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Rexagon_2017/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:28 PM
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Rexagon_2017/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:52 AM
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My mind goes to the tightrope walker in Thus Spoke Zarathustra, if you intend to live you have to accept that life comes with pain and even death. The way I see it, I don't want to spin plates, and to get want I want I have to accept the very real risks. Having sex with a woman you don't care for seems mundane, and pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:15 PM
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I mean, you have these RP clowns telling us that we should act like dogs and chase loose women. Has anyone considered that some of us just want to settle down with sane, stable, normal women who aren't crazy? I feel like this country needs to get its shit unfucked. The whole oneitis thing, yes too much investment in anyone is a bad thing. Don't be clingy and weird. But I have had other men straight up tell me to bang random chicks to get over a breakup/rejection. My own brother was given the adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:01 AM
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Why is there only one car? I mean, this seems like he was trying to limit her ability to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:01 AM
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What's the punchline? That people need to be told not to look at Staten?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:29 PM
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The RP guys who want to be Don Juans are basically dogs humping fire hydrants. It's a waste financially, carries risks of STDs and traps, and they can't help it because the Id is too strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:25 PM
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Decency is a valid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:57 PM
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Unless we, the people paying for your trash, decide to kill your mistakes or let them starve. Being an asshole works when the rest of us are willing to allow it, push us too far and the result will be a bloodbath. Take the migration example, if I were in charge it wouldn't matter how many children the nations south of Europe had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:39 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, aren't you dead ends too? As far as I know, most RP guys don't want children or marriage. So, you either leave a trail of baby mommas or you die off. And if you are leaving baby momma's to raise little criminals, what stops normal people from letting your kids starve? Why do those of us who have made something of ourselves have to pay for your garbage? Because the nanny state forces it. Fuck boys aren't lions among men, they're breeding bulls that often don't do any bree…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:58 PM
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No, the survival of the parasites is what is happening. Men who are uneducated, minimally employed, and often criminals have more kids than the educated. It is dysgenic and creates dumber, weaker, and less capable humans. Also, the average fuckboy can only exist because he freeloads off centuries of blood, sweat, and tears. They exist the way they do because society is peaceful and prosperous. Violence and disease are relatively rare. If you behaved this way in the 1700's screwing the wrong girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:53 PM
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Human society cannot function in that way. Women need to know that the man isn't going to jump ship and abandon her with poor job prospects and three kids. The man needs to know the children inheriting his property are his.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:03 AM
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It also depends on where you are. Some locations have higher rates of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:00 AM
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men are the more loyal sex etc. This may be true though, and people talk about it because we're taught the opposite. It isn't even just men saying this. Feminists have been saying it too, though they frame it in a positive light.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:50 AM
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Definitely not true. I literally know a guy who is better than me in most respects but cannot get a date, while I can. Same height, but he is cleaner, more polite and formal, similar education. We're both 5'9" and studying engineering. I'm darker-skinned and I have beautiful eyebrows - or so I'm told. I figure the difference is mostly a mix of looks and personality. I'm less polite, less formal, and I'm louder. The last part seems to be very important. Perhaps this is why men tend to speak over …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:19 AM
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We ought to have all three executed. Quarter the freaks and put the pieces on display!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:26 PM
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How though? Being Hispanic has only ever helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:27 PM
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Women weren't enslaved in 19th century America. They had less freedom than they do today because technology and circumstances made that largely impossible. And no, if every man decided to suddenly attack every woman the whole awful thing would last a couple of hours. The gap between men and women in terms of violence is insurmountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:16 PM
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Experiment and find out what works best for you. If it works for you, in a sense, it's true. If misogyny produces a positive response from women, is it actually misogyny or is it an unpleasant fact of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:10 PM
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Except there's no reason it should be considered any worse than a prank phone call. Don't you get it? Feminists claim the position of sexual nihilism, that sex is a mere physical act between hairless monkeys, which has no significance at all. Despite this, it is considered abusive for a man to ghost a woman. As though he exploited her in some serious way. True, if he premeditated having sex and then leaving her, he exploited her. But in any other case, the man is merely exercising his sexual fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:06 AM
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If you're in a relationship with that person it IS your business, especially if you end up pregnant. Relationships aren't one-night stands, where you have sex with a stranger you don't even intend to see again. In a relationship, the character of the other person matters, and their history absolutely can be your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:00 AM
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So that's the point. There is no morality save what you can get away with. Ghosting, love-bombing, cucking people, beta-buxxing. God is dead, life is meaningless and we're all dead anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:56 AM
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That's the point though. If sin isn't sinful or bad, then why is ghosting wrong? Why is lying to women - love bombing - wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:54 AM
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Some men are desired. We call them chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:31 PM
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The people in charge are hell bent on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:59 PM
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Here me out, maybe the so called betas just used their time differently? Like studying instead of sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:59 PM
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Neither party should be sacrificing their children to the idol of sexual lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:48 PM
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If sex cannot be sinful than what can be sinful? Sex is practically tied with death and birth in an existential sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:46 PM
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Virgin men, in my experience, shame themselves independently of the culture. I think that atleast some of it is nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:44 PM
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You're distancing from your boyfriend because of other people on the internet? Pardon me but that sounds abby normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:44 AM
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It's illogical to do all kinds of things, absurdists have argued that life is illogical. Have you reached every opinion, want, or desire from first principles?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:33 PM
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It depends on age. At 23? 10 is high to me. But at 33 10 is fairly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:26 PM
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You won't get honesty by being honest though. Look, people will play to the incentive structure. If dating makes honesty difficult and rewards dishonest behavior, people will lie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:17 PM
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So if you can't find out about something, it isn't your business and you aren't allowed to care about it? What if your husband had visited a brothel in his youth? Is that none of your business? Where is the line drawn?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:14 PM
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Not really, he seems entirely reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:02 PM
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It is their business though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:00 PM
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Because you're playing defense and trying to avoid a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:59 PM
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What else can you do though? If there was a better option I'm sure people would be doing that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:58 PM
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Yeah, you have to ask. And after sex is, sadly, the most convenient opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:54 PM
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I don't think there is evidence women are not dating or having sex. Statistically more men are single as is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:21 PM
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Likely by mid-century. And not as an Incel rebellion or something like that, but likely a balkanization of the US and certain EU states. The reality of American politics is that the so-called Far Right has been entirely vindicated over the last sixty years. Our political system has become an oligarchy that derives its legitimacy through racial hatred of Whites. Examples of this abound, but a telling case was when a mainstream conservative friend of mine kept listening to Ben Shapiro about how th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:31 PM
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Are you stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:02 AM
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Biological gut instinct backed up by the word of God. Even if you don't believe, biology is a major reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:21 PM
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It's a disgust response? Do I need a reason? Like seriously? Why is this not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:17 PM
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I.e. you relegating me to a slut and a promiscuous woman when you don't even know me or how many men ive been with. You make numerous threads on body count, always argue that it doesn't matter, and you claimed you were going to post a recap of your yearly exploits elsewhere in this thread. All of this suggests you are a promiscuous woman. You also joked about the innocence of a male friend assuming you only had five prior partners. So the real number is what? Ten, twenty? Is it an entire platoon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:14 PM
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We aren't talking about MY body count, I asked them about women in general. And I have more trust in them because they arent stuck in an echo chamber of men who are sad and angry about lack of sex and relationships. You don't seem to be getting this. Your sample of men is non-representative of the men most women are concerned about when asking if men care about body counts. If I were to ask my friends at college whether or not they liked sports, most of them would say no. This is because I'm a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:11 PM
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If you saw women as individuals, you would be able to accept perceived "flaws." But because you see women as something to be conquered, you place value on how many times shes been "conquered" instead of placing value on things that actually matter like her personality. That's extremely stupid. I can see women as individuals and still judge their flaws. People don't have to accept anything about you in order to see you as an individual. Like, my views are considered racist by the vast majority of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:01 AM
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Good man! Integrity is a valuable thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:50 AM
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Why wouldn't your male friends be a poor sample? If they are your friends and you're a slut - no offense, but I don't have a better word - then wouldn't they be considered a biased sample? Further, if none of them intend to marry you, why would their opinion even matter? A bunch of guys who knowingly associate with an extremely promiscuous woman, and who do not intend to marry her probably won't care about her body count as much as a man looking to marry her will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:47 AM
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It actually is a flex. It means I have integrity as a man, and that sex won't sway me from my convictions. That's a rare and valuable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:43 AM
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So? Your preferences are your problem. I really don't care what you think about this, and I'm pretty sure I speak for most men when I say that body counts matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:40 AM
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A. When do you ask a woman what her body count is? Before the first date? Before you get intimate? Before you get serious? Which leads me to... At the first available opportunity that isn't utterly off-color, duh. Also, men will tell you they don't care, because they don't intend to marry you. I have seen otherwise Bluepill men do a 180 the moment it's their spouse. Nevertheless, I hope you find someone with a weak disgust response. B. Have you ever actually turned a woman down due to her body c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:50 PM
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At the end of the day you are asking the government to provide material for irresponsible women at the expense of more responsible people. Where will this money come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:04 AM
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Why do I have to pay higher taxes for someone's children? They would care if I dropped dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:02 AM
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Why should a single man pay for single mothers? I didn't earn this stupid degree to pay so many taxes that I'm on the level of the guy flipping burgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:01 AM
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Normal people will avoid dating single mothers, and there is nothing wrong about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:57 AM
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As an Engineer, I can tell you it shouldn't be there for around 80% of people. Even the STEM programs are totally worthless. Also, stay far away from STEM, it is a terrible monotonous, unappreciated, boring, terrible job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:54 AM
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You keep placing the blame squarely on women like we're omniscient. He's treating you as an equal adult. Nobody is offering men a surefire way to the good life either. Nothing in this world is certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:49 AM
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There is still a feminist dislike of marriage. Because feminism is no longer about women or children, or even human rights. It's a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:16 AM
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It is often the case that the man cannot pay. OP is suggesting that if mom and dad can't pay, the kids starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:13 AM
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Completely wrong. And modern Feminist relationship ideology is plain evil. It is literally a belief in mutilating pre-pubescent children so as to align them with a psychological malady. It is a cult that practices child sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:07 AM
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Like the Biden child from the Arkansas hooker?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:25 PM
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Evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:18 PM
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The sexual revolution was actively promoting sexual excess and indulgence. The movement was evil from the start. I think women's rights in a positive side effect of technology that had nothing to do with the ideological changes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:15 PM
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But by what system do you evaluate what is and isn't good?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:12 PM
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We just went over this you bint, the UK is based inside the Eurasian plate. Geologically it is in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:19 PM
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Do you hold him to be immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:18 PM
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Then the man is a thot, and must go into the fire
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:17 PM
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Not much. Lies are a debt to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:16 PM
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No, I mean cases where the guy says he isn't sure what he wants or engages in an FWB that the woman wants to escalate. The two are consensually having sex, but the man sees it as an FWB or situationship and makes that clear. I have seen women complaining about this on Dating Advice, are these women in the wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:11 PM
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If you cannot tell by the color of their skin then you ought to be suggesting that the White Man born in America is indeed a Native American, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:08 PM
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Except the Boers have a history of conflict with their African neighbors. Like, I think I see your problem, but I'm not sure if you're genuinely in a poor mental condition or just trolling, but your definition of what is and isn't European is hyperfocused on a strange kind of continentalism that doesn't even reflect the geographic reality. Like you claim that Britain is not European, but the UK is located on the Eurasian tectonic plate. Geographically, it is literally in Europe. You also seem to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:07 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:51 AM
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I'm asking for your judgment. Is a white man born in the USA a native of North America, is he AmerIndian?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:50 AM
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Not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:35 AM
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I think there is some truth to what the OP is saying though. Some women, not all, probably do lead men on and deliberately try to goad them. Obviously, if you have a female friend and you're interested, and you get rejected, you move on without resentment. But I don't think that's always what happens. In the same way, not fuckboys lie to women, some literally do say, "I don't know what I'm looking for yet, I'm just exploring." Others are FWBs that the woman attempts to escalate - I've seen OP's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:34 AM
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Like, what is your perspective on the Fuckboy? Genuinely curious as to wether you believe these men are in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:29 AM
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I mean, if society considers it "creepy" - i.e. deviant - for a young man to look at a young woman in a revealing outfit, society has clearly gone nuts and misogyny is the least of our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:20 AM
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That doesn't matter, the Boers were European, do you think a German who moved to the US has ceased to be European? You seem to believe something is European only if it exists on the continent of Europe, which is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:08 PM
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Possibly? Why is that a Possibly? He isn't European, so he must be American then, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:05 PM
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Right but you recognize that they weren't African? You understand that they were European because their ancestors were Dutch, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:45 PM
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Would you consider a white man born in the USA to be a native of the Americas?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:43 PM
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I'm starting to think you aren't European. What is your racial background? If it does not go back to Europe, then you are no more European than I am an Indigenous American. Do you believe that I can be called a Native American despite having no American blood simply because I was born here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:40 PM
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What? That's completely illogical nonsense. European is a racial group, it includes Europeans of European ancestry and their overseas descendants. A person of another race living in Europe is not European, a Boer is. Good lord man, what the heck is up here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:37 PM
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So over time, as the opt out and remain single option increases in perceived attractiveness, particularly as motherhood loses perceived attractiveness, then more and more women in the mid and bottom tiers may just opt out. But what is the alternative? This isn't actually happening though, right? The simple reality that developed populations aren't getting married or having kids, has been twisted into the idea that women are opting out of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:16 PM
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This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:11 PM
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Look I don't like people being mean and calling others trash, and I want to condemn that. That having been said, you aren't making a good argument here. What makes a person European is not the land but the blood. By your logic, the Boers are what? Africans? That's just obviously wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:08 PM
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Well, Europeans have never considered the US white, this is true, but they often haven't considered the Russians white either. Both Giants are outsiders to the European mind in one way or the other. I'll readily agree with you there. But that doesn't really matter in a racial sense. Saying the US is not European is like saying the Boers are not European. At the end of the day, it simply isn't true. Further, throughout our history America has welcomed Europeans of all kinds, including Italian, Po…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:05 PM
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We were, we haven't been since our sick pedo government did exactly what the others did
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:54 PM
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No, you aren't. Single, in this context, means unmarried. That doesn't mean these women are opting out of men. In fact, this article suggests that women are still looking to get married, but simply cannot do it because fewer men are marriageable - the book datonomics suggests this is because fewer men are graduating from higher ed. ​ The whole point of the study was, "women are not having children, how can this be ruthlessly exploited by global capital in a manner which benefits the richest few.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:38 PM
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I have seen all of the above, and her attempts at defending this kind of shlock are not logical in the least. In fact, it rather obviously shows the irony of her position. She has jumped to inane conclusions and stopped just shy of declaring me a Nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:37 AM
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The TLDR is that this response is downright dumb. “Not all leftists are atheists, but the vast majority of atheists, non-christians, and christians who are not evangelical are leftists because the right wing has made it clear that they're not welcome. Humans are objectively animals, by definition.” In terms of ideology, this isn’t actually really true. From its inception, Marxist thought has been characterized by materialism. While there were and probably still are religious Marxists, the ideolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:36 AM
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The study said Unmarried and Single and mainstream media articles span it as "Women giving up on those evil men." And no, this doesn't contradict anything the RPers said, and I am not a Red Piller. Also, a Leftist talking contradiction is fucking hilarious projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:51 AM
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So, what is the statistical data suggesting that a large percentage of young women are abstaining from sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:30 AM
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We just had a thread on this. There is no statistical evidence that large portions of women are opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:26 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:27 PM
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But didn't that one say that sexual satisfaction was an extremely important factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:49 PM
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Average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:28 PM
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170 undergraduates is not a sufficient sample size to draw a meaningful conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:36 PM
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Usually exceptions are made for rape and incest. I solid Red, but even I found the TX law absurd and stupid. The thing is that the Abortion debate really has less to do with sex politics and more to do with Theological issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:05 PM
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The hippies don't get laid more though? There was a study on incel politics and they basically matched the general public. In my experience, politics doesn't matter very much in person. It also isn't easy to determine. There was a communist in my phl 215 course who actually thought I was a fellow communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:41 PM
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I've found that I prefer Mediterranean women. My last crush was on a beautiful Turkish woman. Her hair was curly and brown, and caught the light so well. Her eyes were like amber. She dressed well too, and she was very kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:36 PM
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More than forty percent of women under thirty are unmarried
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:27 PM
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Just be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:42 PM
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One.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:31 PM
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I would pick the first one, she seems more like a wife than the other - obviously depending on the reason for the divorce, infidelity is a deal breaker..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:00 PM
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The first one, she seems less Leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:56 PM
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Just assume she's been through the yellow pages and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:03 PM
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Makes sense, Chad gonna Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:11 PM
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I'm a white man who won't date outside his race, those girls are probably in the same boat as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:08 AM
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Where is the evidence that most women thought their husbands were ugly though? As far as I can tell, this simply wasn't true. My paternal Grandfather was considered a handsome man, even after their divorce my paternal Grandmother would say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:20 PM
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This isn’t the 50’s anymore. Women don’t just shut their eyes and let hubby get it over with once a night before bed time. That's not a realistic interpretation of history. It's a bit like saying "this isn't the 1950's anymore, people don't live in poverty." The idea that most marriages were not sexually satisfying for the woman, and that women are happier in sexual terms today, has no real evidence that isn't based on extremely doubtful assumptions. By and large, it isn't obvious that women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:18 PM
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Just take no for an answer, but never let people shame you for making a respectable approach. Asking once ought to be considered normal healthy behavior not fucking harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:10 PM
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Awesome work lads! Be sure to tamp down on excessive stuff, and avoid the ban hammer. As long as it stays civil they have no ground to attack you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:07 PM
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Again, you're the one who's okay marrying a prostitute. If one of us is doing badly in life, it's you not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:55 PM
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I have had platonic relationships with women who weren't single and got the distinct feeling it was headed for trouble and bailed - as any decent person ought to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:39 AM
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Romance is dead and buried.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:24 AM
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You're the one who thinks not wanting to marry a prostitute is insecurity so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:20 AM
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Women want to claim that we're all shitheads who don't bathe and rape people on subways and that they've only begun to demand basic decency from men. The reality is that women are pickier in exactly one way. That they want better-looking, taller men. Not more emotional men, not better men, but better-looking and taller men. Frankly, I say that's fine. Just be honest about it. The irony of supposedly feminist women being unwilling to simply state what everybody already knows is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:18 AM
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Women want to claim that we're all shitheads who don't bathe and rape people on subways and that they've only begun to demand basic decency. The reality is that women are pickier in that they want better-looking, taller men, not more emotional men, not better men, but better-looking, taller men. Frankly, I say that's fine. Just be honest about it. The irony of supposedly feminist women being unwilling to simply state what everybody already knows is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:14 AM
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This is entering into not even wrong territory
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:09 AM
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It's a common scenario that the girl who had a single past lover happened to have a total "Chad", and the girl who fucked a small city didn't? Seriously? Do you think this is vaguely realistic? Please feel free to provide some evidence for that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:58 PM
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Because they exist as a strawman made to manipulate people into preferring the heap of trash? So they're both garbage, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:15 PM
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Neither, they're both trash, happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:07 PM
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Writing a letter will get you laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:58 PM
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Just assume that she's got a past longer than the yellow pages and do not marry to her. You can't be beta if you keep things casual and stay childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:56 PM
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Unless you're a good looking 18 - 25 man, you're being used. Do not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:50 PM
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No, you don't, because you yourself said you wanted emotional maturity. Stoicism is a key element of emotional maturity. Emotional Maturity means knowing how you feel, realizing it's an emotion and not your entire person, and responding in an acceptable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:31 PM
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Virgin who can cook and clean? Heck with you lady, that's wife material!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:28 PM
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cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:27 PM
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I would be massively impressed by a trad woman, like "marry her" levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:34 PM
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That's not even remotely true. The best thing you can do is lift dude, lift, style, and get a sport. No one cares about your emotional crap. Just be stoic and say what you mean in an appropriate way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:30 PM
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Nobody cares about emotional maturity, forget the scam and hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:27 PM
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Women do not seek emotional providers bro, they seek strong and good looking men. Trust me on this and do not hesitate, get a sport, get in the gym, get on gear if you can, just do not be weak!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:24 PM
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The statement that all men can be assumed to be rapists by a cautious person does not imply that all men are rapists, and banning either sex from the subway isn't the logical answer to the dangers of sexual violence. Normal people have the ability to use heuristics, such as women not going outside at two AM in a run-down city.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:42 AM
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Did I suggest men "not take no for an answer" did I suggest anything other than the idea that a man making a single approach was normal? No? As for men "not being allowed to approach" I have seen dudes get called into HR for the most gentlemanly things - it's the reason I don't approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:40 AM
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Elaborate? Neither of these has much to do with an increase in sexless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:07 PM
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I always hear about the rise of lonely men and how this is a crisis and have often wondered that if these men are heterosexuals then this MUST be reflected in the female population. No, that doesn't follow as it assumes one-to-one matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:05 PM
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Right, the news conflates unmarried with single and Asexual. This is a very strange conclusion, and does not make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:03 PM
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Right, but that isn't opting out of men, sex, and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:53 PM
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Okay, I was misusing the term MGTOW or GTOW then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:47 PM
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Well, this is stupid. Yes, men "have the right" to be interested in coworkers, you totalitarian muppet. A young man going up to a coworker and asking "Hey I'd like to get to know you better, would you mind going out after work?" is completely normal human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:45 PM
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I saw that, but it defines single as unmarried, which does not mean GOTW so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:41 PM
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She isn't helping, she's gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:40 PM
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That guy is the polar opposite of a winner, he's a loser. She doesn't love him either, she simply couldn't get the man she did love. If I were him, I'd pass the opportunity hard. Maybe you have a casual relationship, but absolutely do not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:37 PM
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Men settle, we don't get to choose. That's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:34 PM
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Actually, yes. A lot of us have no issue mentioning that any man can be assumed to be capable of rape, hence why women should avoid the subway. The issue with feminism and title nine isn't that it recognizes this, the issue is criminalizing normal heterosexuality. If a workplace has young single men and young single women, it is unreasonable to penalize men for approaching women so long as the approach is respectful. ​ As an example, I often refer to sex crimes by soldiers in war as an example o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:29 PM
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Scientific studies have shown incels and RP aren't even more rightwing than the population as a whole. Like, being Rightwing or Leftwing is about more than just feminism and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:25 PM
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I have heard some truly awful stories but my only experience was polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:33 PM
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Andrew Tate is a traditional man who believes in traditional gender roles. He's dominant. No, he isn't traditional at all. Traditional means gender roles, men have a responsibility to the tribe. They commit to God, their country, and to their spouse. The Man is the master of the house, but he does not beat his wife, he does not flee the country during war, he does not pursue fornication, and he does not make money off of pimping. The latter used to be an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:18 PM
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Not RP but 20-23. Anything older is a pass for me, I'm 23, but even if I was 30 I'd never date a 30-year-old woman, 25-28, but not 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:29 PM
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Why would he want to stop either of you unless you two did something bad? You're missing the point. Let's try again. Someone is raped in an alley. Take a guess whether the case is of a man raping a woman or a woman raping a man? If you aren't stupid, and I mean genuinely stupid, you will immediately assume it's a man raping a woman. Feminists - who are genuinely stupid - will say that mankind is a blank slate and that young men can be happy asexual cogs in the machine of capitalist society. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:39 AM
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Then sexism is simply reality and it's high time to accept it. Look, if a cop stops me instead of a woman, I'm going to understand because his or her actions make sense nine times out of ten.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:57 PM
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Seems really sexist and offensive to pull the whole “Im a man, I cant help it” argument when plenty of men find that offensive to reduce them to nothing but their hormones. Plenty of men would say there’s more to their priorities are not on sex as if they just think with their dicks 24/7z It isn't sexist to recognize that males and females are different. Males are more violent, stronger, display better spatial awareness, and are genrally more willing to kill and dehumanize others. This is a fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:47 PM
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So one user, Hazy wrote: Lillith back on the "sex doesn't matter" tirade. Pretty damn easy for women to dismiss the importance of intimacy when they can get it at the drop of a hat and don't have comparable libido to men. I have a proposal for any woman that thinks sex and romance aren't relevant components to living a happy, fulfilling life: Hop on testosterone therapy for women (used presently for women with menopause or with low testosterone symptoms) for a span of at least ~6 months. During …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:14 PM
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We Men should make a group of our own. This CAN be a good thing and increase accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:42 PM
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I'm not talking so much about sex as much as I am about the hierarchy itself. Every part has to function, Firemen might get laid, but do they have the ability to achieve the kind of life that makes a man invested? Are they taught as boys the need to be invested citizens and the benefits men bring to society? Most probably are patriotic citizens now, but if the wealth continues to amass in the hands of Rich fatcats to the point where their children are unable to afford homes, don't expect them to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:00 PM
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This is really the heart of the problem as I see it, they don't. Men and women are both more lonely now than they were two decades before, but men are espeacily lonely as a result of having less wide social networks - many none
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:18 PM
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This is so odd that I don't even know where to begin. Where is this coming from? If a woman did react as you're suggesting, she ought to be labeled insane and self-destructive. I really doubt the majority of women are turned on by a blood nose and a fat lip.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:06 PM
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I'm a conservative, he's a redpiller, I'm not. We are not a monolithic block.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:03 PM
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Is Females needs? Dude, what is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:59 PM
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Are they all white and or Asian and you're African?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:54 PM
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"What matters" depends on the context. In geopolitical terms, total GDP matters an awful lot more than GDP per capita, hence why the tragic island of Nauru wasn't a superpower. Also, I'm going to be blunt here, but Europe isn't winning anything dude. I say this as someone who is deeply concerned with the future of that land, but you're failing to compete on basically every metric. Just look at the Ukraine crisis or Syria before that. In both cases leadership immediately fell to the Americans and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:02 AM
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No, Norwegians are not having enough children to replace themselves. Part of the reason they are bringing in migrates is because they need the labor and they do not have enough young people to provide it. Even Japan is slowly starting to realize this. As for population not mattering, that's demonstrably incorrect. If Russia had 300 million people, she'd boast the second or third-largest economy on Earth and Ukraine would not exist. A highly educated population of six million is not going to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:20 PM
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Not trying to agree with OP, but Norway isn't sustainable from even the most basic viewpoint. Frankly, the future of Norway is without the Norwegians because they aren't having babies. The Nordic peoples, bluntly, have no future. Whoever wipes them out is going to be trashing their monuments and laughing at them for being so unwilling to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:01 PM
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The simple truth is that most of us guys aren't hot. No one tells us we look good because we don't. That's the vast majority of us. Personally, it doesn't bother me that much, which is probably why I don't resent women when writing here. For me, the question is really how does this shake out in the long term? What group or groups are able to most effectively mobilize the young men in society? Whoever figures that out will have a quantum advantage in politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:55 PM
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In case of war I hear that plenty of men would leave the country, they wouldnt give their lives to defend their country, they would scape to South America or be jailed. I would honestly leave, or shoot the draftman and get shot in turn - but not because I'm a of this, I just hate my leftist government more than any other. he doesnt bother to pursue higher education since his needs remain simple, he decides he wants to play video games and live without stress, unlike I'm trying to become a Comput…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:29 AM
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I agree with you, one hundred percent. Evil is evil. This obviously isn't to say that the present order of things is sustainable. Large numbers of sexless men with little prospect of home ownership is a tremendously bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:17 AM
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Because what he's doing is fucking evil! You don't marry a woman and reward her loyalty and love by smacking her in the face!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:50 PM
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Good God the self-righteousness. Look you hate us, and we hate you, why do you have to make this into a personal thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:48 PM
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I am nominally a Conservative, and I do not identify as Redpill even though we do have common ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:46 PM
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Even assuming you're right, nothing precludes a disaster. I recall that the French peasants were the richest in Europe by some metrics in the late 18th century. I know that Europe was - by global standards - extremely wealthy in the first quarter of the twentieth century. If your country is one people do not want to be a part of and do not desire to perpetuate, then all the wealth in the world isn't going to prevent the inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:03 PM
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Sadly no, because they haven't even read Spengler.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:59 PM
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It depends. If you're a Socialist and a Racist things are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:58 PM
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Corporations are primarily pro green you ninny, they aren't the ones getting bent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:56 PM
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In the west only a small percentage of high tier men, smart and physically robust men, are needed to keep society running. These men work in the security apparatus and are well compenstaed. This is so utterly at odds with reality I'm wondering if you're a leftist. Firemen, Engineers, Soldiers, Clerks, Butchers, Trashmen, Plumbers, Steelworkers, Welders, and so on are all critical to society and many are poorly compensated. Engineers are like the incels of all incels in college, but without them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:53 PM
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And I'm going to take this as your concession, it's clear that either you're desperately shifting the goal post, or that you are trolling. I don't for the moment believe a real human is unable to follow a back-and-forth argument. If you're serious, God help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:50 AM
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All of those things would have made me absolutely disgusted. I don't know if that's a me thing, but I would be out of there. I'll take your word for it though; people can be really fucked up. But I don't see that behavior as bold or confident, I see it as degenerate and depraved. If that's what's on offer, I'd rather neuter myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:52 PM
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If looks matter more than virginity than your argument is dead in the water. These women were promiscuous and I wasn’t so I should have had all the attention yet they did if being chaste is what mattered above all else it shouldn’t have been that way. You thought you were being insulting but you comically just unraveled you whole argument Are you responding to the correct post or are you just being obtuse? I have never suggested that virginity was more important that looks, in fact I have argued…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:43 PM
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I'm curious as to what you mean by bold, confident, and hypersexual. Do you mean to suggest that these women were acting in a very different manner? Were they approaching men and propositioning them directly? Did they take a more active approach towards men than you did? You seem to be suggesting that, at heart, men do not care about promiscuity, or that we all secretly crave whores and kinky sex, but it sounds as though you're an introvert who assumes that the greater ability of your friends to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:26 PM
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The stereotype is right they want some odd unicorn of a woman who has all the guys wanting her but she only wants one guy. Main character syndrome striking again I guess No, the stereotype is a hypothesis that hasn't been effectively tested. The fact remains that the experience of two women claiming that men were only interested in their slutty and totally not more attractive friends is no more proof of this stereotype than the experience of your average redpill man is of the shallowness of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:22 PM
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A lot of men do love whores, but men generally? I think that's questionable given the sample. I mean, if you work in proximity to a large number of strippers, chances are you're getting a skewed sample. Not that men don't do evil shit, they do. I have seen this occur in other families and its fucking criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:04 PM
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You literally said “when you tell people that height doesn’t matter…” when directed at me, what other ‘you’ am supposed I supposed to think you’re talking about? The you, in this case, isn't you. In American speech - at least in the Rust Belt - saying "when you suggest X" in this context is equivalent to saying "If one side of the argument suggests X" - maybe this is uncommon outside of Ohio. Growing taller certainly isn't actionable but that's more of a Blackpill vs Redpill issue, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:35 AM
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You mean this: "The Blue pill suggests that if you aren't getting laid, you're a sexist who sees women as objects - which is clearly an unscientific conclusion given all of the highly sexually successful men who are sexist pigs." This isn't hyperbole or misinterpretation; this is an observation. I mean seriously, if I go on google and type in a search about men's dating woes, I can probably find two or three articles implying that the real problem is some kind of mental issue on the part of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:24 AM
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Well, that's odd, the police seem to say otherwise every now and then. The real reason being that "Sensitive Urban Zones" effectively are what most people mean by no go zones. Some on the Right have taken this term literally, in claiming that Sharia Law literally rules there, but the reality is that France and other European states, like the USA, have areas that are disproportionately violent and where police are broadly unwelcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:06 AM
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Mind explaining that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:02 AM
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Why are you asking me to quote you? I never specifically claimed that you had said anything. What I did say, and what I stand by saying, is that the Bluepill, or least a large portion of the mainstream outlets I have seen, will offer paradoxical, contradictory, or plain false advice to men looking to improve their lot in romantic endeavors. This includes claims that physical characteristics are unimportant or of secondary concern to women - example here, where the idiot blames an "emotional skil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:00 AM
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Hollywood and the media more generally have both been trying to portray more women in STEM as one example. This is not really news to anyone interested in the entertainment industry - I think the White House has actually chimed in about girls having role models in media as well. Just at my university I know that they made changes to highlight women in Physics and Computer Science - portraits and such dedicated to women in the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:14 AM
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No because when you tell people that Height doesn't matter, while most scientific studies suggest that it does, people shut down on you. When you tell people that men should be emotional and soft, and you ignore very real issues, they shut down on you. Science suggests that Humans, like other animals, are principally drawn to physical attractiveness in a possible mate, and that there may be a different set of behaviors - men and women- for short and long-term mating. The Blue pill suggests that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:06 AM
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I'm not a Blackpiller, but I think the Redpill is actually something they don't really like or agree with. My experience is that the two get along insofar as they both reject the idea that Masculinity and Femineity are primarily social constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:50 AM
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My understanding is that the Bluepill is basically the mainstream Leftist worldview: Humans are animals and God is not real, but Human behavior cannot be looked at as animal behavior because humans are not animals and natural selection does not apply to humans because that would open the door to the core argument of the Racist Right. At the present moment actually believing in it requires something akin to Creationism. To get around scripture you must deny the existence of God and Freewill - as …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:46 AM
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Whether you hate women or the woke, it doesn't matter. The establishment is on your side. How the hell can you believe this? The Establishment has sided with the left on every major issue in the last twenty years: Guns, Abortion, Gay Marriage, Immigration. What was perfectly acceptable for a democrat ten years ago - no gay marriage - is now considered far right radicalism. Climate Activists aren't taken seriously? What planet are you living on? I'm a believer in climate change, and I fully accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:19 AM
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Never mind that the leadership wants anomie and actively encourages it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:09 AM
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Who in society is responsible for providing these role models? Perhaps the same institutions working overtime to provide role models for girls? The guy on YT teaching men how to effectively communicate, be open with emotions, respectful, and all around a “good man” is comparatively “boring” and will be drowned out by douchecanoes like AT every day of the week I mean, that's not really true. Most of the people on YouTube are either RP nuts, or Mainstream Leftists who have no idea what a man is. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:08 AM
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As someone who isn't Redpill, I think it's actually Leftists idiots that radicalize men. Go online and the advice offered to men by mainstream sources is completely unhelpful, accusatory, insane, and downright bizarre. By contrast, the Redpill advice, though often offered in vulgar terms, will actually help you in principle. Getting outside, working out, using skin care and even makeup products to fix skin issues. All of these things are at least constructive actions with a coherent purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:45 PM
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Did you not read the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:42 AM
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Look it up. I'm serious, this is pretty much the archetypical example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:37 AM
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That doesn't answer the whole question, and in so far as it offers a moral standard that allows comparison, it isn't actually obvious that it leads to the conclusion that the society which allows poly relationships is actually more progressed. It doesn't explain why one society is more progressed than the other, and it makes the spurious claim that allowing poly relationships better fits the values of Autonomy and Wellbeing than banning poly relationships. You also haven't addressed the elephant…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:36 AM
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Chad seems to be one of three things depending on the context. In some uses of the word, a Chad is someone who embodies a trait - courage, strength, leadership - typically associated with heroic masculinity hence the phrase "what a Chad!" A Chad can also be a man who is sexually attractive to women and this definition can mean different things to different people. Basically, Chad is either a slang term, an alias for Don Juan, or a Platonic form.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:14 PM
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OP commented earlier that their boyfriend has a 6" dick. She then says that he is too small for her and that she wants 7" to 8" - which is pretty much mythical Chad territory. According to the largest scientific study I know of, that's less than one in one thousand men. ​ The whole post is basically Incel fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:57 PM
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She's probably a leftist who thinks male and female are ice cream flavors rather than fundamental and immutable traits in sexually reproducing organisms. My goldfish has more common sense than these fruitcakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:49 PM
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He'd be luckier with a dead skunk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:47 PM
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Holy shit, the literal AFBB from the redpill clowns is real...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:46 PM
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Wow, that's revealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:44 PM
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How is a society which allows "poly" relationships better and more progressed than a society which does not? By what moral system is this the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:43 PM
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So, Adultery isn't wrong but limiting Adultery to the upper class is? By what moral system are you classifying right and wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:41 PM
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Because the people involved are almost always freaks. Like bleeding edge crazy freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:39 PM
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Not sure, but most people are risk adverse absent an incentive. If most other men believe thing A, and I have no reason to assume they're wrong, I'll just go ahead and assume there's a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:25 AM
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Because they do? Like why do you get up in the morning? What's the meaning of it all? You can ask these questions indefinitely. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:23 AM
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A real man isn’t insecure about the number of sexual partners his gf has had. The transition from feminist libertine to salt of the earth prig is so complete! If a man is tall, ripped, good looking, has a great job, emotionally mature, and has big dick, why would he would be worried about some dude from the past?!? Because it's disgusting? Also, most men can't be tall because the very definition of tall suggests being taller than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:54 PM
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Most of these threads miss the point. Men use the word submissive, but I think most of us just mean someone who isn't wildly better off. The reason for this is honestly very simple. If your wife is better educated and makes more money, the odds that you're getting cheated on are perceived to be much greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:50 PM
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Finally, in today's society, male vulnerability is seen as a weakness. I cannot even begin to tell you just how toxic and ass-backwards this is. Not just Today's western society, but basically every major society. China, India, The Islamic World, Africa. Male vulnerability is basically a universal source of contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:06 PM
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Never. Never. Never. People hate weak men, do not listen to idiots on mainstream news sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:04 PM
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Damn, what did you say to get it removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:07 PM
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My point is that you have the right to judge anything you want for whatever reason you want. People have this absurd idea that you can't judge anyone for anything except being judgmental. It's basically the paradox of tolerance but even more irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:03 PM
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She's saying that self-improvement isn't heroic - which is silly. The idea of working hard to better yourself, taking responsibility for your issues, and becoming a better person is inherently heroic. It isn't the same as, say, rescuing a drowning child, but it is a virtuous and difficult pursuit. The idea of the American Dream used to encapsulate this message.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:59 PM
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Totally fine, why not? I can judge a restaurant to serve terrible booze, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:51 AM
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I share his preference. It is a massive ick, plus all the studies you ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:48 AM
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It works, and it is heroic. Doing things that are beneficial to others - becoming an engineer in my case - will get you money, but it isn't attractive, and you won't feel good about yourself. Improving your physical constitution will improve your attractiveness, and it will improve your life. The heroic component is one of self-actualization and becoming better in the eyes of people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:36 AM
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This seems untrue. IIRC The issue is more that minority men are too interested in white women - especially in the African American community. African American women are the women to most frequently struggle at finding partners on college campuses, for example. At least in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:47 AM
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It's basically the just-world-fallacy. If you're a man who cannot get laid, then you must be overweight, sexist, and must view humans as objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:39 PM
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I have been saying that the guy was a creep for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:37 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:55 PM
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I fault adulterous creeps for simping for adulterous creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:16 PM
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There’s a reason most “pretty” or “hot” women end up marrying unconventional looking men; it’s because a lot of women out there love or want to nurture, and they would rather spend their life propping up a man that flies under the radar, looks wise, than a man who receives a lot of attention for his looks. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:08 PM
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So, you're in the traditionalist anti-feminist camp?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:58 PM
1

Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:07 AM
19

I don't short circuit on this issue at all. I think women are absolutely entitled to the same sexual freedom as men. I just think it is absurd to judge men who judge women for being judgmental. And it is. Judging a someone for disliking your sexual behavior is no different from judging someone for having that sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:06 AM
1

From what I hear, average means hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:34 AM
1

I have a 6.5, am I in the danger zone for being too small? I'm a virgin so I have no idea. Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:06 PM
2

The non-red pill advice is basically a just world fallacy while the red pill advice is often debased. The mainstream view is basically that males are evil, and sexual interest in women from males, is only acceptable when the woman expresses interest first. The truth is that looks matter, height matters, status matters, and improving those things will help you. Obviously, I think being respectful, honest and professional is important - but I'm a 23-year-old virgin so I can't exactly say I know an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:54 PM
6

I think this is a good thing. People who ghost, play around, or cheat get punished. We men should make our own, warn each other about women who cheat. Use the same rules as the site you quoted and be very careful to uphold them. It can help guys know if the girl they're thinking about is worth their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:38 PM
2

Well, if you mean not fat, not short, not ugly, then I'd be considered fairly attractive. I've even posted on r/rateme so I'm not lying when I say this. Nevertheless, I'm a virgin at twenty-three. So, while I don't agree with the other guy, I can say that things are definitely hard out here for normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:40 PM
1

So, you're saying men should just become chimpanzees and run around fucking people, cowering from responsibility, and trying to be the next defiler of daughters until - inevitably - they die a violent brutish death? It's pathetic. It's living as a human penis. If there were ever an equally toxic mirror of feminism, this garbage is it. In the early modern era, a succession of European empires took the world by storm. They did it by parceling out labor to men and women based on their nature, and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:07 PM
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What everyone here misses. The Rich have constructed this economy to specifically create a slave class. I mean, fuck the whole men vs women debate. What irks me is the way in which we've all accepted an economy so fucked up you need two incomes and degrees to provide what Homer Simpson had on a factory job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:50 PM
1

My personal observation is that women have wider and much deeper friend circles than we men do. To me this makes perfect sense. Men have considerably greater strength, better spatial awareness, and a much greater willingness to resort to violence. Anybody with a passing familiarity with evolution will immediately see what I'm getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:54 PM
1

You're a liberal but you're bitching about women's free choice? Man, you smurfs are wild you know that? Honestly, you sound more oppressive than I do, and I'm as red as a stop sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:47 PM
1

It is basically sex tourism. Another part of the evil business of empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:44 PM
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Personally, I'm kind of disgusted by it. One thing is to travel somewhere and just fall in love with sb, the other to travel to some country on purpose to find a trad wife, because you think it's going to be easier there. Yeah, it's disgusting. This happens because love doesn't exist in the west. Put bluntly, the Sexual Revolution pit men and women against each other and both are losing. Also, you Eastern Europeans think we're all rich over here in America because you only interact with a tiny s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:43 PM
5

Because you do trust them, but you accept that they are a human being capable of great harm. Spousal abuse is illegal, because we recognize this very fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:45 PM
0

It seems the answer is simple: Rotate 45 degrees to either side one after the other. When this is task is complete, stand on one leg while maintaining perfect, unblinking eye contact. Begin to dilate your pupils. Small then large. Now hop around on one leg. source is birb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:43 PM
1

You jump from the observable fact that there is no single reason behind all marriages, to the conclusion that marriage has no point sociologically. This seems like you're deliberately ignoring informal conventions of public speaking. What I'm trying to say is that, from the quote, it seems obvious that he was talking about the institution of marriage and not the reason behind every individual marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:13 AM
1

Statistically, virtually all men were expected to engage in physical labor. This was almost universally backbreaking, dirty, and extremely dangerous. The fact is men did not live much longer or experience drastically freer lives than women in the 19th or early 20th century. You can call it a song and dance, but that's because you're living in a comfortable place in a relatively peaceful era. There is nothing "song and dance" about being a European male born between 1890 and 1900. According one s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:05 AM
1

Yes, I speak English. Obviously, he means one of the latter two options, but why is that stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:15 PM
1

That is an extremely silly view of Traditional Gender roles. Do you think the men dying like flies in coal mines felt like kings? Or the soldiers on the western front? .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:29 PM
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I'll tell you how it will go: Disaster. The lesson of the 20th century ought to have been that when balding old men and nutty women decide that they can remake human nature in a handful of decades, the result is such a close approximation of hell that, for all intents and purposes, the devil runs your HR department.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:22 PM
1

Why is it a stupid thing to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:15 PM
1

I have a 6.5" and yeah, it makes me feel more confident. According to some resources, 6.5" is top 5%. But honestly, sometimes that feels like "not good enough."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:05 PM
1

What nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:57 AM
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Using tinder and complaining about it, even though men know it's a shitty shallow app for validation and hookups. Only morons think they're going to find love on there. Even the people who do find love there were doing more than just swiping left or right on pictures. This is really mistaken. Most men use apps for same reason as women, because society is increasingly bowling alone. If you look at the number of people who report having zero close friends, it really becomes clear that people have …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:54 PM
1

Women are content being single. Maybe. As I recall the study in question may have fundamentally misunderstood its own data. Women were asked about happiness and marital status, and also asked if their partner was present. The author of the study assumed "not present" meant "not in the room." This is honestly a very questionable assumption. Personally, I rather doubt either sex is - as a statistical average - more content to be childless and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:48 AM
1

The White race absolutely is going extinct, by that I mean to say, more whites - at least in many major European countries - are dying than are being born. We are being destroyed, and the rich oligarchs who rule us are complicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:33 AM
1

Furthermore, the Feminist Susan Sonnetag explicitly called for the extermination of the European race, so you could argue that at least some feminists fully understood the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:43 PM
1

But I know plenty of Feminists who will effectively say that it absolutely is true. They talk about hoe patriarchy created the idea of paternity, and through that property because that allowed material to be passed from father to son. Basically patriarchy creates capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:41 PM
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Africa is also seeing an increase in women's rights and education - that's why the fertility rate is dropping. So, he has a point. And from a genetic point of view, Africa's misogyny has been wildly successful. Just look at who won, Europe - a feminist continent - is little more than a dumping ground for young men who might otherwise stir shit in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:35 AM
0

The person he mentioned appears to have been a real figure who did in fact die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:41 PM
0

Based, gloriously based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:39 PM
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Did you read it? I'd rather be shot dead than live like that. And nobody is "meant" for anybody else, that's new age garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:32 PM
1

It depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:09 AM
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How the fuck is that a sweet story? It's disgusting! It's an existential horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:24 AM
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The white countries already have South Korea's problem, they're just importing shit loads of third world people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:48 AM
1

but sometimes it is insecurity. if your reason for not wanting a high n count woman is because you’re scared to be compared to past partners or you’re afraid she’ll cheat, that’s insecurity. you’re literally lacking security in what your bring and in the strength of your rela Or you just have a disgust reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:07 PM
1

I agree with this, a girl either likes you or she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:51 PM
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Mr Darcy is rich, yes--he's also a shy, awkward dork who stumbles over his feelings and does acts of extreme charity in secret. Hardly a "bad boy." He is a rude, and fairly attractive pseudo loner though. Still, I agree he is hardly a modern badboy. But I can see where someone might think he is a regency era prototype of that form. At least that's what I recall, I could not force myself to read that book. It was way too boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:59 PM
1

I think people should try to create a healthy "ideology" of whatever this is, but that ideology needs to be based in reality. You need to recognize that women, like men, do look for certain physical attributes in a mate, and TRP is not wholly mistaken in its diagnosis of what those attributes are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:57 PM
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Because feminists are intensely hypocritical? Basically, Leftism is riddled with people who believe that they should not be held to their own standards. Whether it's rich people not wanting migrants in their empty mansions and summer homes, or women wanting to cheat without being cheated on, Leftists are incapable of sincerity, honesty, or basic human decency. Misogynists are going to say "it's because women have no accountability" - but really? It's a matter of philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:59 AM
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Not bragging but I have a 6.5", so having read this I feel pretty good.... You know the meme, that made Jesse Ventura feel pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:51 PM
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You could fault ideology, but you could also fault biology. And most of the leftists I know are downright awful and pathetic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:41 PM
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Because Humans are animals not economic units built to maximize the stability of a neo-liberal economic system.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:04 PM
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Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:07 AM
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It isn't insecurity, it's disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:24 PM
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So, you're a liar? Ever consider the message this sends to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:24 PM
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If you find out she lied dump her? Assume all women are lying and always multiply by three? Never actually get married? There are lots of ways for dudes to play defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:20 PM
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You are explicitly saying that all 30 33 men who date women in their twenties are predators - which is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:48 AM
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What does a man bring? It depends on the man and on the woman. It's like asking "what does a woman bring?" The difference being that women generally care about status a lot more than men do. For me as man, being an engineer is an advantage, for women it really isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:25 AM
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I opened this thread, and I haven't seen any evidence. What I have seen is a man who, despite being unwilling to provide a source or citation, makes his claims with all the certainty of Axial Age Prophet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:37 PM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:37 PM
1

Well, if your point is that the Ideal is different from the real, I say of course it is. The Ideal is always superior to the real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:03 PM
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That isn't what you wrote: They don’t love you: however after marriage they will magically act like they love you, worship you as a partner and never have the ability to even think about anyone else romantically, so they will never cheat. It doesn’t matter what you do to this person, they will act like they love you and not be able to express anything contrary to that. This seems more like a robot that's been preprogramed to love its "spouse" than it does a captive. So again, your hypothetical i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:09 PM
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I understand that it's a hypothetical, I'm saying that the hypothetical is poorly formulated. Your premise is that woman number one doesn't love her husband but behaves as though she does anyway and cannot/will not break character. Assuming she is in control of her own actions, you would be forced to conclude that she actually did love her husband, or else that the difference between her disposition and "true" "love" was functionally nonexistent. Hence the reference to the Chinese Room. The scen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:52 PM
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Option one is a philosophical head scratcher. If an individual acts as though they love you, and cannot contradict that, it makes sense that they do in fact love you. It's almost approximating the Chinese Room problem in Computer Science. In any case option one makes the most sense from a long-term perspective. It seems to have the best prospect of creating a stable family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:23 AM
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So, ask her parents, check her social media. Or give up and be just as wicked as she is. Like, the end result of this game is Men and Women playing an idiotic game of chicken over who can be more hostile to the other. The average man will suffer, but the average women won't fare any better being ghosted by the next West end Caleb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:25 PM
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Misread your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:21 PM
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There's the other option, which is basically being a player and just embracing the decline. If women, collectively, become so prone to outright lying, that you need to be a super sleuth to wring the truth out of them, then it would make sense for men to be equally dishonest. The average man will suffer, sure, but so will the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:20 PM
1

Have you ever played that game with children where they ask why on and on, until you reach an infinite regress? Same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:01 PM
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It's disgusting. Like really disgusting. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:00 PM
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Racism appears to come from fear (offering this as an example, not suggesting just men are racists). Not really no. Racism is complex and comes from a lot of different things. I believe it is simply a born in characteristic, like being gay or heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:57 PM
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BINGO, PREACH IT YOU BEAUTIFUL DIAMOND!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:52 PM
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If I ask a girlfriend about her past and she lies, I'm dropping her like a bad habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:48 PM
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How is that not a lie? It doesn't stop being dishonest just because you think the guy *might* eventually decide he doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:45 PM
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Women can fuck tens and even hundreds of men. They can easily get away with it, and find a good guy to settle down with later. Men want to project this revenge fantasy of not marrying or dating high n count women but they have no way of knowing if a woman is low or high n count other than her own words. What if the man simply askes her? Are you saying women don't have to justify lying to and manipulating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:41 PM
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Average vs Median, Men playing up numbers, Women playing down numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:13 PM
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It does though. Science is pretty much unanimously materialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:27 PM
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Yes, I hold sex over a Tuesday night and a beer, and you probably do as well. If I go out on a Tuesday and have a beer with your spouse, you probably won't care, if I screw your wife, you'll probably want to kill me. It isn't just "one of life's many pleasures" that's like calling the act of killing "one of life's many drags." It isn't wrong in a scientific sense, but for most people it's absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:50 PM
2

Society: 19th Century values suck, God is dead! Men: *listen to amoral men* Society: Why are you being evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:35 PM
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Science: Love doesn't exist. Society: LOL Stupid religious ppl, love isn't real. Men: We don't believe in love. Society: Why don't you believe in love? Men: ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:30 PM
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She's in the wrong because she acted as though she was single when she wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:18 AM
1

Because. Reason has nothing to do with it, why does life need a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:30 AM
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There is a middle ground between sex being a meaningless thing like picking your nose, and sex "ruling your life." Like, lefties will tell you sex is meaningless, but they don't typically live that way. The attitude of "lol sex is just like riding a bicycle" is almost always farcical. Of course sex is meaningful in a subjective and 'narrative' sense, if it wasn't people wouldn't be so hung up on it. Even Oscar Wilde realized this. Sex doesn't have to be connected to God or metaphysics to be a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:42 AM
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As for the religiously ambivalent and atheists, sex was just a Tuesday night and beer. No big deal, but nice. I'm an Atheist, raised as an Atheist and no sex is not just a physical act. It is a big deal. Stop projecting your problems onto the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:56 PM
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Why did you not discuss sex beforehand? Would you divorce a virgin woman if it turned out you weren’t physically compatible No, but I'm curious as to what that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:53 PM
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God this post is at once both brilliant and completely fucking stupid. It's like yeah, if you want a classical wife, you have got to be a classical man - though not necessarily religious, the whole Christian thing is clearly a chip on the OP's shoulder. But the framing of this is so utterly stupid it makes Dodo's weep. Young women who were virgins often married slightly older, socially stable men. Your point was? This isn't some irrational fantasy cooked up by hypocritical bible belt people, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:35 PM
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Or just a freak, the world's full of garbage these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:22 PM
1

People are emotional. Men included.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:22 PM
1

Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:20 PM
2

I thought the "female sexlessness" was within the norm, and that most of the increase was us males?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:17 PM
1

Obligation is absolutely the wrong word here. Let me say this though; if a woman wants to get married, she should look to do it while she is young - 18 -25 young. If I were her, I'd be looking at men around 27-30 who are well established and who have a put together family situation. Realistically though, modern society is not set up for procreation, family, community, children, or anything but profit and production. I actually blame the Left for this, but that's a rant for another time. Men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:07 PM
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This post exactly. The belief that "women only provide sex and comfort" is absolutely fucking stupid. It hurts my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:00 AM
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It is amazing how the same society which abhors casting judgement on even the most depraved acts, will then cast moral dispersion on a man from "high crime" of wanting to marry a virgin wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:58 PM
1

As young man? Every other man I know? What are you? I've talked to CE professors who have a better grip on humanity than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:57 PM
1

What happens is that a more fertile race will simply move in and exterminate the preceding stock. We're already seeing this in Europe. Look at the organized sacking of Italian towns, or the mass rape of white-British girls. It's genocide BC style.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:16 AM
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There is this idea that people are just individuals, rather than social animals that need Community, Identity, and Place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:11 PM
2

You really don't understand statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:03 PM
1

In order for a woman to be sexually attractive to a man like in terms of rough kinky "hookup" sex the woman has to behave in a way that is at least slightly "thotty" because otherwise there is something in the male brain that just doesnt find it sexually attractive. That's completely stupid. I for one, love formal girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:21 PM
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Women aren't fed up with dating. The idea that women are "going their own way" does not seem to be supported by statistical data.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:09 PM
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The basic idea is that the man who is Beta Buxed enters his late twenties or early thirties with minimal sexual experience. The man then finds himself in a long term relationship with a woman who has had considerable sexual experience, with perhaps as many as thirty prior lovers. There are a number of issues believed to arise in this kind of situation. First, it is believed that the men in the situation described have been given a raw deal. The woman got to have a considerably varied social life…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:12 PM
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This doesn't answer the question. What will incentivize people to become Doctors, Lawyers, and Engineers? Money? Presumably money, in which case, one can assume you aren't asking for redistribution of resources, property, and wealth from Engineers, Lawyers, and Doctors, right? And on the topic of billionaires, I don't see either party doing what you're suggesting. Crackhead Hunter earned more for his last name than I will with a four year degree in EEC. That type of grift isn't going to let go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:03 AM
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Odd how every single one of those factors can be summarized as Globalization. The Post Left was right, the Left is basically just a tool by which capitalism adapts and moves into cultural spaces. The Leftist vision of the future is one in which every facet of Human behavior has been broken down, monetized and critiqued into absurdity. The parallels with A Brave New World are terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:48 AM
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women are just as single and lonely as men Source for this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:46 AM
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You claimed that we needed a redistribution of wealth, I'm asking whose wealth? And to what extent? If you take away the economic incentive to purse advanced skill sets, people will probably not purse them. Or to be more direct, if you can make the same amount of money as a Doctor or a Laborer, why would you become a Doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:31 AM
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I have lived here my entire life, twenty-three years, and while I have seen a number of "counter-cultural" groups with limited followings bashing one sex for promiscuity while applauding the other, I have not seen a single institution do so. Forgive me for being crass, but a conglomerate of shit-heads on YouTube/Reddit doesn't equate to the cultural mainstream. What universities, publishers, tech companies, artist groups, businesses, or government bodies are promoting this attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:26 AM
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I'm talking about the extent of redistribution. Should professions that require specialized knowledge, and considerable dedication not earn more than that require less dedication, and less specialized knowledge? As an example, should an engineer not make far more money than a typical laborer? And if not, how do you incentivize people to work in difficult fields? Or to complete college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:20 AM
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Proof that our modern culture treats promiscuous women as bad/sluts, and treats promiscuous men as good/studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:37 AM
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Proof that most men would stone women for adultery while allowing other men to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:29 PM
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Having sex with someone you just met is promiscuous behavior. That goes for men and women. Men know this as well but they can get away with it because society lets them. In fact, men are encouraged to go out and sleep with a bunch of women. I have heard this claim ad nauseum, but I have never gotten anyone to pony up a concrete proof of this as a cultural phenomenon, or even anyone willing to point me in the direction of the original source. What's your backing for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:26 PM
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What do you mean by wealth distribution? If a typical man can ignore college in favor of parties, clubs, hook ups, and gym time and still earn as much money as an Engineer, he's probably not going to become an Engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:17 PM
1

You can call it miss placed, but at the end of the day, what really matters is whether or not young men like me believe it.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 07:56 PM
1

Oh, I assumed you could read, my apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:44 PM
5

Sick fuckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:09 PM
3

I don't believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:09 PM
3

I agree that sex isn't trivial. By adopting the attitude of "casual" sex, we've capitalized and materialized the most intimate experiences in our lives, and we've become grossly poorer for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:47 AM
22

Can we not agree that it is obviously wrong if you deceived the other individual. If two people just agree to a ONS that's obviously different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:44 AM
1

Not really. Diversity of ideas, sure, but racial diversity? Nope. Not at all. Many of the most successful societies have been essentially mono racial. True racial diversity, in the modern sense, is relatively recent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:09 PM
1

We don't need diversity to thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:59 PM
2

How would income equality fix dating? A lot of players are poor as shit, they spend their time in the gym. You need to prove the causation between inequality and sexlessness. Simply pointing out that the Boomers were less sexless and less unequal doesn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:57 PM
2

What a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:08 AM
1

How do we know this belief is cultural?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:06 AM
2

And hopefully still as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:00 AM
2

How do you know if something is cultural or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:39 PM
2

This is my view as well and contrary to what some have said, it was not taught to me by culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:38 PM
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I would just dump her, politely of course. I wouldn't want to ruin a good friendship, but I would definitely leave her romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:29 PM
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I'd dump her like a bad habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:13 PM
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I don't know, but I think it's a good try because even if there isn't a girl there to enjoy the experience with, I'll still enjoy helping creatures I love. And if there is, we'll have that passion in common!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:05 PM
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He's disgusting. A degenerate through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:09 PM
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That kinda sounds like shorter men are using resources to raise their desirability in long-term relationships. I might be misunderstanding you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:42 PM
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Well, I'm not in clubs. I have had a long-time interest in volunteering for Birds, but with school on, I won't have time in the fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:40 AM
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I agree, and that's really my point. If I recall correctly, marrying an educated woman and an educated man making over 110,000 per year is the best way to have a lasting marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:39 AM
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This is actually good advice, and it's something I've been looking to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:15 PM
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I would love to find the plain Jane. I just can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:13 PM
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That's a great reason to date, and to live together. But marriage is kind of risky. It is true that educated couples divorce less, but the 7-year rate for college educated men who marry after 25 is still as high as 20%. Still if you want a family, this is supposedly the best route statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:08 PM
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The idea that America is becoming Fascist is absurd. The Democratic party has majority support in basically every institution and dominates business, corporate, social science, university administration, politics, the military, and the media. Think about it this way, as pitiful as Joe Biden is, he still won by a massive margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:59 PM
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Shit, have you had any positive experiences with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:33 PM
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How bad was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:42 PM
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It's debatable whether traditional family formation should be the goal of society in the first place. Not really. If by “non-traditional” families, you mean single parent homes, the issue is basically settled science. The two-parent home with one provider and one stay at home is by far the most successful model of family formation. Leftists will tell you that this statement is prejudiced against single moms, but the reality is that we can acknowledge the issues faced by single moms and care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:34 PM
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In the second experiment, researchers preceded the body-part task with images of letters made up of a mosaic of tiny letters — an H made up of hundreds of little Ts, for example. They told some participants to identify the tiny letters, prompting their brains to engage in local processing. Other participants were asked to identify the big letter, revving up global processing. This latter group became less likely to objectify women, the researchers found. They no longer were better at recognizing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:25 AM
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This is not remotely realistic. This is the same argument people used to make against homosexuality: well of everyone did it, mankind will go extinct! In reality, normal people continue to do average things. The average scale may shift, but it doesnt topple over. That wasn't meant to be realistic, it was a hyperbole - if all men think that way marriage will collapse. Obviously not all men will think things through, and I did not mean to claim "BB" would destroy civilization. That being said, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:09 AM
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Okay, dude, you need to stop. This is drifting into creepy territory. If you're an Atheist, and I assume you are, you shouldn't be making moral claims about right and wrong. Just because I won't date a certain race, doesn't make my existence evil. It doesn't give you, or society, or the government the right to use technology to mutilate my personal identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:24 AM
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If fetishizing can make boots sexy, it can make other things seem sexy as well. Maybe not to the extent of changing your sexuality, but people who have unfair standards like preferring a certain race or height, may benefit themselves and their potential partners by trying out partners they typically wouldn’t consider. How are their preferences unfair? If someone grows up to not like a particular race, why should they be compelled to change their way of life? I'm that way myself, and I can tell y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:20 AM
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Is it wrong that this comment offends my existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:05 AM
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Oh yeah? Well, I rolled a perfect six so now I'm an Alpha-Sigma-Beta-Kappa-Squid male! Seriously though, look up a video called "Alpha males and Sigma males are at war, and both are losing."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:02 AM
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Why do people hate 70's zombie movies so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:52 AM
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Calm down, I'm not a RPer or a playboy. And I don't think I said anything that was bullshit/sexist/RP/Whatever. That said, your claim here is statistically false. Men - in the age bracket from 22-35 - are much more likely to be sexless. Anecdotally, I'm in College right now. I'm not dating, and neither are my friends. Not one of us has gone to parties. Not a single event. We've been studying our asses off, and the men on this forum will doubtlessly share a similar story. And no, I'm not a "fat b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:12 PM
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Nah, medical changes and changes are sociocultural changes, not biological ones lmao. Also this would make more sense as an argument if legal equality had not preceded women’s ability to lead independent lives. It didn't. Legal Equality only became available to the bulk of working-class women after the 19th century. And the idea that you're "laughing your ass off" at the idea of Contraception, Public Education, and Medicine changing human biology suggests you're ignorant. Full stop. If you belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:30 PM
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Additionally, women have not changed biologically, yet their marriage requirement has been almost eliminated merely by decreasing legal and societal discrimination against them. This is transparently wrong. In the developed world women's legal equality did not become widespread until after the 19th century. It is not a coincidence that the 19th century saw the development of widespread contraception, public education, as well as better hygiene and medicine. During the period from 1800 to 1900 th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:07 PM
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I can see what you're trying to say here, but a lot of men aren't having experiences like that in college. So, while a lot of women are 25-30 and looking for love, a lot of the men in that age bracket aren't. Many of these men are just trying to live the college days. This creates the issue of flaky guys in their late twenties who won't commit to women long term. Also, the idea of marrying a woman who has already been around the college "jocks" is widely warned against by men. The concept even h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:43 PM
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What I'm saying is that the de facto requirement for women to marry was a consequence of biology. As for Marxism, the argument is simple. If you can consider any Human grouping a "class" you can basically ignore the real world in favor of a manufactured reality that fails to acknowledge fundamental differences between those groups. The problem with seeing women as a class in early modern history is that the framework implies an equivalence that simply doesn't exist. You cannot reduce the biologi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:45 PM
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Wasn't Kinsley active in 1950s? I just read a study that said women's virginity at 25 was under 10 percent. Yeah I just checked the CDC's numbers and you are completely wrong about this. Virginity is under 5% for both men and women at age 25. None of the modern studies seem to support a 50% rate of sexlessness for either men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:19 PM
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​ But this was reality for a long long time babe. That was part of the institution, and that’s why feminists are so critical of it. It wasn't "the reality" for "a long time" in every society. It also wasn't "a reality" everywhere during those periods. In fact, I cannot recall a single society that actually allotted women - in a centralized way, obviously ignoring arranged marriage - like a commodity in the Western World from 1700 to 1900. There probably was one, but it wasn't a "part of the inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:47 AM
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No, the beta does not necessarily have an incentive to settle down. Why would he settle? For the first time in his life, he has multiple romantic options who are now willing to try to lock him down. He's gone from a complete loser people snicker at to a respectable man. Many of these "beta's" will have also grown up on forums like this, having learned all about AFBB. If the sudden onset of opportunity, and built-up resentment doesn't drive them off marriage, then the consumption of Red-Pill cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:07 AM
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I never said that women should be compelled to marry, that's fucking evil. It's also quite offensive that you'd accuse me of saying something that fucked up. It makes me think you've good no intention of approaching this conversation in good faith. Also, But for women as a class being dependent on marriage to survive was a structure of oppression. Women aren't a "class" that's a Marxist delusion. Women are humans that can get pregnant, and when pregnant are nearly helpless. Using the language of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:52 AM
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Okay, I'm not answering the issue at hand because there's something else lurking in this post that irks me a hell of a lot. Specifically, the idea that "traditional" customs like marriage were created to oppress women - a claim both TRP and Feminists implicitly agree on. Simply speaking, a world where women are structurally barred from meaningfully participating without being married is the only thing that would solve the "problem" of women having sexual agency. Traditional marriage existed in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:41 AM
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That I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:29 PM
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Men make similar sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:46 AM
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eard that word thrown around it's always in the context about some dude shaming high body counts(which is actually fine to have a preference for someone who approaches casual sex the same way you do, its the judging other independent peoples choices thats the issue), talking about her "used up" body, talking with phrases like how "all modern women today [insert incredibly reductive generalization] This is literally the definition of an Oxymoron. Do you not realize the paradox you've created here…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:39 AM
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It does interest me how this seems to play out as a direct consequence of the moral structure established by the Sexual Revolution and the Cultural Marxists. By stripping sex down to a leisure and commodifying it, the Leftists have more or less reduced it to a Free Market. I think that French writer - the one who wrote Atomized and Whatever - had the right of it. Sex has become a second system of differentiation, a parallel economy. By attacking the bedrock of Western civilization, Marxists not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:26 AM
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I mean, I think Pew Research had a study that showed Liberal young men were more hostile to Feminism than Conservative seniors - and Conservative young men were yet more Anti-Feminist. What's fascinating is that this shift away from Feminism is occurring despite a massive institutional backing of Feminism through our culture. The fact that Feminists are losing the ideological battle despite an enormous advantage in money and power speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:08 AM
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Do you have any data to back up this theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:43 PM
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Is it wrong for an individual to claim they are a virgin, so that they may marry someone who desires a virgin, when the individual who desires a virgin has waited for marriage themselves? This is very wrong. It's a fairly serious lie after all. Is it wrong for an individual to hide their body count, if they believe their partner to dislike the truth? I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:07 AM
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But you do agree that the man in the "beta" position has very little incentive to settle down, and every incentive to act out his 20's should he have the option to do so, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:05 AM
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Basically, he's telling men to try for younger women before going for women of their own age. That seems like a reasonable strategy if you want to have some fun years before you have kids. You know? The stuff couples do before becoming parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:34 AM
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God this is ridiculous. Treating women equally is a part of being decent. Contrary to what some people say, the majority of men do this most of the time. Your post is basically saying "stop being sexists" and in doing so you're assuming we're sexist. The majority of us aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:00 PM
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So, women who sleep around are to be condemned because of tradition?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:17 PM
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Did you respond to me intentionally? I never mentioned this issue, so I'm not sure if you were aiming elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:04 PM
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The coping and face saving here is truly something else. Come on bro, you were talking about men, and you know it. That's why this either gender shit didn't appear until the second reply, and why your first response stated: No, he can believe it’s unhelpful, there are reasonable arguments for thinking that. Take the L and back down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:04 PM
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sceptical You missed the point. Calling people "weaksauce bitches" for disliking the term is ironic. It's ironic because it assumes that there is an issue with men being weak or being "bitches." Why should a gender egalitarian care if a man is weak? Why should that be an insult? The fact that you launched an attack on your opposite number that is so deeply rooted in classical masculinity makes you look hypocritical. Of course, you'll never admit you screwed up your word choice here. That would r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:36 PM
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Hello fellow redditor, I am an undergraduate student researcher in computer engineering at an "American" four-year university. I mention this because you seem to believe that none of your opponents in this debate have been to college. In my experience, there absolutely was a massive effort at Leftist indoctrination going on at college, and there is one here at university. I'm literally paying for this propaganda with every "diversity" class I'm forced to take. My Cultural Anthropology class serv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:07 PM
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So, let me get this straight here. If a man believes that the term "toxic masculinity" is unhelpful he is a "weaksauce bitch?" There's something ironic about that perspective if you don't mind my saying so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:26 PM
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I am a student at Cleveland State University studying Computer Engineering. The guys I hangout with have it together. They're still almost all single and living with parents. I workout, and have two jobs this summer. Not sure where you expect us to meet people but I haven't been approaching women myself. Those who do have told me that they get rejected hard - I basically said screw that shit, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:45 PM
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Are those self-reported statistics - if they are, it proves essentially nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:19 PM
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I'm a 23-year-old male. No, I would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:01 PM
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I can see why a 28-year-old male engineer would want to date a 22-year-old woman honestly. If you're a guy in engineering, you aren't getting much attention in your 20's. The reality is that until you get the budget and time to improve your body, you won't have much luck, and by the time you graduate, most of the women your age will have far more sexual and romantic experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:22 PM
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This is a bizarre question. Humans are animals that reproduce sexually, there is a massive instinctual desire for sex and companionship in both men and women generally. This can be observed in virtually all species that reproduce sexually - it isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:35 PM
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It really isn't fine. Most healthy populations are either stable or growing. The population of post sexual revolution countries is consistently declining and doing so rapidly. The marriage rate is also dropping quickly, divorce is up, and single parent households - which let's be real for a second, are grossly suboptimal for children - are becoming the norm. This is not a healthy population. Something is clearly not okay with modern society. Exactly what that is I don't know, but the reality of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:28 PM
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This post is just wildly stupid. Even if the contention is correct, it may very well be correct and I actually agree with the OP, the drastic oversimplification and complete failure to define "societal decline" is paired with a such horrific historical ignorance that the result can only be described as a dumpster fire spewing intellectually carcinogenic crap into the Aether - stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:07 PM
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Why not lie and mislead another person into having sex with you and potentially building an 18-year commitment on that lie? Would you support a player telling a woman how much he loves her only to split after the first night?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:54 PM
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Considering the crashing fertility rate, the rise in depression, the incel problem, and more besides? It's like saying a lunatic is better prepared for the asylum. True, but also irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:44 PM
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Men here constantly keep talking about women's n-count and how they prefer a wife who is a virgin which is honestly preposterous because men themselves don't want a serious relationship/marriage until they're 30. That's a generalization. Plenty of men, myself included, are simply unable to have a relationship before their late twenties. It seems to me that many women have this assumption that guys are sleeping around like crazy in their twenties - for some men this is definitively true - but for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:36 PM
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How this plays out depends on the technology and social climate of the time. In a modern western society with new technology, it is liable to become yet another post-sexual revolution contradiction in the underlining philosophy of our culture. How feminists will respond is impossible to predict, but I do expect that the "mainstream" culture will be deeply critical of it - while also teaching young children how to masturbate in second grade. Like most dead or dying civilizations, the response wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:04 PM
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The population isn't dropping because immigration from the third world is so massive that it is actually growing the population. In either case, Africa has - IIRC - continued to grow past the UN's projections.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:55 PM
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Why do like the color blue? You can ask "why" until you go blue, if you're like me you don't really care much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:29 PM
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That's like saying your insecure because you don't like using a public restroom. It isn't insecure, it's just a preference. Where's the insecurity anyway? That I think I won't be as good as Chad was five years ago? Frankly, I don't care because I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:36 PM
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Apparently, I am down to earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:30 PM
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I find competent women highly attractive. I really don't like the "dumb but highly attractive" as much as I do the "competent, strong, attractive" type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:36 PM
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That's you bro, not all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:34 PM
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I hate Polygamy with a fucking passion. I know this isn't considered tolerant in 2022, but I find it disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:23 PM
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Once again, there is a huge difference. You can stop a massive company from only hiring a select group - how exactly do you do this with individuals within the framework of natural rights? I'm a White male with a preference for my own racial group, should the government force me to date a black woman? Obviously not. That would be a clear infringement on my constitutional rights. By contrast, Google is actually in the opposite situation. By discriminating against Whites and Asians, they are viola…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:30 PM
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There's a huge difference between rejecting a person because you can get a more attractive mate and telling a woman that you love her when you don't. One is a clear lie, a lie which will hurt the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:08 PM
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Do you not realize that a person's sexual preferences are not comparable to a public institution? This completely nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:03 PM
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There is nothing wrong with having a racial preference. Freedom of thought is a basic pillar of natural rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:01 AM
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Do you actually tell her you only want a hookup? Or do you say nothing and allow them to mislead themselves? If it's the latter then, as a man, I think that's genuinely scummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:58 AM
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Man, you are the so voice of sanity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:42 AM
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Refusing to do something that you could easily do because it's wrong is the point behind self-control and discipline. If having to work to make yourself attractive counted for Chasity, we'd put medals on shit. Is there accomplishment in being attractive to women? Yes, there is! Is there accomplishment in indulging sexual appetites? No. You don't get admiration for doing what's easy. Chasity is valued because it is hard. Being a hound because you can isn't wrong in modernity, but it isn't noble e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:36 AM
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It ought to!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:26 AM
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This is one hundred percent a valid criticism and something people need to point out. However, it isn't all men. I have, for example, always criticized male promiscuity - and indeed, I have made this very argument myself. The problem is - I think - that many men who are very successful with women really don't care about promiscuity and just use it as an excuse or rationalization for the "pump and dump" lifestyle. You even see it here!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:22 AM
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One of the issues of this is that you end up in a situation where some women lie about their history because they assume it doesn't matter. Yeah, a person's history might not have a physical effect, but it definitely matters to a guy like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:15 AM
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I mean, pardon me for stooping to your level here, but it seems like you're just lobbing insults at people because a small part of you knows that what their saying is often - though not absolutely - true. Frankly, the girls who engage in casual sex often do get laughed at. Men often do often see such women as less valuable and interesting. If your only response to that reality is go "hur durr, you're only saying that to get laid" - you aren't shitting on anyone. You're just making an ass of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:28 PM
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I would not congratulate male friends who did shit like that unless they were bigger and stronger than me, and not doing so would get me beaten to a pulp. It's creepy as hell, but if the football captain brags to you, you go along with it. Personally, I have always had a "rightwing" ideological bend. I've long sympathized with conservative patriarchs who were on the lookout to protect their daughter from Don Juan.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:57 PM
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According to the studies I have read, even a 6.5" would be in the 98th percentile. Only 1-2% of men are at or over 7".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:29 PM
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