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Effort makes a difference only when the looks are closer. Are you mad that a good-looking man isn't interested in an unattractive woman? Ugly men are publicly shamed for even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:35 PM
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Exactly my question, why is women's attraction more superficial and men's more based on effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:33 PM
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They are not guaranteed, but effort is a major factor men weigh in attractiveness. Women, on the other hand, don’t care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:31 PM
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I've changed my mind solely based on a woman's effort, whether it's helping me out, asking how my day was, checking in on me, or simply giving compliments. This isn't just me, almost every man I know feels the same. Contrary to popular belief, men are not as superficial as society makes us out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:29 PM
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As a man, almost every man I know finds the simplest of effort as attractive. Try complementing an average man, there's a high chance he'll become interested in you. Obviously the pre requisite is that you are atleast close to the average women's attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:26 PM
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I didn't get that, could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:23 PM
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I think its called friend zoning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:19 PM
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All I'm saying is that it doesn't matter much whether a man is good or bad, women care mostly about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:29 PM
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That's my point, being good doesn't make a difference; it's negligible to women. So why do they complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:26 PM
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Good men also mask less, which hurts their chances. Maybe we should ask why women penalize men for being honest early on while rewarding those who mask? What gets punished is avoided, and what gets rewarded is repeated. Women who prioritize good men find them easily, while those who prioritize social validation often end up with bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:25 PM
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Yet these 'mosnters' are the only men women chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:20 PM
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That's what I'm getting at, being a good guy is just a bonus, not a priority for what women look for in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:17 PM
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When I was average, I went for below-average women. Even then, I was still fit compared to most men since I worked out regularly, I just lacked style and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:14 PM
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Not really. I've been attracted to women simply because they're good people, but I avoid good women because I'm not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:12 PM
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The problem as a whole is there is lots of filtering that need to be done. That's what confuses me, women say they filter out bad men, yet they actively chase after them. It seems like they don't really filter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:10 PM
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Real-life experience: I didn't get women when I was good and average, but somehow, I get women now that I'm fit and toxic. Look at the men women go after and who they prefer/desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:07 PM
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the bad men disguise themselves as good men Not really, it's just a cope to avoid taking accountability. Every time I see a woman say this, the guy always had glaring red flags that she ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:05 PM
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I agree, women who want good men get good men easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:01 PM
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Where do I look?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:18 AM
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Trust me, it happens often. We hold other men accountable. I may be toxic, but there are lines I wouldn’t let men cross without standing up for women. I’ve defended women when I saw a friend demean one for approaching him, and I’ve called out men for exposing personal details about their girlfriends. Yet, I’ve never once seen a woman call out her friends for doing the same. In fact, I’ve seen them encourage toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:50 AM
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sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:45 AM
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Okay, these are valid points. The bias effect might also make it taboo for many women to speak out against women's mistreatment of men, as they may fear being outcasted due to pressure from feminism and other women. Maybe men should prioritize supporting and defending women who stand up for men, regardless of their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:44 AM
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Because that dude didn’t say anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:51 PM
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So only hot men? Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:31 PM
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explained my life experience No, you haven’t. You need more details for it to count as a valid explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:27 PM
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As I said before, "Yeah, both men and women on PPD take shots at the other gender, but men also defend women from the other men. The opposite, however, is not true."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:23 PM
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No Im using both examples: irl and online
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:21 PM
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Yeah, both men and women on PPD take shots at the other gender, but men also defend women from the other men. The opposite, however, is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:19 PM
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I said; I've never 'seen' it happen; meaning I've never witnessed it in real life. I never claimed it doesn’t happen, I’m simply pointing out how rare it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:17 PM
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One article doesn’t mean much. I asked you personally, when have you ever called out your friends for judging men based on their height?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:13 PM
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Don't get me wrong, some men trash women, but plenty of men call them out and defend women. The opposite isn’t true, while many women openly trash men, almost none stand up for them. Personally, I’ve defended women despite being an asshole, yet I’ve never seen a woman do the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:11 PM
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Nope, you wish. Unfortunately, men aren't as bad as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:06 PM
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I've never seen a woman call out other women for body-shaming men. Tell me, have you ever called out your friends for judging men based on their height?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:05 PM
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You do you. Why would I care about missing out on someone undesirable? If anything, you're just eliminating some competition for me, so thanks, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:37 AM
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When it comes to dating, it definitely does but it depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:19 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:05 AM
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Thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:58 PM
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Thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:58 PM
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I’m not insulting anyone; I’m just stating the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:56 PM
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Honestly, rules for thee but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:56 PM
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Don’t be mad, I’m just stating the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:54 PM
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True, but what I’m implying is that if people here knew how ugly these women were, these women wouldn’t be as antagonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:50 PM
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Unfortunately for you, Im not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:47 PM
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I know, I’m just saying, if people here knew how ugly these women were, these women wouldn’t be as antagonistic as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:46 PM
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Yes, but we're talking bottom of the barrel women. Think about the type of women who use Reddit, now think about the kind of women who would be on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:42 PM
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Lmao, I got banned for stating the obvious; Reddit attracts the ugliest women, and this subreddit is the bottom of the barrel. The women here are definitely the most undesirable, and that's not even a stretch.I wish PPD was less anonymous; if they at least had info on body types, I know most of these women wouldn’t pipe up. So much confidence when people don’t know how ugly they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:34 PM
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It is related. They're calling out your hypocrisy. If you can’t decode the inference, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:15 PM
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They are highlighting the double standards women have regarding preferences. He uses feminists as an example to show how women's preferences are accepted, while men's preferences are criticized. Feminists often speak about egalitarianism, but he argues that this isn’t truly the case. He connects this to how women perceive their own preferences as justified while viewing men’s preferences as unfair or problematic. By using the most "egalitarian" women as an example, he aims to expose the hypocris…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:56 PM
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I don't take women's dating struggles seriously because women are not smart enough to be taken seriously. Same for me, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:40 PM
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Wahhh some women have preferences I don't meet so they must like shit dudes. Because unattractive or men that we aren't into isn't magically going to be a guy who's somehow going to treat us better and we need to stop with this. I never said this, please read my comment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:39 PM
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7'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:38 PM
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Yes yes yes, of course you do lol. That's exactly the sentiment I got from your rant Took you long enough 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:28 AM
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As I’ve already said before; I actually like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:14 AM
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Please read my comment again. I play fair. Don’t hate just because you can’t handle the taste of your own medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:07 AM
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Wahhhhh I think you missed the part where I said I actually like women’s shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:53 AM
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One of the main reasons I can’t take women’s dating struggles seriously is because their priorities are outright stupid. Their obsession with height is the perfect example, when you really break it down, it’s completely irrational. Almost all women fixate on it, prioritizing it above everything else, even at the expense of their own happiness. They’d rather choose a tall, unremarkable man who treats them as disposable than consider a short, interesting guy who would actually love and appreciate …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:36 AM
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Fair enough, I respect the consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:14 AM
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So, you agree that younger women are better in every aspect and deserve good relationships, while older women are toxic and should be discarded in a romantic sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:07 AM
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Bro u should seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:21 AM
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You gotta learn to use that privilege first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:58 AM
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You should at least be an average looking woman, slim, well-dressed, and put together, to earn that privilege. Otherwise, you’ll be part of the 'invisible women' group. Ironically, those so-called 'invisible' women are often the biggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:53 AM
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See? It's not so fun when people make baseless assumptions about your character based on nothing more than their own preconceived notions about who you are. Fair point. You do you, you have women dating privileges, so why not exploit it? Okay couple more questions. Sorry, this is more of a personal note, but how old were you when you started going for good men? Since you make men pay for first dates to vet them, do you also reveal your body count to further vet good men? Wouldn’t that work even …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:38 AM
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At what age did you start pursuing provider men? Do the men you date now know about your past? What exactly do these ‘good men’ who are putting in more effort get that the other guys didn’t? Were you more attractive when you were slutting yourself out, or are you more attractive now? You see how your whole approach is manipulative, strategically seeking out men who are willing to pay for dates so you can mooch off them. Finding provider types to take care of you. Would you be okay with your part…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:44 AM
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Let me get this straight, you're saying that in the past, you were more attracted to guys who didn’t put in effort, while making the 'good guy' work for your attention? Why did that change, and when did you decide to start valuing different qualities in men? You get that from a guy’s perspective, it's frustrating to see that the men who didn’t invest in you were treated better than the ones who actually cared. If effort translates into worse treatment, why should men keep investing in dates? If …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:03 AM
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All you did was reaffirm my claim. You used men you didn’t desire to take you out on dates, while the men you truly wanted never had to put in any effort. This once again proves that women take advantage of the ‘boyfriend material’ guy while giving their best to the ‘hookup.’Did you ever feel guilty for exploiting these men’s emotions and money? And ironically, you still expect men to pay, you expect them to waste their time and resources. Arent you a prime example of why men shouldn’t pay for d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:44 PM
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Men aren’t nearly as obsessed with looks as women are. Men judge women on changeable traits like health and personality, while women judge men on fixed qualities like height and status. Men’s preferences are flexible, women’s are rigid and unforgiving. They claim to value personality, but their actions show they prioritize raw attractiveness and status above all else. So let not compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:03 PM
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Knowing how women rate themselves... I think the 6's u mentioned are probably 3's
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:17 PM
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well, are men shallow for following ig models, watching porn, and/or deciding to shoot their shot only with the most attractive woman in their vicinity, ignoring all of the women who are actually in their league, because those women are just straight up invisible? Literally this is what women do, men do the exact opposite of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:07 PM
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No need, brother. Deep down, they know I’m right about the vile nature of women. They know my suggestions and actions are justified. Bullies deserve to be bullied. Thanks for sticking up for me, I hope you always have positive experiences with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:05 PM
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But how else are these women going to learn? They need to get a taste of their own medicine. Making them like me and then breaking up with them over a physical trait, which they are insecure about, is the best way to give them the same treatment they give men. Women hurt men because of their shallowness, I’m just giving them a perspective on how they actually behave and the consequences of their actions. Maybe don’t pretend that women care about good men. Own up to how horrible and shallow they …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:59 PM
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You've twisted the context to fit your argument. You completely ignored the role of male attractiveness here. Women constantly simp over attractive assholes while ignoring average good men. They are shallow, real life proves it, and you can’t deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:51 PM
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I am, but I see you dodged the main point, you don’t call out women, do you? This is exactly why I won’t stop being toxic. If no one holds them accountable, I have to take matters into my own hands. Women should get a taste of their own medicine. Dating them, letting them get attached, and then leaving them for a shallow reason, especially something they are insecure about, will show them firsthand how they treat men and the harm their actions cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:46 PM
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Tell women to be better first. Do you call out your female friends for lying about valuing personality over looks? Are you honest to them about their hypocritical shallowness? Do you call them out for simping over Chad while treating their boyfriends as second-rate? Do you hold them accountable for using 'Beta Billy' for his time and resources while sleeping with Chad, who puts in zero effort? Do you call them out for treating bad boys better than the good men who actually care about them? Call …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:34 PM
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u assume Im single?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:28 PM
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Similar to what i said in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:21 PM
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I agree, im toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:20 PM
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I hate dinner dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:19 PM
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I side with women who sleep with men early because they treat them like they’re truly desired. I don’t agree with men who act like a woman sleeping with you early is a bad thing. In fact, I argue that it’s actually a good thing. The real exploiters are the women who make you jump through hoops before giving you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:17 PM
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I don’t see the point you’re trying to make here. I know Chads exist, I’ve seen them. I have friends who are Chads. I see the men women truly desire and who they actually end up dating. I’ve noticed how the boyfriend is often considerably uglier than the guy she hooks up with. I see how women fawn over Chad while treating their boyfriends as just average. I know women don’t usually end up with Chad because he drops them after using them. I know they wish they were with Chad and don’t truly appre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:13 PM
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It's never going to be women that make me hate men; it's actually always men that will push women over the edge into hating men Im no different from you, It's never going to be men that make me hate women; it's actually always women that will push men over the edge into hating women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:07 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:04 PM
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Exactly what I said, its a charity there should be no expectations for paying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:03 PM
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I like women who keep the same energy, if they treat me the way they treated Chad, I’ll treat them with respect. However, if they treat me like a backup option, I’ll treat them like a disposable placeholder. An eye for an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:24 PM
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Yeah, you're correct, I treat women how they treat me. They treat Chad as special, so why don’t they date him? Oh wait, lmao, he didn’t want her. Why should I be okay with being treated as a back up? An eye for an eye, she used me, so I use her. I keep her as a placeholder until she realizes I’m sleeping with other women, I monkey branch or until she’s worth less than the effort she demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:18 PM
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If I don’t get Chad treatment, obviously I’ll cheat. Why should I be okay with being treated poorly? An eye for an eye, she used me, so I use her. Keeping her as a placeholder until she realizes I’m sleeping with other women, I can monkey branch or until she’s worth less than the effort she demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:13 PM
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I'm sorry, but how old are you? You're giving off boomer ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:47 AM
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I know that you know, what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:30 AM
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Oh no, you got me, you're so astute. Dont be mad that some ppl dont roll over and accept abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:29 AM
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Im saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:22 AM
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Nah, I like my toxicity. We fight fire with fire here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:21 AM
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I think you missed a very important context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:19 AM
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Maybe I should start my stand-up career?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:18 AM
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Because I want to save good men, they don’t deserve to be emotionally scammed. I used to be a good man, but I don’t believe in it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:16 AM
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Because I’m not as attractive as Chad, it’s a whole spectrum. I get approached at parties and get hookups from apps, but not at the level Chad does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:12 AM
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The AF/BB dynamic is ubiquitous. We assume the most likely outcome. Unfortunately, we recognize the tactics most women employ, it's simply a way of protecting ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:08 AM
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Yeah, I don’t mind. We know she wanted Chad, but he didn’t give her commitment, that’s why she came to us. Chad gets the best treatment, and I get sub par. And I’m supposed to feel grateful? Who cares about losing an alpha widow? With hoe-flation, the boyfriend title isn’t worth anything anymore; it’s just not valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:35 AM
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Nice, what are you like 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:29 AM
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Aww, are you trying to project an image onto me to indirectly invalidate my opinion? If I’m a loser, would you also consider your SO a loser if he did the same to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:27 AM
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You need to lean empathy first. Men are humans too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:24 AM
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That's not the only important measure I mentioned, Chad's women. You can figure it out, till you dont, look at all the other things, like how much effort you had to put in, how much effort she put in, etc. Personally I assume the worst, since I can afford to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:24 AM
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I never said I stay, I just wait till its not worth it or I get a better option. Bird in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:18 AM
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Now ask her if she's real?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:14 AM
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Dont need luck, just need self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:13 AM
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I also look good, maybe that explains why we have opposite experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:11 AM
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Yeah Im motivated to be treated as person not a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:10 AM
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Why? I already made the effort. You leave your current job when you get a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:08 AM
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Well then get your bread up, ig
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:06 AM
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Idk ask your girl, Mr. Pick-Me Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:06 AM
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Not imagining atp, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:03 AM
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By treating them like they treat me. If Im a back up she's a placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:02 AM
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No inference or impression, Ive witnessed the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:01 AM
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Nah, it’s empathy, empathy for the men being used. Sad to see that you’re okay with abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:56 PM
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Ik thats why emphasized "Reciprocity"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:48 PM
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break up and find a *better woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:47 PM
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Not the exact same rules, since women don't treat you as well as they treated the chad hookup, you can treat your gf as secondary too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:45 PM
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Its called empathy, maybe you believe men don't deserve to be empathized with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:42 PM
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Better, more desired
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:41 PM
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Idk why do women usually treat their boyfriend, not hook up, material guys worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:40 PM
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When did I say I wont leave her, I still like her enough to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:38 PM
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Everyone can afford to not be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:38 PM
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How am I setting myself up for disappointment? I’m just being realistic. As I’ve said before, our expectations are shaped by women's actions. There's a clear difference in how they treat men they’re physically attracted to versus those they aren’t. If I’m not someone she desires enough to hook up with, then I’m not someone she’ll truly love, so why waste my time being her boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:46 AM
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If that's the case, it simply means that promiscuous women didn’t find me attractive and I’m fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:08 AM
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But, Im a feminist...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:05 AM
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By that logic, my partners should reveal their past relationships and preferences too. If they ask, I won’t lie, lying would be cheating. But I’m not going to say anything if they don’t ask, unless they are a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:59 PM
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Would you also say that the way women treat their hookup material better and more selflessly than their boyfriend or husband material is cruel and unethical too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:56 PM
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Idk, sounds like the women who don't put out early are the ones who don't love their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:54 PM
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So if a woman doesn't sleep with you within 2 dates, she's not long-term relationship potential? Obviously, why would I consider someone for long-term potential if they don't love me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:52 PM
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Don’t really care about body count, I care about being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:15 AM
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Not really, I don’t just drop all of them after two dates with no sex, I still spend time with some of them. I just cap their potential at ‘FWB,’ but obviously, there’s a limit to how much effort I’ll put in before moving on 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:08 AM
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Lmao, all this does is reinforce the idea that being 'boyfriend' or 'husband material' isn't worth it. There's no point in being loyal or seriously committing to a woman who doesn’t push for sex within the first two dates, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:39 AM
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I'm just making a suggestion, you're free to do as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:03 AM
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As I said, since gender dynamics are complex, rather than focusing on directly mirroring actions, we should focus on reciprocal opportunity costs. Do men have the same hypergamous ability that women possess? Is the gravity of sex the same for men and women? Women offer sexual loyalty, while men offer loyalty in resources and protection. As a feminist, I'm an egalitarian, so I have to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:01 AM
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This doesn’t actually counter anything I said. Because I'm not trying to. I agree with what you said; that's why I said it goes both ways. It's a two-way street, men also have to offer their share. If a woman takes care of me emotionally and physically, it's my duty to protect and provide for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:42 AM
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Why do I even have to tell them? Does every woman tell her partner her body count? I mean, if I'm asked directly, I wouldn't lie, but I'm not going to bring it up unprovoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:38 AM
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I've never paid for my dates and I'm still successful with women...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:35 AM
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I don't need women either; I date those who want me. I don’t force traditional values on them, I just don’t make traditional sacrifices when they don’t offer theirs in return. As a feminist, I believe in egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:33 AM
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When men aren't monogamous and offer literally nothing in a relationship, the vast majority of men will end up sexless, relationship-less, and marriage-less. Similar to what I said, relationships are a two-way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:26 AM
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not pouting lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:23 AM
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It's quite common nowadays. There's a reason why being a boyfriend or husband is no longer considered a title of pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:35 PM
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Hey, I even answered your questions even after you deleted them. This is a defense of the validity of my claims. As I said "You don’t have to reply, I already know the answers to these questions."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:57 PM
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Gaslighting good men to choose bad women. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:54 PM
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Let’s test the validity of my assertions. Do you have a height preference? Would you be considered an attractive or an unattractive woman? Do you have mental health issues? You don’t have to reply, I already know the answers to these questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:53 PM
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Solution to most problems is "changing"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:47 PM
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I addressed it "And to your new question..."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:47 PM
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No I don't believe those claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:45 PM
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Great convo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:44 PM
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I'll reply to your last question about whether I believe the same for men, "Yes, I’ll agree, but I believe the delta in shallowness between attractive women and less attractive women is far greater than the delta in shallowness between attractive men and less attractive men. And to your new question, I never said anything about the short mans looks. Its about what these women prioritize. A tall guy can be good a short guy can be bad. A tall guy can be ugly a short guy can be hot. Height doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:42 PM
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I never made claim these claims, i already replied to another user "No, these are just common traits. Attractive, independent women tend to be less shallow, especially because they don’t seek social validation through their partner’s superficial qualities. There’s a reason why unattractive women are often heightist, they usually seek tall men to compensate for the social validation they lacked due to their looks."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:29 PM
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No, these are just common traits. Attractive, independent women tend to be less shallow, especially because they don’t seek social validation through their partner’s superficial qualities. There’s a reason why unattractive women are often heightist, they usually seek tall men to compensate for the social validation they lacked due to their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:26 PM
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You can negotiate attraction. Believing you know every quantifiable trait is shallow thinking, if attraction weren't negotiable, every man would leave his wife when she gets old.Also, your example wouldn’t work for me. Two guys aren’t a sufficient sample size; I can't be certain whether you have a height preference or not. But this isn't a strict dichotomy, I could add more granularity, but it would become too wordy. You don’t need to have all the traits I mentioned, but social validation is a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:19 PM
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It's a repeated pattern I've noticed, and most people I've discussed this with have quantified it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:09 PM
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Whats wrong with tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:07 PM
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The woman has her choice of one hundred, many good, but purposely chooses the bad one. Do you see how different that is? I agree, that's what I'm emphasizing here. The woman who chooses the bad book does so because of her own faulty code of rules. The choice is internal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:06 PM
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