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lmao, literally the entire post. OP is an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:47 AM
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exactly i seen it a lot of my times in my previous workplace, where a woman who successful career wise, earning strong 6 figs but emotionally broken inside because of not prioritising their relationship/finding one and having a family
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:01 AM
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the fact that is the quiet part, is why so many dudes end up in relationships where the women aint actually WANT him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:24 PM
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i can relate to this a lot We get told a lot to do things for ourselves, which is definitely something you should do as a man...but having a woman you love more than anything and want to try your best for - you simply can't replicate that same burning desire to want to conquer the world for, if the motive is just for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:01 AM
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yes that is the key part Many men end up getting sex and getting married However, that does not mean the woman actually enjoys the sex in a lustful way with them or feels completely in love with the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:06 AM
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lol guys easily can sexualise themselves with fashion choices. the reason why ppl say they cant is because most guys dont have the builds or aesthetics to sexualise themselves women can by default generally due to how the genders work and tits/ass/skin showing etc not all men have the things needed by default to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:54 AM
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lol that mentality about 'only needing to look hot when single' is if people have no self-respect for themselves or their loved one. you dont need to be in 10/10 standards all the time but if you dont make the effort, dont feel bad when your partner isnt as attracted to you over time if you have a strong mentality, you are supposed to maintain and take pride of your appearance and the way you carry yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:50 AM
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yep opportunity cost of being In a relationship you truly don’t want to be in, is that you will miss out on someone you may have connected with better than anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:45 AM
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you’re a guy in your mid 30s and realised women can get laid whenever they want? have you been living under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:20 PM
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It depends on what you're after. If she is a woman you genuinely want to build something real with and for life, it is better being honest about the past as you can live without the internal guilt. And also it's a good feeling knowing your partner knows even the parts you arent too proud of But the fact you might be worried about cheating and getting bored of her eventually, points that she might not currently be the woman you are 100% sure of wanting to build something real with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:30 PM
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does ur wife know bout your hoe phase btw and how recent it was? if so, did she care? if not, will you? my gf did know about my history which is spread throughout and i slept with a few girls before meeting her...even 1 while we were talking but not exclusive. but i was honest about it and it took her some time to process it but it was fine over time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:12 PM
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i agree with u wtknight and im the 'hot guy' who does that with women, casually Imagining myself getting a gf/wife who has been discarded like that where she lusted over some guy in a primal way, i just cant do. There are women who were nice souls but they still had me over on the 1st meeting before we even met outside sometimes. I dont think they are bad humans but my ape brain cant get over that, if i had a girl i was considering to make my gf, let alone wife up. as a result i usually date gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:48 PM
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curious to know what you define as chad treatment? what do you tend to notice in how they treat guys they settle for vs guys they dont settle for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:42 PM
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Every girl who has casually slept with me wanted to be my gf / me to commit to them lol. If you’re the best good looking option they have and are relatively fun, they want to at least go on dates and hang out with you. They still slept with me though after telling them I wasn’t after any serious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:00 AM
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I'm quite good looking, yeah, which helps without a doubt. But also being charismatic & being able to escalate and create a sexual/romantic dynamic on the date is quite important as well. Some guys might try too hard where it doesn't come off as natural or feels a bit awkward when trying to flirt. if a girl likes you, she wants you to give off flirty energy, don't treat her like a friend. This friend in particular has gone on 10+ dates in the recent month and every single one texted after 'it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:43 PM
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u/Nidken im with you lmao, crazy to see some of the cuck comments here imagine your so going out irl and getting turned on by other men and thinking you're lucky that it gets her juices flowing enough, for her to come back and bang you cant believe what i read sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:17 PM
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u/Brave_Job6271 the biological double standard is definitely a thing As i said in another thread, a lot of women would look past a man's past if he is a 'fuckboi' as her hope is he is ready to commit to her and she is special I have slept with a fair amount of women and i only go for girls who are conservative by nature sexually & never had hookups. Generally these women get very sexual for me as it's often a case that they just simply never had a man to unlock that side out of them. None of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:18 PM
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Yeah I’m literally #1 and my friend is #2. I always tell a girl im always looking for casual too as I don’t like to deceive (no need to either). Sometimes this just results in us skipping even meeting outside and she has me over. Other times they just say that’s okay and we can still hang out, which leads to sex after as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:51 AM
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yeah im literally #1 and my friend is #2 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:49 AM
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sex with someone they arent attracted to happens a lot, but it happens in relationships. where the sex is done by the woman because it is expected in the relo/they see it as their duty. hooks up not as much, as that is usually lust driven or has some level of lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:52 PM
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not rly women aren't fan-girling over the forbes richest top 10 list lol, it doesn't make them wet. money doesnt create the same primal urge that raw physical attraction does and never will. some women might go crazy for that level of power, but not from a lustful sexual perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:50 PM
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lol yeah the difference is a lot of women would look past a man's past if he is a 'fuckboi' as her hope is he is ready to commit to her and she is special most men would not commit to a girl if she's hot, if he knows she was fking some guy every other week lol. and the men who do, are not gonna be the high quality type of dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:57 PM
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"It seems to be that being the guy she's willing to fuck even if it means she'll never see me again is a much more exclusive club with a higher bar." im in this league, and you're right, only a small % of men experience this. it goes beyond just having good looks, but you need to have the charisma to match it and make them feel things emotionally/get them excited, flirting essentially. that's what creates the whole package where they lust in ways they never have done for guys in the past. but ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:30 PM
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Maybe not as high as 25% but low 20's 15% you will see some vascularity in the arms or a bit of separation, which there is 0 of, lots of fat in them but yeah he has muscle underneath the fat, a lot of dad bods lack the muscle mass and don't look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:18 PM
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that is not 15% lol, that is like 20-25% bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:11 PM
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when you say they dont realise until its to late they arent attracted to them, you mean physically or that + emotionally connected? and why do you think they jump into these relationships without something like that feeling apparent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:02 AM
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100% the true primal physical lust factor is what majority of men will never ever experience from a woman. its kinda scary because if you dont know how its supposed to be like it, then you might be with a woman who literally doesn't want you in that passionate, raw, romantic way you would want a girl who is into you like that would do anything for you (if we are talking about if she had feelings too) to keep you happy and be happy to fuck you whenever + do whatever you want to her the way they t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:09 PM
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great post. the issue w/ this subreddit is that it's focused a lot more on initial attractions but a long-term healthy & loving relationship requires a lot more this type of thought and care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:38 PM
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getting women through leveraging your finances is a great way to get a woman who doesn't really want you with their raw desire lol each to their own, but i wouldn't be able to be in a relationship knowing that every day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:36 AM
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yeah what u/Junior_Ad_3086 said i am an expert at this as i go autistically deep into their past lol, you pick up on small behaviours and reactions they have towards certain things as well. you can tell when a girl is genuinely the reserved type vs likely more out there and hook-up like
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:56 PM
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u/LevelCaterpillar1830 you essentially described me to a tea the girl im seeing knows i have a bit more of a promiscuous/wilder past but i admittedly have some issues when it comes to the past of any girl i decide to date seriously. only ever dated virgins but now that im 25 and single, its a bit harder. she only ever did something with a boyfriend but after a lot of digging, it was easier for me to swallow once i found out she didnt enjoy the sex, didnt let him kiss her during foreplay, only di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:41 PM
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also im the type of guy that wants the primal attraction from the woman i want to marry i'd want her to first want me for a combination of my looks/personality first and then we can think about the more 'stable' factors that help sustain a relationship like finances, stable incomes etc down the line but if the woman is already thinking about the stable factors with a guy, without first developing the primal attraction then gg, the guy is essentially going to be getting the 'safe, stable guy' tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:40 PM
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lol i dont have my job or any education on my hinge and i got well over 100+ matches i dont drive or work either rn and that never has put off a woman, im 25 fyi too. as long as i dont sound like a bum (which im not), they really don't mind and brush it aside
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:00 PM
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u/Submersiv yep i mentioned something similar to this the other day "the only thing i'd say is sexual desire is usually based purely off attraction, both physical and emotional for women being rich and being high status only helps if the woman already finds the man attractive, or else it isnt really the same raw or primal energy as you would want." it's kinda funny how as of recent, with the rise of masculinity/red pill culture, how much value is being put into success/money as a man to get chic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:43 PM
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u/throwaway164_3 100% and many men will go their entire lives without knowing this. i slept with several women who only ever had 1 ex and after they had sex with me a few times, they always stated how much more exciting and hot the experience was vs anything they ever had in the past 1 of them wanted to still sleep with me while the guy she was seeing for her to get over me (i didnt want be her bf), was buying her food, picking her up from work - and didnt even kiss her a month in lol the only t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:36 PM
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yeah this is super common, they use their own money/career etc as the basis of attracting women...but when said woman is attracted to them because of that, they think she suddenly will be attracted to other things about him too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:45 PM
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agreed, the important things will be having the looks, charisma and confidence in the beginning that being said, the other traits in my opinion are definitely important for a healthy & fulfilling long term relationship. getting through the door and dating is one thing, or continuing to date for many years but a healthy relationship will require the other traits in the long-term in terms of the initial getting through the door, the things you mentioned are the most important
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:40 AM
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found the virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:27 PM
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can confirm this is true u/krmaml - all the girls that are into me right now have a case of being an alpha widow once they get interest from me. One of them is withholding sex with the guy she moved onto to get over me, but recently texted me to say that she missed our sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:36 PM
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