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