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Not easy but you will have to embrace the impact and rebuild your life. Everything will be for good you will see, be the man you will be proud of, do the right things. Wish you the best bro, when she is not the right one the sooner the better.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 12:47 PM
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49M married with a 29F, we have been together 5 years now, she is my #3 so I know about this 😅 I would say, personality is more important than age, in my case my wife is more wise, responsible, stable, mature, etc than many 40-50 women now days. Levels of energy, life plans, hobbies, economies, retirement plans, etc are much critical with this age differences. Go step by step, with that difference you do not have time for a next round. Be careful, have luck, protect your money beyond anything
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 12:57 PM
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Bro new life is starting now for you, greatest times are ahead, start fresh with everything you have learned. No kids no pension, many will envy you. Own your life
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 09:33 AM
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Great message to reply “Enjoy!!!!” Just don’t care bro life your live, be your better version, 1% better every day.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 08:18 AM
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I wish I had, but no, I lost some years and a lot of money 😅 Plan and execute, try to be nice, polite, gentle, but execute with the only goal of being out in one shoot minimising damage. She could abuse you, or try to damage you, but you will be out in some hours. You need to plan, create a sentence, short, no damaging and stick to it, if you need to repeat the same sentence 100 times do it, but do not engage, you will apreciate this strategy a lot you will save time, damage and regrets. Otherwi…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 07:41 PM
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Be strong bros, there is a great live ahead of this kind of women we had the bad luck of have found and suffered. If you are still trapped, run ASAP to minimise damage they have no end and will destroy you as much as possible, never lock back, pay whatever the price and run. In my case the price were a lot of money and loosing the relationship with my daughter but as painful as it is I can rebuild my live now.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 07:45 AM
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You hasn’t had kids, so this is just and small error with almost no impact beyonds emotions you will be find soon. But learn the lesson bro, next time it could cost you much more.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 07:37 AM
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Divorced without kids being able to have zero contact is heaven. Enjoy your new life bro, be your better self now a narcissist woman is not slowing you down and be careful choosing the next one, no drama, no red flags.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 06:51 AM
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No prenup no deal, that’s it. I can tell you by experience if things go bad, all women will take as much as possible, no matter how nice they were before is in their DNA to look at us as providers and even more if they are emotional by the divorce. Protect the money you earned with your effort. Hope you will have a forever marriage, but believe me, being divorced is more easy to go over it than feeling stupid with she enjoying your money. Be smart bro it hasn’t anything to do with love its money…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 07:08 AM
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Congrats bro, it’s an amazing luck to have one like this going out from your life. The best is yet to come, focus on yourself, reach your best version.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 02:35 PM
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It’s amazing how women take advantage and feel that deserve the money that comes from our effort. Law must force them to work and take responsibility of their things before having one dollar from us.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 12:52 PM
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Broooooo no more mister nice guy, please read that book, or just stop being that. Imagine the guy who bang her is laughing at you. There are one million things to better use your time.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 09:55 AM
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Congrats your new life is closer than ever and you are going to breath as you have never done. Never speak about past, it doesn’t deserve the effort, she will always rewrite the story, so you will lose your time, solve nothing, and get into another argument you don’t need. Keep the distance, reduce interaction to the minimum, create an email only for this, check at it once per day or week,never respond immediately, take your time, this is key, she will try by any means to introduce drama in your…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 05:35 AM
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1 less to find the right one. It will be though but you will manage to go over it, be strong. Wish you the best bro
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 02:00 AM
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+1 I hate come backs, may this case is different I want to take the opportunity to congrats this bro for his success not drinking any more. Bro hitting the bottom is hard, but whatever happens with your ex, you will go over it and have good times. Wish you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 05:19 PM
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Be strong bro, everything will be in the past soon and I’m sure the best part of your life is ahead.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 08:46 PM
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Hi bro, went through the same years ago. Your ex is not the same woman, you are not the same man, even if you managed to come back things will not be the same and most chances is that it will fail and this time will be for good. Move to the next page of your book, focus on being your best version and search women around your hobbies and passions not date apps.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 10:09 AM
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Congratulations bro, great thing are ahead
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/24 09:26 PM
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Great news, other one will suffer your ex, keep the distance and be absolutely neutral and indifferent about the situation it’s natural and you only care about your boys, don’t ask anything the less you know the better
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 09:30 PM
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Bro, I went through something similar, at the end I did it and it was my biggest error ever. Do not do it if it’s not your nature you will suffer your money will suffer, your child will suffer.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 09:19 PM
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Awesome response. Start taking care of you from health and mental strength, it will be taught and you will appreciate later. Practice meditation it will be very helpful controlling your thoughts and avoiding rumination. Be ready to see your wife’s worst version, prepare for lies, and she wanting to take as much as possible, do not agree on anything without your lawyer advise. Wish you the best life will be great for you, you will see!
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 05:54 PM
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Hi bro, I suffered the same kind of woman and divorced few years ago and start a new happy life, currently married again with an awesome woman. What I wanted to say when I said you are teaching your son how to deal with women I mean that it will be terrible if he think this is normal-wife-husband relationship. That kind of women aren’t well, they need help of course but they are narcissistic and abusing soft men, we men of the world need to recover our masculinity (in the good sense) and set bou…
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 02:48 PM
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You are teaching your son how to deal with women…
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 05:15 AM
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You are member of a big brotherhood bro, congratulations on your realization. These letter is for you, it will not work with your wife, in her book there is no place for you setting something, the only things allowed for you are saying “yes madam”, sorry and to provide but not working too much. You have only one live to be you. If she wants to try one more it must be 50/50 you and her rules. If you can’t fix it, run, get the divorce, embrace the impact, work to be your better version and everyth…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 06:48 PM
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Bro its divorced man basic 101 decision. Option 1 no doubt split and run from everything as fast and soon as possible. Women change their mind from one day to the next in general they are volatile, easily forget about any verbal agreement as soon as its better for them or in revenge for any change in your life, a new girlfriend or just loosing weight could put you in a massive problem. Sell the house, split the money and run, happy to make your life without any relationship with her.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 12:39 PM
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I would no be worry about that, there are thousands of women in your area exactly in the same situation. Worry about: -Becoming your best version (health, mind, spirit, hobbies, money) -knowing you and always behaving as you are -Being happy living alone (please do not go into a relationship without feeling comfortable alone) Then worry about detecting red flags in women and run in the other direction as soon as possible
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 11:58 AM
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2 times divorced here, even if she was your soulmate, life continues you will heal and another period of your life will start, great things are ahead for you, just focus on yourself, healthy habits as top priority, take care of your money and practice your hobbies, when you were ready a lot of also alone ladies in the same situation will be waiting
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 07:45 AM
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Fair is her to do her best to address her live, beyond that the court will rule and then pay no more, no less. If you has a men would face exactly the same situation you will not expect anyone to finance your live.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 05:49 PM
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Run Forrest run!! Not your shit anymore bro
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 04:58 PM
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Only you knows your situation. If you think you can not stay with the kids, no one is going to force you and force them to be together, as everyone is going to protect them, you can always managed to have a study from a doctor saying you can not stay with them for mental reasons. Divorce and then you will manage, it will make no sense to force you to be with them it will take some time to adjust everything but at the end it will work. Do not let your wife to use it to negotiate, if she loved you…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 07:06 AM
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I do not know in your country but in most countries just one wanting the divorce its all you need. Take care of negotiations, everything written and signed dont trust she will do what she promised. You will pay for the children no way to avoid it, its your responsibility even if you do not want to see them. You will need to deal with some guilty feelings about not being a parent as the society expects, and you will be judge by your family, friends, etc and in some moment of your life probably yo…
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 09:06 AM
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That’s the way, I even created a separated email address I check once per week and block her in my main one.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 08:03 PM
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Hi bro, stick strictly to the legal process, loose some battles if needed to finish ASAP, no emotions, no conversations, don’t talk about anything but the divorce, the sooner you finish and remove her from your life, the better, the best part of your life is yet to come.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 09:46 PM
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The sooner you lost a wife like that the better, the new guy is just in line waiting for the same thing to happen to him
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 09:26 PM
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Shame? You are now owning your live more than ever, embracing freedom and building a better version of yourself, losers live long unhappy marriages, you are now at the beginning of an amazing journey, you will tell me in some years.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 09:10 PM
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No, kids you are so lucky and free, enjoy life, become your best version in all means, avoid serious relationships for 1 year, meditate very well about every big decision to avoid impulsiveness, no contact at all with your ex
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 07:22 PM
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