ResponsibleAd2541 Archive

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1	How can I stop feeling jealous of cool, attractive people? Look so I had a tall skinny friend whose feelings I hurt, I called him lanky, and I was surprised by the fact that he could have body image issues or what have you. I’m fat, and I thought that was a fat thing. What happened in that instance is that I realized everyone is going through it at least once in a while. But anyways, he’s a smart guy, cool hang, good listener, doesn’t talk much, certainly not charismatic but very kind, what can I say he’s a good guy but he doesn’t have it all, no one do…	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/25 01:46 AM
-4	As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist? I mean there’s plenty of confusion, it’s incredibly dumb to think women and men don’t differ on average in ways that are consequential to everyday life. The Secret Service has been in the news lately, specifically the human shield department, the best human shields are men, they are just bigger people, that’s ok. To say a woman can’t do as good of a job in a position of leadership or to claim that woman are too emotional for this or that would be a red flag. However it is true that men and woman…	/r/ExRedPill	21/07/24 08:42 PM
11	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? To put a twist on this, getting skills that net you a job that makes you financially well off and using some of that money to eat better and get in shape, all will increase the odds of attracting a partner. Even well known lanes to wealth, let’s say becoming a physician, take over a decade, nothing is free, the trade off is not a bad one at all (assuming a base level of interest in the subject and sufficient intelligence). It obviously doesn’t have to be that, but to assume one has maxed out sel…	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 12:57 AM
6	How am I so bad with girls? Honestly I never understood how the red pill got tied up with the idea that woman are mean. Some are to be clear, but by virtue of having two X chromosomes you are automatically mean. You can use ideas from psychology and evolution to conclude that it is a reasonable thing for women to be cautious and adaptive that they be picky. That all makes sense, meeting up with wrong dude might mean violence or hooking up with wrong guy, being abandoned to raise a child alone. But…mean? That never made sen…	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/23 11:39 PM
1	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? Ah fair enough, I think maybe go to different events at your local medical school, you might meet a girl there, similar interests that sort of thing. Or you can also ask your female friends if they know anyone to go on a date with, nothing wrong with an informal matchmaker. If you are vaguely religious perhaps go to church, someone will introduce you to someone.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/22 09:42 PM
1	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? Are you a physician, a nurse, biomedical engineer, PhD researcher, etc?	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/22 09:18 PM
1	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? Hmm…what field are you in?	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/22 09:02 PM
1	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? Not sure what’s up but did something bad happen to use as a child?	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/22 08:41 PM
2	Andrew tate YouTube removed No, a proper critique should feature the person’s statements you are critiquing in context. Otherwise you are opening up the door to being dismissed for taking things out of context, this or that.	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/22 05:17 PM
1	Andrew tate YouTube removed Hilldog on the case. 😂	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/22 05:15 PM
1	what can we do to pull men out of / deter men from the redpill? My sociology profession was a late-middle age gay man who had a wicked intellect and debating him on different topics he taught me an important lesson. Anyways the simple thing is no to harangue or disparage someone, be a good listener, and ask good questions. People accept thinks all the time without understanding them, see where the margin of their knowledge about something is and let them realize they aren’t so sure themself. If you go on the attack you don’t win any hearts or minds. If they …	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/22 10:29 PM
1	Opinions I going to assume you are referring to not crying. Men and woman don’t cry the same amount, all things being equal, for biological reasons relating to their different hormonal milieu. However culture can accentuate the difference or moderate the difference. It’s incorrect to say that men crying less is purely socially enforced. My understanding of the difference in suicide completion has a lot to do with more violent means, and the relative social isolation of men (specifically unmarried or wido…	/r/ExRedPill	21/06/22 02:17 AM
2	i dont know if it belongs here but This is what the Red pill community should have been. Without the misogyny and sexism. Just men comforting other men It’s really hard to hash out what specifically is a kernel of truth and what isn’t unless we made a list or something. I suppose I’ll leave it at that. 👍	/r/ExRedPill	27/03/22 01:02 AM
2	i dont know if it belongs here but This is what the Red pill community should have been. Without the misogyny and sexism. Just men comforting other men The issue with any ideology, is that you can take things to far, the red pill stuff often has some truth in it but it’s taken to some sort of extreme and that’s the problem. It’s also somewhat vague what constitutes the particular red pill stuff someone is referring to (in this situation it’s clear).	/r/ExRedPill	27/03/22 12:56 AM
7	i dont know if it belongs here but This is what the Red pill community should have been. Without the misogyny and sexism. Just men comforting other men It’s good to let it out sometimes and sometimes it makes sense to suck it up, virtue is on the mean.	/r/ExRedPill	27/03/22 12:41 AM
11	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? If you believe something that you think is true, and it isn’t, you still have to deal with the consequences of believing it. So I’d say maybe talk to your therapist about any diy research you come upon, rather than jumping to these generalizations. If something gets stuck in your head as absolute, it will drive you crazy, mate.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 04:03 AM
5	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? I think white guys struggle to understand black woman, it’s unclear why, maybe they are more independent, more role models that had to go it alone. I dated a biracial girl who was raised by her aunt and uncle. Her mother had MS. 🤷‍♂️	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 03:51 AM
18	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? Your mental illness sounds like it’s playing a role here. It sounds like you are living out the invasion of the body snatchers or something, by which I mean it strikes me that you see big muscular men and black dudes dating white women everywhere and take it to be a personal threat. Maybe go meet some muscular men at the gym and some black dudes. It might help humanize them to you. They might even give you some tips and he’ll you put on some muscle or otherwise get some fitness. Worth a try, run…	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 07:19 PM
6	I’m addicted to escorts. Oh yeah this arrangement as it stands sucks all around because presumably there are three other alternatives that you don’t know about (sort of).	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 01:42 AM
0	I’m addicted to escorts. I’m responding to the comment thread in general, in terms of the options men have. As far as casual sex go, woman have more options. Now that obviously doesn’t mean who one gets into a serious relationship with isn’t more of an even playing field. It’s just sort of how it worked out.	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 01:36 AM
3	Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective? Yeah, beauty can quantified and agreed upon, so I suppose you can say what is generally beautiful. How that applies to an individual, I’d say you can always get in shape, work to get a better job, etc. You can also be a more generous and kinder person. There are all sorts of ways to be a better person and generally that makes you more attractive	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 01:06 AM
1	Ex-redpiller but still MGTOW? MGTOW?	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 01:03 AM
-1	I’m addicted to escorts. I believe the numbers of casual sex on dating apps are 20% of the men have sex with 80% of the women. It’s a quality and quantity question. Yikes, ya know	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 12:59 AM
6	Real reason women divorce most men (sources in the post) I mean that’s a lot of words to say a good mother finds a good father attractive. What’s unfortunate is when good parents go separate ways.	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 04:21 AM
1	What is the red pill to a sick guy? What do sick people do with this ideology? I’m not “shilling”. How many times did I say “talk to your doctor” and I went out of my way to not paint this as a miracle cure. To me if I was in the same situation, I’d definitely see if there was anything else to try, at the same time rejecting modern medicine would be a bad move so that’s why you don’t play that game by yourself. Some people seem to have been helped on an anecdotal basis and trying a diet under the care of a medical professional is not a high risk intervention. Now sure he m…	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/22 06:30 PM
8	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. I mean celebrating his depression isn’t good either, that doesn’t fix this.	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/22 09:12 AM
2	Rich Man and "High Value Man" being allowed to Cheat Have you heard of the Clintons	/r/ExRedPill	11/01/22 02:54 PM
1	Mod-approved - Male Suicide Research (Men who have attempted suicide, 18+, based anywhere) It’s good you are well aware of it and trying to get a good sample. That’s all. 👍best of luck with research	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/22 05:52 PM
2	Mod-approved - Male Suicide Research (Men who have attempted suicide, 18+, based anywhere) How are you deciding which subreddits to advertise on? There’s obvious ways that can bias your study group. As per Bot instructions: selection bias	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/22 09:26 PM
1	Please help...Am I missing something?? Informal matchmaking still works , ask around to friends and family. The benefit of that is that you get some prescreening for assholes and if use the family, you probably don’t have to worry about them “approving” (lol, you get what I mean) on the back end.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/22 06:29 AM
2	How true is the phrase 'Dick is abundant and low value' A big dick meth user is a good illustration, like it matters a lot who the dick is attached to. I use size as part of the example because that’s sort of what men compare. I’m not actually sure what it means for someone else to like your dick apart from liking you. In general you can be fit and good looking and if you ask a bunch of women they’d prefer you wear board shorts at the beach and not a Speedo. Our dick isn’t the most interesting thing about us. I’ve got friends that range from 9” to 4”…	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/21 05:51 PM
1	Is it ok if I don't want to pay for a woman on a first date? Yeah I mean as a guy it’s sort of the default. I personally like providing in that way, and I’m more traditional in those ways but some people aren’t and maybe it’s best that people who are similar in how they look at these things find each other, I dunno. A woman who has a more progressive worldview or who wants to signal friendship will often insist if she doesn’t want you to do that.	/r/ExRedPill	04/12/21 09:15 PM
3	Do men really have it hard and women have it easy in the dating world? Again I made no claims of an absolute. There are benefits to marrying someone who “gets” the somewhat unique nature of your job. If you think about the issues with “red pill” ideas it’s the same with any sort of worldview you take as not having exceptions. That’s what makes something extreme is not considering that something may be in a bell curve, especially human tendencies. I could apply the same to the recent iterations of feminism, the excesses are in the absolutes and the imposition of you…	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/21 03:54 AM
1	How do I unswallow the Black Pill? If you tend to dive deep into things, find a hobby that is open ended. I like building planters out of cedar fencing and growing tomatoes and hot peppers and stuff. It’s amazing how many ways you can go deep on something that is rewarding and embodied (working with your hands, growing stuff). It gets me out of my head.	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/21 01:55 AM
1	Do women only care about what you can provide? I don’t think it’s an unfair expectation of a man or wrong for a man to want to provide. At the same time, it’s not wrong to not feel that way. It’s sort of like a natural tendency that tilts things a little bit but it isn’t an absolute so it doesn’t make it wrong for a guy to stay home with the kids or all the other dynamics that people work out.	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/21 01:52 AM
2	“Men/women are disposable” sentiment is HORRIBLE and needs to stop immediately When I’ve heard of descriptions of men being disposable, I don’t think it was a statement of preference rather an observation. So I wouldn’t say that would make someone saying that “horrible.” But yeah, no one has much sympathy for a guy who won’t get a job and I think not having a job has a huge negative effects on a guy.	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/21 01:48 AM
11	Do men really have it hard and women have it easy in the dating world? I think our problems are different when it comes to dating and for what purpose you are dating. One thing that’s pretty obvious is that success and status isn’t as important for a woman to get a man than vice versa. But I don’t think that’s the woman’s fault or the man’s fault, nor do I think it’s always true or inherently bad. 🤷‍♂️	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/21 01:26 AM