Not sure what you’re saying. Most normal men understand that when a woman has a child, any child, that they will be put first. Also, most normal men don’t have a problem with this per se. I’m sure some idiots do, but its common sense.
Thats because you were smart enough to vet your partner. A lot of people on here deal with and fuck weirdo strangers off the streets and expect the world. They’re lucky all they got was to be used and abused. Could be far worse