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2

True that - "the pendulum is society" We absorb the moment
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 06:08 PM
13

Staying off of the consumption train, and sticking on the creation/action train, is the bold message to send.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 03:21 AM
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That's not a bad analogy. Casino not a good way to make money on average Dating app not a good way to connect/date on average Joining someone else's system is fails metric
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 06:02 PM
1

Alone is great
/r/seduction09/09/17 06:08 AM
20

Girls who want to see you make time to see you
/r/seduction04/09/17 04:40 AM
2

This past week I got a piece of my content production jumpstarted again. This week I push hard on it. Fitness is good and in the right direction. Need to do more leg work.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 04:54 PM
5

Saying no is good
/r/seduction04/08/17 06:29 AM
1

I see it as a good thing. Old people can't reach out for new people in this form of lead generation. It's a sign of life.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 05:01 AM
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It has nothing to do with you. It's just pictures of people. Your life is you.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 12:17 AM
0

Maybe 100 a week. Not all for dating. Some to make content with or to mess with or dance with or variety purposes.
/r/seduction22/07/17 12:29 AM
2

1 week is a super long time. I might read two books by then. If a girl told me to slow down, which I don't think I've ever heard in that way, on to another girl it would be. Also he messed up by acting as if you were a thing. He left you no choice but to say this wack stuff after that. Wack begets wack.
/r/seduction22/07/17 12:26 AM
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Hey it's alright because you were impressed by how cool she was right? That was enough for you right? That you spent time with someone who impressed you. When you close the tension loop through being impressed or sharing your feelings like that, it's game over.
/r/seduction22/07/17 12:22 AM
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It's not something to mention
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:51 AM
5

If you're with someone and mess up the dynamic by clearly over-chasing then close up shop. Don't mess up the investment ratio in the first place. You can always feel when you're shortchanging yourself. At that point, stop chasing and forget about the person.
/r/seduction19/07/17 02:25 AM
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You have to be in control of the situation. Don't fall into it. When you get that ugly feeling that they are not investing and you are starting to do more, leave. Don't fall into the situation. There isn't any reward for falling into the situation.
/r/seduction19/07/17 02:08 AM
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https://soundcloud.com/respondswithimprov/appearance
/r/seduction18/07/17 05:01 AM
2

It's a huge deal. World of difference
/r/seduction18/07/17 04:21 AM
1

Yeah there's nothing worth taking so serious
/r/seduction16/07/17 04:30 PM
3

I always reach out. Interacting with the people always gives understanding
/r/seduction16/07/17 04:30 PM
2

This thread is hilarious. Would read again A+++
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:03 AM
1

Thanks man. You're on your way~
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:46 PM
1

That's cool man. You're trying your best. Always think about what you would think if someone else was doing the stuff you are doing right now in order to get your attention and interest. Would you like them more?
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:16 PM
1

Well it sounds like you could get other girls if you wanted, so it is nice of you to be generously thinking about this girl and her situation.
/r/seduction21/06/17 05:18 PM
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That question you just asked gives her all the power in the situation. Take the power back for yourself. Every second you put into impressing her is a second that you lose expressing yourself, so that someone else could see you as the person to chase.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:18 PM
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You're putting all this energy into someone who is not thinking about you
/r/seduction21/06/17 07:08 AM
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Yeah we look around and see loads of self-generated content to generate future content from nothing. This marketing works on too many people.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:44 AM
2

Remind yourself that there's nothing funny about your energy being handed to the girl to make love with someone else.
/r/seduction14/06/17 02:26 AM
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He's not better than me. It's not a protective mindset. I'd rather be me than him any day of the week. I have my mind. Evolutionary responses are behind the times.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:38 AM
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Not at all
/r/seduction25/05/17 03:54 PM
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Yeah sounds about right. All I've done is real world so I can't speak for the online side but I know the real world side doesn't have layers of nonsense built on top.
/r/seduction17/05/17 01:14 AM
2

Hey I met someone I dated for 2 months at Target. Good stuff man.
/r/seduction17/05/17 01:08 AM
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Alternatively, if the terms "embarrassment" and "randomly" don't mean anything to you, go socialize with people without context.
/r/seduction12/02/17 05:44 PM
1

The date is meaningless. Don't stress over things that are nothing
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:21 PM
1

This is true they are steps along the way
/r/seduction09/02/17 03:25 AM
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The game
/r/seduction09/02/17 03:25 AM
1

Key is to not be weak. If you go weak it will deviate down from what you are looking for down to dating partner or down to "friend". The other answers gave more in-depth info on how to act
/r/seduction04/02/17 05:46 PM
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This video from four days ago may have value for you with regards to this question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uy4eOJ6LGYo
/r/seduction04/02/17 05:39 PM
2

This video from 4 days ago may have some value for you with regards to this question:
/r/seduction04/02/17 05:39 PM
2

Hey man. Good on you for reaching out to people. I've talked with probably at least 10 strangers a day for a few years now and I still like checking out your posts sometimes because you're doing something and writing about it.
/r/seduction04/02/17 02:51 AM
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data collection and feedback processing
/r/seduction29/01/17 05:57 PM
1

You attached some of your identity to her. You also have some laziness in place. She's not who you think she is. She's not who you think she is
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:03 PM
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I'm pretty cold in my texting, but I am not recommending it for others. It fits my style. The average individual would think I was an asshole based on my texting. The key is that it fits how you were in person.
/r/seduction12/01/17 04:15 AM
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Yeah I'm with Ryan. Go as far as you can in person. The texting is a low-bandwidth way to communicate.
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:52 AM
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Certainly. What is life for but trying
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:22 AM
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Well then it sounds like you should either look to find a social circle or create one of your own
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:05 AM
1

Stop having a crush. It is a sign of scarcity on your part
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:01 AM
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I meet more people than at least 99% of people, and they are on the street in active areas, at grocery stores, in cafes, and at bookstores or parks. Theoretically you could also message people on reddit or post in certain subreddits to meet people, but that's not really my thing.
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:00 AM
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If you're great then she's lucky to have you join
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:36 PM
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Yeah I'm with this. I get more energy along the way
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:36 PM
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Oh cool you weren't being sarcastic. Yeah I would say just think of them as evolutionary response mechanisms. They are there to motivate you to make moves. Everything makes sense based on that. Your attitude is good by the way because you are open to learning
/r/seduction27/12/16 06:01 AM
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You missed the point. Separately, if you understood girls well you wouldn't get irritated at how they reject guys. Your attitude also needs work
/r/seduction27/12/16 04:50 AM
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If you are going to compare your efforts/challenges with anyone, do it with other guys. Comparing or thinking about the processes or perks of girls is not for you. It's like getting annoyed at a plant for being able to photosynthesize.
/r/seduction27/12/16 03:29 AM
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I'm similar Your only two options are to over-invest from your end, but that seems somewhat nonsensical The other option is to keep going until you meet someone who causes you to invest more, and if you don't find someone who causes that, then it's not your fault Long live abundance
/r/seduction27/12/16 03:27 AM
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Yeah man. You can't pay me enough to collect regret
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:50 PM
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If you try things then the pressure is off of you. If you avoid things then you collect things to regret
/r/seduction24/12/16 12:33 PM
1

You should be tired of her by now. End it
/r/seduction24/12/16 12:31 PM
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One time I took a date to a park at night and we sat on a bench freezing. It was pretty terrible. I was shivering after a bit.
/r/seduction17/12/16 01:58 AM
1

Don't let age impact what you are doing
/r/seduction04/12/16 06:00 AM
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I'm 32. It goes well. Don't think small. You are a kid to an 80 year old. I meet new people all the time
/r/seduction01/12/16 06:35 AM
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Yeah
/r/seduction27/11/16 10:24 PM
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Don't take social media, unless you have a plan to use it for your own purposes, or now you're on weaker terms.
/r/seduction27/11/16 08:39 PM
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Use it as a reward when the person does/says something that makes you want to reward that.
/r/seduction27/11/16 08:38 PM
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You're going to die one day. If that doesn't give you the balls to try things, you're not internalizing it.
/r/seduction26/11/16 06:27 PM
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The inverse relationship of relationships
/r/seduction26/11/16 05:35 AM
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Yeah opportunities will always be there
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:19 AM
1

Yeah I support this framework. Not only that, but if you do feel that you are amazing, the other individual should want to be with you
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:18 AM
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My best dates are on the streets and involve lots of activity and carrying and sharing warmth
/r/seduction12/11/16 11:42 PM
1

Then I talk with both? Fear of another guy is a choice you are making
/r/seduction13/10/16 02:36 AM
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It's not a good first date. You're thinking it's adequate to continue and hoping for more. You aren't making a strong connection with them.
/r/seduction07/10/16 04:57 PM
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That's a good one
/r/seduction07/10/16 04:47 PM
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Don't let her dictate your thoughts and emotions. Who is she? You attached your identity to hers. Separate it and stand up for yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/16 04:27 PM
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Think about it a different way. The girl isn't actually there. It's one's own level of neediness showing through. leprogrammist is right about it either being on or off
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:52 PM
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You have to try until you are. When you are, you don't have to try as much
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:48 PM
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When you feel a moment of strong connection, use that moment to move things forward, or else you are taking the moment for granted and getting spoiled in the emotion, losing out on moving things forward.
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:44 PM
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Yeah as others have alluded to, the lying is the weak point here because a winner wouldn't resort to lying. The wrong dynamic is set with this set of people, but future sets of people could go well if you learn from this.
/r/seduction07/10/16 03:43 PM
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You're leading but you're also observing yourself and enjoying your own presentation and behavior. They get to partake in your energy but you aren't focused on their takeaway. You want to do well for yourself.
/r/seduction26/07/16 02:16 AM
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Don't worry about what you could have done better. It is time for you to take this new knowledge and experience and discipline yourself
/r/seduction23/05/16 01:01 PM
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No one out there will compare with that first girlfriend of yours because you invested in her more than you ever will again. This is an important thing. You had to make such an error before you could recognize it. Your disappointment is based on how much of an investment of time and neural pathway building you put in another person.
/r/seduction22/05/16 08:53 PM
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This situation has shown your weakness in dealing with your "friends" and this one girl(out of thousands). Too much external thinking, not enough internal strength
/r/seduction22/05/16 08:50 PM
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That's what it is about. Most of my successes come from my balls
/r/seduction17/04/16 04:45 PM
2

You don't attach your happiness to the person. Then you float into the sky
/r/seduction12/04/16 05:53 AM
2

Keeping track of things is helpful.
/r/seduction12/04/16 05:52 AM
1

Yeah. Your inner world is very valuable. Sharing it so much that you are entertaining others also devalues it. Hold most of it back and give just a taste to people. If I give you a Tesla for free, you won't value it the worth of an actual Tesla. If I give you a quick test-drive in one, you'll be thinking about buying one for the next three years. Give the test-drive, take note of the results, continue what works, but put no weight in the results. Take the other person to a point of joy, and when…
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:37 AM
2

I'd say there are three camps: Having things going great in life. Things go well with others here. Having things going poorly in life but acting like they are going great. This can work on some for a period of time, but it has an expiration date. Having things going poorly and presenting the reality of it. Would not go well with nearly anyone.
/r/seduction04/04/16 05:52 AM
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I'm similar to you. The reason of their lack of interest in that presentation of you is that it comes from weakness to have to perform. Only do it from a position of strength/self-amusement, and cut it off at the right time(after you provide a positive feeling). Use your sense of humor like a charm, and cut it off if you feel the other person doesn't appreciate it. Don't give out free validation. Think about if you were them. The guy who just makes you laugh is the guy who makes you laugh. The g…
/r/seduction04/04/16 05:47 AM
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Never make someone else your everything. That is the lesson you are learning the hard way. You are your everything. Don't insult yourself like this next time.
/r/seduction20/03/16 03:06 PM
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The right guy makes you want to open up and he says or shows more about what he likes.
/r/seduction19/10/15 04:31 AM
2

Would you ignore a request to date someone you liked?
/r/seduction11/10/15 11:09 PM
1

Save your hope for accomplishing your own goals
/r/seduction06/10/15 04:23 AM
1

Books are bad for this
/r/seduction06/10/15 04:21 AM
1

I think she is alluding to sexual activity. I can't confirm though. I would check local almanac.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:48 AM
3

No one is in a big group. Everyone is alone no matter how many people are around them. Don't be fooled. Who cares about that one girl? Get to know multiple people. Say hi and find out about them. Maybe you will like someone else. Maybe you meet a cool guy. Maybe you decide to start programming C++.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:46 AM
1

How do you think you run into people. Cold approach and online dating is the only way other than through work groups or meetup or such. Do you want to go door to door? Well that is cold approach too. Nothing is creepy except the word creepy. It's a judgmental limiting word.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:43 AM
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Why didn't you kiss her? Why didn't you touch her. That's 98% of it. The other stuff you do doesn't register. She's gone, onto the next.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:41 AM
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You can't make up for lost time. You can make upcoming time a good time. The things you want are happening somewhere right now. Think about how and where. Think about why you are not there. Also think if you actually want it or just want to show it off.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:40 AM
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Who cares if she has a boyfriend or is married? Keep it rollin'. It's not your job to be the moral police. Good talking to person though.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:38 AM
1

Weak sauce. I have none of these issues because I see myself as the party. Wherever I go, the party goes. That means if a girl leaves, the party is still here. If she goes with another guy, the party is still here. If another guy seems to be doing well, that is great, but the party goes with me. If you actually believe this like I do, no issues.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:33 AM
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It sounds like you are a big peanut. Go up to person, try saying something, record results. Try again, record results. After a while try to piece apart what is good or bad. Maybe a shirt is good or bad or a tone or presentation is good or bad. Don't be a 6'2 peanut.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:31 AM
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You are right that not a lot of people approach people. This is a great thing. If you are worried about being weird, you are losing the power play.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:28 AM
2

Yeah what the other guy said is right because the group effect is in place. You can also go the route I would take and be outlandish in a way that is beyond the whole group, and then everyone is more surprised than controlled. It might not suit your personality.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:27 AM
1

This is reasonable yeah. I do the opposite and often make it awkward or out of context so I can filter out the regular folks.
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:25 AM
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You wouldn't want him anymore if he did.
/r/seduction13/09/15 10:59 PM
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Not going to work. You are for his fun times.
/r/seduction13/09/15 02:04 AM
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Talk to one and connect that one to another, either literally or through conversation.
/r/seduction13/09/15 02:01 AM
1

Play with them. It will be okay.
/r/seduction13/09/15 01:59 AM
2

Come on man. You were inside of this person. Don't overthink the situation.
/r/seduction12/09/15 09:07 PM
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It is fine as long as you are the one choosing it and she knows it. As long as you know the person wants to be physical with you, you can do it. Be cautious with this.
/r/seduction01/09/15 05:33 AM
1

I eat apples every day lately.
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:43 PM
6

Direct is "I'm not interested." "Go away" sounds like a four year old that can't manage their surroundings. Getting feelings hurt doesn't come into play here because they're words from a stranger.
/r/seduction20/08/15 02:05 PM
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Only low quality people say "go away". Can you imagine an intelligent person saying that? Nope
/r/seduction20/08/15 05:11 AM
1

It is never bad to be with a person. Just make sure you are handling the situation and not falling into some weak form.
/r/seduction15/08/15 01:59 AM
1

I have taken pictures with strangers many a time but I can't really recommend it. No value to it
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:00 AM
1

This conveys nothing to the girl. Might as well get the phone number from a phone book.
/r/seduction26/07/15 04:46 AM
1

I hear you man. I'm big on rapport to reduce flaking and filter out some people
/r/seduction18/07/15 06:38 AM
1

Okay great that is more information
/r/seduction18/07/15 06:25 AM
3

This report is too short to build rapport.
/r/seduction18/07/15 05:35 AM
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Wrong questions. Only thing to think of when you meet with her is if she is worth your time. When that becomes a no, you leave.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:36 PM
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Ignore their interest. You're letting yourself be fooled by it.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:03 PM
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It's easy. She's not thinking of you. You're thinking of her. Think about how imbalanced that is.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:02 PM
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You're only practicing the very early part and have not progressed.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:02 PM
1

Busy means bye. Would you tell a girl you were busy?
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:01 PM
1

Stop calling them a girlfriend in your mind. You're just relating with them.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:01 PM
1

Bad question mannnnn
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:00 PM
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Related to this, you'll notice no person flakes after you have copulated with them. Keep this in mind when a flake happens. That same person would never flake on you if you had related with them in a physical capacity. Also remember that she has option 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 I would keep typing numbers but I don't want to keep typing numbers.
/r/seduction16/07/15 08:24 PM
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Hey there. This is a cool pointer. I have freestyled in my car to instrumental CDs I made for about half of my life. It was nice to see you bring this up.
/r/seduction02/07/15 02:07 AM
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The best type of response is one that takes into account the way things are. This is the opportunity that is available for all people. If you try to contact someone and they don't respond, they are not to be trusted. That is the odd way to go. That is a story that I can't understand. I just try to manage everyone as I can. This is the best response that is doable for all.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 07:52 AM
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How can you like someone who doesn't like you? It's so easy
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:28 AM
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Good call on that. If you're about something and know where you stand, noone can really alter your day in a large way.
/r/seduction08/02/15 09:27 PM
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I don't mean to be unsupportive sir. If someone is interested they don't make it some complex thing where they are working for the next two weeks. Imagine saying that to someone who came up to you with interest in dating you. How uninterested would you have to be to say that? EDIT: and my tip would be on to the next person
/r/seduction27/01/15 10:38 PM
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She's not interested
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:21 PM
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That last line is gold. Exactly. That is why I talk to strangers. I upvoted and I almost never upvote (can't remember last time I did)
/r/seduction29/12/14 11:18 PM
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I have had those feelings, but I manage them in some way for my own health. Nothing is beyond logic for we are but cells and biochemical processes. I do like the feeling of being connected with someone though. Disconnecting is a painful process
/r/seduction29/12/14 01:50 PM
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I guess man. I logic everything, so this doesn't really happen to me. I hear what you are saying though
/r/seduction29/12/14 03:56 AM
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I don't know man. I can't like someone who doesn't want to be with me. It's like not liking myself. Doesn't make sense
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:16 AM
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How can you like someone who doesn't want to be with you? It's so simple. Think about that for a bit. She doesn't want to be with you as a person. You like her with that quality in place?
/r/seduction28/12/14 05:28 PM
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Yeah it is a terrible and non descriptive term
/r/seduction01/10/14 01:08 AM
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Hi Vadim. I can appreciate your content because you are one of the few guys who is sociable on a more witty and intellectual level in some regards. It is also a calm approach that you do. I have done similar videos but they are more entertainment-based than purpose-driven. It would be cool to team up in some fashion if you will be in Los Angeles at some time. Let me know if you are interested. I'll add in a question because this is an AMA. What do you find most worthwhile in people you talk with…
/r/seduction30/09/14 07:40 PM
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