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| 4 | Life isn't a "game" -- and a quote from Aristotle regarding the self-fulfilling manNah, man. Don't you see that this is the one path to "true happiness"? | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Not the best at texting, looking for some advice.Models, currently the favorite book around these parts, says the exact same thing. You really don't have a clue what you're talking about. If you ask a girl out, and she wants to see you, she will make time for you. If she works all week, she'll offer to find time next week or after work. If she doesn't, it's because she's not that into you and doesn't really care if she sees you again at best. You can fix this by making stronger connections when you first meet. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 12:50 AM |
| 49 | Should I 'own' nerdy things, or try to hide them from women?Always own things. If you're ashamed of something, she'll know it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I have no idea how to do this...Do the group thing at your place, find something you like to do with the girl you're interested in, then tell her that you guys are going to do that. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Not the best at texting, looking for some advice.If they aren't interested, they will tell you. This is dead wrong. Most women are non-confrontational and will go out of their way to avoid telling a man that they are not interested in them, especially one that lacks the social acumen to notice it themselves. If she's not interested in you, she will show you by not making time for you. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Not the best at texting, looking for some advice.If she was interested in you, she would have found time for you. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Am I boring at texting?The five texts after the first all contain apologies, explanations, or references to your mistake. You took a little thing and made it super awkward because you were unconfident. Learning how to deal with those little bumps without reacting is something you're going to have to do. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What are some examples of alpha-like etiquette and etiquette which is beta?I do this all the time, but it really doesn't get good attention. Just a fun game to teach you about managing your body language during "stressful" events. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Is seducing at work acceptable? If so, what's the best way?Just like with regular approaches, the easiest way is to make a flattering, nonsexual comment about an article of clothing she's wearing. edit: That makes much more sense in response to the barista. Not the easiest of tasks at a pool. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 03:56 AM |
| 6 | [POV Infield w/ Mars] Daygame In Toronto #1 (rejections, numbers, blowouts, and captioned lessons)What did you use to record? | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 10:10 PM |
| 3 | If a girl refuses to spilt the bill with me, based on expectations of chivalry, is that a red flag to move on?Paying for a date is not creepy. I bought a girl boba the other day, and everyone was pleased. What is creepy is feeling like you have to pay for your date, as if she's having to put up with you so you are obligated to compensate her with gifts. The dynamic is not a good one. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 09:38 AM |
| 1 | If a girl refuses to spilt the bill with me, based on expectations of chivalry, is that a red flag to move on?You're putting the women above you and demonstrating how you feel lower value than them. You come across like you're paying for the inconvince of having to spend time with you. That's not old fashioned, it's creepy. She should be the one impressing you, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Wow...talking to women can be boring...how do I lively it up??I was at the bar, talked to a few girls, the common getting to know you questions...and it was painfully boring. If you don't want boring conversations, don't ask boring questions. | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Say if you are already inside your head and in a state of non-congruence, should you still go up and approach?Err. If you see a girl you like and are interested in talking to her, but don't? That's the incongruency. The anxiety that you use as an excuse to not reconcile the conflict between your thoughts and your actions? That's being in your head. You get out of it by acknowledging what you really want to do, and doing it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 01:16 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/16/15If you clearly communicate your intent, she'll let you know if it's okay to flirt with her or not. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Nice guys are attracted to people and situations that need fixing-Mark MansonIn Models, Marks speaks more about how "nice guys" are actually highly manipulative passive-aggressive individuals. The niceness is a performance that falls apart when it doesn't work. This is the kind of person you are. Maybe she shouldn't be doing meth, but it's really out of your control and you need to accept that. You killed the "love" that you guys had when you got upset that you didn't get your way. It's entirely possible that you're attractive to people who are chaotic and unstable, and … | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I got a sad one for you boys.You're afraid of success. Figure out why. | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Phoning instead of textingWhile it's true that texts are easy to misconstrue, you evade this problem by keeping your points short and to the point. Say hello in the first text, and arrange the date in the second. You don't need to convey your personality because you've already done so; in the conversation, however brief, you had before you got her number. If she's attracted to you and wants more, she'll go for it whether you text or call. Ask yourself this: Which approach is assuming attraction, and which one is trying t… | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Better to ask for number or on a date outright?Go on a date if you both have time. Most of the time, you'll have to get a number instead. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Just Been Shunned after Trying to Talk to Girl :-(I agree with must everyone else who says she probably wasn't in the best of moods, but one thing you could do is make more statement instead of questions. Like: “You look ready for the gym". By making a statement you come across as more assertive. | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 07:22 PM |
| -1 | How do you deal with women misinterpreting humor?Last night I offended a woman with a joking comment. "That's racist", she proclaimed as she completely withdrew and turned away. Completely unphased, asked her "Is it?", and without hesitating, moved on to other related topics. She quickly turned right back to me. By being unreactive, I showed her that I wasn't interested in playing her game and was in charge setting the mood of the conversation. tl;dr: Be unreactive. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 09:12 PM |
| 9 | A few things I've learned from Tinder.You look like Drama? | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Are women turned off by surgery scars?I have some pretty extremely scarring on belly. Nobody cares. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Weed Addiction and SeductionCannabis has had nearly a century of formal, state-run disparagement against it. It's very easy to have feels of anxiety about its use, especially when heavy users tend to be self-medicating pre-existing conditions of anxiety. Like with all things in this game, it's your level of comfort and security that matter. If you want to stop, then you should stop. If you're okay with it, don't make it an issue and things will work out.. Personally, I smoke before go out most of the time. It's who I am, a… | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Tips for guys under 18?Malls, beaches, your high school, colleges, especially CCs in the summer, theme parks, festivals, any events without an age limit. | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 05:55 PM |
| 4 | The main reason YOU are failing, A.K.A where to actually meet women and have a good time doing it.If you're having this problem, it's likely that you aren't communicating your intent clearly enough. I've been social dancing for several years and this hasn't been an issue. | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 08:09 PM |
| 2 | The main reason YOU are failing, A.K.A where to actually meet women and have a good time doing it.You can find very high quality women online, but most would be on the lower end of things, and it's still very much a buyer's market. | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 03:21 PM |
| 2 | I succeeded todayAll natural and clean burning. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Is giving your number instead of asking for hers considered odd?Getting her number makes flaking less likely to happen. If she has to make the effort of starting a conversation, versus just responding to one, she'll be less likely to take that step. It also puts you in a dominate role. You more or less demand her number, and she gives it to you. You call her, and she respond to you. Women like that. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 07:51 AM |
| 1 | When you go in for a cold approach, do you know exactly what you're going to say or do you just wing it?It's best to go without thinking, and find something in your shared environment to comment on. But failing that, I've extensively rehearsed "Hi..." | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 09:20 PM |
| 34 | Ever run into "nice girls"?Lacks self-confidence and just supplicates to others desires. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 07:15 PM |
| 11 | How to turn shame off?Basically anything that self amuses you This is really the key. When you're genuinely having fun with what you're doing, you yourself are going to want to keep in that headspace. Because you want to stay present in that enjoyable moment, you're not going to withdraw into your head to worry about what other people are thinking. This is the triple crown of presence, fun, and confidence in one package. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 06:57 PM |
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