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Blue Pill ExampleReturningSpider/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 12:48 AM
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Red Pill TheoryReturningSpider/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 03:41 PM
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Leaving on read for 24 hours is not a quick reply. I guess we will see how it ends up lol. I’m a bit of a grouchy old man so I have pretty much 0 tolerance for this stuff
/r/seduction03/05/20 10:16 AM
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Just move on don’t waste your time. If she usually responds quick and isn’t doing it anymore odds are she lost interest
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:46 AM
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OP your friend sounds like a loser but you sound like an even bigger loser for making this post lmao
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 05:08 AM
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Remember kids, this is why we keep our face out of images we don’t want the world to actually associate with us!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 10:02 AM
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Lmao it’s talking about balls not dick size you fucking mongtard And regardless this isn’t really even a conclusion you can draw from a study on primates
/r/BlackPillScience26/04/19 07:31 PM
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What women say they want and what women want are two different, sometimes overlapping categories. The legendary brad Pitt fight club physique is indistinguishable from skinny normie in clothes. There is definitely a point of overdoing it with muscles but the average juicer is going to never come anywhere close to that. Most enhanced guys aren’t even trying to get huge... they want to look like Chris Hemsworth in Thor more so than Ronnie Coleman lol It’s a mog or be mogged world, and being tall a…
/r/BlackPillScience22/04/19 05:23 AM
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Ya I take roids lol
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/19 05:25 PM
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It’s not. But a man finds himself in stupid situations because muh dick lol
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 05:19 PM
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Nope. Good emotional connection is definitely a thing that can happen. Granted, sexual attraction is a prerequisite for it... but trust me, new pussy feels bland compared to good pussy + connection. Not to say new pussy isn’t fun in its own right...
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 04:50 PM
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In this particular anecdote one was exclusive and the others were side chicks... so the mission really was keeping the side chicks away from main and vice versa
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 04:47 PM
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No pussy compares to LTR pussy (if you pick a hottie with good attitude, obviously)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 05:45 PM
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Underrated post. You’d like to think 4 girls in rotation would help you feel secure, but more often than not this scenario just leads to 4x the stress lol. Especially if you’re trying to keep them from finding out about each other
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 02:08 PM
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This is can work in a group setting, but one on one you'd often have no choice. Few things in game are "one size fits all" universally applicable tactics, agree and amplify is probably as close as you'd get to one.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 08:48 AM
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The “stoic and unaffected” response here is really contingent on delivery. “You’re really short” “Yeah” could easily have come out of a docile manlet who knows his place. If your attitude and general demeanour isn’t already oozing “fuck you, I don’t care”, chances are the “yeah” will be taken as a submissive response. Agree and amplify is pretty much idiot proof by comparison. Instead of just saying “I don’t care about this stupid game” you’re saying “this game is stupid and so are you”, which i…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 05:06 PM
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Sick, it’s an interesting part of the world to see regardless so I’m sure you’ll enjoy it. Given your ethnicity I think I need to clarify, by Indian from Canada I mean south Asian guy who grew up in Canada, not native Canadian lol. But yeah sounds like you should have the foreigner effort going for you as well
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 05:27 PM
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Indian from Canada, so pretty visibly foreign. I'm also taller than most guys I saw walking around there, which I'm sure helped. It's by no means a pussy paradise but women there are way more approachable (and attractive) in general than most women you'll see at the club in anglo countries.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 01:58 PM
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Moscow for the most part
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:11 PM
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This except unironically because that was my experience when I visited
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 06:41 PM
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Once again I'm not saying anyone can make themselves exceptional. But the overwhelming majority of guys can absolutely improve themselves to a point where they don't need to be incel. If you're like 4'11" or something then yeah you're almost certainly SOL but most guys complaining about not getting girls aren't nearly as disadvantaged as they think they are
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 02:49 PM
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Like I said. You may not have the genes to be the best at something; in fact most people probably don’t. But it’s quite unlikely that your genetics would just wholly suck across the board to the point that you can’t be at least decent at something
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 04:40 AM
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high pitched effeminate voice lisp Sub 6' height minority ^ List of things that did not stop Iron Mike from getting more laid than Genghis Khan. Think about that the next time you're autistically fixating on your flaws that are totally stopping you from getting laid edit: before the comments come in saying "hurr well not all of us can just become a world class boxer" - that's exactly the fucking point. Mike made himself exceptional. You probably won't become one of the GOATs of boxing, and you p…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 08:16 AM
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Eh, I don’t drink regularly but it’s certainly possible to enjoy alcohol in moderation while maintaining leanness or even losing weight. Martin Berkhan has a good guide on his site
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 06:23 PM
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There's really no harm in it. I do it, made a habit of that + some exercises he recommends, chewing gum regularly as well as working on my posture over the past few months and I at least think it's made improvements to my face. Can't support that with any meaningful evidence unfortunately so take that as you will. I certainly encourage it though, if nothing else at least just chew gum and work on your posture. Really nothing to lose
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 06:25 PM
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Lol no need for the passive aggressive word vomit g. If you want to call me inexperienced go ahead and do it directly, it’d take 1/10 of the words if I were doing well with women, I wouldn’t waste a second question a strangers experience off a field post that I could spend in the field. You kind of dug yourself wayyy deeper into the obvious virgin hole with this comment here
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:13 AM
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Sorry bud, but this reads like an absolute white belt post. I would even hazard you're either a virgin or at most a guy who had some bland relationship in high school for a bit and got dumped. Not trying to put you down (despite what my comment sounds like), just want to make you aware that your inexperience shows. Now, you are correct that status within a group is useful - obviously, it gives you social proof and plenty of cool points that help seal the deal. That said, aside from what others h…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 08:07 AM
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You may not be above average now but if you keep up the lifting till you have a noticeably good physique and improve your social skills there is no reason you can't at least get a girlfriend (unless you're a literal midget/deformed horrifically in some way) Also, I live in a small town in Eastern Europe, fifteen thousand people. Willing to be that's your biggest problem. You will have way more options in bigger cities.
/r/BlackPillScience07/03/19 12:22 PM
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In real life you don’t need to be Chad... you just need to be above average. Obviously the closer you are to chad the more likely you are to slay in general but there’s very few guys actually out there too ugly to get a gf at all. What do you think is holding you back the most?
/r/BlackPillScience07/03/19 11:32 AM
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The defeatism in those communities is toxic. I lurk there (because they’re undeniably funny as shit) and despite having a good sex life it still make me feel like a loser lol
/r/BlackPillScience07/03/19 08:10 AM
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This is exactly why I tell guys on the incel sub most of them aren’t doomed. If I’d posted there 5 years ago they’d be telling me it’s over but I’ve gone on to do alright (from lifting and learning game)
/r/BlackPillScience07/03/19 07:45 AM
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Your best bet at recovery is to make yourself scarce for a while. With a girl who flat out says this kind of thing you might even want to think about full on NC for a while In either case, if you can manage to reappear into her life back to being your old charming self she may be willing to pretend the fragile stuff never happened
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 01:20 PM
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Funny but sad to think how many guys live their lives like this.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 07:42 PM
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I don’t actually disagree with you. Just wanted to wind some people up, which it did lmao Though in this case guilt blowjob might unironically not be a bad call... a guy getting cucked this brutally isn’t the kind of guy I can picture getting laid anytime this year
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:40 AM
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Hahahaha I got downvoted to shit on an alt there for chiding OP for not getting a guilt blowjob Some highlights from the replies - “a guilt blowjob is something that only makes sense on pornhub. It’s kind of really rapey irl, seeing as the giver doesn’t actually wanna do it, they’ve just been guilt tripped into it” <— unsurprisingly, from an account that seems to belong to a woman
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:18 AM
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I don’t even disagree with that. But that has nothing to do with not getting laid, which is exactly the context I see “it’s over” being used in
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 04:54 PM
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This is unbelievably shitty advice. If she sees you as a high value man, as long as you're not overly clingy some base level of dread will always exist. Good 'dread game tactics', for the most part, would just be embellishing on things that are true and things you would be doing anyways with or without her. More than that however, they are something you only need to pull out once in a while to poke at her. If you do it all the time, she will either get used to it (and it will stop having the des…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 11:12 AM
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Once you’ve seen the “please fuck me” face, you’ll recognize it anywhere. If a woman is into you, she’ll make no secret of the fact... it’s easy to spot
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 08:13 PM
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This might be the most needed post I’ve seen on here in a while. Take notes kiddos
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:11 PM
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The right thing to do would have been to ignore the harpie. I’m willing to bet she was less attractive than most of the girls present. This is her way of getting the attention she craves but isn’t getting. It is best to avoid voicing blasphemous views while in a cult congregation. Political/social science fields are absolutely toxic at most universities. Sad as it is, sometimes you just need to keep your head down and your mouth shut.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 06:34 AM
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I’m in an LTR with a Chinese girl and the taking things at face value/matter-of-fact thing applies there too. It’s great! No bullshit and super easy to deal with
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 09:11 AM
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Her husband was pretty god damn beta man I’d be beyond surprised if he was cheating. I know rich guys who live the kind of life you’re describing but they tend to be at the very least average looking if not better. But yeah, I mean there’s no way to prove it to you of course but she certainly seemed to be viscerally attracted. I’m no male model but I’m 6’2” and have enough size to impress normies from years of lifting. I’m not sure what you’re saying about exotic pool boy but yeah I’m not white …
/r/BlackPillScience16/11/18 10:53 AM
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Bit over 30. No idea how long they’d been married
/r/BlackPillScience16/11/18 10:33 AM
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Lol I have rich parents so I’ve seen that world. There’s no denying that it helps but you’re delusional if you think a woman’s visceral attraction to a incel looking rich guy is greater than that to average income chad. I had a fwb for some time who was a married to a short, bald but very wealthy man. And here she was fucking a college student living off his parents, lol...
/r/BlackPillScience16/11/18 10:29 AM
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Yeah, I’m sure zuckerberg has women just dripping from his presence...
/r/BlackPillScience16/11/18 10:01 AM
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hurr i wasnt born 6'5" with jaw of the gods so whats the point in even trying
/r/BlackPillScience11/11/18 07:28 PM
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Don’t be a defeatist retard. Hit the gym and work on your game. It’s not that hard even if you’re not “chad”
/r/BlackPillScience11/11/18 06:30 PM
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The bar for being a “hot guy” is pretty low given the state of the average soyboy A good physique alone can take you a long way
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 07:30 AM
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They don't. A lot of korean men, for example, actually get jaw shaving surgery to "correct" their strong jaws. A lot of arab/persian/indian men have square faces. Are there a lot of white guys with strong jaws too? Of course. But the average white soyboy does not have a particularly strong lower third.
/r/BlackPillScience29/10/18 06:36 PM
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Bulk. If you’re not growing you’re not eating. I barely made gains my first 5 years of lifting because I was deathly terrified of putting on fat. Fat loss is relatively easy, creating new tissue is harder. And this is coming from a former fatty
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:05 PM
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This guy has very obviously only recently signed up for a boxing gym and feels the need to have a dick measuring contest with all the big guys of the world because his physique resembles Christian Bale in the machinist more than Mike Tyson. I’m mostly a grappling guy (judo/bjj/wrestling) but I’ve dabbled in boxing here and there over the years. The whole “strength vs technique” thing is just a retarded argument that just keeps popping up again and again online between skinny dudes who just signe…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 11:28 PM
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No, it hampers your ability to do that while staying within whatever weight class. Obviously the more muscle you have the harder you’ll hit. Muscle and technique are not mutually exclusive at all
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 10:46 PM
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Hell yeah man. I’m not huge but in most social settings I’m usually the biggest guy in the group and the amount of autism it lets you get away with is unbelievable. Anything you do is automatically cool if you’re the “big guy”
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 10:34 PM
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Good post. I used to really struggle with confidence (even though I’d still do a decent job faking it). I was always thinking about whether or not people around me will approve of what I’m doing - essentially, I needed constant validation that what I’m doing is cool enough to be done right now. At some point I realized everyone thinks this. Everyone is looking to everyone for validation (assuming you aren’t so low SMV that you’re invisible to people). The difference between “alphas” and everyone…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 10:44 PM
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You mean exceptionally gravitationally gifted
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:23 PM
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I said twice in my comment that I don’t recommend this. I’m not saying you go out and start a fight every time someone hits on your girl. Ive been in a grand total of one fight in my life, and it wasn’t girl related. Sometimes things just happen, and context is very important. There’s a world of difference between roughing up some drunk frat boy acting up, and picking a fight with a pack of chocolate Americans outside a bar at 2AM. If anyone happens to give a fuck, here’s the story I had in mind…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 02:02 PM
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Not gonna disagree with the advice ITT, but if you physically intimidate the guy and make him look like a bitch it can really give her the tingles. Again not saying you should do this, just sharing the experience lol
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 11:46 PM
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Excellent post. Game comes so much easier when you just see these things for what they are and not the rose tinted beta lenses you were raised with
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 10:47 PM
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You can’t turn a whore into a housewife. This applies at the meta level to societies too
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:57 PM
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Martin Berkhan has a pretty neat guide on having your cake and eating it too The rules are as follows: For this day, restrict your intake of dietary fat to 0.3 g/kg body weight (or as close to this figure as possible). Limit carbs to 1.5 g/kg body weight. Get all carbs from veggies and the tag-along carbs in some protein sources. You’ll also want to limit carbohydrate-rich alcohol sources such as drinks made with fruit juices and beer. A 33 cl/12 fl oz of beer contains about 12 g carbs, while a …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 05:44 PM
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The problem isn't his fitness level, it's his autistic commitment to his diet. His work ethic (and probably physique) is certainly respectable, but it is clear the man's biggest and only priority in life is his body. The same way his fitness endeavours would regress a bit if he was to let it go every now and then and enjoy some time with a girl, he's letting bonding opportunities with women go and consequently suffering in that department. The rules of the game are simple. What you work towards,…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 05:22 PM
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I’ve done 585, though I doubt I could go beyond 550ish these days
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 01:32 PM
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I've hit almost 3x bodyweight deadlift and exceeded 1.5x bodyweight bench. I'm not light either, I was 200-205 at 6'2" hitting these numbers (I'm a bit weaker now from focusing on martial arts but still close to these numbers). I guess to say I barely look like I lift would be an exaggeration, but I certainly don't look as jacked as those articles aimed at beginners suggest you'll look with a 3 plate bench and 6 plate deadlift lol. I just look like a regular guy with a big frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 06:01 PM
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As a guy with pretty decent gym lifts who still barely looks like he lifts, I have to disagree. The only people seeing you pick up 600lbs off the floor are guys at the gym. Outside the gym as far as anyone’s concerned you’re only as strong as you look Not saying it’s not cool to be outlifting guys bigger than you, but it’s definitely also cool to have big arms. Working on the latter these days
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 03:28 PM
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Agree with most of it. Don't skimp on isolation boys. You don't want to be benching 3 plates and looking DYEL next to your buddy who struggles with 275 Do your god damn curls and skullcrushers
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 06:09 AM
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The biggest benefit I've noticed from martial arts is the calmness. You learn that when you're in a tight spot, getting emotional and spazzing out will only work against you. Calmly assessing the situation and strategically trying to get out is the best path. This carries over to pretty much anything else in life too
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 06:13 AM
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I’ve trained like this for most of my time lifting. Can confirm it’s legit
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 05:46 AM
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Makes the bar thicker and more difficult to hold on to. Recruits more forearm muscles in just holding the thing
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:36 PM
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Hell yeah man, try doing pull-ups with it (bonus points if weighted) I use them for almost every exercise, and it’s really paid off. Of course I still do heavy pulls etc without them (using straps even), but for any and all volume work I throw them on
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 03:17 AM
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You're not being paranoid. In fact, you should have left sooner. Cut your losses. Get out. The fact that she's constantly thinking about her ex and other men (to the point she's even saying his name in her sleep) means you're the backup and she'll leave you first chance she gets.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:15 AM
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This is golden, I only came to realize it relatively recently
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 06:10 PM
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A good workout partner is rare. Most guys are no better than women when it comes to working out with, and I’m not just talking about them being weak. You’ll rarely see guys with the drive or energy to get a good workout going I “work out” with my girlfriend all the time, by which I mean we walk to the gym together, then do our own thing. We chat between sets every now and then. Sometimes she spots me. Why? I enjoy spending time with her. If you enjoy it, keep doing it. If it’s not affecting your…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 09:27 PM
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Start with MMA, you can put on some mass just with calisthenics (home pullup bar costs $20-30, pushups and pistol squats are free) Most MMA gyms I've been to have a weights area anyways so if you sign up for one, you can probably just do both things
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 02:32 PM
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People watching on the subway in itself feels like going to the zoo, lol
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 09:57 PM
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