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I was at level 4 and had 2 cures of acutane done (which was exceptional as my dermatologist said that for 95% of the people, 1 cure is enough). I had pretty annoying effects: recurring eye infections, super dry skin and lips, bleeding noses. But in the end it cured 95% so I'm happy I did it. Can recommend it if all else fails.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:44 AM
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I had the same problem. It comes down to conditioning yourself you can be with a woman, have your experience tell otherwise and you'll start viewing yourself differently. To achieve that, just throw yourself into the fire like another user already said. If it's really holding you back from achieving results, go abroad where a foreigner gets laid much more easily (Asia and South-America come to mind).
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:54 AM
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Actually, in some instances, the total 10's might respond better because she is so used to guys being intimidated to her, she welcomes the approach more than an 8.
/r/seduction03/05/18 02:56 PM
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I think an important distinction should be made in regards to "not being attracted to". If by "not being attracted", you mean you think they're ugly, then no, don't date them. if you're indifferent towards them but you don't find them appalling and like their company enough, the practice doesn't hurt and it's definitely not clear cut you should not date her, especially if you're inexperienced.
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:18 PM
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I have "cooler than your last boyfriend" but you need the pics to pull this off (i.e. I have pics where I'm goffing off dj-ing with sunglasses). I get opened with the "so you're cooler than my last boyfriend huh" pretty regularly so your bio is not irrelevant as I see some people suggesting here.
/r/seduction07/08/15 11:42 AM
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I notice myself becoming attached quite quickly to a girl who shows interest in me. Latest example was a girl who I dated but never got anywhere with. One evening (couple of days after our 2nd date, she somewhat friendzoned me in the meantime, which I declined, but seemed to be turning around again later), she decided to ignore me and flirt with someone in front of me. Instead of just ignoring this and playing it cool, I reacted butt-hurt, complained about her not giving me attention and deleted…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 05:07 PM
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I lift my ass off and am probably the most muscular guy of all of my friends (not olympic level or anything but still). I still don't get poon and as a consequence my inner game is bad.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 06:27 PM
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Yeah, ignoring someone who’s all in all very friendly like a butt-hurt person is not my style. Of course I had something invested in her: my time. I’m just not the type to spend weeks/months on a girl who’s not ready, and I actually imo it’s the opposite of needy when I say that under those circumstances I don’t think it’s a good idea to go out with her. Any beta orbiter might stick around for months hoping that something might happen in the future, I politely moved on but she doesn’t “let me”, …
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:36 PM
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Well, she doesn't have to know exactly whether or not he would see these women sexually or not in the first place. In all cases it's good to setup options in case the marriage fails, it makes filing for divorce a lot easier emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 02:05 PM
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I think I can agree with that. I just have difficulties with not living by my own principles, even if it doesn't benefit me.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 11:51 AM
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That's a difference of opinion then. My conclusion in a social battlefield where someone doesn't play by the rules, is to just leave it, or never to be in it in the first place (marriage). Instead of breaking the rules myself. At least I'll be able to look myself straight in the mirror, and all those white knights and divorce courts would be more sensible and realize that withholding sex within a marriage for a prolonged period is wrong, instead of polluting the discussion by viewing the things …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:58 AM
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He's wrong for hiring a prostitute as well though. If you opt for marriage, you agree to be monogamous "in good times and in bad ones". She very much provoked it and probably in the atmosphere of a marriage broke her word as well. Which IMO puts them both on the same, low level. Dread game obviously yields results, but personally I wouldn't want to be in a marriage where sex is used as a bargaining chip for the woman to begin with. Which is another reason why I wouldn't want to be in a marriage …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:10 AM
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I think this topic has a lot of potential. Please make it a point to downvote all studies that don't have a proper methodology or are obviously biased. Also, if you really want to make this thread a "go-all" scientific reference, it might also be a good idea to link to studies which seemingly contradict TRP and point out what's wrong with them.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 12:25 PM
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My personal experience with weed is that it worsens your depression. It was definitely a catalyst to mine, and even after I conquered it, I can still get me sadder than usual. So I wouldn't recommend it personally.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 08:54 AM
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If humans were 100% inherently selfish, there would be no such thing as society and human progress. As a species we rely on "selfless" deeds for others under the assumption that, if needed, they will do something similar for us. It's hardly a "zero-sum game" in the grand scheme of things because in the end, humans as a species progress because of it. Why are there firemen volunteers? Why are there charity foundations? It all pertains to the same answer. Doing stuff for others makes us feel good …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 01:19 PM
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Don't necessarily agree that people aren't fucking downwards. Males in particular will definitely fuck downwards if they've been going through a dry spell, and I've known of some sporadic pity fucks of women too.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 08:06 AM
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There's no reason to be unfriendly when you see her. You can still be the acquaintances you were before all this happened. it will be a bit awkward at first but she should understand this and give it time. You feel guilty which is normal since you care about her but you shouldn't because ultimately you should put yourself first.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 10:14 AM
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Cheating within a marriage is never excusable, I don't care what the circumstances are. That's exactly the reason why you marry: enforcing monogamy. There are numerous things he did that drove her up to this point, so he's very much a responsible in this one too. But ultimately, she's a cheater, and she's not without blame. Then again, the reason she's considering not telling him is all in all for the good: to not screw up the progress he's made. There's some self-protection in not-telling too o…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:38 AM
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The fact that she gives value to you (telling you about the job opening), albeit just an excuse to start talking to you is worth something. Keeping your distance obviously works, so keep it up. Politely thank her but keep the contact at a minimum. Stop caring about her as much as possible, and don't forget she is ultimately a cheater. You can or cannot re-engage her as a friend after you stop caring about her in that way if you think she has value to offer has a friend, but reality has taught me…
/r/askTRP07/01/14 12:55 PM
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It's funny because I was asking myself the same question about Belgium earlier today. I think European women in general are still different enough so that they may require a slightly different approach in comparison to Americans. For instance what I found is that Belgian women are pretty closed and social circle game is way more important. They also don't respond as well to the whole asshole approach, but then again they often don't want a sweet guy either which leaves me somewhat hanging to wha…
/r/askTRP03/01/14 02:47 PM
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This is a nice study (I read most of it elsewhere), but does it really confirm TRP theories in and by itself? Most of it seems to be concluded from answers women GAVE verbally and I thought according to TRP they don't always know what turns them on.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:37 AM
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This is making me cringe. She got one, maybe two strikes before she is out. Sending anything after that not only is going to make it worse (especially THAT), it would make me lose my self-respect. It comes across (and probably is) needy, you're way more invested than she is.
/r/seduction27/12/13 09:35 AM
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Of course, actually I think I read somewhere that it's not the actual height but the height DIFFERENCE which makes up attraction (2-3 inches shorter being optimal, all other circumstances being equal). Since this is a numbers game, that means a pretty big percentage of women are dismissing a shorter guy by default. Obviously this is no excuse to not tighten your game, work out, secure financial wealth, etc.. It's in fact a reason to do so even more as the odds are stacked against me and unlike t…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 12:13 PM
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True that.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 12:09 PM
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Putting obesity on the same level is just wrong. People who are obese have at least some say in that matter themselves. Even the ones with bad genetics can at least diminish it to some amount. Whereas a short guy can't do anything about it barring corrective surgery and some cheating with his shoes. And in my experience, unless you're horribly deformed, ugliness is less of a dealbreaker than being short as well. I'm generally considered a "cute guy" but at 5"5 I'm having all the trouble getting …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 10:24 AM
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I lolled.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 09:15 PM
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I did it before. It was mostly because I was more high-value than the guy she was dating (who was below her standards if I may say so) combined with pretty good game and a very good connection/match between us. It's not impossible but the things in this post are mostly true.
/r/seduction21/11/13 02:09 PM
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Being in the friend zone is fine if you are okay with that (i.e. no attraction towards her, she has value to offer etc.). Using the friend zone as a mating strategy (#1) is horrible advice, first hand experience unfortunately. And yes I did pick on her because that's just how I am, I'm a constant tease with girls. If an attractive woman has a friend who indicates he's not into her, she simply won't care most of the time. And if she is somehow still into you, you were never in the friendzone to b…
/r/seduction10/11/13 10:26 AM
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Actually I'd be interested in this as well. I would not go as far as 99.9%, but still. I find a lot of women objectively beautiful, but I'm "feeling" it rarely. I tried the nofap thing, this seemed to improve things a bit, but not a lot. I had my testosterone tested as well for this reason (among others) and it didn't came out very high, but still within acceptable borders.
/r/seduction30/10/13 12:18 PM
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Just to be clear, I said it merely seemed to contradict. I didn't say it was my personal opinion/assessment. I also specifically said the aggressive approach was poorly executed, so I think we can agree on that part as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 06:37 AM
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Well, to some extent, aren't compliments pretty much always at least partly to please other people? I'm not talking about ingenuine compliments to get something done from them, but sincere ones as well. As the episode shows, compliments have a biological response so they're a means to build social relationships.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 09:36 AM
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I go to clubs to have fun. Sure, hitting on women is one part of that, but so is the music, dancing, socializing in general
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 11:10 AM
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Maybe I give up too easily but if a girl doesn't put a lot of effort in the date I'm usually done with her. What trait did she show of herself which would want you to have a 2nd date, other than her looks? I wouldn't have sent the last text either.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:02 PM
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I think it's somewhat obvious what it means in most cases. The question is, what do you respond if you are in fact interested?
/r/seduction30/08/13 08:34 AM
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Your generalization is way too ambitious if you ask me. There seem to be more too much exceptions to the rule if I look into my direct environment.
/r/seduction23/08/13 07:21 AM
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Emoticons CAN look childish. It's no coincidence children and immature people overuse them. That said, I use them a lot too. I usually adapt to my conversation partner though: if they use it a lot, me too, if not, I tone it down a bit.
/r/seduction04/06/13 09:42 AM
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5"5 here. I have women continually being attracted to me on at least some level, but consciously reject me because they think I'm too short (either they declare this verbally or I can just tell by the way they talk/look at me). It doesn't help that I have quite a boyish and cute look (I turn 30 next month but continuously get that I look 22-26). Women see a boy instead of a man, no matter how I behave (I'm quite muscular, confident, cocky). It really frustrates me that the odds are against me, b…
/r/seduction03/06/13 02:55 PM
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Simple, do something else with them besides partying. You don't need to go through extremely eventful things together, just get to know them on another level. Talk to them about personal stuff and ask them personal questions yourselves. It's not rocket science. Have a drink together in a quiet bar or something.
/r/seduction28/05/13 11:31 AM
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