| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1491 | You weren’t cheated on, HE IS A CHEATER | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | Responsible_Cherry29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 12:16 AM |
| 381 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence* | STRATEGY | Responsible_Cherry29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 373 | FDS taught me to use a burner number, I’m thankful I listened | Story time ☕ | Responsible_Cherry29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 358 | Coffee dates = $3 / hour bargain-bin emotional labour | QUEEN SH*T | Responsible_Cherry29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 10:35 PM |
| 290 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLD | STRATEGY | Responsible_Cherry29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:41 PM |
| 206 | Gold flags over green. Put your phone away and have a peaceful night. | MINDSET SHIFT | Responsible_Cherry29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 0 | nVm SiGnS - but MY guy is green flags, story inside!! | QUEEN SH*T | Responsible_Cherry29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:30 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 79 | You weren’t cheated on, HE IS A CHEATERI am loving the idea of a talk show called SCROTE SPOTLIGHT 🤣 today’s topic: the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:32 AM |
| 11 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*God forbid he ever need personal care after an accident or poor health. Zero respect. He’s the gross one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 19 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*I love the use of the word “logistics”. This is genius. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 38 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*YEP I’m in a big city and that’s EXACTLY it. They want to know where I sit financially and socially. If my career is important to benefit them, they’re not a match for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 39 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*Safety first, always. If OLD is risky based on being high profile, don’t listen to your friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 43 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*I too swipe left on those who I deem unsuitable for me based on their career. However, I don’t think my career should be a contributing factor to a man pursuing dating me. It’s simply ammunition for a NVM who lied and said “engineer” to waste my time. On the flip, for ladies who are students, they are often seen as vulnerable. And yes, there’s SO MANY clues they reveal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 17 | but women are the gold diggers 🙄90 cent venmo request for coffee? I thought a man buying MY $3 coffee was bad. YIKES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 58 | Coffee dates = $3 / hour bargain-bin emotional labourYou’re bang on about future efforts. Chemistry testing is a lie anyways. They simply see a pic and want to consume us, that’s why they shoot their shot. We are the ones who require the vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:19 AM |
| 46 | Coffee dates = $3 / hour bargain-bin emotional labourEXACTLY. In my own time, alone, I eat at 5 star restaurants, because I like to. So I’m supposed to downgrade to accommodate a man? Nooooo thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:15 AM |
| 58 | Coffee dates = $3 / hour bargain-bin emotional labourYep, “we should go back to my place, it’s just around the corner”. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:12 AM |
| 21 | Not even surprisedStory reads like a duped woman who was sold a marriage dream and took on role of step mommy and bangmaid. This was written in a very deliberate way with the intention of hiding the “partners” gender. It’s not an easy read; it’s verbal gymnastics. She’s protecting HIM. Or could be the OP is trying to get unbiased situational advice, without naming him as a man. Which is sad she felt she had to write it this way. We’ve seen this story before where wild suggestions pop up in the comments like allow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:53 PM |
| 14 | This man explains men so clearly. Understanding men nowComparing a woman to a car: she’s a means to an end. An OBJECT to get him from point A to B. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 02:07 AM |
| 14 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDHatfishing! I’ve never heard this term before, but oh my gosh yes. Something so off about 5/5 pics in a hat. Let’s see that brow... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:06 AM |
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