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| 21 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decision | CMV | ResurrectedDrama | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:08 PM |
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| 7 | Most guys who wish they could get into the casual sex lifestyle, couldn't handle that lifestyleMost men are not looking for a casual sex lifestyle in the first place, they are looking for way less than that and still many cannot get a partner. Most men can get sexually satisfied with a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore?I think only expectation for women from men in the west is for women to be sexually desirable, usually younger and thin. In a sense sex is only thing women can offer anymore, as genders don't need each other as much anyway. We do need other people, but usually not on terms of gender. So women also don't need men, so they set their price higher to get men who have everything, such as money, power, etc. So men are more a status object to women and women are a sexual object to men. This is the futu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:09 PM |
| 5 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subNo, but this explains how many evil men get more sex than the average relatively wealthy nerd. Women prefer evil to boredom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionIt does not matter, women adjust and still pick 20% top men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionYou are lucky #1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionAs a woman, my main concern is having a partner who is going to be as active as me in the parenting process. Why is this so important for some women? I mean, fathers often contribute in other ways such as bringing money or protecting the family. There is nothing wrong with one parent being more time with the kids and another producing all needed to care for them, regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionMen lie up, women lie down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionI think the problem is that a lot of men on here think that they're normal when they're actually below average. Just as plenty of women think they deserve commit from top 20% men and not the lady that is 20 years younger and better looking, thin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:58 PM |
| -2 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionYou settled for less :( you must be very unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionWomen in their 20s have massive options available to them. That is the point, plenty of women are not in their 20s anymore. Quality men are scarce while most women are still sexually desirable. So only top 20% men get any options and they have the luxury to pick the mother of their children, which is often not the woman in her late 30s desperate for a baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionIs that the incel perspective on how people decide and go for children? Calling incel to any poster that don't happen to say what you want to hear is very inmature. No, this is not a revenge fantasy. In this market, most men are in hell anyway, so I hope that makes you feel better. I'm talking about the decisions of women on regards of being moms and forming a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionThose men who commit are quickly removed from the market. Since only 20% of men are desirable to women while most women are desirable to most men, there is a scarcity of those men who have no reason to commit, and even if they do, it is unlikely it will be to the woman that is desperate for babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women that want children today have to take a very hard decisionMost men do want to commit, even those with options. Agree, but they are quickly removed from the market, and since less than 20% of men are desirable to women, the few men in the market are those that are not eager to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenIt is a necessity to have a prenup today, but sadly some judges can throw it to trash even for technicalities such as font used or paper proportions. Family courts hate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipThey are going on dating apps and looking to go directly for sex without any courtship. How is that a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipFear caused by real, true bad experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipwe gotta put in work to ultimately carry on our bloodline. If men are trying to establish bloodlines with the whoring women today, they are fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipYes, but only because women get a man online and then stop using the apps. Mostly men in dating apps don't mean women don't use them, they just use them to get a boyfriend and forget. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipBut I don't have any friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenThen even cohabitation is a risk. This is the hell that is coming. The state just conspires with women to take shit from the man. Of course, the reason is that women are terrible with money and end up spending it on stuff that the state can tax. It is so fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenShoulda factored those things in before signing. You can say the same for women not working during marriage? Why pay alimony for them if they decided to not work during that period? It shall not be the guy's problem to pay for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenYou sign the marriage contract you consent to whatever can of worms may come with it Most ugly things about alimony and divorce are decided by a judge after a divorce, not during marriage. Some jurisdictions even add shit like this for couples for just living together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenAh, so these poor victims are incapable of consent, being tricked by succubi and all Is not that what women accuse men that have sex with women 10 years younger even when she consented? Cope then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenYes, but alimony is after such contract is extinguished. It is also extremely unfair to keep only marriage rights that benefit women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenIf you marry women at your economic level or higher, divorce still is more common. So men are fucked in any way in marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenMarriage involves combining assets going forward, so usually anything obtained prior to the marriage is yours alone. Usually. If there is a house that is the man's and she receives custody, it is likely he will lose that house for the sake of the children he can now see once a week. Very fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenMen have a right to be mad about that. Men also have the right to not marry and agree to this shit, and I'm glad many are doing that. Sadly, laws for marriage are slowly being changed to also apply to unmarried couples. It is so fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women...women make the large majority of all buying decisions and waste money on stupid bullshit. It makes sense for the state to invest in citizens that spend the most so they get back money in taxes. Very wild, and probably they don't plan this ahead, they just notice that if they favor women they get more tax money so they keep doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenWhy I keep hearing about the wage gap but never the alimony gap, or the custody gap, or the child support gap? Glad men are waiting for marriage and rather having forever gfs. It is the smarted thing men are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:20 PM |
| 6 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenIn between, you have a little of both risks. Marriage is risky for men in any case. No wonder why they avoid it like the plague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenWomen then shall not be man men are not committing to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:15 PM |
| 15 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?Not arrested, but many guys are banned from bars, or harassed by a white knights, etc. In internet era it is even worse, such online shaming. It is not worth it. One thing is having no social standing, another is having negative social standing. Yes, even having zero social life can get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:57 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about the increasing stigma over SMALL age gaps? How is it going to affect the dating market for young people?This "stigma" comes from the same groups of resentful old women. Ironically, her family, most of her friends, etc. usually don't have any issues with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:55 PM |
| 32 | Did having a sibling of the oppostie gender make you more sympathetic of the struggles of the other gender?It made me less empathic to the other gender, as she has it way easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Men who work out - what is your opinion on this article? "I was rejected by a girl. It led me to change my body"I appreciate fellow men getting better, but improving for just a random whore's rejection is not the way. The motivation must be internal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV :Men wouldnt behave much different than women under the same dating conditions. Most behaviors are determined by one's optionsThere's also bi dudes who don't bother trying to fuck women anymore because it's too hard. Yes, we become de facto gay LOL. Still dating men is cheaper, funnier and less messy, but women have their charm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subhe men who have the most dating options and the best dating options approach ALOT of women. Not all men are creating equal. Some men have to approach 3 times, others like 300, depending on looks and countless variables. Most average men and below would rather have their self esteem destroyed (again) after like 50th approach, it is not worth it for them. Don't you think men would approach more otherwise? I mean, they are very horny. But legally and socially bullying them for just having sexual de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:19 PM |
| 2 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subWhat would be an alternative “prescription” from you about how to make your dating lofe better - without approaching any women? Maybe removing the possibility of life getting even worse by just taking the risk to talk to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:17 PM |
| 5 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subSo you don’t approach any women anywhere? Most men, even men who are players, avoid approaching women or talking to them because they may be married, have a boyfriend, carry drama, etc. Biggest redpill was realizing you can live years without actually talking to women beside those in the supermarket or a desk. Some men decide it is better to do it only for sex, and they are right, because what is the point of talking to them for anything else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:14 PM |
| 11 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subAgree, it is like telling people not to complain about house prices if they always lived in apartments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:10 PM |
| 29 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subI don't know why women think men are Superman and can easily shrug off rejections like they're bullets. You know which men can accept countless rejections with no problem? Psychopaths. That is why women end up with them and then ask taxpayers and random men to rescue them and their bastards for their stupid decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:08 PM |
| 5 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subHow would anyone view that as creepy? I've got the look of "how dare you hit at me?" for just asking a random ugly fat woman to move out of my way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women?They also compete against the option of women staying single "single" Most of those women are side fucking or have situationships, they are not truly single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:04 PM |
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