Retired401 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Confident vixen woman needs dating help! What you should do is be yourself. Don't put on an act; don't be contrived. There's no need. Don't you want to be with someone who likes you for who you actually are, and not for an act you put on?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/26 04:53 AM
3	Confident vixen woman needs dating help! You being ghosted likely has nothing to do with you. It's sadly a fixture of modern dating. Otherwise it sounds like you are managing quite well from the sound of things. I'm not sure I'm clear on exactly what you are asking here.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/26 01:37 AM
23	What advice would you give for a sex-averse woman? Be up front about it to anyone you even consider dating. It's only fair.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/26 09:19 PM
5	Dealing with my husbands new panty rules and looking for advice I find myself wondering whether your husband realizes that "perfectly smooth" can also be attributed to not wearing shy underwear at all. 🤔 I also find the fact that he's dictating what kind of underwear you can/can't wear highly unusual. I do not dress to draw attention, but this level of control over what I wear even under my clothing would be a no go for me at my age (50s).	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/25 04:13 PM
6	How to be a good wife to an angry husband? It takes a LOT for my other half to go into a rage. He doesn't rage over every little thing. I wouldn't be able to tolerate that as patiently as you have. I'm not one for ultimatums but I have worked too hard and come too far to put up with walking on eggshells around a rageaholic. I'd tell him he needs counseling or you'll be left with no other option but to consult a lawyer.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/12/25 07:33 AM
1	book recommendations In addition to agreeing with recs for anything by John Gottman and Esther Perel, I'd add every book ever written by Terrence Real. He is a no-BS relationship therapist who calls it like he sees it and I have found many of his specific recommendations to be very useful in my life and relationship. "The New Rules of Marriage" is probably my favorite. I even had my fiancé read it and he agreed. Also, at the risk of being run out of here by a pitchforked mob, I would like to suggest you read The Val…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/25 04:42 PM
6	Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention? Over 30 means less fertile, objectively speaking. It used to be that everyone wanted to have kids, and that isn't so much the case anymore. So it really kind of depends on whether a man is interested in having a family. As far as "manosphere content," I'm too old for most of that at 52. But I did read Orion Taraban's book "The Value of Others" and I pretty much agree with the case he has laid out for the transactional nature of male-female relationships. A lot of people don't like that kind of t…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/25 09:11 PM
3	Career women, do you regret it ? I'm happy to have helped. :) The only certainties in life are death and taxes,m. We do the best we can with all the rest. I wish you the very best of luck. Just the fact that you are thinking about this and asking questions indicates you are smarter than the average bear, and that's a very good thing!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/25 04:37 AM
25	Career women, do you regret it ? This is a tough one. So I'll say ... yes and no. This is a long answer. Apologies. My mother died when I was very small, and I was not close to my stepmother at all. But she raised me and my two stepsisters to achieve and earn and told us to never depend on a man to survive, etc. Probably because she got such a raw deal when she got divorced and then compounded it by marrying my father, who was just a lazy anchor that dragged her down all her life. He stopped working before he even turned 50 -- …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/25 03:12 AM
4	Resources for ex FTM trans people Only good things can come of you being kind to yourself and accepting toward yourself. We are all human and human beings are fundamentally flawed. We don't always make the right choices even when we have good intentions. FWIW, you would be shocked at what plastic surgeons can accomplish these days. I just went in to see one yesterday. I saw some of the work they've done on mastectomy patients and it's incredible. So you may never be able to breastfeed a child, but there are options out there for…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/11/25 04:25 PM
24	Resources for ex FTM trans people I just want to say I admire you very much for having the courage to de-transition, OP. I hope you have the support you need to work through the next few years as you re-center yourself.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/25 02:51 PM
1	Investments in beauty that make the biggest impact? As a 52-y-o woman who has been using rx retinoids for 30 years, I could not agree more.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/11/25 08:22 PM
2	The truth review The book "Cad: Confessions of a Toxic Bachelor" was written by Rick Marin.	/r/seduction	28/05/25 04:40 AM