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LTR/MARRIAGERest_in_grace/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 08:41 PM
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DISCUSSIONRest_in_grace/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 06:12 PM
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Rest_in_grace/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 01:40 PM
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I’m 32 - I work out and eat right. Honestly I feel fine. Your like doesn’t end at 30 years old 😉 keep a good skin routine, eat right, and laugh often
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 02:17 PM
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I’m 32 and just recently got a job at a gym! I’m now working out with coaches and feeling better than ever!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 04:39 PM
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I am tall 5’8” and my coworker she is 6’ but she’s beautiful and elegant and genuine. She has a wonderful and warm personality. Any man would be lucky to have her
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/21 05:25 PM
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Yes!
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 11:18 AM
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I’m so sorry. I’m divorced and happily remarried!
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 10:33 AM
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I know of a lady who grew up in a similar situation. She ended up marrying an American. She went from being a dentist to moving to America and now she is a very happy SAHM! I think she was around 35 years old when she found the guy and made three move.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 02:34 PM
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Honestly I think it depends on your personality. Some women are more independent than others.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 02:08 PM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 02:55 PM
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I went down to part time as well! My boss just tried promoting me to become a manager and I turned it down. Everyone there is so shocked that I did that. Where I live (nyc) money is king. I hate the fast paced life so I’m slowing it down. Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 10:43 AM
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I agree with you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 01:29 PM
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I moved 100 miles away and I’m the type of person that needs to have a deep connection with someone. I became extremely depressed for a good year bc I had no friends. I decided it was time to take action - I started by making phone dates with old friends, volunteering at the local food pantry, and I joined hiking groups on fb and now I coordinate weekly group hikes! It is possible to make friends at any age, but is it easy? No! It’s a lot of work, but worth it to find that one person :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 08:46 PM
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Hi! My fiancé is 12 years older than me. When we first met, I considered leaving him due to the age gap...but that would have been a poor choice because the chemistry that we have is amazing! I say go for it! Especially if you truly connect with him. Just talk over what your long term goals are to make sure y’all are compatible. Nobody is promised tomorrow, just because he’s older than you doesn’t mean that y’all will have less time together than someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 09:49 PM
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I would if I could! I get my soap from a friend. A simple google search will give you lots of easy homemade recipes!
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 11:53 PM
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I use moisturizer twice a day on my face. I only use home made soap when I shower (my skin is so much softer than before) and I use gua sha tools on my face a few days a week.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 11:00 AM
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Yea I totally agree with you! We aren’t robots. We need that emotional intimacy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 08:30 PM
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Yes! Same here!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 11:31 AM
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Yes, although It was a very stressful process for the first year where I had multiple nervous breakdowns. Now I’m engaged to the man of my dreams!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 11:27 AM
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Oh man...I literally went through the same thing and we divorced 7 years later :/ BUT I would suggest trying therapy. Do everything you can to try and create a spark! Learn something new about eachother! Go on a camping trip. Have a nice long hug together. I wish the best for you both!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 02:10 AM
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For sure! I got engaged after 1 year and am getting married in 5 months 😂
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 05:02 PM
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Hi 👋🏼 sure. I really don’t have anything bad to say about him - he’s a nice guy. Basically, at the time I was in a strict religious church. They emphasized no sex before marriage, so when I finally met someone who was willing to wait I automatically assumed he must be the one despite in our inability to communicate, our lack of similar interests, and we had completely different goals. I felt pressured to marry him. I even was going to break up with him while we were dating but I talked myself ou…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 01:01 PM
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This is a good post. I understand what you are saying. Basically I waited until my wedding night and I married the wrong guy bc of it. I just assumed that once I found a guy willing to wait until my wedding night then boom he MUST be the one...I’m now divorced. I walked down the aisle with a badddd feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 08:06 PM
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Omg your story is just like mine!!! Married for 7 years, then I was divorced at 29 years old. I am now 31F and engaged to the man of my dreams! He is 12 years older than me and has a 16 year old daughter. I, too, don’t think I can get pregnant for I don’t get periods anymore, but I’m hoping someday it’ll happen 😍
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 10:23 PM
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Sure.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 10:40 PM
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Thank you all!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 09:04 PM
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Soo I am 31 years old and divorced. I married young. I am now with a wonderful man, he is 43 years old and he has a kid. There is hope!
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 12:54 PM
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Work out 5 days a week - hiit or hiking. Study the Bible more often. Be 5% more positive, baby steps here (I’m clinically depressed). Start my garden. Meet up with a new friend. Visit my mom. Surprise date night with husband.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 12:34 PM
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I would divorce rape his ass for doing that to me. I guess you are a better person than me!!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 03:21 AM
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Omg lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 06:52 PM
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Aww. I once made a bacon bouquet lol you can google it. Take him for a nice hike just men love the outdoors!
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 05:25 PM
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Honestly it’s been so long since I watched that video I couldn’t tell ya. A few months ago.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/19 02:27 PM
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I use face moisturizer everyday and use only a small amount of make up - eye shadow eye liner and mascara. I avoid foundation bc it can age your skin. I like to wear lipstick when we go out. That’s about it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 05:08 PM
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Online :) clicked instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:40 PM
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Hi. He looks young probably bc he takes good care of himself. (I’m 30 and he’s 42). The older you get the less age matters I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:31 AM
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My boyfriend is 12 years older than me. He’s the best guy I’ve ever dated! He’s caring, mature, understanding, a good leader, and he’s got his life together. I do worry about the far future tho tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:00 PM
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Same. I got married too young. I initiated the divorce. If you want, feel free to dm me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 01:26 PM
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I am 30f and divorced. We were not compatible. It really feels like a punch in the gut. We separated 10 months ago. It still feels like a punch in the gut. Remember there is always hope. I found a wonderful man at 30 y\o and I’ve been able to better myself and learn from my mistakes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 01:25 PM
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Definitely! Trying to put myself out there more. It can be tough for someone with a anxiety disorder but im working on it :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 01:05 PM
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Thanks for all the replies!! I feel so much better! I woke up with a renewed heart with a different point of view! He’s worth leaving everything for I was just having a self pity moment haha. Love you all 💕
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 11:58 AM
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Yesss I am def beginning to coordinate some trips ;). Yes I am child free as well but he has a 15 year old daughter and I adore her!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 11:56 AM
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Awww how sweet
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 11:55 AM
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Well written 💕
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 08:45 PM
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Yes that’s why I decided to up and leave to be with him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 07:44 PM
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You don’t. Simple as that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 02:27 PM
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I don’t really have any advice but I just want to say that I’m dealing with the same struggle. There’s this internal divide where one side wants to desperately be feminine but the other side tells me to man up!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 03:49 PM
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Good question I think it was a video from coach red pill. We already had the right dynamic so the videos clicked for me instantly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 09:04 PM
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My boyfriend introduced me to it. He’s always been a natural leader and I’ve always been more of a follower. He started sharing some vids from YouTube and I was hooked!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 08:26 PM
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I guess my situation is a little bit different, but I love it tbh. I didn’t grow up with parental guidance so I was a trainwreck and felt unloved with zero direction. I can def become very stubborn with an attitude bc I was raised to be independent. When he puts me in my place I feel extremely loved and secure...Which I guess is something I desired but lacked my entire life. Idk. It works for us 😌
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 12:13 PM
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Thanks for the comment 💕
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 04:24 PM
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My boyfriend and I have an age gap as well me - 30 and he is 42. It’s a big worry of mine. He has full custody of a child from a previous marriage. I’m stuck between following my heart and having 1 with him within a year or just accepting that I’ll be a step parent soooo I feel your pain with this!! He has tons of energy we play basketball together and hike. I swear he can run circles around me. It’s something you really need to think about. I know a girl who’s father was like 67 when he had her…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 04:00 PM
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I private messaged you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 03:51 PM
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The cashier today who was an older lady kept going on and on about how stupid men are. She was telling me that If the world were to end that women would be the survivors bc men are too dumb. It made me feel VERY uncomfortable the entire time. I admire my boyfriends intelligence and problem solving skills very much so it made things awkward lol.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 04:43 PM
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That’s a great list. Thx for sharing. I’m working on being more submissive.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 03:23 PM
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I bought a lightly used Victoria secret pea coat on eBay and I LOVE IT! It’s the most feminine coat I’ve ever owned ;)
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 10:50 PM
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I love when my man calls me a sweetheart!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 04:12 PM
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He even said it was fine for him to go on dates while being married bc he’s the man and allowed to do that. mind blown
/r/ExRedPill08/10/19 04:42 PM
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He’s just an asshole. I feel bad for his wife and children.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/19 04:32 PM
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Their marriage has wrecked me. My mom was the traditional housewife. My dad decided to cheat on her. He up and left us when I was young with nothing. We were dirt poor relying on charities. I watched my mom struggle to get a full time job and I was constantly reminded by my mom that all men cheat and lie. During my teens she dated an abusive alcoholic which led to me being in an abusive relationship for years at the same time. Now I’m 30F, divorced with no kids and honestly I feel emotionally ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 04:23 PM
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Thanks 😍. We have a list of rules that I need to abide by such as keeping the house tidy and following his lead. When I rebel there are consequences such as - time out, having to write him an apology letter...If im really feeling rebellious and nasty I’ve even been Spanked hard...But I love being submissive so it isn’t a huge problem. I was married for 6 years to a beta and I was forced to be a leader which I hated. My bf has had to help me change that mindset of mine.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 02:19 PM
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This post is so relatable to me! I would watch coach redpill religiously and I felt like shit about myself. I still do follow a lot of red pill advice, but that guy is a straight up asshole. I’m 30F and will be getting pregnant soon and I feel great!
/r/ExRedPill08/10/19 01:56 PM
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Yes bc sin wrecks the flesh and if she continued in adultery she would be stoned indeed. But anyway, yea I’ve learned that life can be very sloppy. Maybe sit down with him and come up with a timeline.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 01:12 PM
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I’m going to be very real with you. I married a guy at 23 while having this gut feeling that something wasn’t right. Everything from the outside looked perfect! Everyone loved him! There was really no reason NOT to marry him. At 29 yrs old, we divorced. Something was missing right from the beginning and I wish I listened to my gut rather then giving into the pressure of marrying someone that my family approves of. I am in a new relationship at 30 years old with a red pill man and I am very happy…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 12:51 PM
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She is right with God. Stop with the religious shaming.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 12:45 PM
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First, all your sins have been forgiven bc Jesus died for all of our sins, but I understand what you are saying. I grew up as a fundamental Christian during my twenties. I’m now 30 years old and living with my boyfriend and I do feel guilty from time to time. He is perfect for me and a GREAT leader. With that said...Ask him to help you become more submissive. I struggled with it and he knew I’d be happier being submissive so he set up rules and when I break them there are consequences. Also, dre…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 12:45 PM
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Yup. I’m dating a guy 12 years older then me and it’s working out beautifully.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 12:38 PM
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Aww thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 10:54 PM
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I would have changed A LOT. I wouldn’t have settled for beta boys due to my insecurity issues. I wouldn’t have gotten into college debt. I would have focused more on finding a high quality man and living a traditional life. I’m 30 years old and divorced with no kids and lots of debt. I lucked out with finding a red pill high quality man whom I am very grateful for! We plan on living the traditional life by getting married and starting a family within a year. I believe in second chances. I just w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 02:05 PM
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