RetroactiveGratitude Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Then women can hold each other accountable like you suggested earlier for men, or do only men have an obligation to police each other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:37 PM
1	Would you date someone you met in person who didn’t match with you on a dating app? Only if both give the same level of success. If one is better than the other, you risk missed potential opportunity costs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:27 AM
2	Dating is just as terrible in at age 20 as it is at age 30. At best, you just deal with different problems. This breaks down really fast when you simply account for the bs, jadedness, extra drama, ex partners, children, that come into people's life between 20 and 30. Dating at 30 is easily worse for most people because their lives, statistically, have gotten more complex or complicated than it was at 20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 12:09 PM
3	The male loneliness epidemic is self inflicted. The experiences of trans people is further proof of this. Schrodingers locus of control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 10:27 AM
32	Women have a much bigger problem accepting when a men is not dominant, then men accepting when a women is not submissive Ive always personally said that women aren't the more socially aware gender, they just get a pass way more often if they commit a social no no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 04:48 AM
1	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. Oh I dont disagree. This advice of pursuing and harassing until she saus yes that men used to get is very bad. Im a guy and I had to deal with a situationbeing harassed with repeated "whys" from two women while on vacation. Was fucking awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 02:52 AM
5	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. They're still afraid to just be politely honest even though western countries are safer than ever. A cromagnon caveman might jump out and bunk them on the head. At least thats the sentiment I get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 12:19 PM
–	Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminism Another truth: women see themselves as much more monolithic than men do, and this is a the source of much of their frustration of why the guy doesnt "just get" whatever bs she isn't grown enough to directly communicate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 10:00 PM
7	Let's say something nice about the opposite sex. I admire women's ability to stick together and be cohesive, even if at times its surface level. As a guy, sometimes even hanging out with your own buddies can divulge into competitiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 08:58 PM
2	The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad. Yea this is why you can't take western white women serious... as many of them that think they'd love the ease of arranged marriage... we're talking about the same group that sees 5+ year age gaps as predatory, male boundaries as insecure and controlling... again, a laughable premise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 04:09 PM
9	The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad. Im laughing my ass off at the thought of western white woman having to pick a partner and stay with them no matter what, not jumping ship at the first sight of anything problematic. Im a western white guy btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 11:41 AM
–	Most women dont date betä buxx̌ Im a zoomer and I dont know anyone with those obscure or expensive hobbies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 07:42 PM
–	Most women dont date betä buxx̌ That's still not women. Women will literally have a different color purse for each day of the week for some silly reason. Men and women's comparative consumption is not even close to equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 04:15 PM
–	Most women dont date betä buxx̌ Lol at the idea of women being bare minimum consumers. That's so backwards its crazy. Men are the ones living in bachelor pads with floor matrressses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 04:10 PM
1	Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to society It has much to do with how we subconsciously categorize people. Older single men are definitely outcasted and treated as other / weird / creepy more often than older single women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 02:08 PM