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I don't know about the US, but there are a lot of old and or fat and or ugly women, that bring back husband from third world countries, they do it for money and visa, the women always say"they thought it was love", but I think deep down "they know" Ofc there are also genuine RL and marriages happening
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:49 PM
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You don't build a social circle with the idea to "get women out of it", it's realky down to luck You build a social circle to have a better life, as many people enjoy to have friends and do activities together, which might make you happier in general Also you are constantly practicing how to speak to other people,blend in, make jokes etc. (I was always good at these things, but coming out of corona pandémie teaches me that you kind of get out of touch if you spend too much time alone with yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:54 PM
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I don't know where the idea of women not working comes from? The majority of people on this planet are poor, they all have to work men and women, its only a small percentage of people rich enough so women don't have to work? Maybe they don't have "jobs with a salary" but then they still might work on the farm or in the family business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:48 PM
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Good diet, some kind of exercise, might help with women, will also help with your life in general Trying to make good money, and becoming stable, might help with women, and will improve your life in general Knowing how to talk to people, and how to be social, might help with women and your life in general Basically most things you can realistically improve, are things that will help you anyways, and women are only a possible bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:22 AM
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I noticed, that I got like 150 likes or so within 2 weeks, at some point I paid a month. Out of the 150 or so like 100 where too far away, of the 50 only like 5 where interesting for me, out of the 5 I dated 2. The funny thing is from the day I paid, I duddenly got hardly any more likes. End of subscription, suddenly again a lot of likes. Also I live in a 500000 people city, it's not very logic, that I get so many likes from far away, but so few from close. Another thing is that I see a lot of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:29 PM
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There's definetly some shady stuff going on with dating apps. The way how and to whom they show your profile, and how this changes if you pay or don't pay..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:02 PM
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Don't think so, because while people will tell you "it's bad", in reality a lot of the whole thing is more than just "Sex" or "intimacy", it's a lot about "status" in society. And we are hardwired to compete for status and protect our status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:41 AM
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Turkey is the 20th biggest economy in the world, similiar level to western countries....west of turkey isn't nearly as conservative as you think Are you US American?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:01 AM
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There is no "if" that's exactly what's already happening...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:11 AM
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There are also older/ugly women that basically pay for sex with younger men, female sex tourism is a thing.. Its only that the "product" is a little different as they need extra steps...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:35 PM
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Same principle, lower standards of living. Side note, throughout history, women always had to work, only nobles and the very rich didn't have to work (but still had duties oftentimes) Its only a short period of time in the west, where only men worked, and even then it wasn't true for workers and farmers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:52 PM
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Because we all became hedonist in a way, and we developed a very high threshold for acceptable "living standards" People will not agree and blame the economy, but then explain, why people living completely from social welfare ( housing is paid for, and food also, Europe not US), have higher birthrate? They don't care, their living standard is pretty much set in stone anyway, if anything the additional welfare money for each child let it rise. People are not ready anymore to sacrifice every luxur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:37 AM
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I would take women 1, too if there wasn't this odd 1time/sex per month description This would make me feel like she doesn't find me attractive. Also I really, really hate women that think sex is something they have to give out like candy for being a good boy, or something they have to do once in a while to please her man enough.... I hate this mentality, she should like to do it for herself also... I don't need the most beautiful women, if I find her attractive enough, it's basically enough for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:52 AM
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It's true if you make some assumptions, you need to be social to a point where you frequently run into girls, and you need to know what you have to do. If you don't know how to make the first few moves you are still fucked 90% of the time... Then the people that have no experience, just don't know what to do, or how to read women, so they are still fucked, if they happen to run into someone... That's why I am not fond of this kind of "passive" advice for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:28 AM
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Yes, but most men when they say "I didn't look for a relationship", where still open to hookups....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:17 AM
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Sluts are always the ones, that wouldn't sleep with him. This is old, even 20 or 30 years ago, this was true. It doesn't help that some women think it's smart to sleep right away with a guy they think is just for fun, and then want to play "hard to get" with the one they want commitment from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:43 AM
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No women dig money, it's just that you need to have a "shit ton of it" compared to her average choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:39 AM
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If you are not physically attractive, and passive in your behavior (make no moves on girls). That's basically enough, don't know if this qualifys for "something wrong" Women hardly ever make first moves on guys, and if they do it's rarely someone average to them (subjective) I don't know why this is so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:14 PM
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It's mostly young women that don't want to struggle and want the nice things of life "now", ofc they tend to be on the more attractive side. Ofc if you go to university, maybe have to do a job on the side etc., you will just not meet this kind of men, at most some guys in a nightclub might be 5 years older or so..., then again as a student we couldn't even afford to go that much to nightclubs, cause we didn't have the money, so again you end up at parties and events where you meet mostly other s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:54 PM
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For every woman that still looks so great in her 30s or 40s, you can also find a shitton that don't. Getting fat and out of shape being a big part of it (same for men BTW) And the next thing is skin, a lot of women screw themselves over with extensive sun exposure plus alcohol and drugs and bad food, again men too, but men just have thicker skin, so they take it better for a longer time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:19 PM
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People that still get a lot of kids, will just take our place, and that's it. I don't think it's a dating problem, it's mainly a problem of hedonistic lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:22 PM
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It's interesting that you assume "no romantic success" equals not having friends, not having a social life etc. It may often be both, but there are also people that do have friends, go out to parties are well liked by their peers and still don't have succès in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:32 PM
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Dude, it's not that deep.... Sitting here on your phone in calmness, you can write all sort of things what "you like and don't like" about women. What's a red flag etc. But if you sit in front of a really attractive woman (to you), and she pushes all your buttons, I bet you will overlook a lot of her flaws for a longer period of time. And even if you know better, you will give in here and there. I guess it's pretty much the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:28 AM
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Yes i don't argue about it, their are ofc nuances, because nothing is 100 % You said "who gave you the idea" I answered
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:00 PM
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Good person, doesn't mean "good person", when they say they want a good person, they mean like a "good car", not like good human being. That doesn't necessarily mean that there isn't an overlap between the 2 things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:48 PM
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I'm my case the idea came from my tinder-likes being full of 20 something women(girls?) 22 to 25 or so. I am 40 yes they are real persons, it's not that they are all fake profiles or so. They mostly want an easy lifestyle and a man with money. (I am aware of this) But you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:52 AM
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If you want kids, you kind of have, to do it at a certain age, though. I know men that fatherd children in their 50s, and are now in their mid 60s, they are a little bit miserable, because they know they cannot keep going much longer (considering money, health, etc.), but their children are only like around 12 or so. One guy at least bought and paid off a house, so at least his children will have a place to live, but he most likely cannot make a lot of money anymore, and it will just get ugly wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:46 PM
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Explain to me how northern European, west European women manage, then? (Germany, Sweden, Netherlands etc. and the like) Ofc, there are also women in this countries, that expect the man to pay, and men that like to pay, it's not a 100 % thing, but it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:17 AM
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How come, you are even thinking about this? I would never lend money to someone, that's not close family or friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:12 PM
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At your point, if you can go on dates, go. Nothing you read online will help you like RL experience. A first date (especially from Old), is not a big deal. So either you are lucky and meet someone, which can happen at any point! Love and relationship can be weird. Or at least you get practice for the next time. And try to enjoy it, sometimes even it was not a good(romantic) date, I had really interesting conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:16 AM
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Dud just give a shit about other people, it's not important to please them, you can do everything "they tell you", but at the end they don't care if "you are happy". So just decide your morals for yourself (assuming nothing illegal obviously) and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:01 PM
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It's pretty easy to get laid, it's just difficult to get laid with someone you want and find very attractive. If you are dropping your standards it has never been that easy. Its just a shitty thing to do for her and for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:33 PM
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Because courts will not accept it as proof, not even for issuing a new court supervised test. if the mother says "no", you will not get out of the situation. if you are married, you are the father by default, you would need to actively decline fatherhood, in this case however(when men have to pay), courts have no problem with demanding paternity tests. Its just not a fair situation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:28 AM
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What exactly is the source of an uprise in bad/abusive men? I would throw in, that even if there is, I think its just because it's more spoken about, definition changed,and stupid social media makes it more visible. I doubt it got worse overall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:16 AM
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Why do you jump to extremes? Why is the opposite of a man paying all the bills =Lazy and has no job? Noone says they have no job and don't make money? The default is doing a household account and both partners putting money into it according to their relative salaries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:05 PM
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I don't dispute your opinion, i think "shortsighted" may also be the correct word.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:29 PM
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Random thought because I read some comments on Instagram about "why there are not more men like this" And disclaimer, I grew up in germany so this might be different in the US. Now that I think of it, from a very young age, our school teachers and everyone always told us that it's backwards and not normal that only the man works and the women doesn't. It was told again and again that it's unfair, that when a man makes more money than the woman, she will likely have to stay at home with the small…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:21 PM
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Here is the problem, in theory you are mostly right! But the vast majority of people that got so old, without ever having a GF or at least sometimes hookups or ONS, will mostly not be able to do this for the very reasons they ended up like this... Its like if you create the image of a normal looking, financially stable, well dressed guy, that everyone likes, no health issues, is social, can hold conversations, is likeable, knows his way around the world etc., then why did he end up like this? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:39 PM
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"Yet, when I go out on dates or plan for the future. It is expected for me to pay and pay for most expenses in the future (house/car/vacations/etc.). Thus I am not sure what benefit I get from a long term relationship" This ofc depends a lot of the country and culture, but if you get to know someone on a date, it's your right to point out your own view "how living together" should be. I mean ' obviously some will not like it if you tell them, I want us to equally contribute to paying the bills (…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:25 PM
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If someone did stupid things in the past, and he/she learned from it and changed, and now is wiser, you cannot expect them to be stupid for the rest of their life, because they where stupid before. It does have to be authentic, however, if I get the feeling I am played, it's not acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:07 AM
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Not really, but i can appreciate a classy beautiful outfit. Its more about extremes that would bother me. Like dressing extremely cheap and slutty, or running around in a potatoe sack
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:01 PM
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Yes ofc its stupid and an addiction. But people that smoke, still get rich, become universitiy professors, start companies, get married with kids, are responsible caring parents etc. I don't see a big difference between smokers/non smokers, in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:47 AM
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Ok, i am from europe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:44 AM
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Smoking has nothing to do with someone being trashy, it's just an addiction, and highly dependent on the society and environment, you grew up. Most people just start as teenagers, and then cannot stop later, they still become responsible adults, with great careers (or not), but cannot really see a difference to "non smokers"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:41 AM
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Or they say some variations of "the past is the past, I don't want to talk about it", next moment she will ask about your past
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:32 AM
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That's as it maybe, point is, it's overall not men that won't get women, who go to prostitutes. So apparently women have no problem dating or marrying the kind of men that visits prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:24 AM
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Most men visiting prostitutes are married men....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:17 AM
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Depends, how good a friend he is, how serious he was about it etc. if it's someone that gets girls constantly, and it was not serious for him, it won't matter that much. if it's someone that gets some action once in a blue moon, and the one being rejected, and he is a good friend, I would try to not hurt his feelings. Depends also how much I like the girl and what I see in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:58 PM
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Why do women tell you "how they could be together with a lot of other men" Seriously, I mean I kind of know this already, if I am with an attractive women, its obvious? I feel so turned off by this, because I feel "telling someone the obvious" is so low class behavior? Am I wrong, what's behind this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:50 PM
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I get triggered by this topic, because I hardly know any woman that can cook, they always speak about their "cooking chores", but in reality they only heat up disgusting indistruiel food, and I find it almost a crime that they feed this to children. If you have at least some cooking skills, there are basic, healthy, easy to make dishes, that can be made within 15 to 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:29 PM
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This is kind of true, if you come to the point of evening getting a shot with a woman, then it's true to much negativity can make you fuck up, but as I understand many here don't even come to the point of getting dates, or second dates???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:41 PM
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There cannot be rich people, without poor people, even in some communist utopia, some people would have better connections than others and so get more ressources in one way or the other. one point, it's all relative, so you can only be rich if there are others that are poorer than you. Second point, almost everyone being rich has to profit from others working for less, in one way or the other. For the main point, there's a difference between a woman wanting a "wealthy man" or a woman wanting onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:26 AM
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You could look how the living of "monks developped" the last few thousand years, to get an idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:34 PM
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There is another thing, if you let's say go on a "first date", the more she reciprocates, the more you will feel confident. You will instantly feel more confident, if she leans in to you, pokes your knee, when you said something funny etc. can't really list all the small things here, you get the idea.... Vs, she stays very neutral or goes dead fish mode... Ofc this different states are fluent And the way she will behave towards you is very dependent on how attractive she finds you..... Same thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:34 AM
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It's a double edged sword, because some people on the internet will always "invent" one personal story from their "life" after the other to "win" an argument. This has gone on since forums existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:17 AM
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I am a tall man and I love tall women, if they look good. I don't like fat/big/tall women, if the women is overweight she might be more attractivetto me if she is less tall. I cannot better explain it, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:56 PM
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You should go on more dates, I know it sounds shitty, but its actually a thing to "get practice", and there's always a chance that it might just work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:05 AM
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I remember back in the day, there where a lot of "bookworm" looking girls during school an university during the day, that went full "hot girl" if they went out at night in the weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:24 PM
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À lot of vegetables and greens, not cooked too much or uncooked, some healthy fats like olive oil, quality proteins like fish, eggs and a bit of meat, few carbs preferably with fiber. no drinks but teas and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:11 PM
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Anyone else gets a huge variety of likes on dating apps? Like from women almost looking like models, to overweight 40 plus single moms?(no pictures of expensive cars or stuff in my profile)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:54 AM
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Well everyone here is bitching about women not approaching men, but thinking about it "young teenage girls" seemed more open to do it, probably till they made their first few bad experiences So one could say, we collectively fucked up as we were growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:41 PM
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You can start with doing pushups standing against the wall, if you are as weak as you describe literally any excersise will show results within some months as long as you are consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:25 PM
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When I grew up, this was actually a thing happening, received my last "note" when I was 16 from a 15 year old girl. I would also say thats the "absolute" limit where this would still work and not come off as odd. but ofc "we rarely" had phones at this time and even then "messages" where expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:20 PM
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Speak for yourself I am almost 40, and most of my friends are married with kids, we still see each other frequently, even if it's just for talking a walk and drink 2 beers afterwards. We talk about our problems and other stuff, still make each other laugh about dumb shit. Its only a handful of guys, but they are almost like family. But all the others are also still nice to meet, if by chance there's a B-day party or something. We also sometimes still go out to bars and stuff, and drink too much …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:08 PM
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You just get too horny, it's not like you don't have an awareness for some of the redflegs, it's more that you ignore them because she is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:33 AM
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You don't need to ignore it, but i Think i eat at least 33% less that what I used to eat in my early 20s (nowadays I will eat on plate of pasta as example, while in my early 20s I would at least eat 2 plates)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:34 PM
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But even if you don't want to have sex too early, there are tons of ways to show physical affection. Almost all my dates that went anywhere, we were at least holding hands and caressing each other a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:30 AM
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I think you are to strict, maybe she just wants to know, if it's worth it to put effort into the thing? As a man, I find it OK (not will you marry me, way of talking ofc) But I think it's pretty ok, to ask you about your general idea of getting married or having kids? Ofc, if she gives you the impression of a "work interview" in a "buissenes way", it's off putting yes. Or if she talks about this right away. I had a talk about this with my ex-girlfriend on the first date, that lasted 4 hours, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:26 AM
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No, I knew everyone and did stuff with different groups, the superficial ones, the alternative ones, also different activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:17 AM
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It's a difference if say this as a" joke", to someone who already knows you for a longer time, probably already learned that you are a "normal guy", and just did her a favour? Vs. you hardly know her, and she doesn't even know if she wants to see you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:53 PM
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Ok dude once I was like 17 to 22, and really struggled (had acne, was too fat). Thing is, I was a very social person, men and women liked to hang out with me, invited me to all the parties, came to mine, went to clubs together, generally had a lot of stuff going on, but got hardly any romantic attention, strangely at 23, my skin finally cleared up, I lost a lot of weight, got in pretty decent shape and suddenly it was like I played a totally different game? I don't feel my personality changed a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:39 PM
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Or OP and her friends, just have a very "different idea" of what "not attractive" means. Could be guys good looking, just not very hot Like good skin, normal height, slim/fit, normal hair, just not particularly "hot", boring face etc. Its pointless people throw this shit around, and you have no idea, what they are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:53 PM
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It's just for fun, the most alcohol I drink not for meeting "new people", but with my friends of many years, oftentimes at those gatherings, there are not even women present. Is ist stupid, probably Is it bad for your health, sure But it's fun, somehow we all die one day...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:38 PM
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The thing is all this many words are not necessary Get as good looking as it's possible with reasonable effort. Get as many money as it's possible with reasonable effort Be social, learn how to interact with people Don't be coward Don't be too picky(about looks mainly) You cannot really do more, everything else is just a lot of words to distract from the core.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:39 AM
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At its core, the bitterness is coming frome being told stuff like this: Almost every woman I know would happily give most guys with a good personality a chance, regardless of their status or physical appearance. And the failing, and seeing that's not true, and being told this all the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:27 AM
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It's with all their topics, they have legitimate point, then they start spreading it on social media, than their lizard brain takes over, and they need to show "they are part of the club!/in group", even if they don't have an experience to share......
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:54 AM
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I totally agree, the only thing I will add is that sometimes people (men and women alike) will tell you exactly what they are between the lines. so you should still pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:11 AM
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You should be happy about any woman that sorts you out for not having an iPhone. Its basically a demonstration of being Superficial low intelligence No imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:05 AM
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Women roommates can have the same problems about cleaning, chores, stealing food from each other, and multitude of other problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:41 PM
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Yes I agree, it's a common problem, thing is this goes both ways, sometimes you are unjust with someone that genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:19 PM
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I think more of things like, extended kissing over the body, caressing your arms, legs, back etc., cuddling against your body Not words and smiling or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:48 PM
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That what I think, but how good actors are they really
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:41 AM
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Don't know, I couldn't outside of some superficial stuff, and very short time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:19 AM
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Father murdered the guy how raped tortured and killed his daughter in the most disgusting way, before his eyes Do you still think he should rest in prison for the rest of his life? Obviously a very cliche example to prove a point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:48 AM
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I understand, perhaps I worded it poorly, let's say " attraction" as blackbox where everything is mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:45 AM
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I am more speaking about her caressing and kissing your neck, and other parts of your body, for a longer time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:09 AM
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Do you think women can fake "physical attraction", and if yes to which degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:51 AM
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I think that it's men's responsibility to pay support for they children, I just don't understand why children of someone making 50000 need less money, than the children of someone making 100000? There should just be an educated number, for how much a child needs, and this should be the number for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:03 PM
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I have a halfway-payed 2 bedroom apartment, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:57 AM
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There is truth to that, but as a late 30s guy, I am already appalled by all this talk about " I have anxiety" all the time. I know reddit is not representing the majority. But still it feels so odd. I mean sometimes, you just have to suck it up, you have to throw yourself into situations that might feel uncomfortable, make you nervous, or even afraid, and you have to do it again and again (obviously speaking about not physically threatening situations mostly) If you don't do this how do you grow…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:46 AM
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Meanwhile out of us 4 siblings, it was only me that helped my mother with cleaning the house of rubbish (6 voyages to the dump yard) Helping her with the construction sites of necessary repairs on her home. And selling my fathers old workshop stuff for her. My sister couldn't be bothered, but they always send nicely packed gift for birthdays, while i mostly only order sole flowers online But ofc women good, men bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:35 PM
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You know what..... Men are to large degree responsable for how women behave in dating. And Women are to large part equally responsible for how men behzve in dating Because both genders don't exist in a vacuum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:44 PM
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Its not true, i see equally couples, where the man is more attractive as I see the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:36 AM
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I got good dating advice from my friends (i am talking about real friends, not just some dudes i hang out with, cause we hapoen to do the same stuff) One friend pulled me aside, in first year of university, when he saw that I struggled, and told me"look dude, you are not the kind of man women will approach", you have to make the first move, they will not come by themselves. (talk was longer, but you get the idea) This was good advice, and given in a serious caring manner, in no way to put me dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:17 AM
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People are delusional and celebrities are a bad example, always... All the idiots spezking about bella hzdid having "masculine features" just because she has a strong face (sry dont know the word for "markant") are delusional. I swear if you would sit them infront of a woman like that in RL they would have issues keeping their brains....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:02 AM
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Honestly its the same for me, once bought tinder gold, out of 150 likes, there where perhzps 10 I would consider, and out of this 10 perhaps 2 or 3 answerd, and I went on dates with 2... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:52 AM
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Seriously whenever i have a "good date" meaning we like each other, we both laugh a lot. The majority of time noone is saying anything particularly funny, and i suspect the written out conversation would be extremely boring
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:33 PM
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The truth is, that a lot of the women that do all this stuff to enhance their attractiveness, where pretty attractive to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:29 PM
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Very US centric view.... there are pretty nice places, where you could probably do the same lifestyle with a fraction of the income.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:01 PM
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Overweight people tend to stay overweight or get more overweight with age. Young people in education are often broke, but tend to get richer, and their personality tends to get more stable and save also Its a poor comparison. A lot of happy married couples i know, met just like, that, when they where young, and didn't have a lot going on, but a lot of the guys made really succesful careers, so their wifes kind of risked it with them. A lot of this men would not remarry their now late 30s wifes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:15 PM
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"when shaking hands squeezing it as hard as they can" In my country a weak handshake means you are an untrustworthy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:56 PM
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No, not at all I have seen this play out in rl a lot of times. You are projecting Internet discussions to RL, and even in this Internet discussions there are tons of women giving bad advice. What most of the time happens. Guy gets asked, why dont you get/have a GF. Guy, well its difficult, I am not good looking, have a bad job, i am not good at talking.... Etc. Women will then often answer with stuff, like " no women care so much about this, if tgey love you they wont care... and some other plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:09 AM
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Women tend to give advice from a point of view "where someone is already at least mildly interested in you" So they say things like"you have to make an effort" They don'tgive you advice to spark that interest in the first place... They cannot understand this because for the majority, they play the passive part, so they are on the receiving end... so whenever a man comes on to them , its a given he is already attracted... They also don't get that most men have to be active and "make things happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:27 AM
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The answers...... Other threads women run in to tell how "shitty they feel if someone is interested in them and acts as if he were a friend" Now they run in to tell " you have to be friends first" Its just so "crazy" Ofc relationships can com from friendships, if its just an organic thing to happen , because you as example at university have a larger group of friends, that hang out and go out, a lot.... then you just sticked with the crowd and happend to meet some like this, you got along at som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:23 AM
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Thats not being nice but basic politeness, its just manners
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:58 PM
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Its not as easy, as a stranger its difficult to judge, oftentimes a woman being treated badly by her BF in public, will in fact turn on you if you interfere to " help".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:23 PM
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Being nice only counts after you are already attracted in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:07 AM
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I cannot connect, your comment with my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:56 PM
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This will probably get down votes, but its just my experience.... Thats why you can't wait too long to have sex, its not a 100 % thing, sure... but mostly after having sex a few times, they tend to want to stick around.... It is what it is, will probably be denied of redfit people.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:06 PM
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Sigh.... Most people will try be default to find someone out of their daily life, from their social circle, workplace, school etc. this just doesn't happen for some, its then when they resort to other methods.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:14 AM
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The reality is that contraceptives and abortions became accessible. There might very well be other factors, but I honestly believe this 2 are the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:09 PM
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Me, too, but i dont do diner dates with strangers from the internet for a first meetup. I also don't feel like someone " owes me something" for paying, the only thing i would ask for is "respect", this includes saying " thank you" and being " honest" (a surprising number of women from apps isnt capable of saying " thank you") Theres 100 % no problem for me, noone can force himself being interested, but theres a difference between being "honestly interested" and after meeting you find its not you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:31 PM
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The men, that let themselves be used for "free meals" are hardly the men that "use women for sex" Just saying......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:35 AM
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Because there are too many people that made a job out of it, and while when its started, it was important work, by now they are hugely just unproductive leechers, but to justify it, they need "to find new problems" all the time to keep the money flowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:01 PM
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I think higher education correlates with a lot of traits that might lead to "better decision-making", and that might be the reason. ( intelligence, impulse control, discipline...)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:39 PM
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Luck plays a huge role, but at some point you cannot blame luck alone anymore. Examples, you are 20, meet a girl at a party, you make out, maybe sleep together (she lives in the same city vs. she lives 100 km afar) You are 16 and work in some fast - food, your colleagues are mostly the same age, there are some girls. vs. all the other people are much older than you. There are tons of this small examples, where you did the same thing, bit outcome is different. However within years, if what you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:22 PM
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You are right, but I will still take the dating apps over the few chances that happen organically. If you are not in school or university, if you dont have by chance a job where you woild often meet new people, than its very inconsitent. If you get older your friends also mostly hang out with other married couples, and all the parties and gatherings there rarely are new people that would even be an opportunity. And meeting strangers in RL is not "that different" outside of the "picture vs. reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:17 AM
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I feel like "good personality" (in context of dating, and being a "good person" are not necessarily always the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:54 PM
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Might be a turn off, when there is an actual outbreak, but in general yes, as im my country 90 % of all people are carrying the virus, often without symptoms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:46 PM
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If a woman you had no prior interaction with, outside of staring at each other crosses you way, smile at you and says some variation of "hello", its definitely meaning that she's interested. Ofc, if you are in a setting like taking a course together, see each other frequently, it may just be socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:52 AM
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1.They are crazy 2.They are searching for something very specific, and nothing is good enough for them 3.They are "logistically" unavailable, they have a lot of stuff going on professionally, have very little free time, a lot of displacements etc. At least thats what i found.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:22 PM
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I think the test should just be made mandatory for every newborn child. But ofc the state is not interested to have to pay money for the 2 to 5% of children, with the wrong namedfather
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:38 PM
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I am 1,88 cm Over the last year I went from 115 kg to 92, and stayed there. Though I also started going to the gym, so i might have lost even more "fat" And yes this made a very big difference, to the point of women adding me on FB and writing to me first after very briefly meeting them. Also a lot more women look and smile at me in daily live, in the way that you might try to ask them out. And 15 to 10 years ago, i was also in good shape, i am not ignorant, i notice this stuff. When i was out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:38 AM
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I don't like the majority of women in a romantic way and I am somewhat picky about looks and intelligence. She needs to have at least a face i like looking at, and not be obese (chubby would be ok)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:34 AM
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It doesnt, I will just walk away, sometimes it will hurt, especially if it was after some time already spend together. But in general i will just walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:49 AM
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The other side of the medal, is that "whats heavy flirting" for one woman is "basic behavior" for another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:37 PM
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Which partys from your youth do you remember? The ones where there where the exact 20 people that were properly, invited, where everyone behaved, noone got really drunk, and at 1 o'clock in the morning everyone got home? Or the ones where there were over 100 people, the police arrived at 2p.m. Because it wzs to moud, some drunken idiot broke stuff, someone vomitted into the toilets some girl gave head to some guy, in the garde, with other people listening, people dancing on a washing m2chine til…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:01 AM
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Maybe US is different because you had so much immigration, but in other countries people are still getting taller...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:31 AM
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Which is a lot because "on average" isnt equally distributed. Also, i dont know for the US, but me, my sisters, and almost everyone I know is noticeable taller than their parents. And while I was young i hardly ever encountered taller men (189cm), but nowadays a lot of youngsters are taller or close at least Edit : i googled it, and I get results that speak about 14 cm or even 22 cm for the last 120 years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:27 PM
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No people are still getting taller, with every generation it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:56 PM
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Younger people are taller on average, and older people are shorter on average, OP spezks about younger couples
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:29 PM
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What people dismiss in this discussion , is that the majority of men need to be the active part, and most men get better at it with age. The older I get, the more i give a shut, i care less what others might think, i am more stable, i can laugh off embarrassing situations or dont even feel embarrassed, i got more secure about my flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:49 AM
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That was the same for me, but here I am at 38 years old, after a long corvid phzse that kind of killed going out with friends for almost 3 years, working 60 hours a week. I still sometimes meet someone in RL, but its to far between to coint on it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:32 AM
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Whzn I visit my mom, and open Tinder as example, I get shown like 30 profiles in my age bracket and thats it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:01 PM
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My only real life anecdote, is that I once went to poker sessions regularly and there was a 40 year old guy (we were 20 to 25 at that time), he came frome 15 years of prison. It was the youngest looking 40 year old I have ever seen, and he wasn't thin or had a baby face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:54 AM
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Exactly they dont realize how much time and work, will already go into just having somewhat showing muscular arms, being toned etc. What they think is just "normal physique " is already with a lot of exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:38 AM
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I was to lazy to write all my thoughts, i just took 2 examples to maje a point. Because you also connected it all to behavioral traits (like voring, bad at conversation, stepping over boundaries, again to lazy to write everything) And I think its just not true in the way you think it is. There are enough "unattractive people" who are funny, or goid conversationalists, who have good hygiene or dress well.... I bet you dont realize it, but its really odd....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:32 PM
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Your list is very odd As if all people with an ugly facr, dress bad and have bad hygiene, or all athletic good looking men , have good jobs.... This just sound off, maybe hzlo effect at work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:30 PM
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You have no problem, just dont marry, telk the men you date, you dont want to marry, unlike most women they wont make a deal out if it. Men arent that interested in marriage and blowing ten thousands on a wedding party, they do it cayse they feel the woman expects it, and they dont wan to loose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:58 AM
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The less you jerk off (or have sex), the more your standard go down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:53 AM
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I would say his friend is also a big part of the problem, seems like a complete pushover at 44 years old.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:07 AM
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I think noone is angry about women choosing whom they are attracted, too I think everyone understands it. People are angry at the extreme hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:57 PM
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Its maybe 2 out of 10 guys I know, and thats the only thinh you took from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:59 PM
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In my wider sicial circles, there are a lot of "at best mediocre" looking women with really good earning husbands (100000 to 150000 euros net salary) . They got together in their early 20s, sometimes even teens. I know them from school, and when they were young they looked at least somewhat attractive. They are mostly married, have kids and their own houses. I doubt any of them would have found their husband in their late 20s or 30s. People get attached to one another, and I dont see any of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:02 AM
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No, its the same for men, but we are open about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:02 PM
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Everything women write a about men online, you should add in your head " of the ones I find physically attractive enough" "I cannot find a man with a stable income, out of the subgroup I find attractive" Etc. Next thing is they will say, that this is natural and normal, and why you should even mention it all, that one has to be attractive. Only to invade some poor guys thread later to fight telling the world that looks arent important......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:00 PM
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What you describe is natural, yes, but at some point humans decided to build "civilization" so they minimized the "cost" of courtship and set a lot of boundaries so that energy was directed to a poont where it benefited the whole society (having a stable job, doing hard work, respecting the law, no infidelity etc. etc.) This ofc meant that people had to sacrifice a part of their freedom. Now our society is degenerating, western societys would die out, if they wouldnt bring in migrants to fill in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:31 PM
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No, I would do what I can if i observe something bad happening, at least call the police or emergency, try to get other people involved. I would however definitely not step in, if i think its some kind of relationship fight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:07 PM
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You can discuss this from a rational standpoint as much as you want, and I will not even say yes or no at this point. But we are kind of hardwired to "feel" its an accomplishment, its like a drug release. I mean I remember when I was new in university and had the first few ons experiences after a party or club. Getting home the next morning, looking kind of hangover, probably stinking, hair a mess etc. you still kind of felt like king, and I wouldnt even talk about this with others, like braghin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:25 AM
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Thats pretty close
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:33 PM
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There is a difference between approaching a stranger woman that hardly noticed you, and a woman that already noticed you and would like you to talk to her. The second type will shoot you a glance or something that you just know she is interested, cannot explain it but if you know it you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:50 AM
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If people like you, they will do you a lot of favors, they won't do for anybody, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:43 PM
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People look less and less at other people when in public. But I would never just run to some random woman, I would kind of go for the ones looking at me in a certain way its obvious they want you to talk to them. But this happens less and less as people stare on their smartphones mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:17 PM
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This is just like a handshake, I don't get it. Some countries even men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:56 AM
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I dont think like this, you are right in many ways, but there are 2 "buts" 1.Women may look for whatever guys they want, ofc its their freedom and I don't blame them, but they should take the responsibility for their decisions and cut the "no good men, all men cheat, all men blah blah blah crap, if they themselves go for this type of men an choose them. 2. Its all well and good, that women don't need to marry a men for ressources, but (and I am not so sure about the US), the state takes a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:23 AM
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This is true for men and women alike, whenever you hear someone complaining about their partner take it with a grain of salt. Ofc sometimes they are in the right, but oftentimes they don't speak about their own contribution to the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:16 AM
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Yes its not really 100% like this, I mean there are homosexual people of both genders, people will date outside their age bracket, a today 20 year old might not pair uo with a today 15 year old (for obvious reasons!! ), but might do so when hes 25 and she is 20 etc. etc. Some people might have one realtionship for 5 years others might have 5 But still there is a considerable amount of more men till early 30s Now lets say we take the 4 %, but lets say 80% of men are already in a realtionship with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:53 AM
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You can just google the numbers for the US as example Age 19 to 24 as example, there are 500000 more men than women in the US (doesnt look much different till 29, then the gap gets smaller) No ofc its much more complicated how people couple up . So if you make some assumptions as a thought experiment, this would mean that 500000 men wouldnt find a partner cause theres noone left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:00 AM
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Most western countries have more men than women age 18 to 59 (and thats a general statistic, locally the numbers might be much more impactful) The age range for a partner for women is much wider than for younger men (i dont know how much of this is biology, social customs and pressure, but it is what it is) and they tend to like older men. Women are more likely to be sidechicks, thinking they are in a monogamous relationship.(so they might share men without kknowing) I still think there is a sil…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:00 PM
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I think its they just feel safer, because they know partially the same people like you, so it's unlikely that you are dangerous or a total looser or whatever else negative thing there might be. Also theres an element of control, you will more likely behave, as if you do something bad, the people you know will know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:45 AM
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Tjere are enough reports of women in their 30s or 40s sleeping with 15 or 16 year olds (maybe even younger) and thats just what we know because it made it to the newspapers and courts. And lets say a 16 year old guy, might very well look pretty grown from behind... You were never attracted to teenagers? Even when you yourself was a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:32 PM
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Its not only women, everyone will treat you better, you will get noticed more etc., if you dress well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:38 PM
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If you go to muslim countries as example a big portion of gurls will try to cater to the ideal, as the majority of men (including, good looking, wealthy basically the one they want) will never marry a girl tgats not a virgin, drinks, smokes and parties. So a big portion will try to present themselves like this. (its an overgeneralization as we are speaking a lot of different countries that are all a bit different, and tgere are more modern folks, too, i just wanted to make a point)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:03 PM
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Maybe not 80 percent, but again you could ssy the same thing about a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:57 PM
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Its not regional, you are just picking men, that think they can do better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:22 AM
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Thats bullshit, I have rejected women I could sleep with because I didn't find them attractive, at moments in time where i had absolutely nothing going on as alternative, mind you. There might be some men that live uo to the cliché but its not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:19 AM
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This is another piece of bullshit, the men get rejected long before these kind of things matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:47 PM
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In my country people get like 200 euro per child every month, plus depending on how high you income before taxes is, you will pay a good amount less taxes. Also some jobs (mainly state jobs), will pay extra salaries if you jave children. Schools and universities are "free" and there is a lot of other stuff, too. Our birthrate is still some of the lowest in the world, and only migrant women are keeping it a little bit higher(and theres a trend that they adapt to local birthrate with every generat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:00 PM
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What does "older" mean? I sometimes see women in their 40s to 50s that look pretty attractive from far away, but once you see the old skin, its such a huge turn off that I couldnt imagibe having sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:08 AM
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If you drop your standards low enough (I cannot do this, outside of some odd times where I was younger and stupid and super drunk, more horny probably, too) Its pretty easy. But the women that would be easy are mostly invisible to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:01 AM
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Its always women who are vocal about this, but they are right the "smell" of a person is very important. I went on dates with wonen, that were perfectly fine, but I remember how their" smell" was extremely off putting, It gave me the feeling that I want to keep my distance and that I was hapoy when it ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:32 AM
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Its less rare than you think, in germany at least there are sites as example, where women do this as a side job or completely independent, they won't even accept everyone as client.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:09 AM
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Yes but theres a correlation, so you will find this more often than not. Because earning a lot of money the hard way does something to your personality. And growing up as a rich kid, that knows there will always be enough money and having all the cool toys, clothes and stuff, will also do something to your personality (confidence, can lead to lack of ambition) This are just 2 examples that cannot reflect everythibg ofc, but my point stands
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:40 AM
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Seriously I think the same thing all the time....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:54 PM
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I have kissed a lot of women, or sometimes, rarely they kissed me first, i assure you there has never been a word spoken about it before! I am sry this is my life experience of many years. I can tell you about my younger self sitting next to cute girl, and in hindsight she was just begging me to just kiss her, but my younger self was too stupid/inexperienced to get the cues, believe me its really like this, I can put together at least 3 situations where it happened like this. I know todays stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:29 PM
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Thats however what happens a lot of time, I myself am guilty of this, too when I was younger/inexperienced . So I am sry I wont buy it, OP is spot on about this, at some point the majority of women will just give up on you, if you make nothing happen. As always and with anything there are exceptions as we all humans, but that doesn't make the statement wrong on average....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:24 PM
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Thats not what he said, he said "being kind alone"... Imagine he smells and looks terrible, dresses bad, is boring and bad at conversation, is broke, inject more negative points, but " he is kind" What does he get going, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:16 PM
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There are many ways to do this, with different risks and limitations, and some men have already done this in the past (not only for divorce, also for frauds or because their buissenes had to much debt) The majority of men will love their children, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:25 AM
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Or you and your friends cannot rate yourself correctly. I think men and women both fail a little bit judging their own gender, especially in the middleground, because "beauty" is not 100% the same as being "sexy" The vast majority of people I know have partners that are not far from another concerning their attractiveness. Also its difficult to judge for people tgat are 10 years or longer together with kids, as you don't know how they looked when they got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:35 PM
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You don't get the point, its like a pyramid, if the base gets weaker and weaker the top can't exist. Its not about choices or whining, its about hard facts coming in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:48 AM
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This is stupid because its very relative, you will not be "old" for mid thirty women as example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:11 AM
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Yes, but theres a catch People tend to not be average all over the board. Something tends to stick out. As example one ex from me fits your description, only she had really nice boobs :-), we shared the exact same music taste and went to the same venues (how I met her in the first place), and we really really connected well. Thats also why i think all the endless posts on the dating subs are so pointless Would you date a "fat, bad skin, broke etc. etc. Guy/girl... People are packages, you cannot…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:50 AM
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Thats as it maybe, but all the hard shit jobs, that keep our day to day live running and even enable women/men to have good jobs and education are still mostly done by men. And there might be a huge shift in salary structure coming, if these people get more scarce in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:25 AM
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After many experiences including myself being stupid, i think you should just "next" any woman that doesn't give you the feeling she lusts for you, you can give it 2-3 tries but than thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:48 PM
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Yes that exactly what i dont get. My friends (men and women) are not the same thing for me like my partner My partner is not just like friendship plus sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:32 PM
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This is like you didnt read my post at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:45 PM
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But why do you feel like this? For me as a man ints incredibly difficult to relate??? Why do you think its just "sex" alone, the desire to be with someone is mostly multidimensional The guy didnt just want to have sex with you, he also wanted all the other things that he wants from a partner? Sex would only make like 5 % of the time you spend with your partner (more or less depending on definition and phase) They want also to cuddle with you, speak with you, do activities together. They don't wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:30 PM
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Its not that you cannot be friends with women, but at some point in your life you have already "more friends" that you can handle. And if the time of school and college is over and especially when people start having kids, you need to put "effort" into this friendships to sustain them. So if you meet someone and get romantically interested (ok i know this sounds stupid), you are tzking "time" from your "looking for a partner time budget" but if this leads nowhere there isnt much time left, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:32 PM
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Married women cheat, too, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:14 PM
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I think the problem is that we are wired to live in small communities, so women would evaluate men by comparing them to the other 20 guys that were around (subconsciously), even till recently there would only have been so many guys that crossed their path. now with OLD, they would compare to a much huger crowd. But if lets say its samedi and you are on a party its again back to the guys that run around there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:40 PM
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I dont know how old you are, but it happens a lot that couples have less and less sex, especially after having kids together. Its not everyone ofc, but its enough that this has already become cliché Its also married men that are the main clients of prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:46 PM
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Only a Lady can expect a gentleman, though. You should think about this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:50 AM
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No, I swipe on those I think may realistically be a potential match
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:57 AM
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Its not as if the majority of women are even reading the bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:56 AM
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Thats like all women saying, I want someone that makes me laugh.... As a man you know the other guys, a lot of them are not funny or witty or anything, aren't great conversationilst either... But ofc men and women will start laughing about the smallest things, if they are attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:45 AM
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Dont overcomplicate things, most people will find a partner around 2 to 4 years different from their age maybe, huge age gaps will oftentimes mean that they struggle already, so its no surprise! The 40 year old guy married to a 25 year old guy is likely already divorced once or twice lol, so there is a selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:58 AM
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You met your fiancé in RL before going on a date, the whole coffeedate/drinks for me its not about the money, its because I have never seen the women from OLD before, and I am afraid they may be terrible so I want to have an easy out after an hour or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:22 AM
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Tell me what you want. Once a year I see the majority of people with whom I finished school. And yes these lzst few years reaching the end of my 30s, I was mich more shocked of how some of the women look, then the men. Yes in general , those who looked good back then still look good (men and women), those who looked ba, still look bad. Some women still look good, have really good skin and are in shape even after having 2 kids already (and I drank and smoked and partyied with them when we were yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:34 PM
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Even if you ask its useless, i dont find the study right now, but it said basically women are pretty much 50/50 on facial hair in men, so its not as if you could up your chances or something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:00 AM
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Depends, I see some of my friends putting a lot of effort into maintaining their beards (some just go to the barber, it's also effort) Its not necessarily the same as just "letting it grow" But I get where you are coming from, I just shave every 2 days or so, I am pissed that I start getting grey beard hairs, so it looks strange atm otherwise I could get away with 3 or 4 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:58 AM
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That makes alot of sense actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:25 AM
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But even then there are books like " der dressierte Mann" from "Esther Villar" from the 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:09 AM
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In my country the way education is set up , all men going to university are more or less broke, till they are 25 (maybe 26 to 27), and start working their first real job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:55 PM
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People who make a lot of money, often work a lot, and have tight shedules, so free time is more valuable to them then a few hundred dollars (as example).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:53 PM
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I dont thonk its emasculating, but I also feel reddits army of men always rdy to advocate for "how much they love eating her out" is not really reflective of what a lot of men in RL think about it. Some just don't like it all, and a lot kind of do it because they hope to be on tje receiving end, too I think whzt people want to do, and not wznt to do, and whzts giving them pleasure and mekes them feel good, is noone buissenes and only between the 2 (or more :-) of them. People either love certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:08 PM
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I suspect that the guys saying "i make so much money" but women don't care still, are neither showing off their money nor are they rdy to spend it. Now ofc most men fear to be only used for their money but this is a fine line to walk, being al stingy and leading a frugal lifestyle is also not really attractive for most women. Also money is not everything, but it helps with almost everything in life. As a door opener. And also you will be just more at ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:49 AM
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Well some people struggle with this, too There are also people that are "normal" (sry for this wording), that struggle with having friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:22 AM
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I think this is a case of "the grass is always greener" People will always put the most impotance on things they feel they are lacking... Short, if only I was tall Fat, if only I was in shape Extremely small dick, if only Or imagine ED, or bad acne face or, or.... Its also like you cannot measure a whole person down to one single feature
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:15 AM
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Most men doing it are married men, and it doesnt change the dating dynamics, outcome is pretty similar, same men and women complaining etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:54 PM
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Its a receipt for disaster, if you get together with someone hoping they will massively change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:52 PM
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I can't discuss this over the internet, and I am to lazy to search for pictures to lake my point, as people throw around words like " chubby", "overweight" , curvy and obese and speak of totally different things. I like what "I consider chubby women" but I suspect most people throw this term around and speak of morbidly obese. Also a women might be heavier, but still pretty fit, she is bigger but doesnt have this saggy look. Anyway once the human shape is lost, its over for me. Also comparison m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:48 PM
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When I grew uo in the 90s afternoon television consisted mainly of "Talkshows", and whenever it wzs about realtionships, sex, dating the hosts and audience where oushing the bluepill narrative -(against the bad guy/girl guest).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:27 PM
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Why do women always bring uo "cooking", todays women cant cook!!! I hardly know any women for the last 20 years, that could cook a meal from scratch, if anything they use convenience and call it " cooking" also my mother and my sistets cant cook. I always end up being the one cooking, because I actually can, and people enjoy my food. The maximum you could call this is "preparing meals" Sry for venting here not adding much to the topic..... But it gets on my nerves thzt women only always write ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:29 AM
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Same, where I live if you make new account, within 1 or 2 days you have gone through all profiles in 50 km range. After that you have to wait if someone enters the apo new.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:24 AM
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The problem is that this is often a sign of her aspiring to do better and find a replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:51 PM
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Dude, i am not even speaking about me, its things you will jear from you buddies (late 20s, early 30s), believe me, you woll hear this, its common
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:40 PM
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Because a lot of women subtlety (and more direct, too) pressure their boyfriends into proposing. You know men talk, too sometimes. A lot of men are happy, with the situation as its is, but at the same time dont want to loose their longtime GF. Then there are often 2 big things a lot of women want "kids" and "marriage "
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:30 PM
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I think you just have to run into a woman being more into you, than you into her, to understand that it really doesn't always play out like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:43 PM
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Yes the camera of my main phone is much better, also the screen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:44 PM
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I have a 100 dollar phone as backup phone (if stolen, loss, broken i just want to have something right away, till i get a replacement) To be fair its worse in many ways, but it can actually do everything you really need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:10 PM
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I am so thankful that I dont live in the US, its really the dumbest thing I ever heard. Even people living on social welfare (germany) can afford an iphone if they are dumb enough to do it, as most people just finance their phones via the carrier anyway. The flagship androids all cost the same or more than the iPhones anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:19 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14zav4k/is_it_weird_that_i_dont_date_guys_that_dont_have/ Some proof
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:29 AM
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Just for another perspective Do we have laws against: NGO asking you for anything on the streets? Beggars /Homeless People asking for money Religious groups trying to get you interested I mean I am generally annoyed by any of these, but I just ignore them, say "no" move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:07 AM
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Yes Housing prices have become a huge problem in most of the west, its a point I could agree on. But I understand 1700 is for 80 m2, this would already be sufficient for a family with 2 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:25 PM
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Yes ofc things have greatly changed, but thats my point we have a different "standard of living" today, when we speak about single incomes not being enough. Also it was limited who could afford everything on single income even back then. On farms and stuff, the women always contributed to the work. Unlearned workers and stuff, women would also go to work in the factories before and after kids were small. Its really more complex, but people speak about the past not seeingvthe full picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:44 PM
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I agree to an extent, I mean look "at cars" till the 80/90s or so you could do most of the maintenance and repairs youself, but who wants a car like this today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:36 PM
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You don't get my point.... you can't even imagine how simple and cheap life was earlier. Thats exactly my point.... the standards of living were completely different. You could feed and cloth a child on some 3000 dollars/year, its totally possible, nut ofc its not whzt we want in todays world. Back in the day people would send there children of to apprenticeship at 15 years old, so they would start to help with the finances, or they would finish school and start working, only a minority went to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:25 PM
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People are always speaking about the old times where one income wzs enough, as if people had the same luxury lifestyle.... People didn't go out to eat, it was rare, they didnt order take away food. They prepared everything at home. They would repair clothes themseelves zs long as possible, especially for children. Houses and apartments tended to be much simpler and cheaper. Holidays or activities for free tile were much simpler and cheaper. People bought a lot less useless stuff, that's only for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:43 AM
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Dude she just didn't like to be with you, and didnt have the guts to tell you she wants to end the date.... that's all, I agree its shitty behaviour, but dont overthink it. At the end, would you feel so much better, if she told you after 60 minutes or so, "hey I don't feel it, can we just end this"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:05 AM
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The fact alone that she went public tells me thatvshe is a low tier trash person, what kind of worthless person goes public about stuff like this?.. Its ridiculous that people accept this kind of behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:58 PM
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Some 30, maybe even 40 year old women might be as attractive or more attractive than some 20 or 25 year old women. Some women are physically stronger than some men. Some 18 year olds are smarter and wiser than some 40 year olds.. On average.. though its mostly the other way round. But I agree that the notion women become just magically undesirable after hitting 30 is greatly blown out of the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:58 PM
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I agree, but you have to see the context of my comment. And in general theres only 2 things that would make me overlook an attractive woman 1.She is crazy, as in really crazy, serious disorders and stuff 2.She is a painfully boring person to speak, too The comment I answered, if you would see a collection of pictures of her successful "bad" girlfriends and unsuccessful "good" girlfriends, I bet the first group on average is more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:24 AM
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Yeah bit nowhere does she mention asking for it, normalky its the one who wants a favor, who asks? Hey I dont want to pay the 7 dollar.... would you pay it for me, i ll give you back on monday...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:51 AM
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Theres too much information lacking in this shitty article, to really judge it. In what scenario where they out? Was it a larger group and at some point it was time to go home? And she tried to profit by asking the guy to go with him because she knew he was close? Did she have money or not, did he knew or not? Him saying i don't want to pay the 7 dollars, could have been a way of asking for her to pay it. She coild have answered, i pay it or " sry I dont have it could you pay it for me, i ll giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:24 AM
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There is a difference between just being in the same "larger group of friends", where you know each other and would constantly hang out together You would likely call the people there" friends" And some guy spending tons of time "one on one" with one single female friend and doing activities with her, having multiple phone calls and whatever...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:55 PM
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https://de.dreamstime.com/lizenzfreie-stockbilder-durchschnittliche-kerl-stimmung-image7657299 This would be an average middle ahed guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:27 PM
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I bet it comes primary down to attractiveness and not behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:19 AM
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Take it with a grain of salt, what the women here write.... even 20 years ago female friends (friends i didnt have any romantic interest with, mind you!!!,),told me the "you are too nice"line as advice! This was before internet PUA stuff or anything was a mainstrezm thibg, really So theres definitely more to it than just some"manipulation stuff"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:25 PM
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I dont think so, I know many won't agree with me, but I think Its not about who initiated or puts in more work Its just a heavy (not strict) correlation, that the one investing more has lower options, is on average less desirable. And as I said, if women make the first move (real first move, not "sending ambiguous signals), they tend to do zhis with men that are more desirable than the men that on average hit in them. And men dont work exactly like women, a lot might just stick a long if it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:32 AM
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I only now the piece from him about basically getting your shit together. This seems like pretty common sense, and I don't really understand how this is controversial or original in any sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:48 AM
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I dont really think" men prefer chasing" Maybe the bored ones, that drown in attention already.... I get why it may be better for women to pick men that chase them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:19 AM
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I think women only do the chase, if they are "more attracted" in the first place... so its kind of the other way around. For me this happened only a few times, but i noticed that women being active with me, tend to be on the less attractive side, which isn't always a problem if you find her attractive enough and find yourself having a good time with her. But still I noticed. And yes they will treat you much better, be more eager etc. But I think this just comes down to the power dynamics of who …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:45 AM
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To be fair, a restaurant with a lot of customers is less likely to have "old leftover foods", while restaurant that have few customers and aren't doing well financially tend to not throw away old foid in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:34 AM
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Its not "faking it", its just having "courage" like the first time you do something new, you might be afraid but after having done it multiple times with success, you are " confident" So where you lack experience and confidence, you just have to suck it up and overcome your "fear " I won't nt call this "fake"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:29 AM
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Main problem in itzly, is that young people don't find stable jobs and have to live with their parents, they even have to leave the country to find a job. This has been ongoing for 20 years or so. Now I dont say its the only reason or that its for all fields. But surely tjat plays a huge role.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:19 AM
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It depends, some women have something "childish" in their features till maybe their early 20s, i find this off putting , others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:02 PM
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Shower thought: if you are not in your teens anymore and a woman asks you if you "are a virgin" (and its not some joke), you already fucked up and you could just tell the truth aswell? Because noone will ask you this question, the only question they ask is for past relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:30 AM
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They are not 14 anymore, you can try it out and use on yourself.. you know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:12 PM
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She is not lying, but she imagines some perfect "man" in every way but his experience, when telling you this..... In reality most people aren't perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:49 PM
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Yes sure, not my point.... Just why many "guys" assume why women date "assholes", the see women as angels that do everything right, so if they bizch about their BF or EX, surely he is an asshole......
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:31 PM
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I am a man, i understand the frustration, but seriously we "as men" are basically the same! We will also oftentimes overlook a decent woman, because shes not tgat attractive to us, even if she has a lot of good traits, and will often accept a lot of Bullshit and bad behaviour from women because they are "hot" and make us feel good when we are together. And also a lot of "what women say" about men being assholes, its not really true, they are often pretty normal, just when she doesn't get "what s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:59 AM
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Just exaggerate the "experiences" you had a little bit... If they find you attractive, they will assume you are/were lucky with the ladies anyway. Dont listen to reddit So many people lie, or exaggerate or show themselves in a better light all the time..... Basically the wilk telk you "dont lie" here all the time... Than you will find that they fuck dues that lied to them all the time.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:18 AM
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Noticed the same thing, but to be fair in RL most women are together with men, with normal untrained bodies ( maximum like cycling, running and football) . However I noticed on the Internet women comment " we don't like muscles and gym guys" only to post images of people that have spent years training... as normal averagw physique
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:57 PM
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I think almost everyone can share a story like, this. What usually hapoens is, that you pull back, say it's ok, I understand etc. and then go back to making out and then it still happens oftentimes. The Problem is also that mostly the women will not take it well, if theres no sex then. But its a sensible topic, as you kind of need empathy and having a feeling for your partners wants, to judge if it serious or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:21 AM
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Maybe not on this sub, but on other places people really say stuff likr this, and its more hurting than helping. Looks dont matter, or looks dont matter as much as you think Is constantly thrown around as" advice "on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:35 AM
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This is a problem, you will run into with almost everything, "where people want to sell something", and make money oit of it. Could also be "health", could also be "mental health" or whatever topic.. (also think of NGOs, environment, climate, hungry children etc.) There are some truth and helpful stuff, but the they need to add "content" after "content",so they kind of go to far to build up some over sophisticated Bullshit, out of some pretty simple straightforward truths. The second thing tgat …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:37 AM
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Most people on this planet are hypocrites at least sometimes including people labeling themselves as feminist or whatever...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:50 PM
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I live in another country for years, now (bcauseof work) , its not my home country, and its like 75 % poorer than my home country. Women are still women, you will run into the same issues as always. They will still be picky over a lot of things. They might be more conservative, but this also means they might be more materialistic. And then there are borderline Hookers and actual hookers, I imagine if you don't have experience these will be hard to spot. You just get more desirable as a husband, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:38 AM
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Why do men settle for women that are not twenty-something supermodels?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:50 AM
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Partially yes, Partially now. Men do also want to have Status with other Men, it might be less prevalent as in women, but its there. Also if Men are lucky they can put their time and energy in something, they like doing. Example out of my head : there are crazy people building miniature models of cars, planes and ships, they put months of work into it, they build whole little workshops in their cellars and garage, and educate themselves about things like milling, turning, 3d printing, they put t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:32 AM
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I worded it poorly, maybe you are right. I wanted to point out, that there weren't so many distractions, ofc people dated to have sex. There was no messaging, no social media, even phone calks where rare, no youtube, netflix etc., no on demad porn, no video games (and even then very simple and got old sooner or later), no amazon to buy stuff. In general life was simpler, so you would constantly hang out with your peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:44 PM
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"in the 60’s for example we would not have access to all this, all these perceptions and opinions and thoughts and narratives." 1.Because going out there and learning from "trial and error", beats everything anyone has ever written online about dating . 2.Because the more you go back in time, the more things were more clear, as to when and where you might ask out someone. 3.There were just less other things, to do, but hanging out with friends or dating. 4.there eas more presdure on young men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:29 PM
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I think its more about reliable birth- control being a thing since the late 60s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:39 AM
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Wtf are you trolling, its as if you dont even discuss with me, because you bring up poinzs i mentioned nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:04 PM
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I did not blame anyone, I just said its a bold assumption to just say those people are "arseholes" Sure there will be some people that are arseholes, but others are as I said just not attractive and never learnt to be active. I dont know why this is so hard to understand. I am almost 40, and it happend perhaps 10 times in my life that a woman/ girl made a first move on me. And I had to learn this myself in my early 20s, as "unfortunately" my first 2 girlfriends in school both made the first move…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:02 PM
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Yes really its like that, if you are moderately attractive, and not completely shut-in, theres a chances that a women will give it a try sooner or later, but the guys often even lack the experience to get the cues. You could also argue that its part of being a man to make a first move. If you really don't look attractive, then you will not even get the once in a while woman hitting on you. But this are all problems that don't make person an "arsehole".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:33 PM
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If you don't look very attractive and are passive (never hit on girls yourself ), you might stay single forever, thats really all it needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:19 PM
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From my experience, no There is not 100% correlation, but in general: Woman that are objectively less attractive, tend to be more into me than woman that are hotter (its more mixed up, as looks aren't everything, but its a tendency) Women that are more into me, treat me better overall, make it much easier, are much more forward, answer faster to texts, etc. Plz understand its a "tendency", not a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:33 AM
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Most men also get away with it, go outside, people have all sorts of issues, are mental or physical wracks, have money problems, etc. etc. and still majority finds a partner sooner or later..... Majority of men at least in my generation never go to the gym, they play some teamsport mostly for fun with low ambition thats the max. There is truth to all this stuff, but as always you greatly overestimate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:48 AM
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80 % of my wider social circle consist of people that got together in their early twenties, married late twenties to early 30s and got children, most of them are married for over 10 years now, so far only one divorce, i know /heatd about. A lot of the guys have become very successful, so if you ask yourself "how can a below average women score a rich husband", that's the way Also most of the women finished their education and also have good jobs, just when they get kids zhey go to 50% for a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:02 AM
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I would 100 % agree, if the state wouldn't take so much money away from men and give it to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:04 PM
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I never mentioned any ethnicity, and ofc its on average and lifestyle dependent, and next time think about women more often do extensive skincare routines from young age, while most won't do anything at at all befire tgey hit 30 or 40 https://www.livescience.com/1054-woman-skin-ages-faster.html#:~:text=The%20imaging%20of%20collagen%20and,for%20the%20strength%20of%20skin. You can google it, its just the first result... Do you ever have to write a disclaimer, are people really that dumb on the int…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:40 AM
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Its the skin, mens skin on average does age slower than womens skin
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:11 AM
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Its the other way round, fitter more successful men are more likely to be married than less healthy less successful men. And I thinkin today's world marriage makes only sense if you want to have kids. And the laws should be heavily changed for divorces if there are no children. There really is no excuse for a childless women (or men) to get assets as compensation if there are no kids and pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:35 AM
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If you are a woman, you will not be seen as a potential "danger", most times, as a man this is different, thats already a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:19 AM
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After being stupid for on or two times, I will unmatch and ghost women now, that are to picky aboit the first date place. (disclaimer, I always pick expensive, save places, that are clean, good service, no difficult patrons or the like, and I ask if their are parts of the city she doesnt want or cant go to easily before I pick a place ) Its like you have to propose 3 to 4 places in a row, and it will not get better afterwards. I will not put up with that shit anymore, especially as 90 % expect y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:02 PM
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I have a friend back from school, in her twenties she got together with a 15 year older man, who was divorced. They have no kids, she always said she doesn't want to, and they are together for 15 years or so by now. They are into their dog, and do a lot of travel together, and as I understand they run a buissenes together, I see them once, twice a year, they seem happy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:24 PM
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I am from a country where prostitution is legal and pretty easy access, and its still the same thing (maybe married man in their 40s and 50s, cheat less and go to prostitute more, married man are the prime customers anyway) The whole post doesn't get the point anyway, its more complicated the incels crying that they don't get sex. Its also the society still pressuring them, making them feel not "normal", the need to have a partner to socialize etc., the anger has a lot more to do with "how they …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:54 PM
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The logical soloution of the RP would be going back to forming the sexual cartel we had prior tobsexual revoloution, with a lot of social pressure on men and women to get married (restrictions to renting places, or even jobs), also strong penalties for dicorces and infidelity. And a more rational, transactional approach to marriage. Most people will not want to go back to that, but ofc the RP guys want also sell zhe dream of sleeping around to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:58 PM
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Why should they? Attractive people tend to be nice to be around more often than not, as they have been treated well since childhood most of the time, by most strangers? They might be lacking in some other departments, because less "struggle", less development and drive sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:51 PM
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I know and use this trick, learned it from a chef, while working in a restaurant over summer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:10 AM
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Sry but from lots snd lots of experience, thats not true most of the time. There are exceptions, I will not deny it. But realistically women bond through sex, and from there on you can work toeardsa relationship. If you wait too long to have sex, it often will not work out, they will loose interest etc. A lot of women seem to subconsciously or consciously expect you to make "sex" happen with her, if you have the chance, and won't take it well if it just doesn't happen. But this will always get d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:58 PM
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I read somewhere, that especially if you are at a place with a lot of users, the women just wont ever see the "average or below average men" (whatever that means), as the algorithms push other profiles forward, and you might be so at the end, that you almost never show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:57 PM
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Why do you limit this to men, there are tons of old, ugly fat women, that do sex tourism in poorer countries, either just to get banged or often also importing "their" husband? Ofc the dynamics are slightly different, but at the end its the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:02 AM
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I am in my late 30s and from my wider social circle, i would say there are a lot of women that objectively can't do better "anymore" Some already didnt look that good anymore in their late 20s and some still loook great even reaching 40, but on average most have lost their looks in their 30s, but many fetched their husband in their late teens or early 20s, and are no married to big earners (speaking like 200000 net salaries), and I highly doubt they could attract someon like this at this stage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:31 PM
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From my experience Traveling plus doing fun activities Sport/Fitness and Spa and Cosmetics Drugs, Drinking, Partying, Clubs, Bars Going to restaurants and coffeeshops Fashion and buying clothes/stuff TAKING PICTURES OF ALL THIS To be fair, if they do all this and have a Job also, there isnt really that much time for anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:04 PM
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