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I’d be doing a lot of work, on myself, to make sure I’m not attracting the same type of frogs I had previously been with. I would also get very clear on what you want in a man. You could seek professional help (therapist, somatic healer) and/or read some books. eg. Dr Joe Dispenza, Abraham Hicks, Byron Katie, Dr Nicole LePera.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 12:11 AM
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I would be very wary that he’s not following through. Actions speak louder than words! Keep your options open.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/25 02:01 AM
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Hey love, everyone here has hit the nail on the head - he’s an addict. As someone who is married to a porn addict (15 years together), I can confirm that it does affect your sexual relationship and intimacy and it will just get worse. If I was back dating, knowing what I know now, I would exit the relationship if he wasn’t willing to realise he has a problem and do something about it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 02:37 AM
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I let it go, the first time, as I’d found the evidence from snooping and I know my DH would have focused on that fact and tried to make it out about ME having done something wrong. We were having lots of ups and downs, at the time, so I guess I just stored away what he had done into my mental folder of reasons to leave, if I ended up choosing that avenue. Both chats fizzled out of their own accord. I don’t have reason to believe he has reconnected with them. The only reason I had thought about h…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 11:52 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 08:30 AM
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Thanks so much for your reply! Ah yes, I know what you mean - my eldest had DuoLingo for a bit. I suppose that’s a possibility. If I could just find out what app he’s using, that would give me a clue. No, he doesn’t have a password. I do, on mine, but we just don’t use each others’ phones. I think it mostly comes down to mine being Apple and his Samsung - each of us has no idea how to use the others’ phone! As for the other ladies, well, I never brought it up with him because I snooped his fb me…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 01:34 AM
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Thank you for your response! Ugh, honestly, I wouldn’t put it past his crazy ex or adult daughters (they have been brainwashed by their mum) to actually do something like this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 01:29 AM
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Yes. Well, dating or something where he can chat to women. I don’t think he is physically going out and meeting with other women.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 01:28 AM
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Thank you for your perspective. I like how you’ve worded the inquiry; I’ll practice it so it sounds natural and ask him!
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 01:28 AM
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I’d love to, but DH has made it very clear he doesn’t want the responsibility of it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/24 04:00 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate your perspective and will implement your suggestions.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/24 10:54 PM
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Ah, bum. I’m in Australia 😬 Thank you anyway!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/24 08:08 AM
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I think it might be a good idea, yes, thank you! Can you please share with me one that you recommend? Someone else suggested the Every Dollar app, but I can’t find it in the app store.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/24 08:14 AM
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Lovely, thank you so much for this suggestion! I will look into it :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/24 02:38 AM
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It took a long time, but I have done a lot of work on myself over the years to release that fear.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/24 09:54 PM
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Yeah, it was bit of a shock. It could have been a great relationship, but I don’t think she had the emotional mindset or maturity to want to nourish a relationship with my sister & me. I’m sure you’ve got this! There are so many wonderful teachings, within RPW, to save and restore marriages!
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/24 01:42 AM
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Mum was a SAHM. She and Dad separated when I was 12. He had cheated on her and is still with the other woman - she’s only 12 years older than me. Very controlling and I have cut ties with her, as has my sister. It has negatively impacted our relationship with our Dad, unfortunately. Mum passed when I was 25. I believe my desire to be a SAHM is inspired because of my mothers’ choice. And I have fought tooth and nail for my marriage because I didn’t want to put our boys through a divorce because I…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/24 12:59 AM
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I appreciate your suggestions, thank you! I am also looking for ways to connect more, emotionally, at the moment.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/24 05:00 AM
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I love this, thank you! We could definitely do with more date nights!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 09:40 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 09:37 PM
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Wonderful! Thank you for sharing. I’m new to the community 😊
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/24 08:33 AM
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