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| 1 | Women generally don’t want to be approached. That makes me not want to attemptThanks for the suggestion. | /r/seduction | 14/06/21 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Women generally don’t want to be approached. That makes me not want to attemptDifferent things work for different people. I have very little success with cold approach, so I don't do it. But if it works for you, then I'm glad to hear it. :) | /r/seduction | 14/06/21 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Women generally don’t want to be approached. That makes me not want to attemptA lot of dating companies are moving away from cold approach to online dating or social media. Back in the day RSD and Badboy were the big supporters of cold approaching. But a few years ago RSD started telling guys to learn Instagram game. Not long after that Badboy started saying the same. Cold approaching made sense in the 90's before internet and social media. But in today's world, it's not the most effective way. Some guys claim they get great results from it, but I hear stories from a lot … | /r/seduction | 14/06/21 06:04 AM |
| 3 | 18 Reasons You Should LOVE RejectionsGreat post! Lots of powerful points and reasons to not see rejection as bad. Thanks for writing this Ciaran. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Should you do technical game?Back when I used techniques, I developed the unhelpful belief that women only liked me for my techniques, and not me. It caused me to have less confidence and more anxiety, which made my results with women worse. Then I dropped the techniques, and just practised being authentic and showing the real me. I polarised, as Mark Manson would call it, to find those who were a right fit for me and my lifestyle. This made me more confident and relaxed. Confidence and being relaxed are more attractive tha… | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Are You Still Running Out of Things to Say to Women??Great points and tips! They are very helpful. Thanks for taking the time to write and post them. I appreciate it. You said for future tense, you can predict what would happen if someone downed a cocktail, and then what, and then what. So do you mean like you keep adding 'future moments' to create a story? For instance if I'm talking about playing soccer tomorrow, I can say "I hope to score at least 2 goals tomorrow. If I do, they might move me into a better soccer team the week after. And when I… | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 7 | There is no reason why you can't shed a past identity and become a new and better version of yourself. You just need to be aware of the following...Very insightful words. Great post! | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 12:39 PM |
| 8 | Why results come when you stop caringGreat points. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?So as long as you're practising talking to people, it doesn't matter whether it's cold approach or meeting girls to improve your social skills. That makes sense, thanks for taking the time to give me your detailed explanation. Thanks for telling me you do coaching. I'm not looking for coaching at the moment, but I'll definitely continue to watch your videos. Keep up the good work. :) | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?Thank you for your answer. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?Hey Michael Knight, thanks for your reply! I've watched some of your videos and like the posts you write here. You always give good value. Thanks for taking the time to answer my post. :) Good idea to not let cold approaching become my purpose. Do you think cold approaching is effective in improving a person's social skills, or are there better ways? If it does help, how long do you think a person should spend cold approaching for? Some say if you cold approach regularly for 2 years you will see… | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?Great points and explanation. Thanks for taking the time to share it with me. Much appreciated. :) | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?Thanks for sharing your opinion, I appreciate it. So what you think I should do is focus on my career, passion and social life, and that will attract women to me. And if that doesn't, then only I should think about cold approaching, as cold approaching will be easier now because I have the foundation of life and friends? Sorry for the question, just want to clarify I understand what you're saying. Thanks for your answer. :) | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 09:34 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to meet girls after graduating college?Joining meet-up groups or clubs for a hobby helps a lot. I like writing, acting, and volleyball, and have joined groups for that. I've met a lot of women as a side-effects of this. It's also easier to connect with them because they're looking to meet people, and you have shared interests so there is more to talk about. I met a guy in my writing group who is passionate about cosplay, and he's a part of cosplay groups, and he meets women because of that. Another guy I know is really into yoga and … | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to meet girls after graduating college?Completely agree with this! | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 10:06 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]You should not be using negs. That style of game is not healthy. There is a really great book called 'Models' by Mark Manson that teaches a much healthier and more effective way to connect with girls. I suggest reading that. It helped a lot of guys. | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 09:43 AM |
| 1 | 5’8 Brown Ex PUA 25 30+ lcHow important is having a hobby (or something you're passionate about other than girls) for game? | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 09:37 AM |
| 3 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?Being Productive is being Attractive. The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than try to impress girls. Build a life where you don't need girls to be happy, then when you do meet girls you will be more attractive as you're not needy and outcome dependent. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to get started ?Yeah, there are some PUA's who give really good information. Watching the right videos can save time trying to figure it out. That's awesome you have people DM you with questions. That means I'm not the only one who thinks you know a lot in this field. Have you thought about writing your ideas in a blog or some other format? | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best way to get started ?Haha, very true! Yeah, the young dudes need the right guidance, and not the 'PUA marketing scam'. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best way to get started ?I've often thought about that, how some of the guys who teach this try to convince others cold approach is the only way as this is how they make their money. They're not saying the truth, just what will help them make money. And maybe they can't be blamed because this might be the only way for them to earn money and survive. But at the same time it does confuse a lot of people. Especially those without much social experience and are gullible (like I was, lol). I agree with you that cold approach… | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best way to get started ?This is so true! It took me a long time to realize that cold approach is just an exercise tool and not an effective way to bring girls into my life. Practising cold approach made me more confident when I met girls through social hobbies or networking events, but cold approaching by itself didn't get me much results. I wished someone had told me this when I first started out. I had to learn it the hard way and wasted a lot of time doing only cold approaches. I'm glad you're telling others about t… | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 6 Progress ReportGreat work approaching! It's hard, and really tests a person's courage, so well done! You're very inspiring. Keep it up. I am curious about what you said of James Marshall conversation style. Is that mainly speaking slowly, leaving pauses after she speaks and maintain eye contact? I've seen some of his videos where he talks about that, which I've noticed in my own experience works really well. Does he have any other conversation advice you learnt that I missed? If he does, did you learn it from … | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.No worries, I will send it to you when it's done. :) | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 03:29 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]The best way to impress girls, is to have more important things to do than trying to impress girls. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I read a survey that said girls rank a man having something he is Passionate about as one of the most attractive traits. It's not all there is to attraction, but it's a big part. Having an activity a man is Passionate about, whether it's work, hobby, or something else, will make this a lot easier.Good explanation. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I read a survey that said girls rank a man having something he is Passionate about as one of the most attractive traits. It's not all there is to attraction, but it's a big part. Having an activity a man is Passionate about, whether it's work, hobby, or something else, will make this a lot easier.Absolutely. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | I read a survey that said girls rank a man having something he is Passionate about as one of the most attractive traits. It's not all there is to attraction, but it's a big part. Having an activity a man is Passionate about, whether it's work, hobby, or something else, will make this a lot easier.Very true. Really good explanation. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:17 AM |
| 3 | I read a survey that said girls rank a man having something he is Passionate about as one of the most attractive traits. It's not all there is to attraction, but it's a big part. Having an activity a man is Passionate about, whether it's work, hobby, or something else, will make this a lot easier.Definitely agree trying to date a co-worker is risky, and probably best avoided. Number 2 sounds good. Remember with number 2, you want to be more interested in the hobby than the girl. If you go there just to meet girls, you give off a different vibe, and girls avoid you. Always remember that the hobby is more important than meeting girls. Meeting girls is a bonus if it does happen. And talk to and make friends with the men there as well. One good way to become more interested or passionate abo… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 6 | I read a survey that said girls rank a man having something he is Passionate about as one of the most attractive traits. It's not all there is to attraction, but it's a big part. Having an activity a man is Passionate about, whether it's work, hobby, or something else, will make this a lot easier.I'm not an expert on this, so feel free to ignore what I say completely as it could be wrong. I think there are 2 things you can do here: 1) Find girl who like video games or IT. 2) Find another hobby to also become passionate about. As Mark Manson says in his book Models: It's not about replacing your hobbies and interests, it's about expanding them by adding new hobbies or interests. I completely agree with him. (This will also make you more interesting to the girl, as you are a more interesti… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | 8 years in... Any questions?Yeah, it's only the valuable ideas that have that effect. Haha, I'm reading through all his posts twice as well. It's so good! | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | 8 years in... Any questions?You too! | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 03:09 AM |
| 3 | 8 years in... Any questions?Wow!!! Really, really, in depth and great answers! I will need to read it a few times for it to really sink in. A lot of game changing ideas in there. You're absolutely right that I developed skills the first time cold approaching, I just didn't acknowledge it because there was no 'results' that I wanted. You said so much wise stuff. I especially like the part of seeing approaching the girl as just for the conversation, and not to get her phone number or hook up, so there's no outcome dependence… | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | 8 years in... Any questions?That's awesome you have 8 years experience and want to give back. I support the comment above about you starting a podcast or YouTube channel. I like your philosophy of self-love. Here's the puzzle I've been trying to understand. I had a period in my life where I had no girls in my life, and all I did was cold approach, and I did really badly. Then I took a break from cold approaching, spent a few months with social hobbies and social circle to meet people, and built up a lifestyle with several … | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Long term Effects of COVID-19I agree with you OP. I think there will be a lot less cold approaching after this. A dating coach in my city has currently dropped his old teaching style which was focused on cold approaching, and is just doing online classes on Tinder now. He's developing a whole teaching method and program based on messaging girls on Tinder. After putting in the time and money to create something like that, he's not likely to abandon it when this period is over, and other coaches like him who spend more time t… | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What methods do you guys use when practicing seduction?I'm a big fan of 'Models' by Mark Manson. I also read 'How To Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie. Those 2 books taught me more than anything else did. Models taught me so much that I can't even summarize it. And the biggest lesson I learnt from Dale Carnegie was to always be interested in people, which girls really like. I also made friends with some amateur stand-up comedians, and have done a few amateur stand-up comedy events as well, which taught me how to make jokes. Spending… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | What will the corona crisis mean for the current and the future of the seduction scene?I think it will cause the scene to be smaller after the Corona virus is over. 1) People will have a lot less money now because of this, so less people will take bootcamps or buy products after Corona. This will cause a few companies to have to shut down if they haven't already. There's a theory that less people taking bootcamps after the GFC in 2009 caused the PU industry to start to wind down. This corona is much worse for the economy. And learning seduction skills isn't something most people c… | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Who's your favorite YouTube coach?Thanks. He is so good, I wish there were more like him. | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Who's your favorite YouTube coach?Gary Vaynerchuk. He's not a dating coach, but watching his videos has helped my game a lot indirectly. He motivates me to work harder on my goals that aren't related to girls. I have more discipline to spend my spare time writing my book and working on my website than doing nothing. Then when I do go out to meet girls I'm less needy. I'm also automatically 'hard to get' because I have more important things than girls and am not available all the time, which for some reason makes them want me mor… | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.That's great to hear. I appreciate your support. :) | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thanks buddy. I've actually built a sub-reddit called r/ProductiveKindNerds where the emphasis is on being kind. I want to contribute to creating a movement where people treat others with empathy, they are not shallow and don't ignore someone for being ugly, etc. Anyone can be a nerd, if they see themselves as a nerd, that makes them a nerd. Basically, anyone can join. So feel free to join if you're interested, you can leave anytime you change your mind. But if you're not interested then that is… | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 12:46 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.That's awesome to hear! I'm glad you intend to stay away from him. You're an awesome guy, and you making society a better place by doing this. I hope good things happen to you. :) | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.He must have been really creepy to get that nickname. Maybe you should cut him out completely. We unconsciously become a little like the people we keep in our lives, even if we only interact with them a little. And also it will be taking a stand to support girls. These last few months I've completely cut out and avoided all guys who disturb girls. That's just my view on this now, and I'm not saying it will suit everyone, but something to think about. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.That sounds like a smart strategy. A guy who is like that is not worth being close to. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Completely agree! Glad you're not wasting time with those negative friends anymore. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Very true! I've noticed deep level change happens faster with new and right friends. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thank you. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Yes, I will send it to you when it's done. 🙂 | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I will let you know. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:42 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Haha, thanks bro. You sound like a really cool guy too. Hope you have a great day. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 07:23 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I will send it to you when it's done in 2 or 3 months time. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 07:21 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who has noticed good friends makes a guy's game better. It's definitely something not talked about enough. You should write a post about it and your experiences if you feel like it. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 07:20 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.You're welcome. Good luck. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 07:17 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I will send it to you when it's done. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thanks for calling what I wrote unique. I will send you the book when its completed. :) Also is your username based on Naruto's last name? Because that's an awesome username. I'm a huge fan of Naruto, really great show. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Ideally they should be hobbies you can enjoy, but with a decent amount of people also interested in them. What I did was attend as many different types of meet ups, and the ones that I liked, I came back to. With meetup.com, if you set aside 1 whole day like a Saturday for this, you can attend 3 or 4 different meet ups, as some are in the morning, others in the afternoon, others in the evening, others at night. Then the ones you enjoy you can keep going back to. So maybe first have an Exploratio… | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Yeah, they were terrible. Thanks for the encouragement. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I'm glad to hear your guy friends follow the guy code. Completely agree that friends should truly be friends and support their friends. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:50 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I'm not an expert or a dating coach, but I personally think it might be a good idea as it will also show the girl you realized the mistake, and will be trying to make sure it doesn't happen again. In my opinion, apologizing will strengthen the trust between you and her. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 5 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I'm 30. I used meet-up groups from the website meetup.com. For me it was really hard at first because I didn't know what I was doing. But over time I learnt how to, and I realised there were 3 steps. 1) First I had to find new avenues to meet guys. I had to take up social hobbies and use meet up websites to find meet ups about stuff I was interested in. 2) At those events I had to put in the effort to introduce myself to new guys, get to know them, then invite them to hang out with me. 3) Then I… | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:21 AM |
| 4 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Haha, yeah, I was glad when I left them. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thanks for the suggestion buddy. But I'm not very good at technology and have hardly used Google docs. I have saved all the comments and messages people sent me asking for it. And when it's completed I will just contact them then. But thanks for telling me your idea. I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Yes, you can me PM your email address. I will email it to you when it's done. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I will send it to you when it's done. :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.That's horrible they treat you like that. Your friend sounds like an incredible human being for standing up for you. I hope you two stay friends for a long time. It's hard to find loyal friends who will stick out to defend their friends. But they are the most valuable. Definitely worth it to let them know they are appreciated. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.No worries buddy, you're not bothering me. I will send it to you when it's done. :) Those traits are some examples of toxic friendships. Toxic friendships include that, but also plenty of other types of behaviour. If a friend steals from you, pressures you into doing bad things, is always putting you down, etc, that is also toxic behaviour. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I unfortunately made friends with the wrong group of people, so had to replace them with true mates. But when I did, my happiness and self-esteem went up. You're definitely lucky to have good friends. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 10:03 PM |
| 35 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Those guys are terrible. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.They would keep asking girls I knew for their phone number and inviting them out to parties, even when the girls made it clear they didn't want to get know these guys better. If I brought a girl to a get together where these guys were at, they would all come rushing in and give the girl too much attention, making her feel uncomfortable. The guy friends I have now don't do stuff like that. They talk to the girls I am friends with politely, but they don't disturb them. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I was motivated because I wanted to get this area of my life handled, and I have the opinion that life is better with a few nice guy friends. This may not be true for everyone, so you got to know what makes you happy and what do you want. Making a few buddies after some months is actually really good. The average adult only has between 2 to 6 friends. So if you make 4 friends after a few months, that's really good. I know two guys who don't have more than 5 friends at a time because they are rea… | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.It's great you guys did all those fun activities. And I'm glad to hear met your current best friend from it! That is fantastic. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I will send it to you when it's completed. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.What if your 'mates' are always disturbing girls you date or are friends with? Then they might not really be 'mates'. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:32 PM |
| 4 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.By disturb, I mean they would keep asking girls I knew for their phone number and inviting them out to parties, even when the girls made it clear they didn't want to get know these guys better. If I brought a girl to a get together where these guys were at, they would all come rushing in and give the girl too much attention, making her feel uncomfortable. You're right, it's important to have quality guy friends. Took me a while to make quality guy friends, but it was worth it. Thanks for your en… | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.The guy who quit has really good values. The more people who stand up against behaviour like this, the less likely it will happen. That's sad that the other classmates in the band thought such behaviour was acceptable. Good on you for staying away from them, and staying friends with the nice guy with morals and values. I hope good things happen to him for quitting and avoiding such guys. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thank you so much for your encouraging words. It definitely is a challenge, and the hardest parts are putting myself out there and having the courage to approach someone and hope we click. I meet a lot of people I don't connect with, but I tell myself every failed attempt is one step closer to finding the people I can connect with. That kept me going till I found a few good friends. But it definitely took effort and time. I hope you can find a group of female friends who are not a bad influence … | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Sure, I will send it to you when it's completed. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thanks buddy, I will let you all know when it's done. I appreciate the encouragement. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.It might be 2 or 3 months till this book is completed, but I will send it to you when it is. Also, congratulations on graduating college soon! Well done! :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Will send you one when it's completed. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thanks, I will do so. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I will. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 3 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.That's a terrible feeling when you want to see others do well and have their back, but they became jealous of you. They didn't appreciate you, and I'm glad to hear you got rid of them. People like that waste their time dragging others down instead of being grateful that others are there for them. And that's why they always stay down. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Sure, I will send it to you when it's completed. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 05:45 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Yeah, it is a challenge. One thing that helped me was to go to meet-ups on stuff I was interested in, because it was easier to create a connection with others who had that same interest. I will let you know when my ebook is complete. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I definitely will bro. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 04:07 PM |
| 3 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.I'm glad you got rid of your bad friends. It's hard to do, but so important to be happier. I will definitely send you a free copy of my ebook when it's done. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 37 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.They would keep asking girls I knew for their phone number and inviting them out to parties, even when the girls made it clear they didn't want to get know these guys better. If I brought a girl to a get together where these guys were at, they would all come rushing in and give the girl too much attention, making her feel uncomfortable. So creepy would be how I would describe it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 03:23 PM |
| 2 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Some of the principles can be applied to any age, but it would be better suited for people 18 years and older because a big part of the strategy is using meet-up website, and I think most of the events there are for 18 and above. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thank you. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 03:13 PM |
| 5 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.These friends were not suffering from mental health problems. They didn't respect girls, and were always disturbing girls that liked to spend time with me. If I stayed friends with them, it would have been bad for my mental health. I spoke to them a few times about their behaviour, but they still kept disturbing girls I was friends with. So I had to let them go. I have friends who suffer from mental health problems like depression and anxiety, and I'm always there for them. One of my friends wen… | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.You're welcome. Good luck. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 27 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Those are terrible friends who aren't good for your happiness. I'm glad you got away from them. Finding new and reliable friends is hard, and not discussed enough in today's society. There are plenty of dating and 'PUA' gurus, but not any Friendship Gurus who teach how to make friends. And in my opinion good friends are also incredibly important. Thanks for your interest, I will send you a free copy when it's done. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 02:46 PM |
| 3 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thank you for your nice words. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 02:40 PM |
| 121 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.For me it was really hard at first because I didn't know what I was doing. But over time I learnt how to, and I realised there were 3 steps. 1) First I had to find new avenues to meet guys. I had to take up social hobbies and use meet up websites to find meet ups about stuff I was interested in. 2) At those events I had to put in the effort to introduce myself to new guys, get to know them, then invite them to hang out with me. 3) Then I built a friendship group. I had to organise several catch … | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 02:10 PM |
| 3 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Yeah, I wish I had higher self-esteem back then to get rid of them straight away. But at least I did it eventually. Thanks for the encouragement. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 01:51 PM |
| 6 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thank you so much for your support and encouragement. I appreciate this comment. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 01:47 PM |
| 11 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.One of the girls I was dating they asked for her phone number. And also girls I was friends with they would keep asking these girls out on dates, or inviting them out to parties, even when these girls said no and made it clear they weren't interested. Eventually these girls stopped hanging out with me because of these guys. The problem was because I was in a new area and going through some personal problems at the time, I stayed friends with these guys because I didn't know anyone else. It was r… | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 01:45 PM |
| 23 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.That was the only reason. These were guys who when I introduced them to a girl, they would ask the girl for her phone number or try to pick her up. I have some guy friends who are considered 'not cool', but I stay friends with them because they don't disturb girls I'm friends with. It's only if a guy disturbs a girl who likes to hang out with me that I get rid of him. It was a bad phase in my life when I made friends with these wrong people. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 12:37 PM |
| 50 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Very wise saying. Yeah, it was a hard decision at the time, but worth it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.You're welcome. :) | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 11:46 AM |
| 1 | I’ve mentally brainwashed myself to believe I must do daygame approaches, there is no other wayI had a similar thing happen as well! I had a phase in my life where all I did was cold approach, and I got very little results. Then I cut back on cold approaching, and spent at least 95% of my time and energy to focus on my work, studies, hobbies, guy friends, etc. I only did cold approaching every now and again. But for some reason this caused my success rate to go up by a lot. Now whenever my friends ask me for advice on girls, I tell them to focus more on their work/studies, hobbies, guy fr… | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 2 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Same here. It has so much good stuff in it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I haven't read those two books, so I can't give a reliable answer. What did you think of those 2 books? | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 01:14 PM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I wrote this post to give useful information to others and save them time. I wasted a lot of time from following the wrong advice. Then I focused on these books, and kept going out a lot and applying what was here, and I got more results. The majority of information in this community is useless and written by marketers trying to make a quick buck. Unfortunately a lot of people fall victim, and waste years because of this. Plenty of others have found these 3 books helpful as well, which is why I … | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Glad you find it useful. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Thank you. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Haha, the book's not perfect. But it has more gems and pearls of wisdom in it than most other books. Glad you found it useful as well. 🙂 | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.They definitely are! | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.You're welcome. 🙂 | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 05:49 AM |
| 6 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.That's what I liked most about it. It wasn't about telling lies to avoid rejection or trying to get everyone to like you. It's about being your true self and accepting rejection. And there were so many other great lessons as well. I really wish I had read Models first instead of The Game. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 05:49 AM |
| 2 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I hope it goes that way into lifestyle focused. That's much healthier. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 05:47 AM |
| 2 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.In a lot of cities Lairs did end years ago. The Lair in my city will probably be officially closed down in the next 1 or 2 years. Yeah, a lot of guys when they become good and reach the level they want don't see the point of sticking around. Definitely a lot of turn over. I also think dating apps like Tinder and websites like Meet-up may have played a part, as it made meeting women easier, which caused less people to join the community. Whereas back in the 2000's cold approaching was relied on a… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 11:44 PM |
| 8 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I'm sorry to hear you lost an important friendship. That is a terrible feeling and experience to go through. It takes time to heal after something like that happens, so don't be so hard on yourself for taking time off to recover. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 5 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Plenty of others - The Game, Venusian Arts, Magic Bullets, Double Your Dating, and lots of others. Most of them were the old school ones from years ago when I was hardcore into this. Then I read those 3 books that really changed me, and after that I stopped reading and just went out a lot and saw progress, and relied on these 3 books as my guiding principles. But looking back I realized I wasted a lot of time reading those other books, and their teachings really confused me back in the day, so I… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 11:14 PM |
| 0 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.The book had a life changing effect on me as well. The book was written in 1936, but people still keep reading it and recommending it. And apparently Times Magazine once ranked it as number 19 of the 100 Most Influential book. It has changed a lot of people's lives. I don't normally read the same book twice, but I've reread that book several times, it's so good. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 11:11 PM |
| 4 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I would personally choose Models. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Plenty of others - The Game, Venusian Arts, Magic Bullets, Double Your Dating, and lots of others. Most of them were the old school ones from years ago when I was hardcore into this. Then I read those 3 books that really changed me, and after that I stopped reading and just went out a lot and saw progress, and relied on these 3 books as my guiding principles. But looking back I realized I wasted a lot of time reading those other books, and their teachings really confused me back in the day, so I… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 4 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Yeah, I feel like Manson's book brought a whole new and much healthier change to the pick-up world. And now that he's written 2 other books that became famous best-sellers, even more people will be reading Models and following his philosophy. Which is good, because I wish I had read his book first and not the Game. But I don't know if anyone has done anything great since Models. That book seems to be the last big evolution in the seduction community. My personal opinion is that there doesn't see… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I haven't read that book yet, but I've heard great things about it. I know a guy who is really good at connecting with others, and he recommended that book to me as well. I will need to check it out. Thanks for telling me about it. 🙂 | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 10:47 PM |
| 20 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I saw a YouTube video of Nick Sparks where he seemed to know his stuff. I will check out the book. Thanks for the suggestion. 🙂👍🏼 | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach vs Warm ApproachYes. I go to meet-up groups, dance classes (become passionate about dancing, this is a great way to meet girls. If you go to dance classes bc you enjoy dancing girls will start talking to you. If you go to dance classes only to meet girls, they will sense it and avoid you), friendship groups, etc. I also build social circles. If I meet 3 or 4 people at an event and we all know each other, I will invite them all out to catch up as a group. I will build a Facebook chat or Watsapp group with them a… | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach vs Warm ApproachI get very little results from cold approach, but do much, much better with warm approach. My game now is 90% warm approach, and only 10% cold approach. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Where The Seductive Journey Can Lead YouGood article. I especially like this point: "‘Winning’ should not equate to getting laid, or getting attention from women. ‘Winning’ should just be winning in and of itself. By your own standards. Succeeding as a man. Being an unabashed man. Doing what you want. Staying true to your intuition, following your passions, and making strides in whatever field you so choose. In other words, creating your own reality, and succeeding in it. And that is very likely to get you women. But when you conflate… | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is over-emphasized in the community.It depends on the activity. In my experience, dancing and beach volleyball had lots of young people. Writing had a lot of old people. Try out different meet-ups to see what it's like. Sometimes I will go to 3 or 4 different meet-up groups over one day. The ones that I like I will go back to the next time. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is over-emphasized in the community.I don't "hit on" them when I meet them. I get to know them first and see if we get along and connect with each other. If we do, then I put more effort into it. You don't want to be the guy hitting on girls in these groups. You will get kicked out straight away, and rightfully so. What I do is I go there, I'm social, I talk to everyone (the guys and the girls), and I just aim to have a good time and meet people. If I meet a guy I connect with, I will spend more time talking to him than to the gir… | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I did a lot of cold approaching, but I failed a lot. I have had better success from social circle and meet-up groups. So I want to learn more of this, but all the gurus are about cold approaching. Are there any gurus I can follow who teach social circle or warm approach game?Thank you, I will watch their videos. 🙂 | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | I did a lot of cold approaching, but I failed a lot. I have had better success from social circle and meet-up groups. So I want to learn more of this, but all the gurus are about cold approaching. Are there any gurus I can follow who teach social circle or warm approach game?Thank you. | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 04:16 AM |
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