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| 49 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesDistance, debt and donald top 3 interesting read, my take is too many of you younger US folk, are too busy trying to keep your head above water to be able to think about anything other than a touch of casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay itMy ex wife did want half my 2012 civic and did baby trap me lol She failed and my civic is still going strong :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 07:53 AM |
| 44 | They won’t believe you, because you are a man - 799 up 96,000 down, Amber is getting the truthBefore the comments get deleted on there, enjoy | /r/MensRights | 23/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 34 | Men having close friendships with other men harms womenI'm going to do a bad job of explaining an article i read now “what’s wrong” This is actually a really bad way to start a discussion with your partner At the onset you are saying "I've decided there is a problem by saying "Wrong"..." From the start that puts him either in a confused or defensive stance because you have already stated something is wrong when he could be fine inside. This is made worse by any reply like .... "yes there is" ..... "you sure" etc. as it confirms you have decided ther… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/20 04:16 PM |
| 26 | The marriage rate is declining in America (Do you think a big reason has to do with the fact that a man usually has more to lose in a divorce than a woman does?)As a divorcee myself there is a pretty simple rule for being in a safe marriage Never date anywhere below your income level Never date anyone who's career is "work until I have kids then you pay for everything" with no end date of kids going to school (4-5) ish Breadwinners get screwed in divorce regardless of gender (kicking child support to the side here), this is why you see outliers of men getting alimony or the wife having to pay them out but this is very rare and it's rare because women sp… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/20 11:27 AM |
| 47 | The marriage rate is declining in America (Do you think a big reason has to do with the fact that a man usually has more to lose in a divorce than a woman does?)His fiancee is a millionaire | /r/MensRights | 14/12/20 11:13 AM |
| 3 | This whole women are not rehabilitation centers for badly raised men is a huge double standard.No problem, we all agree that if we date any women over 100, we'll pay for all their shit and be happy about it. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 0 | If you disagree with it, you're excluded; if you think differently, you're not tolerated; and if you raise objections, you're mocked or face formal disciplineNowhere is my post have i said anything along those lines I said you can be fired for bringing your employer into disrepute (in their opinion, not his), he wanted to broadcast something to his students, the employer said no, he then put it on youtube. By this people will link the content and him to his job at the uni and by association with him, associate with his employer after they told him not to broadcast this, this will be a "reputational breach" This will not be heard as a political belief… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/20 08:36 PM |
| -1 | If you disagree with it, you're excluded; if you think differently, you're not tolerated; and if you raise objections, you're mocked or face formal disciplineOk i'll ignore the 20 years i spent working in and around UK employment law :) | /r/MensRights | 03/12/20 08:18 PM |
| 0 | If you disagree with it, you're excluded; if you think differently, you're not tolerated; and if you raise objections, you're mocked or face formal disciplineNo not at all, i'm saying legally they can fire him, that's all it was a procedural observation | /r/MensRights | 03/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 71 | UK: Woman, 32, lured boy, 14, back to her house to have sex after watching him play football court hears.I wouldn't even want to call it rape in this scenario Under UK law a proven offence can be set as "Child Sexual Abuse" which is a much heavier tag in my opinion There are enough people in the UK to dismiss a woman committing "rape" on a male, they won't do the same with a CSA tag | /r/MensRights | 02/12/20 12:25 AM |
| 5 | My daughter’s birthday..As someone who had years being fucked about, 2 things Birthday Number 2 Christmas Number 2 Your kid will get used to it (and normally 2x = happier kid in the grand scheme) I also never once communicated these plans as the moment i did, drama would be created to stop the activity It's shit but much better than playing the role of their drama puppet. Even now my kid is nearly 20 my ex does everything she can to scupper any plans or cause an issue around birthdays and holidays It doesn't register a… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/20 02:08 PM |
| 7 | If you can’t control your emotions stop blaming men. Blame a culture that has infantilized you and convinced that every feeling means something. It doesn’t.Please dont ever give any credibility to that newspaper in here (even by linking articles) If you want to know why ask r/liverpool and they will show you why it should be ignored and its content rejected | /r/MensRights | 28/11/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Lawyer breaks down ridiculous Johnny Depp ruling. Must watchDidn't get through all 45 but the first 10 mins of her summary screamed "out lawyered" and nothing else I tickle around law in my job and some of the stuff is basic in legal terms (such as witness testomy ignored if the person does not present a witness) I hope he appeals but more, he need a new solicitor ! | /r/MensRights | 07/11/20 11:55 AM |
| 7 | If being a stay at home parent is oppression and being the working spouse is privilege, then Women would be marrying down en masseIf you frame privilege as suffering you get to resist any attempts at making you do any more and can keep putting more responsibility on the other party It's the cry of the lazy and entitled most of the time There will be some "oppressed " sahp where the partner forces it or insists but every single sah person I've ever known, chose to As im older they didn't bleat, whine and complain like folks these days do | /r/MensRights | 24/10/20 09:51 AM |
| 8 | Jealous girlfriend, 38, who bit her boyfriend's testicles before stabbing the father-of-three to death in front of horrified friends is guilty of manslaughterhttps://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/voluntary-manslaughter-overview.html This explains it at the start better than me pretending to know what i'm on about and passing it off as my own words :) | /r/MensRights | 23/10/20 02:17 PM |
| 59 | Jealous girlfriend, 38, who bit her boyfriend's testicles before stabbing the father-of-three to death in front of horrified friends is guilty of manslaughterIts just how the uk law works https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-53339466 here is the opposite 75yr old guy stabs his wife to death on christmas day, just the headline makes you think "he's snapped" guilty of MS The key in UK law is premeditation, if you kill someone on impulse then its normally going as manslaughter. Otherwise you need to prove beyond reasonable doubt that person planned to do what they did Manslaughter is murder without premeditation in the uk and until the sentence is given,… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/20 01:02 PM |
| 241 | In today's example of why UK police is a joke, award is given after the Manchester bombing to brave wamen who wasn't even at the event and admits she wouldn't have been much help if she had.Not MR Just a potentially incompetent copper who happens to be female The only thing that matters here is did she duck her shift or have an allowed 2 hr break If she should have been there then she has some culpability | /r/MensRights | 21/10/20 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Here's one for you guys: Women gets an abortion after her and her partner agree to having kids. Commenters keep repeating "her body, her choice". People sympthazing with the man get down voted.I didn't get down voted for saying he had every right to be angry I got reddit shiny shiny You just have to be considered when you reply to any topic which brings the brain dead in who can only parrot ybyc and add nothing else I do know how sexist against men the relationship subs can be especially when it comes to pregnancy/chores but you choose your words carefully and sometimes you get DV sometimes not Depends how many "men bad" posters are online in my experience and if the thread has alread… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 12:32 PM |
| 6 | Short men are the most discriminated people in the world today and for the forseeable future.I'm 5 7 and can say I've never felt or observed any discrimination towards me and I get lost sometimes how much height seems to be an issue (maybe my age, not young anymore) On top of that maybe some women drove right by me as they wanted mr 6 foot So fucking what, they have preferences, so do I Did I win the genetic lottery, nope, so I love who I am not who I wish I was, do taller people gain advantage in many aspects of life, of course they do Good luck to them, I was blessed with other advant… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/20 11:04 AM |
| 13 | May get fired over not leaving toilet seat down at workEverybody uses this line but forgets how often shutting the lid and walking away means the next person often ends up lifting the lid to find a present from the last user because they don't check if it has flushed properly This (in my view) is a direct cause of more blockages at work than home, in addition you end up sitting on something that is stewing only recently flushed and i bet there are more bacteria and such people get exposed to because of lid shutting when using communal toilets Source… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/20 11:10 AM |
| 20 | women can go have fun, while men should be ashamed of themselvesIts literally the only contract i'm aware of where the party breaching it can seek damages from the one who followed it There is no gender bias at this level, the indirect sex discrimination kicks in when it becomes known that a shit-high% of "breadwinners" (aka the payers out) are men This is why you cannot marry (male or female) anymore unless your partner makes as much or slightly more than you, otherwise the moment the ring goes on the person being supported gains all the power of divorce to… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 6 | I’ve noticed a social trend; women are more confident in physical and social confrontations because it’s safer for themAll of this comes from how we develop as males The first time someone puts you on your ass you evaluate every confrontation with another guy very quickly We all do it, we will weigh up guys within seconds on how far we will escalate things, we choose when to stfu or back off because our caveman brain says "he bigger than me" It's inherent in our nature and nothing new What is new is women now act the same but they do not have the same consequences of that first memory looking up from the floor b… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 11:36 AM |
| 239 | On that note was the worst tantrum from your s.o or exes.Nearly every birthday I had Get up receive socks and deodorant from kids I Pick where I want to go I Plan how to get there (city breaks e.g.) make any bookings I Drive there as DD I Pick where "we" went Have meal paid for Get home and give wife money was short after paying for meal If it was a gift birthday, I had to say what I wanted , One year I asked for a day to myself It was Bliss ......... The last birthday I had with my now ex, I made it clear I wasn't picking anything, the night ended wi… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/20 10:28 AM |
| 4 | How to avoid being falsely accused of rape?I married "real' crazy and can tell you the signs and behaviour markets are always there, we ignore them or don't understand them, the key is to educate yourself Any young guy should do a crash course on learning how people with cluster b personality disorders act and you'll weed out 95% immediately If I'd learned before my relationship what I learned after it, my life would have been a whole lot different | /r/MensRights | 13/06/20 10:17 AM |
| 11 | We all need to message this guy and tell him to file for divorce and a permanent restraining orderI thought infidelity would be the worst thing to happen in marriage, but I was wrong. When you have been married to a borderline you truly understand that quote (and everything else happening as you can substitute each bit of abuse with your own, e.g. he got a lamp, i got a glass vase etc. ) Dude needs a new therapist for starters, when I saw one & a psych they both told me to gtfo and cut her from my life completely, they rammed it home i was being seriously abused by someone who was not ever g… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/20 12:12 PM |
| 19 | I was physically and emotionally abused by my ex girlfriend and currently struggling with post traumatic stress. When I reach out for help people end up having doubts or are skeptical as to whether I was really abused or not. I know what I went through and all of it was very real.This may well be a journey that you have to complete on your own because abusers hide who they are from others meaning they never see the true 100% person My ex wife has BPD, right at the malignant end where I was literally pushed to the brink of suicide because she wanted me to die when she was no longer in control at all, only the psychiatrist saw the truth when I explained the lead up, nobody else in my life will understand that she was trying to do what she did, nobody else saw the wry smile… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | [Mod Approved] [Academic] Relationship Matters: Personality and Relationship Behaviour (18+, current relationship of 6+ months)Shame I escaped one of these relationships as I'd have happily completed the survey | /r/MensRights | 29/05/20 10:05 AM |
| 5 | [Long image] debating emotional fairness with a feminist kinda makes the 'it's about equality' mask slipI'm not debating feminists, a feminist is debating me Tomato tomato your giving your time and energy, don't! | /r/MensRights | 22/05/20 04:49 PM |
| 17 | [Long image] debating emotional fairness with a feminist kinda makes the 'it's about equality' mask slipDon't "debate" feminists The most powerful tool you have is your ability to choose who is worthy of your time and effort I'm a negotiator (nothing cool) The one lesson i learned more than any other is when people won't even listen and engage with you, they will never change to accommodate you What do you need from feminism? I need nothing so they are silent to me, no matter how loud they shout. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/20 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: Was dating easier in the 80s?Yes it was The time to effort ratio was 100x less You approached (or she did with friends) and knew within a few minutes of actual conversation if it was going anywhere You also instantly saw them physically cutting out most of the photoshopping bullshit of today Often you would know in seconds if there was interest, no days and weeks of emoji fucking each other and meme sharing/talking bollocks. With all socialising back then (In the UK) being around pubs/beer, everybody was also socially lubri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 09:26 PM |
| 7 | This entire sub is just “kill all men!” And it’s sick all their flair revolves around all men being undeserving of life liberty or the pursuit or happiness. Fuck r/thefairersexThat's the spirit! | /r/MensRights | 14/05/20 08:52 AM |
| 3 | This Mother’s Day, Women Should All Get to Be Dads | Mother's day is only once a year, but every day is Male-bashing day for feminists.When you ignore the dad is usually the one who is doing hours of paid labour where an actual employer is one mistake from firing you, any study like this will appear women are victims If I work 8hrs and get $100 a day over 5 days that is $500 to cover not me, my family If I pay my partner $20hr and agree they work all day when I'm out and then their job takes them into the night (let's say 10hrs a day) I owe them $200 a day So I now cut it to $10 (next headline - women paid only $10hr by sexist … | /r/MensRights | 10/05/20 11:48 AM |
| 12 | Marriage rates are declining because women are having difficulty finding men who earn as much as they do. If men were economically privileged and earned more, this wouldn't be happening!The problem is identified in how it's worded "Down" Nearly every man I know is or has been married (nr 50 now) I never heard them say marrying down, they never indicated their wife's lower earnings made them less of a person They never complained once ever about their income (only their spending) Another example of schrodingers feminism When a man outearns they gain zero back from it (effort, respect, appreciation) they actually get called sexist or patriarchs when a woman outearns her partner, … | /r/MensRights | 10/05/20 11:27 AM |
| 23 | Philip Davies MP: 'Attempts to keep a child away from one parent should be classed as domestic abuse'Personally i prefer the term kidnap (where there is no evidence that person acted to protect themselves/the child and just bailed) today top post on uk legal advice https://old.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceUK/comments/gas0v1/my_girlfriend_has_taken_my_3_month_old_son_to_a/ | /r/MensRights | 30/04/20 11:01 PM |
| 14 | US Marriage Rate Plunges to Record LowMarriage is absolutely fine and no risk if:- She earns significantly more than you Comes in with more assets Refuses to SAH and keeps out earning you Insists on covering 1/2 of everything Does not want children that she isn't prepared to support 50/50 whatever the outcome without any CS Splits every home task and and admin task of running the home on an equal basis Works the same hours or makes up in house maintenance if not. Insists on a prenup where both leave with what they came in with - 50%… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/20 10:55 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!I'd say more that it chains the breadwinner to that person so you don't dare do the things above If you're not the breadwinner you can act as you please once you've got the paper, unless you're pretty much murdering people you're getting half and the other person paying for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Hello guys, I have an idea to devilify male fashion. What about a #toothbrushmoustachechallenge 😘If one of my mates sent me that tash pic They would wish there was a cross they were nailed to because they would be suffering for a lot longer than 3 days Dude! Your going full McPoyle here | /r/MensRights | 28/04/20 10:25 PM |
| 3 | US Government employee training contains double standards - 54% of women experienced sexual harassment ("discrimination") while only 10% of men "claimed" to have experienced sexual harassmentJust to comment on your second point I wouldn't even call it "letting it slide" I'd call it "not giving a fuck" I have a colleague who will literally motorboat me out of the blue (bpd bells rings loud for her) I've even warned how that may be "seen" as serious sexual harassment by others Bottom line though, I get to decide what is a sexual assault and harassment on me Do women touch me at work, yes, have they put their hands on me without permission, yes, do they hug without asking, yes (pre c19… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Is this sub still about Red vs. Blue?Indeed, been circling around unsub for a bit now as they are dominating all content with their envy driven nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 09:00 AM |
| 8 | Spreading misinformation because women have nothing else to complain aboutWife was backseat driving | /r/MensRights | 25/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Japanese mayor says men should grocery shop during pandemic as women 'take a longer time'I read this just before I did my big shop yesterday As I walked round I looked, my findings as I detest supermarket zombies at the best of times : Similar amount of single men and women pissing about choosing Noticeable slowdown where there were 2 or more people shopping together, a couple of women were taking the piss , so was a couple m/f Ironically as I went left and a women went right to dodgem past an isle blocking couple, deciding which tin of beans to buy, we both gave each other the same… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Almost half of married mothers in the US do not work full time.And the point is the man only has to bring in the income Indeed, this is soooo god dam easy 3/4 of those with this easy role are men. Women need to wise up and swap the home for the office, they must be real martyrs to choose SAH instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 62 | Sad but true. Society doesn't REALLY want men to be "vulnerable."The difference is the reasoning behind it Man to man (as in friend groups) Man Up is usually a push from a buddy because they know you can push yourself up from whatever the issue is, it's like a buddy stood at the side of you at the gym Woman to Man - Change your behaviour right now, back to where I am not expected to offer any help or support, not only do I not care about your issues, I'm going to paint you as weak and useless to enforce this selfish demand | /r/MensRights | 19/04/20 08:36 AM |
| 17 | If you search for "Amber Heard" on women's subreddits, what do you find? Take a look into the means these communities will take to defend an abuser.I disagree that they see him as an abuser outright e.g. Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do Abusers minimise and deflect ergo, GC is not looking for victim points, they are a safe harbour for abusive people who are deflecting abuse by women because they are also abusive women hiding behind a "cause", this also applies to the other subs listed with the exception of mens lib which is just a group of "please may i have a piece of pussy" and "What did you do". They see any "woman bad" … | /r/MensRights | 09/04/20 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Men being "intimidated" by women and refusing to date them is exactly the same as a company refusing to hire someone because they're overqualified.Its not career women that are the direct issue, the argument that men avoid is pure BS in my world. Just like many women come across the same issue, it is people who are married to their jobs and make it number 1 priority to your loss. Nearly all the women I know are career women, 95% are married or LTR, I know (socially) 4 female directors, 3 married, one is a loon and single. It has nothing to do with her career, I know crazy eyes when I see them. You can't say men don't commit to them when th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 04:49 PM |
| 15 | A warning of these EU divorce laws if you move out of your own countryIt's hard to track a unicorn | /r/MensRights | 04/04/20 11:07 AM |
| 8 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?The implications are that soon, if they actually allow this data to keep flowing out. Men will quickly see the ratio and apply the nightclub principle The moment a club gets a rep as a sausagefest, its done until they rebrand. Tinder needs to start hiding its data again if this is real Men are thirsty, water is wet, they know a weinerfest when they see one, so do the women The irony is the rep of a sausagefest does not drive men away, it drives women away because they know 80% of the attention t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 8 | 81 out of 83 (98%) of 2020 bravery award recipients were men. A reminder of the danger men put themselves in to protect their loved ones and their communities. Funny how we never hear of this gender imbalance.Next Year Bravery Awards Called Out For Sexism A spokesperson said "We need more women here, they are 50% of the population, therefore they should be 50% of the bravery Whilst sexist criteria is allowed to be used such as running into burning buildings, apprehending armed criminals, quelling of prison riots, women's heroism is left ignored " I did go off to find a bravery award for a AU woman as I wanted to just be satirical and show there are some brave women out there. However..... I can't all… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: Going up or down? Relationships and COVID-19Keep your eye open for the tentacles of codependency wrapping around you dude you're caretaking her already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 08:52 PM |
| 4 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityYeh that ain't it ;) Massive insecurity and desperation using her own words, this means she picks guys that she really shouldn't She needs male attention to quell the insecurity which is where the hyper sexuality comes in Any experienced guy will be saluting as all those flags go up From experience I know over 40's dating is pretty much emotionally unstable people (m&f) or people who cant maintain ltr's or need a partner to survive (emotionally or financially) The odd normal person hits the mark… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 6 | The Case of the Handmaid's TalePeterson is a money making machine who saw a gap in the market Because he is well spoken and speaks with authority of his convictions men listen when his chosen topic is their invisibility and disposable nature in society, he also doesn't like extreme feminists which pulls plenty of guys his way when they ask what the patriarchy did for them I watched him, he does days some really relevant things to young guys, behind that he's pushing his own morals and book sales Whether he is taking advantage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?If one of your primary goals in life is to find a partner that can totally "support you" when you have kids or just decide to drop out of the better paid career game (or not enter it at all) You'll deflect that in any way you can because it is no longer acceptable to expect someone else to subsidise you in life or depend on your labour because of your gender, y'all know what we call those women thanks to kanye Wiser men will realise feminism freed them as well, feminism never considered the amou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 02:58 PM |
| 44 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityI have a female friend who must be +300 going off her own words and dating routine (self confessed ex party girl who's hit 40) She doesn't understand that it isn't the number, it's the fact her relationships last 1-3 weeks consistently and constantly wonders why she can't find her man, who she wants to settle and give her the baby she craves The number is just the indicator that she is unable to maintain a long term relationship, that is why guys bail that were not just after a first night fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How athletic were you growing up? Did that affect your views of the SMP?Captain of a couple of school teams and very popular through that especially when I smashed our school records for class points (each class competing against another, i picked the best, not the popular which sprinkled "leadership magic" on me), I was high value but only for the girls who knew me via school, I also ran for my town which added value back in school Once school ended that value fell off a fucking cliff, I was a nobody It wasn't because I was athletic, it was because being the top of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | If you guys have avoided female-dominated fields, what was the reason? What should change before you could rethink your decision?I have mulled over teaching in my past but decided against it, on a personal level I never have wanted to be a primary school teacher as it didn't interest me at all, I felt I could do best with older kids as I wouldn't be challenged at primary level (my daughter is the opposite and is studying to be a primary school teacher), most women I know in this area just have a drive to support younger kids with education and are totally uninterested in secondary education Ironically I work with schools … | /r/MensRights | 28/02/20 02:05 PM |
| 12 | AITA thread shows societal double standard against men. The “equal chores” argument only goes one wayBoth that sub and the relationship subs do have a group of men haters and women can do no wrong posters (especially if pregnant) going off the dv I get and see when the guy has a valid position In this scenario he was an asshole She had important tests and asked for a few seconds of help I never did chores (inside the home) in my marriage as I was the working partner or worked double that of my partner, I did however always help when asked I'd be with you if it was one of the ones where the guy … | /r/MensRights | 28/02/20 01:34 PM |
| 8 | We love to see it 🥳Go johhny, go go go Not only do I have a special place in hell for false accusers of DV I also loath the s*n as a Liverpool supporter who was at Hillsborough It won't happen but I hope he puts this rag out of existence | /r/MensRights | 28/02/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?Ignoring the fringe nutjobs that are safely confined in FDS To answer your question A man shows his respect for a woman by splitting a bill, this way he is treating her as an equal and not a needy child in need of someone else's money. If a woman wants a man to pay for her i have no issue with this if it is made clear up front, as long as her next action is to make him a sandwich or iron his shirts (e.g. 1950's role) You can't have one without the other or you're dating a woman who wants all the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Mens shed opens.First comment on the link when I scrolled down "What a wonderful idea. I assume it's only open to men though? It would be nice if there was a similar set up for women who like to learn how to tinker with tools. " Give me strength \o/ | /r/MensRights | 20/02/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | If You Want a Marriage of Equals, Then Date as EqualsEmotional labour can only affect women according to reddit, I've yet to see it EVER used in relation to anything a man does In addition that make up argument can gtfo as well, there 's a reason I've never judged a woman's looks until I've seen her without her fake face on, the more used the more I see insecurity, my last date was a "if I get run over I'm putting on my face before I get in the ambulance type" I really want a partner that has no ability to be spontaneous because everything require… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 11:02 AM |
| 9 | The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men.You mean Amber "false accuser, domestic abuser" Heard Start by referring to her like Brock "The rapist" Turner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 03:33 PM |
| 12 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?My own take on this is that there is a mixture of experience with "bad" men and by that I don't mean abusive and such, just guys that offer little to improve their life outside of company and $$$, men's main "use" is also taken for granted (providing and supporting) so they no longer get brownie points from women for fulfilling their historic obligations, it's still covertly expected (I watched my dating pool turn into a puddle when I communicate that I don't pay for women anymore) Add to that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 11:02 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had.Well if their goal was to change men to become apathetic and ambivalent to their issues, they are doing a fine job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 10:45 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had.Upper middle class (what most posters on here pretend to be) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 10:43 AM |
| 15 | CMV: The Amber Heard audio is typical of how women treat men's grievancesAdding to this Online feminism is completely incapable of calling out the toxic women in their gender, all they can rollout is whataboutisms and blame shifting back to the man or the male gender It's why I pay no attention to them anymore, it's why my support for their issues is now zero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Lawyers encourage women to stage domestic violence to get the upper hand in family court.This is only part, to get legal aid in divorce in the UK the only way to do this now is to accuse the other spouse of DV You can guess that means allegations since the change in legal aid rules have gone up The law is gender neutral though, it's just the majority of allegations are made by women, if the changes to DV legislation had come one year earlier, my divorce costs would have been free if I'd chosen that route or needed to fight My own take is a solicitor would explain this, the woman egg… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Are misogynists necessarily incels? Can you call somebody an incel if that person is not claiming to be an incel? Is the incel label being unfairly abused and used as a "catch-all"?It's low effort/intellect and used the vast majority of the time time to silence you because they any use a valid comeback I don't think I've been tagged as an incel yet, technically I'm vocel for the last 4 yrs (and enjoying it), misogynist I've had that thrown my way a few times online, got banned from relationships for saying "there isn't a show called groomzilla" which made me an evil misogynist in their view, their loss as most as my posts helped women & men in an abusive relationships as t… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/20 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Sole male candidate for Labour Party leadership told to "Stand Aside, Understand your place" to allow a woman to win.This is Labour digging themselves out of their election defeat hole by using dynamite Very much like being pro brexit, you're not allowed to even criticise the blatant sexism So we keep our own counsel and remember on voting day, their choices mean their box doesn't get the cross As I listen to a lot of BBC chat on the radio, any politician that comes on and focuses on gender instantly loses my support, unfortunately the majority of female politicians in the UK can't talk about anything now othe… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | What's a dealbreaker for you ?Some more obscure ones I've used over the last few years to back out, the key is understanding why these are women not worth pursuing Doesn't drive Maintains contact with shitty friends/family No toilet paper in house when invited over Invites me out but makes sure I know they are pretty broke this week Talks about their ambitions then does nothing to get them Always forgets "I'll get them next time" Demanded to sleep on my side of the bed Bigger ones Too much interest in my job on first contact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 08:43 AM |
| 8 | Wife of dying husband wants to abort their only child because she'd be "grieving" too hard when he died. Female redditors cheer her on and downvote anyone who tells her not to.This is men's rights - not women bad To be honest once he's dead he really doesn't have any and fair enough for that I'm not going to hammer any woman who makes the decision to abort when the life she is left with will chain her to a shitty existence both for her and more importantly, that child. You don't get to dictate your wishes once your dead either gender, you can ask but you might not receive. This was a AITA shitpost anyway, too similar to one a while ago which was much better constructe… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/20 08:34 PM |
| 8 | Study confirms societal bias against men- people are hardwire to ignore male sufferingThis is not new news, nor does it highlighting anything we didn't already know. It just does that little thing that is often disparaged by those who reject irrelevant things such as scientific fact. This information is not the enemy of men, It should not make you angry at women, it proves men make more sacrifice in society, these facts are the enemy of feminism because it shows that society worries and throws itself in front of the proverbial bullets shot at women in much greater proportions and… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 3 | False Accusations, how often do they really happen?Well i am on my 6th beer :) My point is there is no reliable data so arguing over where it sits is pointless. I'm more interested in the type that make them | /r/MensRights | 29/12/19 02:15 AM |
| 0 | False Accusations, how often do they really happen?As there is nothing but conjecture out there I have no idea if it is 0.00001% or 100% (obviously much closer to the first imo) Without empirical evidence i revert back to my own experience. I only know of one person in my entire pool of friends, family, acquaintances, people I've "heard of" actually be accused of rape. Interestingly his friends an family immediately called bullshit and after serving a lot of months on remand he was found not guilty. being my towns biggest drug dealer and also mo… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 7 | She got straight up shut downHung like a seahorse | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/12/19 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Beauty standards that women have for men aren't as high as you think.Shitty northern uk town buddy, worlds apart :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Society doesn't care about women's mental health at all. Horny men "care" because they see women's mental issues as a shortcut to getting laid.I had a mini seizure at that comment as it's the most ironic thing I've read in a good while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 01:00 PM |
| 17 | Beauty standards that women have for men aren't as high as you think.I would agree from what I see personally but only in LTR's Loads of men I see with good looking women (even friends) are punching above their weight A couple do have great personalities but in my experience most just have one thing in common, they have a good job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 12:57 PM |
| 3 | The "second shift" of women doing more housework than their male partners.... why is it women take no responsibility for this?Since I divorced I cut my weekly shopping time down from a whole weekend afternoon to 20-30 mins once a week (half of that is at the checkout), which I can do in between work jobs as I drive all over the place I recall the days of "just pick for God's sake, it's a tin of fucking peas" I also cut the bill by 5x what it was Happy days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?In my experience the only smokers who have done this tend to be trashy people in general (flick it in your own sink but not other peoples without asking first, even though it's just a quick tap turn to resolve.) The sink also had a washing bowl with a few pots in it as well, it wasn't empty although she did flick most down the gap It says a lot about their general character and i come from a time when pretty much everybody around me smoked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?Some are but the topic was turning down sex with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?That's because they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?I actually said that to her although my exact words were "You're most guys dream date" as she would arrive, undress then dress and leave immediately after The difference is "I" have never used anyone for a quick empty. I have a hand for that and respect (both self and for decent women) I don't want the "free hooker" experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 02:39 PM |
| 23 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?Well my last rejection was with a woman at 40 (I'm mid 40's) who told me she wanted to settle down and was desperate for a child but was happy for casual sex in the meantime Not a chance on this earth I'm sticking my dick anywhere near someone with baby rabies, no matter if its covered up Several refusals to my ex as she literally just wanted to use me to get off (after we broke up and she wouldn't fuckoff) Only one other time as I don't look gift horses in the mouth usually, she came to my plac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Child maintenance? - anyone know how to contest claim?That's the way it is You have to get your head around that it isnt going to change if it is the default state minimum and grind that fucking cash out until your kid is an adult It stinks you have to pay not only for your kid (not an issue) but also subsidise your ex, my ex has BPD so I know the pain, it's her money and the state says the same, my kid sees about half of what she gets, the rest pays for her to sit on her ass smoking and feeling like a victim If you don't come to terms with it you … | /r/MensRights | 29/11/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Falsely Accused of Rape (Facts from case)Post nothing without going through your lawyer if you're in current legal action (or considering) It's not that you cant, it's that you shouldn't, you have no proven case against the other party yet so every word you put out there is a potential case breaker or libellous on your part Don't take any risk | /r/MensRights | 27/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 3 | In domestic violence cases, text messages can be key — to winning or losingI can only agree When my ex wife who had been moved out 17 months previous texted me "I'm coming down to my house wanker and you will no longer be living there once the police arrive you fucking pussy..." She has BPD and was going to injure herself and put it on me as she was looking at her second eviction for not paying rent.... That txt saved my ass as the moment it arrived I rang them to say there would be a dv incident occurring in about 20mins She did turn up with a piece of 3x2 trying to h… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/19 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Spelthorne Borough Council is promoting White Ribbon Day. Here is my email inquiry to them.In no way am I trying to piss on your bonfire here dude but I know councils and I know HR/diversity sections within them Only your very last sentence has any real impact as the rest is a statement, which I could simply acknowledge as your view with a thank you for your email response All they have to do is pick one single thing which pertains to men to answer your final query (This would not be hard) Your much better asking your council for a copy of the "equality impact assessment report" on ho… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Feminism: Is being a 'gentleman' now seen as sexist?Think of articles and attitudes like this to be a valuable teaching resource for the women you want to avoid in life. I've never really found that too hard, most are pretty normal in my circles, If you cause people not to engage with you, you will never progress (I learned that when negotiating with employers for years) You have no need to shame or argue with them, your time is better spent on yourself and women who can function properly Just add these viewpoints to your "discard" filter. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever divorce for financial reasons?I did The difference was the money problems did not come up via external factors, they came up because of internal choices. The first you support, the latter you have to cut loose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.reddits version of MGTOW is just a haven for where the incels and outright misogynists reside now. I skimmed it 2 years ago when i joined and the landscape has changed significantly these days. real MGT guys won't tell you they are this way, they ain't dumb enough to advertise you're getting fuckall out of them, whilst your thinking you're earning that "relationship/access" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What would the dating market and the world in general look like if everyone looked the same?Fuck, I was thinking exactly the same thing only 2 days ago My take was personality would become king/queen, followed closely by income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 07:07 PM |
| 6 | "She's my daughter" // "Well is her mom around?"I'd have just gone with "she's was still buried in the garden last time I checked" | /r/MensRights | 29/10/19 02:27 AM |
| 0 | TRP is in trouble: the dual mating strategy has been destroyedLet us know when its translated from science geek dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 10:17 PM |
| 3 | What would it take for you to cheat on and/or leave your SO?The most pertinent point missed by so many when it comes to choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 4 | E-Thots & Prostitutes are some of the most moral and honest women there areI Disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 10:09 PM |
| 3 | How to Never EVER Pay on a Date [Misandry provided by r/FemaleDatingStategy]People should ignore this sub of nutjobs Unless you speak to a woman who echo's this insane crap, they are not worthy of any attention. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Are you kidding? Restaurant gives menu with prices to men, menu with NO prices to women (forcing men to pay). Government rules that "the restaurant has been discriminating against women" !!!!!This is a great ruling Now my dates will know exactly how much they are paying for their share of our date. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Crime has no gender.As long as feminism turns a blind eye and refuses to call out the many misandrists in their ranks (especially online), they get zero support from me, neither will any of their causes What I see is that men are still lower in their hierarchy than any woman, no matter how selfish and hateful they are towards men Too many of them hide under the name when they're anything but equality seekers You can put "real" in front of anything to make it look more legitimate, doesn't mean it is | /r/MensRights | 22/10/19 03:32 PM |
| 19 | "we should never have to pay on a date"You have the power dude, as long as you are happy single you don't have to take major risks I've been single 4 years (and intend staying that way) , not one date hasn't been 50-50 because i tell them in advance I expect equal contribution and I'm not here to fund someone else's lifestyle ( touch more eloquent than that when I say it) Not only does it quickly remove those who want their hands in my pockets, it means I'm never wondering if I'm being taken for a ride because I do not let them, yes … | /r/MensRights | 22/10/19 03:17 PM |
| 16 | r/AmITheAsshole is unbelievably biased towards women.Very much like the "family" legal system, a women has to be satanic before the hive will judge heavily against them on there in my experience (not always but often ) I do enjoy my regular - votes when I argue from the guys perspective and challenge the entitlement that often drips through comments One note of caution for those who actually get annoyed at some of the bias The moment a mod sees a cross post to here or mgtow etc. They will lock the thread for brigading even if that cross post has z… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/19 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Gender Role Test - how feminine or masculine are you?89M 31F This makes you . .... there was no text after that so i assume i'm nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | California lawmakers take aim at ‘punitive’ child support system for low-income familiesThis is how it used to work in the UK In my mid 20's I was taking home £160 a week, they took £97 of that, the mother got £5 of that money on top of her normal benefits as she didn't work I lived in a 6*6 box room at my parents house and the csa made it clear I could not claim anything in relation to paying my parents rent, they were expected to house and feed me for free I went to work and sat in that box room for months unable to do anything because I had no money Thankfully there was a loopho… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/19 12:09 PM |
| 7 | Should stay at home wives do all of the housework? I think husbands should never agree to be sole breadwinners for women that don't.She is actually bringing in a huge amount of dollars. This argument doesn't run with me because the moment you start factoring in "assumed income.... aka pretend $$$) you then have to hold her to equal financial responsibility. Half of all costs if she isn't willing to do what comes with the job, fall on her as well. She can go back to work and pursue her career, or she can have the DAD SAH and simply go out into the working world and match the money he is "saving" her. As its Sunday AM here and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/19 01:06 PM |
| 6 | To what extent can women be abusive?If I listed everything my ex wife did and spun it around so it was me doing the abusing, I would be in jail and there is a very good chance it would be in the press due to what she did For her now she is seen as a troubled person who didn't really understand what she was doing because of her traumatic childhood which led to her developing BPD on the malignant end of the spectrum It took her literally driving me to the brink of suicide where I volunteered myself to the MH ward for my brain to say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 09:20 AM |
| 19 | Why is being taken care of and provided for not seen as privilege (for women)?If you accept you are benefiting or being priveledged by the acts of another person, then you are morally obliged to give back to that person as a thank you or to equalise the relationship. By not accepting anything but "you're supposed to do that" there is no onus on you to give anything back and no obligation for a returned effort. Very much like how different financial incomes have been discounted as relevant these days, so the person who is greatly benefiting from their partner bringing in 3… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/19 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4A Opportunist or Entitled? .... I want my £90 back because my date called me fat.It was in all the red tops when i googled it, what put me onto it was listening to BBC 5 live discussing politics and our terrible "Honours List" and they just made a segway to this story, under the heading of "tell us your dating nightmares" It was either the mail or the mirror, the S*N is banned in this users world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | UK: Students sent home after protest against ‘gender neutral’ uniform. The school said the policy is designed to promote equality among its students. OP: Female students want the right to wear skirts. Special privilege for female students. Boys at schools rarely get an option to wear shorts.The skirt is a colour that isn't sold as a normal type so they are pretty much made just for this school. The kids name it a pooniform ;) | /r/MensRights | 07/09/19 11:29 PM |
| 2 | UK: Students sent home after protest against ‘gender neutral’ uniform. The school said the policy is designed to promote equality among its students. OP: Female students want the right to wear skirts. Special privilege for female students. Boys at schools rarely get an option to wear shorts.UK dad here Uniform averages about £200 pa when you shop around and recycle some stuff from the year before. My kids skirt was always £30 and that was the cheaper shop as there is a logo monopoly where only selected shops sell the uniform (2 in my town) The cost argument is literally "pants" to use a UK term, my sons pants cost between 10-20 I work around schools and the main issue is a lot of girls turn their skirts into belts. A school near me recently got slaughtered for having staff (especia… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/19 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone else notice TRP themes in 'Bridesmaids'?I watched the new Seth Rogan one last week as I had hours to kill, can't member the name but the absurdity that an old school neighbour, could turn up in a shell suit and win the hot af Secretary of state/defense ? just because they liked each other as kids ... Was beyond the realms of "oh just get fucked" I could have handled it if it was a parody but it was just inane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.do they not pay welfare in the US if cs is in play? You get both in the UK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:03 PM |
| 5 | If the father of your child is still active in their life and paying child support, you’re not a single mother, you’re a single woman.Off the top of my head a judge will seek the views of children from 12 onward | /r/MensRights | 13/07/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you account for a woman's finances?Nah the UK North west, cold, damp and dreary 9/12 As below, I meant credit card as most other subs use that term, imagine if women had to pay for cock , that would change the world as we know It, I think id be on minimum wage with that dynamic though ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Do you account for a woman's finances?I do now after being burned to a crisp by an ex wife and a legal system that indentures breadwinners into financial servitude, I was a resource and she admitted this to me once we split, they are out there (awalt no), vetting is the key to avoiding them, i'd give the same advice to women though as there are plenty of freeloading guys also The income isn't a dealbreaker but a lack of ambition to earn enough to be stable with some left over, or underemployment with low income is a straight red car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 12:07 PM |
| 5 | Some fun for Friday.An amusing meme for my inner geek I think they missed that wife 2.0 hasn't installed correctly, instead of an uninstall and fresh install, they installed over wife 1.0 and there is some elements of both programs conflicting with each other Wife 1.0 does not have the 50.50 effort add-on and requires a patch update Also treat her like a princess 2.3 will still be there somewhere with 1.0 not being completely removed, this conflicts with the 2019 update Of course if the new build of husband had bee… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/19 09:58 AM |
| 10 | Found on a feminist subreddit. This logic is justification for stripping men of their parental rights.When I saw this on the feminism sub yesterday my first thought was "I've never met a single guy ever who thinks the reproduction element is equal" We know it only takes a couple of drops of sperm for our part in making a child, many of us found out the hard way They're creating another narrative that doesn't exist in the real world to shame and devalue men Once that kid is out the 50/50 comes into play but before that no sane bloke isn't going to accept pretty much all the effort for the first 9… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/19 09:46 AM |
| 7 | Fact Checking "Fact Checking False Rape Accusations and Why We Shouldn't Fear a False Rape Epidemic."What many people fail to understand (or wilfully refuse to) is that for most guys like me, I don't even have to think about the rape element because I know I am never going to rape anyone according to current legal requirements, If they change them, I'll adapt, e.g. If she's drunk it's automatically rape, no more sex with intoxicated women, if she sees your penis it's rape, I'm wearing lead pants ... Therefore the only part of this act that applies to me is the false allegation, hence I want it … | /r/MensRights | 02/07/19 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireThis is my issue with how CS operates I have zero problem paying support for my children, what I do object to is that what I pay covers 100% of my kids weekly needs and my ex also pulls in welfare for that kid on top, she is very low earning as she works 20hrs (youngest is now 18 so the light in that tunnel is nearing) As she decided she couldn't be arsed with our kid when she moved out for 7 months, I know exactly how much she costs to support as I did it and made sure I did the math She gets 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 10:52 AM |
| 19 | The way this guy says explains it is perfectIf it wasn't such a backwards step and serious issue, I'd be literally laughing my way to a cramp So women in these states now have the same rights as the fathers do Welcome to equality ladies, shit isn't it I say this as a 100% pro choice guy who believes the mother does still have the right to make the final decision However, want my support and help, you better tell you feminist friends that demanding vasectomies (my body but strangely not my choice), blaming men when women are 50% of the vot… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 11:40 AM |
| 9 | Nice try though.By that logic, male politicians would protect the interests of other men I know many people think this is the case but once you have been around quite a few decades like I have, you learn politicians protect the interests of themselves and no one else | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/05/19 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Do you think men are always obligated to pay for you?In my own experience the only people I've known to throw the "it's only money" line out, are the ones who's money isn't being spent or have "financially irresponsible" written all over them They sit at the top of my red flagpole these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Why I got banned from /r/thefairersex. Reddit needs to do more to combat these incredibly toxic communities.Just had a peek That is just a sub for mentality ill women, the clue is the frontpage is recent but there are no comments to the posts. In essence loads of crazy shit that even they can't agree with if they didn't write it. Subs like this shouldn't be given any validity of the thoughts of normal women. Getting yourself banned from there is like complaining you got kicked out of a church for turning up in your satan suit. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Women just want funGwen Guthrie added the other half | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | It’s dangerous to be an SAHM in today’s day and ageIt's only dangerous if your career orientated and ambitious. The lazy unambitious ones get a free ride for a few decades and a golden handshake if the relationship breaks down. The less driven and able you are, the better this career type is for you. In this day and age a guy is treated as scum if he dares question why he has to work all day then come home and immediately take over, if his sahm is slacking on her role, it isn't because she is lazy, it's because she is depressed or has PPD every … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do women have any reason to cry about the marriage market?How does that entitle women ... It doesn't, it roots out the entitled ones. I was fine up to "equal" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | How much do women care about their partner's earnings?As i guy I wouldn't hold it against any woman for wanting a partner that posed no financial risk to them. Seems rational and sensible. As we now live in an age where neither gender is responsible for having to do X for the other gender, that stops at the same income as they have. Anything more is entitlement or a bonus. Women who have this view (must earn more than me) in this day and age should be avoided like the plague, they are the equivalent of the guy who expects his SO to come home from t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 07:17 PM |
| 3 | The Gender Pay Gap - How to use invalid data and ignore reality. 8m:20s of uneasy silence and squirmingI'm all for equality and have got more women pay raises through my job than any of these muppets ever will If you can't see how futile and imbecilic the argument has now become, you never will Why is this a mens rights issue? because we are being used as the platform to give women more for less than we have to do. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/19 04:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There isn't a single significant male privilegeI'll have a bash at a few Not wondering if it's my looks that hold me back or thrust me forward in my job Being able to go to any bar on my own and not look easy/wierd Much easier to take a whizz I don't have to grow an alien inside me Being able to be a scruffy fucker now and then and get away with it Not getting interest just because someone wants to fill a hole (ok as i guy i have the freeloader/goldigger issues) but at least i know i'm not just wanted as a vessel. Not having to stick somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 08:49 PM |
| 42 | Finally, a New Emoji to Mock MenThis is an easy flip Just look at that emoji as the amount of contribution many women think they need to give in a relationship for it to be balanced | /r/MensRights | 07/02/19 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Father welcomes baby girl, loses wife in the same dayFor me once that baby is going to be alive and saved, the wife would be getting a nice headstone. I'd hate to have the dilemma in reality though. This is a decision no spouse should ever have to make, it should be 100% medical on % chance of survival, only at 50-50 should the spouse be asked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:34 PM |
| 8 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.I'm surprised at your stance as you mom has NPD going off your RBN posts which just like BPD, has a very high rate of those afflicted deciding there is nothing wrong with them and refusing treatment or diagnosis I'd be happy to get my BPD ex diagnosed, problem is there is nothing wrong with her at all if you ask her. The last time I tried she sat in front of the doctor, refused to speak(this was just for depression) , made me talk then after ignoring me for 3 days solid after the appointment, to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 03:43 PM |
| 4 | This might not belong here, but I thought it was slightly ironic.Treat mgtow like fight club That's how I do it, tell no one as going my own way means I have no need to communicate it That sub is just women hate now and we have plenty other subs that cover that If you want to find them | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 01:59 PM |
| 6 | I'm all for equal pay. But when I have to do the duties that someone else cannot physically perform, why do I not get compensated for?You won't get anywhere with this argument because if the laws on manual work are the same as here in the uk, you are expected to seek help irrelevant of gender if you do not have the physical capacity to shift it The solution here is to request help at the same frequency as any of your colleagues do for undertaking the same task That way you can fire back sexism of you are told "your a man" and claim indirect sex discrimination if you are expected to move things that others doing your job are no… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 01:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If you want an low ambition SAHM, you agree to take on the risk of alimony if you two divorce at any point.This is exactly what happened to me at 42 when we got together at 17 I couldn't cook for shit and cleaning would not have been an issue apart from me having loads of metal pinning my hands together so I struggle to use my hands (some weeks fine, some weeks I lose all use of one of them) I was just left to fend for myself as fucked up with cleaning and cooking as she was with money You know what I did, I learned to cook and still am doing, within a few attempts I had it back to the standard I use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to deal-breakers, what are some of your more irrational ones?anyone if they colour their hair to very bright colours - I instantly think mental illness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | They keep upping the hypocrisyI'm not disagreeing with the sentiment, there are just a few hundred thousand other guys who have influence i'd rather be the one throwing this double standard out there. Nothing against the point, I just despise this guy as i'm uk so i've had years of wanting to punch the smug fucker. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 06:10 PM |
| 4 | They keep upping the hypocrisyThe problem with confirmation bias with Morgan is its true, he is an utter cunt Can we swap him for another spokesperson | /r/MensRights | 25/01/19 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Court rules woman to get 75% of the balance of ex-husband’s pensionI was with her for 25 years, we met at ages 15/17 and she was pregnant within 2 months (both our fault) We only married in 2016 after i had years of her being responsible with money for a decade (separate accounts always) and the main change was she was very much telling me what i needed to hear around being done her toxic family and best friend. I never wanted to be married, it was pointless paper to me but as things had been good and stable for quite a few years i thought fuck it when she aske… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Court rules woman to get 75% of the balance of ex-husband’s pensionTell me about it Have kids with them They play super nice and stable for a good 3-4 years before you marry Bait & switch 2 months after the wedding Sunken Cost fallacy I'm an idiot who never trusted his gut. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Court rules woman to get 75% of the balance of ex-husband’s pensionSounds to me like Dad dodged a bullet I got three rounds in the chest but i'm back on my feet :) Yep my ex has BPD | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 10:53 PM |
| 32 | Court rules woman to get 75% of the balance of ex-husband’s pensionThis is the sword of Damocles currently hanging over my head, I'm awaiting the papers and if she keeps her word (for the first time ever) I get to keep my pension and savings, she just wants £££££ for her half of the property or she'll be homeless in 6 months as she works 4 hrs at min wage, my strength is her desperation for money quick Our kids are adults but "she can't work anymore hours" and has never held a full time job. If she goes full tilt and asks for half of everything I would honestly… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on "last minute resistance" "being coy" "token resistance" and "no doesnt always mean no?"As a middle aged guy, the game has changed. When i was early teens late 20's a coy "no" just meant keep warming me up to it and you still dam well knew what a real "no" was and stopped/backed off. It used to be part of the dating/sex game, now you you must treat every indication of no as absolute. Women can't play this dance anymore and guys can't take the risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Does Misogyny and Feminism come from Narcissism?I think you are using the wrong term Narcissism simply is believing your needs/wants & feelings are more important than anyone else's, the more narcissistic you are the more likely you will discount any challenge to your desires. There will be some form of overt or covert narcissism in both camps but I don't see that as the core problem Most narcissists may portray arrogance and think they are better than the average joe but this is usually driven by a deeper insecurity inside them The word for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 01:04 PM |
| 15 | Response I made to TYT's video about Gillette, love the irony.That isn't a commercial, it's a public information broadcast. As close to the Gillette add as I am to looking like Brad Pitt | /r/MensRights | 16/01/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Is a programming job negative affect SMV?I tell women who show any interest in me when i get a "provider" vibe from them, that I look at spreadsheets all day for my job. Tends to ease them away so yes, It ain't sexy, especially when you pitch it as just enough to pay the bills. TBH most won't care what you do, only what you earn. If you're trying to do the opposite of me and attract women, then I suggest. Software Engineer, Developer, Analyst, Systems Design or Button Monkey :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 07:31 PM |
| 36 | Cheaters deserve to get divorcedYou are making an assumption that if he didn't cheat they would still be married Pretty much everywhere now you can divorce for no other reason than you feel like it In the UK where I am from you can't divorce under 2 years without "unreasonable behaviour" but after that if both parties agree to it, the reason can be anything Personally I feel cheaters should automatically be divorced by their spouse for it 99% of the time and they should be penalised for doing so by losing part of the asset spl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Why do women initiate half of breakups but 69% of divorces?It says "his available income increases by around one third" Yes i know it's semantics but my available income will be 75% up on day to day. Hence my point. As i had time i dug out the study (https://www.iser.essex.ac.uk/research/publications/511953) and it concludes with this "The analysis of these six-year income trajectories suggests that, after their large fall immediately after the marital split, incomes for separating wives do recover but not to their previous levels: five years after a sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why do women initiate half of breakups but 69% of divorces?I was referring to co-habiting where both people are already together but are told don't buy a house until you are married, I did this pre marriage and i'm UK and the difference between being married and not married was zero, they only cared if I/We could pay for it or not Maybe the US is different but from what i see there is no difference in separating assets if you are married or not if they are written in on sign-up properly (e.g. my ex married or not has 1/2 the equity it it was written in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Why do women initiate half of breakups but 69% of divorces?The article is not relevant to the topic (edit ..the linked one in the comments not the OP article) as it cover "post" divorce but I don't see bullshit as it has nothing to do with divorce initiation It's pretty obvious if you are no longer subsidising a spouse 24/7 your income will go up It's also UK where alimony is rare so the major factor in post divorce income is one of child support E.g since my spouse left my standard basic day to day living bills dropped from around 1k to 0.5 k a month a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Q4All: Why do women initiate half of breakups but 69% of divorces?The relationship subs back this up "don't have kids before you marry him, don't get a house before you marry him, when is he going propose to me, should I leave him if he won't propose" the entire mantra is based around the guy needing to be married before he can access all the "add ons" Many men propose because they are badgered or guilted into doing so by their SO and society in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Irrefutable proof that the dating scene is far better for women than men:I don't think 2x is a whining sub, I see it as a sub for women addicted to validation and attention, the whining is just the means to the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 03:06 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men aren't out of touch with their emotions; men are simply more emotionally matureI've always felt sports are the one area where it is socially acceptable for a man to be openly emotional, which is why many of us lose our shit if our team beats a rival or loses to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | In all honesty, what was MrDeadMoth actually supposed to do?They are both trash I lived with someone like this and they escalate and escalate until you snap. I could have hit my ex many times over (which became easier to deal with once i realised this was her plan) and she pushed it 10x above what it would take if it was a guy saying it to me. This is where she is trash, his crime is obvious The only answer is leave and i mean for good Maybe if people just hated on both genders the same in these scenarios, DV would actually go down for all. After living … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 07:14 PM |
| 3 | In all honesty, what was MrDeadMoth actually supposed to do?I don't think it's hard to guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | the drunken musings of azngirl: divorce is a good thing, happy couples don’t divorcethe big difference with the marriage contract is the person breaking that contract, often gets damages from the innocent party e.g. You break the lease and your landlord has to pay that $1200 I know of no other legal contract that works this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 10:33 AM |
| 2 | The Google Doodle for International Men's DayIndeed it is but too many people commonly mistake the slur to be in relation to the female body part, it has no relevance as u/Slayer_Of_Anubis pointed out | /r/MensRights | 19/11/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | “If a man says to you that a woman is crazy or difficult, ask him, ‘What bad thing did you do to her?’” - Natalie Portman | HuffpostThere can only ever be no crazy women if all of them are | /r/MensRights | 03/11/18 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Women who commit paternity fraud should go to jailYeh but that's men, fuck em ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Obesity is the reason women have so much power in the sexual marketplaceAs long as men need to have sex with women they will have no power, Most of us don't fuck fat people because we want to, it's because we need to have sex and a fatty will do when your horny AF or it's there on the ironic plate in front of you (Both genders) Obesity is just an offshoot of the core reason women hold the cards in the SMP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Women who commit paternity fraud should go to jailThe solution is simple - absolutely no jail She must pay the whole amount in cost to the guy he has foregone over the lifetime of the tort once the child is of adult age, lets even be generous and not add an interest and a time cost levy. No guy is ever getting this back btw Garnish their wages if they work, take their homes if they own them, burn their cardboard boxes if they are on the streets. Make them pay every since penny back over their lifetime that does not make them homeless or jobless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 4 | 'She battered me over letting the cat in' - Man, 78, leaves his wife after 60 years of domestic violenceThis is a good article for male DV. It also send the message out to the older generation that you no longer have to stay silent over this. For every grandad that walks away, there are numerous kids below them to learn that lesson. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 06:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women love today's society and the idea that so many women are miserable is bullshitAs long as the narrative is that "Your'e disadvantaged, oppressed, taken for granted, an object, inferior, exploited" and all the other messages being shouted to and at women, I've no doubt many won't be happy. How can you be happy when you are constantly told you deserve better and more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Do you find courageous and heroic women to be attractive, all other things being equal?Attractive : NO That said i know some seriously hard women who i'd happily stand side by side with if guns were needed. It's a positive trait and i think better of women who don't shirk and delegate (just like i do with men) Attractive No, Respectful Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/18 07:15 PM |
| 3 | The Australian government is about to cave to feminist demands and remove sales tax on tampons, saving women approx $8.18 per year ($0.68 per month). This is what passes for a major feminist issue in 2018.quick math at $8.18 x (1/2 population = 12m) is just shy of 99 million a year Tax cuts are fine until you realise that 100m needs to now come from somewhere else. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Mother jailed for hiding kids from their father for three years despite custody agreement{The Rock/Dwayne Johnson voice} ----- Finally, The law is applied...to help men | /r/MensRights | 03/08/18 08:28 PM |
| 4 | 'It is now illegal for your partner to do these 11 things' - UK goes insane with broad, vague state interference in relationshipsI'm looking forward to this coming in, especially as it also covers ex partners, I already have one police DV record on file for my bpd ex and she ticks about 80% of the new abuse criteria Next time she turns up threatening to smash my stuff if i don't give her money, I'll be quoting relevant subsection as I ring 999 Don't hate these laws, use them! | /r/MensRights | 31/07/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4A - Sex is no longer is part of the human procreation cycle or ever practised or thought about, does the opposite sex/gender hold any value to you anymore to settle down with?grrr uneditable title "+is" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4A - Why can't abortion be classed as "Birth Control" when it comes to debate and advice in the redditspherewell you shouldn't, i said no such thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4A - Why can't abortion be classed as "Birth Control" when it comes to debate and advice in the redditsphere9 months vs 18 years - yes i know the mother also puts in that time but she chooses to, saying her sacrifice is worth so much over a pregnancy when the guy has to sacrifice 18 years of his income as a minimum shows how entitled the argument has become | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4A - Why can't abortion be classed as "Birth Control" when it comes to debate and advice in the redditsphereBut to say that women who find themselves incapable of terminating a pregnancy are manipulative No, i was implying the argument put forward is manipulative by those usually commenting on the OP's post when it is a woman choosing to keep it. There are plenty of manipulative women who do get pregnant "accidentally - on purpose" those are not relevant to what i meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Q4A - Why can't abortion be classed as "Birth Control" when it comes to debate and advice in the redditspherewatch porn if you're that neurotic, or you're 45, fuck chicks your own age who can't get pregnant. I don't watch much porn (maybe once a month) and one of the women was 40, the other 41 (i kid you not), I don't look to date especially much younger but don't turn away the chance if approached, My post does read as ranty but i actually wasn't trying to frame it as anything to do with my own personal circumstances, more rushing so i could treat myself to a lovely breakfast (and it was:) ). I'm havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are...Men are pause Love to add something witty to that but i'm in from the pub and hammered, better not | /r/MensRights | 01/07/18 12:45 AM |
| 7 | What’s The Point of “Tricking” Men into Marriage?Nah married then have kids - don't you know being a sahm is the HARDEST job in the world? Source r/relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/18 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Carceral Feminism and Moral Panic lead to new offences and belief in crime wave against women.I have zero issue with this law change as it only affects perverts | /r/MensRights | 16/06/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | F@¢k these groups and the media promoting this crap. When is enough enough?Most of you US folks will have missed the irony of that screengrab Under the heading is the one for "universal credit" this is what the UK now use to cover every state benefit, rent, food, child allowance and such, not child support payments from the none custodial parent, that is on top of the rest For any woman who is below middle-class income they are better off single financially Happy to drop fathers day, every fathers day I ever had involved me paying for my own gift and being taken out to… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/18 08:57 AM |
| 11 | CHILD MOLESTATIONwhat should his next steps be just one over and over again Lawyer up | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:28 PM |
| 8 | Missing 2-year-old boy, father, found dead in burning Jeep (Murder-Suicide during a custody battle)When this happens it just proves the killer hated their ex more than they loved their child Either sex can go rot and burn IMO | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Is Modern-Day Feminism Giving Women Rights Men Don’t Have?They are trying to but also starting to fall foul of not considering the impact when a woman does it to a man For me it's not about the rights they demand (because they already have them) it's about the responsibilities they don't want to apply to them. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Risk assessmentsSign of the times i'm afraid, It's wrong but such is life. Look at it positively, it protects you against any allegation which through my job tends to be nothing to do with the trip but the crazy parents finding out "some strange man........." I give legal advice in this area and in the past i was "no males" but turned a blind eye to females, I don't anymore as there have been too many women being proven to be as sick and twisted as some men are. In my job IDGAF about sexism and such, i just mak… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Man acquitted of rape after 25 years in prison to get $10MFeels a bit like winning the lottery in your 60's WTF am i supposed to do with all this money now? | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:06 PM |
| 24 | We need all the signatures we can get! (Repost because we need more signatures) Women who lie about sexual assault need to be put on a sex offender registry.No they need to be put on a "False Accuser" registry Leave the SO register for actual SO's | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:04 PM |
| 13 | Unbelievable. You just can't make this stuff up. Found in r/cringeIt's become a fucking eternal parody with stuff like this | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Unbelievable. You just can't make this stuff up. Found in r/cringeIf you can't join them, beat them Work on your finger speed and play the same game | /r/MensRights | 07/06/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | UK: Nearly FIFTY rape and sex attack cases have been halted after vital evidence was withheld from defence, CPS reveals following urgent review amid collapse of several high profile trials. There is a conspiracy against all men in the UK.I wouldn't call this a conspiracy, I would call it stupidity by those who think circumventing due process is a good idea in helping real victims. ei incumbit probatio qui dicit, non qui negat | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 04:52 PM |
| 10 | "#MeToo witch-hunt targets veteran actor Morgan Freeman"They have taken on a Hollywood GOD Unless something serious and factual comes out this may be the end of the high media coverage of metoo in a positive light, there are going to be plenty of posts in the future saying "I met famous guy X today and he didn't even acknowledge me, what a cunt" | /r/MensRights | 31/05/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | When Pets Are More Important Than Male Domestic Abuse VictimsIf there is one thing i have learned from reading reddit relationships sub, men women and children all come after pets. I saw a post a couple of weeks ago where from memory, the guy had assaulted his SO (not serious) and then kicked the dog. Every comment went on about how the dog was. I've even seen them get more heat then when a kid is in an abuse situation and there is a pet involved. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/18 05:03 PM |
| 9 | When the truth comes outIt is very simple, the CS means the receiving partner gets their standard of living subsidised by the paying partner Receiver gets their new purse whilst the payer can't afford one You won't find many men in the real world who don't want to support their kids financially, emotionally and physically. You will find many who don't see why they must provide a higher standard of living than they get themselves, where the kid is just the means to their entitled ends This is where the graduation feelin… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Why Can’t a Woman be More Like a Man? | A large new peer-reviewed study confirms there are significant physical differences between male & female brains.Isn't this just the inverse of "Men tell the most lies but women tell the biggest ones" | /r/MensRights | 24/05/18 09:59 PM |
| 5 | What's your gender, age bracket and notch count? Have you lied about your count?I've got 14,560 i don't know whether to humble brag you or diagnose your childhood issues with that number Actually 6-7 i forget, 45yrs and i identify as sith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 06:49 PM |
| 65 | Rob Schneider tells the naked truth about the "gender wage gap"I believe the unspoken rhetoric around the GPG is that every woman must be bestowed "Assumed" Ability, Competence and Effort Therefore, whatever reason they earn less than their male colleges (Career gaps,family, less hours, completely different role etc.) they should be automatically assumed to be the same as they man they are comparing against. It already has a legal basis in Uk law, A pregnant woman where a redundancy situation arises must be put into any remaining suitable jobs before other … | /r/MensRights | 21/05/18 12:50 PM |
| 17 | University of Akron stops professor from bumping up female students’ grades because they are womenThey knew and got caught, they have a clear case of intentional sex discrimination and "told him how to mark properly - -- reverse it I would say the only reason they came out against it is they would get a reputation for female easypasses and employers would be guarded against the validity of the women's actual level when coming from this place Affects the "prestige" hence the climbdown, the people hurt by this in the long run, women I bet the only thing they are actually pissed about is he was… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/18 08:01 PM |
| 9 | Lower payouts put wives off divorce as fewer get meal tickets for life | NewsThe numbers in the uk https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/divorce/bulletins/divorcesinenglandandwales/2016 Come in lower than usa for divorce rate and initiator by a few % The most telling stat that jumped out at me was 78% of all same sex divorces were the F/F variety Women either like divorce or throw in the towel much earlier than a man does going off that statistic. Personally i would attribute it to marriage holding little long term value for many wo… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/18 12:15 PM |
| 6 | Why do guys hate commitment ?I don't know any men scared of commitment, I know plenty that are terrified of giving it, knowing their partner's commitment contract can be broken at will, with large financial 'repercussions to them The issue isnt giving it, it's keeping it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/18 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Trapped By Pregnancy, Paying Heavy Child Support, Ever Possible to Have the Payment Amount ReducedDo not ask if you have betrayed your country, ask if your country has betrayed you! [points finger] | /r/MensRights | 03/05/18 05:10 PM |
| 11 | Separating parents will get joint custody of their children by default under a bill signed into law by Gov. Matt Bevin last weekI'm uk and to get legal aid now for divorce you must cite DV. took a quick look at these stats (no gender - pg 24) https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/584590/legal-aid-statistics-bulletin-july-sept-2016.pdf It wasn't brought in until a few years ago but the number of requests, if my math is correct, has already shot up % wise from the start of the change in law. Behind every good idea is a trap that shitty spouses will abuse. I'm all fo… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] If it's acceptable to ask your dates about their n'counts to "test for compatibility", why it isn't acceptable to ask about their bank accounts and wages?Why isn't finance talk on the first a few stages of a relationship a thing treating this like you're asking for dating advice :- Because it is one of the "cat and mouse" games of dating, more so than Ncount as less people care about that than finances. Early OTT financial discussions will infer "goldigging/freeloading/entitlement" judgements from either party and a red flag will be raised and the dating will stop. Some discussion needs to be had as both parties would be mad to carry on dating wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 08:09 PM |
| 7 | [Q4All] If it's acceptable to ask your dates about their n'counts to "test for compatibility", why it isn't acceptable to ask about their bank accounts and wages?Reddit has brainwashed me into adding "Horse Women" to my dealbreaker list :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 04:29 PM |
| 9 | Guy sends woman invoice in the mail after their first dateTinder, the Online food bank for women | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/18 08:33 AM |
| 1 | What are the causes of single-motherhood?I can't say i'd firmly plant my flag in these offerings but they do have relevance for me. Once a woman has a child there may be little difference between what she can get financially whether she is with him or not. This may be further compounded with marriage. This certainly applies to women who are not with someone bringing in $$$$ where alimony, state benefits etc. mean their partner becomes somewhat redundant as they would get the same as a single mother (sometimes women in the UK would be b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | The first person on Mars 'should be a woman'Whoever the first person on Mars is, they are going to die there | /r/MensRights | 17/04/18 12:10 PM |
| 5 | Found this in at my college bathroom today.That reads like a Jim Jefferies routine. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/18 12:42 AM |
| 3 | CMV - I'm sick of hearing that women dropping out of work to have kids is a "sacrifice".ta, should have got that but in the uk they are about 30% of the population and so pretentious they are instantly recognisable /semi /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV - I'm sick of hearing that women dropping out of work to have kids is a "sacrifice".No worries :) I tried to keep that out of my CMV as my BPD ex defies the laws of physics and probability. I do believe it's a valid view to debate across the genders with the current climate. She didn't leave me because she was oppressed, she just wanted to fuck other men and empty my bank account! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 10:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV - I'm sick of hearing that women dropping out of work to have kids is a "sacrifice".I'm UK= what is UMC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 10:42 PM |
| 16 | CMV - I'm sick of hearing that women dropping out of work to have kids is a "sacrifice".You are missing my point, the message being yelled over the loudspeaker is "all women who stay home to raise kids are oppressed and disadvantaged" What do you think happens when the ones who are only suited to child rear and be SAHM through their own lack of career/intellectual ability hear this. They become unhappy in the role they are best suited for. There are men who go out every day and just empty of plethora of bins, they dig holes, they crunch spreadsheets, they deal with stressful decisi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Flee Country- Avoid Child SupportNot married at the time this spanned over 25 yrs (BPD ex!) You're understanding is way off ;) If you do not tick any of the boxes below then you are just ordered to do a DNA test. Not being named on the BC only removes the fathers rights where he would have to apply via court for "parental rights" Link to current position When the CMS may treat you as father of the children If the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) contacts you to pay maintenance and you aren’t the father of the children, you shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/18 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Flee Country- Avoid Child SupportIf only The 65% of my gross wage i had taken from my salary before it was even paid to me says otherwise. Not that i would ever fail to support my kids, I just never had a choice in it. My ex had several affairs with the benefits agency over the years, she just switched to whichever gave her more at the time (me or the government). I have just about 16 months left as the child support agency in the UK has climbed down from their obscene past calculations, so it's now only 15% Edit, forgot to say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/18 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Red FlagsTrying to think of any not already covered uses the terms "I'm entitled to" any money which is alimony/CS/benefit/government given to her is always stated as "my money" (see 1) Admits to going out with little cash in the hope of people buying their drinks Eating Disorders Any Known Personality disorder at all - Run like fuck!!!!!! Extremely sketchy over plans and details with others uses the words "I want someone who will make me happy" Prioritises or defends toxic friends/family Missed a potent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Red FlagsNo friends that are girls (intolerable once the allure of the pussy is gone) I knew this was a flag but never quite got why, you just explained it succinctly, everyone needs friends and if all your SO's friends are the same sex as you, you will need to be a boss level, trusting motherfucker. I know a girl with zero female friends except her sis, all her friends are male, when i asked her about this she said everytime the men she is friends with get a woman in their life, the women make them get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Red FlagsActually its normally either "me ma" which is more slangy or "My mum" we use U you use O | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 02:13 PM |
| 5 | A planned gig about whether feminism was stifling free speech has been cancelled – after a backlash from feministsgenuine lol at that link | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | My dorm just put up this new board, "Mansplaining Explained"Some of the statements on there are fair enough when you actually remove a gender from it. They are poor or antagonising communication techniques. In the past mansplaining by the descriptions i read on that board, used to be called "Know it all's" We all know them and probably have family members who love to go into mind numbing detail about anything and everything. My FIL according to that list has mansplained me to death over the years. Is this a more male phenomenon than female, I don't know … | /r/MensRights | 01/03/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | But if you don't open doors then it means you're rude and you hate women. Can't win in any wayI want to know why closing doors is not part of the issue. Is it only misogynistic to open them? | /r/MensRights | 28/02/18 10:49 PM |
| 2 | If the key features of a high smv man are looks, money, status and game/personality what are woman's?Wow, my ex got a 9 (no sex abuse being the missing one) she has U-BPD Can you imagine whipping that out on a first date "Hey, will you just fill this in whilst i go get a couple of drinks" ..come back, have to use two hands to count the yes answers, pull out phone (pre set to beep on a timer) and act like you got a msg, sorry i have to leave it's an emergency....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What is more risky, having a child out of wedlock or getting married?Marriage by a long way Example I had 2 kids out of wedlock, bought the house 100% I have to pay 15% salary for my kid if she left, that's it Got married, got bait and switched within 3 months of a 25! Year relationship Now she gets half of EVERYTHING plus CS I have to either sell or rebuy my own house to stay in it Half my savings, half my pension and 15% CS Supporting my child is not an issue, giving someone who had never paid a penny in rent (welfare paid it) if I didn't live there and half of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Is a guy a jerk if he leaves his wife/girlfriend after becoming more successful?My 42 yr old ex did (and tried to trade up) All you have to do is stop eating (Her method was nothing but coffee and cigarettes) until you have to have your gall bladder removed due to excessive gallstones and live in constant pain for the rest of your life. No exercise needed at all! She lost about 3.5 stone in 4 months Weight all came back after surgery and she is unhappily single and on the same diet again from what my daughter tells me. They do say weight is lost at the dinner table, not the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/18 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: How would you feel if your SO you asked you for a Paternity test? (Men can answer too)All depends on the relationship status. Just to be controversial, it should be done by the state free of charge automatically with the results given to the father first, paid via taxing only men, as it only affects men. I doubt there would be much male resistance to that. Can't say i agree with the above but i'd do it for every poor guy out there raising someone else's kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/18 01:48 AM |
| 8 | Cheap Sex & RP Observations Going MainstreamThere are loads of marriage material men out there, the problem is the ease of divorce and general view (from men in my experience) that they will be stripped of their assets and family at their wife's whim. That "until death do us part" is now "Until i can't be bothered anymore for any reason i choose" means marriage is very low value for a man now. It is not the woman who is low value, it is the contract. To bring him up to it being worth it the woman would have to be making an extreme and con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Would Aziz have been accused of sexual assault or had an uncomfortable ordeal if he was much more attractive?So what you are actually trying to say is "will a woman put up with the same behaviour if her pussy was on fire?" Possibly, the core of the claim was about feeling pressured and giving in to his shitty bedroom disco moves. If she was enamoured with him her mood may have gone up to "do whatever you want to me" mode Therefore she would not have felt pressured and no claim of SA would have come. This isn't my view just my attempt to answer your question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/18 10:33 PM |
| 2 | How ok are men with partner sharing?To the level of a fuckbuddy/Hookup then i wouldn't consider it sharing, I just look at it for what is is, zero relationship, just sex. Anything more, not a god dam chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How many men here have ever cleaned a house?yep i was a fool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How many men here have ever cleaned a house?I never ever cleaned my house before my wife left (25yrs) although she got reams of verbal appreciation for it when she could be bothered. Now i do it all myself and it really is a piece of piss 25 years of being told how cruel i was for working 40 hrs a week, paying all the bills whilst she stayed at home mostly (doing nothing but cleaning and cooking) whilst i sat back Now i live alone, those 30 mins a day i need to keep on top of the house and eating are a real killer, I just wish i could go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/18 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Women's pay could bankrupt the BBChttp://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-42827333 Actually i listened to the news earlier on this and..... The effect is the men are having their pay cut, no equal pay disparity then! You go girls, another fine pyrrhic victory | /r/MensRights | 28/01/18 12:14 AM |
| 9 | Research finds as a group, only men pay taxesWouldn't an article like this be easily spun around from a feminist mantra just by saying "This proves we are underpaid, we don't even earn enough to pay tax" Divorce, dating, gifts - they don't count as they are not relevant to equal pay as these are automatic entitlements for being oppressed by men - ;) The views above are in no way related to my actual feelings or those of the Intergalactic Empire, i just felt like being a little bitchy with an element of truth. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | UK Gender Pay gap reportThose opportunities could also be a better skilled woman leaving for the pay. I don't disagree with you but i'm keeping away from nuances and looking at where there is no competitive market (e.g. public services, productiveness lines etc.) Paying differently for skill level in the same job has been the core of the argument for equal pay from women for decades, there would have to be clear transparency in your extra worth to them to justify it. The study i linked is around overall pay split in th… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/18 11:15 PM |
| 2 | How many men are in jail because of lacking child support payments?http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/more-fathers-jailed-over-child-support-2265787.html The actual number is low in the UK (link above) as the state only really pursues working men and just deducts from employer/fines them. Thankfully the CS system has levelled a touch so in the past i paid £95 of my entire £160 weekly wage (a few yrs ago) to now 15% of my gross - pension. It's still shit and i'm down to 1.5yrs left (woo hoo) With less prison spaces in the UK that would also be a factor. … | /r/MensRights | 04/01/18 11:16 PM |
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