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You're talking about physically. Men also peak around the same age.... Physically. Both men and women peak financially later in life when we are all more settled into our careers and have climbed the ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:18 AM
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My God that's the fucking worst cop out. I've seen more and more guys saying that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:16 PM
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And then those same type of men once again blame women when kids end up in the system or grow up with problems. They're the same men who blame single mothers for the problems their children have while completely ignoring the fact that the fathers aren't even trying to be in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:59 PM
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Emotional Labor is done by all of us. Men and women alike. We all have to do these things every day. It's part of being an adult, managing a household, having a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:54 AM
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We were discussing the difference between Red Pill Aware and Red Pill Practicing. I stated that most of the people I know who subscribe to the Red Pill ideology are Red Pill Aware but apparently not practicing because they all bitch and complain and don't do anything to better themselves. And this is why the Red Pill movement gets a lot of haters because it seems as if most men who subscribe to that ideology are not practicing but just bitchy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:54 PM
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That could be so. I don't know many blue Pillers aside from myself honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:25 PM
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I think one of the biggest issues is that there are more "RP aware" men who just bitch and complain online all day and make the whole thing look like shit. My cousin is a hardcore Red Piller and, despite the fact that I love him like a brother, he is a fucking miserable bum who does nothing to better himself and bitches about everything. My entire experience with Red Pillers has been exactly that. I'm not saying you're all like that but it really seems like most Red Pillers are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:09 PM
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Maybe this isn't the time and place for Marx but "The proletarians have nothing to lose but their chains. They have a world to win. Working [people] of All Countries, Unite!" Revolutions are the locomotives of history
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:52 AM
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I agree. I've been rejected several times myself. It doesn't feel good that's for sure. But that's our own personal thing we have to deal with and it's not the fault of the woman who rejected us. Nor is it an attack BY her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:46 PM
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While rejection is personal it is NOT an attack and it shouldn't be seen as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:39 PM
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"Women have preferences and because I don't fit these preferences I feel personally attacked. You must like me even if you aren't attracted to me or else you are being disrespectful." That's basically what this reads like
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:00 PM
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Just because you're too dense to understand doesn't mean it's vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:06 PM
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Wait women are CONSTANTLY shamed about body count, clothing, sexuality, etc. Those of us who support women's sexual liberation have had to get louder and more outspoken because the red pill movement and conservative men love to demonize women's bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:10 PM
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Yes many men still want to hold onto archaic (and often times obsolete) ideals and social structures. Women aren't becoming "radical" they are simply adapting to the dialectical changes in society and culture. This concept of young men being radicalized isn't accurate either. It's young men, who would otherwise be adapting to the societal and cultural changes, being pulled back to those same archaic beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:07 AM
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Do you actually even Google things or do you just spout bullshit just to do it? 54% of women who voted voted for Harris. 44% voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:00 AM
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And what leads you to believe women would not be able to rationally articulate such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:10 PM
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I guess that depends on what you consider red pilled. Most conservative men are red pilled. If you live in a rather conservative area there are likely many more red pilled men. While I'd expect somewhere like San Francisco to have less red pilled men. I live in a city that has a lot of conservative men and I encounter a lot of men with red pilled views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:50 PM
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Well obviously our experience differs. And I guess location may play into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:45 PM
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I think plenty of modern women understand that they may possibly be single for life... And are completely fine with it. My younger cousins and little sister are exactly that way. This is because the modern women doesn't need a man for utility reasons anymore and can actually just be with a man they enjoy and love because of who that man is. But with many modern (American) men still holding onto archaic gender roles and norms I think a lot of women are fine with being single rather than being sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:32 PM
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We have to actually look at what is criticism and what is just men trying to tell women what to do. A lot of men conflate those two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:28 PM
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Do you even go outside? There are SO many red pilled men. Of course some are less or more extreme than others but I'd say roughly 75% of the men I encounter on a daily basis, be it at work or some family members etc, are Red Pilled to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:27 PM
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Because conservatism, at least here in America, is so toxically misogynistic. Why would they support an ideal that wants to suppress them? Also conservatism is very grounded in a lot of intolerant ideals, such as the conservative view of trans people and immigrants, and Women tend to be more empathetic than men. And your first sentence very much proves the point. YOU SIMPLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND. That's it. Period. You don't have to. When it comes to things regarding women, especially in what makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:20 PM
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Introverted nerds tend to be some of the most pretentious assholes out there. And this is coming from a somewhat introverted nerd. And any man that self styles as a "nice guy" and uses that as a justification for why they should get women are not really "nice guys" to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:32 PM
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Any guy actively pushing the "I'm a nice guy" narrative isn't actually a nice guy. He's basically saying "I'm a nice guy so you should be dating me"... Which isn't very nice is it? With that said I think the idea of "alphas" and "betas" is very stupid. I don't care which one I fall into, I don't care if people think of me as a nice guy or an asshole. I'm just going to be me and if you don't like me for me then that's all good. I think people need to not care so much about societal "norms" or sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:57 PM
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What I see in a lot of young men is their hobbies and interests have shifted. Going out and drinking, etc, isn't doing it for them anymore. More young men are spending more time at home playing video games and/ or spending more time at the gym, or into other hobbies that can be done solo. I don't consider THAT a bad thing but along with this comes this increased intake of social media and red pill content. THAT is the bad part. If young men want to be home bodies there isn't an issue but when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:45 PM
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Those are some very homophobic statements you're making. Look, I get not wanting to date a bisexual man for various reasons, but to say it's gross is pretty fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:57 PM
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"nothing special" is the problem. A lot of people view these things as nothing special and these things end up getting ignored. My wife and I have had a healthy and passionate 12 year marriage entirely because I find these things very special and very important and practice them daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:25 PM
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Materialism is the religion of those entire nations. Men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:12 PM
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Glasses, small boobs, and some meat on her bones (a little chubbiness).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:33 PM
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Love is transactional. In order for people to remain in love they need love in return. And because we all have different love languages etc, we need our partners to do certain things to make us feel loved. We fal in love because our partners probably initially did those things, but when they stop we can lose that love if we are no longer FEELING loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:43 PM
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What I think many people miss in these conversations is that the greatest and most amazing product of human evolution is our ability to be the most adaptable animal on the planet. So adaptable in fact that we have kinda lost touch with what is our natural habits aside from the natural instinct to survive, the natural instinct to procreate, and the natural instinct to protect our young. Everything else outside of that is a product of adaptation to our environment and circumstances. This is how di…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:09 AM
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That's matter of morals and how one views it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:33 PM
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Nobody is ENTITLED to anything. Everyone makes their own decisions. The man paying for dates made that choice himself. The woman who also offers good conversation and emotional support along with her body made that choice herself. Neither are entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:49 PM
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That's just what these red pilled guys tell themselves to make themselves feel better that they can't get women. Usually because these red pilled men have questionable beliefs... Such as OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:47 PM
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Where's the proof in this? I've never known a woman who is fine with sharing a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:45 PM
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Really? I think piercing are pretty hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:53 PM
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You're a strange guy, you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:04 PM
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If my wife wasn't also my best friend I wouldn't be with her. I don't want to be married to someone I am not in love with or Someone I don't like to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:02 PM
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To be honest you won't know for certain unless they are actually honest and open to talk about it. So I will say this... People need to not worry about. If someone had a hoe phase 5-10 years ago but is actually looking to be in a serious long term relationship now. And actually is proving to you that they are serious about it. Who cares if they had a hoe phase. Everyone is young and makes questionable choices at some point in time. Some people are more reckless or curious or just want to "have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:46 PM
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Yes. For the majority of men there is no such thing as being "off the market". 90% of the men I work with are married and still constantly hit on the single women at work, or when they go out with friends. The few single coworkers I have who actually are on the market and are trying to find someone are constantly being cock blocked by men with wives at home. We as men need to do better to help other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:40 PM
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Oh my God why are you so pressed about this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:54 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:42 PM
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Not when it comes to pedophiles, rapists, and serial killers or mass murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:30 PM
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I don't know anything about Canadian prisons. I'm from the US and I grew around people who have been in and out. I myself did some time. A lot of my close friends have done time in prison. Nobody I know has ever been or even witnessed rape happen in there. It's hard in there of course, especially if you're gang affiliated, because there are prison politics and gang wars and the like. But rape is a very minor occurrence in there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:29 PM
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Yea when I was locked up, almost 20 years ago, the Pedos were in protective custody. They wouldn't let them anywhere near GP because they would have gotten stuck as soon as they hit the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:19 PM
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Rape isn't as common in prisons as you think. A pedo is more likely to get stabbed in prison than raped
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:55 PM
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Hurting a pedo is not horrible. Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:55 PM
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This is crazy and you have no idea what you're talking about. Many men in prisons are gang members and drug addicts. A lot in there for violent crimes like murder of a rival or armed robbery. Most of them actually hate pedos for the fact that they violated a child. I was in the streets as a teen and young adult, and have been locked up myself before becoming a father myself. If there were rumors of someone being a pedo or rapist or even a woman abuser, it was on sight as we'd say. We'd fuck dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:54 PM
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"just have to not be a lazy person" You do understand you can not be a lazy person and still not have time or energy to do what you're saying. If you're working 10-12 hour shifts, have children to take care of at home, and all of the basic necessities, you may not have the time or energy to ride a bike to work or go on a run during lunch lol. I'm quite healthy myself (38 y/o, 6', 160 lbs) But still. I don't have the time or energy to ride my bike to work or go for a jog during my lunch. I rest d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:49 PM
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And the fact that we spend the majority of our time at work, so finding time and energy to get proper exercise and cool healthier meals is difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:31 PM
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💯 Like if my homie ends up coming and confessing his feelings to me I'd be like since when we're you gay? You never said anything. If I go into the friendship knowing that he is gay, then I will have it in my mind that this guy can maybe potentially end up having feelings for me. I will still be friends with him, but I'm going to make a couple of things apparent, 1) I'm only into women, and 2) Im not interested in him romantically. So what do I do? I won't be flirtatious, won't turn to him for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:11 PM
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Yes. Exactly. I go do things with my friends and my wife will do things with her sisters, but I miss her. It feels good to go out with my guys sometimes, but it always feels better to go back home to my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:41 AM
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That's great to hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:33 PM
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Yea she's dope. Go find someone like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:40 PM
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Hmmm. Let me see. Because I love my wife ... Let me rephrase that. I'M IN LOVE WITH MY WIFE. Madly and deeply and passionately. I still find her irresistible and fun. She is my best friend. Even after 13 years. My feelings for her have not dissipated. I don't hang out with friends much anymore BECAUSE I CHOOSE NOT TO. Because I'd rather hang out with my wife. My wife is more fun. My wife has better conversation. My wife is my best friend. We do our own thing to because alone time and doing thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:34 PM
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Real. These guys are chronically online bitching about women that they never even meet in person. The fact that these guys are constantly bitching online is very telling of their personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:28 PM
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One thing to mention is that the "dating culture" and "social culture" of each city/region are different. Where I live, we don't have a very active social scene for young adults and teens because my city has a big gang violence problem. Our nightlife mainly attracts and panders to people 30+. A lot of 35-50 year old singles go out on the town, while young adults (18-29) stick to more private activities like house parties and such. Another thing to consider is the things you are looking for in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:03 PM
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My wife and I are not legally married. We are technically married in her culture and my culture (she is hmong and I am native American). I had to pay a dowry to her family as per her cultures requirement for marriage. But we are not legally married. We have considered it but it's such an afterthought that I often forget about it. Anyway, I'm not religious and grew up in a broken home. I didn't see functional married couples growing up. A legal marriage means nothing to me. But the titles of "hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:10 PM
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I 100% agree. I didn't get with my wife until we were 28. I don't care who or how many she dated before me, we have each other the rest of our lives. I was just pointing out that people in general don't know what the hell they're doing in regards to dating at 19 years old whether they want to admit it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:54 PM
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Possibly but this is honestly the case for most people. At 19 most of us want the "hot guy/girl" because the majority of people don't REALLY know what we want in a man/woman at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:36 PM
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Yea speaks loads about you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:25 AM
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Seems like you are pretty narrow minded. Also seems like you have a questionable personality and views. The problem is certainly more than just your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:29 PM
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Please explain. It would seem that women you would be compatible with are unattractive to you? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:22 PM
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They 100% avoid OP which is why OP is so pressed. He's aiming far over his head and mad that he misses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:47 AM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:47 AM
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Well then date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:44 AM
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But we all have different quirks and traits and qualities and flaws that define us. We are not all the same despite every human having the same basic needs in life. We are shaped by our cultures and environments. That creates a largely divers group of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:43 AM
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Go outside and have a look around buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:12 PM
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Why do you guys always put every woman under some umbrella like all women are the same? What you are describing here are shallow, high maintainance, materialistic women. Not all women are shallow, high maintainance, and materialistic. Now the materialism part has largely become part of Western society. It's a western thing, not a woman thing. But even so not everyone is materialistic. How about try and spend time finding a woman who suits you? Why not find a woman you are compatible with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:30 PM
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I don't know why men are so pressed about this. Seriously, thinking about it on a very surface level, you're lost alone in the woods id also rather see the bear. At least I know there is a very small chance the bear will attack. The man on the other hand... First thing that comes to mind is crazy hillbilly, axe murderer or some shit. Really men, do y'all just trust random strangers you meet in strange places? I sure the hell do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:57 PM
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Tbh in this day and age we don't really need each other all that much... and honestly this has created much of our problems. Both men and women act and live like we don't need each other so we treat each other as such. This is why our marriages fail and our relationships don't amount to anything. We aren't taking each other seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 PM
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No. You're not his mother and not obligated to support him. And if supporting him is a deal breaker then it's a deal breaker. You have every right to have preferences and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:32 AM
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I'm certainly less talkative. I like to listen to what people have to say. One of my bigger flaws though is that I don't usually have advice to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:03 AM
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I make better friends with women than I do with men, and I don't have any attraction or any other motive aside from I feel more comfortable hanging out with women. I'm also married. My wife doesn't mind that most of my friends are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:33 AM
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It's stupid because all of us men have preferences do we not? Women too, can have preferences. We need to stop playing like physical attraction isn't the first thing all humans gravitate towards when looking for a partner. That shouldn't be the end all be all, BUT, women are allowed to have preferences just as much as we men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:32 PM
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Yes she does. She's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:11 AM
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I treat my woman great. Or at least I try my very best to do so. Only she can really say how I'm treating her, but I do think I treat her great. Like a queen? Yea I suppose so. I love her. I want to make her happy and make her life easier of I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:38 PM
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I make my wife breakfast and lunch on the days I don't work. And dinner most of the time tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:18 PM
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My wife would make me lunch if I let her, but she does enough so I'd rather her not worry about my lunch. I can get it ready on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:47 PM
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And see that's the problem I encounter a lot here. Men not wanting to take advice from me because I have a wife and I've never really had trouble in the dating world... but the reason I give advice is because I'm among the "unattractive" group. (I don't ever like to call myself or anyone else unattractive). I'm also quite awkward and clumsy and a big nerd. But what sets me apart is how I take care of myself and carry myself. And that makes all the difference in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:00 PM
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I try to offer real advice to other men. Being a man myself, a lanky, goofy looking guy myself, I've never struggled in the dating game so I try to go off my experience and offer advice to men who do struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:16 PM
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It largely has to do with confidence and how these men carry themselves. I work with a guy who has slept with multiple women at our job. He's not that attractive, not in shape at all, but he carries himself confidently (not arrogantly though). He also has a good sense of humor, is very sociable, talkative, and outgoing. There are men at my workplace who are arguable much more attractive than said guy, but have zero luck with women when they try. They're nice guys, good guys and all, but they lac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:14 AM
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Then that's Loveless to me. I love hard and I only know how to love hard. I can't love someone half way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:21 AM
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I guess that depends. It's easy for me to say "I'd rather choose no romance than be in a lukewarm or Loveless relationship", because I'm not lonely right now and haven't felt lonely I longer than I can even remember. I'm also still young enough to find excitement and romance even if I were lonely... but say I were older and or quite lonely I might feel differently about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:45 PM
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Okay, I get what you're saying. And my answer is no. I wouldn't date that person. If everything they do, everything they are is just mediocre to me then I think my romantic feelings toward said person would be lukewarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:44 PM
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The thing is it's really really hard to find someone who is truly just a "mediocre" person. Just about every person I've ever encountered has something that stands out about them, something interesting, something above average... and even if it's just one thing about them that's not mediocre well then it makes them more than mediocre as a person. So yea most people will see "mediocre" in the way you describe it in your post as a negative because we rarely, if ever, encounter someone who is truly…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:27 PM
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Don't sell yourself short my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:00 PM
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I think it's actually pretty hard to find anybody who checks off everything on this list. I couldn't do it though. I need a woman who is intelligent as well as interesting to me. I cannot be with someone who can't hold an intelligent and mature conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:00 PM
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So only cucks simps and losers marry women with high body counts? What are you, 13? And you red pill guys wonder why women don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:07 AM
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I think a problem is that some men THINK they know their values but proceed to oversell themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:01 PM
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You have to know your own value and what you bring to the table. Don't try and oversell yourself, but also don't undersell yourself. If you think you're physically unattractive, then what are your qualities? Work on those and make them shine. If you're fat, exercise, try and lose a little weight. (Im Not body shaming here, but I've know too many men who say "I'm fat, women don't want me"..... if you think that's the problem then correct it)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:04 PM
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Capitalism is oppressive to everyone aside from the wealthy capitalist. I'm not trying to take away from your point I'm just a major anticapitalist. But I definitely agree that capitalism has made society a lot more alienating. The idea of "rugged individualism" that capitalism (especially American capitalism) promotes causes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:20 PM
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Sweden seems like it's getting it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:54 PM
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I realize that my personal views are not the AMERICAN norm, but that does not negate the fact that there are such things as cultural norms. Stop trying to bend the conversation to fit your rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:53 PM
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Don't be a brick. Anybody and everybody can tell you the cultural norms, traits, and values of the people in the country where they grew up. Of course that doesn't account for every single person there, but generally speaking... just like I can tell you the values and traits of American culture. What most men and women here find attractive, etc. As I'm sure you can as well. Don't be argumentative just for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:36 PM
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While i personally I'm not the type to care/ask (frankly it doesn't matter to me all that much), I do agree that if a prospective partner asks, they have a right to know. They goes both ways for both sexes. I guarantee any woman would want to know that I went to jail at 19 and again at 20 for gun charges because I was in a gang. And that a friend of mine got shot 5 times in the back seat of my car. If I chose not to disclose that because "well its MY past and I did what I did but it's none of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:41 PM
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In my early adult years I was in a post hardcore band and got in with the "hardcore" and emo crowds. A LOT of those guys are shorter, quiet, not muscular type dudes and NONE of them had problems getting girls. Both women and men in the "alt" crowds tend to be way more open minded and accepting which is why I always got along really well with them and never felt judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:18 AM
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This depends on what a person considers the "fruits of his labor". For me, finding a good woman to have a long term or life long relationship with was always my goal. For other men, it would be fucking a bunch of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:11 PM
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Everyone is entitled to respect, but I will agree that if a person screws up that respect can be lost. You must be respectful to be entitled respect. That wasn't what previous commenter said though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:18 AM
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Someone good? Are you implying single mothers and older women are somehow "bad"? Also, if you take your time and look rather than just jumping for the first woman who gives you attention you will find someone who fits your wants and likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:51 PM
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Perhaps yes, but that goes for both men and women. More so for men I understand, but it does seem that those good men who remain alone also lack confidence, which is also attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:49 PM
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So you're saying women of all ages don't deserve respect? What? Teens and young adult women may not know what kind of man they want, but they still want and deserve to be respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:40 PM
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Not all. And that comment didn't say all. But I'd say many if not most men who want a completely dependent woman either want to be in control or have some severe insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:38 PM
1

How old were you? Remember we can't compare adult feelings and relationships to those of our adolescence. Most people don't know what they want in a man or woman as teens and young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:02 PM
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If you're a nice boy and treat women right/good/equal, you will find someone. It's no lie that women want a nice and sweet and caring man, but that doesn't mean that just because you're nice and sweet and caring all women are gonna want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:00 PM
9

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:45 PM
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I don't know. Every woman I've ever met that relied solely on man to provide everything for her got screwed over or the man ended up treating her like shit. Those women had to start from the bottom up and some times they were basically left out on the streets. Sure, women can do very very little and still get a man, but what kind of man? I couldn't be with a woman who wanted to rely solely on me. Not saying I mind providing for a woman I'm with, but she does need to be independent and self deter…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:26 PM
1

Women do like sensitive men, but they also want CONFIDENT men. I believe what you are describing as being a "pussy" are men who lack confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:49 PM
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I'm pretty sure OP is talking about the vast majority of men but certainly not ALL men. But I agree that the vast majority of men (maybe just American men?) View women that way. I see it a lot amongst coworkers and peers. You have actually found an outlier. A man who is not amongst the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:20 PM
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