RevolutionaryBar4530 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage?		RevolutionaryBar4530	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/21 02:25 PM
7	How does divorce work in a state which requires one year of separation before either party can file?		RevolutionaryBar4530	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/21 11:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I'm a recovering divorce lawyer - AMA A) Is filing first really an advantage? B) I’m in a state that requires one year of separation before filing? Is there any way I can use this to my advantage? Or does this give her the upper hand? Thanks.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/21 03:41 PM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Hang tough, brother. I will definitely be updating my journey, whichever way I decide to go. I’ve already started consulting with lawyers. I want to provide has much help as I can to other men who are in the same boat. To be honest, your situation sounds worse than mine. You two are not intimate at all. And she weighs 300lbs. I don’t understand how someone can let themselves go like that.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/21 11:34 AM
6	I (28M) feel my life and happiness being sucked out of me when my spouse (28F) is around (no kids or assets together). There’s been no infidelity.. i’ve outgrown the marriage and the incompatibilities we have.. I’m afraid if I divorce, that I’ll never be able to find a quality woman though.. the only thing stopping me is that I feel as if I’ll never find a quality woman out there at my age, who doesn’t have kids. This is the classic lack of abundance mindset. Do you really lack so much confidence in yourself that you’ll consider staying with this woman who makes you miserable just because you don’t think you can find another woman??? Do you realize how insane that sounds?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/21 11:15 AM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Solid advice, my man. If I may ask, what terms did you guys agree on as far as your financial support to her? Also, how did you arrange custody during the separation?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/21 05:13 PM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? What do I want? Freedom. There is no way she can grant that while we remain married.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/21 04:44 PM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Lol. Let me tell you sweetheart, any man who doesn’t check out every decently attractive girl that comes his way is gay.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/21 11:54 PM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? So, given everything you’ve read in my post, what do you think I should do?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/21 08:36 AM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Yes, that’s a fair statement. But at the time I married, at age 28, I thought I wanted it. I thought that marriage was what a man was supposed to do. I had doubts but thought it was just pre-game jitters. But yeah, I no longer want this marriage. There is no desire in me to try and make it work. And I realize it would be very unfair to my wife to draw this out any longer.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/21 10:15 AM
1	Does anyone here regret the divorce? Dude, epic comment. I’m a struggling as well with making the decision because it seems our marriage is the perfect one. Beautiful kids, wife is still attractive, she’s been loyal, decent housewife... But once you have been shown the truth about what marriage really is, both from a legal and an intersexual standpoint, there is no “unlearning” it. I’ve slowly woken up to this truth over the past four years and I’m at the point where I cannot fake it anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/21 08:02 AM
2	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Dude, thanks for the post. It really helped. Do I respect my wife? Yes, in my daily interactions with her, I respect her. I respect her as a good and decent person. She is the mother of my children and we shared 11 years of our lives together. But there are things from our past that I still resent her for. Do I hold her in contempt? That might be a strong word. But I just look back and realize I never got over these things and I have no interest in attempting reconciliation with her about them. …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/21 06:25 AM
2	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Lol, nope. There is no woman who has “caught my eye.” Well, that’s not true. Any woman 7 and above catches my eye, if you know what I mean. But no, I have absolutely zero desire to enter into any kind of serious relationship with a female at this point. Years down the line? Maybe. But it will be on my own terms. Thanks for sharing your experience about your kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/21 03:14 PM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Sorry that at you had to go through that, because it sounds like she had some mental health issues. My wife is relatively normal, for a woman. Though, there is one thing that fucking bothers me. I haven’t really challenged it too often because it always leads to arguments. But it fucking bothers me. She believes heavily in conspiracy theories. She thinks 9/11 was legitimately orchestrated by the Bush administration. She believes Sandy Hook never took place. She believes the same for Stoneman Dou…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/21 10:15 AM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Man this hits hard. You definitely put it in perspective. It is shit or get off the pot time. Waiting another 5 years to pull the trigger would be disastrous. Thanks for the comment	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/21 10:09 AM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? 5 is what it is. A man has got to be honest with himself and the truth is that sex is very important to me. And the thought of prodding my wife to have duty sex with me for the remainder of my life (that is unless she stops wanting to have sex altogether which is not uncommon) makes me sick. I know the way I wrote #5 makes it sound like I’m a sex addict, lol. It’s not like that. It’s me recognizing my own needs and also recognizing that a man committing himself to have sex with only ONE woman fo…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/21 10:07 AM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? You make a valid point. But I think I’m at place where I do not want to remain married to my wife. I don’t want to expend time, energy, and emotion into making marriage work because I don’t think I ever wanted marriage in the first place. It took my a few years to realize that, but it is what it is. And yes, I feel tremendous guilt about that. I feel like shit at the thought of breaking up this family. Then I again I feel like shit at the thought of grinding it out and lying to myself for the re…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/21 09:53 AM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Yes, I agree that genuine unhappiness is a valid reason for a spouse to divorce the other. However, I still feel like crap about it. In my head I think, that’s what chicks do. They all of a sudden get “unhappy” and then they divorce their man. Yet here I am. It wouldn’t be a complete shock to her. In the back of her head I think she knows it’s coming. We have talked about this before. But she blocks it from her mind afterwards and carried on like nothing is wrong. It’s makes sense, making her ge…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/21 04:56 PM
2	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? That’s rough, the amount too time you get with your kids. It would probably be similar for me, or worse, since I would have to deploy during the next few years. I completely agree on not putting the blame on her 100%. She HAS tried over the years. She does love me and our children. I understand fully that I am the one breaking up our family. Thanks for sharing.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/21 04:51 PM
1	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Lol, no kidding.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/21 04:23 PM
3	Has anyone here divorced your wife (or thought about it) simply because you are unhappy in your marriage? Thank you for sharing your experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/21 04:22 PM